Does being in a mixed-race relationship give you the right to make jokes about race? “The Real” ladies and guest co-host Mel B weigh in on this tricky question. Watch!
Yours Truly Nisha She's referring to a rug. An oriental rug has intricate designs and is usually really expensive. The oriental part she was referring to he ethnicity or rather explaining it
dy1228 btw why you capitalize every first letter it looks weird to read like do you literally click the shift button every time I always wondered why tf and how tf some people always do that ..
Okay @@auntmelisa8689 , just because u do not think something is wrong to say to/about black people does not mean it is not wrong and a person has the right to check u when u say something wrong/offensive
It depends how you go about it. If you just attack then yeah but if you calmly explain your point then I’m grateful for being educated. Some people just start insulting you though and you dont understand why.
If it's people of a particular race joking around about things that they know are common to their race.....actually, it's more of a culture thing than a race thing, then it might be funny, but if people of other races are making jokes about a race they do not belong to and their jokes are based on stereotypes and generalisations (and they have never experienced those claims from everyone of a particular race/culture), it's not funny, it's actually pretty rude.
Americans couldnt last a day in caribbean, We dont give af about color, so we crack jokes on white, black, hispanic, chinese, asian, pacific islander, no one cares, and we arent sensitive. Its funny to us. Americans need to take the stick thats shoved far up their asses out!
Two Kids yea like i remember one day at Walmart I was eavesdropping on this interracial couple and the girl (white) ask the guy(black) if he wanted some watermelon and he went " are you asking that because I'm black" I was like 😶 I know there's a stereotype behind it but damn it's just a fruit
+miles Right? I just had a flashback to that singer literally crying on Fox News last week because a stranger referred him as a "white boy" - like he thought that was someone trying to oppress him by stating facts lmao
Man 😹😹😹I was over here like girl stop white people do not experience racism 😹😹 the fact that he felt that was racist shows how pleasant his life has been ☠️
I'm glad Jeannie explained the oriental thing. I've never called anyone that (or thought to call anyone that) but I've never heard anyone explain the term either. Learn something new everyday.
*"adam doesn't try to make racially driven jokes"*. Adam get's angry/offended because you asked him how much mayo should put on his his sandwich and he thought that was racist, yet he voted for a man who's done and said worse than racially driven jokes!! i find it funny that she said that.
로저 if you looked into the wicked things hiliary and her husband did to black people you would realize that them and trump are really no different..It's just that trump shows his colours for everyone to see while clinton (like a true politician) hides it....I'm not hating just saying the trut...I'm dislike all of them...btw are you an army?
Quite honestly, that mayonnaise thing at the end was completely unnecessary. I can't believe Adam was actually offended by that. It was a simple question. Jesus, why does everyone need to take everything so seriously.
Pili Moczó exactly. I was at a BBQ & the lady serving refreshments (who was white) asked me if I wanted Watermelon. I said 'no thank you ' and she moved on to the next person. I didn't make a scene and got all offended by it.
+Medjine Seguy Do like I always do. I say, white people eat watermelon too (they really do tho) they just cube it up (they really do eat it cubed). I wouldn't have gotten offended either. It was just fruit.
Michie Oo chile...I was saying the same thing..and a time when the ladies were describing each other..either loni or Jeannie told Tamera that she has exotic skin..........the real is a real bunch of hypocrites especially dealing with race (don't mind that I still watch them)
Leia Richardson Tamera was saying she was insecure about her knees and Loni told her she had exotic knees. I mean, she was referring to just her knees but yes, that's true.
Adam really out here offended when Tamera asked him if he wanted mayo....she ain't even say nothing bad?? She was making him a sandwich he should chill OUT
Wow Adam is so sensitive. That mayo thing was not deep lmaooo. Anyways, I think if you are an in interracial relationship, do those type of joke in private if your spouse is okay with it because they might accept it as a joke but the rest of the people won't.
Right! Lol me and my friends say stuff about each others races but we know their jokes and becuz we really know each other very well it's ok but we say those jokes when it's just us cuz we understand not everyone will think it's funny.
It's not a stereotype. White people like Adam just have this false notion that reverse racism against whites exist. It doesn't. - this is the same thing that happened during the clapback clip when someone assumed he couldn't cook collars greens. On twitter he said "it's obviously it goes both ways". lol there's no such thing as white oppression.
I was so distracted by white powder milk under her eyes but yeah you right. The glam squad really played too many jokes on our girl Loni Love all throughout to 2016 😂😂
I think she also needs darker eyebrows. Her make up has been off since September for some reason. It's kinda distracting because nothing looks like it's blended properly.
Breaking Alabaster same! Loll. Idk if this is iff topic, but My dad is always on time and my family always tease him calling him white. And he always reply "If being on time means I'm white, then I guess I'm an oreo." Loll.
ZizYoubizHERE yup, I second this, why?? Just because she has a husband that may have voted got Trump does not undermine her blackness. So idk where y'all are comin from..
It's ok that Tamera identifies as Black. I identify as Black, but I'm mixed. Nothing against my family members who aren't Black, but if I'm walking down the street and a person sees me, they aren't going to call me White. They're going to call me Black because I look mostly Black. Now, if someone asks me if I'm mixed with something (which people often do), then I'll tell them my background. But, just to make it easier for everyone, I say that I'm Black. Let people identify the way they want. We're all humans anyway.
Is it bad that, that's my favorite part about dating someone from a different race, that you can ask those awkward questions and be a bit idk racial, like I like educating them about my culture and them educating me about there's and if there's a question about stereotypical stuff, they can ask, & we can laugh idk I think it's cute tbh
I am literally as cool as a cucumber the most laid back person you'll ever meet I'm also quite shy and timid. Guys (usually black) always say how I'm so different, nice and soft spoken etc but I've noticed, when they find you don't fit the false stereotype of being the "loud mouth, angry, full of attitude black girl" they think they can walk all over you and talk to you anyhow they want. Then when I try to defend myself they're shocked and are like "how dare you" or "why you giving attitude" honestly we can't win
my husband is white and im black and when I have my scraf on my head he calls me aunt Jemima , and when white people do stuff i say ur people did this that's as far as the race jokes go in our house but that's it. it's funny to us and that's what matters
Shari Parrilla yeah I get little inside jokes but to say " angry black woman" and TRY to make it a joke but end up failing then there is something wrong that you said
Shari Parrilla I do believe that it's the intent that matters and as long as you aren't offended by it then that's what it is, but I have to say, if someone likened me to a minstrel show character, we would fight.
I swear, Adrienne truly says some of the most unintelligent things on this show! She says "I blame his wife"... are u freaking kidding me girl? In the famous words of the TRUE star of the show, Tamar "get your life"! How can you possibly BLAME his wife for the things that come out of HIS mouth? That is so stupid. Her logic will and can be used against her in the You Tube court of law. Remember everybody, the next time we see Israel parading around on the beach lookin like a crusty, overweight old man, we can all say, "I blame his wife"! 😎
The more I get to know about Adam and Tamera's relationship, the more I pray I never date a man like that. Let alone marry. I used to think the were so adorable
that situation with Adam was dumb. just because someone ask if you want manyonise doesn't make them racist. sorry but Adam turned that into a race tging. I love white bread, lettuce, tomato, onion, extra manyonise and the Italian sub from subway none of which have to do with my ethnic background. . my mom said since she was pregnant with me all I wanted to eat was Italian food. its just me. lol like Jeannie why can't we just see people for people. I agree with Jeanie the most on this topic.
I'm loving Mel B on the pannel! She meshes very well with the ladies and spits great knowledge on the show! Keeping her would be truly amazing! I've always been a fan ☺💖
4:18 Adam sit down, that was not racist. Asking if you want Mayo on your sandwich is a common question. Most people like mayo on their sandwich. That's like asking do you want ketchup on your fries, ice in your drink, syrup on your pancakes, or ranch on your salad. You get the point?
To be honest, I was reluctant to watch this because these girls can be a little ignorant when discussing touchy subjects, but I was pleasantly surprised by all of the commentary. We can all agree that racial jokes are only funny if the person is a minority themselves, or if their name is Gary Owen. Also, I think Mel B is a great addition to the panel, she's slowing starting to fit in more and more each day!!
😩 There's a limit to everything. And each of us have a right to set a limitation on what's too far with jokes. Just me personally, I have to laugh at things. There's so many sad things in the world, I try to laugh as much as I can. I laugh at race jokes, most, not all. There's humor in reality. I just can't be serious all the time, I have enough to be stressed about. Lighten up guys!
LMFAO IM NOT A RUG. jeannie brings so much to this show do you remember in the beginning she was the underdog now look! that makes me happy. Go Jeannie!!!
LOL! Jeannie... "I had to explain to him that I'm not a rug"! Genius. And speaks to a deeper objectification of other races too, describing ppl the way you would an object.
I've dated a outside my race, and we had an unusual relationship, because we would crack jokes on each other about racial things but it never gotten to a point to where it was offensive, we knew there was a line that we shouldn't cross, and to this day we still have a genuine love for each other. I have had many friends of different races, and dated outside of my race all the time but there must be a genuine respect and love for each other, and their differences.
I walk into the class on the first day of school and the first thing I see is a poster on the wall that reads, "Warning⚠ Educated Black Women Ahead!" this is the best thing I have ever seen....❤😂
Honestly , and this is for me.. We've had this talk before , I think there is a difference between laughing WITH the person and laughing AT a person , same with Joking with someone or lowkey throwing shade but saying its a joke.... If you are mixed with that certain race you happen to also be dating then that's fine but also you shouldn't make any racial jokes unless its regarding your race !
I remember being a teenager and explaining that there was this "Oriental man at the library who likes picking on me." I didn't know another way to describe him. I was like, fifteen, I think? One of the adults at the community center explained to me, "Asian. You call him Asian, not Oriental." She never explained why, and I didn't ask, I just felt like Asian was a better word in the first place, but now I know. Thank you, Jeanie for explaining that!
I'm in a mixed relationship and we tend to joke around with each other about our different cultures and race. That being said, we know not to display all of those jokes in public because it might offend someone else that does not have the same humor. I think that everyone is different regardless of color, so it's about knowing your crowd and knowing when there is an appropriate time to say or not to say things.
People like Jeanie are the best. Inform people rather than going around calling everyone racist. Especially, when people come from different cultures, words have leveling degrees of significance. I have a few Hispanic friends who have said things that sounded horribly racist at the surface. Instead of going off on them, I told them the significance of what they were saying. As I learned Spanish more, I discovered that, to them, what they said wasnt nearly as bad as the English translation
They just really make me smile I’m so happy the show is this way now!♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️ love me some Mel B too! Yaasssss TR YASSSS SHE’s a keeper!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Am I the only one who feels like Jeannie doesn't try to make people sympathize with her white family/husband, unlike Tamera? Race topics are always disappointing coming from her.
Koala I always hold on to my seat when watching them discuss racial topics because they're always cringe worthy. Tamera sympathising and Loni speaking in an apologetic tone for being black. Jeannie, and sometimes Adrienne are the real ones when it comes to topics about race. Surprisingly.
Yassss loni give us comedian tips hunny!!! Because you’re so funny and make such original jokes haha. Remember that time you made a brown liquor joke? Or when you said “that’s why I’m single” when we know that’s not really why... or the treemonster jokes that really have me slapping my knee... sis u tired
I agree jokes about stereotypes is a no laughing matter. When people generalize they do it based on what they are used to seeing mostly or experience. I like how you guys talk about being checked for stereotyping and moving on.
Deep down Tamera knows she married a racist but stay denying it. I thought Adam is educated and articulate. That's why you don't judge a book by its cover. I judged him based on they way he dressed (tuxedos), his job (correspondent) and his bank account (wealthy family), that doesn't mean he's the aforementioned, yikes‼‼‼
I LOOOOOVE THE WAY THE SHOW FLOWS WITH EACH HOST BEING COMFORTABLE IN THEIR SKIN WITH MEL AND SHE'S A NATURAL AND SHE BRINGS A UNIQUE POSITIVE VIBE TO THE SHOW AND AAAAHHHH SHES JUST A BREATH OF FRESH AIR IF I MUST SAY !!! THIS COMMENT IS IN CAPITALS BECAUSE SERIOUSLY MEL NEEDS TO STAY ON THE REAL PERMANENTLY STRAIGHT UP !!! 😎
Im in a interracial relationship and my man doesnt say race jokes or anything like that. I mean he might have his opinions about how messed up the whole racism thing is, but thats it. He hates talking about anything race wise cause its ridiculous. Im alittle different lol I check alot of people that are racist or have something to say about blacks, whites, asians, etc all that because I dont think anyone should be judged based on their skin color, thats stupid lol. So, anyone saying white people are this or that or should do this or that or black people are this or that, asians are this..etc, i'll call bullshit to it real quick. Racism is alive and well, but I refuse to allow it to take over my life and how I treat HUMAN BEINGS. Why cant people see it that way, I have no idea, but change starts with courtesy.
I love this show so much. You guys are so positive and very open and are not afraid to be who God made y'all to be. This show is making history and i believe each and everyone of you guys will be written in the book of life by our father. Every show on tv now is about drama, sex and lies. But The Real is built on pure honesty and truth. The devil tryed to start some mess last year but you know what, he didn't win. I have never felt the appreciation of real women the way i feel about you guy's. This show is not just a talk show. The Real was God sent. Y'all keep glowing and stay focused on y'all Spiritual and Natural goals. Be Blessed!
Tamera's response is interesting... because it's out there in the blogs that the reason that Tia isn't a fan of Adam is because he made a racially insensitive joke around Tamera's family, and she didn't correct him. She may corrected him at home, but it's OK to admit that BOTH of them needed to be educated. I agree that the mayo comment was insensitive, although unintentionally; I mean, even Loni assumed that all white people love mayo. She probably didn't want to throw Adam under the bus, especially since black twitter loves to drag him based on assumptions, but she could have been honest in saying they both had to go through a learning curve - that would have been more genuine. Well, I'm black and I can't eat sandwich without Mayo. LOL.
WifeandWife (This is copy and pasted from lipstick alley.com) “Tamera knows about one incident that happened after they got married and they got into a huge argument, but she didn’t leave him because she was trying to save face. Adam has said horrible things about black people, right in front of Tamera’s face. For example, one night they were hanging with some of Adam’s friends and they were trying to figure out what they wanted to eat, someone suggested Ethiopian food and Adam said ‘what starve to death?’ his friends laughed but Tamera was silent. She told Tia about the horrible joke and this is why Tia, Jerome and most of Tamera’s family do not like him. Tamera is holding on to dear life but this marriage will not survive because the lack of respect Adam has for Tamera and her family.”
I grew up in Southeast Ohio and I've heard plenty of older folks use the word 'oriental'. Some people still don't seem to fully understand what words mean and can imply. And the word doesn't always seem to be used in a deliberately derogatory way. Some are still ignorant to the power their words have. It's not a part of my vocabulary. I always felt that if you're unsure of an Asian individual's background (Not knowing which country in Asia they may have roots in), you just simply acknowledge them as Asian, or like Jeannie said, just refer to her as Jeannie. As far as racial misunderstanding goes, I actually think America has severely underrepresented the Asian community as a whole. In history entertainment, in the media and arts. We all need to come together to create an America that represents each and every one of us in our fullest dignity and greatness. Every race, religion, sexuality. Everyone. The greater strides we make in that effort, the better understanding and compassion we will all have for one another. ❤
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"I had to explain to him that I'm not a rug"! 😆 get it Jeannie
crystal barr She said rug.
I don't get it
Yours Truly Nisha She's referring to a rug. An oriental rug has intricate designs and is usually really expensive. The oriental part she was referring to he ethnicity or rather explaining it
Tonks I still don't get it > .
Lol how do you not get it??
I love mayo and I'm black who wants a dry ass sandwich I'll take mustard also
Lmmfaoooo. This is the best comment. I liked mayo growing up but I don't like the taste as an adult. I'm a mustard kind of person lol
annoyed wtf black are supposed to like the miracle whip brand.
annoyed wtf Right. what am i missing about Tamera's story? Its silly.
annoyed wtf this was best comment I think I have ever read 😂😂😂
annoyed wtf lmao 😂
"I'm not a rug." Lol @ Jeannie. I actually heard the word Oriental being used to describe Asians sometimes. I will make sure not to say it lol
that's very old school to use for Asian people
Because It Is A Definition Of A Person Of East Asian Descent Lml. It's In The Dictionary So She's Wrong
It's a ramen flavour. 🍜
dy1228 it's usually considered racist and offensive
dy1228 btw why you capitalize every first letter it looks weird to read like do you literally click the shift button every time I always wondered why tf and how tf some people always do that ..
Can Mel B just stay? She seems to get along with them really well.
ikr
perfect fit! she's not too much and not too shy either
jinixx She's boring
jinixx, I really do like her.
jinixx yesss thought I was the only one who thought that
Adam got offended by mayo ? Lol
D Franklin I believe his corny ass did
white ppl got nothing else to be offended for lol
sonrisa Verdean yes because we aren’t as sensitive as black folks!!
Adams got offended because of MAYO? Lmaoooooo
Brittany H. Literally the dumbest thing I've ever heard lol
what kind of relationships is that if he gets offended by that.. seriously
tania kr That’s what we white people think when black people get offended over the littlest things that aren’t even racist at all lmfao
Yall get mad over everything so wtf u talking about
Okay @@auntmelisa8689 , just because u do not think something is wrong to say to/about black people does not mean it is not wrong and a person has the right to check u when u say something wrong/offensive
Jeannie makes a LOT OF SENSE! I really like her this season. And the "rug" situation killed me!!!
The thing is when black women try and educate we're deemed as 'bitter' and 'angry' and 'playing the victim'
or like we don't know what we're talking about
@LoveofVelvet except despite that, we are looked down upon.
LoveofVelvet stfu you clearly did not understand her comment so don't tell people how to come when they already be coming that way
And don't leave out that extra 'c' when using 'crucifying', :P @@bambi7563
It depends how you go about it. If you just attack then yeah but if you calmly explain your point then I’m grateful for being educated. Some people just start insulting you though and you dont understand why.
Jokes about color and ethnicities are very rarely funny to me.
If it's people of a particular race joking around about things that they know are common to their race.....actually, it's more of a culture thing than a race thing, then it might be funny, but if people of other races are making jokes about a race they do not belong to and their jokes are based on stereotypes and generalisations (and they have never experienced those claims from everyone of a particular race/culture), it's not funny, it's actually pretty rude.
SammySingally Yeah
Americans couldnt last a day in caribbean, We dont give af about color, so we crack jokes on white, black, hispanic, chinese, asian, pacific islander, no one cares, and we arent sensitive. Its funny to us. Americans need to take the stick thats shoved far up their asses out!
Donielle T yessss thats cause Caribbeans mixed with everything under the sun😭😭😂 we like socialize and blend
Donielle T I'm from the Caribbean too girl I'm not American. I just don't happen to like most jokes
So you can't even ask someone if they want mayo without being racist...??? Damnnn
Two Kids yea like i remember one day at Walmart I was eavesdropping on this interracial couple and the girl (white) ask the guy(black) if he wanted some watermelon and he went " are you asking that because I'm black" I was like 😶 I know there's a stereotype behind it but damn it's just a fruit
looool white people constantly want to be oppressed
Two Kids exactly
I don't think white people are the easily oppressed ones
+miles Right? I just had a flashback to that singer literally crying on Fox News last week because a stranger referred him as a "white boy" - like he thought that was someone trying to oppress him by stating facts lmao
When the comedian Gary Owen does it, it's hilarious and it definitely depends on the delivery. It's a right way and a wrong way to do it.
I may be one of few that doesn't think he's hilarious.. Something about him just makes me cringe hearing his "black jokes"
Eleni Selillo Really? Because he's about one of few that does it without crossing the line...
+Eleni Selillo You're not the only one. To me he's not funny at all..ESPECIALLY his black girl hair jokes .___. but hey
Nikkirenae8 P. Yep and I think I've only seen him on The Real but those small segments were enough to put me off lol
Alexia Nicole 😂😥
Adam tried to be oppressed so bad. LMFAO. I am done.
Via Metanoia That’s where the power is at these days, its to be oppressed. It’s the victim olympics smh...
@@IslenoGutierrez you said the victim Olympics 😂😂😂😂😂
@@jademaina3308 well it is...
Man 😹😹😹I was over here like girl stop white people do not experience racism 😹😹 the fact that he felt that was racist shows how pleasant his life has been ☠️
I'm glad Jeannie explained the oriental thing. I've never called anyone that (or thought to call anyone that) but I've never heard anyone explain the term either. Learn something new everyday.
*"adam doesn't try to make racially driven jokes"*. Adam get's angry/offended because you asked him how much mayo should put on his his sandwich and he thought that was racist, yet he voted for a man who's done and said worse than racially driven jokes!! i find it funny that she said that.
로저 if you looked into the wicked things hiliary and her husband did to black people you would realize that them and trump are really no different..It's just that trump shows his colours for everyone to see while clinton (like a true politician) hides it....I'm not hating just saying the trut...I'm dislike all of them...btw are you an army?
i was a bernie supporter and YES. i'm an ARMY . ONCE and IGOT&(AHGASE)
***** great I like bts as well and I'm a fan of BB...what is ONCE
TWICE FAN!
Leia Richardson A ONCE is a Twice fan
Quite honestly, that mayonnaise thing at the end was completely unnecessary. I can't believe Adam was actually offended by that. It was a simple question. Jesus, why does everyone need to take everything so seriously.
Pili Moczó exactly. I was at a BBQ & the lady serving refreshments (who was white) asked me if I wanted Watermelon. I said 'no thank you ' and she moved on to the next person. I didn't make a scene and got all offended by it.
+Medjine Seguy Do like I always do. I say, white people eat watermelon too (they really do tho) they just cube it up (they really do eat it cubed). I wouldn't have gotten offended either. It was just fruit.
Pili Moczó point is she assume he wanted it and asked him how much instead of asking if he actually even wanted it on his sandwich.
applejuicyjuice She assumed because who doesn't like mayo?
applejuicyjuice ok but he had no reason to get offended
"thank you addam for teaching me not all white people like mayonnaise" 😂😂😂! She was serious too ...
That's right, Jeannie. You should not be calling other humans oriental and exotic.
Jennifer Humphries Correct me if I'm wrong, didn't Tamera describe Ariah as "exotic"
Michie Oo chile...I was saying the same thing..and a time when the ladies were describing each other..either loni or Jeannie told Tamera that she has exotic skin..........the real is a real bunch of hypocrites especially dealing with race (don't mind that I still watch them)
Leia Richardson Tamera was saying she was insecure about her knees and Loni told her she had exotic knees. I mean, she was referring to just her knees but yes, that's true.
Jennifer Humphries right right I remember now
Funny that she thinks she has the right call black men her "dark meat" that she can have on the side.
Adam really out here offended when Tamera asked him if he wanted mayo....she ain't even say nothing bad?? She was making him a sandwich he should chill OUT
Wow Adam is so sensitive. That mayo thing was not deep lmaooo. Anyways, I think if you are an in interracial relationship, do those type of joke in private if your spouse is okay with it because they might accept it as a joke but the rest of the people won't.
Right! Lol me and my friends say stuff about each others races but we know their jokes and becuz we really know each other very well it's ok but we say those jokes when it's just us cuz we understand not everyone will think it's funny.
Neither is the chicken or watermelon thing but y’all make it a big deal
I was on the floor when Tamara talked about the mayo😂😂😂..I didn't know loving mayo was a white person stereotype. Learn something new everyday
Rasheem Reid LOOOOL I was thinking nahh that's can't be a thing 😂😭
When Mel B said to jeannie "You're very funny" agreed. 😍
I choked on my tea when tamera said Adam is not that type of person. Okay girl
Im in a interracial relationship and I agree with Jeannie. You can't generalize everyone. But my boyfriend and I joke with each other all the time.
luvin ur hair ... jeannie.
that jumbo kanekalon braiding pack hair wasn't looking too right smh
ALEXANDERthenotsoGREAT sike
Alexia Nicole 😂😂
I was looking for that comment 😂ssshhhady!
ALEXANDERthenotsoGREAT same😍
Lol, I didn't know the "mayo" stereotype. All this gives me a headache!
White people so sensitive
Emma Baker+ excuse my ignorance, *SOME* white people are sensitive
i've heard of white people being called "mayo," but i never knew there was a stereotype of them eating it a lot.
It's not a stereotype. White people like Adam just have this false notion that reverse racism against whites exist. It doesn't. - this is the same thing that happened during the clapback clip when someone assumed he couldn't cook collars greens. On twitter he said "it's obviously it goes both ways". lol there's no such thing as white oppression.
Aqua Mina you missed out on some funny Dave Chapelle skits
"Adam is not that type of person." No Tamera...Adam is that type of person that votes for Trump 🐸☕️
heatsd why does everybody always say he voted for him lmao
Dasia Franklin have you not seen his twitter ?
heatsd obviously not if I asked
You Tried It! Smh
heatsd he voted for Trump?
Jeannie's comment about the "oriental" thing is so true. Calling an Asian person "Oriental' is painfully ignorant
Loni's glam team needs to chill with Sacha Buttercup powder😩😩
Malle F. Gudlawe hahaha..😂😂😂 im crying
they need to chill with the nose contour too! It looks like they forgot to blend ever since the new season started
I was so distracted by white powder milk under her eyes but yeah you right. The glam squad really played too many jokes on our girl Loni Love all throughout to 2016 😂😂
I think she also needs darker eyebrows. Her make up has been off since September for some reason. It's kinda distracting because nothing looks like it's blended properly.
Malle F. Gudlawe Tyrell Mullins Tamar former makeup artist. He's trying to make her look more like her idol
L O L @ the story of Adam crying "reverse racism". And Tamera's head just in the damn clouds. Good god.
It’s not called “reverse racism” it’s simply called racism.
I would have laughed at that "CP time" joke.
I'm black
Breaking Alabaster same! Loll. Idk if this is iff topic, but My dad is always on time and my family always tease him calling him white. And he always reply "If being on time means I'm white, then I guess I'm an oreo." Loll.
Medjine Seguy haha ya... I get the same thing. I'm always on time too.
+Medjine Seguy 😂😂😂
Lol I would too. I'm literally not even offended
Go Yolie! because you’re a normal person, not a crybaby with perpetually hurt feelings.
Not here for Tamera today! And I'll leave it at that.
LMFAOO whenever they start to have racial discussions I'm never here for her
Alexia Nicole YUP.
Sava 😳😳
+Alexia Nicole why?
ZizYoubizHERE yup, I second this, why?? Just because she has a husband that may have voted got Trump does not undermine her blackness. So idk where y'all are comin from..
Loni got that look on her face "You know he's racist sometimes" 😹😹
Adrienne: ya know, as a Latina from New York
Also Adrienne: doesn't know the name of New York's Mayor
she applauding england but they're the once who caused these jokes AND racism
Mik K how did England cause the jokes, they may have caused slavery but not the jokes
Nope America has always been racist don't bring other countries into this.
I think racism generally has been around in the entire world a lot longer then England has....
I'm sorry but saying you have a black wife and as a result everyone should automatically assume that she is in fact angry is offensive.
It's ok that Tamera identifies as Black. I identify as Black, but I'm mixed. Nothing against my family members who aren't Black, but if I'm walking down the street and a person sees me, they aren't going to call me White. They're going to call me Black because I look mostly Black. Now, if someone asks me if I'm mixed with something (which people often do), then I'll tell them my background. But, just to make it easier for everyone, I say that I'm Black. Let people identify the way they want. We're all humans anyway.
LumiereDarling Perfectly stated!
LumiereDarling exactly what I think to !
LumiereDarling Excatly i see her as black until see stated she was biracial. Before then i never know she was biracial.
preach
Is it bad that, that's my favorite part about dating someone from a different race, that you can ask those awkward questions and be a bit idk racial, like I like educating them about my culture and them educating me about there's and if there's a question about stereotypical stuff, they can ask, & we can laugh idk I think it's cute tbh
Yellowlover94 me too. I love it. Right there with you.
Yeah, no I don't have time for that.
Yellowlover94 That's not bad at all! It's a bonding time!
It's fine, no problem.
that's stupid to do there not a science project
300 years of slavery, segregation, now tamera' s husband offended by mayo we have gone to far with all these racist things
On God 😹😹😹😹white people want to experience racism and oppression so bad and I just cannot for the life of me understand why ☠️
I am literally as cool as a cucumber the most laid back person you'll ever meet I'm also quite shy and timid. Guys (usually black) always say how I'm so different, nice and soft spoken etc but I've noticed, when they find you don't fit the false stereotype of being the "loud mouth, angry, full of attitude black girl" they think they can walk all over you and talk to you anyhow they want. Then when I try to defend myself they're shocked and are like "how dare you" or "why you giving attitude" honestly we can't win
Goooooooorrrrrrlll, this is me. The media been out to make black people look bad, so we'll never win.
I say this to my husband all the time. If black women are not the stereotype ppl try their best to treat us like doormats. Its real and sad
Loni's burst of laughter when Jeanie mentioned the rug is fucking hilarious. I cant contain myself.
Please keep Mel B!!!!
my husband is white and im black and when I have my scraf on my head he calls me aunt Jemima , and when white people do stuff i say ur people did this that's as far as the race jokes go in our house but that's it. it's funny to us and that's what matters
Shari Parrilla yeah I get little inside jokes but to say " angry black woman" and TRY to make it a joke but end up failing then there is something wrong that you said
I agree u can call me anything rude but sayING I'm an angry black women makes me super angry. Like black women can be angry
Shari Parrilla I do believe that it's the intent that matters and as long as you aren't offended by it then that's what it is, but I have to say, if someone likened me to a minstrel show character, we would fight.
That's borderline offensive
Shari Parrilla Black girl lost
loni supposed to be the comedian but jeannies jokes are the ones that people actually laugh @. no shade loni but its true
I swear, Adrienne truly says some of the most unintelligent things on this show! She says "I blame his wife"... are u freaking kidding me girl? In the famous words of the TRUE star of the show, Tamar "get your life"! How can you possibly BLAME his wife for the things that come out of HIS mouth? That is so stupid. Her logic will and can be used against her in the You Tube court of law. Remember everybody, the next time we see Israel parading around on the beach lookin like a crusty, overweight old man, we can all say, "I blame his wife"! 😎
Well said. She definitely *TRIED IT*. I will be screenshotting this comment for future back up evidence. Thanks.
Alexia Nicole Please do... be my guest!
Humble Chiq 😂😂😂
Humble Chiq she married into the duggar's cult, so, naturally, everything that's wrong will always be the woman's fault.
Humble Chiq Well we can all agree Adrienne's not been on the best terms with men's wives 😂😂😂😂😉
THANK YOU JEANIE!!! I get soooo annoyed when people say "oriental" like wtf does that mean??? 😒
Jeannie's hair is giving me lifeeeeeee
The more I get to know about Adam and Tamera's relationship, the more I pray I never date a man like that. Let alone marry. I used to think the were so adorable
Adam is not bad person, stop that
@@MrB590 When did I say he was a bad person?? He’s just not my type to date due to this video and others I’ve seen of him.
that situation with Adam was dumb. just because someone ask if you want manyonise doesn't make them racist. sorry but Adam turned that into a race tging. I love white bread, lettuce, tomato, onion, extra manyonise and the Italian sub from subway none of which have to do with my ethnic background. . my mom said since she was pregnant with me all I wanted to eat was Italian food. its just me. lol like Jeannie why can't we just see people for people. I agree with Jeanie the most on this topic.
So you would also agree that when someone asks a black person if they want some chicken it isn’t racism and they’re being dramatic?
I'm loving Mel B on the pannel! She meshes very well with the ladies and spits great knowledge on the show! Keeping her would be truly amazing! I've always been a fan ☺💖
I scream-cried at the mayo part. Not gonna lie.
4:18 Adam sit down, that was not racist. Asking if you want Mayo on your sandwich is a common question. Most people like mayo on their sandwich. That's like asking do you want ketchup on your fries, ice in your drink, syrup on your pancakes, or ranch on your salad. You get the point?
To be honest, I was reluctant to watch this because these girls can be a little ignorant when discussing touchy subjects, but I was pleasantly surprised by all of the commentary. We can all agree that racial jokes are only funny if the person is a minority themselves, or if their name is Gary Owen. Also, I think Mel B is a great addition to the panel, she's slowing starting to fit in more and more each day!!
It's not right tho 😂
Love Mel B on the show she fits in well! Keep her please the real!!!
"i had to explain to him that im not a rug" LMAOOOO I love Mel B btw
😩 There's a limit to everything. And each of us have a right to set a limitation on what's too far with jokes. Just me personally, I have to laugh at things. There's so many sad things in the world, I try to laugh as much as I can. I laugh at race jokes, most, not all. There's humor in reality. I just can't be serious all the time, I have enough to be stressed about. Lighten up guys!
mscourt agree!
LMFAO IM NOT A RUG. jeannie brings so much to this show do you remember in the beginning she was the underdog now look! that makes me happy. Go Jeannie!!!
Tamera u have lost ur damn mind with that story... Get ur responses to racial topics together
I noticed that Jeanie makes very poignant points now that Tamar isn't running down her throat.
LOL! Jeannie... "I had to explain to him that I'm not a rug"! Genius. And speaks to a deeper objectification of other races too, describing ppl the way you would an object.
I've dated a outside my race, and we had an unusual relationship, because we would crack jokes on each other about racial things but it never gotten to a point to where it was offensive, we knew there was a line that we shouldn't cross, and to this day we still have a genuine love for each other. I have had many friends of different races, and dated outside of my race all the time but there must be a genuine respect and love for each other, and their differences.
"My husband...sometimes is not funny." The shade lol
I walk into the class on the first day of school and the first thing I see is a poster on the wall that reads, "Warning⚠ Educated Black Women Ahead!" this is the best thing I have ever seen....❤😂
Honestly , and this is for me.. We've had this talk before , I think there is a difference between laughing WITH the person and laughing AT a person , same with Joking with someone or lowkey throwing shade but saying its a joke.... If you are mixed with that certain race you happen to also be dating then that's fine but also you shouldn't make any racial jokes unless its regarding your race !
Loni loves to play devils advocate..& give her "last two cents of wisdom" before every girl chat discussion ends
Don't be fooled that there are no racial jokes in England. There's even an issue in football and black players
I remember being a teenager and explaining that there was this "Oriental man at the library who likes picking on me." I didn't know another way to describe him. I was like, fifteen, I think? One of the adults at the community center explained to me, "Asian. You call him Asian, not Oriental." She never explained why, and I didn't ask, I just felt like Asian was a better word in the first place, but now I know. Thank you, Jeanie for explaining that!
Oy tamera. Your husband is that kind of person 🙃
I'm in a mixed relationship and we tend to joke around with each other about our different cultures and race. That being said, we know not to display all of those jokes in public because it might offend someone else that does not have the same humor. I think that everyone is different regardless of color, so it's about knowing your crowd and knowing when there is an appropriate time to say or not to say things.
"I am not a rug." THIS NEEDS TO BE A T SHIRT!!! "I am not oriental, therefore I'm not a rug. "
People like Jeanie are the best. Inform people rather than going around calling everyone racist. Especially, when people come from different cultures, words have leveling degrees of significance. I have a few Hispanic friends who have said things that sounded horribly racist at the surface. Instead of going off on them, I told them the significance of what they were saying. As I learned Spanish more, I discovered that, to them, what they said wasnt nearly as bad as the English translation
They just really make me smile I’m so happy the show is this way now!♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️ love me some Mel B too! Yaasssss TR YASSSS SHE’s a keeper!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Loni saying "leave the jokes to the comedians" knowing damn well her jokes always fall flat...
I'm not a rug 😂😂😂😂
Am I the only one who feels like Jeannie doesn't try to make people sympathize with her white family/husband, unlike Tamera? Race topics are always disappointing coming from her.
Koala I always hold on to my seat when watching them discuss racial topics because they're always cringe worthy. Tamera sympathising and Loni speaking in an apologetic tone for being black. Jeannie, and sometimes Adrienne are the real ones when it comes to topics about race. Surprisingly.
Jeannie with her long hair is giving me lifeeee !
Love Mel B! She fits in so well with these ladies.
I've never heard about white people liking mayo???
Me either.
Yes it is definitely a stereotype 😂
Yes Adrianne!!! when she went there with that question now this is what the real is about! being real and getting to the tea but being respectful
Yassss loni give us comedian tips hunny!!! Because you’re so funny and make such original jokes haha. Remember that time you made a brown liquor joke? Or when you said “that’s why I’m single” when we know that’s not really why... or the treemonster jokes that really have me slapping my knee... sis u tired
Great topic. People need to be aware.
I love Jeannie's hair ❤️ I love these ladies and look up to them so much!!❤️
I agree jokes about stereotypes is a no laughing matter. When people generalize they do it based on what they are used to seeing mostly or experience. I like how you guys talk about being checked for stereotyping and moving on.
Glad you guys educated me. I didn't know about the oriental or mayo thing. Thanks!
Jeanie got real!!!!!!!!
This is when interracial relationships get sticky
The way Tamera said "I was just tryna help" 😂 my laugh just burst out of me
I swear Jeannie had me on the floor "I'm not a rug".....
I agree Jeannie, words like 'oriental' or 'tiger ...' Don't you agree, Muppet? I know your ass lurkin'. **sips boba**
Deep down Tamera knows she married a racist but stay denying it. I thought Adam is educated and articulate. That's why you don't judge a book by its cover. I judged him based on they way he dressed (tuxedos), his job (correspondent) and his bank account (wealthy family), that doesn't mean he's the aforementioned, yikes‼‼‼
I LOOOOOVE THE WAY THE SHOW FLOWS WITH EACH HOST BEING COMFORTABLE IN THEIR SKIN WITH MEL AND SHE'S A NATURAL AND SHE BRINGS A UNIQUE POSITIVE VIBE TO THE SHOW AND AAAAHHHH SHES JUST A BREATH OF FRESH AIR IF I MUST SAY !!! THIS COMMENT IS IN CAPITALS BECAUSE SERIOUSLY MEL NEEDS TO STAY ON THE REAL PERMANENTLY STRAIGHT UP !!! 😎
Jeannie's "I'm not a rug" comment killed me!
Random: why is everyone's hair curly except Adrienne's?
Naussicaa Regis I mean she has her hair up. she curls it other times.
They all colluded and forgot to let her in on it.
Im in a interracial relationship and my man doesnt say race jokes or anything like that. I mean he might have his opinions about how messed up the whole racism thing is, but thats it. He hates talking about anything race wise cause its ridiculous. Im alittle different lol I check alot of people that are racist or have something to say about blacks, whites, asians, etc all that because I dont think anyone should be judged based on their skin color, thats stupid lol. So, anyone saying white people are this or that or should do this or that or black people are this or that, asians are this..etc, i'll call bullshit to it real quick. Racism is alive and well, but I refuse to allow it to take over my life and how I treat HUMAN BEINGS. Why cant people see it that way, I have no idea, but change starts with courtesy.
Judith Francine
You sure he doesn't avoid race issues because he doesn't want to offend you?
Please keep Mel B! Love her on this show
I love this show so much. You guys are so positive and very open and are not afraid to be who God made y'all to be. This show is making history and i believe each and everyone of you guys will be written in the book of life by our father. Every show on tv now is about drama, sex and lies. But The Real is built on pure honesty and truth. The devil tryed to start some mess last year but you know what, he didn't win. I have never felt the appreciation of real women the way i feel about you guy's. This show is not just a talk show. The Real was God sent. Y'all keep glowing and stay focused on y'all Spiritual and Natural goals. Be Blessed!
Tamera's response is interesting... because it's out there in the blogs that the reason that Tia isn't a fan of Adam is because he made a racially insensitive joke around Tamera's family, and she didn't correct him. She may corrected him at home, but it's OK to admit that BOTH of them needed to be educated. I agree that the mayo comment was insensitive, although unintentionally; I mean, even Loni assumed that all white people love mayo. She probably didn't want to throw Adam under the bus, especially since black twitter loves to drag him based on assumptions, but she could have been honest in saying they both had to go through a learning curve - that would have been more genuine. Well, I'm black and I can't eat sandwich without Mayo. LOL.
WifeandWife
(This is copy and pasted from lipstick alley.com)
“Tamera knows about one incident that happened after they got married and they got into a huge argument, but she didn’t leave him because she was trying to save face.
Adam has said horrible things about black people, right in front of Tamera’s face. For example, one night they were hanging with some of Adam’s friends and they were trying to figure out what they wanted to eat, someone suggested Ethiopian food and Adam said ‘what starve to death?’ his friends laughed but Tamera was silent.
She told Tia about the horrible joke and this is why Tia, Jerome and most of Tamera’s family do not like him. Tamera is holding on to dear life but this marriage will not survive because the lack of respect Adam has for Tamera and her family.”
I grew up in Southeast Ohio and I've heard plenty of older folks use the word 'oriental'. Some people still don't seem to fully understand what words mean and can imply. And the word doesn't always seem to be used in a deliberately derogatory way. Some are still ignorant to the power their words have. It's not a part of my vocabulary. I always felt that if you're unsure of an Asian individual's background (Not knowing which country in Asia they may have roots in), you just simply acknowledge them as Asian, or like Jeannie said, just refer to her as Jeannie. As far as racial misunderstanding goes, I actually think America has severely underrepresented the Asian community as a whole. In history entertainment, in the media and arts. We all need to come together to create an America that represents each and every one of us in our fullest dignity and greatness. Every race, religion, sexuality. Everyone. The greater strides we make in that effort, the better understanding and compassion we will all have for one another. ❤
Please keep Mel B!!!! She blends so well with the girls!
I love Mel B's laugh!!😅😅 and Jeannie "im not a rug." 😂😂😂😂
Tamara is a fool for letting her husband trick her into thinking asking mayo in his sandwich was racist. Someone help her.