Interview: Inside the Head of a Self-Aware Avoidant Attacher
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- Опубликовано: 19 сен 2024
- Interview: Inside the Head of a Self-Aware Avoidant Attacher
Do you wonder what relationships are like for someone with an avoidant attachment style?
In this video, self-described avoidant attacher, Levi Pevi, and experienced relationship coach, Daniel Robertson, discuss this topic from their personal experience.
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These conversations are next Level of insights which i just needed, thank you!
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excellent! thank you!!
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Yes, but the partner isn't trying to shame you, they're just explaining how they want to be treated. I know that's not the avoidant partner's fault because they experience a lot of shame internally anyway, but the average person can't fix your trauma for you. It's great that Levi can work on this now, but talking about someone who's a little distressed as not being a mature adult is...yeah, that's not someone being unattractive, that's them trying to interdependently rely on their partner for soothing.
Not picking on Levi here at all. That's his perspective and I appreciate it.
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Super helpful insight, thanks guys.
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I'm a mix of dismissive and fearful avoidant. My soon to be ex husband says I'm a narcissist, I need help understanding myself... We had many issues. I definitely was turned off by him about his undisciplined habits and his personality was over the top as the years went on and I communicated what changes I needed. I got distant from him and I didn't see how it was hurting him then. But he kept saying we will be fine. I felt not herd. He is a very anxious attacher I was always pulling away and felt so much pressure. So all this went on for 9 years ... Then in 2020 he broke, asked for separation and then I went into deep dive in psychology to understand our dynamic. Learned attachment styles but he didn't care. He thought I was using it to avoid accountability. We drifted apart, he had few emotional affairs... Now we r at divorce. How do I work on being less avoidant, less controlling, learn to emotionally connect to myself and others? How can I confirm if I am a narcissist?
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Someone who is self aware is just a narcissist if they know they have a problem but don’t try to fix it and they use there “avoidant attachment” to weed in and outside relationships then they are narcissistic
Please (for the love of god) as someone who actually suffered narcicisstic abuse. Stop using the term for just any damned thing.
when you are repeatedly told by people that you are doing something wrong there is a good chance that it's true and you should work on changing it if it hurts others. running away and avoiding that feeling is sorry to say for a lack of a better word: cowardly. just hearing people out and then doing nothing to change is infuriating and trauma producing. for as long as I breathe I will avoid avoidants like fire. i know there are some self aware who work on themselves, good for them, but for me it's a hard no.
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