“Wife Loses 100 Pounds & Then Cheats”
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- Опубликовано: 18 апр 2023
- On this episode of Trappin Anonymous we sit down with a special guest that can represent the story of so many, a loving wife who’s stepped out on her marriage. This story is the roller coaster that ensues when infidelity finds its way into a home.
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She didn't want her husband in the first place, she settled for him because she couldn't get the guy she wanted because of the weight.
Facts
EXACTLY!!!!
Exactly!!
How do you know that ? She may not have even worked at the job she met the dude at when she was 300+ pounds, she could have gotten the job after the fact for all you know, please state where you’re getting your proof or facts.
Fact
Imagine loving your wife unconditionally…through her worse times…and she improved herself only to give her best to another man…what a horrible human being….
Ouch 🎯
I'm sure your mother can say the same, what have you built? Owned? How many kids do you have with child support orders. I'm glad I left yall dusty ass bandits alone 20yrs ago. I'm sure you've done worse yet you're still breathing. She's forgiven and human unlike you
Exactly
Oh that's common with most women
I totally understand how she have felt when it come to losing that amount off weight, but to turn your back on your family is just crazy! I’ve personally experienced being more desired after losing 90lbs. However… it opened my eyes to just how shallow men was and completely turned me off. I personally appreciated the man I was with before my weight loss even more.
"The wise woman builds her house, But the foolish pulls it down with her hands." -Proverbs 14:1 ❤
Bingo!
There’s a lot to unpack in this interview. This woman settled for her husband he wasn’t the it for her he was her backup. With weight loss the men that she was really attracted to started paying her attention and she no longer wanted her husband. This is a real lesson
Exactly
That is crazy
Nah, you can say that for most people. Her options changed, so she changed with them
Fact!!
@@Brookintellectsounds like y’all saying the same thing.
There was a CEO that got rid of people who were cheating with other workers, no matter what... he said, " If your own spouse can't trust you, why should I? "
More companies should do that.
How many legal penalties did that CEO pay?
@@symand3789Zero...but he also said if he had to, he would not care because it was important to cut the cancer out before it spread and killed company morale.
@@symand3789 ever company have some sort of ethics conduct. And fraternization. especially married that’s already adultery
Sounds nice.. until labor relations enters the chat..
It’s called a “morality clause”, and they are more common that you think.
The fact she felt betrayed because her
side dude lied to her is beyond wild 😭
Not really. It because she thought they were in a relationship, and the dude was just smashing. He just played her emotions
@DezGrowSpot no. She admitted she knew what it was, but she lied to herself to not feel wrong.
That's a woman's train of thought for you 😒
That part took me out 😂.
@@DezGrowSpotfacts.
What she failed to realize is her husband loved her while she was at a larger size meaning he loved her unconditionally. The man you attracted after losing weight wouldn't have looked your way. Being desired more by YOUR HUSBAND was the key!
The thing about that is her husband loved what she perceived as the lowest version of herself. When she lost the weight and became the higher version of herself she left him behind with her old self
So let me get this straight….he didn’t emotionally neglect her,he didn’t physically neglect her ,he ain’t emotionally cheat or physically cheat,he wasn’t beating on her ,he was a good man and she chose to cheat on him? Just because she felt fine again? And looked good again??? Please somebody tell me if I heard this correctly because omg that poor man😭😭😭
Believe it or not alot of women think this way
Sounds about right SMH
Woman loves chaos believe me, if you don’t give it to them, especially when you are a guy who is too loving treating her right all the time always available believe me 70% of the time they will cheat on you. Why (familiarity) which deems you monotonous ( boring).
Yeah !! Bc ain’t no way
Not only that she got pregnant and didn’t even know which dude was the dad !! Insane, then aborted the baby … she’s a mess
I’ll share my story with weight loss. I had the sleeve too, I went from 288 to 160. When you go from being a larger woman to a small woman you are treated differently. It’s a mixture of being desirable to the masses and you gaining confidence, dressing better and more. I gained a lot of attention. The difference between her and I is I didn’t let that go to my head. Some people seek attention, love, and validation. I didn’t. I think what made me not get big headed when it came to men was me realizing “this man wouldn’t want the old me, this seem more physical than mental” men I’ve known for YEARS who saw the bigger me didn’t want me. But now that I’m smaller they are all over me. I’m good, I hold grudges and remember the past. Lol attention is a drug…
One thing I realized is revenge is a dish best served cold. Sometimes “get back” will keep you in such a place of protection that nobody can penetrate
I get it!
Because you have Sense!!!!!!
Thank you for sharing!
You are absolutely correct on all your points and it shows your character as a human being to not allow false confidence and conceit to ruin your foundation and principles.
If your husband was your best friend. I’d hate to see how she’d treat her enemy.
🎯 😆😆😆
Exactly
She’s definitely honest. I can respect her honesty
Do you call this “honest??” I don’t know what you’re looking at, but try telling the people she hurt, betrayed and insulted by her actions that she was being “honest.” Disgusting!!
@@lordshango4184I mean yes. Short terms, being honest is telling the truth and accepting accountability for your actions.. good or bad. Thats what she did.
@@dalmeshasloss7765, I don’t know where you see/hear honesty, truth and accountability. I don’t know where you see/hear regret, humility and/or taking responsibility. There’s a huge difference between recounting a wrong you did and genuinely being remorseful, penitent and contrite! You bet she’d still be in that adulterous relationship if she hadn’t been dumped by her equally morally bankrupt paramour!! How you think her untruthful “confession” is a virtue, honesty or accountability makes me wonder where our world is heading! Her only regret was being dumped by the person she cheated with. Think again.
she's promoting a book
She is so self aware and honest. I like that she can admit how wrong she was and express regret.
Right
Regret!!? Where?? This woman is a horrible person.. you can tell she still wishes the relationship worked
Self aware of what
Right
She only have regrets when things didn't go as planned
I got into a relationship with a coworker who was overweight.The other coworkers use to talk crazy about her.She lost weight & turned around & cheated with one of the guys who talked about her.He told me soon as it happened.She said she made a mistake.I just cut her off.
I was dating this plus size girl I was fine with the way I met her, after a month getting to know I found out she had started a weight loss surgery i wasn’t okay with it but I was willing to overlook it, but she started saying things like ooh I can’t wait till I lose of this weight I’m going to this and that, and the final nail in the coffin was when she told me do I know how many men wants to get with her I knew then and there I had to end it
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awww, sorry that happened to you.
You gotta think a lot of big people dealing with internal issues. It’s some that’s extremely happy being big so I don’t wanna say all but yeah a lot of us have adddictive personalities too. We literally wear our addiction on our sleeves.
She’s a fool sorry you had to go through that 🤦🏾♀️
When she said “he couldn’t have married the -130 her,her full delusion was revealed! Girl you crashed out over the 1st man who gawked over you!
Yup 😂😂 it’s sad and sick. Now she fat again
The devil really had a hold on her. My goodness. I’m glad she shared this because it’s a warning to other women. I don’t even have male friends outside of my husband! Don’t hold long convos with guys. None of that. Anyone is capable of what she did so it’s important to keep you guard up and guard yourself/marriage
Correct
Yes! Alot like the Tyler Perry 'Temptation' movie. Glad no one got physically harmed or infected with disease.. i hope her husband finds a partner that truly loves him
The devil didn’t have anything to do with that, she made choices. Those choices bore fruit.
@@ShineGuttalmao 😂
I just recently dropped 40lbs and counting, I’m also in the nursing program.
My man stuck by me when I was 280lbs! I got really sick and he went with me to the hospital. The dr said she’s FAT and need to loose weight.
My hubby cooked for me healthy delicious meals and restored my health. I don’t care about attention. I don’t care about the money I will be making. I will always remember the man that took on me and my two kids from a previous marriage.
Unless he steps out on me, I can never!!
She had love and purposely threw it away. This amount of betrayal is sickening. This man loved her unconditionally and she treated him like trash. She tells the story so nonchalantly because she never truly and equally cared for her ex. Somehow she attempts to make herself the victim of the 'other man'. She's the worst kind of woman.
Kevin Samuels talked about this ad nauseum. That women wreck their own homes exactly like this. And these women are raising out girls and boys because women largely get custody. She's going to indirectly or directly teach her children to likewise be irresponsible with their emotional control.
I noticed that nonchalant attitude during the interview. Gave me the shivers. She's a covert narcissists
I just went through this........ This is the worst kind of woman but she will forever live with the guilt of being trashy. Nothing like a trashy woman no man will ever truly respect her. Shame when this kind of woman is raising a teenage girl showing her these ways and have the new male friend buying the daughter things as well.... sickening but I keep them all in prayer I dont hate her God will deal with her
@@daninwangabia6270straight evil 👿 but honest
@@ian_fordand that's a problem
Him being remarried is the silver lining of this horror story
And the fact that he didn't lost faith in love and marriage ,is incredible
happy for him
He was the catch.
This video sent me into so mamy emotions. This is the type of woman that destroy honest men, then send them back into the world hurt and beaten up mentally and emotionally. No wonder some men have trust issues and are emotionally unavailable. She did her "big one"🙄 with this! Disgusting
Lol girl. Yes shes trash but lets not give men too much chile. We’re not about to blame trash ppl for trash ppl
TELL EM boo
That's why most of us are the way we are.
Girl wtf. Pickmesha men are already screwed up biologically that's nobodys fault
She never cared for that she settled because she felt like that's all she could get
Big credit to her. I hope her story helps others who do not want to ruin their marriage or exclusive relationships they already have. ✌️&Luv
Girl, bye. You weren’t his friend. That is not what friends do to each other. Drop that “he was my best friend” thing.
Damn
It’s sad how so many women are cheering her on..like this is the same behavior that they want to date wt men over lol knowing damn well that they pick aint shhh in the 1st place
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That's her truth!
Sometimes you don't realize a good thing until its gone. When she lost him she realized she lost a good thing, which was her best friend.
This is why you can’t be in a relationship with someone when you’re not happy with yourself no matter how much a person loves you it will never be enough until you love yourself you bleed on people who didn’t cut you. No judgment
Listennnnnnn
Truth! 💯
I was just thinking the same thing!
An absolute fact low-self esteem is a HUGE red flag 🚩 for me 🚫🙅🏾♂️
What are u talking about it was the husband that settled for a 400 pound woman ... her didn't like her ever u see he moved on amd got married .. he didn't want that fat girl lol
Attention seeking is a major addiction & can be detrimental to a person’s life when not handled properly.
The sad thing is, I bet The ex-husband is the one that paid for the surgery
The fact that she said she hated coming home while she had child let alone a husband says alot
Don’t think the child was part of that thought process
She's a woman. DUH!!
@@TrappinAnonymous the child was definitely apart of it. She was neglecting her duties to her man AND child. She literally said she was ready to leave them both.
@@TrappinAnonymousyea that child is definitely in the equation. Due to her selfish desires and wants, her child can’t have both parents in the home on a daily basis.
Facts smh
She NEVER wanted the Man that she had…she took what was available to her😢😢. A man can’t stand up to the cunning and manipulation that’s within a woman
SOOOOO true. After not being a FAT ass she went looking for someone slimmer and better.
That is real. She thought that she was settling the whole time. So when she haf options, she stepped out. Classic, fuck around and find out. She fucked around and found out that she wasn't shit, and her husband is actually the desireable one.
That’s true but I def don’t put up with none of that bs
This is the absolute truth.
@@stupidrules1000👍🏽💯
The fact she grabbed her 1 year old baby just in case he was mad putting her child in harms way and laughed about it shows how bad of a person she is, she spewing out all the hate she felt when she was overweight to other people and only she matter nobody else, wow!
When she said they don’t make them like him no more I felt that. If you have a great person in your life don’t take them for granted. And let no one dupe you out of your blessing of a great marriage. So many of us often take a great thing and ruin it because the very thing we ask for we don’t know how to appreciate it until it’s gone. Salute to great men and women who are out here honoring one another for real. Her story truly is a cautionary tale and I salute her for having the courage to speak her truth. Oh and like she said the grass is greener where you water it!
She said she knew it was real when she got the divorce papers but honestly she knew it was real when her lil boyfriend gave her a reality check. She was honest in the story but it really sounds like she didn’t love her husband until she realized he wasn’t coming back
Nawll the husband had to settle for her and I believe she knew he settled for her a fat lazy women... that got surgery became delusional and is now back fat
I agree . She didn’t value what he brought to the table . She thought he was weak and deep down didn’t think he had the balls to leave . I appreciate her brutal honesty in the interview … as hard as it was to hear .
@@fayeola6616she was disrespectful too she got pregnant by that other man. Meaning it was unprotected sex and if she knew he had a girlfriend then what made her think she was the only one? She could’ve gave him something.
she never loved anyone but herself tbh. she was mad she lost her meal ticket and that no one will care about her and her kid moving forward
@@kmombo8610 Thankyou bro 💯
She talked about how he is a gem of a man and how she was so lucky to have him! He showed her Agape love. Then she says, "But I wasn't being fulfilled in the marriage...smh Im so glad he remarried, and i hope he's getting the unconditional love he deserves!"❤
I’m so happy the ex husband got a happy ending and respected himself! But not only did she cheat on her husband she put another man that didn’t even want her before her CHILD which is so crazy and lame.
She lied, cheated, got divorced, and took his child to another state. A sorry woman.
Damn
@@gyasiwilliams5102
A true case study
I was just saying this!
@@jonathanberry8255 And she showed no remorse
She had to go to a new state because everyone in her own state probably already knew of her, or already had her already. She wouldn’t have been able to date and stay where she was
It wasn't the weight loss to blame it was the mindset. This was the person she always were. She is an addict, similar to drug addicts. It was just dormant. Her first addiction was food then after the surgery it was attention and sex. When you have those surgeries you are supposed to go through therapy too. I guarantee she skipped that part.
I love your comment because it actually explains the root of the issue. Her weight loss only revealed the person that she actually was, not one that was created.
This!!!
Completely missed it.
Great observation
Super facts!
I cringe when I hear people say "work husband" or "work wife." Assigning the title of husband/wife to someone who is NOT your spouse diminishes the title. The sacredness of marriage has changed so much.
Lying and cheating, sneaking around, being deceitful always ends messy & your representation takes a major hit!
Imagine standing by somebody's side at their worst and then watch them humiliates and cheats on you, the moment they got better 😢
“I get to watch him with his new wife and his new life flourish with out me”
I love that for you 🥹❤
I hope and pray that the ex husband has fully healed from this betrayal and is in a loving and caring relationship with a woman that he deserves
In the current relationship climate I highly doubt it. Such degenerate behavior from his big ass wife and he had a child with this loser. A MGTOW lifestyle is the only answer for a man such as himself.
He won’t recover..this is how toxic men are bred….he’s turns toxic and then he brings that toxicity to a woman and the cycle continues.
Unlikely.. people don't forget betrayal. But.. hopefully he's in a better place
yup a dude that lets this happen to him often never recovers. it's a defense mechanism@@kibiego
I think he did. Men heal quicker
Great interview. I can appreciate her honesty and him for not coming off as judgmental like most interviewers.
This is a cautionary tale for couples, married ppl, and folks succeeding on their fitness journeys. Also Its good to hear kindness shown in adversity. Alot of ppl are not this honestly
Crazy that she calls the dating pool trash as if she's not part of the problem. What good man in his right mind would want a single mother who destroyed her marriage to a good man and aborted her child because she was afraid her husband wasn't the father?
Damn😮
Exactly
Good lord! When you read it, it sounds 100 time worse lol.
Exactly and any man that would have trust issues I know I would do why bother
Women NEVER see themselves as the problem. The most toxic chick will tell you that everyone else is toxic and she's the normal one.
Everytime I watch a video, I can’t help but credit how great of an interviewer he is! He’s very strategic with his responses and how he uses his words. I absolutely love it
It’s comments like yours that keep me so focused on my craft. Thank you
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Great minds think alike my sister. This brother should start interviewing more often. There compassion in his questions. No condemnation.🙏🏽🌎🇪🇨
I was thinking the same thing!! He's an excellent interviewer!
I concur! I love how he jumps in and how he asks questions that the audience is thinking about! It’s like watching a movie and the “who did it” scene happens. And he always throws in moral compass questions for the straight laced ppl like myself because I just wanna know why you did something.
Sad...this just brought tears to my eyes.. It take me back to my life as a married man and divorce and all the things that came out
Sorry bro 🙏
Yall need therapy lol
You can tell she is so aware of herself now. Thank you for sharing your story. So many need to hear this!
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she traded a lifetime with a great man who treated her like a queen...for 18 months of being a sidechick...and a jumpoff 😅 i cant with women anymore😂
These women are lost as fuck
I FEEL YA BRO, SO IN OTHER WORDS WHEN A LADY IS BOARD SHE CAN STEP OUT, SHE SAID DUDE WAS EVERTHING BUT SOMTHING WAS MISSING, YOU CAN HAVE 99 GREAT POINTS BUT THAT 1 POINT CAN BE A EXCUSE FOR HER TIPPING OUT..
@@music3n1entbruh, this is universal. It isn’t specific to any gender. Humans are lazy and will take the easy fix. Talk to your mate before the marriage. Learn how to effectively communicate.
100 percent agree. Nonsense
Women Like to be Cuddled Like Wounded Little Birds And Escape all forms of Accountability Then Turn Around And Somehow Make It About Her So Now She's The Victim ? That's Wild My G ! She Had a Man That Treated her So Good even Despite her Obesity Yet She Felt That's The Keyword Felt Undesirable & Bored and Wanted To Spice Things up With a Bum *** Nigga And Turned around and single handedly Wrecked a Happy Home In search for Validation And Adventure Only for Dude To Turn around and Peel Out Like It Ain't Nobody's Bussiness Dude Said Peace And Bounced Now She Is left Alone SMH These Modern Chicks are for The Streets
The co workers are telling you they use to mess with dude and you still cheated says a lot that you were willing to let that man have his way with you
Unfulfilled=Selfishness and narcissistic
That man will never be the same. Regardless how nice he is.
He better learn how to be ruthless
No he will not. He's free.
I think he'll be fine because of who he is love will always find him. The embarrassment and having to see him happy made her relocate.
He will be find because he understands what a lot of people don't...Love is never contingent upon the other person. He loves her still and always will but he also knows that she is not mentally, spiritually, and emotionally ready for love. For too many people love is transactional, a feeling, but real love is energy embodied within the self. People who know love knows I can love you but not be satisfied with your behavior. You can love 1000 people, but accepting the behavior of a 1000 people is different.
@@soppres7406 Love is something a man radiates from himself.
In order for a man to be oblivious to a woman who cheats like she did, could not possibly love himself.
He remarried so quickly because like many individuals like himself he didn't learn the lesson life was trying to teach him...instead he is doing what he is "supposed" to do.
He will either get that same lesson or age out the game.
He is goofy af.
I lost over 100 pounds. I’m very fortunate to have my husband.
He loved me at my heaviest, always made me feel special, and love me the same today.
I love my husband’s soul and spirit.
No amount of weight loss would ever change that.
Keep God at the head of your marriage and in every aspect of your life.
The Lord Will be done in Jesus name! Amen.
Thank you 💞🙏
This is great, I hope you always maintain that thought process
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You better not be lying.
Amen
I hate to say, but he wasn’t your best friend. He was your babysitter, housekeeper and person of convenience for you. Mad props to you for being honest with us about your life story.
This hurt real bad for me. Tired of seeing the "good man" being hurt so deep.
Women by majority are tired of seeing the same happening to the majority of them..
Nice guys finish last
This is so DISTURBING that , fellas if you find out your being stepped out on don’t ask for a explanation just WALK away and don’t look back…
True
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FACTS!!!!!
What do you suggest women do when this happens?
@@gottagetit2943same rule goes for both men and & women
She was crushed... when she found out that he was married... when she was married the entire time.... how the HELL!!!! This is how stupid some people are. She is so unworthy of trust from anybody, bruh. Jesus .H Christ . She was so willing to throw away her family for betrayal.... her man did right and ditched her fam.
What does the H stand for?
@@SoulSearch11110 loooool I don't think it stands for anything. I just use it because it sounds a little funny.
Dude was piping her down 😂😂 she still thinking about it 😂😂😂
Shi sick
Deadass son made her reconsider life
Dude definitely was laying premium pipe. Had her delusional!
I appreciate her honesty. I must say…great story time. I was engaged the whole time. The interviewer asked great questions. 👏🏽 👏🏽👏🏽
She was married and getting ran through. Nothing admirable or fly about it. She has no remorse over her actions
She had the nerve to say the dating pool is garbage. How are you judging people when you are a whole cheater and liar.
You see how calmly she says. He was mine sorry honey He was mine. Very hard to believe that she has moved on from that situation
Thank you!! I said that the whole time, she STILL wants him! In her mind, at least it would have been "worth it".
I was looking for this comment cause I thought same. She still sound delusional
This is one of the best interviews I’ve seen EVER‼️ Almost made me cry. I can see through the pain and how hurt she is as well as regretful. I truly hope she finds someone else to love her. In I truly believe she’s learned her lesson‼️ Keep up the good work BREAKBEAT MEDIA 👍🏽 TRAPPIN ANONYMOUS 👍🏽
Terminated her baby ,means she was NOT using condoms !
If someone isn’t used to getting attention, you definitely don’t wanna be in a relationship with them when they start getting it.
Whew
Okayy mf don’t know how to act lol
Man 💯 real shit
So they f0c7 ninjas
Bingo 👏🏾
The way she felt about the side guy is how women get caught up with a man and do illegal things for them.
Limerence. If you've never heard the term look up the word "limerence". Every teenager starting puberty should be taught about so that they know how to properly navigate those confusing emotions and the illusion.
I was her husband. Not literally of course. But I lived through the horrors of betrayal, the tragedy of my broken family, the loss of time with my son, the shame of having to carry the moniker " Divorced" added to my name for the rest of my life, the sadness of people thinking I was the guilty party in our divorce (Because I refused to talk about what happened), etc, all because my ex felt she needed some "excitement", even though I took care of our family and was supportive of her and her widowed Mum.
Of Course, I had to take a level of accountability though, and I look a hard look into the mirror to see what I could've done better as a husband. This tragedy was a gift though. I divorced her, deepened my relationship with Christ, became red-pilled, travelled across South America, and South East Asia where I ultimately met the love of my life, a precious woman of God who is my best friend, and true helper in every sense of the word. Thank God for Romans 8:28. Thank God for Christ who gives new beginnings. Thank God who gives beauty for ashes.
Wow mehn I'm sorry you had to go through the horrors. (What do you mean by not literally though, at the very start?)
Red pill and passport bro 😎 you won my G
What a wonderful comment. God bless you and your family
@@jessebaseal6577basically saying what she did to her ex is almost exactly what was done to him.
You rose from the ashes and took flight phoenix style🔥. Congratulations to you and may God bless you with more testimonies bro🤝🏾
The level of pride in her voice is crazy!!
I really appreciate his interview style and type of questions he asked, as an interviewer this is an important aspect for the viewers to think critically about her answers - kudos to both, pray for her spirit yalll - life is not easy :(
This interview confirmed everything I've always said about cheating married women: 1. They'll NEVER tell you the whole truth when caught. 2. There's usually more than one sex partner other than the one they are caught with.
If he didn't ask her about other lovers, she would NEVER have mentioned it. Trust me, there's more scandalous details than she let out.
Still I applaud her for taking some measure of responsibility.
i wanna know what the side dude looks like, was he in shape?
Exactly
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@@munix9351 She’s definitely trash
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I’ll share my story. Wife got cancer lost her weight, hair, breast and her mind in the process. Did everything to comfort her in the process. Married for 7 years at the time. She goes through treatment and beats cancer. All of features come back, she gets her health back and becomes the woman she was but better than she was after cancer. She then cheats and i find out but i keep silent. I just said we’re getting a divorce and that she has to leave. I get called all kinds of names, and lashed out upon but she eventually leaves with our two kids. For about 6 months everybody falls in line to the new life apart. About 7-8 months into beating cancer in came back but this time she’s alone. It came back more aggressive and she died in a few months. I got my kids back. Due to us not getting the divorce finalized the army gave my family the life insurance policy. All in all staying calm and true to myself karma came back around with a price. I got everything i wanted (my family) but they lost their mom and I’m torn on that aspect but life is good now. No more drama no more stress.
You kept the covenant. proud.
Cold blooded 😮
God is great and is the best of planners
You cold
@@Mstechgf So it was fine for his wife to cheat on him after he stood by her through her first run of cancer??? We all should act and be right b/c you never know justice/karma will come back knocking on our door.
“Ready to leave your kid” damn
It’s so important not to pedestalize anybody, spouse or no spouse! It’s also important to date while you’re young, so you don’t feel like you’re missing out as you get older 🤷🏿♀️
"Relationships are greener where you water it." Love this.
I just realized she was willing to use their daughter as a human shield if the father snapped and went after her. I’m not saying that was her actual intentions, but when you pick your daughter up just in case, that goes to show how selfish she really is.
Oh it was definitely her intention. She ain't shit and she knows it.
Sick
This was great 👍. Selfiness will destroy a relationship. Don't run, fight for it.
I love how he speaks he is just so real and down to the point but also so respectful. He should legit be a therapist or something. 💯💯💯💯❤️ amazing work 👏 🙌
So… she says she wouldn’t go back because she was unfulfilled then turns around and says she should have fought for her marriage. One of those is a lie. 😂
She was NEVER into her husband. She has the idea of marriage as respect (in the mind) not being necessary.
She regrets what her life turned into.
She only regrets how she feels, not how she treated her ex-husband. Her mentality is that of filth, and I don't feel sorry for any repercussions that she experiences.
Good for her husband, dont allow ppl to treat you any kinda way, hopefully he found someone who respects and honors him, fellas you deserve to be respected!
This is a great interview. You can look at the interview in so many perspectives. Autonomy is so important in a relationship. If anybody hyper focuses on cheating it’s not the highlight of the interview.
I understand what she experienced...she was in a different state of mind believing the boyfriend was gonna be with her forever. She was lost and mentally sick during the affair. Her weight loss made her see herself as desired for the first time in her life. Now she needs lots of therapy! God bless her!
Desired for the first time in her life?...her husband desired her when she was fat, it wasn't the first time she was "desired". Nah when she was fat she settle for the only guy who liked her, she never really desired her husband, the weight loss she started to get attention from guys she couldn't have before....when she lost the weight she finally got the attention of the type guy she desired
And so glad her ex found someone that actually appreciates him and treats him with respect. He did deserve so much more respect and so does his daughter.
The fact that she “cheated” on her side piece too, means she was sleeping on her husband with multiple people. She was playing with that man life. I love that he’s literally playing with her mental but treating her kindly. Many of us don’t realize how strong a person has to be to do that. Strength isn’t the one who can win a fight but the one who knows how to calm and cool their anger.
I respectfully disagree. I'd say pain is the only true teacher for a woman. treating them nicely or holding it all in like a stonewall does nothing but paint a target on the next sucker
@@TheForkOnTheLeftist As she admits to being a selfish person, having to watch him do just fine, or possibly flourish, without her AND in spite of her betrayal…. while she has to wade in the pissy dating pool….. That seems to have gotten her attention!!!!
@@coolerthancj94 I don't favor soft deterrents. I like to know shit will never happen again. That's just me
Women are consequential learners. It's sad that so many women have to literally destroy their lives, including the lives of others in order to finally "see the light" and change. But most of the time, it's already too late. This adulterous woman's story is not unique at all. She's literally just another statistic.
@@coolerthancj94no disrespect but isn’t she a drop in that pissy dating pool?
At least she's telling the truth and helping others along way! I'm glad you learned and pray you find love one day!!❤
I hope everyone learns from her story. She was very open and has a lot of gems of truth. I hope that now she has found another great love to share and beautiful success!!
The difference between love and lust: love lasts a lifetime, and lust lasts 4 a season.
The one thing I do agree with her on is that marriage takes a whole lot of work. This September 8th, my wife and I celebrated 27yrs of marriage and let me tell you, we put in the work and it has been worth it. Till this day we have never cheated on each other. Thank God for that.
Amen!!
Thank you for the example sir
R u sure?
ABSOLUTELY!
Love it ❤️
This was an amazing interview sharing a tone of information publicly.I really enjoyed the candid conversation answered Honestly and the host asking all of the tough and facilitating a judgement free space.
His wife watching this interview like "she fumbled the bag so I caught it"😂🤣 I'm happy that she has accepted and taken accountability.
Wow! She's so selfish that she even considered leaving her baby. I hope she falls in love with someone who does the same thing to her, but worse!
On God I say the same thing she doesn't deserve any marriage for the rest of her life
Why would you want a "selfish" mother to take care of a child? That's how people end up in therapy. The best thing she could have did was allow the father to provide a stable home for the child.
She will leave a miserable life.
Girl. That is called LUST. Nobody falls in love faster than two coworkers already in relationships 🙄People really take their lives as a joke and the lives of others as just a trifle thing.. like nothing to just so easily discard them. It begins in the mind and if anyone wants to leave spouse and children and discard all responsibility, you’ve been duped by the enemy. She needs a deliverance. She is SO full of herself and prideful. Just because folks loose weight don’t mean their heart or soul is also dropping weight that’s necessary. She was obviously not grounded and rooted as a person and certain not in Christ. What a shame man. I feel sorry for her ex husband and child. What a stupid way to throw your life away. This is tragic.
Great way of putting it straight! 💯
@@deonwaller9457 thank you
Yelp! Just an insecure woman that had been fat all of her life and wanted to see what it was to be desired by other men when she lost weight! Now she's on RUclips confessing her stupidity! And still looking overweight!
When you mix sex with emotions and self worth this is what you get. Unfortunately alot of women can not separate sex from emotions.
It's nothing new . Same story then, now and the future
Don't forget people die over these scenarios
Her karma’s gonna be meeting a guy, getting married, having 2-3 babies with him, gaining what women like to call “happy weight” and then feeling like something’s off… she finds out that her husband has gotten another woman pregnant. She then understands that’s she’s 6-7 years older, has 3-4 kids and two baby daddy’s, and she’s now about 4 bills and she realizes that she can’t go anywhere… that’s the karma, man… 🤦🏽♂️
Sad but realest thing is….. we’re only human, we can’t help how we feel, we can’t help who we’re attracted too or what we are, you can love someone for years and bump into someone that you just click with 10x better that you just met and fall in love. Does that mean you should up and leave the person you been with? No but we all deserve the experience and want it to but sadly you have to lose some things that are valuable along the way.
All these comments, and not ONE woman sympathized with the Husband or mentioned him at all. I just hear "she held herself accountable." Now that's crazy! She just had an AMAZING guy. Selfishness is inside and factors makes it materialize, and with her the attention brought hers to the surface.
DOPE page and Interview Sir! DEFINITELY Subscribed.
I agree and I definitely feel it for the husband. It's got me reflecting on how a good person always seems to be attracted to bad!!
Respect. N nobody pity’s men. We know this.
@@TrappinAnonymous Indeed, Salute brotha!
I feel the same way. It seems like the women are more so cheering her for being honest and open. Like that not point at all.
Also did you catch end when she said they co parent but she move to another state with her daughter? I'm sorry, but I am Damm, you cheat on and get to keep my child moving to another state
Not one woman smh
I’m being completely honest when I say, if you listen to her closely she is exemplifying everything that is a covert narcissist… the duality, the deep sense of regret but tied with some sort of ‘rationale’. It’s insane but this gave me a sense of peace to know that these people do get their karma.
I completely agree! She never loved him. She just settled and it was all about her a##!
I agree completely
It is what it is.
You can say that again. I felt cold chills listening to her talk casually about something that gave smother human being sleepless nights
@@alisasmith1951 You can see the delusion of the modern woman.
We can all see she did not deserve him. While she convinced herself he was not enough.
This is the curse of hypergamy.
Excellent interview. He asks all the right questions. Perfect timing. Fully engaged while allowing her to dive in. She is still living that moment.... unapologetically. Tho I understand her 'mind' that led to her actions.... simply trifling.
Brutally honest. Thanks for sharing
This is a perfect picture of The deceitfulness of Sin . Sin will always take you where you don’t want to go , and then keep you longer then you want to stay .
If another man marries you he is a damn fool. I'm glad he's doing great.
This man is an excellent interviewer. I appreciate the unbiased approach and letting her story speak for itself, without inserting his own narrative.
The lady will be alright. Hard lesson learned. I pray she gets stronger, keep living and keep learning. Redemption will come in time.
Nah fax interviewers can definitely take notes he doing his thing he letting her talk
This was a good conversation to listen to, and the fact she was honest.
Both the interviewer and the interviewee did well in speaking about this story😮
I appreciate that
Favorite part of the episode?
Question of do you think he felt betrayed? I didn't take that into consideration. Men love working out with women buy the surgery so swift/massive like you blindsided.
I wanted the interviewer to ask about the baby a bit more. As well as if she still wanted the man. Because both of these thoughts were glaring! I kept waiting for him to ask!
This saddens me because there are women out here begging to be picked like she was by someone who loves them wholesomely for how they already are when they meet them & here she go fucking up for the rest of us 🙄
Sheesh
Or been married to an abusive controlling possessive monster and still willing to be faithful until your daughter dies as a result of the abuse/an accident and a part of you dies. THEN you accept that it has to end...
This 🤦🏽♀️
@@missmaxinethompson7407personal trauma
@missmaxinethompson7407 ........😐 imma pray.... for whomever is going through that...
Dammit man….imagine being a great spouse, loving your spouse unconditionally at their worst, just to be cheated on when you help them get to their best! Her husband said all of the same things this new guy said, the compliments but she didn’t hear it. Tragically I see this on the regular. I’ve seen a friend help his wife beat cancer, help nurse her back to health, help her build her business, & she cheated & left the family for another guy. I had another friend whose wife lost a bunch of weight just to cheat. Cold world!
I've just found your channel and I'm impressed with the quality of your interviews. I enjoy watching because your questions are thought provoking and you allow your guests to fulĺy respond. As for this interview with the young lady being molested its beyond sad I don't feel it's up to me to judge her. I sense a lot of hurt and feel extremely bad hopefully she'll heal and find complete peace. Chris thank you for these thought provoking interviews. Take care of yourself and I wish you much success and growth. Stay mentally healthy because ALL of your productions are deep. Well done Sir! 👍🏾💯🥂
EDIT: It took me so long to type my comment the stories changed this ones 🔥 as well. 😂😍
She’s so blunt and honest in this interview, why not use that bluntness to tell her husband she wasn’t happy…
I was thinking the same thing and I also was in that same situation with my ex I guess the whole thrill of it all and the fact that no one knows makes it so exciting
@@terrystouchphotos438 smh sorry to hear that .. they’ll get what’s coming to them
Her unhappiness 99% chance probably had nothing to do with her husband. It was just her. Time will pass, and she may even drop some more weight, and she'll find she's still not happy. It's such a BS excuse to cheat and then claim it was done because of unhappiness. Happiness and unhappiness are like clouds; they come and go.
She wanted her cake and ice cream too
Women tell everybody expect the person they in a relationship with how they feel