"Is it possible?" Korean Gay Couples meets Married Lesbian Couple for the first time! | LGBTQ+
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i want someone to look at me the way Carissa looks at her wife 😭❤
I will look at you
i thought i was the only one who noticed tht
Same😭
Awwwww ❤️
I know the look in her eyes just speaks "love, adoration" just like wow
Well that was heart breaking - the excitement they felt at meeting a legally married gay couple but then the realisation that that's not an option for them 😭 One day hopefully it will happen for Korea too ! Love to you all from Australia. 🌈Update - amazing news with Supreme Court ruling allowing same-sex couples spousal coverage for national health benefits - one step at a time people - you can do it Korea !!!!
Awww thank you♡ Maybe someday.
We fought hard for it but we are lucky in Australia now. Here’s hoping in Korea you will get to be equal one day soon xx ❤
@@monicaking2140 yes it was mental - Australia also really far behind the rest of the world on that issue even though anti discrimination laws etc were good didn't make sense did it ??
@@stellp2956 Exactly. Then people had to vote on wether we could have equal rights, hurtful. I guess at least they cannot change it cause the people had their say.
@@monicaking2140 one would hope that would never happen ! I’m 60, I’m not gay and neither are my children BUT other people are and they should be respected and accepted for what they are - heartbreaking to see my gay friends want to marry and not be able to, heartbreaking to see kids struggle to come out because of what people think and the whole scenario in Korea 🤦🏻♀️as much as I love the place I struggle with this😢
Omg The way Carissa looks at her wife shows how deep their love is.
Ik 😍
Awe🫠
I agree that marriage is not something that you absolutely need to do as a couple (my parents have been together forever 30+ years and never married) but as a Lesbian living in Canada, a place where I can freely do that with basically the same rights as a straight couple, I really wanna have that ceremony one day. To me (of course personally) it’s like paying tribute to all the ones before me who wished they could have done that but where never able and I should consider myself lucky that I’m able to marry who I want :)
Me too... It just feels like a win that someone fought for. And I'd love to actually kinda "prove" that, even tho I'll marry a woman someday, we CAN be a family. Something a lot of people told me I couldn't have.
Yeah, it's like it's one thing for you to be able to *choose* not to get married and a very different thing for you to not *be allowed* to do so.
something people forget is the legality of marriage. when you are married to someone, if something happens to you in the hospital, your spouse is the one in charge of your medical decisions.
gays during the aids crisis did not have that. their parents were the ones who had full control, people who were often kicking out and disowning their children for having aids. their partners could do nothing as their parents signed away on anything to kill their gay kids and bury them with their birth names for those who went by others. it also meant that every possession that was theirs became their parents.
marriage is also impacts your taxes in the us, with married people paying less taxes in the hopes that it helps the economy/pays for their children/etc. that means any single/gay person who cannot marry is losing more money than straight married people.
although this is no longer the reality for gays in the usa, remember that disabled people still cannot marry without losing all their benefits and are basically subject to everything i mentioned above.
@@hutao4671 i’m glad you brought this up bcs it’s very important to remember this. i’ve seen many lgbt people ask why we even fought for marriage when it was an institution made for straight religious people but if anything gay people need the support from marriage more than anybody. the ability to have a legally recognized family member outside of your birth family is so so valuable.
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I truelly wish for every couple that their dreams come true. Its so sad to hear that people are forced to live in another country just to get officially married
When she said "Florida", I just burst out a: *"WHAT!?"* like that meme. Instant reaction lol
i really thought they were going to say new york or california
I wonder if they reconsidered 😭
@@ohsnapitzjazzy1 They did comment that Florida has regions that are accepting and ones that are not. Realistically, Florida is a much cheaper state to reside in than NY and CA. Also, I grew up in a liberal state but in a conservative area; the same applies to conservative states with liberal areas. (No hate with this just another perspective
@@notflooftassticyes but education is state mandated so why would they want your kids being educated in a way that preaches homophobia and racism when they’re gay and colored? it just creates a lot of hurdles. i totally get your perspective because area matters a lot, but floridas new laws override any sort of local policy
@@neverlandpabo1752are you from florida?? cause I live there, in one of the conservative areas unfortunately, and I have a sister who teaches state-funded elementary. While they’re not the best considering who our governor (trash) is, they don’t “preach” homophobia and racism, they’re ignoring the topics completely. Which can be seen from the whole “can’t say Gay” bill and all the books that have been banned dealing with race, LGBTQ+, or have authors that are in those groups. It’s an authoritative censorship, still trash but yeah no preaching of hate yet. (no hate, just frustration living in florida)
the korean lesbian couple are so attractive😫😭
Ikrrr T-T
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as a bisexual teenage girl living in a country of homophobic people, breaks my heart, but things avout this video
the way Carissa looks at her wife makes me melt
the way Hee-hoo rememberd the exact days
the way Do-ha and Dan met
makes me feel proud of who am i even tho im crushing for a guy that i met once in my lifetime and that im crushing to a girl thats sraight, god i wanna cry
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Turkish? If so, we have the same destiny girl...
Sameee where do u live btw?
@@askosefamerve im not turkish sadly, but i go there with my parents im bosnian, we have almost identical tradition as turkish so we all same if u girls by any chance wanna talk ill give u my insta
@@njegova.stara.cigara whats your insta?
@@schrj i.love.wony
The option for us LGBTQ+ people to get married in the first place is SO important, regardless of if a couple wants to be married or not. It should be our right, just like it is for straight couples.
You guys, should consider Scandinavian countries, we are generally very accepting, I’m from Denmark, we have the longest history of legal commitments/marriage in the lgbtq+ community.
And most of us speak English as a second or third language. Of course you’d still have to learn the local language 😂 but children seems to pick it up really quick, and adults are fine with speaking English.
That part might actually be a bigger challenge compared to being accepted as a gay couple here.
In my experience if someone says something bad about lgbtq+ or is rude about it everyone in the room will give them a mean stare, at the very least, if not directly scold them. Of course we still have old people who say whatever they feel like, and religious groups who have their own opinions but if they know what’s good for them they’ll only share those opinions behind closed doors.
When I was a kid, being lgbtq+ was something people whispered about but I never knew anyone who was lgbtq+ (at least not openly), nowadays practically 1 in 3 kids will say they are lgbtq+ and nobody dares to tell them otherwise. After all they wouldn’t want to be labeled as ‘problematic’ or ‘homophobic’ so even if not all of those kids are actually queer they’ll let them figure that out for themselves😂
Yeahhh, but due to immigrants (not all of them), homophobia and discrimination against lgbtq+ people is normal...
Hey I’m from Denmark too! I kind of agree! Most people don’t really care and won’t say anything,but I have also met a lot of homophobic people ! Both young and old
You are so wonderful! And I love Denmark. Can't wait to visit again. From the United States.
Instead of calling them off, let them make a change!
but then again...the racism......
The way Carrisa eyes follow Eugene is just so cute. It’s really beautiful to see people in love and just having that emotion all over their face and the way she watches her talk to the other couples in Korean and Eugene telling Carrisa what they’re talking about in English. I love them and I wish them a happy future together and hopefully a baby soon❤🎉
미국에서 사는 50중반 엄마입니다. 제가 개인적으로 개이 레스비언 결혼해서 아이를 키우는 친구들만 4명입니다. 하나는 Texas, Arizona, 둘은 Georgia 입니다. 아이들은 거의 힘들어하지 안아요. 만약 경져격 문제면 타격이 더 클탠데, 제 친구들은 의사, 박사, 교수 등등이니, 아이들한테 신경을 많이쓰고, 여행도 자주 갑니다.
아무리 미국이라고 해도 도시, 주마나 편견이 심한데가 있지만, 동성애자 결혼이나 둘이 아이를 키운다는것은 별로 큰이슈가 아닙니다. 한 아이는 벌써 명문 대학 졸업하고, 박사 과정을 한는데, 제 쌍둥이들이랑 15년째 친구여요. 완전 밝고, 생각이 깊고, 철이 일찍들어 효자입니다. 어쩜 엄마가 둘이니, 어린나이에 철이 들었나봐요.
한국도 하루빨리 법적으로 동성애자를 허락하는 날을 기다립니다. 저도 레스비안 딸을 가진 한국엄마로서 마음이 간절합니다. 모도 힘내세요.
딸의 sexuality를 받아들인 어머님이시군요.대단하세요.저도 여친 있는데 가족 몰래 사랑하고 있어요.저희 커플도 해피엔딩이었으면 좋겠어요..
I don't think the answer is always just to move out of SK. In order for things to change there has to be brave people (like the first people in america for example) to expand what society's perception of "family" is, people staying is the best way for it to finally start getting normalized... however if health, safety, and happiness is really being jeopardized then it would unfortunately be better to move out
this is true but also these things take time.
the legislation for a same sex couple to be able to marry each other and hv kids could take years.
and if the couple want kids not everyone can fight for it in time for it to still be possible for them.
i live in korea, and even just officially changing the aging system from Korean (birth = 1yo) to the international aging system, they are having a hard time rolling this out. a lot of older koreans are hard to convince and getting them onboard is very difficult.
the reality is the fight will be long, if same sex couples want to achieve where they can be seen and function properly as a family in society within the next 10 years, they won't be able to do that except outside of korea
Exactly what I was thinking. People are still fighting to keep those rights in place. Also the fact that not everyone is able to just leave their whole life behind whether it is for financial reasons or family and emotional attachment.
i agree with this but when u say “first people” do u mean european explorers or indigenous ppl cuz if it’s the first it i wouldn’t say that rlly makes sense considering they were the ones pushing homophobia and things like that!
i get what you mean, but a bunch of people moving out could also send a message instead of waiting for something to happen
I think South Korea will take a very long time to change their stance on same sex marriage, particularly because Koreans don't seem to be very vocal about social issues and rallying for change. I could be wrong, but a lot of the gay Koreans I've watched online just seem to accept that they can't be married and that society treats them badly, rather than fighting against it and building a community together and rallying for change. Also it seems most straight people in Korea have very little or no opinion on LGBT issues so they don't really consider themselves "allies" like the majority of left leaning people in the US. As much as it sucks to say, without allies fighting alongside us it's very difficult for minorities to make change happen on our own.
Hopefully with Taiwan, Thailand, and eventually maybe India working towards changes to marriage it will start a wave of other Asian countries following.
Taiwan legalized same-sex marriage back in 2019. That does make me wonder why so many Korean couples featured here think of moving to the US, rather than Taiwan where the language is significantly more similar (easier to learn) and there's stronger anti-discrimination laws
You can't be married in Taiwan you need to have citizenship to get married
Society wise, Thailand is definitely more accepting. But their government is just ugh 😑 they also have to deal with the king as well.
Thank you for bringing up not ALL Americans are accepting, but they will mostly just let it go for the most part, unless it directly affects htat person life. I really do hope that more Korean people will push back against what is considered norm and just step and be the 2nd or 3rd and not leave the pioneers out there fighting alone.
1년 후에 갑자기 알로리즈에 떠서 늦게 보게 되긴했지만... 게스트분들의 말 한마디 한마디에 정말 감동하고 울컥했어요. 국내에서도 하루빨리 다양한 형태의 가족과 부부가 법적으로 보호받고 사회적으로 인정받았으면 좋겠습니다. 좋은 영상 감사해요~
This video really has me grateful for growing up LGBT with open minded parents in a relatively liberal part of America. It's easy to forget that there are still places where i would be treated as less than because of my sexuality. Great video!
As a lesbian i love hearing and seeing this i think it is amazing how they all learned about eachothers standing points and everything i just love it a lot.
Ji-won needs to come to america and teach that level of sheer confidence to lesbians here! In america lesbians be putting each other on relationship lay-away waiting to see who loses "I like you" chicken while being just friends.
What a precious video!! ❤I know the conditions are difficult for LGBTQIA+ couples in most part of the world, but the ones in the video give me hope for a better future. Greeting from Brazil 🏳🌈
my fiancee and i have been together 25 years this year and we are getting married next week!
Congratulations!!!
The love in Carissa's eyes💕💕💕💕💕💕
I’m from the Philippines and I’m interested to know where did they got married here because Philippines is really strict when it comes to marriage.
Even the law for equality (SOGIE BILL) has been trashed by law makers here. Maybe it’s not a religion wedding but either way, congratulations to them!
@4:54. Sounds like they had a ceremony/celebration in the Philippines and got legally married in the US
I believe they had a wedding in the Philippines, they said they did their legal documents in the US and are legally married in the US. Some people have destination weddings.
SAME!!! iyaq pa ako non nung nanalo si he who must not be named kase alam kong di uusad ang talks of SOGIE and Queer Marriages sometime soon tapos gulat ako mamshii nung sinabi nilang PH pero reading the replies, it made sense naman. Sana all nalang pu
because God created man as a pair of male and female. some countries have laws without being based on religious principles, that's why many countries legalize same-sex marriage and and countries that make regulations on the basis of religion will not legalize…
You can get married in Argentina too!
it is so painful to watch such videos being a lesbian in Russia, where just a few days ago they banned LGBTQ and imposed huge fines for any "propaganda" of LGBTQ. I just want to love freely
In Spain it's possible both: to marry and you can to adopt. There are a lot of families LGTBIQ+ with happy children. Specially in Barcelona, a lot of people have open minds.
i just want to add that social change is really hard to predict - change can sometomes happen really fast - and it is hard to know why or how - just keep being yourself & keep trying and plan as though the change you want will soon come! I am 68 yrs old & have seen social acceptance take forever for one thing & happen in a snap for something else - right now the broad acceptance of gay & lesbian couples among young people is still very surprising to me - & so wonderful! I was with my girlfriend for 28 years but she died before marriage was declared legal in the US, but we were lucky to be able to be very open about our relationship
I love how the second couple clapped for themselves 😂😭❤️ that was so sweet
Omg of course the lesbians know the exact number of days they've been together lmao 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
My congratulations to all couples! I love all of you and wish you the best for a lifetime of happiness.
Me being a lesbian and seeing this as a indian really breaks my heart 🙂
7:52... As an American, what she said is absolutely TRUE!!
💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓It is accepting and normal in America for same-sex couple.
As a Floridian, hearing them say Florida is a relatively gay-friendly region of the US made me nervous chuckle... there are a lot of gay-friendly places here, but the state government is unfortunately quite conservative and anti-gay, so a lot of our state laws are pretty homophobic. Not long ago, a teacher here was arrested for showing her students a Disney movie that had a gay couple in it, because "that's not allowed in public schools".
Apparently, San Francisco, California is the most LGBTQ+ friendly city in the US. I know this video is a year old, but that may be something for these ladies to consider before moving to Florida, if they haven't already.
(It's sad that these kinds of things even need to be considered... I do hate my state's politicians...)
omg this warms and breaks my heart at the same time .- but either way, im soooo happy with this kind of content!💜💜
She is amazing the girl who asked for her number ❤
This was a really good conversation, thanks for sharing this! I wish and hope all the couples in the video gets to see their dreams come true! We'll keep breaking down the barriers, one by one!
even if everybody in the world turn against the LGBTQ community, I'll stand by them :)) this is the essence of the community, not going out with your pp out. Everybody deserves someone who loves them eternally, who cares what gender. I love you guys so much ❤❤
Do NOT go to FL or the south. As a gay WOC, I promise you’ll be safer and happier in someplace like WA state or California. NY is okay too, NH okay. If you go south or towards the Bible Belt, just be aware that it’s much more difficult to be queer, let alone a POC, even possibly unsafe. Yes, the possibility to be targeted is present everywhere in the US, but your chances of safety and acceptance are higher in places like I mentioned before. Happy Pride month from Seattle, WA!
as a lesbian born & raised in fl, central areas like Tampa and Orlando are really the safest LGBT areas. Key West is also very accepting of LGBT
It's so crazy to stumble on a RUclips video that has your friends in it 🤣
Sending all of u so much love!
Aww this is so sweet. I love how the American wife looks at her Korean wife when she is speaking ❤ so much love there
The Korean lesbian couple is so pretty ahh
Aww this was so sweet. Well, you guys can come and get married here in Europe too. Who knows, maybe (correct me if I'm wrong) in Thailand, New Zeeland, Australia, you can do so too? Getting married and building a family in one of those countries? If so, it's closer to home right? I hope you can make it. Indeed, if Korea is still not okay with single mom's it will take long until it's okay with us 🏳️🌈 as people, couples or families. My country was in that spot decades ago and nowadays it's so different, way more welcoming and we have the same rights as everyone else, regardless of more conservative views from some people. You can also raise the children for a few years abroad and then return. They will learn a language and a different way of living and then they can return to Korea and enjoy their time in both places. :) (Portugal, EU)
This was such a wholesome video. I really wish all the best for these couples and hope that marrying same-sex partners will soon be legal in South Korea!
get married soon guys, i want to see y'all extra happy and have babies too :)))
I wish you all luck in your relationships and happiness
wow i was surprised when she said in the Philippines coz i know it's not yet legal here although we have gay ceremonies. maybe they had ceremony here then made it legal abroad
I guess a lot of Korean same-sex couples really want to go to US for legalize their marriage and it really shows.... Hope they'll do someday.
Another good option would be Ireland, if they can! I am currently studying abroad here, and there are pride flags everywhere. It feels more accepting than in the US
It's very sad that a modern, wealthy country like South Korea does not give all it's citizens the same rights. I would seek a life else ware to try and make my dreams come true. Love and Support for Korea's LGBTQ+ community.❤❤
I can't watch this, I'll cry
Sending love from Australia, I hope you all can be happily married with your sweetheart someday ❤
cuando vi que las chicas se emocionaron cuando les dijeron que estaban casadas supe que este video me iba a hacer llorar…..tenía razón
All of them are really cute 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
I wish the best for all the couples... I hope Korea will accept you one day
Soooo cute interview... 😘🥰😍 thxkkk u 💖
Always love content like this
GLOBALEARTH FTW!!!!!! What an amazing channel to shine a POSITIVE light on LGBT issues lately. Beautiful work. Beautiful show. Simply beautiful.
wait til they meet married lesbians who have biological children
ohhh Florida, isn't it a very conservative state? please educate me about this if I'm wrong
FL is very conservative state it's what we call a red state. When she said FL I said what the hell last place I would move to if I were gay. I was thinking they should move to like CA, WA or even OR.
3:46 i was surprised when she said Philippines but it was only the location of the wedding/ceremony, the legal part of the marriage was in the US... same sex marriage is not legal in the Philippines, even the SOGIE bill wont go through 😢
The way she looks at her while shes talking 😭
I hope the whole world be a little more kinder, nicer, non- judgmental and understanding towards every human being. It's every human's right to feel love, be in love, be happy, be together with someone they love and have a family (depends on individual choice). Customs, traditions, cultures, societal norms and rules, legal systems should not take that away from one group of humans while others are thriving and living well enjoying their rights. To feel love, to be happy is a basic need. My wish is for this system to change. I felt so bad to hear when they said they can't have a baby because the society won't accept it. Not only in S.Korea, it's like that in many asian countries, in many European countries, in the US and in africa... basically everywhere in the world. We can't make the whole world change. But the societal change happens when individuals start to change. You might be against certain things because of your religion, belief, opinions, experiences and upbringing. That's fine. What you can do is not to humiliate, be non- judgmental and be respectful to the fellow humans. Always remember to live and enjoy your rights while not destroying other's.
This one is going to make me cry
I'm subscribing you for these sweet people😍
Florida isn't safe
they got married at the Philippines😲 btw, i'm from PH🇵🇭💙
FILIPINO HERE YEEEYYY
Come to Canada, many accepting places!
I would have cried bruh, its not like i wanna get married that badly but i do want it to be my choice to get married or not and not just "You can't", we still have a long way to go, F our government fr
This is so sad. I wish all of them the final happiness they seek. Come on Korea! And also, I found it a bit jarring that the men were able to have surrogates but the women aren't allowed in-vitro. Wish things would change.
Id say Cali is more accepting than Florida
0:01 The guy on the right is that Mike Trapp from CollegeHumor
So sad that this prejudice even exists when love between the same genders isn’t harmful. The prejudice is so pointless
Yoooo no matter what Korean couples are so fashionable. I absolutely love it❤️
Am so happy to see this ...
This is so heartbreaking that korea makes it so hard for same sex couples! Like it is love . They are a family like please!!! Let them liveeee
bro all i am asking for is to find someone to look at me the way carissa looks at eugene 😢
Wait theyre thinking if florida?? Didnt they just pass a bunch if anti lgbt bills, what about portland or new york
We are very open to many styles of families here in Canada too. Please consider coming here :)
ah yes an accepting region.... like florida..... yes.......
Early!!!! ❤
That's beautiful.
Carissa and Eugene ❤❤❤
Great content !
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I'm looking for cute korean gf 😭
AS A LESBIAN I LOVE THIS VIDEO but im also confused confused because i thought same-sex marriage is not legally recognized(???) in the philippines
PHILIPPINES MENTIONED
The white gril uncomfortable 😂
How the heck is Florida accepting Don't go there thinking it is
I don't no much about this issue, but isn't south kora having problems with their bithrate, because the younger generation is less inclined to have kids? And then at the same time, some of the people who do actually want to have kids, like these people here, can't have them..?
Não entendo como a Coréia pode ser tão atrasada com relação a isso... É de cortar o coração vendo eles tão empolgados com algo que é até rotineiro aqui pra gente
As a young queer person currently living in Florida I strongly advise that they should chose somewhere else in the US, Florida is actually pretty bad like yeah the big cities are more accepting but anywhere else here sucks and especially now also with the whole don't say gay thing :(((((((
In Argentina 🇦🇷 same sex marriage is legal. Adoption and fertility treatments are free. Inmigrantion is really easy
Dan looks like Jung Haein!
Girl made first move
Trying not to cry, I want these beautiful people to get their dignity with legal marriage!!! 🥹❤️🏳️🌈
Most of my les friends be changing their girlfriend so often like。。。while i still haven't even have 1 yet (If they keep it on like this and meet their true love one day and ask them how many exes you got 😬)
What do you mean by that? Humans aren't chewing gum or what ever kind of analogy people make these days. Some people need more time to find the right one. That doesn't mean they are all chewed out in the end. They have experience. Maybe they need time to work on themselves too.
If their future "true love" have an issue with their body count they are not the one. End of story. It shouldn't matter.
(But an Std test is a good idea in general. I'm just saying. I've had 2 partners in my life and still did one after the first. You never know who will lie to you.)
@@sophieceleste4771Wanting to know your partner’s “body count” (what a despicable word) and favouring someone with a low one is natural, logical and doesn’t necessarily need to be tied to morality. Every person with whom your partner has had intercourse with (without a condom), every person with whom your partner’s ex had intercourse with prior to dating them, and even the people with whom the five previous partners of your partner’s ex has slept with - every single one of them will become a member of your personal circle in terms of your health. And if you’re part of a group where it’s uncommon to use manual protection, as it is the case for lesbians (less so nowadays for gay men), this number will be incredibly high. And if the chance of being exposed to a STD or worse increases each time you’re sleeping with a new person, if you consider that a significant number of people will not be honest about their STD history (just look at people’s behaviours during the COVID 19 pandemic, and if you’re wired towards fearing illness just like all humans are, what else would be the logical conclusion if you want to avoid exposure to a STD if keeping the size of your “contact circle” as minimal as possible?
Whattt they got married first in Philippines????😅
This is heartbreaking. I don’t understand why people can’t let others live their lives. It is crazy how same-sex marriage is still illegal and even punishable in so many places:(