When you talk about the role of the men, leave women out of it. We’re tired of being Blamed for no reasons. People need to be accountable of their own actions.
You are blamed due to lots reasons. Just few: 1. Negativity and lack of creativity 2. Develop toxic environment for no reason 3. Lack of understanding and leadership in the relationship and so many....
@@ceciliabolongobenteke3473 , Sr , I understand what you say. If I tell you what happened to my young sister due to Congolese women stubbornness. You may not sleep or eat . I know that men have to take their responsibility .
they need to have constructive debate unfortunately they have some people who do not know how to debate. if you listen to the guests especially the papa he tried to make them understand. there are cases and it can't be used to generalise an entire community
This video just prove how much our generation (millennial) such as Tresor need to gain wisdom from elders instead of just speaking out of lack of knowledge
Even in Africa father’s don’t have relationship with their children it’s not just in America. I think that Congolese man thinks that it’s a woman’s job to know everything when it comes to the children. 🤦🏽♀️ 🤦🏽♀️
Please next time let papa Kas finish talking he has so much good to say! Ozo kata kata ye pona ko pesa parole epa tresor who doesn’t even understand the question.
Papa kas and dymund were on fire tonight 🔥🔥🔥🔥 Trésor always making assumptions about every woman. We are all individual being and we are not perfect. Some of our men don't want to work, the woman is doing everything, but when they feel like it, they will tell you that "I need respect as the man of the house".
It had the potential to be even better unfortunately however, Christian as a host struggles to expand the conversation but rather, he demonstrates a bias towards Trésor's views and Trésor's points, which aren't the most educated of opinions in themselves anyway, and this ruins the discussion.
Respect to my brother in the white shirt, but work timing ain’t it. People be doing those kinda work shifts even now and you will be surprised how many people in good jobs mum and dad be stuck in the office doing overtimes. The problem is with Congolese dads they dont have the affection to their kids meaning even when they have time they dont care lol to take you here and do this being a father to them just means being home and being strict most anyways.
Ça a tellement vite tourné en débat sur les femmes dans le mariage que le sujet n'a même pas été traité comme il fallait. Ramenez papa Kass dans la deuxième partie
you'd be surprised how "understanding" teen and adult boys are when it comes to infidelity. Just ask how many guys would snitch on their dad if they saw him with another woman.
Le RESPECT s'impose et ne s'obtient pas de droit. Si de part votre attitude vous n'arrivez pas à avoir le respect de l'autre vous ne l'aurez jamais. Ce n'est pas aux femmes de vous donner le respect, c'est à vous de l'imposer. Et si vous même vous ne vous respectez pas personne ne vous respectera !!! Si les femmes ne vous laisse pas exercer votre rôle de chef de famille c'est parce qu'elles savent que vous ne pourrez pas assurer ce rôle. Alors posez-vous des questions ! Remettez-vous en question ! Ceci est un message pour ya TRÉSOR! La vérité que Trésor ne dit pas c'est que de nos jours les hommes fuient leur responsabilités, les femmes sont donc obligés de compenser ce manque dans leur foyer en jouant les 2 rôles homme et femme. Vous fuiyez vos responsabilités et après vous vous pleignez ! Ezalaka bongo te À bon entendeur !
Papa Trésor ah he wants the best of both world. To have freedom of Europe with congolese way of thinking. Like a woman shouldn't say what she thinks when man is wrong. 🤣😂
Les femmes ne respectent pas les hommes irresponsables, les gigolos (Mario), tu ne peux pas prétendre avoir une femme irréprochable tandis que tu es mal éduqué sans apport ?🤷🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️un Homme doit imposer le respect, et tout le reste suivra oui ekolanda automatiquement. La femme est le reflet de son homme. Papa Kas a très bien expliqué.
To whoever it may concern : Growing up as African little girl, we know well we were told by our mother, aunty or community not to be an embarrassment towards them. We were obligated to mute our anger emotion for decade. Suprisely find ourselves “ Roaring “ as an adult toward our community. And, you wonder why? “Tresor”: is because the hidden pains that been inside of us. Please let’s forgive ourselves and admit the new us. That’s the only time we will create the new brand generation called “ R.D.C Eloko ya makasi! Thank you... Be advised Rude and insult comments will be ignored!
La façon dont trésor a détourné le sujet INCROYABLE !!🙄 on pose une question sur les hommes et leur manquement d implication dans la vie de leurs enfants le gars il trouve quand même le moyen de tout mettre sur la femme !! Avec lui on n évolue pas c est tjrs la même chose carrément 70% des femmes aujourd’hui sont de mauvaise femme mais vous vous rendez compte ?! J’espère il ira chercher sa femme au village au Congo avec une mentalité aussi rétrograde et un tel machisme 🙄 si les femmes qu’il décrit là ce sont des femmes qu’il a connu il es temps de remettre en question ses choix de femme plutôt que de toujours vouloir nous dénigrer !!ba choix n’a yo ba conséquence n’a yo bino moko bo lobi!! Les femmes d’aujourd’hui ne sont pas comme nos mamans parce que les hommes d aujourd’hui sont comme nos papa ?! Tout ça pour justifier l irresponsabilité de homme a bebissi émission thanks god papa oyo très sage n’a dymund ba zalaki
well done guys but the show was cut short so the discussion wasn't received that well on our side please do an extended part two with more time if needed
Tresor is right to an extent because this does happen but the power of control shouldn’t be classified by gender, because a man can devalue a women in front of people too. It would be nice if Congolese people start looking beyond the surface. Some people have personality disorders, like narcissism which I think is very common in the Congolese community.
so nobody is talking about when papa Kas said that you'll know with what kind of person you dealing with in only two days? Nah that ain't it, that's why people get marry too soon, creating big problems in the household which lead to a divorce or worse a toxic relationship for life
That's not true, relation does take time. You can't know what kind of person you're dealing with in only in two days. To know someone well is a process, it takes time. So I disagree with him.
This was a good topic, thank you! I understand tresors point. There are women who devalue good men especially at their lowest point and as a human being it’s normal/understandable to get discouraged by it. HOWEVER only you can allow someone to completely take away your power. There’s no good reason for you to give up on your kids. There is always a way where you can make the effort so that your children will know and respect the fact that you still tried being a good parent regardless of the status of your relationship with their mother. Let’s not disregard the fact that yes there are fathers depressed by toxic women. We should encourage them to keep fighting and trying to be by their kids. I also agree with the point that you should set standards with your woman as a MAN. this is why in the last episode the ladies were saying that women seek assertive men otherwise they’re easily not respected. Women like a man who is responsible and can take charge when necessary if his home. You can’t be a mario and demand respect. Respect yourself first to be respected lol. Nonetheless, there’s no reason for you to give up on your kids.. so regardless of your situation keep fighting to be present in your kids lives and Perdue and effective relationship with them.
Why not, if future seasons/episodes, debate until the vibes gets down and then split the session in the 2, 3 episodes ? (To be continued, part 2, part 3, ...) Bo kati papa Kas maloba “zela papa oko loba sima” puis suka alobi te. E tiki biso na curiosité
Women must know their position and what is expected from them same apply to men And our parents should open the door of communication with their children and learn to deal with their problems in their bedroom not in front of the children to avoid bad effect on their level of viewing life in the upcoming years 👌🙏🇨🇩
The conversation escalated real quick, Christian make sure we're all on the same page. Dymund and Papa Kas were educating us on some real truths 🙌Trésor i have no words for you
Respect is earned. I feel that unless a woman is just " envoute" woman are naturally nurturing and give respect whwn needed. In most cases, a woman will start acting up because the man has unabled it due to bad/unresponsable behaviour.
Thank You Dymund for dropping those gems. Tresor can't be blaming women for the irresponsibility of a man. And Christian needs to learn to be neutral when hosting a panel, it's a little obvious that he's siding with Tresor's opinion..
Dommage, sujet ezalaki intéressant mais bomibungisaka trop. Le rôle de l'homme dans quoi ? La famille ? La société ? Le couple ? Bo répondre na ba questions nionso te. Ba débat na bino esukaka kaka na guerre entre mwasi na mobali.
The thing is killing Tresor is stereotyping women. While you have to learn how women are and work together in your household. Not making all this generation the same. Cause we are not the same. Know who you are dealing with. You are going to have a better life.
@Dymund you are the best❤️👌👌well spoken , same apply to @Frankos also said well it start from the first generation 🙏Papa kas also well said I'm so glad to see that we still have such father's in our community @linda also well said @Tresor image started well but I kind of disagree with some of is words but it was good the topic 😉 Christian Blesse God bless you 👌🙏🇨🇩
Cest vrai quil ya des femmes irrespectueuses et impolis mais Trésor parfois il abuse dans ses propos concernant les femmes je pense qu'il parle selon son expérience personnelle et il généralise ça. Nos pères ont perdus leurs place dans les foyers car trop souvent en Europe les hommes se reposent sur la femme...la plus part vivent chez les femmes ne travaillent pas etc...tout cela contribue à ce que d'une part leurs responsabilités ne soient pas considérés. Comme l'as très bien dit Diamant un homme responsable,respectueux etc...n'as même pas besoin de s'affirmer dans la maison,sa place il l'aura automatiquement. Et je rajoute chez la plupart des congolais une fois séparés de la mère des enfants les pères ne cherchent même pas à construire quoi que ce soit avec ses enfants et cela aussi et un problème dans notre communauté. Frankos alobi bien à la fin.
Fantastic episode! This topic is REAL, I couldn't agree with the guys any more! My father sadly passed away in April this year due to the type of women you have discussed. Rest in eternal peace Papa Dominic Nassor Fawo. Thank you team Solola Bien for touching on this subject - keep them coming.
Such an awesome topic 👊🏾👌🏾 i can’t wait to see part 2... and also please I need papa Kas to come back🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 dymund, you’re still on fire mère double👌🏾👊🏾
Until Trésor realizes that he’s the problem, he’ll always blame women. It’s just impossible for a man to find that all women are all “bad” or the same.
Very great video guys ! Happy to see our generation starting to take the control of their life... All the best guys keep doing it ! 💫 #CHANGEMENTSEZAKOYA #BOMOKO
Trésor ne se remet pas en question et applique son raisonnement à l’ensemble de la population féminine congolaise sans en comprendre les subtilités et les différences. Il n’y a pas une femme type ni d’homme type avec un process type et un mariage type. En plus, il faut continuer à travailler sa relation tous les jours. De plus, ce n’est pas par ce qu’il existe des parents démissionnaires que l’enfant doit rester dans l’ignorance, on peux tous apprendre par nos propres moyens.
Wow Tresor 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 Il a des idées très originales. Il y’a de la raison quelque part dans ces arguments. Tresor entoucas Ozwa ba déception fort na vie emonani entoucas 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Louka lisungi po ba degree y’a ba blessure intérieure Oza nango ! C est pas possible!
L'autre problème aussi est que plusieurs hommes congolais abandonnent leur femme en occident seul à élever des enfants des années pendant qu'eux retournent au Congo vivre leur vie. Aussi comme Dymund a dit, le grand problème est que les hommes sont présents physiquement dans la maison et c'est tout, they are not there in every other aspects. Being a parent goes beyond paying rent and light bills. So beaucoup d'enfants n'ont juste pas de repères. Papa Kas, c'est vraiment un homme très sage. Dommage qu'il n'ait pas pu finir. Il avait beaucoup raison quand il a dit que le grand problème des congolais c'est l'intégration. J'avoue que ça a du être encore plus difficile pour ceux qui ont immigré dans les pays non-francophones, mais cela cause vraiment une barrière avec les enfants. He was really spot on et il a remis Trésor à sa place avec classe 😂💯 But I have to give Trésor 1 point, he was right that also Congolese dads don't teach anything to their son. A lot of man are growing up like bad grass and all the consequences are shown after they get married. Overall, it was a really good episode. Christian, I really like you but it felt as if you were less impartial on this one. Dymund shoes were really nice !!! Sinon sans Gladis, il manque quelque chose 😂
Je crois que a Trésor avait mal comprit le sujet. L’apport de Papa Kas et de Bobby était très intéressant. Merci pona émission Kitoko. Bo soulever pe point y’a bien par rapport y’a ba génération y’a ba congolais et leur évolution, that’s a good topic to tackle
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Papa kas trop charismatique et très intelligent
When you talk about the role of the men, leave women out of it. We’re tired of being Blamed for no reasons. People need to be accountable of their own actions.
You are blamed due to lots reasons. Just few: 1. Negativity and lack of creativity 2. Develop toxic environment for no reason 3. Lack of understanding and leadership in the relationship and so many....
John ubert my brother 👌
@@Bosco12ful None of that has anything to do with men. Even if women weren't doing their part, men shouldn't use that as an excuse to not do theirs
@@ceciliabolongobenteke3473 , Sr , I understand what you say. If I tell you what happened to my young sister due to Congolese women stubbornness. You may not sleep or eat . I know that men have to take their responsibility .
they need to have constructive debate unfortunately they have some people who do not know how to debate. if you listen to the guests especially the papa he tried to make them understand. there are cases and it can't be used to generalise an entire community
Pour Trésor c’est toujours la faute de la femme. 🙄
Il aime trop ça 😂
Lol lol we are sick of it lol
Je te jure,
Tell me about it....🤦🏾♂️
He’s not wrong after all but somehow I disagree 😒
Il ne réfléchit pas plus long que son nez, celui-là 🤦🏽♀️
Donc chez Trésor c’est toujours à cause de la femme quoi!!! Heureusement que Dede n’était pas là! Parceque le duo Dede et Trésor pardon 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
Loba nanu heinnnn 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
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🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Wana duo bombe anatomique
😭🤣🤣🤣🤣
S’il vous plaît , la femme qui a détruit le coeur de tonton Trésor , elle peut se déclarer ? Parce que c’est trop comment il souffre ...
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Kiekiekie basi ya mitu makasi otie na tie pesa bord ozua bord ba bebisa tresor
vraiment!
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Vraiment tout les jours il chante la même chanson ," c'est la faute de la femme" 😂😂😂
Frère Dede il doit regretter de pas être là c’est les sujets qu’il aime 😭
Waoow oyebi penza . An tout cas, respect nayo. 👌👌👌
C'est le sujet que j'aurai pu avoir beaucoup des argument rationel. Na lingaki na neutralise surtout papa kas,lol
Walaii😉😅😅😅
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Thnx God he’s absent 😏
Title: Role of a Man
Nobody:
Tresor: Women are the problem!
😂😂😂😂... he needs help lol
Smh.
🤣
🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ Mawa...
Dymund you’re always on point and I’ve got a lot of respect for you. #muasimayele
This video just prove how much our generation (millennial) such as Tresor need to gain wisdom from elders instead of just speaking out of lack of knowledge
Even in Africa father’s don’t have relationship with their children it’s not just in America. I think that Congolese man thinks that it’s a woman’s job to know everything when it comes to the children. 🤦🏽♀️ 🤦🏽♀️
And then to blame the same women when things go wrong with those children 🙄
Fact❤
That’s true and sometimes both parents don’t have relationships with their kids
Please next time let papa Kas finish talking he has so much good to say! Ozo kata kata ye pona ko pesa parole epa tresor who doesn’t even understand the question.
Papa Kas must speak oh. Ce papa has do much wisdom to share to all of us. Ya Tresor next time yoka papa Kas bien.
Thank you 🙏🏾
Thanks !
Please bring back papa Kas
Pleaaaase!!!
Listen Dymund SPOKE THE TRUTH!!!!! 🔥
Émission ebebi lelo, we urgently need a part 2! Papa Kas and Dymund were on top 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Papa Kas did not finish to speak !
Literally
We need a Part 2 !!!
Facts! Ba kati ye maloba
Papa kas and dymund were on fire tonight 🔥🔥🔥🔥
Trésor always making assumptions about every woman. We are all individual being and we are not perfect. Some of our men don't want to work, the woman is doing everything, but when they feel like it, they will tell you that "I need respect as the man of the house".
This was such a good discussion but part 2 is 100% needed !
It had the potential to be even better unfortunately however, Christian as a host struggles to expand the conversation but rather, he demonstrates a bias towards Trésor's views and Trésor's points, which aren't the most educated of opinions in themselves anyway, and this ruins the discussion.
Papa kas un bon papa 🥰🥰 si les hommes comme Dede et trésor pouvait être pareil
True true especially frère Dede 🤦🏾♂️
Respect to my brother in the white shirt, but work timing ain’t it. People be doing those kinda work shifts even now and you will be surprised how many people in good jobs mum and dad be stuck in the office doing overtimes. The problem is with Congolese dads they dont have the affection to their kids meaning even when they have time they dont care lol to take you here and do this being a father to them just means being home and being strict most anyways.
word !!!!!
Definitely
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Ça a tellement vite tourné en débat sur les femmes dans le mariage que le sujet n'a même pas été traité comme il fallait. Ramenez papa Kass dans la deuxième partie
Agree... ba pesa pe Tresor mwa pause 😅😅 TOUJOURS la faute des femmes..arguments mususu ezalaka te 🤦🏾♀️
Mais c'est ça un débat tu débats sur tout qui à avoir
Christian yope question ekomi pona basi ndenge nini? Ozo landa tresor trop! The question was “ what is the role of a man”
Moyen tein batikela papa Kas parole
cheating: betraying their mothers is a BIG factor. create that divide between father and son
you'd be surprised how "understanding" teen and adult boys are when it comes to infidelity. Just ask how many guys would snitch on their dad if they saw him with another woman.
Le RESPECT s'impose et ne s'obtient pas de droit. Si de part votre attitude vous n'arrivez pas à avoir le respect de l'autre vous ne l'aurez jamais. Ce n'est pas aux femmes de vous donner le respect, c'est à vous de l'imposer. Et si vous même vous ne vous respectez pas personne ne vous respectera !!!
Si les femmes ne vous laisse pas exercer votre rôle de chef de famille c'est parce qu'elles savent que vous ne pourrez pas assurer ce rôle. Alors posez-vous des questions ! Remettez-vous en question !
Ceci est un message pour ya TRÉSOR!
La vérité que Trésor ne dit pas c'est que de nos jours les hommes fuient leur responsabilités, les femmes sont donc obligés de compenser ce manque dans leur foyer en jouant les 2 rôles homme et femme.
Vous fuiyez vos responsabilités et après vous vous pleignez ! Ezalaka bongo te
À bon entendeur !
En tout cas yaya well said. Yo nde👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
@@nsombemvuezolo1329 merci 😊
Salut 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
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Real talk 🤝🏽👏🏾👏🏾
Tresor image I’m disappointed the question was about men but you still put all the negativity to women.
Papa Trésor ah he wants the best of both world. To have freedom of Europe with congolese way of thinking. Like a woman shouldn't say what she thinks when man is wrong. 🤣😂
Tu regarde aussi 😂😂
Même ngai nazo landa pe 😂
Les femmes ne respectent pas les hommes irresponsables, les gigolos (Mario), tu ne peux pas prétendre avoir une femme irréprochable tandis que tu es mal éduqué sans apport ?🤷🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️un Homme doit imposer le respect, et tout le reste suivra oui ekolanda automatiquement. La femme est le reflet de son homme. Papa Kas a très bien expliqué.
Oooooo Ya tresor please!!! Not today!! It’s not everyday the mothers fault 😂😂🤣🤣
Not 2day Ndoyi 😂😂
Tresor vraiment, zero!!! lack of wisdom completely... very sad!
To whoever it may concern : Growing up as African little girl, we know well we were told by our mother, aunty or community not to be an embarrassment towards them. We were obligated to mute our anger emotion for decade. Suprisely find ourselves “ Roaring “
as an adult toward our community. And, you wonder why? “Tresor”: is because the hidden pains that been inside of us. Please let’s forgive ourselves and admit the new us. That’s the only time we will create the new brand generation called “ R.D.C Eloko ya makasi! Thank you... Be advised Rude and insult comments will be ignored!
Lelo vous vous êtes embrouillé naba sujets..tolingi ba sage lokola papa kas..boluka maman ou tantine sage.
Trésor said he was looking for books to teach him...what book? Which one that teach you so much nonsense?
Tresor was being a bit disrespectful towards Papa Kas. Azo kata ye tangu azo loba. Where is the respect?
Et avec ça azo complain que bassi y’a lelo baza ba impoli
La façon dont trésor a détourné le sujet INCROYABLE !!🙄 on pose une question sur les hommes et leur manquement d implication dans la vie de leurs enfants le gars il trouve quand même le moyen de tout mettre sur la femme !! Avec lui on n évolue pas c est tjrs la même chose carrément 70% des femmes aujourd’hui sont de mauvaise femme mais vous vous rendez compte ?! J’espère il ira chercher sa femme au village au Congo avec une mentalité aussi rétrograde et un tel machisme 🙄 si les femmes qu’il décrit là ce sont des femmes qu’il a connu il es temps de remettre en question ses choix de femme plutôt que de toujours vouloir nous dénigrer !!ba choix n’a yo ba conséquence n’a yo bino moko bo lobi!! Les femmes d’aujourd’hui ne sont pas comme nos mamans parce que les hommes d aujourd’hui sont comme nos papa ?! Tout ça pour justifier l irresponsabilité de homme a bebissi émission thanks god papa oyo très sage n’a dymund ba zalaki
Papa Kas a lobi tres bien pe verite 👏🏿👌
Dymund fanda na yo yaya. Always on point without disrespecting people. Love You girl! 👏🏾
well done guys but the show was cut short so the discussion wasn't received that well on our side please do an extended part two with more time if needed
Thank you papa Kas God bless you oza penza papa pe mobali ya solo!
Papa Kas I love you.
Thank you for putting Trésor in his place. I don’t know who breaks Trésor’s heart but I am upset about her. 😂
Tresor is right to an extent because this does happen but the power of control shouldn’t be classified by gender, because a man can devalue a women in front of people too. It would be nice if Congolese people start looking beyond the surface. Some people have personality disorders, like narcissism which I think is very common in the Congolese community.
That Tresor guy is mad. There’s no way a woman will be out of hand if a man isn’t doing his role. A woman disrespecting for no reason??? Mais non
PARFAIT !!! PAPA KAS, JE VOUS REMERCIE POUR VOTRE SAGESSE 🙏🏽🥰🙏🏽
Eh imagine Frère Dede on this one 🙆🏽♀️🙆🏽♀️🙆🏽♀️
Thank God is not
God saved him from not being cussed from us and papa Kas 🤣🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣 the showed would be crazy
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so nobody is talking about when papa Kas said that you'll know with what kind of person you dealing with in only two days? Nah that ain't it, that's why people get marry too soon, creating big problems in the household which lead to a divorce or worse a toxic relationship for life
That's not true, relation does take time. You can't know what kind of person you're dealing with in only in two days. To know someone well is a process, it takes time. So I disagree with him.
This was a good topic, thank you!
I understand tresors point. There are women who devalue good men especially at their lowest point and as a human being it’s normal/understandable to get discouraged by it. HOWEVER only you can allow someone to completely take away your power. There’s no good reason for you to give up on your kids. There is always a way where you can make the effort so that your children will know and respect the fact that you still tried being a good parent regardless of the status of your relationship with their mother.
Let’s not disregard the fact that yes there are fathers depressed by toxic women. We should encourage them to keep fighting and trying to be by their kids.
I also agree with the point that you should set standards with your woman as a MAN. this is why in the last episode the ladies were saying that women seek assertive men otherwise they’re easily not respected. Women like a man who is responsible and can take charge when necessary if his home. You can’t be a mario and demand respect. Respect yourself first to be respected lol.
Nonetheless, there’s no reason for you to give up on your kids.. so regardless of your situation keep fighting to be present in your kids lives and Perdue and effective relationship with them.
Why not, if future seasons/episodes, debate until the vibes gets down and then split the session in the 2, 3 episodes ? (To be continued, part 2, part 3, ...)
Bo kati papa Kas maloba “zela papa oko loba sima” puis suka alobi te. E tiki biso na curiosité
Tresor just took the conversation left!!!😂😂😂 when he sat up I knew he was gonna go awwwffff
Dymund hit the nail on the head as soon as she opened her mouth 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Lelo maman gladys aye te tala kimia na plateau 😅😅😅,ton trésor obiki sœur gladys aza te po olinga ki oyoka eloko
Women must know their position and what is expected from them same apply to men
And our parents should open the door of communication with their children and learn to deal with their problems in their bedroom not in front of the children to avoid bad effect on their level of viewing life in the upcoming years 👌🙏🇨🇩
The conversation escalated real quick, Christian make sure we're all on the same page. Dymund and Papa Kas were educating us on some real truths 🙌Trésor i have no words for you
AVIS DE RECHERCHE !!!
Nous cherchons la femme qui a piétiné le cœur de Trésor !!
C'est très urgent !!!
Merci de faire circuler le message
😂😂😂😂😂
Respect is earned. I feel that unless a woman is just " envoute" woman are naturally nurturing and give respect whwn needed. In most cases, a woman will start acting up because the man has unabled it due to bad/unresponsable behaviour.
Sujet oyo penza i like it bokende liboso po bozo touché ba poind moko tres sensible oyo ezo leka na communité
Thank You Dymund for dropping those gems. Tresor can't be blaming women for the irresponsibility of a man. And Christian needs to learn to be neutral when hosting a panel, it's a little obvious that he's siding with Tresor's opinion..
Bon Trésor, là vraiment, DÉSOLÉE !! Nonsense !! NOOOONSEEEEENSE !!
Diamond THANK YOU !!
Dear Christian, it was nice but we need the next part.
Trésor Pardon ton disque est rayé, tout les jours c'est la faute de la femme, on connaît la musique🤦🏾♀️😩
Tresor come on why is it always the woman’s fault??? We are talking about a father and son’s relationship Smh 🤦🏽♀️ 🤦🏽♀️ stay on the subject.
Imagine having TRESOR and FR DEDE on the same show 😂😂😂
Franchement trésor il a dit des dingueries mais y'a des parts de vérité
Dommage, sujet ezalaki intéressant mais bomibungisaka trop. Le rôle de l'homme dans quoi ? La famille ? La société ? Le couple ? Bo répondre na ba questions nionso te.
Ba débat na bino esukaka kaka na guerre entre mwasi na mobali.
Vraiment !
Definitely agree on that. They should have specified it.
loba ata
YES YES YES DYMUND 🔥 🔥 ah oza vraiment muasi, ba tika yo pardon 👌
Honestly what is wrong with treasure he has a very toxic mentality
Papa kas un bon papas 🥰🥰 si les hommes comme Dede et trésor pouvait être pareil
Mère double 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 tresor aza suka ! papa kas osololi et surtout Dymund muasi ya mayele 👍👍👍👌👌
The thing is killing Tresor is stereotyping women. While you have to learn how women are and work together in your household. Not making all this generation the same. Cause we are not the same. Know who you are dealing with. You are going to have a better life.
Dymund a sololi comme dab 🥰🥰
Ya tresor made a valid point but his point is not the main reason for lack of communication between dads and their children
I really enjoyed having the papa on the panel. It gives us a different perspective! Keep up the good work👏👍
So glad to see Bobby in this! 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
Christian was very unfair this week,very biased vraiment,he should have left papa kas speak more
@Dymund you are the best❤️👌👌well spoken , same apply to @Frankos also said well it start from the first generation 🙏Papa kas also well said I'm so glad to see that we still have such father's in our community @linda also well said @Tresor image started well but I kind of disagree with some of is words but it was good the topic 😉 Christian Blesse God bless you 👌🙏🇨🇩
Vraiment bien ma belle
Great topique . Congrats to all panelists . You need to go deeper .Are woman more empowered than in the uk set up ?
Cest vrai quil ya des femmes irrespectueuses et impolis mais Trésor parfois il abuse dans ses propos concernant les femmes je pense qu'il parle selon son expérience personnelle et il généralise ça.
Nos pères ont perdus leurs place dans les foyers car trop souvent en Europe les hommes se reposent sur la femme...la plus part vivent chez les femmes ne travaillent pas etc...tout cela contribue à ce que d'une part leurs responsabilités ne soient pas considérés.
Comme l'as très bien dit Diamant un homme responsable,respectueux etc...n'as même pas besoin de s'affirmer dans la maison,sa place il l'aura automatiquement.
Et je rajoute chez la plupart des congolais une fois séparés de la mère des enfants les pères ne cherchent même pas à construire quoi que ce soit avec ses enfants et cela aussi et un problème dans notre communauté.
Frankos alobi bien à la fin.
Trésor he's there to be against others to make the conversation interesting.
Lol he's like Dédé. Driving people crazy 😬
Papa kas n'a pas finis de parler okati emission
Bravo papa KAS🖐🖐🖐🖐
Papa kas et dymund 🥰🥰
Tresor je le kiff, ce qu'il dit ça a du sens mais vous voulez juste par le comprendre
This one was fire but I think we are gonna need a part two, I am learning Lingala and French from this show, I am absolutely grateful for the content.
Fantastic episode! This topic is REAL, I couldn't agree with the guys any more! My father sadly passed away in April this year due to the type of women you have discussed. Rest in eternal peace Papa Dominic Nassor Fawo. Thank you team Solola Bien for touching on this subject - keep them coming.
Papa Kas🙌🏾.
I’m disappointed with the fact that they didn’t let Papa finish what he wanted to say.
Such an awesome topic 👊🏾👌🏾 i can’t wait to see part 2... and also please I need papa Kas to come back🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 dymund, you’re still on fire mère double👌🏾👊🏾
Dymund j'aime beaucoup ta manière de réfléchir tu es o top😘😘
How come the video wasn’t long as the others??? This topic was very interesting
Until Trésor realizes that he’s the problem, he’ll always blame women. It’s just impossible for a man to find that all women are all “bad” or the same.
C'est bien ce que je pensais :
Trésor et Dede deviennent lourd à entendre. Il a juste suffit d'un papa sage pour calmer Trésor
dymund talk to Tresor 🔥💯🔥
J’ai beaucoup aimé la réponse de Dymund à Trésor!! Elle a tout dit!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Love from an Ivorian girl 🇨🇮🇨🇮🇨🇮❤️❤️❤️
Very great video guys !
Happy to see our generation starting to take the control of their life...
All the best guys keep doing it ! 💫
#CHANGEMENTSEZAKOYA
#BOMOKO
Trésor ne se remet pas en question et applique son raisonnement à l’ensemble de la population féminine congolaise sans en comprendre les subtilités et les différences. Il n’y a pas une femme type ni d’homme type avec un process type et un mariage type. En plus, il faut continuer à travailler sa relation tous les jours. De plus, ce n’est pas par ce qu’il existe des parents démissionnaires que l’enfant doit rester dans l’ignorance, on peux tous apprendre par nos propres moyens.
Ah tonton Frankos 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Bravo
Wow Tresor 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Il a des idées très originales. Il y’a de la raison quelque part dans ces arguments.
Tresor entoucas Ozwa ba déception fort na vie emonani entoucas 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Louka lisungi po ba degree y’a ba blessure intérieure Oza nango ! C est pas possible!
L'autre problème aussi est que plusieurs hommes congolais abandonnent leur femme en occident seul à élever des enfants des années pendant qu'eux retournent au Congo vivre leur vie. Aussi comme Dymund a dit, le grand problème est que les hommes sont présents physiquement dans la maison et c'est tout, they are not there in every other aspects. Being a parent goes beyond paying rent and light bills. So beaucoup d'enfants n'ont juste pas de repères.
Papa Kas, c'est vraiment un homme très sage. Dommage qu'il n'ait pas pu finir. Il avait beaucoup raison quand il a dit que le grand problème des congolais c'est l'intégration. J'avoue que ça a du être encore plus difficile pour ceux qui ont immigré dans les pays non-francophones, mais cela cause vraiment une barrière avec les enfants. He was really spot on et il a remis Trésor à sa place avec classe 😂💯 But I have to give Trésor 1 point, he was right that also Congolese dads don't teach anything to their son. A lot of man are growing up like bad grass and all the consequences are shown after they get married.
Overall, it was a really good episode. Christian, I really like you but it felt as if you were less impartial on this one. Dymund shoes were really nice !!! Sinon sans Gladis, il manque quelque chose 😂
Et puis ba couples ba tika ko declarer baza ba celibataires et puis ba kosa securite sociale baza ba single mum
Christian let people finish their points please especially papa Kas. ahhh boni boye ko
Trésor seriously 😒 😒
Papa Kas,well said 🙌🏾____i felt the wisdom🧠
Je crois que a Trésor avait mal comprit le sujet. L’apport de Papa Kas et de Bobby était très intéressant. Merci pona émission Kitoko. Bo soulever pe point y’a bien par rapport y’a ba génération y’a ba congolais et leur évolution, that’s a good topic to tackle