For me it was the compete opposite. My mom was more passive-aggressive about her homophobia, but my dad was super rude. I cried every night cause of him, while my mom just said "ok no sleepovers with girls then." . I'm back in the closet now. It was THAT bad.
i’m actually obsessed with your videos atm! i came out as bi a few weeks ago and today i got in my first relationship with a girl ☺️ thank you so much for helping accept myself :)))
Never kissed someone the same gender as you? Valid. Never dated someone the same gender as you? Valid. Never been in anyway intimate with some the same gender as you? Valid. The moral of the story is, no matter what sexuality you identify as, no matter who you are, what your life experiences are, what you’ve been through, YOU. ARE VALID!!!
I have a question, Im trixic, which means im a non binary person with an attraction to females, how would i tell my mom? would i just say i use the pronouns they/them and i like girls only-?
Yeah if you are uncomfortable with the label lesbian. I’ve seen a bunch of nb people who still use the term lesbian but it might make more sense to your mom if you say you are just into girls :)
Your so adorable and pretty in that new hairstyle!~ I love you so much Dutchy, you helped me a lot with figuring out my sexuality and made me feel confident about myself. Thank you for everythig you do for us i really apriciate it. We loveee you!!!
How to help duchy do I get a trans flag and a bisexual flag and I just can't freakin seem to get my hands on one and looked everywhere what's the small shop somewhere in the middle of nowhere
POV: I’m getting pinned I have a question: can you identify as gay even tho you have never kissed a girl or been with a girl before? (But I will never find a girlfriend, NO ONE in my age is gay or bi or something like that :( I live in a SUPER small town and don’t know many people, but I will move to a bigger school in around 2 yrs and I might find someone there)
Yes absolutely, as long as you know yourself and just feel that its right, then you can identify as whoever you are, you don't need experience or to kiss/be with a girl or whichever gender to determine your sexuality just as long as you feel that its right, hope this helped :)
Yes! I am a lesbian and I've never been with a girl before either. Straight people can know they're straight without being with the opposite gender. Gay people can know they're gay without being with someone of the same gender.
I’m questioning could I still be bisexual if I’m in a relationship currently with a guy and i have never done anything with a girl but in the past I have had a crush on a girl but I’m not sure if I’d do anything intimate with a girl but I’d maybe date one
Our bodies and Minds know when we are attracted to a dodgy as I said before and we just know when were different and that's it it is the chemicals in our bodies and our feelings
HELP! I have a toxic ex-friend that I have told that i'm Bisexual! Should I be worried about her outing me to the people I haven't told yet?? She is the only other person I've told and I haven't toldmy parents yet! HELP! What do I do??
I would love a top the same as the one you had in your tape duchy and suspenders and he actually have fishnet tights and I have a dress circle dresses and panties and bras
i think im non binary but i dont know how to tell my best friend, shes lgbtq+ and non binary but i still dont know how to tell her can y'all help (im only 99% sure i am)
If she is non-binary too, why not tell her? She sure will be accepting of you. And you can say that you're still questioning it a bit. Just say that you want a moment to talk with her and then say it.
Ik she probably will be but i have rlly bad anxiety that is telling me shell get mad and say im copying her then she wont accept me and be my friend anymore
@@celestite_ When I came out as bi to my bi friend I was worried about that too, especially because I realized I was bi very shortly after her, but she was really supportive and accepting. I'm sure your friend will be too.
I told one of my friends that I have a crush on someone because a couple weeks ago she asked if I liked them and I lied and said no but I do and did but then I felt bad that I lied to her so I told her that I like them but I think she was confused at first because when I told her 1 she thought I had told the other person and 2 has given me a plan to 1 get this person to like me back 2 tell this person I like them and 3 start a romantic relationship with them. At no point did I want to tell them I like them because I can't do anything close to confrontation like I'm perfectly fine with just keeping this in my head and never acting upon it also just to make it even weirder they are cousins so that is... that btw my crush is a girl that uses she/her pronouns and she's bi but I used they to not get confused with pronouns It would be alot easier to just tell her Hey I have a crush on you do you feel the same way And see her reaction but nooo emotions have to have plan and be complicated Also I wish I knew how she felt without asking her but were so different I can't ever tell she's sarcastic and dark but she's also sweet and amazing but I'm more no sarcasm rainbows yay I have an example of how different we are I have her as hail satan in my phone and she has me as rainbow pencil quite different wow this is a long comment sorry but will someone give me their opinion on what I should do?
i came out to my parents a while ago bc i was forced out. i didnt like that i wasnt ready. i am bi and i have a gf. my dad has been more homophobic than my mom. he has said things like i want you to break up with your gf and if i catch you talking to her i will destroy your phone. and those things upset me. i dont like it i would move out if i could.
How can you find queer people or people part of the lgbtqia+ community within school, specifically high school? I really want to try to find more friends part of the lgbtqia+ community to talk to and be friends with so that maybe I can connect with them in some way
i had the same issue but i made friends and made sure they knew they could trust me and eventually they told me if they were lgbtq+ now i have a mix of both lgbtq+ friends and straight friends but theyre all great friends
@@Lucy-jp1ub I don't think I could blast music haha but I do believe there is a lgbtqia+ club and I think I'll look into that for next year, thanks for reminding me, but also, im not really out yet so trying to join that club sounds like a big no no for the time being unfortunately
@@Sasha-in1kq well if anyone at your school is out they might have an idea on some people and you also know you can come out to them and be their friend
I kinda came out yesterday (bi) and I don’t know what to do my mum kinda just shot me down and I have a massive crush on my friend and I don’t know what to do bc she’s defo not straight and I think she likes me bc we’ve been much more affectionate then normal and I recently came out to her and I need help idk what to dooooo😩
You wouldn't ask about sleep to them duchess sleep you should try it and you and great Yuma and so they were being humid in🌈🌈🌈🌸🎀💞💕💖💜👭👬💞🌸👅👅🌸🎀💞💕💖💜💕💞🎀🌸💞🎀🌸💞💕💖💜💞🎀🌸💞💕💖💜🎀🌸🌈🌈🌈🌈💛💓💙💚🌼🐶🐩🐈
I think im asexual but i dont wanna tell my family or friends cuz what if im wrong, i dont wanna look like a liar or attention seeker. This sure is a hard time for everyone- exploring their sexuality.
If people slept more touches the world would be a better place as a human being you would not too long about sleep and that's it you have to sleep and not it no matter what you do and where you are what you do
Duchy I would love it hot like that oh what have the word that top and suspender and things like that and I know several professional dominatrix on RUclips and on the internet and in the US
I came out to my mom yesterday telling her I’m Bisexual and she said she’s totally fine with it cuz she used to be Bi in college
Congrats sweetie! I'm so happy for you
my friend came out yesterdAy, her mother said she was being influenced (me and my gf she thinks)
Yayyyyyyy
@@skz_143_iloveyou used to think she was???
@@skz_143_iloveyou dw i wasnt fussing i was just saying i think thats what she meant
I wish I could have a room like yours with all the pride stuff but my grandparents who are always at my house are homophobic...
The fathers always waaaay more cool about comig outs then mothers. My dad bought me a rainbow hoodie when i came out :DDD.
For me it was the compete opposite. My mom was more passive-aggressive about her homophobia, but my dad was super rude. I cried every night cause of him, while my mom just said "ok no sleepovers with girls then." . I'm back in the closet now. It was THAT bad.
@@its.leah.b i’m so sorry 😞 i hope everything will get better soon ❤️
@@its.leah.b aww I am so sry to hear that I support you soo much and hope your family comes around
omg thats cool
DUTCHY, OUR BISEXUAL QUEEEN!!!!
we love u!!!!!
I came out to my friends yesterday... and shit, I wasn‘t prepared. But they support me and now I can really be me :) 🏳️🌈
i’m actually obsessed with your videos atm! i came out as bi a few weeks ago and today i got in my first relationship with a girl ☺️ thank you so much for helping accept myself :)))
Never kissed someone the same gender as you?
Valid.
Never dated someone the same gender as you?
Valid.
Never been in anyway intimate with some the same gender as you?
Valid.
The moral of the story is, no matter what sexuality you identify as, no matter who you are, what your life experiences are, what you’ve been through, YOU. ARE VALID!!!
Thank you
@@lysol2071 that’s okay! Everyone deserves to know these life truths!! 🥰❤️🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️
I have a question, Im trixic, which means im a non binary person with an attraction to females, how would i tell my mom? would i just say i use the pronouns they/them and i like girls only-?
Yes I think that that would be
a good idea!
Yeah if you are uncomfortable with the label lesbian. I’ve seen a bunch of nb people who still use the term lesbian but it might make more sense to your mom if you say you are just into girls :)
@@sophiarenx7032 ok ty :)
Ohhh, how much I love her!
Happy pride month to everyone guys!
Hi duchy I just found my sister is pan and I was sooo tempted to tell her I’m bi.
If you want too you can tell her. Then you can go trougt it together
i wanna get a bi flag soooo bad but i havent had the guts to come out to my family yet😞
what a beautiful background! ❤️💜💙💛🧡💚
Love and support to everyone who is going through a hard patch♥️
Your so adorable and pretty in that new hairstyle!~ I love you so much Dutchy, you helped me a lot with figuring out my sexuality and made me feel confident about myself. Thank you for everythig you do for us i really apriciate it. We loveee you!!!
Hi thanks for this video I really needed it
you’re like the cool gay aunt who you can ask anything🥳
How to help duchy do I get a trans flag and a bisexual flag and I just can't freakin seem to get my hands on one and looked everywhere what's the small shop somewhere in the middle of nowhere
GIRLLLLLL the film setup is so beautiful!!💖💜💙
POV: I’m getting pinned
I have a question: can you identify as gay even tho you have never kissed a girl or been with a girl before? (But I will never find a girlfriend, NO ONE in my age is gay or bi or something like that :( I live in a SUPER small town and don’t know many people, but I will move to a bigger school in around 2 yrs and I might find someone there)
Yea that’s perfectly fine. You don’t need to experience intimacy to experience attraction and to know who you’re attracted to
@@jasminem7390 thank you :)
Yes absolutely, as long as you know yourself and just feel that its right, then you can identify as whoever you are, you don't need experience or to kiss/be with a girl or whichever gender to determine your sexuality just as long as you feel that its right, hope this helped :)
Yes!
I am a lesbian and I've never been with a girl before either.
Straight people can know they're straight without being with the opposite gender.
Gay people can know they're gay without being with someone of the same gender.
yeah you totally can! ive known im bi with a preference for girls for years and i havent dated anyone😂
I’m questioning could I still be bisexual if I’m in a relationship currently with a guy and i have never done anything with a girl but in the past I have had a crush on a girl but I’m not sure if I’d do anything intimate with a girl but I’d maybe date one
Same girl but then my bf dumped me!
I’m in love with your makeup!!
I’m gayyyy
Mei tooo
Same
Tad gay guys
Over here
same and im trans
My state only has 2 gay nightclubs… how am I supposed to meet someone if I can’t even hear myself talk or see anything? (I hate nightclubs ugh)
Maybe go on a dating app? Or if you want to meet new friends go to an LGBT+ event or group.
I came out when i was 14 when i had a crush on my girl best friend 😂
Happy pride month 🌈
Our bodies and Minds know when we are attracted to a dodgy as I said before and we just know when were different and that's it it is the chemicals in our bodies and our feelings
HELP! I have a toxic ex-friend that I have told that i'm Bisexual! Should I be worried about her outing me to the people I haven't told yet?? She is the only other person I've told and I haven't toldmy parents yet! HELP! What do I do??
If she outs you to afterwards say, oh it’s a joke! She’ll probably say it’s a joke to everyone else she told
@@oliversszx Oh Ok. That makes sense. Thank you!!!
haven’t been this early in a while
I'd love a top that one duchess
Love you bestie happy pride month 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🤘👌 awesome vid as always love the background too
I would love a top the same as the one you had in your tape duchy and suspenders and he actually have fishnet tights and I have a dress circle dresses and panties and bras
i think im non binary but i dont know how to tell my best friend, shes lgbtq+ and non binary but i still dont know how to tell her can y'all help
(im only 99% sure i am)
If she is non-binary too, why not tell her? She sure will be accepting of you. And you can say that you're still questioning it a bit. Just say that you want a moment to talk with her and then say it.
Ik she probably will be but i have rlly bad anxiety that is telling me shell get mad and say im copying her then she wont accept me and be my friend anymore
@@celestite_ When I came out as bi to my bi friend I was worried about that too, especially because I realized I was bi very shortly after her, but she was really supportive and accepting. I'm sure your friend will be too.
I just thought of a fandom name!!!!!! How about Dutchlings????? 🥰🐥👏🏾
I like it
I’ve only recently realised I’m non binary and I’m very scared to come out
Background is a vibbbbbeeeeee.
Wtf-?!??? Where did my comment go?? :(
If you mean the comment where you say something along the lines of "Pov: I'm getting pinned", I see it! It's there, don't worry :)
@@evasyoutubeera yea I made a new one after this lmao
I told one of my friends that I have a crush on someone because a couple weeks ago she asked if I liked them and I lied and said no but I do and did but then I felt bad that I lied to her so I told her that I like them but I think she was confused at first because when I told her 1 she thought I had told the other person and 2 has given me a plan to 1 get this person to like me back 2 tell this person I like them and 3 start a romantic relationship with them. At no point did I want to tell them I like them because I can't do anything close to confrontation like I'm perfectly fine with just keeping this in my head and never acting upon it
also just to make it even weirder they are cousins so that is... that
btw my crush is a girl that uses she/her pronouns and she's bi but I used they to not get confused with pronouns
It would be alot easier to just tell her
Hey I have a crush on you do you feel the same way
And see her reaction but nooo emotions have to have plan and be complicated
Also I wish I knew how she felt without asking her but were so different I can't ever tell she's sarcastic and dark but she's also sweet and amazing but I'm more no sarcasm rainbows yay I have an example of how different we are I have her as hail satan in my phone and she has me as rainbow pencil quite different wow this is a long comment sorry but will someone give me their opinion on what I should do?
i came out to my parents a while ago bc i was forced out. i didnt like that i wasnt ready. i am bi and i have a gf. my dad has been more homophobic than my mom. he has said things like i want you to break up with your gf and if i catch you talking to her i will destroy your phone. and those things upset me. i dont like it i would move out if i could.
How can you find queer people or people part of the lgbtqia+ community within school, specifically high school? I really want to try to find more friends part of the lgbtqia+ community to talk to and be friends with so that maybe I can connect with them in some way
well at some schools theres clubs or you could just blast music that has queer meaning (sweater weather, girl in red etc)
i had the same issue but i made friends and made sure they knew they could trust me and eventually they told me if they were lgbtq+ now i have a mix of both lgbtq+ friends and straight friends but theyre all great friends
@@Lucy-jp1ub I don't think I could blast music haha but I do believe there is a lgbtqia+ club and I think I'll look into that for next year, thanks for reminding me, but also, im not really out yet so trying to join that club sounds like a big no no for the time being unfortunately
@@Sasha-in1kq well if anyone at your school is out they might have an idea on some people and you also know you can come out to them and be their friend
@@Lucy-jp1ub Yeah definitely, thanks for the helpful replies, I appreciate them
What do you think of people calling masturbation 'solo sex' instead?
i really want to come out to my mom tomorrow but I'm scared she won't accept? idek what to describe, my cousin is pan and she supports that but idk
I kinda came out yesterday (bi) and I don’t know what to do my mum kinda just shot me down and I have a massive crush on my friend and I don’t know what to do bc she’s defo not straight and I think she likes me bc we’ve been much more affectionate then normal and I recently came out to her and I need help idk what to dooooo😩
You wouldn't ask about sleep to them duchess sleep you should try it and you and great Yuma and so they were being humid in🌈🌈🌈🌸🎀💞💕💖💜👭👬💞🌸👅👅🌸🎀💞💕💖💜💕💞🎀🌸💞🎀🌸💞💕💖💜💞🎀🌸💞💕💖💜🎀🌸🌈🌈🌈🌈💛💓💙💚🌼🐶🐩🐈
My cat stole my pride flag
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Dutchy can you tell me when it’s a good time to come out I’m 10 should I wait or
Wait until 12 or 13
Im 12 myself and im gonna come out a week after i become 13 (bi)
I think im asexual but i dont wanna tell my family or friends cuz what if im wrong, i dont wanna look like a liar or attention seeker. This sure is a hard time for everyone- exploring their sexuality.
Hello ✨>✨
But what if he don't like you
If people slept more touches the world would be a better place as a human being you would not too long about sleep and that's it you have to sleep and not it no matter what you do and where you are what you do
Can you be bi and only want to date/marry and do adult fun time with the opposite sex ?
I am a little sissy girl TG
first
I had to come out to my mother and father duchies and my life was in danger Ferrari no more sateen
Duchy I would love it hot like that oh what have the word that top and suspender and things like that and I know several professional dominatrix on RUclips and on the internet and in the US
I am a little sissy girl TG
I am a little sissy girl TG