There has been plenty said here in the comments, and I think the only thing left to say is; "Thank you" to the gentleman who was the victim in this story. He was kind enough to allow Rob to share this story to possibly save someone else from being the next victim. This certainly came at his own expense. Some have called him a fool, old fool, and stupid. The Bible says in Proverbs 28:26 "He who trusteth in his own heart is a fool", and life lessons like this are sometimes hard learned. I'm sure this man is the salt of the earth kind of guy, that has spent so much time caring for animals (that aren't deceitful) that he has mistakenly applied that same trust to women. I appreciate his kindness in sharing his story.
Good points. I disagree about one thing: Animals are deceitful. It's how many of them eat. For example, camouflage, acting wounded, stealth, and that fish with a wiggling tongue that looks like a tasty worm. Deceit is how weak animals can overcome those who are stronger.
Let me also say that my wife is 50 and I’m 61. All the cautionary tales are interesting and informative. It is good to proceed with caution. It’s the same even with a local relationship but much more difficult to discern in LDR. You have to go there and repeat visits until you can get her to your country. You must have wise discernment and complete transparency in any relationship.
So..as a former idiot that has sent money before, I'll try to explain it. She never asked directly for money. It was always "just letting you know what's going on in my life". That was her explanation to me. If you have a heart, it's easy to feel empathy for those in hardship. I was also fairly naive to how rampant this behavior is there. Even if you take the romantic part out of the equation, seeing another human being struggle, especially if you have an abundance, is difficult for some to do. FAIR WARNING though. The earlier you introduce money into the equation, the more murky the water becomes and you will always question her motivation. Never send what you can't afford to lose and never expect anything back.
Actually, Feb 2022 is when people could travel there. Thats the first time I met my wife and was blown away. She told me that when I get there she will “take care of me like an egg”😂
When I'm asked for money by a Filipina - I always say yes - and then give them 250 pesos - which is $4.27 today. I never give more than 250 a week to s single person - and never more than 1,000 a month. I always say -it's expensive to live in America - but I'll give you what I can - I hope it helps you. If they stay - they're good people - if the leave - they were after your money.
$4 to $16 a week from 1 foreigner. If she has 10 or more benefactors, she would stay, because she has a good business (or call it racket). P10k a month in PH without sweat is much better than a P5k a month SSS pension of a retired Fil professional (engineer, nurse, etc.) who sweated for decades .
It opened up in the Philippines on February 10th 2022. I flew in and arrived on February 11th at 445AM and received the 1st tourist visa after the C event.
There is a general rule of thumb and typically this is in person not LDR... it takes 2 years to get to know someone (as in the bad side if it is there) and 2 years to get over someone (if you are not the one ending it). Men over 60 should know this shit. Why on earth do these men do this? P.S. Chrissy looks like a nice logical women - and pretty. Have you done a video on how you two met and developed your relationship? Please post link.
A general rule of thumb: a good girl will not ask for money -never and also will be hesitant to talk about financial problems. Why? Because a caring and loving person will avoid giving the partner headaches with THEIR problems. Later on when living together and you are getting married you can give some help. For example for an additional day off/week
The Beatles #1hit, "Can't Buy Me Love" was a #1 hit because IT'S TRUE! You can buy happiness, just not love. S*x is not the same as love. Another Great Video :)
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines Women have always been the Master of Manipulation... it's in a man's nature to try to find a solution, solve/fix a problem, provide, protect, etc. Even a male posing as a female a-broad, lol, old school insensitive but the point made can swindle a man halfway across the face of the earth out of his savings. The male need to solve a problem, have a sense of purpose (also applies to females), and the need to be a 'provider', that is why so many Foreigners get scammed. They're not stupid, just males doing what we do. Btw, Chrissy looks great in that outfit (nothing improper intended, just a good look, IMO). When are we going to see Rob doing the "Chrissy Outtro Dance"... sorry, brother, I wouldn't do it. Maybe at 100k subscribers? What is the school of thought (world traveler/Foreigner married to a Filipina) on Foreigner getting a vasectomy? I am 46 y.o., What's the Filipina perspective. god Bless you guys, appreciate you both!
Plz forgive the typos (*God and others)... world traveler referring to Rob, I have not been out of the Contiguous 48 (U.S. States)... that will change April '25.
These cautionary tales are obviously peaking peoples interest but maybe you could balance it out with some success stories because its seems like when its good with a filipina its real good!
I commented on your viid about the Dr. that got scammed about the importance of haviing an abundance miindset, because if develope that then you will be totally fine drawling clear boundaries but if you have a scarcity mindset your destined to simp for women and be an easy target for scammers or ended up in a commited realtionship with somone who doesn't respect you!!!
Makes me wonder if he really learned anything from his misadventures if his main takeaway was documentation. Will the next one show him his documentation and still walk off 100s of thousands pesos?
I have noticed lately a lot of the popular PH Vloggers are heavily advertising Christian Filipina website which comparing to other PH websites is super expensive and you all know why, they get a kick back. Still with all the money spent the majority of the girls on the dating sites are scammers. Unfortunately there are a lot of guys who are not retired and can't go to PH long term and get trapped on these websites. We know the right answer is boots on the ground but lot of guys can't do that and they have to take a chance and it is very risky to find a good girl who will stay faithful to you while you are not there, no matter how much money you spend, can't buy her love.
The most recommended site will tend to be the one that gives the biggest kickback to the people recommending it. Since it is free for the woman to sign up, there is no way to eliminate scammers. They can just create another account. Easier to use a completely free site like dateinasia and just be careful.
Who finance the first restaurant? Was her business a restaurant or a carenderia? If restaurant, she's got a classy and big-time business. If carenderia, ordinary and small-time business... $6k capital is overkill.
A fool and his money are easily parted; there is no fool like an old fool; he is lonely for affection, acceptance, and companionship. You can't buy wisdom when you have no sense. These are well known sayings throughout the world especially in the West. Hopefully he has come to his senses as well and stop being the Village Idiot.
Always always always put yourself in the drivers seat! First wedding, where is the prenuptial agreement? Do the traditional but also do an online wedding from Canada or the USA then file the wedding immediately at the consulate office for the Philippines. That would have locked her down. Just not smart marrying a woman you don’t know! Takes a year minimum and even then long distance is a gamble say you have spent 8 weeks together over that year? Maybe 6 weeks? It’s a gamble roll the dice and hope for the best…I find him to be too cheap with the allowance. And too stupid with investment money with it just being a gift for the family…If you have money to burn it’s okay…just accept what you are doing is stupid and you will do it anyway…1 million pesos in a business should give you better returns. Good story telling! Crissy is really becoming a great communicator.
The problem is HIM, He's70+ and still taking care of animals. To find a Filipina , he needs to retire and move to the PH instead of using the dating site and LDR. With his age if he is not living with the girl and stays in Canada to take care of his animals then he is just an ATM. He preferred his animals than be with his girl. m not blaming the girls, the problem is HIM. He is with the girl but still chatting with other women. Don't send money you cant afford to lose if your LDR.
I’ve been talking to a Filipina from General Santos who claims that her marriage to a Muslim Filipino falls into a different category than other Filipinos when they divorce. Any truth to this?
A fool and his money are soon parted. It's one thing to help out a woman you've met and are in a relationship with. It's another thing sending money to someone you've never met. Although, the bottom line is once money starts changing hands it changes the nature of the relationship. It's best not to go down that road.
With all due respect, I have to disagree with you on that Michael. A story is just that, a story. Rob could not possibly edit this and still represent the facts as they occurred. I think that they did a good job relating the story and you have to appreciate the work that it took to present it so professionally. Kudos to Rob and Chrissy. You've easily become my favorite channel on the topic of the Philippines. God Bless
Yep everyone keeps mentioning how great of a “catch” Chrissy is (which is totally true of course :)), but Rob is a really good catch also Chrissy is lucky to have him. Loving humble supportive happy optimistic active interesting professional, great communicator, world experience, and wants to make a difference in the world. Kind of the total opposite of a complete loser in my opinion. Congrats 🎉Chrissy - you found a keeper also!
I too,have 3 Filipinas im.chatting with. Trying to find the1 for me. 1 of them,I am sending $ to. I think she is not the one for me,but she is poor and has 5 kids. I like to help. I have more than enough. Good story.
When you make money the focal point in a relationship--------------what could go wrong? A woman who is only happy when the money is flowing like wine=stay away because you will never make her happy long term. Never ever send money to someone you have never met.
My girlfriend saw both Rob and Chrissy in a store (I think S&R) when she was there in CDO a few months ago. She said that Chrissy is also attractive in person. She didn’t have a comment on Rob though 😂.
The child thing seems like a serious problem. A woman with no children is likely to want them in the future, even if she doesn't right now. And she could be really unhappy and unfulfilled in a marriage with no children. But getting involved with a woman who already has a child has risks as well. As a guy who cannot have more children (vasectomy) I am still not sure how to resolve that.
If you do want to have children after having a vasectomy, you have 2 options. To be able to have children after a vasectomy you can undergo a vasectomy reversal or try In vitro fertilization (IVF) and intra-cytoplasmic sperm injection (ICSI) using aspirated sperm.
Unfortunately it does seem many Filipina women are only too happy to take your money and use you as bank of rich Western man. I don't go on dating sites but just from meeting colleagues who later fall on hard times and then get in touch, I've spent 10s of thousands of dollars trying to help them get work, support their family, etc. I'm still in touch with them but I've stopped sending them money. The only overseas women I've dated have always wanted to pay their half and never asked for money to help them, their job or their family. Anything else should be a red flag.
I’ve been with my GF for almost 2 years. I’ve been boots on the ground with her for 2 1/2 months. I send money every month but something always comes up. Just get use to it or don’t start it at all. Example: it’s time for school, new uniforms, back packs and school supplies. Dentist, clinic. Etc. Birthday party. The rice cooker died. These are all real examples from the last 6 months. I look at each and I say if we were together I would have paid the money so it’s ok. I do verify all items with receipts. Inspect what you expect.
I hate to say this but she is playing you like a fool. Receipts can be easily faked. She using the money you send her to spend on her husband. Wake the fuck up, dump her before she bleeds you dry. All the while she is giving dome to her boyfriend/husband
Any guy who is 40 years or more and wants to be with a young girl in her 20s deserves whatever they get. There are so many more woman available closer to his age…why is he chasing such young tail…it’s just that…acting with the wrong head. Most expensive sex you’ll ever have. If you have money…no big deal…but if you’re a guy who has to count pennies…you’re only being a fool. These stories are setting your channel apart from all the others. Keep sharing them. Someone said mix that with some positive stories but honestly…these are possible…as they advise men as to what not to do. That’s a good thing.
Really another story ? Do you make these up to get attention? What happened to the poison spider ? Fly me to the fictional story teller !!! LOL One girl asked me for money and I said sure I’ll send , I told her to go pick it up at western union , she went to pick it up , but I didn’t really send , I said something happened to the computers , go back again , so she went a second time , but I didn’t send , she was angry
There has been plenty said here in the comments, and I think the only thing left to say is; "Thank you" to the gentleman who was the victim in this story. He was kind enough to allow Rob to share this story to possibly save someone else from being the next victim. This certainly came at his own expense. Some have called him a fool, old fool, and stupid. The Bible says in Proverbs 28:26 "He who trusteth in his own heart is a fool", and life lessons like this are sometimes hard learned. I'm sure this man is the salt of the earth kind of guy, that has spent so much time caring for animals (that aren't deceitful) that he has mistakenly applied that same trust to women. I appreciate his kindness in sharing his story.
@@robertclaus1102 Thank you Bob for your support.
Good points.
I disagree about one thing: Animals are deceitful. It's how many of them eat. For example, camouflage, acting wounded, stealth, and that fish with a wiggling tongue that looks like a tasty worm.
Deceit is how weak animals can overcome those who are stronger.
Let me also say that my wife is 50 and I’m 61. All the cautionary tales are interesting and informative. It is good to proceed with caution. It’s the same even with a local relationship but much more difficult to discern in LDR. You have to go there and repeat visits until you can get her to your country. You must have wise discernment and complete transparency in any relationship.
Good advice
Another great story with useful experiences for us. Thanks, Rob and Chrissy, and thanks to the "bear-man" for his courage in sharing.
Thanks for the kind words, dragon
So..as a former idiot that has sent money before, I'll try to explain it. She never asked directly for money. It was always "just letting you know what's going on in my life". That was her explanation to me. If you have a heart, it's easy to feel empathy for those in hardship. I was also fairly naive to how rampant this behavior is there. Even if you take the romantic part out of the equation, seeing another human being struggle, especially if you have an abundance, is difficult for some to do. FAIR WARNING though. The earlier you introduce money into the equation, the more murky the water becomes and you will always question her motivation. Never send what you can't afford to lose and never expect anything back.
☝️☝️exactly! Count it as all gifts! Never give a loan.
Well said
Actually, Feb 2022 is when people could travel there. Thats the first time I met my wife and was blown away. She told me that when I get there she will “take care of me like an egg”😂
Thanks for that info and for sharing
The need for love is a powerful thing.
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Wouldn't it have been cheaper to get a vasectomy?
Absolutely
When I'm asked for money by a Filipina - I always say yes - and then give them 250 pesos - which is $4.27 today. I never give more than 250 a week to s single person - and never more than 1,000 a month. I always say -it's expensive to live in America - but I'll give you what I can - I hope it helps you. If they stay - they're good people - if the leave - they were after your money.
Interesting
$4 to $16 a week from 1 foreigner. If she has 10 or more benefactors, she would stay, because she has a good business (or call it racket).
P10k a month in PH without sweat is much better than a P5k a month SSS pension of a retired Fil professional (engineer, nurse, etc.) who sweated for decades .
Take care and God bless you 🙏 😮
Thank you, George
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines You're always welcome.
It opened up in the Philippines on February 10th 2022. I flew in and arrived on February 11th at 445AM and received the 1st tourist visa after the C event.
Thanks for sharing and adding that
You two get along so well
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There is a general rule of thumb and typically this is in person not LDR... it takes 2 years to get to know someone (as in the bad side if it is there) and 2 years to get over someone (if you are not the one ending it). Men over 60 should know this shit. Why on earth do these men do this? P.S. Chrissy looks like a nice logical women - and pretty. Have you done a video on how you two met and developed your relationship? Please post link.
@@henryreinders3031 ruclips.net/video/ID2cqJUJcKc/видео.htmlsi=NPgbr9qcYK9hqpeZ
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A general rule of thumb: a good girl will not ask for money -never and also will be hesitant to talk about financial problems.
Why? Because a caring and loving person will avoid giving the partner headaches with THEIR problems.
Later on when living together and you are getting married you can give some help. For example for an additional day off/week
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Did you tell him never send money?
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Another great video thank you.👍
Glad you enjoyed it
The Beatles #1hit, "Can't Buy Me Love" was a #1 hit because IT'S TRUE! You can buy happiness, just not love. S*x is not the same as love. Another Great Video :)
I love a quote from the Beatles
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines Women have always been the Master of Manipulation... it's in a man's nature to try to find a solution, solve/fix a problem, provide, protect, etc. Even a male posing as a female a-broad, lol, old school insensitive but the point made can swindle a man halfway across the face of the earth out of his savings. The male need to solve a problem, have a sense of purpose (also applies to females), and the need to be a 'provider', that is why so many Foreigners get scammed. They're not stupid, just males doing what we do. Btw, Chrissy looks great in that outfit (nothing improper intended, just a good look, IMO). When are we going to see Rob doing the "Chrissy Outtro Dance"... sorry, brother, I wouldn't do it. Maybe at 100k subscribers? What is the school of thought (world traveler/Foreigner married to a Filipina) on Foreigner getting a vasectomy? I am 46 y.o., What's the Filipina perspective. god Bless you guys, appreciate you both!
Plz forgive the typos (*God and others)... world traveler referring to Rob, I have not been out of the Contiguous 48 (U.S. States)... that will change April '25.
These cautionary tales are obviously peaking peoples interest but maybe you could balance it out with some success stories because its seems like when its good with a filipina its real good!
Yes, stay tuned
The passage goes like this- fool me once, shame on - shame on you. Fool me - you can't get fooled again...GWB
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Just realized that the sucker of born every minute fame might refer to 👶's! Thank you vlog.
@@JulienSorelEatsSabras 👍
When my brothers and I were young, my now late father told us to be sure to think with the big head, not the little one.
Good advice, Mark
I hunt in northern ontario, live in southern ontario...there's a lot of black bears up north. Never heard of Emo ontario until now
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I commented on your viid about the Dr. that got scammed about the importance of haviing an abundance miindset, because if develope that then you will be totally fine drawling clear boundaries but if you have a scarcity mindset your destined to simp for women and be an easy target for scammers or ended up in a commited realtionship with somone who doesn't respect you!!!
@@amazonseller-yf8vv stay tuned you’ll be interested in our very next video. Coming out in five minutes.
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines Thanks, i'll be lookiing forward to it!!!
Makes me wonder if he really learned anything from his misadventures if his main takeaway was documentation. Will the next one show him his documentation and still walk off 100s of thousands pesos?
I was surprised also that that was the lesson learned
What is NBSB???
No Boyfriend Since Birth
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines Thanks,,,Surprise women like that exist...You and Chrissy are a great couple..nice catch with her..Thx again
Hilarious that Chrissy highlighted the BS in NBSB. She has comedic talent.
@@FlyMeToThePhilippinesit’s read 2 letters at a time sequentially NB BS SB
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Hi Rob & Chrissy,
I’ll make this short, and sweet, lol. Is this Canadian guy, Dr. Clueless’s brother??? There’s one born every minute.
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That's a wild story...damn!!!! That stuff scares me of heading to another country to find my next love
Just stay disciplined
I don't know why so much stupidity exist, people hear stories about being scammed and do not learn lessons from other people mistakes.
Perhaps they need to hear it again and again
A fool and their money are soon parted.
So true Toby
There are a lot of sad stories here
Yes a lot of
I have noticed lately a lot of the popular PH Vloggers are heavily advertising Christian Filipina website which comparing to other PH websites is super expensive and you all know why, they get a kick back. Still with all the money spent the majority of the girls on the dating sites are scammers. Unfortunately there are a lot of guys who are not retired and can't go to PH long term and get trapped on these websites. We know the right answer is boots on the ground but lot of guys can't do that and they have to take a chance and it is very risky to find a good girl who will stay faithful to you while you are not there, no matter how much money you spend, can't buy her love.
The most recommended site will tend to be the one that gives the biggest kickback to the people recommending it. Since it is free for the woman to sign up, there is no way to eliminate scammers. They can just create another account. Easier to use a completely free site like dateinasia and just be careful.
If it seems too good to be true it probably is. Old, but very sound advice.
Everything in this comment was well said
They aren't shy about soliciting for money. A woman in Manila tried to hit me for $6,000 to open a second restaurant. Blocked her ASAP.
Thanks for sharing that
Who finance the first restaurant?
Was her business a restaurant or a carenderia?
If restaurant, she's got a classy and big-time business.
If carenderia, ordinary and small-time business... $6k capital is overkill.
Hello guys! How are you doing this evening?
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A fool and his money are easily parted; there is no fool like an old fool; he is lonely for affection, acceptance, and companionship. You can't buy wisdom when you have no sense. These are well known sayings throughout the world especially in the West. Hopefully he has come to his senses as well and stop being the Village Idiot.
Well, he certainly made some mistakes
These guys will never learn. Never pay women. The end.
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Always always always put yourself in the drivers seat! First wedding, where is the prenuptial agreement? Do the traditional but also do an online wedding from Canada or the USA then file the wedding immediately at the consulate office for the Philippines. That would have locked her down. Just not smart marrying a woman you don’t know! Takes a year minimum and even then long distance is a gamble say you have spent 8 weeks together over that year? Maybe 6 weeks? It’s a gamble roll the dice and hope for the best…I find him to be too cheap with the allowance. And too stupid with investment money with it just being a gift for the family…If you have money to burn it’s okay…just accept what you are doing is stupid and you will do it anyway…1 million pesos in a business should give you better returns. Good story telling! Crissy is really becoming a great communicator.
Thanks
Great story. So many mistakes it's unreal. Women can't respect a guy who sends money without ever meeting a girl.
They might appreciate it, but they probably won’t respect him. I think I agree.
What was he thinking?
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It’s called white knight syndrome and it’s real.
Yes, I believe so
The problem is HIM, He's70+ and still taking care of animals. To find a Filipina , he needs to retire and move to the PH instead of using the dating site and LDR. With his age if he is not living with the girl and stays in Canada to take care of his animals then he is just an ATM. He preferred his animals than be with his girl. m not blaming the girls, the problem is HIM. He is with the girl but still chatting with other women. Don't send money you cant afford to lose if your LDR.
Yes, don’t send money. You can’t afford to lose.
"Incoming!"
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I’ve been talking to a Filipina from General Santos who claims that her marriage to a Muslim Filipino falls into a different category than other Filipinos when they divorce. Any truth to this?
I could look into it flymetothephilippinesconsultation.as.me/
You could post on fb group also
This guy is not the sharpest knife in the drawer is he.
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vasectomy works. Life is filled with choices, good or bad, they are yours
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A fool and his money are soon parted. It's one thing to help out a woman you've met and are in a relationship with. It's another thing sending money to someone you've never met. Although, the bottom line is once money starts changing hands it changes the nature of the relationship. It's best not to go down that road.
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Was this guy able to divorce the first Filipina? What a tangled story.
The first marriage was not legally recognized. Tribal only.
It was never registered with the city or government so it was just a tribal marriage
Any update on Chrissy's son?
He is settling in nicely 👍
Hi Rob, my birth stone is also diamond 💎...
😂😂😂😂
You and beyonce
TOO LONG OF A STORY, SORRY. CHRISSY IS SO ATTRACTIVE TO LOOK AT WHILE YOU RAMBLE ON.
With all due respect, I have to disagree with you on that Michael. A story is just that, a story. Rob could not possibly edit this and still represent the facts as they occurred. I think that they did a good job relating the story and you have to appreciate the work that it took to present it so professionally. Kudos to Rob and Chrissy. You've easily become my favorite channel on the topic of the Philippines. God Bless
🙏 Thank you Bob
Yep everyone keeps mentioning how great of a “catch” Chrissy is (which is totally true of course :)), but Rob is a really good catch also Chrissy is lucky to have him. Loving humble supportive happy optimistic active interesting professional, great communicator, world experience, and wants to make a difference in the world. Kind of the total opposite of a complete loser in my opinion. Congrats 🎉Chrissy - you found a keeper also!
I too,have 3 Filipinas im.chatting with. Trying to find the1 for me. 1 of them,I am sending $ to. I think she is not the one for me,but she is poor and has 5 kids. I like to help. I have more than enough. Good story.
@@Mark-bi4pp thanks for sharing and good luck
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines thank you. Love your show
A fool and their money will soon depart
Absolutely
When you make money the focal point in a relationship--------------what could go wrong? A woman who is only happy when the money is flowing like wine=stay away because you will never make her happy long term. Never ever send money to someone you have never met.
That’s the perfect advice
these scams have gone on for too long, take care of your finances guys
Good advice, David
I would just stay single and hang out with the bears. Are women really that necessary?
If you can't answer that question - you've never spent a night with a Filipina. It's miraculous what they can do to a man's soul.
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How much in $?
25,560 usd
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines I'm still short... I've got $10k.
Maybe good only for 1 chick or chick-hen.
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines I'm still short. I've $10k.
Maybe good for only 1 chick or chick-hen.
So is Chrissy actually a haggard old woman after all filters are removed?
My girlfriend saw both Rob and Chrissy in a store (I think S&R) when she was there in CDO a few months ago. She said that Chrissy is also attractive in person. She didn’t have a comment on Rob though 😂.
What???
@@lmcc0072 ... hahahaha...😆
Is there a spider?
Itsy bitsy
What is NBSB???? No boyfriend since birth???
Yes
The child thing seems like a serious problem. A woman with no children is likely to want them in the future, even if she doesn't right now. And she could be really unhappy and unfulfilled in a marriage with no children. But getting involved with a woman who already has a child has risks as well. As a guy who cannot have more children (vasectomy) I am still not sure how to resolve that.
If you do want to have children after having a vasectomy, you have 2 options. To be able to have children after a vasectomy you can undergo a vasectomy reversal or try In vitro fertilization (IVF) and intra-cytoplasmic sperm injection (ICSI) using aspirated sperm.
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Unfortunately it does seem many Filipina women are only too happy to take your money and use you as bank of rich Western man.
I don't go on dating sites but just from meeting colleagues who later fall on hard times and then get in touch, I've spent 10s of thousands of dollars trying to help them get work, support their family, etc. I'm still in touch with them but I've stopped sending them money.
The only overseas women I've dated have always wanted to pay their half and never asked for money to help them, their job or their family. Anything else should be a red flag.
I agree any request for money is a red flag
I’ve been with my GF for almost 2 years. I’ve been boots on the ground with her for 2 1/2 months. I send money every month but something always comes up. Just get use to it or don’t start it at all. Example: it’s time for school, new uniforms, back packs and school supplies. Dentist, clinic. Etc. Birthday party. The rice cooker died. These are all real examples from the last 6 months. I look at each and I say if we were together I would have paid the money so it’s ok. I do verify all items with receipts. Inspect what you expect.
stop sending your hard earned money....good guys never win!!
@@allanc7263 you are right I’m sure
You are aware that scammers work together, right? 50 different guys might be sending money to several different scammers on one rice cooker receipt.
Thanks for sharing that Papa Doug. Good to see you here.
I hate to say this but she is playing you like a fool. Receipts can be easily faked. She using the money you send her to spend on her husband. Wake the fuck up, dump her before she bleeds you dry. All the while she is giving dome to her boyfriend/husband
She looks like an attractive Filipina Pea
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Do you have successfull stories, that will be good so that views could look at the subject objectively.
Stay tuned
Any guy who is 40 years or more and wants to be with a young girl in her 20s deserves whatever they get. There are so many more woman available closer to his age…why is he chasing such young tail…it’s just that…acting with the wrong head. Most expensive sex you’ll ever have. If you have money…no big deal…but if you’re a guy who has to count pennies…you’re only being a fool.
These stories are setting your channel apart from all the others. Keep sharing them. Someone said mix that with some positive stories but honestly…these are possible…as they advise men as to what not to do. That’s a good thing.
Thanks, Jon for the feedback
What kind of animal would Chrissy be ?
Unicorn
Well, "traditional women" are seeking for money, like they have always done in the decades, centuries and millenniums. What else do you expect?
I agree
Would be interesting if there are also positive stories_ not just the very odd one..
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Really another story ? Do you make these up to get attention? What happened to the poison spider ? Fly me to the fictional story teller !!! LOL
One girl asked me for money and I said sure I’ll send , I told her to go pick it up at western union , she went to pick it up , but I didn’t really send , I said something happened to the computers , go back again , so she went a second time , but I didn’t send , she was angry
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Maybe the saying should be "Do not wait for the mango to fall" instead of apple to fall.
Yes John
A fool and his money are soon..............
Money soon departs a fool.
Parted
……on the way to the Philippines.
Oh no! She's a guy.
Not this time
What a fool
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