4 Behaviours That Can Ruin Your Relationship | Kingsley Okonkwo

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  • Опубликовано: 30 ноя 2024

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  • @ZoeChristianCenter
    @ZoeChristianCenter 4 месяца назад +115

    1. Lack of responsibility
    2. Lack of responsiveness
    3. Lack of restrain
    4. Lack of resolved issues

  • @orevaogheneireneatanya3068
    @orevaogheneireneatanya3068 4 месяца назад +55

    Next topic suggestion - 5 Behavioural Traits that Will Bless Your Marriage.

  • @deborahbabatunde8008
    @deborahbabatunde8008 3 месяца назад +17

    Going through the CS, you will read more comments from women. Women are always the ones seeking knowledge, trying to fix their relationships, but it takes two to tango, it takes equal commitment from the man and the woman for the relationship to work. It's draining for only one person to be seeking answers when the other person is not ready to put in the work.

    • @bobbyeweka2541
      @bobbyeweka2541 3 месяца назад +3

      True words ma no one really teaches the men to be husband materials that's why I am very intentional about learning

    • @thegreenerland9618
      @thegreenerland9618 3 месяца назад +1

      @@bobbyeweka2541oh God I want a man like you

  • @preciouschidubemnwaogu2446
    @preciouschidubemnwaogu2446 4 месяца назад +60

    Pastor K, kindly do a video on 'major turn offs for women in relationships', do it for men too. God bless you.

  • @dkingsmanleatherspa1662
    @dkingsmanleatherspa1662 4 месяца назад +18

    You're one of the best marriage and relationship expert..thank you sir for letting us know these 🙏🙏

    • @alasiayomide322
      @alasiayomide322 4 месяца назад

      @@dkingsmanleatherspa1662 💯💯💯

  • @maduabuchiprecious5365
    @maduabuchiprecious5365 Месяц назад +1

    Pastor k please do a video on how to handle conflicts in a relationship

  • @olivianabunya
    @olivianabunya 4 месяца назад +5

    Glad I found this amazing man of God🙏such a blessing

  • @ibitamunoisaac-edward5412
    @ibitamunoisaac-edward5412 4 месяца назад +7

    A bid for connection is so crucial📌

  • @twindaphine23
    @twindaphine23 4 месяца назад +38

    "Asking, have u eaten? You are already in a relationship😂"
    Thank you online daddy❤❤

  • @brigittebabel2856
    @brigittebabel2856 4 месяца назад +15

    Pastor K, you and your wife all ways blessed me and my husband with your counseling. When you are coming to the Netherlands?

  • @kingdomwonderminds
    @kingdomwonderminds 4 месяца назад +18

    Please, Pastor, can you give us something on Respect towards women in relationships? I'd love to have your perspective on this, please. I have the impression that people use the "men need respect and women need love" to disrespect women. It is very very very annoying!

  • @ayodeledada8801
    @ayodeledada8801 4 месяца назад +3

    Thanks Sir for this!!
    I remember the research you cited. I think they said you need 5 positive interactions to wipe out one negative one. The negative ones are more memorable and it takes a lot more to counter balance them.

  • @MichealTg-lq9qk
    @MichealTg-lq9qk 4 месяца назад +4

    I believe God for all that knowledge to act in my life

  • @VernaMarrero-t3m
    @VernaMarrero-t3m 2 месяца назад

    You explain things so clearly and effectively!

  • @oluseyitifase1853
    @oluseyitifase1853 4 месяца назад +2

    Thank you for this, Pastor K.
    God bless you.

  • @wittylens909
    @wittylens909 4 месяца назад +3

    Very spot on! EVERY SINGLE POINT IS TRUE!!!

  • @thegreenerland9618
    @thegreenerland9618 3 месяца назад +4

    That lack of responsiveness was the issue I had with my ex but I couldn’t put it in the right words. Whenever he asked me why I am feeling down, I will say ‘he doesn’t treat me well’😂 And then he will ask me how don’t I treat you well and then we get into an argument. He made me feel so irrelevant 😢

  • @ernestinagawu904
    @ernestinagawu904 4 месяца назад +3

    Thank you Pastor K. God bless you

  • @irened.a.
    @irened.a. 4 месяца назад +3

    God bless you richly Pastor K

  • @CarmenD822
    @CarmenD822 4 месяца назад +3

    God bless you Pst. Kingsley ❤️🙏🏼
    Thank you very much

  • @alukojennifer3945
    @alukojennifer3945 4 месяца назад +1

    thank you so much pastor kingsley. God bless you.

  • @JoyOmoro-gg2xr
    @JoyOmoro-gg2xr 3 месяца назад

    Thank you sir. I'm grateful. God bless you sir.

  • @sarahbaks
    @sarahbaks 4 месяца назад +4

    Wow. Great lesson Pastor K. Thank you 🙏

  • @ChidinmaCatherineNjorbuenwu
    @ChidinmaCatherineNjorbuenwu 3 месяца назад

    Thanks dady. God bless you.

  • @eseonome01
    @eseonome01 4 месяца назад +9

    Indeed sir!! "Have you eaten" is a sign of a relationship 😅😅😅

  • @chidinmaadaezeozuzu1895
    @chidinmaadaezeozuzu1895 4 месяца назад +1

    Thank you sir, God bless you.

  • @olamijiadenuga8813
    @olamijiadenuga8813 3 месяца назад

    Thanks for this message Sir. God bless you continuously in Jesus Christ name amen 💕

  • @emekaanorue3669
    @emekaanorue3669 4 месяца назад +1

    I totally agree with Pastor K

  • @ihembeisaac3755
    @ihembeisaac3755 4 месяца назад +4

    Doing great sir. More Grace

  • @GiftJeffrey-n2s
    @GiftJeffrey-n2s 3 месяца назад

    Thank you Pastor K

  • @lydielove530
    @lydielove530 4 месяца назад +2

    The coaching is working for me 😊

  • @shelay
    @shelay 3 месяца назад

    Thank you so much for this. Beautifully put ❤

  • @amakaphilip6049
    @amakaphilip6049 3 месяца назад +1

    Please pastor, talk about couples sleeping in separate bedroom even when the other doesn't want to

  • @eyelineeyeclinic1527
    @eyelineeyeclinic1527 4 месяца назад

    Powerful Message as Always. God bless you and your wife.

  • @Uchi698
    @Uchi698 4 месяца назад +3

    Thank you sir

  • @Cleaning_boss
    @Cleaning_boss 3 месяца назад

    God bless you sir

  • @sedimbida603
    @sedimbida603 4 месяца назад +1

    This video really blessed me!

  • @PIPI-LOVE
    @PIPI-LOVE 4 месяца назад +1

    Beautiful points Sir 👏

  • @gloryenoh4192
    @gloryenoh4192 4 месяца назад +1

    Thanks for the insight sir. What will you advice for a couple who has been married for years with grown up children and still having unresolved quarrel?

  • @FormidableMindWithNK
    @FormidableMindWithNK 4 месяца назад +1

    🥰🥰So enlightening! To make things work requires the efforts of both parties. You can't make the relationship work on your own.

  • @akamaagnes7254
    @akamaagnes7254 4 месяца назад +2

    Thank you sir🎉

  • @RitaDSouza-lw5gp
    @RitaDSouza-lw5gp 3 месяца назад +1

    It's is becouse of God Will to be United all in all

  • @Sleemsteri
    @Sleemsteri 4 месяца назад

    Very powerful pastor K

  • @oluwaseyiomotosho3386
    @oluwaseyiomotosho3386 4 месяца назад +1

    Lots of gems shared! God bless you Pastor Kingsley

  • @alasiayomide322
    @alasiayomide322 4 месяца назад +2

    This is very correct 📝💯

  • @veraibitoye2511
    @veraibitoye2511 4 месяца назад

    I love this, thank you sir!

  • @innodavidson4497
    @innodavidson4497 4 месяца назад +1

    Many thanks for the valuable insights. Given these intricacies, isn't it crucial that more time and resources be devoted to human development as a whole from infancy to young adulthood? Some of us in the hard sciences and engineering have little clue on human psychology 😂😂😂, with tough life outcomes. 😅😅😅

  • @margaretlebbie67
    @margaretlebbie67 4 месяца назад

    Thank you for the words of wisdom 🙏.

  • @olatinwotimileyin3874
    @olatinwotimileyin3874 4 месяца назад

    I love the backdrop!

  • @raymondonyekachiudo3645
    @raymondonyekachiudo3645 4 месяца назад

    This is apt, thank you sir

  • @phenomenalyuzed
    @phenomenalyuzed 3 месяца назад +2

    God help me😢. When I'm angry I get very ugly with words. My husband is tired already

    • @AshuLum
      @AshuLum 2 месяца назад +1

      Pray for ur decision to change and start working on u

  • @danyocharles1949
    @danyocharles1949 3 месяца назад

    Thank greatness

  • @MsEkuaa
    @MsEkuaa 4 месяца назад +1

    Mind the Gap!👏🏻👍

  • @olatunjioluwabukolaabigael2804
    @olatunjioluwabukolaabigael2804 4 месяца назад +1

    How about in a relationship where the two partners aren't agreeing on certain thing. Like the guy not wanting to go to the registry while the lady wants to go what can be done

  • @AdaobiPriscilia
    @AdaobiPriscilia 3 месяца назад

    When someone isn't ready to resolve a particular problem and doesn't like talking about it..what does it tell you sir?

  • @OgochukwuKanu
    @OgochukwuKanu 3 месяца назад

    What is the difference between making love and having sex...I'm asking honestly please

  • @PrinceChilight
    @PrinceChilight 20 дней назад

    I am seeking contact for the academy, training the trainers...

  • @prettydiana1101
    @prettydiana1101 3 месяца назад

    Please I want to teach online based on relationships
    Can I get a training?

  • @AntoinetteGadegbekou
    @AntoinetteGadegbekou 7 дней назад

    Daddy please what is the difference between having sex and making love?

  • @emeritusbentagoeson4079
    @emeritusbentagoeson4079 3 месяца назад

    My man is a pastor and I'm not getting him anymore. What do I do please

  • @Slashdesigns-oy7ko
    @Slashdesigns-oy7ko 3 месяца назад

    Good evening sir,
    About lack of responsiveness, my ex broke up with me exactly one year ago....but he kept on reaching out to me, despite telling me that he has someone else, he always reach out to me to share his success and failures as when we were together...he still wants that friendship relationship.i told him several times that it can't work cause I still love him but the situation at hand is hurting me....and whenever i warned him to stay off limit from me, he always feels bad and he verbally told me that he won't leave me,that am the most precious gift he ever had.....
    I need help...
    Note,he is not violent or possessive

    • @judithamarachi7484
      @judithamarachi7484 2 месяца назад +2

      Haaaaa😂😂😂 ,please run oooo keep a distance precious gift or not
      Let the preciousness be from a distance 😅

    • @nelliekamwendo705
      @nelliekamwendo705 18 дней назад

      Run like Joseph, sister ..RUN😂

  • @anthonette_light
    @anthonette_light 4 месяца назад +2

    Wondering if you're in a relationship with someone? If they ask you "Have you eaten?", that’s the sign. You're definitely in a relationship 😂😂😅

  • @olayemisanmi-olamide63
    @olayemisanmi-olamide63 4 месяца назад +1

    #mindthegap

  • @Relationship44
    @Relationship44 3 месяца назад

    How do I join your online class for relationships,,,

  • @jesskant_
    @jesskant_ 2 месяца назад

    please how can I book a session with you sir? is there an email where I can reach out?

    • @ChisomOkolie12
      @ChisomOkolie12 2 месяца назад

      14:41 The phone number is here.

    • @jesskant_
      @jesskant_ 2 месяца назад

      @@ChisomOkolie12thank you Chisom🤍

  • @Akstories5
    @Akstories5 4 месяца назад +12

    Once you ask have you eated, you are in a relationship 😂😂😂

  • @solangekongolo2187
    @solangekongolo2187 3 месяца назад

    I noticed some weaknesses in my husband's life but we got married anyway.nomatter what happens today I am responsible.I am already in it no matter how I feel.I will continue trying to adjust.

  • @FrankAmaizu
    @FrankAmaizu 3 месяца назад

    Have you eaten?....
    You are in a relationship. 😅😅😅
    Omoh PK.😂

  • @EG-hh6zz
    @EG-hh6zz 3 месяца назад

    men if you can access her without money she’s your level
    but if it takes money to access her you are replaceable
    if you couldn’t access her without money
    chances are any man with money can access her

  • @ashangwagodwill6349
    @ashangwagodwill6349 4 месяца назад +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @debbiedora4877
    @debbiedora4877 3 месяца назад

    Have eaten 😂means you are in a relationship 😂

  • @jeriothkyerewaanyarko9041
    @jeriothkyerewaanyarko9041 4 месяца назад +1

    Lack of responsiveness🥲

  • @nwankwochristopher7446
    @nwankwochristopher7446 4 месяца назад +1

    Thanks for this piece...

  • @Favor-rk4tp
    @Favor-rk4tp 4 месяца назад

    Thank you 🎉

  • @AdaobiPriscilia
    @AdaobiPriscilia 3 месяца назад

    When someone isn't ready to resolve a particular problem and doesn't like talking about it..what does it tell you sir?

  • @lifeofportia5594
    @lifeofportia5594 3 месяца назад +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @awilliams382
    @awilliams382 2 месяца назад

    ❤❤❤

  • @adepejuadebambo6912
    @adepejuadebambo6912 4 месяца назад +1

    Thank you so much sir

  • @rachelowhonda2913
    @rachelowhonda2913 4 месяца назад

    Thank you sir

  • @giftyfrimpomaa1180
    @giftyfrimpomaa1180 4 месяца назад

    Thank you sir😊

  • @aohio7186
    @aohio7186 4 месяца назад

    Thank you sir.

  • @emmanuelogbe6809
    @emmanuelogbe6809 4 месяца назад

    Thank you sir.

  • @boluwatifeajiboye4370
    @boluwatifeajiboye4370 3 месяца назад

    Thank you sir

  • @SylvesterNdidi
    @SylvesterNdidi 3 месяца назад

    Thank you sir