Does NLP Work for Dating & Relationships? | The Self-Concept Podcast #3
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- Опубликовано: 11 сен 2024
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Does NLP Work for Dating & Relationships? | The Self-Concept Podcast #3
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I enjoyed this conversation. For me, it sounds more like you're "inviting" rather than "seducing". I looked up the etymology of the word seduce and found this in the Oxford Etymology Dictionary - "divert from allegiance or service xv (Caxton); induce (a woman) to surrender her chastity; lead astray". That sounds opposite to what Damon's definition is.
This goes back to what I was saying about antiquated views about women and sex. There's no such thing as chastity. It doesn't exist as a thing you can lose. I mentioned this in our discussion that with seduction there is a perception that when a man seduces a woman that he's taking something from her. What about how she feels about this? Is she enjoying it? Does she feel like someone is robbing her? This idea of a woman being seduced into surrendering her chastity is rooted in the antiquated belief that women don't enjoy sex, that only men do, and it's a constant game men play to deceive a woman into giving it up. Not only is this incorrect and a limiting way to look at it, it's quite sexist as well. Women are sexual beings with desires and that's normal. There's no shame in it so if they decide they want to have sex with someone, they're not surrendering anything any more than when they're deciding what they want to eat for dinner or what they want to wear.
@@DamonCart regardless of antiquated or not, I personally prefer the word invite. It feels cleaner, more honest and honoring.
Labels or definitions aside, the way you described engaging or interacting with Iulia sounds healthy and refreshing and something that I would like to see more men do when interested in a woman.
@@celestialfrequency me too. It requires bringing this subject into the light and talking about it more. Many men feel shame about needing help to understand women better and learning how to pursue them. At the same time people are quick to make snap judgments about men interested in this topic. I stayed quiet about it for a long time because I didn't want the backlash, but right now it's too important not to talk about it. Not talking about it will only make things worse.
I wrote a horror story about a couple 'friends' who couldn't be seduced. They sold their souls for love and got possessed by two demons who were in love.
NLP gives you the way to help people do what they want to do to you. You can unlock any behavior, ones they want to do and ones they don['t IF you fit the criteria. But use the skills and find somebody who DOES want to do that.
I like your story concept. Did you publish it?
Ive listened to Ross Jeffries, who does this, for many years. He was even trained by Bandler. Great teacher and really smart with effective technology.
What a coincidence. You're in for a real treat. Make sure you catch my next video, which comes out Wednesday.
amazing video
Thank you.
The bit about boundaries blew my mind, I haven't stumbled across that yet. Going to definitely explore that.
Do you have a video course on the Self Concept model that doesn't involve joining a group/scheduling a call?
I'd prefer to just pay for the video course and learn on my own time, if there is that option. Thanks!
I have an online course focused specifically on boundaries work for overcoming approach anxiety. It doesn't require joining a group or scheduling a call. You'll find it here: www.lifemasterygym.com/overcoming-approach-anxiety
@@DamonCartDoes it apply to boundaries in other aspects of life? Im in a happy relationship already
@@samurai74785 Definitely. The focus of the training is approaching women and connecting with them, but you can use it for approaching anyone and connecting with them.
Can you "hypnotize" someone into getting paat approach anxiety?
I suppose you can but I used something much more effective in my opinion. I've done some videos about it and even created a course on it. It's Self-Concept boundaries work. When you understand and code how you create your boundary around you, you can modify it and use it to overcome approach anxiety and build rapport with people rapidly.
NLP is my game 😌 hence women love men with dark triad traits 🤣
I'd say NLP is my sociopathy and my machavailism 😌
Philosophy, psychology and praxeology are my Narcissism 🤣
Okay