That's interesting but not surprising. As an extrovert you like an extroverted function. Fe and Te do share similarities since it's a tribe function but the motivation and method differ.
@@ENTJ_Perspective I never thought he was an ENTJ. Anyone successful and outspoken is typed as an ENTJ for some reason. I'm confused if Gary Vee is an ENTP or an ENFJ. Some people think he's an ENFP but he seems too confused about his own emotions. On that note Putin is an ENTJ and not an INTJ or ISTP like people believe. He's a 9w1 953 so/sp ENTJ.
That was a cool surprise that you chose Fe...totally unexpected! Here's my subjective viewpoint of that function as an INFP married to an ESFJ: Fe--The good: My husband was online the other day shopping for wheelchairs. We have no one in our close circle who uses a wheelchair. I ask why he's shopping for wheelchairs. 'Oh, in case we're out somewhere with someone who's older and they get tired, we'll have this in the car trunk.' How sweet😊Helping people is almost a science for him. Fe--The bad: Insisting that I conform to norms and be 'agreeable' when I...just don't agree. (Did I mention I'm INFP? Yeah.)
@@ENTJ_Perspective Hmm...Good question. I think that for him, there's really no limit to his giving, as long as HE doesn't feel that he's being taken advantage of. He really lives for giving, but if he feels unappreciated or taken advantage of, that's when the 'dark side' shows up...questioning motives, etc.
I use Fe to read other people. I can tell when they're being offended or their mood is changing. And base on that, I will either tone down my behavior or just ignore it and push through. It's a very useful function to have, though mine's not yet fully develop, it certainly restrain me from being a total ass.
Fe?🙃 as a kid it made me insufferably blunt, as a teenager I (finally!) started noticing that there were social rules, social manoeuvres and social strategies that could ingratiate people with you or make them your accidental enemy. I also realised that some people seemed to be effortlessly good at all these things. I tried to learn and contrary to stereotypes, I think we INTPs can eventually become relatively good at Fe. Nowadays, I can come across as a good host and as a very nice and social person, if only a bit too bland and goody-goody, or scripted. However, I can only keep the act for a short period of time, because Fe drains me like nothing else. Moreover, using it it's incredible stressful because it always feels like I'm an intruder there and at any time anybody could unmask me. Fe dominants always seem to pick all this up and I've noticed they become over-appreciative of my efforts and over-protective of me in social situations. It's really comforting --INTP
That's exactly how I feel when I do it. Like I'm being fake. But I think it's just because it's uncomfortable for me. Sometimes I crush it, don't get me wrong. But other times I'm cringing inside. No one else seems to notice though.
Do you just cringe, or do you also experience anxiety with it? (As in *real fear* that somebody might find out you’re BSing your way through it?) That’s how Fe feels to me, I feel like I have no idea what I’m doing (BSing), but I’m terrified people are gonna find out I’m only 20% sure of what I’m doing. Fi, on the other hand, is the cringy one to me: my honest answer to “what do you believe in, what are your values?” is that I have no answer, that I fail to see how anybody could have a *fixed* set of values. But I can come up with something if needed. I’ll cringe, and I think people will notice I’m being fake, but it doesn’t really bother me if they do. Fe, on the other hand… I’m scared they’ll find out. Is it like that to you? Or is it like that but with the functions reversed? (The panicky one is Fi, and the cringy one is Fe?) Let me know, I have a certain theory related to that that I’m evaluating
@@giomar89 With Fi I would say I just feel exposed. So if I'm feeling really confident and myself it's no problem. But if I'm not I get that vulnerable feeling. With Fe it's cringe. Like awkward and it feels like I'm being fake. Like you said, BS-ing. But if I'm in a really confident and loving mood I can do it flawlessly.
That's interesting but not surprising. As an extrovert you like an extroverted function. Fe and Te do share similarities since it's a tribe function but the motivation and method differ.
Yea they're sometimes actually difficult to tell apart. For the longest time I thought Gary Vaynerchuck was an an ENTJ. Nope.
@@ENTJ_Perspective I never thought he was an ENTJ. Anyone successful and outspoken is typed as an ENTJ for some reason. I'm confused if Gary Vee is an ENTP or an ENFJ. Some people think he's an ENFP but he seems too confused about his own emotions.
On that note Putin is an ENTJ and not an INTJ or ISTP like people believe. He's a 9w1 953 so/sp ENTJ.
That was a cool surprise that you chose Fe...totally unexpected! Here's my subjective viewpoint of that function as an INFP married to an ESFJ:
Fe--The good: My husband was online the other day shopping for wheelchairs. We have no one in our close circle who uses a wheelchair. I ask why he's shopping for wheelchairs. 'Oh, in case we're out somewhere with someone who's older and they get tired, we'll have this in the car trunk.' How sweet😊Helping people is almost a science for him.
Fe--The bad: Insisting that I conform to norms and be 'agreeable' when I...just don't agree. (Did I mention I'm INFP? Yeah.)
Lol so true. Never ask an INFP to conform. Are there times when your husband's conforming gets him into trouble, or when he gives too much?
@@ENTJ_Perspective Hmm...Good question. I think that for him, there's really no limit to his giving, as long as HE doesn't feel that he's being taken advantage of. He really lives for giving, but if he feels unappreciated or taken advantage of, that's when the 'dark side' shows up...questioning motives, etc.
I use Fe to read other people. I can tell when they're being offended or their mood is changing. And base on that, I will either tone down my behavior or just ignore it and push through. It's a very useful function to have, though mine's not yet fully develop, it certainly restrain me from being a total ass.
Love this.
The choice of Fe is a real plot twist!
(Also every time you say Fe is as if I hear my nick name and it's so funny XD)
OMG! LOL that's soo funny.
@@ENTJ_Perspective IKR!
You smile like a demon on that video cover and I like that :D
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@@ENTJ_Perspective wonder if that's ENTJ trait ;)
@@sylvia470 It's a trait for this ENTJ 🤣
Seems appropriate since FE is the ENTJ demon shadow function 😅
@@nanatheplum6453 lol checks out
Fe?🙃 as a kid it made me insufferably blunt, as a teenager I (finally!) started noticing that there were social rules, social manoeuvres and social strategies that could ingratiate people with you or make them your accidental enemy. I also realised that some people seemed to be effortlessly good at all these things. I tried to learn and contrary to stereotypes, I think we INTPs can eventually become relatively good at Fe. Nowadays, I can come across as a good host and as a very nice and social person, if only a bit too bland and goody-goody, or scripted. However, I can only keep the act for a short period of time, because Fe drains me like nothing else. Moreover, using it it's incredible stressful because it always feels like I'm an intruder there and at any time anybody could unmask me. Fe dominants always seem to pick all this up and I've noticed they become over-appreciative of my efforts and over-protective of me in social situations. It's really comforting --INTP
That's exactly how I feel when I do it. Like I'm being fake. But I think it's just because it's uncomfortable for me. Sometimes I crush it, don't get me wrong. But other times I'm cringing inside. No one else seems to notice though.
Do you just cringe, or do you also experience anxiety with it? (As in *real fear* that somebody might find out you’re BSing your way through it?) That’s how Fe feels to me, I feel like I have no idea what I’m doing (BSing), but I’m terrified people are gonna find out I’m only 20% sure of what I’m doing.
Fi, on the other hand, is the cringy one to me: my honest answer to “what do you believe in, what are your values?” is that I have no answer, that I fail to see how anybody could have a *fixed* set of values. But I can come up with something if needed. I’ll cringe, and I think people will notice I’m being fake, but it doesn’t really bother me if they do. Fe, on the other hand… I’m scared they’ll find out.
Is it like that to you? Or is it like that but with the functions reversed? (The panicky one is Fi, and the cringy one is Fe?) Let me know, I have a certain theory related to that that I’m evaluating
@@giomar89 With Fi I would say I just feel exposed. So if I'm feeling really confident and myself it's no problem. But if I'm not I get that vulnerable feeling.
With Fe it's cringe. Like awkward and it feels like I'm being fake. Like you said, BS-ing. But if I'm in a really confident and loving mood I can do it flawlessly.
I'm an infj , so (fe) for me
Something let you just listening + (ti) let you ask perfect questions to the others