4 Behaviours That Can Ruin Your Relationship | Kingsley Okonkwo

Maintaining a healthy relationship takes effort, understanding, and mutual respect. However, certain behaviors can undermine even the strongest partnerships. In this video, we explore four common behaviors that can damage relationships and offer insights on how to avoid them.
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[@ZoeChristianCenter]

1. Lack of responsibility
2. Lack of responsiveness
3. Lack of restrain
4. Lack of resolved issues

[@caramelkisses8396]

Bless you ❤

[@orevaogheneireneatanya3068]

Next topic suggestion - 5 Behavioural Traits that Will Bless Your Marriage.

[@ChibuezeAkachukwu-i2n]

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[@preciouschidubemnwaogu2446]

Pastor K, kindly do a video on 'major turn offs for women in relationships', do it for men too. God bless you.

[@Goodyoma]

He has talked about that ,go through all the videos he did with his wife,you will find it. The topic sounds like "what men and women don't like"

[@elishashappinesscampaign1597]

I agree sure we need it

[@elishashappinesscampaign1597]

I agree sure we need it

[@okorovivian888]

Sure

[@ndubuisistellauzoamaka4445]

It is done already, check his videos, there are numerous of them 😅

[@dkingsmanleatherspa1662]

You're one of the best marriage and relationship expert..thank you sir for letting us know these 🙏🙏

[@alasiayomide322]

@@dkingsmanleatherspa1662 💯💯💯

[@ibitamunoisaac-edward5412]

A bid for connection is so crucial📌

[@twindaphine23]

"Asking, have u eaten? You are already in a relationship😂"
Thank you online daddy❤❤

[@alasiayomide322]

@@twindaphine23 honestly 💯

[@samuelekanem38]

😂😂😂

[@ayodeledada8801]

Thanks Sir for this!!
I remember the research you cited. I think they said you need 5 positive interactions to wipe out one negative one. The negative ones are more memorable and it takes a lot more to counter balance them.

[@MichealTg-lq9qk]

I believe God for all that knowledge to act in my life

[@olivianabunya]

Glad I found this amazing man of God🙏such a blessing

[@brigittebabel2856]

Pastor K, you and your wife all ways blessed me and my husband with your counseling. When you are coming to the Netherlands?

[@maduabuchiprecious5365]

Pastor k please do a video on how to handle conflicts in a relationship

[@deborahbabatunde8008]

Going through the CS, you will read more comments from women. Women are always the ones seeking knowledge, trying to fix their relationships, but it takes two to tango, it takes equal commitment from the man and the woman for the relationship to work. It's draining for only one person to be seeking answers when the other person is not ready to put in the work.

[@bobbyeweka2541]

True words ma no one really teaches the men to be husband materials that's why I am very intentional about learning

[@thegreenerland9618]

@@bobbyeweka2541oh God I want a man like you

[@godywonder]

I think a lot of ladies are actually defensive when it comes to matters like this.
I have been fought for recommending messages like this.

[@eseonome01]

Indeed sir!! "Have you eaten" is a sign of a relationship 😅😅😅

[@sandrawinniethembo]

This one finished me 😂😂😂

[@thandiweruthgwashira9032]

Thank you Pastor Kingsley..::l look forward to getting married next year.. I really don’t wish to marry wrong since l want a relationship that will last forever

[@kingdomwonderminds]

Please, Pastor, can you give us something on Respect towards women in relationships? I'd love to have your perspective on this, please. I have the impression that people use the "men need respect and women need love" to disrespect women. It is very very very annoying!

[@wittylens909]

Very spot on! EVERY SINGLE POINT IS TRUE!!!

[@thegreenerland9618]

That lack of responsiveness was the issue I had with my ex but I couldn’t put it in the right words. Whenever he asked me why I am feeling down, I will say ‘he doesn’t treat me well’😂 And then he will ask me how don’t I treat you well and then we get into an argument. He made me feel so irrelevant 😢

[@oluseyitifase1853]

Thank you for this, Pastor K.
God bless you.

[@irened.a.]

God bless you richly Pastor K

[@sarahbaks]

Wow. Great lesson Pastor K. Thank you 🙏

[@ernestinagawu904]

Thank you Pastor K. God bless you

[@amakaphilip6049]

Please pastor, talk about couples sleeping in separate bedroom even when the other doesn't want to

[@NanakhorCarnage-sq9ri]

Pastor k please do a video about your partner talking with the opposite gender that isn’t their work partner or family, especially when there’s an attraction between the gender to your partner

[@CarmenD822]

God bless you Pst. Kingsley ❤️🙏🏼
Thank you very much

[@alukojennifer3945]

thank you so much pastor kingsley. God bless you.

[@ihembeisaac3755]

Doing great sir. More Grace

[@VernaMarrero-t3m]

You explain things so clearly and effectively!

[@emekaanorue3669]

I totally agree with Pastor K

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The coaching is working for me 😊

[@olamijiadenuga8813]

Thanks for this message Sir. God bless you continuously in Jesus Christ name amen 💕

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Thanks dady. God bless you.

[@chidinmaadaezeozuzu1895]

Thank you sir, God bless you.

[@yourmindisformidable]

🥰🥰So enlightening! To make things work requires the efforts of both parties. You can't make the relationship work on your own.

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Powerful Message as Always. God bless you and your wife.

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Thank you sir. I'm grateful. God bless you sir.

[@Esther-vr8fc]

Always a blessing
Thank you

[@innodavidson4497]

Many thanks for the valuable insights. Given these intricacies, isn't it crucial that more time and resources be devoted to human development as a whole from infancy to young adulthood? Some of us in the hard sciences and engineering have little clue on human psychology 😂😂😂, with tough life outcomes. 😅😅😅

[@shelay]

Thank you so much for this. Beautifully put ❤

[@GiftJeffrey-n2s]

Thank you Pastor K

[@Uchi698]

Thank you sir

[@Cleaning_boss]

God bless you sir

[@gloryenoh4192]

Thanks for the insight sir. What will you advice for a couple who has been married for years with grown up children and still having unresolved quarrel?

[@sedimbida603]

This video really blessed me!

[@Sleemsteri]

Very powerful pastor K

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This is very correct 📝💯

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I love the backdrop!

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Thank you sir🎉

[@PIPI-LOVE]

Beautiful points Sir 👏

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It's is becouse of God Will to be United all in all

[@margaretlebbie67]

Thank you for the words of wisdom 🙏.

[@veraibitoye2511]

I love this, thank you sir!

[@oluwaseyiomotosho3386]

Lots of gems shared! God bless you Pastor Kingsley

[@mar2ieu]

Thank you for this knowledge sir.. this is my question
In response to responsiveness point number 2….What of if your partner is in need of a thing and currently you not capable of getting that due to over a low income or you saving trying to achieve a goal, then how will you response to that sir

[@raymondonyekachiudo3645]

This is apt, thank you sir

[@MsEkuaan]

Mind the Gap!👏🏻👍

[@danyocharles1949]

Thank greatness

[@phenomenalyuzed]

God help me😢. When I'm angry I get very ugly with words. My husband is tired already

[@AshuLum]

Pray for ur decision to change and start working on u

[@olatunjioluwabukolaabigael2804]

How about in a relationship where the two partners aren't agreeing on certain thing. Like the guy not wanting to go to the registry while the lady wants to go what can be done

[@prettydiana1101]

Please I want to teach online based on relationships
Can I get a training?

[@AdaobiPriscilia]

When someone isn't ready to resolve a particular problem and doesn't like talking about it..what does it tell you sir?

[@Angellah.k]

Once you ask have you eated, you are in a relationship 😂😂😂

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Lol or how was your night 😂

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😂😂😂

[@PrinceChilight]

I am seeking contact for the academy, training the trainers...

[@anthonette_light]

Wondering if you're in a relationship with someone? If they ask you "Have you eaten?", that’s the sign. You're definitely in a relationship 😂😂😅

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[@emeritusbentagoeson4079]

My man is a pastor and I'm not getting him anymore. What do I do please

[@OgochukwuKanu]

What is the difference between making love and having sex...I'm asking honestly please

[@olayemisanmi-olamide63]

#mindthegap

[@AntoinetteGadegbekou]

Daddy please what is the difference between having sex and making love?

[@FrankAmaizu]

Have you eaten?....
You are in a relationship. 😅😅😅
Omoh PK.😂

[@debbiedora4877]

Have eaten 😂means you are in a relationship 😂

[@Slashdesigns-oy7ko]

Good evening sir,
About lack of responsiveness, my ex broke up with me exactly one year ago....but he kept on reaching out to me, despite telling me that he has someone else, he always reach out to me to share his success and failures as when we were together...he still wants that friendship relationship.i told him several times that it can't work cause I still love him but the situation at hand is hurting me....and whenever i warned him to stay off limit from me, he always feels bad and he verbally told me that he won't leave me,that am the most precious gift he ever had.....
I need help...
Note,he is not violent or possessive

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Haaaaa😂😂😂 ,please run oooo keep a distance precious gift or not
Let the preciousness be from a distance 😅

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Run like Joseph, sister ..RUN😂

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[@Relationship44]

How do I join your online class for relationships,,,

[@ChisomOkolie12]

14:47 The phone number is here.

[@jesspatric]

please how can I book a session with you sir? is there an email where I can reach out?

[@ChisomOkolie12]

14:41 The phone number is here.

[@jesspatric]

@@ChisomOkolie12thank you Chisom🤍

[@solangekongolo2187]

I noticed some weaknesses in my husband's life but we got married anyway.nomatter what happens today I am responsible.I am already in it no matter how I feel.I will continue trying to adjust.

[@EG-hh6zz]

men if you can access her without money she’s your level
but if it takes money to access her you are replaceable
if you couldn’t access her without money
chances are any man with money can access her

[@jeriothkyerewaanyarko9041]

Lack of responsiveness🥲

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Thanks for this piece...

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Thank you 🎉

[@AdaobiPriscilia]

When someone isn't ready to resolve a particular problem and doesn't like talking about it..what does it tell you sir?

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