Why Psychologists Study The Movie "A Bronx Tale"

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  • Patrick Bet-David Podcast Episode 88. In this short clip, they talk about lessons from Chazz Palminteri's movie "A Bronx Tale".
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Комментарии • 275

  • @bunkshaner22
    @bunkshaner22 3 месяца назад +167

    The part having the girl unlock the door for you. If she doesn’t reach across and unlock the door for you…… so important

    • @Tony-fromBrooklyn
      @Tony-fromBrooklyn 2 месяца назад +11

      Glad you enjoyed that. Thank you

    • @7daysleft344
      @7daysleft344 2 месяца назад +1

      Me too!

    • @buckeye9252
      @buckeye9252 2 месяца назад +4

      The Mario test

    • @Eli_Bankzz420
      @Eli_Bankzz420 2 месяца назад +2

      @@buckeye9252 That's the Sonny test.

    • @buckeye9252
      @buckeye9252 2 месяца назад +1

      @@Eli_Bankzz420 O what was the Mario test then it'd been a while

  • @chuysontest4425
    @chuysontest4425 2 месяца назад +104

    The movie has so many good quotes and mottos, when I was 10 years old I saw it with my dad, and I’m 34 now and still watch it, and live by it ,
    The part where Robert deniro says
    “It don’t take much strength to pull a trigger , let’s see if he can get up everyday and go work for a living” then we’ll see who the real man is, the working man’s a tuff guy,

    • @000perez
      @000perez 2 месяца назад +6

      Then C says “I don’t understand” and the dad says you will when you get older that shit hits, man that movies a gem

    • @loyaltyaboveall2617
      @loyaltyaboveall2617 Месяц назад +1

      So many jewels in this movie

  • @joshuaday3980
    @joshuaday3980 3 года назад +621

    The scene about the 20 dollars has been a big part of my life, ive used it as a test many many times and it's never failed me. Had a similar experience when I won a large chunk of money on the lottery. While waiting for payment to come through, I did the same thing, asked several people to borrow monet without telling them about the lottery payment coming. It saved me alot of headaches, you can't imagine the people who come out of the gutters when they hear you won some money and it wasn't even alot of money less 10 grand. I had friends parent calling with sob stories asking for money, it was so sad. I had a few people get mad saying that it's not like I worked hard for the money and why was I being so unfair to them and not giving them any. Crazy crazy crazy. I almost wish everyone could have a similar experience, it hurts,but it really exposes your real friends.

    • @MostLoyal_
      @MostLoyal_ 3 года назад +18

      Thanks for this comment cause it’s real life experience

    • @buyhighselllow8398
      @buyhighselllow8398 2 года назад +19

      Damn bro thats just fucking sad. The shit ppl would do just for money

    • @kevlar715
      @kevlar715 2 года назад +21

      Lol I won 6 grand on a penny machine at the casino one time and the same shit happened to me. I was young at the time, I think 19. I gave away the majority of that money. 2500 went to mother and siblings, I bought my best friend a brand new PS3.. I also gave my buddy 1000 dollars. He had gifted me 1000 months earlier when he turned 18 and got several hundred thousand dollars (potowatomi money). He didn't expect me to pay him back. But I had the ability to so I did.

    • @yaqubebased1961
      @yaqubebased1961 Год назад +4

      What did you asking them for money do exactly?

    • @alking6633
      @alking6633 Год назад +4

      I Definitely can relate. Never Lend friends money or do business with family members.

  • @wo2398
    @wo2398 2 месяца назад +11

    "The saddest thing in life is wasted talent" was my dad's go to scene. Thanks Pops.

  • @okay5045
    @okay5045 2 года назад +129

    Bronx tale is a classic and based on truth. Chaz is a great storyteller

  • @franksbtka1624
    @franksbtka1624 3 года назад +117

    A Bronx Tale is a classic.

  • @citiessportsbar6475
    @citiessportsbar6475 3 года назад +72

    That scene with the $20 and getting off cheap stuck with me through many relationships growing up.💯

  • @aaronroyal9449
    @aaronroyal9449 3 года назад +140

    I like Michael Francese's take on love vs fear: fear only works until they fear something else more which is why so many guys turn rat but it's a lot less common to give up those you love no matter what they threaten you with.

  • @nycmaster
    @nycmaster 3 года назад +174

    The Bronx Tale is one of my favorite movies. Very underrated film.

    • @Tony-fromBrooklyn
      @Tony-fromBrooklyn 2 месяца назад +1

      Yes it is thank you

    • @Chevy969
      @Chevy969 2 месяца назад +1

      RUclips’s #1 comment. To anything. “Underrated” how is this movie underrated!

  • @Guillermo_Carratero
    @Guillermo_Carratero Месяц назад +7

    It also happened in Good Will Hunting that someone wrote the story as an unknown starred in it and it became a hit. Damon and Affleck actually wrote the script together.

  • @kyledodson2992
    @kyledodson2992 Год назад +121

    The working class man thing is my favorite part. His dad In that movie was such a good dad, and even didn’t hold a grudge against sonny, even after he died

    • @DaFactsNoNonsense1713
      @DaFactsNoNonsense1713 2 месяца назад +2

      that's the definition of racism though = how can hard work have meaning when you don't want everyone to work + you don't want everyone to enjoy the fruits of their labour = this has ALWAYS been a crock of s***, since the MOB, by definition, DOES NOT want to do a hard days work, in any way, shape or form + the civilians who live in their neighbourhoods are fine with them, as long as they don't hurt them or hurt their businesses = the second they benefit from crime, they mind changes instantly, so this entire movie is a fallacy, at best

    • @cnm2908
      @cnm2908 2 месяца назад +1

      @@DaFactsNoNonsense1713 The DeNiro character had no choice but to work [drive the bus] to support his family if he wanted to NOT earn money from mob involvement. He had no control over what the Palminteri character did beyond that. The only racist thing DeNiro's character said was that he didn't think blacks and whites should date or marry. Never said black people shouldn't have good jobs and places to live. So it goes back to what @kyledodson2992 said about DeNiro's character being a good father.

    • @DaFactsNoNonsense1713
      @DaFactsNoNonsense1713 2 месяца назад

      @@cnm2908 he definitely had control over his choices, since he could’ve easily listened to his dad, then find work elsewhere, but he trapped himself into the criminal world, by choice

    • @cnm2908
      @cnm2908 2 месяца назад

      @@DaFactsNoNonsense1713 I was talking about the DeNiro character. Not what his son said or did, that you didn't distinguish in your first response. This is my last time replying.

    • @DaFactsNoNonsense1713
      @DaFactsNoNonsense1713 2 месяца назад

      @@cnm2908 I was talking about the DeNiro character, but you're so low on the intelligence scale, you can't even read a few words in the comments properly, like a child would = you should avoid using your brain to make sense of things because it's cleared not geared towards doing that

  • @samvega365
    @samvega365 2 месяца назад +20

    “Mickey Mantle doesn’t pay the bills” fucked my world up at 8 years old

    • @citychicaintexas
      @citychicaintexas 2 месяца назад +2

      That's my favorite part... "nobody cares"... and it's true!!

  • @jayreyndogz1791
    @jayreyndogz1791 2 месяца назад +11

    I remember lying on my sofa as a kid about 10 years old and this film came on about 1 in the morning it's always stuck with me since then

  • @ruthmarcano631
    @ruthmarcano631 2 месяца назад +6

    "Now yous can't leave." Classic

  • @Marva123
    @Marva123 Год назад +23

    They should have just let Chaz continue with his lines from the movie instead of continually interrupting, totally killed the magic of what he was trying to recreate.

    • @LuckyCharms777
      @LuckyCharms777 2 месяца назад +2

      Too many people have to hear themselves talk. Patrick is horrible about that. He constantly interrupts people instead of waiting until they’ve made their point to contradict them.

  • @robertp3124
    @robertp3124 3 года назад +42

    He's dropping next level wisdom I wish I had heard when I was a kid!🤔

  • @yilmazkurt8584
    @yilmazkurt8584 Год назад +11

    I love him as an actor. He really plays well. Amazing person.

  • @flagal519
    @flagal519 Год назад +27

    This concept of 'availability,' is brilliant and very true. I know that even people who are business owners....so many times, they do well, being available all the time to their staff and their customers, but when they get bigger , at times they do ' absentee management,' and it all falls apart. For morale sake and to keep the 'train on the tracks,' you have to be there, to be tough and be kind.

    • @MarcIverson
      @MarcIverson 29 дней назад

      Really true. I've seen so many owners absent entirely, or basically absent while present, chatting on the phone, taking crazy-long lunches, making themselves unavailable, etc. Just checking out of their business life.

  • @shanelehr621
    @shanelehr621 2 месяца назад +2

    "Now you can't leave" Absolute best line and part in the movie. You knew it was going down, freaking intense!

    • @ryanfennewald5661
      @ryanfennewald5661 2 месяца назад +2

      Love that scene….the lesson as I took it: “Be nice, until it’s time not to be nice”. Then go straight after the leader.

  • @scotth1807
    @scotth1807 3 года назад +109

    "I give them just enough where they need me, but they don't hate me"

  • @robertmontague2225
    @robertmontague2225 3 года назад +77

    The story about the divorced guy going round the divorce lawyers - Tony Soprano done that in the Sopranos

    • @BostonGuy44
      @BostonGuy44 Год назад +14

      Most likely where he got it from lol

  • @BladeTrinity99
    @BladeTrinity99 2 месяца назад +2

    Never knew he wrote it…now much more respect

  • @mikerandy843
    @mikerandy843 2 года назад +71

    One of my favorite movies. The scene that stuck with me the most, was when Sonny was talking to "C" about Mickey Mantel. It just validated a long held belief I had.
    Even at a young age, I never believed in the concept of role models or idolizing the famous. Always understood that everyone is flawed and that people are selfish by nature.

    • @yaqubebased1961
      @yaqubebased1961 Год назад +3

      Mirror neurons don't require your permission to work, nor are their functions voluntary.

    • @lukek1949
      @lukek1949 4 месяца назад +1

      Yes, it is also first Commandment: “you shall have no other gods before me.” We put our trust in Jesus. That’s it! And our life will improve.

    • @EXNIHILOTHEPOET
      @EXNIHILOTHEPOET 2 месяца назад

      People aren’t that selfish in nature. If someone feels he has something to protect then yes. If someone actually feels safe and taken care of and secure in life then that preserving, protective, selfish tendencies aren’t as pronounced. I would argue people are more selfless under the right conditions. It’s not biologically ingrained. It is a matter of sociological factors.

  • @HippySpeedballPodcast
    @HippySpeedballPodcast 3 года назад +33

    I applied the availability concept with running my crew in my first ever management position. This lead to me running for #1 store in the company for almost 3 years. Keep your crew happy and the product will sell itself.

  • @michaelcipriano5803
    @michaelcipriano5803 2 года назад +13

    Bronx tail one of the best mob movies of all time !!

  • @cnc41LORD
    @cnc41LORD 2 месяца назад

    Love that 10 GRAND story! Salute to you Mr. Palminteri.

  • @Da_Fonz
    @Da_Fonz 2 месяца назад +2

    My favorite movie of all time!!!

  • @trevornoel9
    @trevornoel9 3 года назад +23

    I have watched that movie so many times. I loved the part when he talked about the Yankees and Mickey Mantel. I never looked at sports the same way again.
    The story the guy said was in the Sopranos. Tony did that to all the divorce attorneys in the area and his wife could get one

    • @richardmyers7847
      @richardmyers7847 2 года назад

      Lmao. You take advice from a movie. How pathetic

  • @ricomorales1307
    @ricomorales1307 2 месяца назад

    In that 7minutes..man I learned a life time to deal with whose your friend and whose gonna be there when you need them. Priceless interview..keep it coming

  • @yuckyool
    @yuckyool Год назад +5

    Brilliant truths all thru this play/movie.
    Interestingly, I had discovered "the door test" myself during the 1980's (before keyless remotes). My now-wife aced it and she is my beloved partner 28 years later.

  • @guyanasun4361
    @guyanasun4361 3 года назад +24

    Time has value, money doesn't and
    Macavilie is all about teaching tactical control..

  • @djcastano1180
    @djcastano1180 3 года назад +29

    He’s out of your life for 20 dollars. You got off cheap.

  • @cato7778
    @cato7778 2 года назад +8

    Is actually better to be loved than feard because people only fear when they have no choice.soon as someone more fearsome comes along they'll all betray u.whereas if ur loved then people give their loyalty willingly regardless of wether there are more dangerous folks about and if u love someone u automatically have fear also because u will fear letting down/betraying/hurting that person

  • @UndeniablyGraysen
    @UndeniablyGraysen 3 года назад +25

    I know alot of people grip about Adam, I think he adds value to the show. One thing I don't think he realizes he constantly does is ask questions, then cut off the guest or tries to answer for them. Let the guests finish please

    • @Adam-ve7gu
      @Adam-ve7gu 3 года назад

      That's the liberal way. If a liberal ever allowed another to speak, they may, or probably, will end up looking dumb.

    • @Carguyeight
      @Carguyeight Год назад

      He really doesn’t add much

  • @ThisGuy7310
    @ThisGuy7310 3 месяца назад +2

    Goddamn only saw this movie for the first time today and I can honestly say it's one of the best films I've ever had the pleasure of watching.

  • @lukeconverse6632
    @lukeconverse6632 3 месяца назад +1

    One of the greatest movies ever. So many life lessons in truths in the mivie

  • @andrewcharley1893
    @andrewcharley1893 6 месяцев назад +1

    You are a total inspiration Chazz.

  • @HAIL_ATLANTIS
    @HAIL_ATLANTIS 3 года назад +2

    thats a great story to kick off the show! o lovee it

  • @lightsout630
    @lightsout630 3 года назад +4

    just finished watching the movie it's a great movie loved it 💯💯

  • @thestsconsulting8968
    @thestsconsulting8968 3 года назад +2

    Thank you for a great movie. You help raise me. Build my moral compas!!!

  • @PatchedThePipe
    @PatchedThePipe 3 года назад +14

    Haha there's literally content being added as I'm watching stuff from Chas, he's a cool fella. 😎

  • @cyrusshah6175
    @cyrusshah6175 3 года назад +24

    That Divorce story was from Sopranos

    • @peternchlls9
      @peternchlls9 3 года назад +9

      Yeah lol sounds like that didn't happen to his 'friend'... he just saw the same episode as us and thought it would make a fun anecdote

  • @paulsiro1775
    @paulsiro1775 2 месяца назад

    PDB is such a construct of Hollywood movies it's amazing .He sprays his hair every morning.

  • @MichaelSmith420fu
    @MichaelSmith420fu 2 года назад +11

    I've always said the exact same thing about weasels who stole small amounts of money from me.. "it's the price I paid to get them out of my life" Lol

  • @nevergiveup56032
    @nevergiveup56032 3 года назад +1

    Great insight Chazz salute to you Bro from England God 🙏

  • @ShawnGottii709
    @ShawnGottii709 2 месяца назад

    Watched the movie
    For the first time when I was a young boy but didn’t fully understand jt til an adult I always go back and watch it from
    Time to time

  • @dougarchbold1489
    @dougarchbold1489 3 месяца назад

    I have stopped watching anyone or anything connected to his close friend and complete nut DeNiro. But this movie is amazing. Not because of DeNiro but the absolute genius in the script.. It’s beautiful!

  • @NerdLord
    @NerdLord Месяц назад

    That guy’s father was awesome

  • @ZusTruth
    @ZusTruth 2 месяца назад +1

    Keep it up with the celebs!

  • @larson0014
    @larson0014 3 года назад +10

    Did he just call chazz Sonny?

  • @rsp3ct
    @rsp3ct 2 месяца назад

    Great movie! So many life lessons in that movie.

  • @Adam-ve7gu
    @Adam-ve7gu 3 года назад +8

    The "divorce story" comes directly from the Sopranos.

  • @devanman7920
    @devanman7920 3 года назад +5

    To be fair its an absolutely brilliant film!

  • @Nautilus1972
    @Nautilus1972 Месяц назад

    “How much does this guy owe you?” That one always stuck with me. But add “The art of war” by Sun Tzu to Il Principe by Nicole Machiavelli.

  • @carlycarlucci1301
    @carlycarlucci1301 Месяц назад

    My 📱’s def spying on me cuz I did my annual re-watch of ABT a few days ago! Best soundtrack ever & so many life lessons (whether u agree w/them all or not.)

  • @CharlesDarwintheThird
    @CharlesDarwintheThird 6 месяцев назад

    Such a great movie but it's heartbreaking at the same time

  • @derekburrell4496
    @derekburrell4496 Год назад +3

    Ditto on the $20 lesson (for me, it was $320k, but I never have to see their faces, ever again). 😮

  • @deandrury4330
    @deandrury4330 3 месяца назад +2

    It happened in predator the bloke who wrote predator also starred in the movie

  • @TonySeinfeld
    @TonySeinfeld 3 года назад +3

    A forth time, it happened. Matt Damon I’m Good Will Hunting

  • @robg71
    @robg71 2 года назад +3

    One of the greatest films ever made. The best character in it? Eddie Mush! He was a real life guy, a degenerate gambler. Palminteri tells amazing stories about him. He sadly died, and on the day of his funeral, they bring the coffin out, and the Hearse had a flat tyre.🤣

  • @hirokomlm131
    @hirokomlm131 Месяц назад

    The fourth time a starving artist refused to sell their work and later had mega success producing themselves was in the music industry and it was Prince. He turned turn record deals at 19 years old because they wouldn't let him produce his first album by himself.

  • @loulopez554
    @loulopez554 3 года назад +1

    A classic for sure!

  • @mohadmohamed6247
    @mohadmohamed6247 2 месяца назад

    I used to make my brothers watch Bronx Tale. Someone has to introduce you to this movie even though it's on TV regularly.

  • @flyinggordonproductions4875
    @flyinggordonproductions4875 Год назад +1

    The working man is a sucker still gets me

  • @zbly7679
    @zbly7679 Год назад +2

    The story about his buddy calling all the attorneys is literally from sopranos lmao. Tony does that

  • @aadin
    @aadin Месяц назад

    6:05 how funny that tony soprano did the same thing in the sopranos show

  • @CruzitoMaury90810
    @CruzitoMaury90810 2 месяца назад +1

    Godfather 123, Scarface ,Bronx tale,Goodfellas, blood in blood out, American me, boulevard nights,ex..
    I'm missing more...any one knows other G movies

  • @Zohairmoosvi
    @Zohairmoosvi 2 года назад +4

    3:50 lol did he just call him Sonny?

    • @FemmeinBloom
      @FemmeinBloom 2 года назад

      Yea lol I peeped that too! Chaz is probably used to it

  • @shawnmoney8055
    @shawnmoney8055 3 года назад +2

    Top 10 movie character of all time

  • @Killakarl824
    @Killakarl824 3 месяца назад +1

    The Mario test is the true test hahah

  • @joaquinorosco
    @joaquinorosco 2 месяца назад

    I remember that 20 dollar line, and also the wasted talent line

  • @ralphellis71
    @ralphellis71 2 месяца назад

    I was taught to ask a bum for change before they ask you. Try it, it's hilarious 😂

  • @chucksolutions1470
    @chucksolutions1470 2 месяца назад +1

    I’ve never heard of Bronx tale, but it also happened with good will hunting, Blair witch, paranormal, clerks… so it’s happened a few times.

  • @Truckernc
    @Truckernc 2 месяца назад

    This movie is a fucking masterpiece

  • @Full2635
    @Full2635 2 года назад +2

    Always give people a little bit first to see if they will pay back

  • @ihavetubes
    @ihavetubes 3 года назад +4

    nows you cant leave.

  • @nelsongoncalves5379
    @nelsongoncalves5379 2 месяца назад

    Excellent movie 🎥 love it

  • @peacewalker187
    @peacewalker187 3 года назад +3

    Lol he calls Chaz sonny

  • @MrStivi1981
    @MrStivi1981 2 месяца назад

    Greatest movie ever made.

  • @briancosta1735
    @briancosta1735 3 месяца назад +1

    This guy really told a Tony soprano story 😂😂

    • @matteoalan1594
      @matteoalan1594 2 месяца назад

      I bet he never watched the sopranos

  • @KelticTim
    @KelticTim 3 месяца назад +1

    No, your buddy didn’t call all the lawyers, that’s a scene from the Sopranos.

    • @matteoalan1594
      @matteoalan1594 2 месяца назад

      This loser is such a liar! I caught that also. Lol

  • @uncleloof
    @uncleloof 2 года назад

    The movie is just perfect.

  • @WilliamCantSingAtAll
    @WilliamCantSingAtAll 2 месяца назад +1

    “3 times”
    + Matt Damon’s Goodwill hunting

  • @gangster8540
    @gangster8540 5 месяцев назад

    Chaz is a G

  • @rudealva7677
    @rudealva7677 2 месяца назад

    It poetic

  • @NOLIFE-THE-GOD
    @NOLIFE-THE-GOD Месяц назад

    The most ironic thing about it is that sonny loved C but his street life couldnt allow him to get close to anybody but he still gave sound advice even when we all knew sonny wouldve broke your legs for owing him 5 dollars. Sonny was the exact type of person he was telling C to stay away from. If only he mentored those other kids like he did C though smh nobodies perfect tho

  • @elaineen1
    @elaineen1 Месяц назад

    My "friend" would ask for a loan. He paid back most of the time. Last time $700.00. I made it plain no more until he paid it off. Haven't heard from him in 2 years.

  • @Buttercuprincesa
    @Buttercuprincesa Месяц назад

    The guy on his side is such a “pick me!!” 🤣🤣

  • @TO-dl2gg
    @TO-dl2gg Месяц назад

    I just wish in real life that Chaz would smack D’niro around…😂

  • @JTazza
    @JTazza Год назад

    Greatest movie of all time imo no debate

  • @nardojackk
    @nardojackk 3 месяца назад

    all I can think of is Babys Day Out hahaha

  • @Marvswp
    @Marvswp 2 месяца назад

    That was from the Sopranos Tony Sopranos visited every Big divorce lawyer

  • @jrodtmtilwedie8102
    @jrodtmtilwedie8102 3 года назад +3

    Please make s chin movie chazz

  • @DJ-DIRTY.
    @DJ-DIRTY. 2 месяца назад

    Hey, my guy in the background goop

  • @sammymobs3889
    @sammymobs3889 2 года назад

    I could and have watched this movie 20 times

  • @bereketmol4227
    @bereketmol4227 2 месяца назад

    The guy who called all top divorce lawyers in the state was Tony Soprano

  • @ChrisMorganComedy
    @ChrisMorganComedy Год назад

    Sony created trouble during that parking spot altercation and didn't clip it out. 10 years later he died of cancer by Bullet

  • @jameswilson1522
    @jameswilson1522 Месяц назад

    Wow
    ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

  • @isaachalverson7826
    @isaachalverson7826 18 дней назад

    the divorce thing is from the sopranos

  • @kekethetoad
    @kekethetoad Год назад +1

    That divorce story was in The Sopranos....