i watched this for 3 reasons: - i was curious to read the full title - to see if there's actually people like this around me - *to see if i am actually one of those kind of people*
@@zephyrdian2408 i feel sorry :( well i usually figure out something when it comes to something related to mental issues of people around me but yours is kinda hard for me since i'm almost the same with you. it's good that you seek for professional help !
yes me too. unfortunately i've realized it too late and that image is already ingrained to to my classmates and friends .sigh. im trying to be conscious all the time about my actions and words but alas sometimes i just do it unconsciously esp when my emotions are unstable. I still have a lot of work to do on myself.
I’ve had similar experiences. I honestly just have a dark corner where I just sit down and cry for hours on end. If you have a desk or a cupboard of any sort, then just hide in the cupboard/under the desk and let it all out. Nobody knows about it, and it’s usually quite comfy. Especially if you keep a small throw pillow there.
@Daniela Borda Alvarez You can cry as much as you want. Just don't bottle up your emotions. Just be yourself. It doesn't matter what type of gender you have. If she tells you to not cry then just kindly tell her how you feel. If you wanna go outside just go if you wanna stay inside then stay. Gender doesn't matters. No need to be ashamed of crying. Try to convince your mom. :-) Bye!
My sister is married to a guy that constantly talks about himself and tries to one up every single person he encounters. He keeps leaving every jobs he has on the basis that "His boss is an idiot" and lives off employment insurance more than half the time. Most annoying guy I know and I try to avoid him as much as possible. I feel for my sister who has to live with him.
When i avoid most of people like them i always get threaten so i dont have choice i need to keep close to them :( My friend just complicated they like me but they hurt me (or i being to nice?)
@@treznopresto4878 If they fucking toxic with u, nothing can excuse them. Just run away from them before they really get you in trouble. Even if they're fucking idiots if you avoid them, let them do their own toxic business while you're hanging out with better people. Be strong, you can get out of this shit.
blue soul ugh is totally is.. I would feel so confident going to school after getting my hair done and then this girl would compare me to someone on tv who’s hair was ugly. Everyone else would give me compliments throughout the day, but she was so jealous she would try to bring me down with her-
@@monet4143 ignore this girl she probably has nothing better to do with her time and probably felt like her own hair looked bad that day so she didn't want anyone to feel pretty. Her behavior is just trashy people like this deserve no attention so just ignore her and keep doing your thing bc I'm sure you were looking gorgeous on that day
@@litinupcito2044 same, and he just got into a fight with my mom he hits her hard and he destroyed her phone. Because he wants to eat more but my mom wouldn't let him because he's too fat...
The Title: *"Types of People you need to Avoid"* Anxiety: it's talking about you Me: Definitely not "The Thumbnail" Anxiety: Definitely yes Me: *Internal sadness*
@@Nightmare_980 @Nightmare 980 wahh exactly me too i have anxiety disorder : ( i just lost my friends bcuz of being negative and kept on asking for help and they can see no change .. i never knw i would be toxic for asking for help but yah things happened : (
@@Nightmare_980 me too! I bottle up a lot cz I know i am number 5.. i have been dealing with depression, self-harming, anxiety, suicidal thoughts since i was a kid, without even knowing what was it.. growing up in an asian household, they don't believe that mental illness exist and especially for a kid. being scolded for showing my emotions, i learn to hide my emotions really well as that's how it's been since i was kid. my cousin sister was the only person that sensed my struggles alone (a year ago), offered help. it was nice to talk to someone about it, to open up. but once (i guess i didn't realize that I was being number 5), she snapped at me for being annoying (guess she was stressed at work). I never felt hurt that much in my life. I always have this guilty feeling of being a burden to others. since then i tend to bottle up a lot. Sorry for this long text. Have a great day people!
@@Nightmare_980 I know it's a struggle to live like us, but I hope you find people who you can trust and truly rely on.. it's good to have someone on your side though! ❤️
harmonixia uwu Oh c’mon now. There are wonderful gems in the world. You just have to learn that you don’t have to be everyone’s friend, and grow enough to know what you want and don’t want in your life. Then, the toxic people stop appearing, or at least you recognize who they really are before they cause damage. Learned these things the hard way, but now I can spot manipulators and am able to deflect. Sometimes the best weapon is silence.
ok yes yes,i pull down my mask for a split second because my mom couldnt hear what i was saying,even after i immediately put it back on..this 5 year old kid screams in my face and points directly at me because i said "wheat bread" and i dont think they realize how embarrassing that was when i barely did anything wrong it was kinda annoying and i wanted to just slap them and shut their mouth with tape😃👍🏻
Just got away from a manipulator and they were so good at it. Even gaslighting me to think I was insecure or imagining things. "You see what you think is a pattern, then self destruct". They used Anger, Love, and Sadness to try to keep me under their thumb. Now I just need to be strong and not give them any more chances. That toxicity isn't going to improve.
1. People who invalidate you 2. One-uppers 3. Self-centered people 4. Judgemental people 5. Self-destructive people 6. Fake people 7. Manipulators 8. People who love drama
“You can practice social distancing on social media too. Stay away from people who are infected with negativity, a lack of kindness, an unwillingness to seek truth etc.” --James Clear
A true friend or two would be enough, since sometimes, you need outlet of your problems as well: someone who will listen to you, not to judge you, someone who's willing to involve themselves when you have problems, someone who supports your goals and encourages you, someone that makes you feel warmth when they're around, and someone who you can count on. I'm glad that I've experienced having one, but he passed away at his young age. I really am hoping I will find another one that I could give my trust, with them taking care of it atleast. 🙂
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@Off Ready Pancakes you didn’t even try, did you. You have the ignorance of a boomer. What’s boomerish about hating that society is so judgmental of you? Do you know how hard it makes it for non-neurotypical people to be part of society, knowing your every non-typical action will be judged harshly?
You just described all the people in this world. Let us not be hypocritical. To some extent everyone possess one or two of those traits you mentioned. Better to be alone then.
I had elements of being self centered and fake during the last half a year, because I had lost myself. The reason I did was because I ran away from my pain from an extremely painful break up instead of embracing it. I thought I was supposed to go away after I break up with someone, this was taught to me by my exes who might have been toxic. This led to me losing myself and being unable to be happy and unable to love others anymore and feel really strongly about anything. I ended up breaking someone's heart and losing friends because of this. yet my friends call me really nice and amazing. I didn't mean to hurt others the way I did, I didn't know I was doing so. I was lost. So, everyone who are like the people on this list are not neccessarily evil. They might just be lost like I was. You have to tell them the truth about themselves and only after that if they do nothing, avoid them. Don't leave people just because they are lost. Please. Thank you for reading.
I needed to listen to this. I have a toxic person whom I’m healing from and I need to get rid of fully. I found of she physically harms others and I ended up fearing my own death at work. The conviction in my mind and body is true and I need to trust it.
I think I'm the self-centered one , I might need to change myself a bit Edit : I did some research, I thought that I'm self-centered because I talk to myself all the time and the only person in the world who I truly understand and know so much about is myself since that I don't have friends. I don't identify with most of the self-centered stuff and I can't imagine myself like that , even tho I'm not sure if that means that I'm self-centered or not I'm very confused.
I see. Thanks for being so honest. It's good to be self-aware. Because self-awareness is key when it comes to becoming a better version of yourself. How do you plan to improve? :)
@@Psych2go I have no idea how , I'm not even sure if this is a big deal because I rarely interact with people outside my family (my parents and little sisters) but I will try searching Google for some tips.
I'm I the only one to thing that people to avoid in this video are represented as blue like Twitter's logo Cause people in Twitter are the one to avoid
l a e * It is hard, but they don’t sound like good friends for you to have. You’ve grown up more. It happens. Sometimes you have friends for a short time, then you move on. Others, more aligned with your values and personality, stay for a lifetime. It’s okay. I would just say, start distancing yourself. You will find new people who share your interests and contribute positively to your life and growth.
I also have friend who is self destructive.. She only complains about everything and always pessimistic nature.. She has no ambition, hobbies or interest on anything.. And i give her suggestions, reccomrndation but she never do what i said her to do...If i says anything which she doesn't like or if i don't listen to her then she plays victim card..And She complains about her life, her friends, her crush who friendzoned her. And actually i was always like sponge who can takes negative things and radiates positivity...i convinced her so many times gave her best advices, helped her, talked to her almost for hours to motivate,inspired her but nope she again complains about everything..But after hearing her same sad, depressing stories i started feeling sad and exhausted now.. I was never like that before.. Then i told her that i started feeling sad,because of her and she is disturbing me.. And she said she was hurt that i said that.. I mean what i meant to do? Yeah i did everything to fix her but it didn't worked..And i decided to talk less, ignore her & completely focus on myself..Now she thinks that i showed my true colors, i changed... She forgot that i also have life.. I also got feelings.. I also gets hurt.. I am human.. Trying to make everyone happy, trying to fix everyone's life, being nice helpful, i left myself far behind.. Now i need to move on from negative people & start working on my own life..
I personally do like to listen to drama but not to get involved in it. Getting involved just makes it worse. But I do have a habit of talking about myself sometimes so I'll definitely make sure to listen to myself when I talk and make sure that everyone is able to talk in the conversation. These videos are always super cool to listen to! Thank you for letting me know about my own strengths and weakness!
I never avoid them, I just treat them the same way they treat me and sometimes I just tell them the blunt truth. I changed many people with toxic personalities. Not standing up to them is in fact what you should not do, fleeing is always temporary as soon enough you shall be meeting again somebody else with issues. Will you be fleeing all your life and end up just closing yourself in an isolated box. Face your demons and rule your world!
@@sametoyoutoo8509 Yes, everybody changes everybody. You changed me today because you commented on my comment and now I know you, so my life has changed. Likewise for you, your life has changed because of my comment. But you don't know me as a person so your comment is empty and more of a vain attack showing your true feelings that you have trouble facing life challenges and you think attacking other people opinions will make you feel better. It will not! Maybe it will be a quick rush but that's it, try to seek for true peace and stop being paranoid nobody is out to get you. Open your mind and look beyond what you see before you. Peace be with you!
I thought of my mum.. Always stopping me from doing my fav things like painting and baking, stopping me from making my own decisions like if i want to buy a cream which has good reviews and i can afford it she will still stop me
i’m starting at my new college in two weeks and i hope to make really good friendships there. i have a habit of making friends with toxic people, so now i know how to avoid them! thank you, this has helped so much :)
After finding confirmation that the people I dislike aren’t so awesome I continued to watch to make sure I’ll avoid being bad to others. I know seeking out confirmation of other people’s badness isn’t great but it helps me understand I don’t need to worry about them because they’re wrong. I find seeking to improve life (of anyone as well as me) a good guide to doing the right things.
"Self centered people" *the fact one of my best friends in the friend group I'm in she always talk about herself on discord even in voice chats e v e n when someone is venting in their own channel like sis stop please-*
*side glance* I catch myself doing that sometimes but im trying to improve it i swear. when people talk about things i have a tendency to like try to forward the conversation by talking about a similar experience ive had and it just ends up with me talking on and on about myself /:::: thing is i literally don't know how else to keep a conversation going other than saying something like "wow that's cool." .... okay fuck im literally doing it right now you see
Not criticizing.. but who on earth is not an example of these types isolatedly? Or the vague sum up of these traits or a whole combination of all of these ..bcoz I've never met any saint in my whole life
It’s gotta be more than one and if the signs are severe. I mean, for example, with the first one, obviously everyone would want to compete. But it’s super toxic if someone doesn’t even see you as a friend and only puts you down, not caring at all how you feel. That’s not normal competition, that’s just toxic.
I think on a serious note mildly everyone have these traits within them...As far as it is manageable and maybe doesn't impact your own sanity/health/morals etc, you can remain in contact with them but if these characters make your own being seem like mess well it is better to soft block/hard block them depending on your needs and your closeness with them
Thank you. I had a friend who displayed most of those behaviors and finally had to have a clean break from the friendship Your videos are really helping me to see things much more clearly.
I have this friend who always wants me to do everything for her, one time, she wants to join my school-club, and I said "Oh sure, you wanna join? Ask the teacher because I don't know anything about it" And she said "I can't...can you do that for me?" I already said no, but she was so "lazy" to do it all, she said "This is the last one" because I always do everything for her...I asked the teacher, and he said "Oh, She can join, just make sure she doesn't be late for class." So I told my friends about the information, since I didn't give her contact number to my teacher because It's her privacy (We use WhatsApp) so I just told her to give it to the teacher herself, and She said "But I can't...Can you do this for me? Oh come ooonnn, just this one timeeee." I've had enough of her and said "You must go there by yourself, I'm not always gonna be there for you." And the most annoying thing she said to me that day was "Actually...I'm too lazy." She said that so casually! I already told the teacher, there's no going back, moreover, that teacher is scary! If she doesn't go to the class, I'd be the one who is going to be shout at. She said "What should I dooooo?" And I told her what to say, She just had to copy & paste it, "But I caaaann't, I'm too lazy! Can you do this for me?" I was so mad! "ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS COPY & PASTE IT! I'VE ALREADY DONE THE THINGS FOR YOU!" And luckily, she told the teacher and joined my school-club. I know I should confront her, or just be friends with other people...but the thing is, she's my bff's bff. What should I do?! I can't just leave her alone with my BFF! And sorry for my bad English
Damn #3 called me out! I can admit that I'm self-centered, I do talk about myself a lot and often don't realize it. However, I think being self-centered is different from being selfish though. Self-centeredness is defined as "being preoccupied with one's own affairs" while being selfish is "lacking consideration of others for one's own pleasure or gain." I can understand what they mean in the context of the video. I think what they're trying to say is avoid people who are selfish. Sometimes people that are self-centered can empathize more because they can put themselves in that situation and see how other people feel since they know how it would feel if they were in that situation. There's a fine line between selfishness and self-centeredness, which I've tried to figure out for myself for years so I don't act like a selfish person and hurt other people.
I’d also like to add that you should avoid people who don’t know the meaning of “no” or “stop”. My old friend was like this and I just got increasingly frustrated and uncomfortable since he would always try to hug me or bop me on the head
I definitely had that one friend who was very self destructive. I had 2 actually. It was extremely exhausting to have to keep coming to their rescue, and they always ignore any advice I give them. They both ended up leaving, which, to be honest, has been a relief even if it was painful that they just kinda left despite everything I did for them.
i’m glad they started including credits at the end of the video. (maybe they have been before but i never noticed so i guess it wasn’t as apparent?) everyone works so great and does a great job with these. love to see your work
Things start getting weird now. Like, you were emotionally burnt out after breaking up with your loved one. You needed help from other people. However, people tended to avoid you because you had negative emotions that drained their energy. Then you realized nobody could help you but yourself. You started to focus on yourself more and unintentionally became self-centered people. Therefore, people continued avoiding you. Then you realized no one can have a long-lasting relationship with you and decided to stay alone. One day, someone secretly fell in love with you but you didn't accept their love. So they were emotionally burnt out. The cycle begins again.
Last one was most frightening amongst all the 8.....this is the major cause I had introverted myself from an extrovert...& I now love being in my own company
Funny thing I've noticed... a lot of people that I've personally met whom I've chosen to stay away from, have most of these characteristics (not just one). Good stuff, I dig the animations too! :)
I love how Psych2Go explains psychology in a fun and simple way they helped me understand psychology in a better way and I showed this to my mom and she passed her mid-terms for her degree 📜 thank you your channel is amazing
@@Psych2go she was amazed at how educational the video and how it corresponds with the textbook honestly I’m really proud of her for continuing school after having her fourth child
@@Psych2go My favorite videos from you guys are the ones about relationships and about yourself. I like learning who I am and learning about love and how to do it correctly. I love finding out the reasons why people do certain things or act a certain way. You guys have help me grow and have a better understanding of myself and others.
So glad to have gotten away from someone who was toxic like some of these ways mentioned. Hardest decision to leave, but the biggest sense of relief I could have imagined. If you're stuck in a household with someone non-related who is like this, take the plunge and GET OUT OF THERE. You will finally feel relieved, and you will thank yourself!
I think its important to mention that some of those listed types/behaviors can also be easily misinterpreted tho and that it's almost always a good idea trying to speak up and talk about those things first. Otherwise you yourself count into the "judgmental" toxic category. for example: Someone who seems self-centered at first glance could very possible be just be a person who is depressed introvert who hasn't been able to talk/open up to anyone for quite some time - enjoying to seemingly having found a trustworthy person they feel comfortable enough around to finally let out all those pent-up thoughts and feelings which very likely evolve around the own self at first. Or someone who seems self-destructive is maybe just not able to break out of certain unhealthy patterns on their own and needs some extra help by professionals while you as true friend can help by simply letting them know that you will have their back - instead of trying to fix them and their lives for them. Not everything is always what it seems.
I Exist Because it is a stupid and useless act to claim almost ownership by stating you are first to watch a RUclips video. It is silly and immature. It’s not like they were the first to climb Mount Everest. And even then ,it’s just a mountain. It’s not like world peace was achieved, or hunger and poverty eradicated by the act. When someone does that, they can brag all they like. But I suspect that individual would be more humble.
“Does this video remind you of someone you know?” me suddenly realizing that all my friend and family and school has at least one or two of those traits T T and then realizing that I’m self-destructive UwU
you don't tell me what to do! I want to suffer with insecure people whenever I want to. Insecure people like me need to be with insecure people so we can insecure together.
Psych2Go hmm-not exactly but I have this one online friend who I’ve been friends with 3-4 years, but a few weeks back they got mad at me for not getting a joke reference and second, I git into an argument in them in which they said they were disappointed in me and that I broke their trust (I will not be going to the details) This really hurt me and I apologised so many times but I felt terrible and I dwelt a did they wee wonky blaming me. They said that I didn’t even look at my own actions while they’re the ones who did do so..:(
I’m always afraid that these people are also going through something and me cutting ties with them or avoiding them would just make things worse for them.
There’s someone I work with who’s heavily addicted to drugs. I don’t think he wants to come out of it. I asked him if he’s ever considered rehab and he told me “I’ll go to rehab when I’m dead.”
I used to have judgemental friends and that kinda destroyed my self steam, thank god i separated from them last year. They would criticize my body, hair,.. Everything about me even in front of me 🙄 and they are very fake, that makes me so angry idk why...
@@claricethefox7922 Hey, that's right, now i don't care much about them, they not only didn't value me, they were unhappy with themselves and were very toxic, i can be thankful that i don't have friends like them anymore hahahaha
I've been trapped with all these vile types of people... But not anymore... The last 2 years I've been around much nicer people and I AM completely grateful
I had a friend who was in a category. I stopped being friends with them, I realized it did nothing because they were surrounded with people more toxic than them. If no one is there to help someone change themselves for the better they won't change and they will stay the same or get worse.
Alright So, I am a furry. I remember telling my friend then she glared at me like something was wrong and just said, “ew.” I tried explaining the fandom to her but she won’t listen, that day I just- broke. While i was trying to feel better, she told other people in our school then i started getting pain physically, and mentally. I felt attacked because of something I like and I just didn’t know why.. I was so kind to everyone and sometimes i’d do their homework so they could “take a break” a week later, 75% of my class was talking about me, so i decided to tell a teacher- it was the least i could do. And you guessed it, they did NOTHING but say “you’re in 9th grade you can handle it, it’s okay.” and I’m like: “bi-“ But, moving on. I had thoughts of suicide and tried moving them aside because i thought about my family and how much they cared about me. I told them i am a furry, and they started supporting me and motivating me, i also told them what happened at school so, we moved to another and i got a therapist I’m a healthy and happy person now, the end! (still a furry uwu)
Itachi Uchiha don’t be a pleaser. You can’t please everyone. Only a few people really need help, so don’t offer to help everyone. Most people will think you are just doing it to get friends and they’ll think you’re strange and say that you need friends so badly ..... The world of school is cruel. Also make sure you know your friends well. The one who just betrayed about being a “furry” (sounds nice but a bit childish in the end) sounds pretty toxic if she was meant to be a close friend. So don’t try to be nice to everyone. You might find you are on your own, but I can assure you you’ll find it easier to meet the right kind of people when you’re more honestly being yourself.
@Nazifa Nurayeen so a furry is someone who like Antrophanofic animals to the point were they make art of Antrophanofic animals or just like the whole idea of it.
Saddest thing is when u clicked in hundreds of videos that are related to that one toxic person in your mind but after watching them, u still can’t leave him/her :’(
this has really helped me change rather than helping me know who to avoid.. i've recently become quite a toxic person and this helped me realize what my actions can do,, i'll try to never act like any of these people
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Does this video remind you of someone you know?
All types on me...
Nice don't know!!!
yes, an old friend
Make videos to help psychology students
Yeah
the title: “8 people to avoid”
the thumbnail: “you”
me: 👁💧👄💧👁
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Hahhhhahaha what
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i watched this for 3 reasons:
- i was curious to read the full title
- to see if there's actually people like this around me
- *to see if i am actually one of those kind of people*
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Same the third reason
Right?
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@@zephyrdian2408 i feel sorry :( well i usually figure out something when it comes to something related to mental issues of people around me but yours is kinda hard for me since i'm almost the same with you. it's good that you seek for professional help !
i avoid people all together, so i’m okay
Same here 😂👌
Me to bro, I have 3 friends
yeah same
Same
Same
I’m really afraid of being toxic to others.
Me too
yes me too. unfortunately i've realized it too late and that image is already ingrained to to my classmates and friends .sigh. im trying to be conscious all the time about my actions and words but alas sometimes i just do it unconsciously esp when my emotions are unstable. I still have a lot of work to do on myself.
Same here
I am pretty sure I have been toxic before and I regret it :(
Accurate of me
Same; it’s a huge worry of mine; I just gotta keep trying to be the person I want to meet and befriend
Me: *cries*
Mom: don't cry, boys don't cry.
Me: *attempts to not cry*
Me: *is now depressed*
I’ve had similar experiences. I honestly just have a dark corner where I just sit down and cry for hours on end. If you have a desk or a cupboard of any sort, then just hide in the cupboard/under the desk and let it all out. Nobody knows about it, and it’s usually quite comfy. Especially if you keep a small throw pillow there.
@@edwardelric3574 same, but mother still doesn’t care when I’m upset lmao.
I just dealt with this yesterday! But it was my dad & sister
@Daniela Borda Alvarez You can cry as much as you want. Just don't bottle up your emotions. Just be yourself. It doesn't matter what type of gender you have. If she tells you to not cry then just kindly tell her how you feel. If you wanna go outside just go if you wanna stay inside then stay. Gender doesn't matters. No need to be ashamed of crying. Try to convince your mom. :-) Bye!
@@witchypoo7353 Are you okay now?
wow, is it just me or is the sound design WAAAAAY above the normal standards of Psych2go? doing amazing work out there as always :D
Thank you so much for your kind feedback
Yeah it sounds far smoother
@@Psych2go yea we know n we totally love it
Psych to go have new artists
Its exactly the same
I don't have to avoid people since to them I don't even exist
_gone with the wind_
You mean Zuko doesn't exist? :(
@@Psych2go noooo :(((
That's rough buddy
In all seriousness, I'm sure there are people who care about you somewhere. Stay safe~
How could you not exist if you made this comment
Czechmate
"Self centered people"
"People who like Drama"
"Fake people"
Me looking at that one person in my friend group:
*I see you*
Me looking at your comment:
*I feel you*
@@hana1235 me looking at your comment
*i same you*
@@smellycat4413 me looking at both of your comments
*I agree with the 3 of you*
Me looking at this chain
*I shall continue with the four of you*
me looking at all of your comments: I agree with the 5 of you
"self-destructive people"
see? i'm doing y'all a favor by not socializing!
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Ikrrr :///
My sister is married to a guy that constantly talks about himself and tries to one up every single person he encounters. He keeps leaving every jobs he has on the basis that "His boss is an idiot" and lives off employment insurance more than half the time. Most annoying guy I know and I try to avoid him as much as possible. I feel for my sister who has to live with him.
Guys: Please avoid people that hurt you. You don't have to be their friend. They don't deserve you. Say 'em goodbye.
Thanks for the positive comment! :)
Problem is, theres alot of people who cant cut their ties off of the toxic people because they still need them.
@@fendy5124 Yeah. Just be strong until you can get out toxic people's life. Life ain't just :/
When i avoid most of people like them i always get threaten so i dont have choice i need to keep close to them :(
My friend just complicated they like me but they hurt me (or i being to nice?)
@@treznopresto4878 If they fucking toxic with u, nothing can excuse them. Just run away from them before they really get you in trouble. Even if they're fucking idiots if you avoid them, let them do their own toxic business while you're hanging out with better people. Be strong, you can get out of this shit.
Behaviour I can't stand being around with:
1. Constantly saying 'destructive' criticisms about a person or a friend.
2. Jealousy.
It's draining. T-T
True I used to kinda be like the 1st one and I regret it I don't do that anymore. I think it's just mean and useless
blue soul ugh is totally is.. I would feel so confident going to school after getting my hair done and then this girl would compare me to someone on tv who’s hair was ugly. Everyone else would give me compliments throughout the day, but she was so jealous she would try to bring me down with her-
I know it's annoying
@@monet4143 ignore this girl she probably has nothing better to do with her time and probably felt like her own hair looked bad that day so she didn't want anyone to feel pretty. Her behavior is just trashy people like this deserve no attention so just ignore her and keep doing your thing bc I'm sure you were looking gorgeous on that day
blue soul Thank you😬
Toxic and narcissistic people are the people who I avoided like COVID 19
Lol
That’s good
That's great, it's something everyone should do honestly
@@Lin-qm2ft I do it!!
Pastel Kitsune that’s good!
"Have you ever met any one those people" 5:00
Me: Everyone, meet my family
my mom and brother are the same😔
My brother is self centered
@@litinupcito2044 same, and he just got into a fight with my mom he hits her hard and he destroyed her phone. Because he wants to eat more but my mom wouldn't let him because he's too fat...
Same. My relatives also.
I have mommy issues because my mother literally does everything on that list
Psych2go: 5. Self-destructive people.
Me: *destroyed in seconds*
i felt that
The Title: *"Types of People you need to Avoid"*
Anxiety: it's talking about you
Me: Definitely not
"The Thumbnail"
Anxiety: Definitely yes
Me: *Internal sadness*
waaaahhh can relate ahaha
*Cries in fake*
When you can't be yourself and developed a fake persona out of habit because of your anxiety
@@Nightmare_980 @Nightmare 980 wahh exactly me too i have anxiety disorder : ( i just lost my friends bcuz of being negative and kept on asking for help and they can see no change .. i never knw i would be toxic for asking for help but yah things happened : (
@@Nightmare_980 me too! I bottle up a lot cz I know i am number 5.. i have been dealing with depression, self-harming, anxiety, suicidal thoughts since i was a kid, without even knowing what was it.. growing up in an asian household, they don't believe that mental illness exist and especially for a kid. being scolded for showing my emotions, i learn to hide my emotions really well as that's how it's been since i was kid. my cousin sister was the only person that sensed my struggles alone (a year ago), offered help. it was nice to talk to someone about it, to open up. but once (i guess i didn't realize that I was being number 5), she snapped at me for being annoying (guess she was stressed at work). I never felt hurt that much in my life. I always have this guilty feeling of being a burden to others. since then i tend to bottle up a lot. Sorry for this long text. Have a great day people!
@@Nightmare_980 I know it's a struggle to live like us, but I hope you find people who you can trust and truly rely on.. it's good to have someone on your side though! ❤️
This whole video in two words :
"Avoid everyone"
Great summary!
harmonixia uwu Oh c’mon now. There are wonderful gems in the world. You just have to learn that you don’t have to be everyone’s friend, and grow enough to know what you want and don’t want in your life. Then, the toxic people stop appearing, or at least you recognize who they really are before they cause damage. Learned these things the hard way, but now I can spot manipulators and am able to deflect. Sometimes the best weapon is silence.
I avoid everyone at all cost!!
Not really honestly not everyone is like that
"Avoid everyone"
My life summarized.
So.... basically everyone at my high school 😑
teenagers can be shitty sometimes... we've all been there, right?
Merlin The Blue Kids in general imo😭 I hate everyone equally, but have you ever just wanted to kick a 5 year old running around at a Walmart?😂
Some good people are there, you just have to find them :)
ok yes yes,i pull down my mask for a split second because my mom couldnt hear what i was saying,even after i immediately put it back on..this 5 year old kid screams in my face and points directly at me because i said "wheat bread" and i dont think they realize how embarrassing that was when i barely did anything wrong it was kinda annoying and i wanted to just slap them and shut their mouth with tape😃👍🏻
Everyone at high school . period
ruclips.net/video/6A9K0TkLGIU/видео.html
can't really avoid when you work with them, just take distance.
Just got away from a manipulator and they were so good at it. Even gaslighting me to think I was insecure or imagining things. "You see what you think is a pattern, then self destruct". They used Anger, Love, and Sadness to try to keep me under their thumb. Now I just need to be strong and not give them any more chances. That toxicity isn't going to improve.
#6 is very typical of introverts. we open up to people we know, but when a stranger shows up, we get more withdrawn. so do not judge too quickly.
Me: please don't be me, please don't be me, please don't be me.
Number 5: Avoid self-destructive people
Me: Shi-
:( I wish I could just change myself
Same
Same 😔😭
_sæm_
Same. But you can change with a lot of hard work and psychological knowledge. I started it and it works 💕
Moment you realise you have each of this type around as "friends" and you yourself are trying to stop being people pleaser and being yourself more
with all these types of people
don't forget to be yourself,
and remember no one will care about you
until you do it first with yourself
1. People who invalidate you
2. One-uppers
3. Self-centered people
4. Judgemental people
5. Self-destructive people
6. Fake people
7. Manipulators
8. People who love drama
Try to imagine all these 8 types of people being friends with each other
It's really hard to imagine that
the trainwreck club
the trainwreck club
“You can practice social distancing on social media too. Stay away from people who are infected with negativity, a lack of kindness, an unwillingness to seek truth etc.”
--James Clear
@Patterson Lawrence fake people are everywhere while treasures are hidden and are waiting for us somewhere.
How do I avoid my friend when he himself says that we both r best friend but for me he is a narcissist.. Pls help 🙏😭😭😩😩
I've met all of these through out my life. It easier and easier to let them go. It does indeed hurt your health.
A true friend or two would be enough, since sometimes, you need outlet of your problems as well: someone who will listen to you, not to judge you, someone who's willing to involve themselves when you have problems, someone who supports your goals and encourages you, someone that makes you feel warmth when they're around, and someone who you can count on.
I'm glad that I've experienced having one, but he passed away at his young age. I really am hoping I will find another one that I could give my trust, with them taking care of it atleast. 🙂
"Judgemental people"
This is why i generally hate people n the society.
HEY YO MARIOS FUKING BALLIN!!!!!1!1!1!1!1!!11!
I live with one tho. My mother. So kinda stuck for now.
@Off Ready Pancakes that’s no boomer. You’re acting like the boomer here by judging them for their dislike of how judging society is. Be quiet please.
🎵PIZZA PASTA PUT IT IN A GUN🎵
🎵COCK IT, SHOOT IT, INTO MY HEAD🎵
🎵MY HEAD MY HEAD MY HEAD MY HEAD MY HEAD MY HEAD🎵
🎵LEAVE IT THERE WITHIN AND SPILL SPAGHETTI ON THE FLOOR🎵
@Off Ready Pancakes you didn’t even try, did you. You have the ignorance of a boomer. What’s boomerish about hating that society is so judgmental of you? Do you know how hard it makes it for non-neurotypical people to be part of society, knowing your every non-typical action will be judged harshly?
*Me forgeting why i cut of my "bestfriend"*
Me watching this video: **checking of everything on this list** oh so thats why....
We're glad this video helped remind you. Which point described your ex-best friend the most?
@@Psych2go it's mostly 1,3,4,5 and 8
Video in a nutshell: avoid everyone. get a dog.
I had 3 Labradors. They were heaven. Best relationship i ever had too bad their all dead
@@mikerainwater6154 :(. Yeah i've had 2 labs that have since passed. Also a weenie dog.
or a cat!
🐈
I have a guinea pig... He is soooo cute 😍😍😍😍 and I love to sit down and stare at him
I'm glad to finally break ties with a person with all these 8 signs. I've been trying to support her all these years, but I just can't anymore.
You just described all the people in this world. Let us not be hypocritical. To some extent everyone possess one or two of those traits you mentioned. Better to be alone then.
Nah, I just ignore the people that gives me bad vibes.
Same
Sameee
Same i dont have time for negativity
Same here.
I somehow naturally always end up with good people.
All thanks to MIGHTY GOD
*To the unique person that’s reading this:*
*You’re a very intelligent and adorable human! Stay healthy during quarantine*
♥
Thank you for your uplifting comment
Thank you, and you too. You are also a intelligent, nice,adorable person. Stay safe and healthy!!!
Well said! Language is powerful. Use it wisely
this commenter : you're intelligent
me who is useless, dumb, ugly and suicidal :
i don't believe you 😒😒😒😒
Yeah, avoid internet trolls.
👀🥶🥶yikes!
I had elements of being self centered and fake during the last half a year, because I had lost myself. The reason I did was because I ran away from my pain from an extremely painful break up instead of embracing it. I thought I was supposed to go away after I break up with someone, this was taught to me by my exes who might have been toxic. This led to me losing myself and being unable to be happy and unable to love others anymore and feel really strongly about anything. I ended up breaking someone's heart and losing friends because of this.
yet my friends call me really nice and amazing. I didn't mean to hurt others the way I did, I didn't know I was doing so. I was lost. So, everyone who are like the people on this list are not neccessarily evil. They might just be lost like I was. You have to tell them the truth about themselves and only after that if they do nothing, avoid them. Don't leave people just because they are lost. Please.
Thank you for reading.
I needed to listen to this. I have a toxic person whom I’m healing from and I need to get rid of fully. I found of she physically harms others and I ended up fearing my own death at work. The conviction in my mind and body is true and I need to trust it.
I think I'm the self-centered one , I might need to change myself a bit
Edit : I did some research, I thought that I'm self-centered because I talk to myself all the time and the only person in the world who I truly understand and know so much about is myself since that I don't have friends. I don't identify with most of the self-centered stuff and I can't imagine myself like that , even tho I'm not sure if that means that I'm self-centered or not I'm very confused.
Okimi mitsuko yes please do change
I see. Thanks for being so honest. It's good to be self-aware. Because self-awareness is key when it comes to becoming a better version of yourself. How do you plan to improve? :)
@@Psych2go Hey Psych2go do you upload video randomly or there is a schedule for the upload?
Same, I want help
@@Psych2go
I have no idea how , I'm not even sure if this is a big deal because I rarely interact with people outside my family (my parents and little sisters) but I will try searching Google for some tips.
"Your emotions are valid and important."
For everyone else? Absolutely.
Me...
Well...
No.
I feel this way too
This hits hard-
Uh.. are you okay?
@@n0longer No ;(
@@azryxthefolf6331 :(
Psych2Go: Eight - People who love drama
Me: oh no-
( *talking* *about* *my* *'friends'* )
What do you plan to do next after realizing this?
My mom also saw their behaviours but she just told me to ignore or to not get influnced by their behaviours, but i just tried to not get involved
I'm I the only one to thing that people to avoid in this video are represented as blue like Twitter's logo
Cause people in Twitter are the one to avoid
l a e * It is hard, but they don’t sound like good friends for you to have. You’ve grown up more. It happens. Sometimes you have friends for a short time, then you move on. Others, more aligned with your values and personality, stay for a lifetime. It’s okay. I would just say, start distancing yourself. You will find new people who share your interests and contribute positively to your life and growth.
@@Psych2go make them commit not alive base on a gut feeling.
I also have friend who is self destructive.. She only complains about everything and always pessimistic nature.. She has no ambition, hobbies or interest on anything.. And i give her suggestions, reccomrndation but she never do what i said her to do...If i says anything which she doesn't like or if i don't listen to her then she plays victim card..And She complains about her life, her friends, her crush who friendzoned her. And actually i was always like sponge who can takes negative things and radiates positivity...i convinced her so many times gave her best advices, helped her, talked to her almost for hours to motivate,inspired her but nope she again complains about everything..But after hearing her same sad, depressing stories i started feeling sad and exhausted now.. I was never like that before.. Then i told her that i started feeling sad,because of her and she is disturbing me.. And she said she was hurt that i said that.. I mean what i meant to do? Yeah i did everything to fix her but it didn't worked..And i decided to talk less, ignore her & completely focus on myself..Now she thinks that i showed my true colors, i changed...
She forgot that i also have life.. I also got feelings.. I also gets hurt.. I am human.. Trying to make everyone happy, trying to fix everyone's life, being nice helpful, i left myself far behind.. Now i need to move on from negative people & start working on my own life..
Just left a friendship with someone who did all these things. It was hard but I'm happier and healthier now. ❤️
This art style looks so alive! Love it :o
Aww. Sam is great isn't she?
@@Psych2go yes, and the voiceover is great too. So calming, supportive. It always makes me feel more happy, comfortable and generally calm.
**Looks into mirror**
**Throws out mirror**
Begone
I love this comment
You're not alone 🙂
I personally do like to listen to drama but not to get involved in it. Getting involved just makes it worse. But I do have a habit of talking about myself sometimes so I'll definitely make sure to listen to myself when I talk and make sure that everyone is able to talk in the conversation. These videos are always super cool to listen to! Thank you for letting me know about my own strengths and weakness!
I never avoid them, I just treat them the same way they treat me and sometimes I just tell them the blunt truth. I changed many people with toxic personalities. Not standing up to them is in fact what you should not do, fleeing is always temporary as soon enough you shall be meeting again somebody else with issues. Will you be fleeing all your life and end up just closing yourself in an isolated box. Face your demons and rule your world!
Cool advice!
Agreed.
You changed nobody. You're unqualified. Protecting oneself is a great thing and so is therapy. Don't shame others with your fleeing remarks.
@@sametoyoutoo8509 Yes, everybody changes everybody. You changed me today because you commented on my comment and now I know you, so my life has changed. Likewise for you, your life has changed because of my comment. But you don't know me as a person so your comment is empty and more of a vain attack showing your true feelings that you have trouble facing life challenges and you think attacking other people opinions will make you feel better. It will not! Maybe it will be a quick rush but that's it, try to seek for true peace and stop being paranoid nobody is out to get you. Open your mind and look beyond what you see before you.
Peace be with you!
awesome advice mate
You are just saying everyone I know is toxic right now.
Same...
I thought of my mum.. Always stopping me from doing my fav things like painting and baking, stopping me from making my own decisions like if i want to buy a cream which has good reviews and i can afford it she will still stop me
i’m starting at my new college in two weeks and i hope to make really good friendships there. i have a habit of making friends with toxic people, so now i know how to avoid them! thank you, this has helped so much :)
*People who like drama* :
I was having a good time, and I honestly feel so attacked right now :(
“People who like drama”
Me: *questioning my best friend*
I see. Do you personally like drama too?
Psych2Go no, i’m that kid that doesn’t have that many friends-
@@dontbullyme4646 i need the tea tho
XD
@@Psych2go sometimes🥲
After finding confirmation that the people I dislike aren’t so awesome I continued to watch to make sure I’ll avoid being bad to others. I know seeking out confirmation of other people’s badness isn’t great but it helps me understand I don’t need to worry about them because they’re wrong.
I find seeking to improve life (of anyone as well as me) a good guide to doing the right things.
Me checking to see if I am that person:
👁👄👁
Glad im not one of them •^•
I see. Did any of these apply to you?
@@_.Deitasterra wich it be the same for me
"Self centered people"
*the fact one of my best friends in the friend group I'm in she always talk about herself on discord even in voice chats e v e n when someone is venting in their own channel like sis stop please-*
And if you say SSSH she blows up because she has a right to express herself and how dare you criticise her? Yep.
*side glance* I catch myself doing that sometimes but im trying to improve it i swear. when people talk about things i have a tendency to like try to forward the conversation by talking about a similar experience ive had and it just ends up with me talking on and on about myself /:::: thing is i literally don't know how else to keep a conversation going other than saying something like "wow that's cool." .... okay fuck im literally doing it right now you see
PennToPaper focus on what they say, not on what you think
Not criticizing.. but who on earth is not an example of these types isolatedly? Or the vague sum up of these traits or a whole combination of all of these ..bcoz I've never met any saint in my whole life
Sħira yuki true
Yeah
that's a thing that they need to work on
ok well this is for people who show multiple signs having one sign doesn't mean anything.
It’s gotta be more than one and if the signs are severe. I mean, for example, with the first one, obviously everyone would want to compete. But it’s super toxic if someone doesn’t even see you as a friend and only puts you down, not caring at all how you feel. That’s not normal competition, that’s just toxic.
I think on a serious note mildly everyone have these traits within them...As far as it is manageable and maybe doesn't impact your own sanity/health/morals etc, you can remain in contact with them but if these characters make your own being seem like mess well it is better to soft block/hard block them depending on your needs and your closeness with them
Its good to know I don't deserve friends because I'm constantly suicidal... Apparently that's self destructive.
Thank you. I had a friend who displayed most of those behaviors and finally had to have a clean break from the friendship Your videos are really helping me to see things much more clearly.
I've hit the jackpot: My mum is an amalgamation of all of these signs.
What a great revelation 😅👌🏼
I have this friend who always wants me to do everything for her, one time, she wants to join my school-club, and I said "Oh sure, you wanna join? Ask the teacher because I don't know anything about it" And she said "I can't...can you do that for me?" I already said no, but she was so "lazy" to do it all, she said "This is the last one" because I always do everything for her...I asked the teacher, and he said "Oh, She can join, just make sure she doesn't be late for class." So I told my friends about the information, since I didn't give her contact number to my teacher because It's her privacy (We use WhatsApp) so I just told her to give it to the teacher herself, and She said "But I can't...Can you do this for me? Oh come ooonnn, just this one timeeee." I've had enough of her and said "You must go there by yourself, I'm not always gonna be there for you." And the most annoying thing she said to me that day was "Actually...I'm too lazy." She said that so casually! I already told the teacher, there's no going back, moreover, that teacher is scary! If she doesn't go to the class, I'd be the one who is going to be shout at. She said "What should I dooooo?" And I told her what to say, She just had to copy & paste it, "But I caaaann't, I'm too lazy! Can you do this for me?" I was so mad! "ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS COPY & PASTE IT! I'VE ALREADY DONE THE THINGS FOR YOU!" And luckily, she told the teacher and joined my school-club.
I know I should confront her, or just be friends with other people...but the thing is, she's my bff's bff. What should I do?! I can't just leave her alone with my BFF!
And sorry for my bad English
Maybe you should talk to your BFF and tell her what you think... If she really is your BFF she should understand it
@@evadazagonzalez1642 Yeah...maybe, thanks for your advice ❤️
@@Lia.harlin Alright, thanks, I appreciate it 🥺👍
Damn #3 called me out! I can admit that I'm self-centered, I do talk about myself a lot and often don't realize it. However, I think being self-centered is different from being selfish though. Self-centeredness is defined as "being preoccupied with one's own affairs" while being selfish is "lacking consideration of others for one's own pleasure or gain." I can understand what they mean in the context of the video. I think what they're trying to say is avoid people who are selfish. Sometimes people that are self-centered can empathize more because they can put themselves in that situation and see how other people feel since they know how it would feel if they were in that situation. There's a fine line between selfishness and self-centeredness, which I've tried to figure out for myself for years so I don't act like a selfish person and hurt other people.
self-destructive feels like an attack
I’d also like to add that you should avoid people who don’t know the meaning of “no” or “stop”. My old friend was like this and I just got increasingly frustrated and uncomfortable since he would always try to hug me or bop me on the head
“Some people are like trees, they take forever to grow up.”
― Nitya Prakash
I feel like psych2go is just telling me to avoid myself when she said "people who love drama"
I definitely had that one friend who was very self destructive. I had 2 actually. It was extremely exhausting to have to keep coming to their rescue, and they always ignore any advice I give them. They both ended up leaving, which, to be honest, has been a relief even if it was painful that they just kinda left despite everything I did for them.
i’m glad they started including credits at the end of the video. (maybe they have been before but i never noticed so i guess it wasn’t as apparent?) everyone works so great and does a great job with these. love to see your work
Things start getting weird now. Like, you were emotionally burnt out after breaking up with your loved one. You needed help from other people. However, people tended to avoid you because you had negative emotions that drained their energy. Then you realized nobody could help you but yourself. You started to focus on yourself more and unintentionally became self-centered people. Therefore, people continued avoiding you. Then you realized no one can have a long-lasting relationship with you and decided to stay alone. One day, someone secretly fell in love with you but you didn't accept their love. So they were emotionally burnt out. The cycle begins again.
And all types are present in my own family!
Title: 8 types of people to avoid
Thumbnail: You?
Me: What did I do?
Animation + Content quality + Soothing voice + Simplified complex psychology + Timing = Admirable work.
Really helpful..
Much love ❤😄
Last one was most frightening amongst all the 8.....this is the major cause I had introverted myself from an extrovert...& I now love being in my own company
Funny thing I've noticed... a lot of people that I've personally met whom I've chosen to stay away from, have most of these characteristics (not just one). Good stuff, I dig the animations too! :)
I love how Psych2Go explains psychology in a fun and simple way they helped me understand psychology in a better way and I showed this to my mom and she passed her mid-terms for her degree 📜 thank you your channel is amazing
Aww thank you so much for your kind comment
@@Psych2go she was amazed at how educational the video and how it corresponds with the textbook honestly I’m really proud of her for continuing school after having her fourth child
SugasCupTae She is an inspiration to you, your family, and others.
Keep up the good work. I've learned so much from you guys
SoDaKoby yeah! I love this channel
Me too
Thank you so much for your comment!! Is this your favorite video so far? :)
@@Psych2go My favorite videos from you guys are the ones about relationships and about yourself. I like learning who I am and learning about love and how to do it correctly. I love finding out the reasons why people do certain things or act a certain way. You guys have help me grow and have a better understanding of myself and others.
Hey I have that achievement!
“Decreased Sense of Value”
I’ve actually had it for quite some time.
So glad to have gotten away from someone who was toxic like some of these ways mentioned. Hardest decision to leave, but the biggest sense of relief I could have imagined.
If you're stuck in a household with someone non-related who is like this, take the plunge and GET OUT OF THERE. You will finally feel relieved, and you will thank yourself!
I think its important to mention that some of those listed types/behaviors can also be easily misinterpreted tho and that it's almost always a good idea trying to speak up and talk about those things first. Otherwise you yourself count into the "judgmental" toxic category.
for example:
Someone who seems self-centered at first glance could very possible be just be a person who is depressed introvert who hasn't been able to talk/open up to anyone for quite some time - enjoying to seemingly having found a trustworthy person they feel comfortable enough around to finally let out all those pent-up thoughts and feelings which very likely evolve around the own self at first.
Or someone who seems self-destructive is maybe just not able to break out of certain unhealthy patterns on their own and needs some extra help by professionals while you as true friend can help by simply letting them know that you will have their back - instead of trying to fix them and their lives for them.
Not everything is always what it seems.
You should avoid people who say first on RUclips comments
Yes, unless they actually are first
I used to say first, but now I blue shell the people in first. I've learnt my lesson but I don't know why everyone hates them.
I Exist Because it is a stupid and useless act to claim almost ownership by stating you are first to watch a RUclips video. It is silly and immature. It’s not like they were the first to climb Mount Everest. And even then ,it’s just a mountain. It’s not like world peace was achieved, or hunger and poverty eradicated by the act. When someone does that, they can brag all they like. But I suspect that individual would be more humble.
Haha
Eight : people who love drama.
Me, who loves k-drama : 👁️👄👁️
Lolll the only drama i like 😂😂
I think the meaning is different
@@nightfall445 i know, but that makes me surprised for a while before knowing that's different type of drama.
@@ohh9079 Yeah same🤣
XD
“Does this video remind you of someone you know?”
me suddenly realizing that all my friend and family and school has at least one or two of those traits T T
and then realizing that I’m self-destructive UwU
you don't tell me what to do! I want to suffer with insecure people whenever I want to. Insecure people like me need to be with insecure people so we can insecure together.
me: Oh hey I'm none of those types of...
psych2go: "#5: Self-destructive people."
me: Oh
(っ◔◡◔)っ want a virtual hug?
@@Crowstrove **hugs**
@@tekashimaahshiha647 **hugs back**
@@Crowstrove thx
Same here 😂😭
Myself, its always a time to improve some of this things in my destructive personality
I hope this isn’t overused by-
Psych2Go really do upload such videos whenever I desperately need them! So thank you for that:D
We hope this video helped!! Do any of the types mentioned in this video remind you of someone you know?
RainbowSwirl Z You are seeking answers and the universe is providing. It means you are growing.
Psych2Go hmm-not exactly but I have this one online friend who I’ve been friends with 3-4 years, but a few weeks back they got mad at me for not getting a joke reference and second, I git into an argument in them in which they said they were disappointed in me and that I broke their trust (I will not be going to the details) This really hurt me and I apologised so many times but I felt terrible and I dwelt a did they wee wonky blaming me. They said that I didn’t even look at my own actions while they’re the ones who did do so..:(
Marilyn Russell woah-that’s awesome! Tysm for the information^^
Amanda Silvera has the most soothing, pleasant voice out of all the voice overs 🌼
I’m always afraid that these people are also going through something and me cutting ties with them or avoiding them would just make things worse for them.
There’s someone I work with who’s heavily addicted to drugs. I don’t think he wants to come out of it. I asked him if he’s ever considered rehab and he told me “I’ll go to rehab when I’m dead.”
I used to have judgemental friends and that kinda destroyed my self steam, thank god i separated from them last year. They would criticize my body, hair,..
Everything about me even in front of me 🙄 and they are very fake, that makes me so angry idk why...
Oh, you know why. It's because they don't genuinely love you.
@@claricethefox7922 Hey, that's right, now i don't care much about them, they not only didn't value me, they were unhappy with themselves and were very toxic, i can be thankful that i don't have friends like them anymore hahahaha
When you live with several of these people cos their in ur family:
It reminds me about the people I was with.
I see. How many of these types described these people?
Yeah, me too. My all classmates are like this. (More than 4 schools classmates)
Same, i'm glad i got rid of them.. heh.. :)
@@Lin-qm2ft Help. I am mentally attached and I have fear of abandonment
Same. But I left them😌
I've been trapped with all these vile types of people... But not anymore... The last 2 years I've been around much nicer people and I AM completely grateful
I had a friend who was in a category. I stopped being friends with them, I realized it did nothing because they were surrounded with people more toxic than them.
If no one is there to help someone change themselves for the better they won't change and they will stay the same or get worse.
Damn right! 👍🏻
Alright So, I am a furry.
I remember telling my friend then she glared at me like something was wrong and just said, “ew.” I tried explaining the fandom to her but she won’t listen, that day I just- broke. While i was trying to feel better, she told other people in our school then i started getting pain physically, and mentally. I felt attacked because of something I like and I just didn’t know why.. I was so kind to everyone and sometimes i’d do their homework so they could “take a break” a week later, 75% of my class was talking about me, so i decided to tell a teacher- it was the least i could do. And you guessed it, they did NOTHING but say “you’re in 9th grade you can handle it, it’s okay.” and I’m like: “bi-“
But, moving on.
I had thoughts of suicide and tried moving them aside because i thought about my family and how much they cared about me. I told them i am a furry, and they started supporting me and motivating me, i also told them what happened at school so, we moved to another and i got a therapist
I’m a healthy and happy person now, the end!
(still a furry uwu)
Itachi Uchiha don’t be a pleaser. You can’t please everyone. Only a few people really need help, so don’t offer to help everyone. Most people will think you are just doing it to get friends and they’ll think you’re strange and say that you need friends so badly ..... The world of school is cruel. Also make sure you know your friends well. The one who just betrayed about being a “furry” (sounds nice but a bit childish in the end) sounds pretty toxic if she was meant to be a close friend. So don’t try to be nice to everyone. You might find you are on your own, but I can assure you you’ll find it easier to meet the right kind of people when you’re more honestly being yourself.
Hurray! Stick to who you wanna be!☺️☺️☺️☺️
@Daniel E. Don't be rude
No problem with being a furry homie! Ive met some pretty cool ones. They are nice and cool.
@Nazifa Nurayeen so a furry is someone who like Antrophanofic animals to the point were they make art of Antrophanofic animals or just like the whole idea of it.
The moment when you realise many of these traits apply to you.
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Wow, Sam did an awesome job animating and drawing this! I love the style, would love to see them do more work!
Saddest thing is when u clicked in hundreds of videos that are related to that one toxic person in your mind but after watching them, u still can’t leave him/her :’(
this has really helped me change rather than helping me know who to avoid.. i've recently become quite a toxic person and this helped me realize what my actions can do,, i'll try to never act like any of these people