Hi Angels, thank you for being here with me today! I hope this message resonates with you! I love you and I'm eternally grateful for you all! Make sure you gibe this video a thumbs up and turn on your post notifications, and share this video!!! WE ARE SO CLOSE TO 200K my angels!!!!!!
Don’t give anyone more than 2 months. If at 2 months a relationship isn’t something they want, LEAVE. They aren’t going to change their mind by you being MORE available. Leave them before your own feelings get too deep. Men that want you don’t leave anything up in the air, don’t let any man have a chance to get close by leaving you single. Move on before you start feeling used. Don’t circle back either!
@@evaedw5362 just be straight forward about what you’re looking for and ask where are y’all at in that process. Be mindful of what he says. If he says he’s not ready then he’s not ready. Also too I’ve had some men say that they will agree to a relationship even when they aren’t ready bc they don’t want to hurt the girls feelings and then act a fool the whole “relationship”. Use your discernment.
@@evaedw5362 just be direct, it's okay. If it's not what you want you need to have the courage to walk away. Going forward make your intentions clear from day one. Things will only get easier :)
Sometimes them men already be in relationships or married. That happened to me. Found out he was married almost 4 months in. But I wasn’t looking to be in a relationship we never discussed it. I told from beginning I’m just looking for fun. He told me he was divorced which he was honest because he was married before to his children’s mom.
Dating has been so trash, I don’t even allow it to get to a situationship. The longest I give a guy now is a month. By then if there’s no progress then I’m out ✌🏾
I’ve always been in situationship and I can say that I don’t do it purposely. I want a connection but I find it with the wrong men who don’t reciprocate. Thanks for the video
Yeah I know a guy that tried it with me, I never really invested my feelings into him but he tried to act like a bf but telling me we’re just friends like??? Why are u jealous I went out with someone else if you can’t do relationships we’re just friends? He was giving off a lot of mixed signals.
I agree with so much in this video, I am guilty of doing what you say the guys do... I keep them around for whatever reason in may be in the moment. However when the the pages are reversed I conveniently put on my rose colored glasses and think I can change the guy and make his beliefs different.. so stoops on my end but Im learning aha
I needed this video 8 months ago I ended it by ghosting him then when he came back around I told him I felt like he was just using me .. 😂 we never really had a conversation about it bc I was too scared to bring it up 😭
You have such clarity and deep understanding of this topic and it is very comforting to hear you explain my last relationship so perfectly. Keep doing what you do! Women need to hear this. You are an inspiration 😊
Girl, update- you trying to leave ? I left I was TIRED I was fucken drained. I stayed for years! Worst waste of my youth., if anything- leave as soon as you can’t be exclusive or have to hide or be weird.
It’s actually so interesting, because as you weren’t posting i stopped watching videos about leveling up because realized I was too logical in relationships and it was affecting my mental health. A lot of level up videos don’t talk about emotions and how important it is to express them. Now that you’re back and I’m starting to watch them again seeing that you yourself have realized the importance of emotions, and to be transparent and emotional as well as having boundaries rather than being cold and and neglecting your feelings in order to not get played is so amazing😍
This video & your set is amazing! Especially the ending about where we obsess over not wanting to get played just to get played in the end. It’s interesting because when I went months not watching “signs to watch for” to avoid certain men, I pretty much started attracting better men since I wasn’t so hyper focused in “not getting played”. Ladies, let go of that mindset and trust yourself that you will walk away if he’s not your cup of tea and COMMUNICATE. Do not ghost.
Ooops. Found this video a day too late. Texted him we needed to talk😂 I don’t agree about him not missing me though. He’s not able to have a relationship but he does miss me- I do believe that. He’s afraid of intimacy and I know this for a fact. He also admitted that he didn’t realize he’s even playing games and was frustrated about it.
Yh that happens. Some don’t actually don’t know what they doing. The pair don’t. We women don’t too sometimes and that’s why we are watching this video
Im sooo ready cause because the situation that I’m in right now is moving very slowly and I don’t want to just come out and ask what are we because I don’t want to seem desperate or crazy
Situationships is not for everyone, especially for anyone under the age of 45. It can be exclusive, but again you have to communicate and agree on what your situationships is and what it is not
I suggest women over 25 date over 30 if they want something serious. I'm not as I am putting my career first and not ready for relationship just got out of a 4 year draining one.
this was good. I loved every bit, you are a true friend. as I watched the entire video I had this particular person in mind and they have to GO. sad to say its been going on longer than it should've but now I am okay with walking away.
I love your personality; feminine, charismatic, sophisticated and sarcastic, I effing love it. You’re a solid person asha and I appreciate your videos ! Please, moreee!!
Growth Asha,I’m here for it 🥺🥺 I actually haven’t Listened to sermons in a while ,but this 🥺🥺. I’m usually very calm about situations and negative emotions,but my last breakup I said some very nasty things to my ex and till this day I regret it ,I still love him but I truly understand we are not good for each other ,really ,And I guess he didn’t want me that much and I had to accept that as part of my growth ,I’m sharing this because I always read people’s comments and they help me out with my situation and maybe I’ll help someone else . Emotional maturity is everything,always stay true to yourself,there is immense peace in that . I think we women really need more accountability of our doings too ,well that’s for me . I was a little too passive (not a doormat though !)but not anymore ,growth is essential!
Thanks a lot for ur video it really brought so much clarity into my situationships!the lord knows expressing my self excellently is not my strength but I am working on it.
Thank you Asha and the Angel Community for always keeping it real! Out of all the channels, instagram pages and podcasts I’ve listened to… I must say genuinely Asha your podcast truly changed my life for the better! You helped me get my dream job, you are right focusing on yourself gives you more self confidence! Keep upgrading ladies as you upgrade your life and mental state, you won’t have any room for any crap - this includes crappy friendships and crappy relationships with f boys ☺️🙏💗
It may require that each person becomes self aware about what their needs, wants and requirements are first. After this happens, can they communicate those needs as well as provide clarity about what that will look like in their desired connection. Do they communicate? How often are you able to resolve issues in the connection they have with this person?
I have this thing with a guy, where I want more from him but he doesn't, but still wants to be exclusive. Like I would love a relationship, but he doesn't want that, while he still wants me to be there exclusively for him. I just don't know what to do, because I'm catching feelings way too quickly.
Hi Angels, thank you for being here with me today! I hope this message resonates with you! I love you and I'm eternally grateful for you all! Make sure you gibe this video a thumbs up and turn on your post notifications, and share this video!!! WE ARE SO CLOSE TO 200K my angels!!!!!!
I’m so excited for the content, thank you Asha!! 🙌🏽❤️
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Great work and great content Asha!
Don’t give anyone more than 2 months. If at 2 months a relationship isn’t something they want, LEAVE. They aren’t going to change their mind by you being MORE available. Leave them before your own feelings get too deep. Men that want you don’t leave anything up in the air, don’t let any man have a chance to get close by leaving you single. Move on before you start feeling used. Don’t circle back either!
2 weeks max.
damn its been 2 months for me today. how do I talk to him about what we are?
@@evaedw5362 just be straight forward about what you’re looking for and ask where are y’all at in that process. Be mindful of what he says. If he says he’s not ready then he’s not ready. Also too I’ve had some men say that they will agree to a relationship even when they aren’t ready bc they don’t want to hurt the girls feelings and then act a fool the whole “relationship”. Use your discernment.
@@evaedw5362 just be direct, it's okay. If it's not what you want you need to have the courage to walk away. Going forward make your intentions clear from day one. Things will only get easier :)
Sometimes them men already be in relationships or married. That happened to me. Found out he was married almost 4 months in. But I wasn’t looking to be in a relationship we never discussed it. I told from beginning I’m just looking for fun. He told me he was divorced which he was honest because he was married before to his children’s mom.
“ how can you see me as your wife when you haven’t even gotten to the girlfriend stage?”Factsssssss !!!!!! Guys just be chatting 🤣
Dating has been so trash, I don’t even allow it to get to a situationship. The longest I give a guy now is a month. By then if there’s no progress then I’m out ✌🏾
Same here
...And no sex whilst dating, that’s where we lose our power.
this!!❤
I’ve always been in situationship and I can say that I don’t do it purposely. I want a connection but I find it with the wrong men who don’t reciprocate. Thanks for the video
The quality of this video is immaculate.
Thank you!!!! It’s so obvious when my editor is in town 🤣🤣🤣🤣 he’s the best
Stop trying to be the exception to the rule 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
This video is QUALITY! It just looks so crisp and clean. Very professional.
Yeah I know a guy that tried it with me, I never really invested my feelings into him but he tried to act like a bf but telling me we’re just friends like??? Why are u jealous I went out with someone else if you can’t do relationships we’re just friends? He was giving off a lot of mixed signals.
This was perfect timing. I just got rid of my situation ship yesterday. It was too stressful and heartbreaking 😢 but I am not turning back.
Girl same, is almost been 2 weeks for me and I'm so miserable lol hope I can get over it soon
me too but I feel so much peace! They did us a favor by clearing the path.
The new set up is cute!
can we take a second to appreciate this quality and set up!
Thank youuuuu
👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
“How can you make someone miss someone that they never wanted”!!!!!
"you have to be okay with walking away" YES!
“You have to be ok with walking away”-- so important
You and Tony Gaskins are the best!
“I see you as my wife one day” ouch that one hit hard😂
you have no idea how many peoples lifes you are saving. straight up respect
Thank you for the consistency and for having your girls' back.
I agree with so much in this video, I am guilty of doing what you say the guys do... I keep them around for whatever reason in may be in the moment. However when the the pages are reversed I conveniently put on my rose colored glasses and think I can change the guy and make his beliefs different.. so stoops on my end but Im learning aha
I needed this video 8 months ago I ended it by ghosting him then when he came back around I told him I felt like he was just using me .. 😂 we never really had a conversation about it bc I was too scared to bring it up 😭
So true! putting too much energy in not wanting to be played means neglecting other aspects of getting into a relationship
You just keep blessing us with amazing content!! wow
I am back babyyyy
You have such clarity and deep understanding of this topic and it is very comforting to hear you explain my last relationship so perfectly. Keep doing what you do! Women need to hear this. You are an inspiration 😊
Thank you so much I really appreciate it 😍🥰
Wow Asha this looks like tv quality
I just fully admitted to myself that I’m in a situationship and stopped making excuses for them.
Thank you for this video
Girl, update- you trying to leave ?
I left I was TIRED I was fucken drained. I stayed for years! Worst waste of my youth., if anything- leave as soon as you can’t be exclusive or have to hide or be weird.
I appreciate her sense of humor 😂
I appreciate you appreciating my sense of humor 😉
It’s actually so interesting, because as you weren’t posting i stopped watching videos about leveling up because realized I was too logical in relationships and it was affecting my mental health. A lot of level up videos don’t talk about emotions and how important it is to express them. Now that you’re back and I’m starting to watch them again seeing that you yourself have realized the importance of emotions, and to be transparent and emotional as well as having boundaries rather than being cold and and neglecting your feelings in order to not get played is so amazing😍
This video & your set is amazing! Especially the ending about where we obsess over not wanting to get played just to get played in the end. It’s interesting because when I went months not watching “signs to watch for” to avoid certain men, I pretty much started attracting better men since I wasn’t so hyper focused in “not getting played”. Ladies, let go of that mindset and trust yourself that you will walk away if he’s not your cup of tea and COMMUNICATE. Do not ghost.
Ooops. Found this video a day too late. Texted him we needed to talk😂 I don’t agree about him not missing me though. He’s not able to have a relationship but he does miss me- I do believe that. He’s afraid of intimacy and I know this for a fact. He also admitted that he didn’t realize he’s even playing games and was frustrated about it.
Yh that happens. Some don’t actually don’t know what they doing. The pair don’t. We women don’t too sometimes and that’s why we are watching this video
It’s the camera quality for me, a quality queen needs quality picture, purrr 😭💕🔥
Yesssssss 🥰☺️
I so wish I heard it in 2021 💔 wasted 2 years on this man and still suffering
Loving the braids and the content Asha🤗
Thank you so much angel 😇
Omg I’m so happy I watched this. I’m so scared to ask him where are we?
One of your smartest and on point videos👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 (“principal’s office”…Yo! Rolling 🤣🤣🤣)
Awwww I appreciate that
Definitely need this !!!
Been subbed 4 over a year and needed this. Currently breaking one off now. Thanks Asha!!
You’re so welcome angel 😇
Oh I love to hear it!
Go girl 🤍
Yes girl
Im sooo ready cause because the situation that I’m in right now is moving very slowly and I don’t want to just come out and ask what are we because I don’t want to seem desperate or crazy
Girl it’s not crazy. You’re supposed to always do check ins, to see where you both are.
Situationships is not for everyone, especially for anyone under the age of 45. It can be exclusive, but again you have to communicate and agree on what your situationships is and what it is not
You should have high value and not put yourself to a situationship
These braids look good on you
that you angel
Oh this video is going to BANG!
You know it ;)
I suggest women over 25 date over 30 if they want something serious. I'm not as I am putting my career first and not ready for relationship just got out of a 4 year draining one.
there are many guys in their 30s and 40s that aren't serious...
Unrelated to the topic of the video: your hair reminds me of jewels lady and I love it.
Gurl you real.......tell it gurl tell it..... Truth Bombs all over da place
Thank you babe!!!!
You’re coming with all the videos 💗
I sure ammmm!
Yo Asha funny funny. This is equal parts informative, conversational, and comedy.
thank you ☺️
“What in the principal’s office is going on here?” 🤣
🤣
@@AshaChristinaFoster I sent your video to my friend!
Came across your page at the perfect time! I love your content 💕
I like this instead of avoid... be upfront with what you want so you're attracting the positive/proactive than the latter.
Keep up the good work. One can tell your energy has shifted and you're so powerful, queen. 💕🙏🏼
Thank you so much I appreciate you!😇
Are you a Taurus ♉? I'm always receiving Taurus vibes from you lol.
Yes! 😆🥰
YAS taurus energy 👏🏽 i’ve been owning my situationship proof & i’m totally ok with being alone until the right person comes lol it’s worth the wait!!!
this was good. I loved every bit, you are a true friend. as I watched the entire video I had this particular person in mind and they have to GO. sad to say its been going on longer than it should've but now I am okay with walking away.
Thank you angel 😇
The quality and set up of this video 👏🏻 the advice. 👏🏻 Asha you are looking amazing! Glowing goddess xx
Thank you so much!!!!
I love your personality; feminine, charismatic, sophisticated and sarcastic, I effing love it. You’re a solid person asha and I appreciate your videos ! Please, moreee!!
Just respect yourself keep your legs closed
I found this very comforting. Thank you Asha! You're truly like a big sister
giiirl! i feel like God spoke to me through your YT Channel. I love you!
Every single word was.... powerful! Thank you x
Hi, Asha! Thank you so much for this video. I like the setup of this video in terms of quality and lighting.
I absolutely love her,
I absolutely love you!
Loving the content and consistency!❤
I Love you Asha!!!! Thank you for keeping us tight!!! 🥰💪🏼🥺💃🏽🤺
Okay new set up! Missed you Asha💖!!!
Growth Asha,I’m here for it 🥺🥺 I actually haven’t Listened to sermons in a while ,but this 🥺🥺. I’m usually very calm about situations and negative emotions,but my last breakup I said some very nasty things to my ex and till this day I regret it ,I still love him but I truly understand we are not good for each other ,really ,And I guess he didn’t want me that much and I had to accept that as part of my growth ,I’m sharing this because I always read people’s comments and they help me out with my situation and maybe I’ll help someone else . Emotional maturity is everything,always stay true to yourself,there is immense peace in that . I think we women really need more accountability of our doings too ,well that’s for me . I was a little too passive (not a doormat though !)but not anymore ,growth is essential!
YESSS I CANT WAITT
You make a lot of sense
This is the best dating advice I've ever seen on RUclips. Thank you angel!
Your videos should be Netflix documentaries. 👸🏽
This is such a compliment! One day!!!!
Emotion over drama 😇
Oh I’m all here for this!!! 🍿🍿🍿
Can we please get a full picture of your hair? It’s so beautiful 🥰🥰
Thank you Asha this was very good to watch 🥰
And I love you harsh truths!! Thanks babe💕
Thanks a lot for ur video it really brought so much clarity into my situationships!the lord knows expressing my self excellently is not my strength but I am working on it.
You are so welcome, I am glad it was helpful
I enjoyed this very much😊
Thank you Asha❤
My pleasure 😊
love the videos Asha, you’re always in sync with what i wanna watch 👏👏
Awwwwww 😇😇😇
Thank you Asha and the Angel Community for always keeping it real! Out of all the channels, instagram pages and podcasts I’ve listened to… I must say genuinely Asha your podcast truly changed my life for the better! You helped me get my dream job, you are right focusing on yourself gives you more self confidence! Keep upgrading ladies as you upgrade your life and mental state, you won’t have any room for any crap - this includes crappy friendships and crappy relationships with f boys ☺️🙏💗
I reaaally needed this video.🙏🏻
awww I hope it helps!!!
Not me being stuck over a guy for 2.5 years
addicted on your videos!!
OK is it just me or did this video high key felt like a church sermon? She was speaking to me!
Awwww 😇
lol "what in the principals office is going on here.." lol I died inside haha
😂
When I tell you I neeeded this video today! Thank you so much! 🙌🏽
you need a talk show on social media at this point!
It may require that each person becomes self aware about what their needs, wants and requirements are first. After this happens, can they communicate those needs as well as provide clarity about what that will look like in their desired connection. Do they communicate? How often are you able to resolve issues in the connection they have with this person?
This is EXCELLENT CONTENT ! Thank you
Thank you so much babe
your video quality is soo good 😍
Loveee this set up!!!!!
Thankyouuuuu
Whoaaa wait a minute. You gotta give us the video/camera details. Stop playing! 😭😩😍
okaaaay professional videos! love you!
AHHH THE QUALITY 🥰💓
I wish i could give alot of thumbs up, right choice of words and you are on point 👍
I have this thing with a guy, where I want more from him but he doesn't, but still wants to be exclusive. Like I would love a relationship, but he doesn't want that, while he still wants me to be there exclusively for him. I just don't know what to do, because I'm catching feelings way too quickly.
Hypothetically, Would you be ok with your daughter being in your situation? If not, you have your answer.
I rlly needed this😩💕
Great video Asha, happy to see you back
This is such excellent advice. I enjoyed this video
I listen to your podcast omg I didn’t even realize this was you
Lol hiiii yes it’s meeeee
I just love your hair.😍
Thank you so much ☺️ I’m definitely keeping this style for a while!
Wow I love you so inspiring GROWTH!!!!