I wish I could escape the debilitating feelings from my exhusband brainwashing my son to reject me because I ended an 18 yr old marriage with whom I was a stay at home Mom. He’s now 23 and is addicted to video games and refuses to get a job and lives with his dad. He doesn’t have any friends or hobbies besides online friends. I despise my ex for doing that to my son who was my little buddy that was so loving towards me. No abuse but definitely not a happy marriage. I tried everything but lost the battle.
I was in an 18 year marriage, my husband about drove me crazy. We had 2 boys who are now in their early 30's. My ex did the same to me, my boys rejected me as well. BUT all is NOT lost!! I made it through and you can too, please find yourself a "bible" church. Jesus will help you find yourself again, He will also bring you peace and bring the "right people" into your life like Kenny. Should you need direction on a good church, please look-up Jack Hibbs at Calvary Chapel Chino Hills via RUclips. He's my "go-to" pastor, even-though I don't live in CA. I'll keep you in my prayers, reach out if you need to...Blessings
@@cataclyticgaming6803 Ok you are watching this for a reason honey. Get out of the rut and do not be like Your Dad. You are using him as a crutch. The sky is the limit in life. You can do it. Mama of a boy who does not let his father control him. It is not fun, but my husband does back down. You can do this. Go
My husband tries to brainwash my two kids as well. And it is not working, which makes him really angry. You did not lose the battle yet. I am sure you are trying to keep contact with your son who takes it or leaves it. But still deep down he really wants contact from you although he chose the one that lets him live like a loser. The best thing in my drama is just do not answer or contact him. It is painful but he will feel lost if you don't and that might make him realize he just can't get away with treating you like this. How he was taught. Deep down he just get the best of both. His way with Dad and that missing Mommy moments he still gets. Sending you tons of hugs
A woman married a narrsissiist in 1991. She had a humble beginning. Her 1st marriage went sour. In the end she married her boss, my X father-in-law . His allure was his wealth. She was overjoyed with the gifts lavished upon her by her spouse. In 1991 she became ill & by 2021 she died. Each year her illness was progressively worse. Although she traveled the planet searching no doctor could find a cause of her illness. She married a narrsissiist. The moral of the story? Beware of narrsissiists bearing gifts. Like the Trojan horse a "Foes’ gifts are no gifts". The preceived generosity of the giver may be obscuring more than you bargain for ✌.
The Narcissist is my son. I stopped a long time ago wanting him to be different. I accept this is the way he is. The issue I find now is the way he manipulates others to believe lies and false accusations about me. I have to keep telling myself, If it's lies that he is telling, I know it's lies, why does it matter? Then I find it's not the lies he tells that bother me, it's when others paint me out as the bad guy. I have found in childhood I was always trying and trying to "fit" somewhere. I found if you were good, you got more recognition. So now as an adult, I exhaust myself to be the "good person" in every situation. So I get majorly upset when someone judges me on something I work so hard towards. Something I still can't solve though, is why I care so much what others think of me? I can lie and tell myself in the mirror, "I don't care". However I find that I do.
Im more aware about only holding myself accountable for my contribution in fallout and I know it’s good, but I’m just angry and sad, I wish I could’ve been better then, idk how I could ever give myself grace
It’s funny how good God is and His timing. My journey I feel has just begun (3 years in) …. And it his video resonates with me more any has in a long time. It’s time I stop waiting for change and realizing I’m just mad at myself. I’m really really mad at myself…. It doesn’t help I’m still in the battle….. but I can still not give into the chaos. ❤ Thank you!
Mr kenny , thank you so much , in this video I understand you , I accept my self for what it's . I have to grow up and start acting like the person I'm now adult mature woman 👩 live that child behind 😒 Thank you for you honesty , wisdom and clarity 🙏
Now I feel unworthy and unwanted. My ex is definitely a covert narcissist but I can’t shake the feelings of being unloved and unwanted from my son. He was 11 when I divorced. Do u do private counseling?
I wish I could escape the debilitating feelings from my exhusband brainwashing my son to reject me because I ended an 18 yr old marriage with whom I was a stay at home Mom. He’s now 23 and is addicted to video games and refuses to get a job and lives with his dad. He doesn’t have any friends or hobbies besides online friends. I despise my ex for doing that to my son who was my little buddy that was so loving towards me. No abuse but definitely not a happy marriage. I tried everything but lost the battle.
I was in an 18 year marriage, my husband about drove me crazy. We had 2 boys who are now in their early 30's. My ex did the same to me, my boys rejected me as well. BUT all is NOT lost!! I made it through and you can too, please find yourself a "bible" church. Jesus will help you find yourself again, He will also bring you peace and bring the "right people" into your life like Kenny. Should you need direction on a good church, please look-up Jack Hibbs at Calvary Chapel Chino Hills via RUclips. He's my "go-to" pastor, even-though I don't live in CA. I'll keep you in my prayers, reach out if you need to...Blessings
You son sounds like me. I'm 21, and can see my dad for the emotional monster he is. I am always looking for a job though.
@@cataclyticgaming6803 Ok you are watching this for a reason honey. Get out of the rut and do not be like Your Dad. You are using him as a crutch. The sky is the limit in life. You can do it. Mama of a boy who does not let his father control him. It is not fun, but my husband does back down. You can do this. Go
My husband tries to brainwash my two kids as well. And it is not working, which makes him really angry. You did not lose the battle yet. I am sure you are trying to keep contact with your son who takes it or leaves it. But still deep down he really wants contact from you although he chose the one that lets him live like a loser. The best thing in my drama is just do not answer or contact him. It is painful but he will feel lost if you don't and that might make him realize he just can't get away with treating you like this. How he was taught. Deep down he just get the best of both. His way with Dad and that missing Mommy moments he still gets. Sending you tons of hugs
@@cataclyticgaming6803wishing you the best.
A woman married a narrsissiist in 1991.
She had a humble beginning. Her 1st marriage went sour. In the end she married her boss, my X father-in-law .
His allure was his wealth. She was overjoyed with the gifts lavished upon her by her spouse. In 1991 she became ill & by 2021 she died. Each year her illness was progressively worse. Although she traveled the planet searching no doctor could find a cause of her illness.
She married a narrsissiist.
The moral of the story?
Beware of narrsissiists bearing gifts. Like the Trojan horse a "Foes’ gifts are no gifts". The preceived generosity of the giver may be obscuring more than you bargain for ✌.
The Narcissist is my son. I stopped a long time ago wanting him to be different. I accept this is the way he is. The issue I find now is the way he manipulates others to believe lies and false accusations about me. I have to keep telling myself, If it's lies that he is telling, I know it's lies, why does it matter?
Then I find it's not the lies he tells that bother me, it's when others paint me out as the bad guy. I have found in childhood I was always trying and trying to "fit" somewhere. I found if you were good, you got more recognition. So now as an adult, I exhaust myself to be the "good person" in every situation. So I get majorly upset when someone judges me on something I work so hard towards.
Something I still can't solve though, is why I care so much what others think of me?
I can lie and tell myself in the mirror, "I don't care". However I find that I do.
Thanks Kenny
Was wondering why I kept handing my power over
Sir...how do you beat narcissistic personal disorder FOREVER ? because I work in the same place as him and he also knows my life
PLEASE HELP MR
Sir...how do you beat narcissistic personal disorder FOREVER ? because I work in the same place as him and he also knows my life
PLEASE HELP MR 🙏
Im more aware about only holding myself accountable for my contribution in fallout and I know it’s good, but I’m just angry and sad, I wish I could’ve been better then, idk how I could ever give myself grace
Topics and strategies you talk about should be taking a place in schools. Thanks Kenny for what you are sharing.
what if narc lied and lived double life, so we didn't know what we were dealing with?
You just described me.
Wow.. just wow. Powerful stuff.. thank you.
It’s funny how good God is and His timing. My journey I feel has just begun (3 years in) …. And it his video resonates with me more any has in a long time. It’s time I stop waiting for change and realizing I’m just mad at myself. I’m really really mad at myself….
It doesn’t help I’m still in the battle….. but I can still not give into the chaos. ❤
Thank you!
Mr kenny , thank you so much , in this video I understand you , I accept my self for what it's . I have to grow up and start acting like the person I'm now adult mature woman 👩 live that child behind 😒
Thank you for you honesty , wisdom and clarity 🙏
Now I feel unworthy and unwanted. My ex is definitely a covert narcissist but I can’t shake the feelings of being unloved and unwanted from my son. He was 11 when I divorced. Do u do private counseling?
Yes, I do private virtual 1hr one-on-one sessions. To schedule and read more about it, check out this link: calendly.com/kennyweiss/single-session-350
❤ yep!
Hugs again. I am getting strength form your book too.
Thank you.
You're welcome :)