My Son Thought I dumped him in Nigeria and ran away to Europe

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  • @LuvMattazTV
    @LuvMattazTV  3 года назад +3

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    • @queenkanu5933
      @queenkanu5933 3 года назад

      @LuvMattaz TV
      I HAVE VERY SIMILAR EXPERIENCE
      I was about to email you this morning on this matter. I left my kids (9,7,5,4) in Nigeria last year to come to America for my PhD. Now, aside from the talk from people, I have had to deal with the personal feeling of sadness, especially when my husband calls and I see how big my kids have grown without me. Please ma, if I can have a forum to discuss this with you, I will appreciate it so much. No video has blessed me so much more than this. I hope you read this.

    • @LuvMattazTV
      @LuvMattazTV  3 года назад

      Sis, I totally understand how you feel. Please feel free to chat me up on Instagram @luvmattaz_tv ❤❤❤❤

    • @millennialimmigrant2749
      @millennialimmigrant2749 3 года назад

      My sister, as parents we do so much and sacrifice so much for welfare of our kids. I find that a lot of people judge without hearing the true story, empathy is missing so much in our community. Please people let’s learn to be empathetic, listen without judgement. This story was touching.

  • @GistWithOshe
    @GistWithOshe 3 года назад +2

    Am a witness ooo Cyprus family here so true wish pple could see how hard working you are in Cyprus back in the days am so proud of you sis on how far you have gone...yes PLEASE people should stop judging people because really you dont know people story .thank you sis for sharing ❤

  • @folakeomowumi7164
    @folakeomowumi7164 3 года назад +3

    I am seriously crying because I can relate to what your son said I have two kids in Nigeria with my mom but honestly I am so emotional with this your video. I pray one day God will help me.

    • @LuvMattazTV
      @LuvMattazTV  3 года назад

      Amen. God will make it easy for you to bring them to your side 🙏. This is the time you really have to be strong 💪 and not get too emotionally. 🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @ojuolapeayoade3184
    @ojuolapeayoade3184 3 года назад +2

    Hmmmm....I am very happy with this video I wish Nigerians can watch this vividly.i also went through this like 11 years ago when I met my hubby.we got married and he went back to 🇺🇸. But for so many reasons we all know I couldn't join him in the US until after 6yrs of marriage.you can imagine what i went through emotionally especially from people around me. Some will say he has dumped you for nija,all sorts of stuff.that actually made us to have delay in having kids.long story short.we are both in 🇺🇸 now with 2 kids.i just delivered a month ago to another baby my first son is 6yrs.they are both enjoying the privileges and the sacrifices we made.my sister its not easy at all ooo.but now instead of going through what nigerians go through in diaspora in looking for papers he has sacrificed all that and my whole family are now citizen not even green card holder. I praise God for that.

    • @LuvMattazTV
      @LuvMattazTV  3 года назад +2

      Wow! This is your story is so inspirational. Ape ko to jeun, kin je ibaje.
      I thank God for your family 🥰🥰🥰

  • @osineyetemitope5358
    @osineyetemitope5358 3 года назад +5

    Asin they don't no am here In Nigeria have been trying to join my hubby in USA for the past how many years but family and friends are already saying I should talk to my husband to do something about it they've forgotten his not in charge of the embassy but I my faith is so strong and I no my God will make it possible very soon people just judge without knowing what you're going through God bless you my sis for this word of encouragement

    • @LuvMattazTV
      @LuvMattazTV  3 года назад +1

      It is better to ignore them and stay focused my sister. God will make things easy for you sis 🥰🥰🙏🏾

  • @datnaijagirl
    @datnaijagirl 3 года назад +2

    There’s no English to explain that ‘daju’ Its deep🙁
    I feel you. Even me wey no get Children yet, I know how it feels being without your family.
    He will surely appreciate your sacrifice for him

  • @TokunboLatonaTV
    @TokunboLatonaTV 3 года назад +1

    Awww... this is so emotional. I bless God for you dear . People are so quick to judge.

  • @gratefulheart6888
    @gratefulheart6888 3 года назад +5

    Thanks for sharing, very similar to my son’s journey to USA after we both separated for good 8 years, it was long hard road especially for single parent like myself. But at the end, Alihamudulilah👌👏

    • @LuvMattazTV
      @LuvMattazTV  3 года назад

      Wow! Alhamdulliah for your family. It's not an easy journey 🥰

  • @abenasworld
    @abenasworld 3 года назад +2

    Parenting isn't easy. One day our kids will understand our sacrifices. It's not easy oo my dear but He's ever faithful

  • @olahairessenceandlifestyle9461
    @olahairessenceandlifestyle9461 3 года назад +3

    That’s the sacrifice we make as parents. One of my friends just got a job in the UK and she has to leave her 2months old son as well. As a doctor she couldn’t get a good job in Nigeria because she no get connection and got a really good job in the UK so why should she stay back. People will judge you in whatever you do, if the kids are not well taken care of they will say “why them born pikin when they know say them no fit take care of them” May God continue to empower all parents that are striving for the best 🙏

    • @LuvMattazTV
      @LuvMattazTV  3 года назад

      Hmmm! I honestly understand the mum, am sure the child will grow up to thank her to the decision.
      Thank u so much sis 💓.

  • @gokelovefeji1651
    @gokelovefeji1651 3 года назад

    I pray God let this good woman channel must continue to grow and will continue to touch life.

    • @LuvMattazTV
      @LuvMattazTV  3 года назад

      Amen 🙏. Thank you so much 💓

  • @rsmith1820
    @rsmith1820 3 года назад +1

    The strongest tree endures heavy rains, harsh winds that bend but do not break them. They continue to grow through freezing cold & brutal heat.
    People use them for shade & often don't appreciate the beauty of the tree.
    THAT describes you & your family. A 2 yr old cannot possibly understand but when he is older...maybe a parent to his own kids, he will remember the sacrifice you had to make to give him a better life.
    Parents TEACH not just with words
    But with deeds
    And all those negative people trying to judge you are unhappy in their own lives.
    Human beings are NOT & can NEVER BE your judge!
    I am So glad to be back Sis. Was sick for a while. Your channel is so positive that it's helping me feel better!!!

    • @LuvMattazTV
      @LuvMattazTV  3 года назад

      Omg, so sorry to hear that you've been ill 🤒, I am so happy that you are much better now. I was wondering if you were ok but I thought maybe life got busy.
      Thank you so very much.
      You are welcome back 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @queenkanu5933
    @queenkanu5933 3 года назад +3

    I wish I could like this video a million times...I am currently experiencing the same thing

    • @LuvMattazTV
      @LuvMattazTV  3 года назад

      Thank you so much 💓 💗 💛

    • @gokelovefeji1651
      @gokelovefeji1651 3 года назад +1

      Oh this is so sweet......wow it got to my heart.

  • @OverflowingDivineGraceministry
    @OverflowingDivineGraceministry 3 года назад

    Wow, great testimony. You are very correct, it's not good to judge because alot of people are passing through alot of things that no one knows. I am new here but I enjoyed watching. You are looking beautiful. Thanks for sharing

  • @UjuJustina
    @UjuJustina 3 года назад +1

    my sister people like to judge other people without knowing what was happening, i am so happy for you and your family

    • @LuvMattazTV
      @LuvMattazTV  3 года назад +1

      Thank you so much sis 💓.

  • @imongwaniipindiid-korttiso6726
    @imongwaniipindiid-korttiso6726 3 года назад +2

    Miss or Queen S. RembekaRebekka
    I love the title 💚🖤
    💝💙💛🖤
    You have speak up for many Africans who have experienced same separation with your kids, with their kids

  • @dr.zeedams
    @dr.zeedams 3 года назад +1

    Wow this video is really emotional. I can't imagine what you must have gone through. Alhamdulillah for everything.

    • @LuvMattazTV
      @LuvMattazTV  3 года назад

      Alhamdulliah o my sister 🙏🏾🥰🥰🥰

  • @Fantasticchioma
    @Fantasticchioma 3 года назад +1

    Awww sis am so emotional about this , God bless all mother's in the world, I love you sis, don't worry God will be your strength.

    • @queenkanu5933
      @queenkanu5933 3 года назад

      MOMTASTIC TV Thank you so much ma🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
      I really appreciate your kind words❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @LuvMattazTV
      @LuvMattazTV  3 года назад

      Thank you so much sis 💓.

  • @onaolapooluwatosin9717
    @onaolapooluwatosin9717 3 года назад

    I wanted to cry when am watching this.

  • @aniesplatter5979
    @aniesplatter5979 3 года назад +2

    Greetings Hannot from 🇩🇰 already smashed the thumb👍🏾😉🙏🏾
    My dear, very small Children under the age of five, are still completely reliant on their family unit for relationships, trust and social/emotional stability. Moving a child at this age won’t usually cause any significant difficulties as they haven’t learned to ‘be their own person’ yet. But Skype or Facetime calls can help and the child will adjust very quickly to the new circumstances. Peace and love 💘 ✌🏾✨

    • @LuvMattazTV
      @LuvMattazTV  3 года назад

      You very correct Anie 👏 🥰🥰🥰🥰

    • @LuvMattazTV
      @LuvMattazTV  3 года назад

      Thanks for the thumb 👍 🥰🥰

  • @lifeofabisola5142
    @lifeofabisola5142 3 года назад +1

    Some people have the habit of making such comment...God bless all Parents

  • @kamalaremu5897
    @kamalaremu5897 3 года назад +2

    Many people don't understand about traveling or travel experience

    • @LuvMattazTV
      @LuvMattazTV  3 года назад +3

      Exactly, I only wish they can politely ask to be enlightened or shut up instead of judging people. 😔😔

    • @EmmaAA-jn8xm
      @EmmaAA-jn8xm 3 года назад

      Very true when they travel, they’ll understand.

  • @yemmysspacetv9744
    @yemmysspacetv9744 3 года назад

    This really so emotional hmmmm I isn't easy ooo. Alhamdulilah Robil Al Ameen ope lopada jasi🤲🤲🤲

  • @sadiqhammed1094
    @sadiqhammed1094 3 года назад

    Mummy Amirah, that is people for you, when you left your son in Nigeria looking for greener pastures people were saying rubbish as if you don't know what you are doing but I thank God for you and your husband.
    Allah is your strength

    • @LuvMattazTV
      @LuvMattazTV  3 года назад

      Yes oo. Alhamdulliah for everything 🙏🏾

  • @yemmysspacetv9744
    @yemmysspacetv9744 3 года назад

    Omo is not easy at all oo🤔🤔 so you left that handsome Al Ameen when he was nine months and at the same time Alhaja is very supportive mum 😘😘😘😘

    • @LuvMattazTV
      @LuvMattazTV  3 года назад

      Yes ooo, but we bless God today 🙏 🥰

  • @adejokeoluwakemi2533
    @adejokeoluwakemi2533 2 года назад

    This is my situation right now, I have been calling unbearable different names from people 😭

    • @LuvMattazTV
      @LuvMattazTV  2 года назад

      Don't worry sis. You will be congratulated soon by God's grace 🙏🏾.

  • @usytmaryam6920
    @usytmaryam6920 3 года назад

    I felt for you sister, that motherhood.

    • @LuvMattazTV
      @LuvMattazTV  3 года назад +1

      Yes o, motherhood comes with lot of challenges 😴

  • @jokie400
    @jokie400 3 года назад

    Aww what an inspiring story Sis. One will never know you guys went through all these😢 It was truly a huge sacrifice and I pray Allah will continue to crown you & hubby’s sacrifices/efforts with immense success and bless you abundantly amen! You will both live long to reap the fruit of your labour amen!! amen ya Rab🙏🏼🙏🏼 P.S. You are glowing Sis🤩🥰

    • @LuvMattazTV
      @LuvMattazTV  3 года назад

      Allahuma amin 🙏🏾. Thank you so much sis 💓.

  • @karizaksimpletv9304
    @karizaksimpletv9304 3 года назад

    Haa daddy na ti sa lo 😀 my sister Only God knows what his good for us is not easy long distance marriage everything happens for a reason thanks for the advice sis I understand you better

  • @africanmoonlightales
    @africanmoonlightales 3 года назад +1

    Thanks for the inspiration❤

  • @MaJEmmieGoldTV
    @MaJEmmieGoldTV 3 года назад +1

    This Video is so Emotional, I don't usually comment but I had to
    I am in Similar situations, left my First son when he was 3, he is now 8,Have been trying to bring him over for the past 2 years ( People keep saying rubbish)
    Daddy o sa lo ooo 😭

    • @LuvMattazTV
      @LuvMattazTV  3 года назад

      I feel you sis. I pray God will make the whole process easy and smooth 🙏 🥰🥰

  • @salome8043
    @salome8043 3 года назад

    Yes ooo!!! it's by the glory of God oo, travelling out of naija @times can be so hectic 🤦‍♀️, I cld imagine 🤔how u both felt when he said daddy nor ti salo, it's for the betterment of u all, well done sis.

  • @omoletemitopekikelomo6425
    @omoletemitopekikelomo6425 3 года назад +1

    You are a strong woman 💕

  • @olufunmiapalara5296
    @olufunmiapalara5296 3 года назад

    Mum Aamirah, my own 6yrs old daughter is questioning her mum that why did my daddy left us, its not easy oh. Its not only mothers that have emotional breakdown, fathers just always do the man thing and hide behind "I am a man" ni o. Because we dont cry dont mean we dont feel pains too. Not easy at all. Weldone ma, its all green now, the sacrifices all worth it. 😇

    • @LuvMattazTV
      @LuvMattazTV  3 года назад

      I understand you my brother. I pray God will reunite you and your family happily very soon 🙏

  • @daddams100
    @daddams100 3 года назад

    Yes, it's hard when parents are separated from their children.

    • @LuvMattazTV
      @LuvMattazTV  3 года назад +1

      It is really a tough time 😔
      😍🥰🥰

  • @monisolaadekanbi469
    @monisolaadekanbi469 3 года назад +1

    I'm experiencing same thing as well my Sis ,Trump is making it difficult to be granted visa because i have tried inviting my family but i trust God that soon we see in joy here in Jesus name.

    • @LuvMattazTV
      @LuvMattazTV  3 года назад

      It will all end in praise by God's grace 🙏

  • @germannaijatv1144
    @germannaijatv1144 3 года назад

    Obudo oyinbo no easy ooh make God help us I know what I went through before come to Germany 👍🏽

    • @LuvMattazTV
      @LuvMattazTV  3 года назад

      I pray God makes it easy for us

  • @ujspacetv1334
    @ujspacetv1334 3 года назад

    It is well sis.who are you to judge.all is for children future

  • @megaimienoho7443
    @megaimienoho7443 3 года назад +1

    I love your video so much 😍 😍 😍 😍 😍 😍

  • @Cherish_folktale1
    @Cherish_folktale1 3 года назад +1

    thanks for sharing my daughter said something similar too but i will work on how to bring her soon God's willing

  • @queenbiiiy
    @queenbiiiy 3 года назад

    True talk!

  • @imongwaniipindiid-korttiso6726
    @imongwaniipindiid-korttiso6726 3 года назад +1

    I love the title 💚🖤
    💝💙💛🖤
    You have speak up for many Africans who have experienced same separation with your kids

    • @stellaisichei5050
      @stellaisichei5050 3 года назад

      What a huge sacrifice and well spoken. Thanks for sharing,God bless you and your family!

    • @LuvMattazTV
      @LuvMattazTV  3 года назад

      Thank you so much 💓 💗 💛

  • @BECKYSCORNER101
    @BECKYSCORNER101 3 года назад

    Awww 😭😭😭

    • @BECKYSCORNER101
      @BECKYSCORNER101 3 года назад

      Am sure he'll watch this video one-day and thank you both. Such an interesting one

    • @LuvMattazTV
      @LuvMattazTV  3 года назад

      Yes oo, by God's grace 😍😍🥰

  • @karizaksimpletv9304
    @karizaksimpletv9304 3 года назад

    Maa Shaa Allah sis you are blinking o and the background 👍 let me continue watching

  • @yemioyebade5365
    @yemioyebade5365 3 года назад

    Awww, Hannot, i remember those days, You are indeed a strong woman🥰🥰🥰😍

    • @LuvMattazTV
      @LuvMattazTV  3 года назад

      Thank you jare my sister 😘

  • @dicksondonner4403
    @dicksondonner4403 3 года назад

    Oh no

  • @priscanzekwe5239
    @priscanzekwe5239 3 года назад

    Chaii I feel you my sister, motherhood no joke