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  • Опубликовано: 24 дек 2024

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  • @strangswife
    @strangswife 5 дней назад +680

    For those who pray, prayers for my 17 year old daughter, for guidance and wisdom. Thank you.

  • @JaneDoe-rc3rz
    @JaneDoe-rc3rz 5 дней назад +410

    Any meal shared with friends, family, is a blessing! Meatloaf counts! 😋

    • @toomuch2do470
      @toomuch2do470 5 дней назад +16

      Yes! Meatloaf is fantastic!! ❤

    • @georgiafrancis9059
      @georgiafrancis9059 5 дней назад +9

      @@toomuch2do470 I used to like meatloaf when I trusted the meat, last "meatloaf" I made with ground turkey! It was great and made excellent sandwiches.

    • @krice7308
      @krice7308 5 дней назад

      Sin pie recipe, please

    • @krice7308
      @krice7308 5 дней назад

      Tamales and all Mexican food fixings....its pretty popular for Christmas on the west coast. Were So. Cal transplants to Oregon almost 12 years ago.

    • @salonsavy6476
      @salonsavy6476 5 дней назад +6

      I love meatloaf ❤😋

  • @Sherry-oj8xk
    @Sherry-oj8xk 5 дней назад +273

    We don’t have freedom of speech, if we have to speak in little clues. Keep up the good work patara.

    • @artistknownaslisa2850
      @artistknownaslisa2850 5 дней назад

      Almost to pig Latin levels.

    • @trismaccarran9950
      @trismaccarran9950 5 дней назад +1

      You do on X, & patriots succeeded in stopping that bill from passing by using their collective voices to call out these charlatans. God gave us a means to fight for our rights to be returned, and I consider that the best Christmas present one could wish for. Hoping everyone watching has the most blessed of holidays, & is feeling the same patriotic bent that I'm feeling.

    • @sherwood5427
      @sherwood5427 5 дней назад +15

      Ain't that the truth?

    • @KimmysGarden1979
      @KimmysGarden1979 4 дня назад

      That is the truth! Zero freedom of speech! Hopefully things will turn around. I can understand why some people get blocked because there’s a lot of evil out there but my goodness someone like Patera getting blocked? Are you kidding me? ridiculous!

    • @DeliverMeFromEvil-
      @DeliverMeFromEvil- 4 дня назад

      @@Sherry-oj8xk the You Tube thought police in action...

  • @suebridges11
    @suebridges11 4 дня назад +48

    This is a different holiday season for me too. My 92 year young mom died on 11/27 after a short illness. The whirlwind funeral, and all the things. So busy emptying her apartment and everything, my husband and I are having a very simple Christmas meal. Corn chowder, biscuits, homemade cherry pie. I’m rather exhausted and really missing her these days. I’m not concerned it’s normal to miss and mourn her. The Lord is good, and she has been reunited with her parents and siblings and my dad . Merry Christmas everyone !

    • @mc-si7vq
      @mc-si7vq 4 дня назад +9

      I am so sorry for your loss. Your Christmas meal sounds wonderful. I hope that you and your husband enjoy the day and know that our loved ones truly are never far in spirit 🕊❤
      Merry Christmas 🎄
      & may you have a blessed 2025!

    • @ldavis2008
      @ldavis2008 3 дня назад +4

      I'm so very sorry for your loss...
      I lost my Mother 11/18/18 unexpectedly...
      "The whirlwind" of it all resonates with me...the remainder of that year stayed in a perpetual whirlwind...Stay STRONG and KEEP the FAITH you will be reunited again one day....
      ❤️&🙏

    • @sweett6804
      @sweett6804 3 дня назад

      Still miss my mom and it's been 10 years! She was my best friend, and holidays are hardest because we both liked to plan the meals and help cook and bake. Wonderful memories though! Be kind and loving to yourself- you must mourn because it is natural and healing. Doing things differently this year is o.k. I will keep you and your family in my prayers 🙏

    • @MitchellTickle1962
      @MitchellTickle1962 2 дня назад +1

      Needed prayer...
      Lost my son Dec. 11th, he would have been 40 on December 25th.
      I'm so anguished over his passing.
      Jesus is the reason for the Season, but I've lost the Joy of it this year.

    • @jeannemyers489
      @jeannemyers489 2 дня назад +1

      Sue, so sorry to hear of your loss. Just lost my 91 yr. old mom on 11/23. She is with the Lord too. Perhaps they will meet up!
      Praying for God's comfort for you. 🙏

  • @carolcossa6244
    @carolcossa6244 5 дней назад +131

    I am alone this year up here at 8000 ft in the Rockies...so I got myself a cornish rock game hen, and I will have mashed potatores, stuffing, salad, a warm fire, some cherry pie. and a good loyal cat to pet. I love watching this chanel because Patara has given me a feelong of family...some of which my real ones used to be from TN. This is a great bunch of people...means a lot to me.

    • @InspirationAwaits7
      @InspirationAwaits7 4 дня назад +6

      Sounds cozy

    • @bluebirdgramma6317
      @bluebirdgramma6317 4 дня назад +6

      You are! Part of This Family! We All Are! We think alike and Support Respect and Pray for each other Every Day. ♥. My Extended Family. ❤

    • @charlottebrisendine952
      @charlottebrisendine952 4 дня назад +4

      Sounds very peaceful and tranquil!!

    • @lindamoses3697
      @lindamoses3697 4 дня назад +2

      I'm alone too in the Rockies. May God bless us and send angels to sustain and comfort us. I do have the baby Jesus to bring me joy at such a special time of year. I love Him. He lives!

    • @notnek202
      @notnek202 4 дня назад +4

      I will come join you. 😊

  • @angelsgarden3000
    @angelsgarden3000 5 дней назад +31

    My daughter and 10 yr old granddaughter were in a car accident right in front of our house this morning, sun in her eyes. Granddaughter is in hospital. Prays please

    • @mj-hk6iv
      @mj-hk6iv 4 дня назад +3

      Prayers for a speedy recovery, strength, and peace. 🙏

    • @InspirationAwaits7
      @InspirationAwaits7 4 дня назад +1

      Prayers and blessings

    • @bluebirdgramma6317
      @bluebirdgramma6317 4 дня назад +2

      😢...🙏 🙏 🙏

    • @lindamoses3697
      @lindamoses3697 4 дня назад +2

      Prayers for everyone in your family. Car accidents surely are a terrible trial. God bless ❤

    • @kirstenbaker391
      @kirstenbaker391 4 дня назад

      🙏

  • @charlottebelieves285
    @charlottebelieves285 5 дней назад +144

    If I could humbly ask for prayers...I have a job interview coming up in the new year and I really need this job. Merry Christmas folks and blessings in the year to come as well. Thank you.

    • @prayerfullea8474
      @prayerfullea8474 4 дня назад +2

      Prayers!

    • @brendasellers3580
      @brendasellers3580 4 дня назад +3

      Lord, we come to you in agreement with Charlotte asking to make way for a good interview and employment. Asking in Jesus name.

    • @amyB1977
      @amyB1977 4 дня назад +2

      Prayers

    • @Sue-u6z
      @Sue-u6z 4 дня назад +1

      Praying for God to choose where He wants you to be.
      He knows your needs before you ask Him.
      I used to pray for my will, my thinking.
      I learned to ask His will, His way.
      He gets it right
      Prayers for a blessed, happy, healthy New Year for you.
      ❤️

    • @suesmith776
      @suesmith776 4 дня назад +1

      🙏🙏

  • @fanbernie5818
    @fanbernie5818 5 дней назад +188

    Only 3 of us celebrating Christmas. Making small meatloaf cause my husband loves my meatloaf. Also cooking some fried chicken. Collard greens and cornbread and Mac and cheese.

    • @Sharlene-x4q
      @Sharlene-x4q 5 дней назад +3

      Oh you're making me hungry

    • @annettecrawford1575
      @annettecrawford1575 5 дней назад +1

      Gotta be from the south ya'll. Sounds best yet. Merry Christmas!

    • @AnneQ-bk6wi
      @AnneQ-bk6wi 5 дней назад +1

      We have three as well. We are going to have a variety of appetizers. We rarely do appetizers but do love many of them.

    • @ruthfurlow5468
      @ruthfurlow5468 5 дней назад +1

      Mac and tomatoes are yummy with cornbread

    • @kayprice9621
      @kayprice9621 5 дней назад +1

      Meatloaf and greens sounds good to me

  • @blessedgirl5114
    @blessedgirl5114 5 дней назад +269

    I can't even get started on how nobody wants to hear the truth.

    • @davidelliott2485
      @davidelliott2485 5 дней назад +34

      If social media doesn’t hate you, you’re doing something wrong 😝

    • @denab1767
      @denab1767 5 дней назад

      They consider the truth to be hate speech.

    • @Bart12349
      @Bart12349 5 дней назад +10

      Nobody wants to hear the truth before Christmas. 😊

    • @ScottStyle
      @ScottStyle 5 дней назад +12

      Agree

    • @johnturtle6649
      @johnturtle6649 5 дней назад +12

      @@davidelliott2485 well said, I agree.

  • @SourdoughMama64
    @SourdoughMama64 5 дней назад +229

    Don't sit down, don't shut up. God bless. MERRY CHRISTMAS ❤🙏

    • @RC-eb5hq
      @RC-eb5hq 5 дней назад

      Love your directness! Way to get to the point! ❤

  • @garyblevins3532
    @garyblevins3532 5 дней назад +64

    Unfortunately a lot of folks don't realize how blessed they are to have family members to be around. I myself will most likely be alone during the holiday season but I understand that my family have other things to do and others that they would rather be around. I still feel blessed with the folks that either come around or send their messages to me on such occasions. Have a MERRY CHRISTMAS AND A HAPPY NEW YEAR FOLKS!

    • @brendasellers3580
      @brendasellers3580 4 дня назад +13

      Merry Christmas to you. I feel alone sometimes too. We are never alone. God is with us.

    • @bluebirdgramma6317
      @bluebirdgramma6317 4 дня назад +9

      You are part of Patara's family too. At least I think so. 😊❤

    • @lindamoses3697
      @lindamoses3697 4 дня назад +4

      Merry Christmas to you! He is the true source of comfort and joy, that beautiful baby born in a stable and placed in a manger. How sweet His birth story is!

    • @QueenofArgyle2525
      @QueenofArgyle2525 4 дня назад +5

      A Merry Christmas to you. You have us here❤🎄

    • @mc-si7vq
      @mc-si7vq 4 дня назад +2

  • @pfclemmer
    @pfclemmer 5 дней назад +36

    We are having a giant turkey pot pie with whatever side I come up with! Oct 10 I was bitten by a Brown Recluse spider, spent 4 days in the hospital. Had allergic reaction to one of the antibiotics. Finally they got the infection under control. It was the most painful thing I ever experienced. After getting that under control I got the blamed stomach flu. It took awhile to get over that, as my immunity was trashed. Now I've got the worst cold and cough ever! We may have sandwiches if things don't start improving! I'm just so grateful to know my savior loves me and continues to bless my family! Thank you for all you do!

    • @dedetudor.
      @dedetudor. 4 дня назад +5

      Bless your heart!!! I hope and pray things straighten out with you SOON!!! like NOW!!! I PRAY IN THE NAME OF OUR LORD AND SAVIOR CHRIST JESUS!!!🙏🙏🙏🙏🤟

    • @lindamoses3697
      @lindamoses3697 4 дня назад +2

      Holy smokes! You have really been through it! God bless ❤

    • @QueenofArgyle2525
      @QueenofArgyle2525 4 дня назад +5

      Do get better🙏🎄

    • @JNoMooreNumbers
      @JNoMooreNumbers 4 дня назад +1

      Hope you feel better. Cats got litter on the bed and a mildly poisonous spider ended up on my hand sweeping it up. Glad I didn't get bit. Down the sink. Explains the big bites I get here and there.

    • @nathanjustus6659
      @nathanjustus6659 4 дня назад

      Try taking the probiotic Florastor. It helped a loved one a lot due to too many antibiotics due to an infection

  • @johnlopez3001
    @johnlopez3001 5 дней назад +50

    " I'd rather have questions that can't be answered.
    Than answers that can't be questioned."
    -- A Richard Feynman quote.

  • @ChrisAlred-mn5if
    @ChrisAlred-mn5if 5 дней назад +122

    Some have eyes to see and ears to hear. Some don't. 😢❤

  • @georgiafrancis9059
    @georgiafrancis9059 5 дней назад +150

    Patara, I don't know about anyone else, but 2024 has been the worst year I've managed to get through since the 1994 earthquake in Los Angeles. I survived the earthquake but lost every piece of glass in my kitchen. The only difference between then and now is that I still have glass items in my cabinets. To say 2024 has been hard is an understatement.

    • @pibblemama2824
      @pibblemama2824 5 дней назад +10

      I remember the earthquake well. Costco had so much to unload out of the stores and at the time I worked for GTM In San Diego so our store got tons of stuff! I'm now in Tennessee

    • @country4shore686
      @country4shore686 5 дней назад +4

      Hugs

    • @DeliverMeFromEvil-
      @DeliverMeFromEvil- 5 дней назад +2

      Was there myself my duplex got tossed around

    • @paulw2117
      @paulw2117 5 дней назад +4

      A lot of people are struggling these days. That's part of the plan; the people running the show want people to accept their "solutions" to problems they have created.

    • @rain0450
      @rain0450 5 дней назад

      @@pibblemama2824 I used to love going to GTM as a child

  • @Somebodys_Mother
    @Somebodys_Mother 4 дня назад +15

    We're having my dad's funeral on the 21st.💗 Young adults are here who have been distant for decades, in more ways than one.💔 I'm praying Jesus Christ the Lord is allowed to be fully present. It's all I want for Christmas. ❤️‍🩹✝️
    Trying to stay out of the way.🙌 Please pray for my mom, because she's recovering from surgery as well. 🙏

    • @AC-sn5io
      @AC-sn5io 3 дня назад

      Sorry for your loss ❤😢

  • @blessedgirl5114
    @blessedgirl5114 5 дней назад +161

    I think I'm cooking beans cornbread and fried potatoes with onion

    • @shakerman55
      @shakerman55 5 дней назад +13

      Address please!!😂😂😂😂

    • @AudJ1234
      @AudJ1234 5 дней назад +11

      Pick me up on the way to their home, I want to pop in for that yummy meal too!

    • @lilsureshot6246
      @lilsureshot6246 5 дней назад

      What time should we be there? Sounds good to me❤

    • @amyc8442
      @amyc8442 5 дней назад +9

      Tell me when to be there 😁

    • @TeresaDMouth
      @TeresaDMouth 5 дней назад +9

      I'm joining in too. That's the best meal ever ❤❤

  • @tammywhite9229
    @tammywhite9229 5 дней назад +98

    My siblings (7) and spouses and my husband and I had an early Christmas party. We mimicked the Christmas Eve we used to have at our parents home prior to their passing in 2018-2020. The same foods. It was held the day before what would have been my mom’s 96 birthday.

  • @valarieosborne2958
    @valarieosborne2958 5 дней назад +159

    MERRY CHRISTMAS EVERYONE!!!! MAY YOUR NEW YEAR BE BLESSED!!!!❤❤❤❤🎄🎄🎉🎉

  • @tammiehowes5100
    @tammiehowes5100 4 дня назад +15

    I had knee replacement surgery two weeks ago and wanted to say how much I appreciate my husband. He's been working full time at his job AND basically full time here at home. I truly appreciate him and how hard he works for our family! I couldn't have managed this major of a surgery without him. Merry Christmas everyone!

  • @Smiling_Grandma
    @Smiling_Grandma 5 дней назад +42

    I am buying a meal from a local restaurant that needs heated. My Mom passed 3 Christmas’s ago and she and I did the cooking. One of her sisters passed 2 years ago, another of her sisters passed this past February, her last surviving sister has Alzheimer’s. She and her husband will be with us. So be thankful for any and all who can actually break bread with you.

    • @mj-hk6iv
      @mj-hk6iv 4 дня назад +3

      Sending prayers for peace during this holiday season.

    • @bluebirdgramma6317
      @bluebirdgramma6317 4 дня назад +2

      Prayers and Love for y'all! ❤

    • @mc-si7vq
      @mc-si7vq 4 дня назад +1

  • @MsLuLu03
    @MsLuLu03 5 дней назад +42

    This year since July has been the roughest times in my life, and that of my son as well. We almost lost my Mom, but she never did get back to herself physically after being so sick for a couple of months in the hospital, and had to have more care than one person me could give, even though I brought her home and tried, she was admitted to long term care, and is still not doing well. I also lost my good pay full time job, and my health has declined, so Ive been unable to replace my job. Im a single Mama and just dont know where I'm headed from here. So we aren't really decorating or doing alot here for Christmas, we will just spend the day being Grateful for JESUS. I know he is going to bring us out of this hard time in HIS timing. I say all of this for anyone else in hard times,, my heart and prayers go out for you too.. Merry Christmas to Everyone and Blessings to You All.

    • @mj-hk6iv
      @mj-hk6iv 4 дня назад +2

      Praying for peace and strength. Blessings

    • @bluebirdgramma6317
      @bluebirdgramma6317 4 дня назад

      Many churches are giving hot meals Christmas day. Maybe look onto that. You aren't alone! Hugs.

    • @lindamoses3697
      @lindamoses3697 4 дня назад

      He is the reason for our happiness even during rough times. God bless you!❤

    • @QueenofArgyle2525
      @QueenofArgyle2525 4 дня назад +2

      ✝️🎄

    • @colleenluciow7914
      @colleenluciow7914 4 дня назад +2

      Praying for you

  • @teripittman
    @teripittman 5 дней назад +26

    I did find the wreath for my door, so I have officially decorated. I don't have plans for anything fancy. It's okay. Got food for me and my pets, a warm house and lots of knitting projects.

    • @MyCabinLife
      @MyCabinLife 3 дня назад +1

      You have more decorations than I put up.
      Was going to make lasagna keep forgetting to get the pasta lol
      Merry Christmas! A.k.a. it's Wednesday too me.

  • @PamelaMckee-w3d
    @PamelaMckee-w3d 5 дней назад +78

    Just stay home with my puppy and celebrate Jesus. I have no family in the state so just enjoy the day merry blessed christmas

    • @RefinedQuirkiness
      @RefinedQuirkiness 5 дней назад +1

      Merry Christmas dear one. 😊

    • @dianebeier8379
      @dianebeier8379 5 дней назад +2

      My husband & I in our 70s, and have spent many holidays by ourselves, got used to it, a little sad, but it's only 1 day😊😊😊😊😊

    • @velmawarner7375
      @velmawarner7375 5 дней назад +1

      Merry Christmas 🎄🎁

    • @nosheeple2751
      @nosheeple2751 5 дней назад +1

      Merry Christmas Pamela, sounds wonderful, love puppy breath😊❤🎄🎁

    • @elizastpierre1776
      @elizastpierre1776 5 дней назад +2

      I don't even have a puppy, and I feel blessed. 🇺🇸❤🦅

  • @brendasusanchristensen7058
    @brendasusanchristensen7058 5 дней назад +69

    We all must not comply nor accept ANY CENSORSHIP!! Hallelujah praise for our Heaven given freedoms!!

  • @elizabethloger1326
    @elizabethloger1326 5 дней назад +96

    I dont do Christmas - and I am well aware that no one cares why🤣I would not turn my nose up at what you are cooking for Christmas dinner nor will I deny that a well decorated tree looks pretty. Thank you for all you do.

    • @lara_whitt
      @lara_whitt 5 дней назад +4

      I don't do Christmas anymore either, but I still really love the carols

    • @tlc2964
      @tlc2964 5 дней назад +3

      And Thank you 😊

    • @Texas-Idahoan
      @Texas-Idahoan 4 дня назад +3

      We’re having a Hanukkah party 12/25 with just finger foods so we can munch while we play dreidels. It’s not one of the Feasts but it’s a good excuse to gather for fellowship and fun. 🥰

  • @colleenakakokoslay6058
    @colleenakakokoslay6058 5 дней назад +131

    Been a long time subscriber..but I do not post often. Just want to say that your channel brings me so much joy..information... and the giggles I need. Love seeing all that farm life entails especially the animals. Don't ever stop being who you truly are. Stay blessed. Merry Christmas from South of Boston, Massachusetts ❤

  • @Pamela-j7d
    @Pamela-j7d 5 дней назад +74

    My family gets together on Christmas Eve. We are having pulled pork, baked beans, coleslaw and chips. I decided I was not spending hours cooking. I am spending time with my family. Merry Christmas!

  • @kayprice9621
    @kayprice9621 5 дней назад +34

    IM HOPING AND PRAYING EVERYONE HAS A WONDERFUL CHRISTMAS

  • @Laura-xy7td
    @Laura-xy7td 5 дней назад +78

    In spite of all the evil , this Christ -mass is a tremendous blessing . Do as best as you can to avoid all the crap the world is jaw jacking about , reflect on what Christ has done for us , laughing about meatloaf , I think I'm having spaghetti . Life is good , God is good. Merry Christmas everyone ....Love you Patara

  • @VickiIseman-u5z
    @VickiIseman-u5z 5 дней назад +97

    I remember that, you were speaking the truth, so sorry you have to go through this. Merry Christmas to every one.

    • @wendyt1023
      @wendyt1023 5 дней назад +9

      God Is In Control! Hallelujah ✝️❤️🙏🏽! We are so Grateful for you, your family and your channel! Have a Blessed Christmas Patara ❤️ 🙏🏽 🎄

  • @GeorgeMarcoux-g7n
    @GeorgeMarcoux-g7n 5 дней назад +122

    Just me and my Shasha kitty. Going to spend my Christmas birthday with my favorite girl.

  • @janstoll8881
    @janstoll8881 5 дней назад +118

    Sewing tags on the blankets I spun and wove. Then done!

    • @toomuch2do470
      @toomuch2do470 5 дней назад +14

      Oh how I wish I had that talent! ❤
      You have some very blessed loved ones!

    • @aroundthefarmcrafts3192
      @aroundthefarmcrafts3192 5 дней назад +6

      Wow, hope whoever gets them appreciate them. That's a lot of hours of work. I spin and just was given a basic floor loom. Needs some work but that's the after Christmas project.

    • @dragonfly1977
      @dragonfly1977 5 дней назад +5

      Sounds so very special.

    • @dbtlady4686
      @dbtlady4686 5 дней назад +6

      Oh WOW! Beautiful 😃👍🏽

    • @MrsMoon-qs2gf
      @MrsMoon-qs2gf 5 дней назад +2

  • @MimiCollier
    @MimiCollier 5 дней назад +14

    I could use some prayers, just getting treatment for Lyme! Thank you and God Bless all during this Christmas season.

    • @bluebirdgramma6317
      @bluebirdgramma6317 4 дня назад +2

      🙏 🙏 🙏

    • @janemoore8361
      @janemoore8361 4 дня назад

      Oh bless, please check out Anthony William Medical Medium Cleanse To Heal Book. This book is amazing 💚💜💚

    • @mc-si7vq
      @mc-si7vq 4 дня назад +1

      🙏❤

    • @GrammyG1
      @GrammyG1 День назад

      🙏🙏🙏

  • @KarnivoreKaren
    @KarnivoreKaren 5 дней назад +85

    We do Christmas breakfast. Sausage, bacon, eggs, brisket, rib roast, pancakes. Cranberberry bread, pumpkin pie, and a fruit and cheese tray.
    AND MIMOSAS‼️

    • @midwestgrannie4333
      @midwestgrannie4333 5 дней назад

      We normally do Christmas breakfast but big changes this year . NEW daughter in law and Step grandson so this year we are doing sandwichs and appetizers for dinner.

    • @debbiesmithwick8221
      @debbiesmithwick8221 5 дней назад +6

      Sounds yummy!

    • @MrCorvettegirl2
      @MrCorvettegirl2 5 дней назад +3

      @@KarnivoreKaren
      Sounds great 👍

    • @prayerfullea8474
      @prayerfullea8474 4 дня назад

      When I was little, our Mom made a 'Tea Ring'. Sweetish, homemade, yeast dough, rolled out into a rectangle, brushed with melted butter, heavily sprinkled with brown sugar, chopped pecans and raisins. Roll filled dough into a log, and join the ends to make a circle. Use shears to cut halfway through the circle every 2 or 3 inches, gently tilt each cut section so some of the filling is visible. Cover with cloth and let rise, then pop into pre-heated oven and bake til done. After cooling, drizzle (or put lots) with icing of powdered sugar, butter and milk (cream cheese optional).
      Made on Christmas Eve for breakfast on Christmas Day! Delicious! Thank you Mom, I miss you. ❤

  • @Lady_Mundy
    @Lady_Mundy 4 дня назад +12

    My dad and stepmom use to freeze all the fish they caught all year and we would have a big fish fry on Christmas every year. My dad has Alzheimer's now and we don't really do big dinners anymore, but it was great memories. Before my mom died we use to all get together on Christmas Eve to open presents at midnight. My brothers always had to go do something, but were actually running home and play Santa for their kids while they were all at Granny & Papaw's house. Good days!

  • @michaelfinn1803
    @michaelfinn1803 5 дней назад +97

    I got off of Facebook over a month ago, Dont miss it. Merry Christmas to all xx

    • @David-w7q2z
      @David-w7q2z 5 дней назад

      Never been on it.

    • @velmawarner7375
      @velmawarner7375 5 дней назад

      Never used FB and deleted Instagram 2 years ago. Not a downer.

    • @badger31738
      @badger31738 5 дней назад

      Same here, I got off of it when I learned that a close relative of mine had passed away. That angered me. I told them that no one should ever get information like this on social media. I don’t regret deleting my account.

    • @DudeSweet072
      @DudeSweet072 4 дня назад

      I got off in 2016 when everybody came down on me for liking trump

    • @Texas-Idahoan
      @Texas-Idahoan 4 дня назад +1

      Me too!!! 👍

  • @LisaR76
    @LisaR76 5 дней назад +45

    ❤❤Jesus is the reason for the season!!! Hallelujah Hallelujah!!! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻 Blessings to you all!!

  • @harborgurl
    @harborgurl 5 дней назад +67

    we're going with a loaded nacho bar and a swim party (5 adult kids & 8 grandbabies) be together & have some fun! Merry Christmas everyone 🎅

    • @purplechris9480
      @purplechris9480 5 дней назад +7

      Swim party! I'm so jealous! Up north and have to wait til May to swim.

    • @tonilc68
      @tonilc68 5 дней назад +2

      @@harborgurl Sounds fabulous! Merry Christmas 🎄!

    • @RC-eb5hq
      @RC-eb5hq 5 дней назад +6

      ​@@purplechris9480 July here in the Midwest 😢

    • @MrCorvettegirl2
      @MrCorvettegirl2 5 дней назад +3

      @@harborgurl
      Do you live in Fl ??
      I do and can swim pretty much year around besides a few cold fronts….

  • @simplelife0504
    @simplelife0504 5 дней назад +9

    I divorced FB as my 36th birthday gift to myself. I just turned 40 last month & in all honesty, I'm happier than I've ever been. Homeschooling, homesteading, marriage, church & everything in between keep me busy enough! Praise God! 💖

    • @lindamoses3697
      @lindamoses3697 4 дня назад +1

      Good for you!! Isn't it amazing how a bad marriage can destroy us? I'm glad you set yourself free! Congratulations!

    • @RH-ul2bc
      @RH-ul2bc 2 дня назад

      ​@@lindamoses3697 i think she meant fake book (FB) since she listed marriage and church under the happy paragraph.

  • @tonilc68
    @tonilc68 5 дней назад +71

    Patara, I appreciate the truth and all that you do! God Bless! 🙏🧡

  • @Mphscat
    @Mphscat 5 дней назад +37

    We are having family come to stay with us (4 of them) and I think with my broken foot I need to call someone to come clean my house as I'm not making much progress. We are keeping it simple this year too Patara. There is absolutely nothing wrong with home cooking for Christmas and meatloaf is fabulous as is picadillo (we like the cuban version w/olives & raisins). Keep speaking the truth girl and we'll be here listening. Blessings.

  • @kararoland1892
    @kararoland1892 4 дня назад +8

    My nephew needs some prayers, and yall are part of my prayer warriors, so please keep him in your thoughts and prayers. He's unfortunately ended up in jail, and his sentencing is coming down. We are worried about how far away they are gonna send him. He's grown a lot since he's been in because he now has a son he's never seen or held.😢😢😢 Please say a prayer for him. Our family is noticing the difference in this Christmas VS. other ones, and yes, it's off. Prayers to everyone facing depression, loss of loved ones, and others you are missing this year. Merry Christmas!!! ❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏 Thank you for all your hugs and content Paters, you're amazing!!!

    • @PrepperNana
      @PrepperNana 4 дня назад

      Lord Jesus intervene in the affairs of our families that need You!

  • @carolpopi623
    @carolpopi623 5 дней назад +14

    Patera just want you to know how much tuning into your RUclips has meant to me as a single grandma!

  • @beckywexler6026
    @beckywexler6026 5 дней назад +55

    Merry Christmas! God Bless you and your family. I've been watching you for a couple of months and enjoy your views. Blessings to your viewers as well. This will be my first Christmas with out my Mom. So, a little sad. But she lived to be 93 and is home with Jesus, so I just won't let myself get too depressed. Can you imagine Christmas with the Christ!

    • @Crazycatlady1968.
      @Crazycatlady1968. 5 дней назад +12

      BLESSED SHE IS ❤❤

    • @artistknownaslisa2850
      @artistknownaslisa2850 5 дней назад

      I'm sorry. My mom passed away in 2017. She also lived a long life. She almost made it to her 91st birthday. But I miss her. Both parents are gone now. I pray you find comfort in good memories. 🤍🙏

    • @edwardsmalley4287
      @edwardsmalley4287 5 дней назад

      I envy you. I lost my mom when I was seven. Still think about her.

    • @ninnymuggins5159
      @ninnymuggins5159 5 дней назад +4

      My Mom will be at the party with your Mom! 😇😇

  • @NancyHollingshed
    @NancyHollingshed 4 дня назад +11

    We changed our Christmas menu a few years ago, have had everything from Mexican food to Italian. This year we're having chili and taco soup, and all the fixings. Any meal shared with family is special. Merry Christmas and a blessed new year to all.

  • @LaLaBama22
    @LaLaBama22 5 дней назад +13

    If i don't see you pop up in my feed, I go lookin for ya. Keep telling the truth. God is on your side. He's on our side. The side of truth.
    We are doing Italian food for Christmas. Hubby and I both have a week off and we are doing a stay-cation. Merry Christmas to y'all and all the community here at Appalachia's Homestead. God bless us all.

    • @mj-hk6iv
      @mj-hk6iv 4 дня назад +2

      I never get notifications, so I just check before I close my eyes for the day. Blessings

  • @waynekelner8893
    @waynekelner8893 5 дней назад +28

    YOU DO YOU PATARA! PRAY PREPARE BE PEACEFUL!

  • @CherylBerton
    @CherylBerton 5 дней назад +15

    I gave up Facebook seven years ago and I don't even think about it or miss it at all.. I found you here because of what I watch and follow my Lord Jesus Christ and guarding and food .. And I thank God for this wonderful gift of you and all of your wonderful People who have respect for each other;)

    • @CherylBerton
      @CherylBerton 5 дней назад

      Sorry about the mistake garding.. Lol;)

  • @marilynbrewer1029
    @marilynbrewer1029 4 дня назад +8

    I am proud of my pastor we will be having church Christmas night We have church on Wednesday nights and it is the Lords day and we’re going to celebrate him

  • @loriedwards2076
    @loriedwards2076 5 дней назад +70

    MERRY CHRISTMAS TO YOU AND YOURS AND THE COMMUNITY. HUGS LOVE AND PRAYERS FOR ALL ❤️🙏❤️

  • @ks_kountry_girl
    @ks_kountry_girl 5 дней назад +31

    Saw the graphs all over for a few days then, “poof”, all gone. Very interesting to those of us who questioned things back then.
    Merry Christmas to you and yours!

  • @DamystarkAngels
    @DamystarkAngels 5 дней назад +51

    Fur baby looks good. Nice healing.

  • @minihomesteadcooking
    @minihomesteadcooking 4 дня назад +9

    We are doing a Bethlehem dinner on the floor with candles. Lots of middle eastern finger foods. Humus with pitas , pomegranate, pistachios, dates, olives. We tell what we are thankful for amd what we learmed this year. Take turms encouraging each other amd playing our favourite songs. Then in the morning sausage balls, cinnamon rolls. Then later fondu with family.

  • @bearaikos7139
    @bearaikos7139 5 дней назад +37

    GIRL Ilove you.......the demons arent happy....I laughed so hard,,,but thats the truth.

  • @lorawright
    @lorawright 5 дней назад +44

    Keep talking friend !! Everyone needs to hear the truth .. God bless you !!

  • @rosak.9855
    @rosak.9855 5 дней назад +20

    It's sad that people feel that they're life isn't going to go on without their phone. You aren't what strangers say and do. God created you to be You. Merry Christmas to all. This isn't for you Patera, it's for the ones who think they won't survive without social media.

  • @elizabethwright9076
    @elizabethwright9076 5 дней назад +45

    Merry Christmas! My husband and I do steaks for Thanksgiving and Christmas. It's just us, so we don't have the chaos of gatherings😂 Bonus for him, he's never had a 7 Up bundt cake, so that's what's for dessert!!!

  • @jeanhowarth1852
    @jeanhowarth1852 5 дней назад +34

    Merry Christmas to all of everyone on here and Patara and family much love. ❤️ I'm in Michigan ❄️ ❄️

    • @lynnschantz9185
      @lynnschantz9185 5 дней назад +2

      Merry Christmas to you and yours my fellow Michigander

    • @girlonaswing9439
      @girlonaswing9439 5 дней назад +2

      Merry Christmas, 🎄fellow Michiganders.

    • @lisapainter525
      @lisapainter525 5 дней назад +1

      I was a michagander, but moved to North Dakota. Miss the mitten❤

    • @SandiSquiller-zs1zu
      @SandiSquiller-zs1zu 5 дней назад

      I’m in Wisconsin northern it’s cold and snowy merry Christmas to you ❤️🙏🎄

  • @PJ-64
    @PJ-64 5 дней назад +7

    I never do Turkey or Ham at Christmas or Thanksgiving, haven't since 1995 or 96 , I started making SOOOO many other things from wild game to Italian or Mexican or whatever I feel like . 3 years ago I even stopped doing Christmas " dinner" , it's now Christmas EVE dinner so Everyone can play , goof off , head into the mountains further . It's been great ! But this year I decided to ONLY make Appetizers. 5 meat kinds , Veggie tray , Cheese and Breads kind and 5 pies , 1 cake. Nothing takes more than 5 min prep and 30 min to cook . Done ! Stress free and everyone eats whatever they want . God Bless you Sister and God Bless this Family here. Praying for you all .

  • @lisapainter525
    @lisapainter525 5 дней назад +36

    Hugs to everyone ❣️ Merry Christmas 🎄🎁❤❤❤❤

  • @MDK1968Mimi
    @MDK1968Mimi 5 дней назад +28

    Thank you Miss Patara for sharing. It’s a shame that we can’t hear the truth but a bunch of evil instead. God has this. AMEN AND BLESSINGS TO YOU ALL ❤🙏🕊️

  • @Sandi1202
    @Sandi1202 5 дней назад +24

    Keep telling the truth. We love you and we will follow you wherever you go. 🙏😊

  • @KirstenLambert-nt8iy
    @KirstenLambert-nt8iy 5 дней назад +20

    Merry Christmas to everyone on this channel and to you and your family Patera.

  • @gingin5038
    @gingin5038 5 дней назад +34

    Merry Christmas 🎄 Patara!

  • @sharonshick30
    @sharonshick30 5 дней назад +6

    Yes, Patera, this IS a different kind of Christmas. With our children and grandchildren grown, we usually do gift cards. This year, we are making it a theme Christmas. It's a "safety" Christmas theme. Everyone gets fire extinquishers, smoke alarms and a very effective personal safety device to carry (use your imagination on this one). Don't worry - we're all legal here. This was my husband's idea. We had a lot of strange reactions at Lowes when we were shopping one day. Our cart was loaded with fire extinquishers and smoke alarms. The people asked us if we were connected with our local fire department and were having a raffle. It was amazing to see the look of faces when we told them what we were doing.

  • @JaneDoe-rc3rz
    @JaneDoe-rc3rz 5 дней назад +37

    Good to see you again! And the farm babies! Merry Christmas from Texas! (..there you go, you made me smile, when you said, "Yeah, so just go with it..." WHY I LOVE YA!😂💪😁😆 YOU TELL 'TELL IT LIKE IT IS'! Thank you for being GENUINE)! Bless your deer too!♥️🎁🎄🌟 ⛄

  • @samanthabixler63
    @samanthabixler63 5 дней назад +13

    I’m currently 38 weeks pregnant and everything that’s happening around us is very concerning. I am attempting to keep the holiday spirt alive for my 7 year old and man, it’s hard! But, we’ve decided that instead of giving store bought gifts we’ll be baking platters of goodies as our gifts to family and friends this year. I am already counting down the days until spring because winter is not our season. Your videos definitely make our day!

    • @bluebirdgramma6317
      @bluebirdgramma6317 4 дня назад

      ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @bluebirdgramma6317
      @bluebirdgramma6317 4 дня назад

      Congratulations.
      Hope your new little one brings you as much JOY as my children has given me! ❤❤❤

    • @QueenofArgyle2525
      @QueenofArgyle2525 4 дня назад

      Blessings on you hon❤

    • @jelkhorncamper6062
      @jelkhorncamper6062 4 дня назад

      Read the Bible accounts of Jesus birth in Matthew and Luke. Sing Christmas carols! Keep Christmas for Jesus!

  • @janicenodine9083
    @janicenodine9083 5 дней назад +5

    I think all of us are having a “different” Christmas this year. Even though we aren’t with you physically, we know what you’re feeling & it makes me smile with all that you do. Tn is lucky to have you.

  • @PaulaBurkhart-j3s
    @PaulaBurkhart-j3s 3 дня назад +1

    Asking for prayers for my 15year old grandson Blane he’s been diagnosed with stage 4 non Hodgkin lymphoma. He just started a long fight for his life. I believe in the power of prayer and I’m hoping for many people to 🙏

  • @cdweber4547
    @cdweber4547 5 дней назад +50

    We have always had turkey, ham, & all the fixings on Christmas Day. And, we’ve done chili, tamales, etc on Christmas Eve.
    But…this year we’re maybe going out to dinner on Christmas Eve (lunch). And, on Christmas Day we are doing Italian this year!! 🎄
    We decided to change it up this year…for a Fresh Start!!

  • @Jomama02
    @Jomama02 5 дней назад +6

    This is a strange year for us holiday wise. I'm going to order the Bob Evans holiday meal that you just heat and eat. My husband is Stage 4 cancer and he is on a 2month break from Chemo because he is just exhausted and doesn't even feel well enough to go out to eat and I'm exhausted as well as this is now going on 4 years of fighting this. I've let my house go some and don't want to cook a big holiday meal and i didn't even decorate this year. In over 40 years I've always cooked the whole holiday meal, decorated the house and was always to exhausted to enjoy the holiday. So it's going to be the most relaxing laid back holiday we have ever had. I didn't even do any baking for the neighbors this year.

    • @mj-hk6iv
      @mj-hk6iv 4 дня назад +2

      Prayers for peace, strength, and healing for you both. Blessings

    • @lindamoses3697
      @lindamoses3697 4 дня назад

      God bless him and you as you go through this most difficult trial. Jesus will be coming soon so He will make all things right ❤

    • @mc-si7vq
      @mc-si7vq 4 дня назад

      Sounds like a great idea. Enjoy an easy meal, relax, and truly enjoy the extra time with your husband. Sending prayers and wishes for a very Merry Christmas! 🎄❤

  • @rubberneckr1097
    @rubberneckr1097 5 дней назад +23

    I'm loving your winter hat. It's thr color. One of my favorite. Looks so pretty.❤ stay warm. God bless your family and critters.

    • @jerimow8400
      @jerimow8400 5 дней назад +2

      Is that baby bird egg blue? Is it teal? Anyway, I like it too!

  • @debbywelchel3893
    @debbywelchel3893 5 дней назад +35

    MERRY CHRISTMAS from Indiana. Your new baby is bueatiful. Praying for all. Everything is different but JESUS never changes. The only constant in our lives. I love meatloaf. We are having beef loin. Thank you for being a light in the wilderness. Have a Blessed day. Pray prep and praise GOD.

  • @skc137
    @skc137 5 дней назад +30

    KEEP PREPARING TO THE MAX!😊

  • @lisabibby6274
    @lisabibby6274 5 дней назад +26

    We do homemade meatballs and sausage with homemade bread and spaghetti every Christmas dinner, it's how I grew up. Merry Christmas everyone, Jesus is the reason for the season, be blessed all. 🙏

  • @Abraham.Lincoln22
    @Abraham.Lincoln22 4 дня назад +4

    The censorship in this country is ridiculous. There really is no such thing as freedom of speech. 🇺🇸

  • @maryblanscet3867
    @maryblanscet3867 5 дней назад +10

    I am an old lady. I homeschool my 7 yr old grandson. He tells me I look just like Elsa....in her retirement years.

  • @sallykarpiak5871
    @sallykarpiak5871 5 дней назад +7

    Hugs from Southern Oklahoma-I have listened for 2 years and you are a blessing to Merry Christmas 🎉

  • @annettewalls8783
    @annettewalls8783 5 дней назад +34

    I did a tenderloin and bacon for Thanksgiving and I may just have a meat loaf or a rotisserie chicken. I am getting 2 weeks off from work this year and I am going to enjoy it.😁😁😁

    • @RC-eb5hq
      @RC-eb5hq 5 дней назад +1

      Ooohhh..that's drawing to mind an idea of beef wellington.... 😋

  • @elizabethjulieholden3096
    @elizabethjulieholden3096 5 дней назад +15

    Christmas is always simple at our home. The tree is up, most presents need to be bought & wrapped, some tasty goodies to make and Christmas Dinner is Prime Rib. One income doesn't go far in California, but, I prepared for Christmas all year long.
    Merry Christmas

  • @michaelfinn1803
    @michaelfinn1803 5 дней назад +17

    I know that video , alot of people posted about this, but it is funny how no one talks about it anymore ,

  • @chipper3132
    @chipper3132 5 дней назад +25

    We're going to our Daughters on Christmas Day. She is making Lasagna Rolls and Baked Ziti. Im making fudge and peanut butter balls. This Christmas feels so different than any other. I was hoping it would snow here..(Florida).. 😂 God works in mysterious ways..🙏😊 i really miss snow!! Esp during the holidays!!! Merry Christmas Patara and Everyone reading this.. Have a very Blessed New Year!! Much Love..❤

    • @Martha-vx8bj
      @Martha-vx8bj 5 дней назад

      I love FL warm sunny days. My memories include said days and kids with new bicycles pedaling down the street, new basketballs and hoops, little girls pushing doll baby carriages and other girlie things.

    • @sarahe7379
      @sarahe7379 5 дней назад

      We’re getting several inches of snow today in Wisconsin, first snow to stay.

    • @brendasellers3580
      @brendasellers3580 4 дня назад

      Merry Christmas to you. Have a blessed day with your family.

  • @TNMountaingirl
    @TNMountaingirl 5 дней назад +18

    Thanks for sharing all this info. We are in times of delusions.

  • @bettymiller2893
    @bettymiller2893 5 дней назад +16

    Merry Christmas Love watching every one of your videos. God Bless you and your family

  • @sueevans3492
    @sueevans3492 5 дней назад +64

    I is just me, myself and me

    • @sandramaiden4707
      @sandramaiden4707 5 дней назад

      Me with 3 cats, 5 dogs, about 20 cattle and 50 sheep., so I wont be on my own. 😅

    • @RC-eb5hq
      @RC-eb5hq 5 дней назад

      As an only child with no children, have had a couple Christmases like that. It's a luxury!😊 A friend spent the holiday skiing in Tahoe with her teenage son. Due to divorce leaving her financially limited, their Christmas dinner was packages of cheese and crackers while taking a break on the slopes. Her son said it was his favorite Christmas dinner.. 😊

    • @velmawarner7375
      @velmawarner7375 5 дней назад

      Merry Christmas and God bless.

    • @nosheeple2751
      @nosheeple2751 5 дней назад

      Merry Christmas 🎉❤🎄🎁✨️

    • @mc-si7vq
      @mc-si7vq 4 дня назад +1

      The best company 😊

  • @kimsrurallife8775
    @kimsrurallife8775 5 дней назад +32

    I’m 1st! Merry Christmas and happy holidays everyone from my Wisconsin Farm!

    • @GeorgeMarcoux-g7n
      @GeorgeMarcoux-g7n 5 дней назад +2

      It's snowing here in central Wisconsin...Want some?

    • @nosheeple2751
      @nosheeple2751 5 дней назад

      Congratulations 🎊 🎄🎁✨️ merry Christmas

  • @brendah4773
    @brendah4773 5 дней назад +23

    Oh nice!! 3:07
    Meatloaf is a wonderful change ❤🎄

  • @jessicathomas6574
    @jessicathomas6574 5 дней назад +15

    We're having clam chowder, crab cakes, salad and homemade pierogies

  • @jholcomb9532
    @jholcomb9532 5 дней назад +37

    For Christmas dinner we are splurging on a standing rib roast. It will just be the two of us. Found it on sale for 6.99/lb! Considering going back to Winn Dixie and getting another one for the freezer. Having sweet potatoes from the garden with it, along with green beans and cranberry mousse.

    • @jvjdrn
      @jvjdrn 5 дней назад +7

      Yum!

    • @InGODitrust5and2
      @InGODitrust5and2 5 дней назад +8

      That sounds so delicious!

    • @hopemccrea52
      @hopemccrea52 5 дней назад +4

      Wow how do you make cranberry mousse❤

    • @patriciarichardson8996
      @patriciarichardson8996 5 дней назад +6

      Same here. Publix has it on sale for $7.99lb. Same price as hamburger! 🤩

    • @jholcomb9532
      @jholcomb9532 5 дней назад

      @@hopemccrea52 There is a recipe online on the Taste of Home website called Fluffy Cranberry Mousse. Even people who say they don't like cranberries like it! I have made it for almost 30 yrs.

  • @madelinebock6469
    @madelinebock6469 5 дней назад +3

    Dearest, with your hectic lifestyle, I'm impressed that you put out so much YT content. Merry Christmas

  • @RUSickofIt
    @RUSickofIt 2 дня назад

    I lost my job today. Been feeling pretty down. Listening to this video and seeing those adorable expressions of yours; has made me feel better. Thank you Patera; just for being Patera.

  • @Linnie1021
    @Linnie1021 5 дней назад +5

    When the grandsons were little, we voted on how we would celebrate Christmas. The boys wanted pizza, so when we are in the same State, we have a Pizza Party!
    I think we will do finger foods and treats.. keep it simple this Christmas.
    I hope you and yours have a wonderful Christmas! 🎄🦌☃️🎅✝️🛐

  • @lilolmecj
    @lilolmecj 5 дней назад +3

    I don’t think I ever subscribed before, but I went ahead and did it today. The censorship is unacceptable.

  • @JulieMartinezTexan
    @JulieMartinezTexan 4 дня назад +3

    This year, I'm making prime rib on Christmas day. We feel extremely blessed to be able to have a nice meal and be together as a family. Merry Christmas! 🎄

  • @poemsforgod2548
    @poemsforgod2548 5 дней назад +3

    Many are entering this season in loneliness and grief so count your blessings and be thankful unto God both for what remains and for what God has shown us that grows us up for Heavens Sake.. May the Joy of the Lord come to fill your Spirit and shine for all to see and share His Glory. love and blessings to all brethren who love God. His mercy and His Grace be with us all. ( ps Facebook after a month of only Portuguese on my account I was finally completely hacked off of it with even my recovery number coming up as someone else lol so bye bye facebook not worth the struggle the only help offered when I tried had a price tag on it)

    • @lindamoses3697
      @lindamoses3697 4 дня назад

      God bless you and may He give you peace and joy. He is the one that gives us strength to endure the loneliness ❤❤❤

  • @Loretta318
    @Loretta318 5 дней назад +17

    Merry Christmas family 🎄🥰
    Keep speaking the truth

  • @bonniebethel1234
    @bonniebethel1234 4 дня назад +1

    I hate that they keep messing with you, Patera. They just don't like truth tellers. Blessings to all through this season.

  • @dawnvierra4063
    @dawnvierra4063 4 дня назад +3

    My best friend and I will spend most the day together. We are having pizza. We are in our late 60s, early 70s. We wanted to have just a relaxing day. We are excited about our pizza and watch Charlie Brown's Christmas and a few Christmas movies both our families are out of town/state. We are grateful for our time together and this time of year❤ Merry Christmas to all.

    • @mc-si7vq
      @mc-si7vq 4 дня назад +2

      That sounds delightful!
      Have a Merry Christmas 🎄

  • @reality_is_the_key
    @reality_is_the_key 5 дней назад +2

    Last year I could've cook dinner. I had just undergone major surgery. Yhis year, I underwent FIVE major surgeries over 2 days in September. Im cooking this year for my family. Its not gonna be some huge, extravagant thing, but I am participating this year. I lost a half of a decade being bedbound. Time i wont get back. Im not losing another day, another Christmas, birthday, or any other gathering with the fam. Its gonna be painful, but will warm my heart and soul.