10 Toxic People To Avoid
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- Опубликовано: 12 ноя 2020
- Toxic people are more accurately described as people who routinely exhibit behaviors that are negative, unhealthy, and debilitating to others. Do you have a toxic person in your life? While these behaviors are toxic, it is important to recognize that the person may be fighting emotional battles of their own. However, we should still be more aware of people like this because they can have a huge impact on your performance and happiness.
If some of these types described you and you're feeling guilty of engaging in some of these negative behaviors yourself, but you're still unsure if you're really becoming toxic, we've also made a video on the signs you've become a toxic person: • 7 Signs You're Becomin...
Writer: Ria Parikh
Script Editor: Rida Batool
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Animator: Lesly Drue - lesly.d.rmz@gmail.com
RUclips Manager: Cindy Cheong
References
Bayes-Fleming, Nicole. “The Mind-Traps that Lead to Toxic Jealousy”. Mindful. 14 December 2018.
Imafidon, Casey. “10 Types of Toxic People You Should Be Careful Of”. Lifehack. N.d.
Lancer, Darlene. “How Insecurity Leads to Envy, Jealousy, and Shame”. Psych Central. 8 October 2018.
Nazareth, Felicia. “10 Types Of Toxic People To Avoid In Life & Toxic Personality Traits”. Align Thoughts. 18 December 2017.
Perron, Josée. “5 Types of Toxic People Who Will Poison your Path if you Let Them”. You Choose The Way. 26 June 2018.
Stosny, Steven. “What’s Wrong with Criticism”. Psychology Today. 18 April 2014.
Tartakovsky, Margarita. “What’s a Toxic Person & How Do You Deal With One?”. Psych Central. 8 July 2018.
Tartakovsky, Margarita. “Why Ultimatums Are Actually Destructive to Your Relationship”. Psych Central. 8 July 2018.
Do you have any personal stories or video requests that you would like to share with us? If so, feel free to email us at editorial@psych2go.net
Do you know someone toxic in your life? Comment below.
Also, we did a voice reveal here: ruclips.net/video/iIEsoJRZhOE/видео.html
my close friend is super toxic these days
Hi
My cousin she is very manipulative-
Yea I have the drama one... it's been going on for 3 years..
She made me choose between my bff and her...
My parent (pretty) toxic
Sometimes I’m afraid that I’M the toxic one.
You can always better yourself bro, reflection is the first step to self-improvement.
same
Me to
I can sometimes be 6 with some of my friends. I don't mean to. It just falls out. I've been getting a bit better but I still catch myself every now and then.
truth
“Before you argue with someone, think to yourself is that person even mentally mature enough to grasp the concept of different perspectives. Because if not, there’s absolutely no point.”🙏🏽
..... time to mentally grasp what you mean when you comment this
1. You also been through something similar where no one seems to understand you
2. You comment this so you can connect more
3. I suck at connecting so rip
Me and my friend while texting. Thankfully we're both understanding of each other.
Well said
Mans spitin fax
@@alexiswilson3769 The definition of argue is to have differing perspectives and discussing it. "Argument" doesn't mean a angry or loud or abusive, but it's been twisted to become that when discussing relationships. Two people can argue while laughing, but it crosses the line into abusive arguments when toxicity and the point becomes to dominate the other's opinion using bullying tactics.
A disagreement is stating differences of opinion. An argument is making the case for those perspectives. Discussions develop around discovering arguments and perspective. You can argue that a square is a rectangle without raising your voice or throwing things, right? How about what movie to watch or what books you like?
Don't worry, I grew up believing "argument" meant shouting and slapping and putting my younger siblings to bed early so they wouldn't get caught up in it and hit repeatedly. But it doesn't mean that exclusively, and believing so does the word and conversation as a whole a disservice.
1: 0:33: The Jealous Type
2: 1:06: The Egotistical Type
3: 1:30: The Manipulative Type
4: 2:03: The User
5: 2:34: People who feed off Drama
6: 3:20: People who are Judgmental or Overly Critical
7: 4:09: People who Cannot Control Emotional Outbursts
8: 4:41: People who Disregard Your Values
9: 5:09: People who set Ultimatums
10: 5:48: People who Have an Overly-competitive Mindset
Thanks for putting this together :)
@@Psych2go You're most welcome. Thank you for making these videos
I have a friend that is 2, 3, maybe 4, 7 sometimes, 8,
and especially 6
Thank you, should have more attention
I feel bad for physch2go people makes these comments and people would got to the comment and look at these and than done while missing out the details that physch2go gave them after tons of research
We complain about having toxic people in our lives, but what if WE’RE the toxic people in another’s life?
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This is a question I ask myself almost every single day.
You’re completely right, and I struggle with this
Then just change your ways its not that hard
that thought lives in my mind rent free
“So how do you know who is a toxic person?”
Me just distracted by the new animation style then my mind goes on to think about if my friends are toxic:
I realized my closest friends were toxic so one day, I just left them and by that I mean I ignored all the messages, I ignored the calls and I just cut them off.
Best thing ever.
Was it hard?
One of the hardest things I have ever done, so do it if you have any and also learn that maybe you were kind of toxic too and it’s okay, we’re human, we grow and just get better. ♥️
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Nobody deserves toxic friends
Ok maybe some people
@@Cahrssomething lol, honestly in some CC ases you can be the toxic person and you obviously going to attract people that are like you usually so it’s not that you deserve it, you’re just most likely to have people like that in your life.
This art style and setting is so fascinating.
Glad you love it! Lesly is one of our ex animator :) !
@@Psych2go oh I’m sorry to hear that all her videos are great.
Personaly the animation is to gorged to me
Probaly the wrong word but I'm going with it
@@FMeister94 Yes, she's been with us for over 2 years and had a slight burnout!
Sorry but I don’t like it at all 😣
"If they gossip with you, they gossip about you"
Yep, it’s a personality trait. The people I know who gossip a lot do it habitually and can’t help not doing it. They also tend to be very two faced.
the two faced is so realll
I think having no friend is so much better to have some toxic ones.
On "The User", I don't think that there's anything wrong with talking to someone only for assignments or work, since maybe you don't know each other well and it's the only subject you can talk about at first. The red flags are when they refuse to return the favor when you ask for help, and the relationship doesn't progress from acquaintances to good friends.
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Well!
Yea I do agree with you . But I do think it is toxic, as I’ve been there before. I’ll explain why?
I never made any friends during my high school and people were racist to me due to the complexion I taht I’m in. I did not take it to my heart as I was a grown up, but I did have one person who comes up to me and talks to me, the only way I could make friends was by helping whatever he needed. I was pretty desperate to make friends back then. So I didn’t care how much he used me. After a year I realised he was just using me for his needs and I didn’t make any progress in a friendly relationship with him too either. The conversation starts up like “ hey man, I’ve been stuck in this shit . Can u help me out” and it was never like “ hey man. How are you doing?”
Maybe I was stupid back then, but I was desperate to make a friend. “The user” kind of relationship outside the working world (school or office) makes a huge difference rather than working as an acquaintance for a particular project.
Yeah, I agree.. I like to be alone most of the times and I currently don't wanna become close to people.. So, I only talk when necessary.. I'm worried I might come off as a toxic person.. But it's not like I won't help people when they need me..
I think they didnt explain well this part. But I've been there. By users means when they pretend to be a closer person for you, but their intentions are based on what they can get from you. Is so much more that just a homework or help on a activity at work. Is when they pretend to care for your things only when they need something. Or they ask if you're ok, but they not aiming to listen actually, and then ask for some kinda of favor or just want for you to be always the listener or provider of something in that relationship.
But dude in my case, the close friends of mine come to me only when they need some help, they ignore me other times
recently stopped being friends w someone who couldn't control their emotional outbursts, feels good man
I have those people in my life and yikes
same lol i hate it here
Same
How come this comment has been 3weeks ago but the video is only uploaded this day?(was it edited or something)
saameee thank god idc about them now
@@nutsackgirl2605 same I hate it here
The leaves on the heads' of the characters are really adorable.
Thanks to the animators for the eye blessing visuals and thanks to Psych2go for the helpful videos.
Stay healthy. ❤
ok but this is kind of wholesome and cute with the plants :)
Yeah
2 MONTHS AGO
@@maespace222 bro what how
@@dr3d_c201 right
Poor Psy. He's been through a lot...
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#7: People who cannot control emotional outbursts.
My BPD ass: Oh, shit!
I have experienced the jealous types. My "friend" was always talking behind my back saying I have the "perfect" life.
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Those kinds of people tried to steal away friends too, when they talk behind backs.
Once upon a time there was a sparrow flying in a winter storm. Exhausted from fighting the high winds he landed in a pasture to rest. Along came a cow who, not paying any attention to the sparrow, took a big crap that buried the bird. Now the sparrow was disgusted, but soon realized he was actually quite warm in there, so decided to stay. Not long later a cat came along and noticed the sparrow sitting there. He took the bird out of the pile and brought him inside. The cat then drew a bath for the sparrow, and cleaned all the crap from his feathers. Then ate him.
Moral of the story: not everyone who shits on you is your enemy. Not everyone who takes you in and cleans you up is your friend.
Wow this is actually a great story! Nice life lesson at the end too. 😊
Deep!!💕
"Number one; the jealous type,"
Quite bold of you to assume I am loved enough for someone to be jealous of me.
I feel like Psy2go should make a video on surviving sexual molestation. Especially if it's happening on a regular basis, how to cope up with it. Molestation is extremely traumatic and it's high time we need to talk about it.👍🏼
Ur so right, a lot of people have had that kind stuff happen to them and people seem to just brush it off like its nothing or simply don’t acknowledge it
I need to stop inviting toxic people into my life. I find that I have trouble letting them go and they cause damage and then leave me more broken than before
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My mom and dad are abusive
@@epicfighter7653 wait I’m really sorry 😞
@@rayfrawley1254 I relate to this so so much. I have toxic family members in my life and it’s hard to let them go because they’re family. But agreed, I’m so aware of how I am affected by toxic people that I don’t want to hurt other people. But sometimes that means I let people hurt me instead and putting other people before myself.
If you can't get the toxic person out of your life yet, you got to emotionally cut them off a bit. Making a "mental barrier" can sound like BS, but it's helped me a lot with my toxic folks. Getting those people distanced or out the door are important for your health. Maybe make a safe/happy space to destress. You can also make mantras for self power or positive affirmations, sometimes you gotta be your own bff when you feel trapped. :'( good luck
im a toxic one. im the overly competitive one. i have to work on myself. thank you.
Remember some friends aren’t meant to last forever just because she they were only there to teach u a lesson but the ones who last for infinity are your soulmate. You got this bro or girl! ❤️👑
My friend is the one that cannot control emotional outbursts, and I'm trying to cut off the relationship but I can't help myself from the heartbreak I feel everytime I see them 💔
People who are emotionally volatile need someone to care for them. Avoiding someone with an attachment disorder just makes it so much worse and just proves that they'd be abandoned, the way to help the disorder is by treating them right.
True. But if someone is abusive and sucking the life out of you, there may not be much to give back to the relationship. Hard to care for someone if you're running on empty yourself.
ok but this is kind of wholesome and cute with the plants :)
1 month ago
H-how is this already a month old😭 how off is my RUclips notifications🥺
@@cultleaderday-day8835 I think Patreons
Bots Maybe
How-
My heart was pounding because I didn't want any of this to apply to anyone around me.
He should just get together with the girl with the purple flower. She cares about him a lot
This video just came out
@@dr3d_c201 They just had early acces lol
Yoo
Big brain
I meet them, but most of them don’t get allowed into my life.
I usually sense it before them
I’ve meet all these types of toxic people both in friendship and relationship. Recently I’ve been more aware of these signs and I’ve cut them off one by one.
Life is full of hardship 😔
I'm glad I saw this not only to identify toxic relationships but also to find toxicity in my own behavior. Thanks for the vid!
I wish evebody is having a wonderful weekend with proper selfcare. Don't let toxic people ruin your day.
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I just noticed how toxic almost all my friends are, luckily I'm the strongest and tallest so imma give them a lesson, thank you whoever made this video
Man... I had such a bad time with a User when I was a teen. She would call me over to play with her, then have me do chores or use me as an excuse to not be doing her homework. When I realized and confronted her, she publicly laughed at me in my face with her close cousin and went back home laughing away.
Love the different designs of each toxic person resembling various forms of weeds
This is literally my family and I'm stuck in quarantine with them😑
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Same, literally everyday i would write on a piece of paper in a notebook that
I want to move out, i haven't missed a single day, they are really draining me
@@louisratatoulielinson same
#7 is me :( but I can’t control it so I stay away from people the best I can..
It's ok, I'm here for you! :)
Me too, but I still learn it day by day :)
I'm glad I'm out of one community that keep toxicly talking about how being competitive will make me success.
Glad I'm left since what I actually get is not succesful but rather just a pile of insecurity.
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Top 10 Toxic people you'll meet in your life.
(1) Those who ridicule you for watching Psych2go :(
Facts
I like to say anybody who sees this comment and understand are super smart being
In my experience
I once had not just toxic group all trying to use me and one other person in the group
They would use me as a resource and whenever I said they used me as a resource they would talk about all the “good times” we had together
Also they even made me do things that weren’t good for little things and overly exposed me when I was doing those things that they brought me into :(
Don’t worry I left them
My mom might ridicule me A LOT if she finds out I am getting assistance from the internet. She never even tried to take me to a psychologist until recently, and it has been over a month since then and we still haven’t gotten results. Because of Psych2go, I think I know what disorder I have without results.
@@RandomGoldieStuff what’s even worse is getting misdiagnosed from a “professional” and be given the wrong treatment and medications. Stay safe out there!
I have met a toxic friends who is jealousy and the user. That's why I have a high standard when it comes to friends, my mom always says that I shouldn't let this people use me and just be jealous of the things that I have and they just feel insecure about their selves. Those toxic friends that i currently have always shows off out of nowhere, always make assumptions about me even though it's not true. Toxic and jealous friendship won't last long because if they kept on doing this thing that we don't like about them. They always gossip about me because I have the things that I want and they never receive any of the things that I have. That's why I prefer less friends but at least they're true friends and always not using me and getting jealous on that things that I have and they're more supportive and care about me. I feel more comfortable with them.
This video reminded me of my last place of employment. It was full of toxic people.
Thanks for this!
👍They try control you by guilt tripping.
They are easily jealous.
They constantly see themselves as a victim
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Guilt tripping is a technique useless against me... I have no guilt for miniscule things...
I've been hurt by a person who did this to me.
Lol this is why I cut everybody off, I’ve become a lot more productive in my life ever since and a whole lot happier.
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If you have cut everybody off then you are most likely a toxic person
@@CarterWills1 😂 if I am then I am, if I’m not then I’m not, all I know is I’m getting more done while I’ve got dozens of people gossiping about me and that’s how they’ve decided to make up their mind about me, off assumption, I can’t change it but I can change myself lol
Time changes people. We are at 2024 and society has become sicken overtime. I hate it here@@noworneversoulbeach
10 types of people I don’t need in my life. Byeeeee 👋🏽
Well I have a lot of people like that in my life
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This Video:Today
The comment:6 days ago
Hi time traveler
@@oO0yuu0Oo oh Hi
@@_ray401 hehe
Number 6. I know a few people who do this. "You should have done this instead of that." "Why don't you do this, instead of that all the time." "You ALWAYS do this. We are just trying to help YOU." Like... Let me do shit my own way. They always point out my flaws and what I'm doing wrong and how I should do it.
I think something to bear in mind is that with people who have emotional outbursts, it’s just as important to look at how they behave AFTER their outburst as DURING. I know I personally have a hard time processing my emotions due to my ASD (also maybe bipolar disorder, but no official diagnosis on that one yet) and can sometimes snap at people when they’ve done nothing to deserve it, BUT, I also try to apologize and take responsibility for my behavior as soon as I’m no longer emotionally volatile. I’ve also been taking active measures to try and improve my ability to self regulate. I wouldn’t necessarily think of myself as a toxic person, as I tend to think a major factor in a person’s “toxicity” is if they try to improve or not. A truly toxic person would more often than not make no sincere attempt at self improvement and just force everyone else to try and deal with them.
I have Britney Spears’ Toxic stuck in my head now from the title of the vid 😂
😂
Let’s make this world a better place to live guys and I hope everybody learned the past.
It's totally hurtful to be toxic. People don't seem to realize when they negatively curse someone they're cursing themselves.
So accurate and gentle. I can tell you care and are being purely informative. You do not bash the toxic ones, you're educating us on potential signs and how to take care of ourselves accordingly.
Thank you so much.
How can my ex best friend literally match ALL of these? I almost wanna send him this video
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I had someone who I was supposedly very close with say some pretty mean things to me when I went to them for support when I was in a depressive episode. they seemed like a completely different person than who I knew.
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That's a huge red flag, people show you who they really are when they're faced with adversity. I'm sorry you had to experience that
"While it's not a bad thing to look out for yourself, It becomes a problem when self-care turns into self-absorption" 👏👏👏
1:26 The absolute shade / glare Phy threw at that other gurl is literally gold🤣
Wow, did you hire a new animator?
Send them my compliments, they're really good.
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@@thedivyanshii ty
I loved this artstyle and animation ! Oh, please, please let them become more frequent !
A good friend of mine has sent me a bunch of these videos because due to a toxic friend it lowered my opinion of myself and caused me to realize i need to go get help , thank you guys for making these videos :)
I love the concept of the art style! How it's based around plants is a good way to show what could happen to someone if they experience this kind of behavior from others.
I don't know if you'll see this or not, but I hope you can make a video about the fear of making friends again because you're afraid you'll lose them again. I have been struggling with this for a while, traumatised by what happened in the past few years. I just afraid, yknow...
This is my favorite animation of the channel so far, I'd honestly pay to see a movie with this arstyle
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YOU ARE UP CHANGING THE WORLD OF HELPING OTHERS HELP THEMSELVES. Gratitude of your WISDOM with such a clarifing adorable ARTISTIC platform.
It's insane because this is spot on. I dealt with so much forms of toxic individuals throughout my transgressions and growth process; belittling someone should never be that goal and shouldn't be a competitor. I've always felt as if I'm in that area in my life which is very stressful and hard to understand. I want to be able to heal and complete others' while getting the same in return.
Sometimes I wonder having empathy and compassion for others' breaks people such as myself.
5:56 HAHAHAH OMG HIS FACE HAS ME ON THE FLOOR GUYS🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
(The guy on the top right)
LMAO hes just like 😧
[ *PAUSE* ]
0:22 be like:
_why we're still here_
_just to suffer_
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Thanks for the vid!!!! Awesome as usual
You guys always post the right stuff at the right time
Claim your “here before a million views” ticket here
Sup :)
@@moo.n1292 you picked the right house fool
*eg*
:)
claimed
I have the drama one..
They made me choose between my bff and her...
She said she changed she hasn't started drama in 3 months...
I'm scared it will start again..
I get sad and start to cry thinking about it.. I've known her since 3rd now, I'm in 6th grade..
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@Unanonymous Person I'm just happy drama hasn't started in 3 months...
LOVE your channel!! Such great wisdom/content!!
It's been over 3 years that I got dumped out of a 2.5 year relationship. And every time I watch one of these videos, I see/hear my past self in them, and I get upset at myself...
Can you do a video on how to know if your friend is toxic? Bc my BEST friend seems toxic
I've met those kind of toxic before, I can't hold back sometimes I need to fight back >:|
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Huh
The animation today was amazing!!!! I always love watching your videos!
Well,
This video contains something that *surely somehow is raletable to my life*
*I am speechless* 😕
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I like how its being represened by cute plants.
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The animation is ssoooo GOOD LIKE any one can't do that. also its so how are you
P.S. its just to be nice
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Ok l watched the video and is good like l like how you draw the flower
A lot of these are what I relate to.... I am currently working through all of it, and have been for a while. Thank you for making this video
I’ve always been nervous that I’m a toxic person. I always feel like I’m number 3, 4, 6, 7, or even 9.
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When pysch2go uploaded un ur birthday: WOOHOO LET'S GOOOO-
happy birthday!
Happy birthday :)
Happy Birthday!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I am kinda sensitive and emotional one , tryna tell my feelings to my friends and ended up being betrayed and alone .... I was being used to because I couldn't say no to anyone....and when I ask for a
Little thing they make excuses 😔
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@@thedivyanshii beautiful 😍
It is so hard to cut toxic people out if your life, but it is worth it.
honestly, i absolutely love this animator :D
their character designs are so creative!!
Any South Asians here?
Well Happy Deepavali/Diwali😊
Pls make a 10 types of toxic owners u will meet In lyfe That d make me happ bork
Toxic owners for pets?
I love you doggo!!!
@@Psych2go yes our furry friends need advice too :D
@@phoenixthings :)
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I can’t wait to see more haha! Your videos tell me so much because I don’t know a clue on what goes around in the world. Like since I’m a class nerd. My “friend” lily always tends to ask me for answered on our work. Keep going and don’t stop!
Oh my gosh #4 literally dropped me just because I wouldn’t give her what she wants
Ok but why is the comment section so broken lmao
@Arsennii Moroz 😂😂😂😂❤
If you're referring to the comments that came 1-2 weeks ago, this channel has many viewers who are time travelers.
@@shaereub4450 yes lol
Why are there comments from weeks ago explain yourself phych2go
Many viewers here are time travelers.
These videos are adorable and helpful at the same time and I love them, thanks for making them.
The illustrations are so brilliant and smart !
Don’t forget people that bring politics into everything for no reason
Random very true fact : You know, no parents doesnt love their childs, sure te media want them potrayed as the villain, but child abuses are always caused by either stres, trauma or mental ilnesses!! They are dying deep inside too! They needed help!! If it wasnt for the stress, they wouldnt do such things to their childs! Even psycologist cnfirmed that! And Jesus loves you so much, He always did, He's thinking about u a lot and He wants you to surrender it all to Him and give your life to Him :) I love you too
Amen!
Love the animation and voice over in this. Without the voice over, this animation alone would tell a good story.
Hello, thanks for daily videos... You are always appreciated 😘😘😘
I used to be very manipulative. I didn't accept "no" as an answer and complained a lot. But I have changed :3
I just dumped my longest toxic friend that I’ve know science we were 2 and a half. She was most of these. She was the worst.
Thanks, this is very helpful 😊
Well, the "user" rings a lot of bells to me, i had a bunch of them during my senior year at university. I was not receiving any message from them, maybe only the predictable "happy birthday" on my facebook feed at my birthday, but that's the only thing, and in some cases, not even that. My inbox is calm during the semester, but when the exam period comes, it becomes literally flooded with people wanting my help for either the exam itself or lecture notes. It is very toxic, those people need a very firm and strict boundary. They are not really friends