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ENTJ Perspective
Добавлен 19 авг 2022
Hi. I'm Mike and I'm a normal dude (kind of). This is my perspective on the quest for a meaningful life.
The Purpose Of Trauma
Trauma is very simple, though we often overcomplicate it. We adapt to survive. We condition ourselves for survival. And sometimes we have to survive and adapt to things we can't yet deal with, mentally and emotionally. But as we mature we can. Overcoming Trauma means recognizing the ways in which we've been conditioned. In recognizing the conditioning we are free from it.
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I Am Not An ENTJ
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I'm not an ENTJ. Sorry guys. Actually, I'm not sorry. It was really fun being an ENTJ!
CHANNEL ANNOUNCEMENT (So You Can Decide If You Want To Keep Watching This Channel)
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Hey guys. Going to be steering away from MBTI Stuff now. Just want to let you know. My email and Discord if you want to chat: MikeLebow1@Gmail.com Moke# 6354
How To Have Better Conversations
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In this video I talk about what you can to have higher quality conversations. Keep in mind this doesn't guarantee every conversation you have will be meaningful. Sometimes the best way to have better conversations is to walk away from the ones that you don't value. My Discord if you want to chat: Moke# 6354
My Current Favorite Function
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If you want to chat you can: Email me - MikeLebow1@Gmail.com Discord - Moke# 6354
ENTJ | How To Do Feelings
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Just because we're bad at dealing with emotions doesn't mean we aren't also responsible for them. Here's some examples of how to get better at the best and worst thing about life: feelings. They're there whether we like or not so might as well try. 0:00 - Intro 0:12 - "I Don't Do Feelings" 0:59 - Stop Trying To Fix Your Feelings 2:09 - Accept How You Feel 3:30 - Prioritize Your Feelings 4:36 - ...
INFP | How To Explain Your Feelings
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Thinking and feeling are two different languages, but they originate from the same place. In this video I explain the differences between the two ways of communicating, as well as how they're related, using real life examples. 0:00 - Intro 0:42 - Thinking Vs. Feeling 1:34 - Real Life Fi 3:23 - Real Life Te 5:35 - Thinking = Feeling 7:12 - You're Going To Be Uncomfortable If you want to chat wit...
ENTJ and INFP Responsibilities
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Different types tend to feel responsible for different things depending on their dominant functions. This video is about what ENTJs (or any ExxJ) and INFPs (or any IxxP) tend to feel responsible for the most, and why these tendencies pair nicely. 0:00 - Into 0:12 - Storytime 0:37 - Responsibility 2:35 - Responsibility Summary 2:50 - Everyone Can Do Everything 4:00 - Love If you want to talk per...
ENTJ | WHEN THE INTROVERTED FEELING TIDAL WAVE HITS
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When you ignore your inferior function long enough you get what is referred to as a "tidal wave." For someone with inferior Fi, usually it means you're not standing up for yourself. Or, on some level, you're not properly acknowledging your own feelings and values. When things finally bubble up, it can seem like it's coming out of no where. Even to us! The funny thing is, to an ENTJ, there's alm...
ENTJ + ISTP Relationship
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This is my interpretation of the ENTJ ISTP relationship based on my experience growing up with my ISTP cousin. Disagree? Then you're wrong. Just kidding. Tell me what you think in the comments! 0:00 - Intro 0:24 - Both Dominant Thinking 1:59 - Shared Extroverted Sensing 4:01 - Introversion Compliments Extroversion 4:47 - Lack Of Intuitive Connection Doesn't Matter 5:14 - Key To Relationship 6:5...
Common Misconceptions About The ENTJ Personality Type #2
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Second edition of ENTJ Myths. This one is informed by my recent deep dive into Objective Personality on RUclips. Starting to bring an objective approach to things. But god damn is subjectivity so fun. Link to Objective Personality: ruclips.net/user/ObjectivePersonality Link to MBTI Humans: ruclips.net/channel/UC9XDWY3fuCMqMdWvZ8asPPA Intro - 0:00 Objective Personality - 0:08 ENTJs don't care wh...
ENTJ + INTJ Relationship
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My hot take on INTJs, and the ENTJ INTJ dynamic. 0:00 - Intro 0:18 - Shared Te 2:35 - Introversion compliments introversion 3:43 - Shared sense of humor 4:28 - Potential difficulties 5:15 - Closing thoughts If you want to chat about anything personality or personal development you can Email me: MikeLebow1@Gmail.com Message me on Discord: Moke# 6354
ENTJ + ISTJ Relationship
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My take on ISTJs as an ENTJ. What I like about them, and what is challenging for me. 0:00 - Intro 0:29 - Shared Te 2:19 - Si Vs. Se 4:07 - ISTJ play it safe 4:52 - ISTJ extremely loyal 5:34 - Potential difficulties (risk vs. safety) 6:15 - Lack of deep conversation 7:14 - The Key to Life is Video Games 7:36 - ISTJs don't want to fight 8:14 - Closing thoughts If you want to chat about anything p...
ENTJ + ENFP Relationship
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My hot take on ENFPs. What I love, and what I struggle with. 0:00 - Intro 0:22 - Deep Conversation 0:48 - ENFP Artistic Taste 1:56 - ENFP Social Butterflies 3:21 - ENFP Style & Appearance 3:47 - ENFP Warm & Affectionate 4:50 - Potential Difficulties If you want to chat about anything personality or personal development you can Email me: MikeLebow1@Gmail.com Message me on Discord: Moke#6354
ENTJ + INFJ Relationship
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My hot take on the ENTJ INFJ relationship based on my personal experience. 0:00 - Intro 0:12 - Doggy 0:27 - Both Visionaries 1:23 - INFJs Follow The Rules 2:37 - INFJ Work Ethic 3:37 - INFJ Aloofness 4:16 - INFJ Give Great Council 5:36 - Potential Difficulties 6:21 - Lack of Deep Analytical Conversation 7:29 - Closing Thoughts If you want to chat about anything personality or personal developme...
Common Misconceptions About The ENTJ Personality Type
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Common Misconceptions About The ENTJ Personality Type
You are my brother from another mother - ENTJ-T
i love INTJs so much 😭
Me too 🥲
Respectfully, and honestly, how does this even make sense? If you, a MBTI youtuber mistyped yourself, wouldn't the rest or at least 99% of people who just randomly take these sort of tests be mistyped as well. at what point dictates the true typing? If everyone is mistyped, there doesn't seem to be a point to any of this right? what type would I be typed as from this comment for example?
Great questions. From an MBTI point of view, I'm probably an ENTJ. That's what I typically get when I take the various online tests. But I also get ENTP sometimes, depending on the test. Objective Personality System (OPS) takes the stance that self tests are not accurate because there are parts of ourselves that we do not see, or are not conscious of, therefore we need to be typed by others who use objective criteria and observed data (video submission) to triangulate your type. In OPS there's also additional components to a person's personality beyond the 8 functions, so it's very much a different system. When I made this video, I was speaking from an OPS perspective. But I think it does depend on what system, or lens, that you're looking at all this through. I still very much resonate with the MBTI ENTJ. These days I regard personality systems as a fun way to relate to people, but It's not so much something I use for self-understanding or personal growth anymore. Thanks for the great point and great question.
@@ENTJ_Perspective That makes sense! Yeah, I always thought that the MBTI worked in that very way - for self-analysis. But I agree wholeheartedly with your take, especially that last part of it being a fun way to relate to people. definitely agreed and coming from a supposed ENTJ as well lol. I also have gotten entp at times or have been told I have some resembling traits, but again, to your point, don't think it should be a means to an end for growth. Thanks for that in-depth explanation and time for your reply.
Meanwhile I'm an INTJ 5w6 and I knew an INFP through my ESTJ friend. I never spoke with her however so I'm not sure of the outcome.
I'm dating an ENTJ. And best conversation I've ever had, its serious and fun at the same time. Its like we can't run out of things to talk and laugh about. We started out as friends, and decided to date because duhhh...
Infj isn’t deep? I don’t think there’s another mbti who’s deeper than us
My sister is an ENTJ and I’m an INFJ. It’s so interesting to hear your perspective and experience! In many ways, our types complement each other. I’m introverted and sensitive, while she’s expressive and assertive. We trust each other enough for her to be vulnerable with me and vent, while she empowers me in moments when I need it. 🤍
I never met an ENTJ in my life :'v
Manifest it 😎
@@ENTJ_Perspective I will try 🥲
Thank you for this video. The most famous INFP and ENTJ couple I can think of are probably Mr. Rochester and Jane Eyre. They're are a prime example of how ENTJs and INFPs interact. I rarely run into ENTJs in everyday life, so I found myself watching the way you speak and your body language a bit and it's the most ENTJ thing I've seen in a long time XD The strategic and assertive nature that ENTJs are so known for definitely shines through. As an INFP, I love the intelligence and strategic nature of ENTJs and think that INFPs and ENTJs complement and balance each other well.
I'm not familiar with them. I'll have to check them out.
@@ENTJ_Perspective Please do! :) Here is one of the best scenes showing the interaction between these two personality types. I have rarely seen a more precise representation. The whole movie is nothing but great and definitely worth watching. It is based on Charlotte Brontë's book of the same name. ruclips.net/video/3oLs0Lcg5Go/видео.html
@@ENTJ_Perspective "Scent of a Woman” (1992) is another great example for the ENTJ (Col. Frank Slade) - INFP (Charlie) dynamic but in a friendship.
Very surface level. I’m an INFJ and this video reminded me of why ENTJs leave me just like…”ummm… is that it?” They feel to lack the ability to really go deep. Just my opinion. Thank you for sharing yours.
You probably don't get to have this deep conversation because she didn't know if you were going to leave (break up) or not, almost total certainty is necessary for a complete and even raw opening. (Yes, I took into account that you said it was 2 years)
Agreed
thank you for sharing :)
New experiences, interpret art
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I'm an INFJ woman married to an ENTJ man. Really curious to know what you consider a deep conversation. I feel like my husband and I can have deep conversations but then there's like a point where he checks out and his interest wanes. I think what it is is that we want to go different directions on a given subject. I as an Infj am looking at how this relates to myself and humanity whereas he is just looking at the facts and logic and what makes sense and how things "should be".
As an infj here. I do not like small talk. I go deep and frequently lose people. I think you must factor in intellect and interests in considering if an infj or entj goes into deeper conversations.
started laughing so hard at the shirt reveal 😭
The audio Is so quite that's sad. :(
Speaking as an INFJ, I go deep, deep, deep, then deeper. Love INFPs -- we swim in the ocean depths. I am dancing around a relationship with an ENTJ. I enjoy intellectual conversation, and my introverted thinking is well developed, but at some point there needs to be some feeling aspect involved or I will not feel connected. If I don't feel connected, I will not fully invest or fully trust and I'm all in or all out. I also view situations with a lot of data and try to understand perspectives to synthesize a view; I tend to resist dogmatic approaches even if I mostly agree with it.
How about ENTJ -INTP?
Absolutely love it. INTPs probably who I feel the most myself around because I have room to be my direct and assertive self without worrying about offending anyone. INTPs tend to reason with what you say and are confident in their own point of view, which makes them perfect for offering feedback on my own ideas and values. Truly a comfortable fit.
Infj here - I feel that perhaps the INFJ you are referring to may have been a bit reserved to shared more deep conversations of what you craved. I wonder if in her mind she felt into a role of feeling needed, rather than wanted. When we INFJs may feel needed then we dont trust fully and dont express fully. Of course I do not know the real situation, just giving a perspective !
Haha, I appreciate your perspective. There was probably a lot of other things going on that didn't have to do with type. I really think any two types can make a great relationship.
@@ENTJ_Perspective I agree.
Maybe you an ENTJ in their shadow? Idk I can sense that you’re an ENTJ because you’re attractive to me. I’m not attracted to ISFPs. -INTP
Funny you say that because INTPs are the type I've always found the most attractive. Something about the internal sense of logic and reasoning is really refreshing. Like I can say what I truly think and they will look it objectively, rather than personally, and give me honest and thoughtful feedback that I can make use of. It's the best.
entj is literally my favorite type (as an infj female) and i hope i can someday fall in love with an entj idk but i think this would be an amazing couple! im not good at their strenghts and they are less efficient in my strenghts - opposites attract, i find them attractive. this would complement well, pink and blue maybe two entirely different shades but when together, they appear a pretty combo!
Love it.
awwww you really make me a little shocked you know,, ,,,but still love you 🥰
Love you too <3
Istp here I have always got along with ENTJ as coworkers, bosses, colleagues. Like how you described for; the conversations, doing tasks, games, eating etc. are stuff I relate to. But I have always hated them as teachers, instructors, examiners, gatekeepers, interviewers. (and they don't like me either.)
That's because of their trickster Si, those ENTJs were in jobs that didn't suit them
As an INFJ, I tend to attract a lot of ENTJs and I am attracted to them as well. I usually enjoy the friendship as our conversations are killer when we are connected mentally. However, I have a hard time opening up to an ENTJ man who was "interested" in me because he would dismiss my feelings and actually make fun of me when I'd express a serious concern. It was very one-sided as when he talked about his problems, I would let him open up with no judgement or pretense however when it came to me, he'd be on his phone scrolling and not actually engage with me. I have no patience for that and decided to walk away from the relationship before it even started. It could be that the woman you were with probably felt unsafe. Us INFJs usually know if a future is doomed with a person or not due to our dominant Ni. She probably started letting go before you could even see it. Overall though, great video and I appreciate you sharing your personal experience with us, I hope you find love again soon if you have not :)
Super interesting perspective, thank you.
@@ENTJ_Perspective as an infj, the only reason I wouldn't go deep is if someone has shown blatent criticism and judgmental towards others or towards me. We hold a safe space for others deepest emotions and if I see someone tear another apart, particularly if it's something they can't change about themselves or regarding a struggle another is going through....I'll still listen & be kind to you but I'm closed to you. If you're grossly impatient or hyper critical of others you'll never know me tho you'll always want to. I have to emphatically agree that she probably didn't feel safe sharing herself authentically w you. (And I apologize if that sounds harsh, but it is also the truth) - thats the obligated infj not wanting to hurt you there 😂 ❤
@@wendybesse90 Don't worry, I like the truth.
hi, ENFP here in a new relationship with an ENTJ. I test as a very typical ENFP. However, i think contrary to what you said, i am very analytical. The difference though is that I like analysing things because it gives me satisfaction and a sense of security to have examined a problem from all possible angles and connected all the dots, examined possible outcomes ect... My ENTJ will notice this and see it as me merely wasting a bunch of time time for nothing, and push me to take action immediately rather than wasting time in the ether pondering how this issue might be connected to the deeper meaning of life (very fixated on efficiency, which might be good for me cos i also have ADHD and can be quite all over the place). He is very confident in himself and his decision making process. I dont think he has had time to see that there is always a method to my madness when I research things extremely thoroughly and make decisions. I sometimes feel like he might get a bit dismissive with me and think he knows whats best on a topic i have done more research on for example. But its early days and we are still feeling things out and getting to know each other. For the most part he motivates and inspires me and I know we will not become stagnant together. I had another 9 year relationship with an ISFJ and that ended in stagnancy. But this relationship by contrast feels very goal, future and progress oriented. Its what I wanted and i manifested it... but now it feels like a bit of pressure too.
So, stop making fun of girls that believe in ghosts because you have no intuition.
Bigger picture is right in front of you.
Longing/yearning sparks imagination. We must look at the centers of imagination: hypothalamus and the thalamus. Now the hypothalamus ventromedial hypothalamus, would be a great path to consider as mate selection because of the infundibuler and the pituitory gland; so far the hypothalamus, but the thalamus regulates sexual appetite and the thalamus is very much right next to the neocortex which stores long term memory (even muscle has memory but the neocortex should be considered you're long term). But anyway, the phallic marital aid, was invented before the wheel. You can figure out what i am going on about.
Why don't you do videos from isfp perspective? Isfps are so cool, so no worries🤩
Haha, thank you. Personality theory isn't my thing anymore, but it will always have a place in my heart.
Hello from ENTJ woman 😂
Objective personality is kind of questionable when it comes to accuracy. They base most of their decisions when typing someone on their own system as opposed to the systems of mbti and socionics. They do a lot of switcheroo typing like that...
@@jabusallah ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ I was into it at the time. It’s still pretty cool but not my thing.
I just found your channel yesterday. I want to say how much it has helped me understand my ENTJ husband of 32yrs. I am an INFP. We have a great relationship but the last few years have been a struggle. I think we were both a little depressed. It has been 4month since I learned about the MBTI personalities. He is not interested at all but thats ok. Just me understanding him better and responding differently has helped tremendously. I look forward to seeing your adventures. I love ENTJ's!
Thank you so much! Definitely don't watch my video where I explain that I'm probably not an ENTJ 😅. That being said, some people that have watched it disagree and still feel I'm an ENTJ. And in many ways I also still feel I am. This is a new channel I've created where I'm processing some deep, dark feelings I'm exploring: ruclips.net/video/1LQ1gXphzeY/видео.html You'd be welcome. If you dare.
is it possible to an intp to become an entj (with conscious effort)
No idea.
I am entj, but I like the boy intj when we talk, I feel that he understands me, but he listens to me a lot and asks the right questions. We have a good time as a companion.
<-INTJ. One of my best friends is an ENTJ. He tends to lead most of the time, but when things get hairy and he needs me to grab the wheel, I will steer us through the storm, literally, and get us out the other side. We both have our areas of expertise, and respect the other's though there is often a little friendly competition behind the scenes, though more like a nipping at each others' heals to help each other be our best. One thing he did have to learn though, is that I do not obey, I cooperate as it suits me to do so. I don't tell him what to do either, except as advice, or if I'm saving his life. He is an Alpha, I am a Sigma. Nobody else gets a pass, they all call him boss man. I call him "brother". I have another very close friend who is an INFJ, and while there are similarities in some places, in others the dynamics are completely different. I cherish both friendships, and will fight to the death to protect either, as would they.
It does not work. Stay away. The INFP will only be constantly disappointed and unsupported. The ESTJ will never understand the INFP and treat them like inferior objects to control as they please because the INFP has terrible people pleasing and boundary issues. I repeat... DO NOT entertain the thought of this pairing AT ALL!
My best friend is an entj. I am infp. Everything you said I kept nodding. Have to say this has to be least toxic relationship in my life just on the sheer fact I can speak my mind around her and she won't get offended. Not to mention she is true to her word. Entj may not deliver always, because they figured they overestimated themselves, but if they communicate this I won't be upset for long and will learn to accept it and let go. We have a lot of common interests and I love her. Entj are true to their words which can't be said for other type. For example istp, estp or esfp. They have integrity. I am grateful for her. So guess I went into the gushing side of an infp lol. Yeah, she is probably best person in my life.
Love this.
Hm This is the first instance where I’ve seen you say or do anything that doesn’t ring true with Entj - it’s not like us to give deference to highly regarded (established) professionals in a field over our own analysis thus far Then again… you sound very ardent about it… fixed and grounded.. which doesn’t square with isfp IP types are often the most indecisive and skeptical and they get mixed results every time they test. If they had to make a hard pivot like that I think they’d marinate in it for a while and wouldn’t be so resolute. As an ENTJ however, I can make a hard pivot on a dime with no shame and I make decisions quick enough to cause an anxiety attack to an IP around me. An ENTJ drastic conclusion jump sounds like what you’ve done here, but hey
Great analysis that I am not opposed to.
4:01 yes! just described me to a T
I used to have a hard time expressing feelings. Not no mo. Everyone wishing Id shut up.
You spoke about this in a great way. Good points to mention. As an INTJ (tritype 514) I really look up to the Te Dominant. My Te Parent learns from it and makes me amused by how far efficient Te could be. Though, because ENTJs and INTJs speak the same language as you mentioned, I find ENTJs highly interesting rather than ESTJs. I like ENTJs and wish to have and explore closer relationships with some.
Watching your video, I feel a bit saddened for you. I feel like you're still missing her very much. 😞 Is this your way of communicating to her? 😒 I'm dude by the way, so don't connect to me. Lol 😅
LOL! Absolutely love this comment. Excellent insight. When I made this video I was 100% still processing the grief and loss I felt, and thus minimized the relationship by intellectualizing and justifying my experience. I still process it from time to time. Why wouldn't I want to connect with you with such a wise and compassionate comment. Don't worry we can just be romantic in a funny ironic way 😘
@@ENTJ_Perspective Stay cool my brother. 😎
As an INFJ I only had a one ENTJ friend ( although I’d like to have something more 😂) she’s a very independent and strong woman she would act very gentle with me and I adored that , she showed me her favorite pantings and I showed her my favorite books , for me as an INFJ 5w4 , she was more like a fantasy , I hope I was as well to her , one day we knew it’s over , we just said goodbye and that’s it , all respect I wish all ENTJs the best in what’s coming.❤
As an ENFP I disagree with our disability to analyze, we have Te as our third function, which means its still a pretty strong function. I feel like what you’re talking about is that ENFP’s like to discuss ideas in a non-competitive way, while ENTJ’s actually really enjoy a form of competition. As an example, for me personally, I really enjoy battling out two different ideas that seem contradictory to each other, and see which one of these concepts come out as “most plausible” (simply said). What I don’t enjoy is when one person represents one idea and the other represents the other idea. Then it feels like we’re not seeking the truth, but battling each other, having to compete our intelligence against each other where there is one “winner” and one “loser”. While, when you separate the people from the concepts, and instead of battling each other, you look at a distance, analyze the different ideas and let the ideas battle each other (instead of the people), it feels more as if we’re on a journey of truth together, instead of having a competition. This is actually what I really enjoy to do with myself. Having two different perspectives in my head, and each perspective analyzes and criticizes the other. Ofcourse, this is from the perspective of 1 ENFP, which means my opinion is not completely objective, this is just what I feel is most true for me personally.
YES!!
I have entj best friend, and i am the intj.. our relationship works compatibly.. we will not argue on things because we understand our humours. And it will be picture out like this, " I'm bored going out and staying in my working place or in my room, and she's the one who will say "where are you? I want to see you, let's go to these places".... She pushed me to go out... That lol entj a friend of mine.
I like your storytelling style. Overall, I like your video. Nice energy. I wrote a 416-paged novel, and an INFP and an ENTJ fall in love in the story.
Overall, I like your comment. Wouldn't mind being in that story myself.
Regarding analytical or deep conversations, I think that when they talk to you, they tend to focus on what you tell them and take the conversation that way. Depending From the environment in which he finds himself, he shows a greater interest in the topic than in the people around him and it is easier for him to speak naturally about a topic, going deeper into it. Sometimes they do not know much about a topic that is talked to them, but they can relate well the ideas that are given to them and also talk about it without knowing much.
Hi, i watched there videos to get more knowldge about my type but i just found shorts and a lots of jokes there, so i want to recommend for you personality hacker chanel it will give you answers for tons of questions.
As an INFP man I can tell that for the first time in my life I would be totally fine letting go of the command and let my ENTJ girl take the lead when talking about some decisions and planning. It is just different, she really makes me feel appreciated.
Love it.
2:00 lollll i wish i can have a entj coworker !!
In a big team including all 16personalities, how do u view people define infps as mascots? Like representing luck but doing nth?