This was my husband's and my song together.....married 36 years...together 38....calling it quits. Makes me sad to hear this beautiful song as I know we still love each other...can't live together anymore.
Will love my former husband (30+ year relationship) forever. I just couldn’t stay with him. I was living what didn’t feel like my life… Also a short term lover and another I felt such a deep connection with, that in reality just cannot/will not ever be. 💗 I real-eyes’d in my healing journey I didn’t really know any of them and that I didn’t even know myself. 💗 I also love everyone…unconditionally… whether I like them or not… family, old friends, +.
It's not about life. Life is perfect, it's about the situations. But those makes us grow into the best version of ourselves. It's a matter of time, trust me. I wish you the best!
I agree. Life always works out for the best. We think they are failures or missed opportunities because we have tunnel vision, and don't realize that there is a roadmap, we just aren't privy to that information. In this game of life, we cannot lose.@@yareesco7995
Perfect for who? Don't invalidate other people's perspectives and lived experiences. We are all entitled to our opinions on what life is for us. It's not a one size fits a for everyone
This scene is beautiful in so many ways! Almost therapeutic for people like me with broken hearts; people who feel guilty or melancholic over missed opportunities, love, relationships.. We have to let go eventually and move on with our lives.. But first we got to make sure we are okay and we are loved..by ourselves first! Sending light and love to all of you guys who feel this way and understand ❤☺️
I have never heard such beautiful words. They are simply words though unless they hold that deep passion and trueness. Moments spent together in sincere honesty. I'm sorry but if it comes straight from the heart there isn't anything that can take its place.. Embrace it (it being that very moment in time) and run with it. Run like hell like wild horses that cannot be contained. Bring that feeling and raw emotion back and never let it go...
For everybody here that's having a hard time letting someone go, the first time I watched this movie I thought I would never be healed, but now I finally am. It won't last forever. Nothing does
I recently had my heart broken... And I truly loved him, reason of which is so difficult to me to move on, but this scene gives me hope and peace, because deep down I know I will get over it, and I’ll let him go with love. I love to read all your comments, makes me feel I’m not alone.
Eventually you will get over him, but if that love was so strong and important, its remains will always have a place in your heart, even when they stop hurting.
Same happened to me yesterday. And we've been divorced 23 years. He is the father of my children. I finally admitted to myself that I will always love him. The deep well of pain tells me that I got to experience real love, for a moment, and that's more than some people ever get. So now I have gratitude instead of pain. Big thanks to replace the big pain. Reframing it that way is helping me move on, but I had to feel the feelings first. Good luck to you. You were are are blessed.
Juan Alfonso Uribe Jara I disdain that quote. People who try to renege on what they said and dimiss your thoughts and feelings. Trying their very best to discredit you and make it seem as if the time spent was hollow and counted for naught. People like her deserve every bit of their unsettled, sorrow filled journey in this life.
Juan Alfonso Uribe Jara can someone explain to me why we have to drop it 😥, that’s what I don’t understand why do we have to go through this painful experiences. Why couldn’t that person be the one for us why did everything have to get bad why did we both have to change 😥, why do we have to go through this?
Nicole Cuesta sometimes life throws you curveballs - it’s all about dealing with it and taking it one day at a time. Someone lucky will come into your life. Patience is a virtue
Noticed he is still wearing his wedding ring at 0:21, but he no longer has it on at 1:49. I think that's when she envisioned him finally letting her go.
it won't last forever. Nothing does. I think that impermanence is beautiful. It makes us appreciate it but also forces us to realize it is useless in becoming too attached to it.
So true it wont last forever. In subtle way i dissagree : i think that one can still love the other person/ex-lover forever even though they are divorced but just as long as they accept the fact that they are no longer with each other ie not married and not in their lives anymore.... Remember genuine or unconditional love never dies... Love with ego attached to it does...
Liz Gilbert: I did love you, Stephen. Stephen: I know. But I still love you. Liz Gilbert: So, love me. Stephen: But I miss you. Liz Gilbert: So, miss me. Send me love and light every time you think of me... Then drop it. It won't last forever. Nothing does.
I am currently reading the book and getting so much out of it. I am up to this scene in the book and it made me remember how years after my divorce from my first husband I went out on a walk and forgave him for the hurt he caused me though I knew I would never see him again. I was engaged to be married a second time and I needed to have this "meeting" so that I could let go of the pain which I did by the end of that walk. I only wish this song had been playing during it, LOL!
Remember that Liz is daydreaming this dance, but she goes in with a different perspective-a sense of honesty for her true self and different from when she first married. In her contemplation, Liz understands that she had driven and sacrificed her life for others, but not for herself-until she learned to "let go." The "Harvest Moon" dance shows how she understands how Stephen wants and misses her. She boldly tells him to miss her and send love, but then to drop it. In other words - move on!
Hadn't I wanted this? I had actively participated in every moment of the creation of this life. So why didn't I see myself in any of it? The only thing more impossible than staying was leaving. I didn't wanna hurt anybody, I wanted to slip quietly out the back door and not stop running until I reached Greenland. Instead I made a decision: to pray.. you know...like... to God. And it was such a foreign concept to me that I swear I almost began with: "I'm a big fan of your work."
Jeepers, I'm sitting here in tears. There was a woman I was deeply in love with, and I remember one August night, when the air was liquid and balmy, the sky purple-black, the moon huge and golden, with stillness and quiet all around, I asked her to dance with me to this song. She had never before heard the song, and we had never before danced. And it was one of the warmest, closest, beautiful moments I ever shared with her. She sunk into me, and our step synched with our heartbeats, as I massaged her cheek with mine. We danced for a momentary eternity. I never wanted things to end, but they did. And it took me a decade to get over her.
What a beautifully written paragraph..You were lucky to have lived that beautiful moment. So many have never had a relationship that leaves a crater. I hope you are doing something with that writing skill of yours
@@whata86 Because my divorce was drawn out and was taking too long for her. People in her church were harassing her about the fact that she was dating me although I was still technically married.
Without a warning this scene got to me and I found myself tearing up. It's emotionally relatable even if your heart wasn't broken; you can feel the sadness and struggles they were going through.
He told me that he needs to go find himself, that it's best if I go for now. He doesn't know who he is, and me being around doesn't help that. It hurts so much to be the one left behind. He tells me that he will come back, but I won't count on it. I am sending him love and light, and I am sending some to myself to help me heal this painful, deep wound in my heart. Everything feels bittersweet. I miss him but I know now is not the time for us. I can only pray that one day, that day will come. If it doesn't, I know I'll be okay.
Such a hard but necessary lesson to learn... in life... to love... to exist in it... to feel it... to experience it... and then let it go, and keep going. And be positive. And happy. And hopeful for yourself and the other person. Not all of us can wrap our minds around it.
Every time it is a full moon, I see U👩 I still love U & I miss U👩 & I think of this scene. I'm Not sure of you remember this movie ( I believe U have the DVD so Watch it) I don't want to let U go ( never wanted too) this is the life & path U choose to take. Take care my love👩 be well Truly till eternity, me🤠😌😔💔
People can relate to this scene on so many levels, it represents how we deal with our emotions, after breaking up with someone that was so important. I love the part when she says "send me love and light every time you think of me".
Honestly yes. If you really love someone you can’t be with you should send love and light. I love that message sometimes we feel so sad after a break up but if you really do love someone you wish them the best regardless of how you feel during a break up.
“Then drop it…” that’s the part many of us miss. Many times we go from “sending love & light” to reliving the experiences & missing them all over again. True healing does come along…………….eventually ❤️🩹
I saw this movie 5 years ago, together with my wife. We are now in the process of separation after 14 years of marriage for very much the same reasons. Its hard holding in the tears, as I see myself in his shoes, trying to fight a loosing battle, questioning what did I do wrong or what could I have done different... In the end time heals everything and we will see the reason for all these more clearly.
I am so sorry for your loss. I have been divorced 23 years, and I initiated it. I can't image how wrecked he felt. I am just now admitting the pain. It is ginormous. Hang in there. Gotta grief it, because something died, and if it hurts, that means it was a good thing, and it's a shame.
Nothing lasts forever... It is usually such hard work to drop, though... Surely there's something to learn from that, too... But we must move on..., keep breathing... "Who knows what the tide could bring...?" No matter how sad I may feel, I am so grateful for everything. I'll send love and light and I'll sing and dance like a child to all broken hearts like mine. Love, love love.
She is detached from her old self and trying to find her self. And although for her ex husband the pain and feelings are ongoing and present, for her this whole situation is more observatory. It's almost like when you've been loving doing something for years, and then one day grow out of it and look back and you know it's been huge part of you, but you just can't find anything that would click that passion again. This sort of transition type of feeling.
Just recently watched this movie while binge watching to get over a broken heart. This scene is just so incredible how it speaks to you. Helped me so much to stop the obsessive thinking I was doing. I still love him, but he didn't want me and now I am going to 'drop it' and let him go.
Aaaand, just because you weren't the right fit for him, doesn't mean you're not the right fit for someone. I think about it like firing someone at work. I don't hate them, they just need to be free to find work that really resonates with them. I hope you find your soulmate, or find contentment in a single life where I have total freedom to do what I want, when I want. Good luck to you.
「如果想念他的時候 就把他好好地想一遍，然後給與指引與關愛，然後放下....」 “But I love him.” “So love him.” “But I miss him.” “So miss him. Send him some love and light every time you think about him, then drop it.”。」
To my Darling William, I will always remember those warm summer evenings in Cambridge, holding onto each other with tenderness. I loved you from the moment you kissed me when we met in Leeds station, and a part of me loves you to this day. I love you, but I don’t need you to love you. I hope you’re happy wherever you are. And I wish you love and success. Always
This is a nice scene....some people are better at goodbyes and letting go than others; I think it all depends on our experiences in lfe and if we are connected to our inner beings. Love yourself and pursue that perfect relationship....it is out there somewhere. If it doesnt make you happy move on. There are an estimated 7.5 billion people in this beautiful world. Many people to meet and many beautiful things to see! MARVEL if you can but love and respect yourself....all else will fall into place.
In my long years of relationship I was like Liz, but when We decided to end our union, I was Stephen... I am sending him love and light always, I guess I will drop it... because nothing last forever right?
One really loves someone when nothing is expected at all in return. Love is about giving, and if that causes suffering it also shows one vibrates and resonates through life. No one could in 15 years fill the vacuum she left and I never knew why she left but, I have wished her all these years the best. I have always really felt that, if there´s an smile in her face I am happy. It´s not hard neither far-fetched, since it´s wrong to regret something or someone that made me really happy.
She does it with love and understanding ... very important to send it back in such a way and let go through love and understanding. Letting him know it is okay now to miss her ... so that he too may move forth in his own life
Forever my favourite film. Forever the film I relate to. Forever the film that I learn from and Forever the film that makes me realise things about my life... One of my favourite parts of the film...
The music was as important as the point the movie makes. This movie is quite "deep" in teaching us about our feeling and emotions. It certainly has helped me after loving someone for 20 plus years and watching it fade away. When I think of him I will love him, send him love and light and DROP IT!! That's the hard part and I'm still working on it.
I miss you, Cynthia. From now on, each time I think of you, I will send you my love and move on. I will keep doing it until I feel peace when I think of you.
I too cried during this scene. I've just left my marriage of 31 years and this scene expresses the loss of my hopes and dreams that we would have grown old together into our harvest years....
I get it now. I watched Eat pray love many years ago and I just felt like watching it again yesterday. And I realized after all this year I've been grow up a lot too. Now I get that both of them rush in a relationship and they didn't get to be full of themselves so it full with insecurity and uncomfortable. Still be my favorite movie and my favorite scene from it.
9 лет назад+42
It's been a long time now... When I saw this scene i broke in tears because you can practically feel the pain the character... It was something more of related to the movie... Now, unfortunately i'm living this. Now is about to be 7 months since my last boyfriend broke up with me... and I still can't let him go... I hate him for making me love him so much that now i'm afraid i can't feel the same love i felt for him with another person. He was for me my true love and... the worst thing is that i still feeling the same thing. I know i'm an idiot and need to get over him soon but is hard... I saw this scene again and i'm in tears... I know i have to stop hating him so much, but is so HARD, is so hard to stop... anyway i just wanted to leave a mark here under this beautiful movie and BOOK, btw. I read it and is awesome. Liz Gilbert is a great writer.
time heals the harshest of wounds. Give yourself time to feel sad n then pick yourself up enjoy yourself. Your focus should be you n them n only then the right person will come along
8 лет назад+2
+Audrey Adams thank you so much for your reply. Now that I read the comment I made a year ago I can't remember how sad I was when I wrote it. Now time has healed me. Feeling so much better now and enjoying life and self love. It was such a nice touch from you. I wish you the best.
I dont think everyone understands the message of this scene. Just like the reality when someone breaks up with someone.. many people do not understand that sometimes it just doesnt work and your not for each other. People always believe in the dumpee and the dumper and the dumper is an asshole. Sometimes you're only setting someone free despite they love you so much and it hurts them.
loved the movie all... Sending light and love to you...so, love me, so, miss me....Send me love and light every time you think of me... Then drop it...it won't las forever. Nothing does. Love you, too.
Today is Valentines Day and I forgave a friend of mine who had deeply hurt me. I love them. I'll miss them. I send light and love each time I think of them and finally was able to truly let go of the hate I'd been bearing against them. I wish them the best and you know what? The wound in my heart healed and I feel..good. Lighter. Happier. At peace with my memories of them. If I had anything to say to someone who has yet to do the same forgiveness is a selfless, selfish thing to do. You cry, scream and struggle but slowly the pain in your heart goes away. You'll feel lighter, less angry, and come to terms with the fact that although they aren't there anymore all that's left for you to give to them is a distant memory. I love you. I miss you. I forgive you. This is it for us. Goodbye and God Bless.
She: “I did love you, Steve” He: “I know, but I still love you." She: "So love me" He: "I miss you" She: “So miss me, send me love and light every time you think of me and drop it.... It won’t last forever. Nothing does."
Jason Silva brought me here... he mentioned this scene in one of his poignant talks and now I see it again in a whole new way. Sending love and light to everyone who is heartbroken and despairing. You'll be OK. 💕
É uma cena sensacional. É uma abordagem bem madura e realista das relações. Extremamente triste a situação do Steven e ele interpreta de forma espetacular; nada é tão ruim qto não ser retribuído num amor. Ainda bem que, de fato, nada é para sempre...
my mom used to tell me, how to be free of attachment (the basic ways) is to accept that you're attached, understand it and let it go. kinda difficult to explain it, in example : someone used to cheat my money, i feel sad & stupid, and feeling gloomy all along. My sifu (a monk) tell me to accept the reality that "yes I'am stupid, yes I'am sad coz I trust someone easily thats why I got cheated - so I need to be careful the next time". I feel so enlighted that time, someting this easy, sometimes we just can't see the light coz it's too bright to our eyes.. (I'm a buddhist btw)
I WAS SHOCKED WHEN THIS SONG PLAYED...HOW MANY PPL TODAY REMEMBER NEIL YOUNG.. .I DO...WONDERFUL MEMORIES...I WAS FLOORED ON THIS PART.......I LOVE THIS SONG... :D
![Neil Young - Harvest Moon [Official Music Video]](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/n2MtEsrcTTs/mqdefault.jpg)
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This scene helped me move forward in a painful breakup. I'm grateful for it.
Great Wishes for you :)
This was my husband's and my song together.....married 36 years...together 38....calling it quits. Makes me sad to hear this beautiful song as I know we still love each other...can't live together anymore.
The same to me. I hope you’re happy now.
Me too. Imagining dancing with him,and telling him what i never did.now i am in peace after 10 years.
me too :)
Oh my God, I finally get it! You can love someone forever, even if you can't be with him.
Spot-on!
Aaaaaaaaannnnnnd CUT! That's a wrap.
Will love my former husband (30+ year relationship) forever. I just couldn’t stay with him. I was living what didn’t feel like my life… Also a short term lover and another I felt such a deep connection with, that in reality just cannot/will not ever be. 💗 I real-eyes’d in my healing journey I didn’t really know any of them and that I didn’t even know myself. 💗 I also love everyone…unconditionally… whether I like them or not… family, old friends, +.
This scene is so artisticaly and emotionaly perfect. The song, the lines, the stage and mostly the feeling.
I cry every time.
Jupiter Eye well, this is based on real life, this is the life of Liz Gilbert so...
This movie (and book) changed my life..
Me too. 😢
I cried at this part. Sometime life just doesn't work out..
It's not about life. Life is perfect, it's about the situations. But those makes us grow into the best version of ourselves. It's a matter of time, trust me. I wish you the best!
I agree. Life always works out for the best. We think they are failures or missed opportunities because we have tunnel vision, and don't realize that there is a roadmap, we just aren't privy to that information. In this game of life, we cannot lose.@@yareesco7995
Perfect for who? Don't invalidate other people's perspectives and lived experiences. We are all entitled to our opinions on what life is for us. It's not a one size fits a for everyone
I can never watch this scene without crying ❤️
This scene is beautiful in so many ways! Almost therapeutic for people like me with broken hearts; people who feel guilty or melancholic over missed opportunities, love, relationships.. We have to let go eventually and move on with our lives.. But first we got to make sure we are okay and we are loved..by ourselves first! Sending light and love to all of you guys who feel this way and understand ❤☺️
Thank you so much
I have never heard such beautiful words. They are simply words though unless they hold that deep passion and trueness. Moments spent together in sincere honesty. I'm sorry but if it comes straight from the heart there isn't anything that can take its place.. Embrace it (it being that very moment in time) and run with it. Run like hell like wild horses that cannot be contained. Bring that feeling and raw emotion back and never let it go...
😘😘😘 beautiful soul u have honey!
So true! Make sure you love yourself first and you are ready to move on.
As a man I also want to thank you for this. It’s hard to move one when your trust in the one you love is gone and hard to trust yourself to love again
For everybody here that's having a hard time letting someone go, the first time I watched this movie I thought I would never be healed, but now I finally am. It won't last forever. Nothing does
@Anthony Apel it took me a long time, but i got there. Or maybe this person of yours is worth fighting for
That’s right, Amen.
Yo espero ya curarme
I recently had my heart broken... And I truly loved him, reason of which is so difficult to me to move on, but this scene gives me hope and peace, because deep down I know I will get over it, and I’ll let him go with love. I love to read all your comments, makes me feel I’m not alone.
Eventually you will get over him, but if that love was so strong and important, its remains will always have a place in your heart, even when they stop hurting.
Same happened to me yesterday. And we've been divorced 23 years. He is the father of my children. I finally admitted to myself that I will always love him. The deep well of pain tells me that I got to experience real love, for a moment, and that's more than some people ever get. So now I have gratitude instead of pain. Big thanks to replace the big pain. Reframing it that way is helping me move on, but I had to feel the feelings first. Good luck to you. You were are are blessed.
Send me love and light every time you think of me... Then, drop it... It won't last forever, nothing does.
Juan Alfonso Uribe Jara I disdain that quote. People who try to renege on what they said and dimiss your thoughts and feelings. Trying their very best to discredit you and make it seem as if the time spent was hollow and counted for naught. People like her deserve every bit of their unsettled, sorrow filled journey in this life.
Juan Alfonso Uribe Jara can someone explain to me why we have to drop it 😥, that’s what I don’t understand why do we have to go through this painful experiences. Why couldn’t that person be the one for us why did everything have to get bad why did we both have to change 😥, why do we have to go through this?
Nicole Cuesta sometimes life throws you curveballs - it’s all about dealing with it and taking it one day at a time. Someone lucky will come into your life. Patience is a virtue
Andrew Drake ThankYou 🙏🏼 dear
Great quote
Noticed he is still wearing his wedding ring at 0:21, but he no longer has it on at 1:49. I think that's when she envisioned him finally letting her go.
Wow!!!! @sam you are amazing!!!!
it won't last forever. Nothing does. I think that impermanence is beautiful. It makes us appreciate it but also forces us to realize it is useless in becoming too attached to it.
Oh my ur words are divine,. You should be an author
profound
Profound indeed!
So true it wont last forever. In subtle way i dissagree : i think that one can still love the other person/ex-lover forever even though they are divorced but just as long as they accept the fact that they are no longer with each other ie not married and not in their lives anymore.... Remember genuine or unconditional love never dies... Love with ego attached to it does...
@@orin81 I think she referred more to the pain that he had will not last forever.
she's letting him go with love.
Beautiful.
Liz Gilbert: I did love you, Stephen.
Stephen: I know. But I still love you.
Liz Gilbert: So, love me.
Stephen: But I miss you.
Liz Gilbert: So, miss me. Send me love and light every time you think of me... Then drop it. It won't last forever. Nothing does.
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what does she mean by "then drop it"
kamal tanwar She means that he has to let it go and move on.
Mauro Morales awww... That's sad... But true
I am currently reading the book and getting so much out of it. I am up to this scene in the book and it made me remember how years after my divorce from my first husband I went out on a walk and forgave him for the hurt he caused me though I knew I would never see him again. I was engaged to be married a second time and I needed to have this "meeting" so that I could let go of the pain which I did by the end of that walk. I only wish this song had been playing during it, LOL!
Joyce Day you will never forget... Forgive but never forget....
This scene made me cry in the theater, and it makes me cry now.
This scene is so heartbreaking and beautiful. She realizes that she has to let him go. You can love someone and not be with them. 💔❤
Remember that Liz is daydreaming this dance, but she goes in with a different perspective-a sense of honesty for her true self and different from when she first married. In her contemplation, Liz understands that she had driven and sacrificed her life for others, but not for herself-until she learned to "let go." The "Harvest Moon" dance shows how she understands how Stephen wants and misses her. She boldly tells him to miss her and send love, but then to drop it. In other words - move on!
Well said
Hadn't I wanted this? I had actively participated in every moment of the creation of this life. So why didn't I see myself in any of it? The only thing more impossible than staying was leaving. I didn't wanna hurt anybody, I wanted to slip quietly out the back door and not stop running until I reached Greenland. Instead I made a decision: to pray.. you know...like... to God. And it was such a foreign concept to me that I swear I almost began with: "I'm a big fan of your work."
Jeepers, I'm sitting here in tears. There was a woman I was deeply in love with, and I remember one August night, when the air was liquid and balmy, the sky purple-black, the moon huge and golden, with stillness and quiet all around, I asked her to dance with me to this song. She had never before heard the song, and we had never before danced. And it was one of the warmest, closest, beautiful moments I ever shared with her. She sunk into me, and our step synched with our heartbeats, as I massaged her cheek with mine. We danced for a momentary eternity. I never wanted things to end, but they did. And it took me a decade to get over her.
What a beautifully written paragraph..You were lucky to have lived that beautiful moment. So many have never had a relationship that leaves a crater. I hope you are doing something with that writing skill of yours
Why did the relationship end ?
@@whata86 Because my divorce was drawn out and was taking too long for her. People in her church were harassing her about the fact that she was dating me although I was still technically married.
Without a warning this scene got to me and I found myself tearing up. It's emotionally relatable even if your heart wasn't broken; you can feel the sadness and struggles they were going through.
I cry every time I watch this
Me too
After all these years I cry also, love this scene and so beautifully pure!
+Jennifer Rivera but you have to pass the page...
Enrique Trigueros well said..
Your not alone we can cry together 😪
I love this scene. When I saw this in the theater it made me cry because I thought of my ex who I truly love. Very good movie! Beautiful scene.
He told me that he needs to go find himself, that it's best if I go for now. He doesn't know who he is, and me being around doesn't help that. It hurts so much to be the one left behind. He tells me that he will come back, but I won't count on it. I am sending him love and light, and I am sending some to myself to help me heal this painful, deep wound in my heart. Everything feels bittersweet. I miss him but I know now is not the time for us. I can only pray that one day, that day will come. If it doesn't, I know I'll be okay.
Such a hard but necessary lesson to learn... in life... to love... to exist in it... to feel it... to experience it... and then let it go, and keep going. And be positive. And happy. And hopeful for yourself and the other person. Not all of us can wrap our minds around it.
This is one of the top ten scenes in hollywood. Everything is so pure. You can feel the love. Trust. Healing me.
Every time it is a full moon, I see U👩 I still love U & I miss U👩 & I think of this scene. I'm Not sure of you remember this movie ( I believe U have the DVD so Watch it) I don't want to let U go ( never wanted too) this is the life & path U choose to take. Take care my love👩 be well
Truly till eternity, me🤠😌😔💔
People can relate to this scene on so many levels, it represents how we deal with our emotions, after breaking up with someone that was so important. I love the part when she says "send me love and light every time you think of me".
Honestly yes. If you really love someone you can’t be with you should send love and light. I love that message sometimes we feel so sad after a break up but if you really do love someone you wish them the best regardless of how you feel during a break up.
“Then drop it…” that’s the part many of us miss. Many times we go from “sending love & light” to reliving the experiences & missing them all over again. True healing does come along…………….eventually ❤️🩹
I saw this movie 5 years ago, together with my wife. We are now in the process of separation after 14 years of marriage for very much the same reasons. Its hard holding in the tears, as I see myself in his shoes, trying to fight a loosing battle, questioning what did I do wrong or what could I have done different... In the end time heals everything and we will see the reason for all these more clearly.
Gustavo Osterling I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope you are okay. 👍
Gustavo Osterling everything will be ok :)
What happened??
Sending you light. I hope your current journey is full of self love. You are enough.
I am so sorry for your loss. I have been divorced 23 years, and I initiated it. I can't image how wrecked he felt. I am just now admitting the pain. It is ginormous. Hang in there. Gotta grief it, because something died, and if it hurts, that means it was a good thing, and it's a shame.
it hurts so much to accept that love ended and the person you fell in love with needs to be free ..... love this song and this movie
Nothing lasts forever... It is usually such hard work to drop, though... Surely there's something to learn from that, too... But we must move on..., keep breathing... "Who knows what the tide could bring...?" No matter how sad I may feel, I am so grateful for everything. I'll send love and light and I'll sing and dance like a child to all broken hearts like mine. Love, love love.
She is detached from her old self and trying to find her self. And although for her ex husband the pain and feelings are ongoing and present, for her this whole situation is more observatory. It's almost like when you've been loving doing something for years, and then one day grow out of it and look back and you know it's been huge part of you, but you just can't find anything that would click that passion again. This sort of transition type of feeling.
Just recently watched this movie while binge watching to get over a broken heart. This scene is just so incredible how it speaks to you. Helped me so much to stop the obsessive thinking I was doing. I still love him, but he didn't want me and now I am going to 'drop it' and let him go.
Aaaand, just because you weren't the right fit for him, doesn't mean you're not the right fit for someone. I think about it like firing someone at work. I don't hate them, they just need to be free to find work that really resonates with them. I hope you find your soulmate, or find contentment in a single life where I have total freedom to do what I want, when I want. Good luck to you.
「如果想念他的時候 就把他好好地想一遍，然後給與指引與關愛，然後放下....」
“But I love him.”
“So love him.”
“But I miss him.”
“So miss him.
Send him some love and light every time you think about him, then drop it.”。」
watched this video like 10 times so far this year..
Every time I watch it, it makes me cry..
Ray Beck Yeah.... after going through a simular situation with my ex, this is by far the saddest thing ive seen on film.
To my Darling William, I will always remember those warm summer evenings in Cambridge, holding onto each other with tenderness. I loved you from the moment you kissed me when we met in Leeds station, and a part of me loves you to this day. I love you, but I don’t need you to love you. I hope you’re happy wherever you are. And I wish you love and success. Always
That’s beautiful ❤️
I believe there are some people that touch are heart like this even though we need to live a life separate from them.
So true.. it’s life long and forever. It’s those memories tht touches heart and puts together no matter how far&away life could be.
Such a beautiful heart touching moment .. simply love Julia Robert. My fav actress😍
Exactly
This is a nice scene....some people are better at goodbyes and letting go than others; I think it all depends on our experiences in lfe and if we are connected to our inner beings. Love yourself and pursue that perfect relationship....it is out there somewhere. If it doesnt make you happy move on. There are an estimated 7.5 billion people in this beautiful world. Many people to meet and many beautiful things to see! MARVEL if you can but love and respect yourself....all else will fall into place.
In my long years of relationship I was like Liz, but when We decided to end our union, I was Stephen... I am sending him love and light always, I guess I will drop it... because nothing last forever right?
Come back here and tell me more about u 1 year later because this comment was precious ♡
One really loves someone when nothing is expected at all in return. Love is about giving, and if that causes suffering it also shows one vibrates and resonates through life.
No one could in 15 years fill the vacuum she left and I never knew why she left but, I have wished her all these years the best. I have always really felt that, if there´s an smile in her face I am happy. It´s not hard neither far-fetched, since it´s wrong to regret something or someone that made me really happy.
It couldn't have been better explained. That's how love works.
She does it with love and understanding ... very important to send it back in such a way and let go through love and understanding. Letting him know it is okay now to miss her ... so that he too may move forth in his own life
Forever my favourite film. Forever the film I relate to. Forever the film that I learn from and Forever the film that makes me realise things about my life...
One of my favourite parts of the film...
I guess this is when Richard from Texas teaches her to forgive herself and she, eventually, gets it. Eventually, everything goes away.
No"thing" does. That is freedom to love unconditionally and completely. Beautiful!
The music was as important as the point the movie makes. This movie is quite "deep" in teaching us about our feeling and emotions. It certainly has helped me after loving someone for 20 plus years and watching it fade away. When I think of him I will love him, send him love and light and DROP IT!! That's the hard part and I'm still working on it.
It all goes away. Eventually, everything goes away. 🙏🏼 Elizabeth Gilbert, Eat, Pray, Love.
The only “Hollywood” scene that is relatable with society
Ten years. Not a day go by. I miss him. I think of him constantly I wonder if he give me any thought
I miss you, Cynthia. From now on, each time I think of you, I will send you my love and move on. I will keep doing it until I feel peace when I think of you.
One of my favorite movie scenes... I sometimes wish my ex would be able to say those words to me... but she wouldn't give that away...
I love this part It happend 2 me
But now..., I'm doing everything better
Send love n light wherever u r
ugh.... This scene is so beautiful and makes me ugly cry
I too cried during this scene. I've just left my marriage of 31 years and this scene expresses the loss of my hopes and dreams that we would have grown old together into our harvest years....
Love the level of respect and letting someome go with love!!
So many poignant scenes in this movie, this one, the time travel, the acknowledgment & empathy, the loss.... really gave me a lump in my throat.
helped me through grief. Thank you
I still love her and she loves me but the gulf of misunderstandings between us is too great. Unresolved maybe forever
Are u better?
I get it now. I watched Eat pray love many years ago and I just felt like watching it again yesterday. And I realized after all this year I've been grow up a lot too. Now I get that both of them rush in a relationship and they didn't get to be full of themselves so it full with insecurity and uncomfortable. Still be my favorite movie and my favorite scene from it.
It's been a long time now... When I saw this scene i broke in tears because you can practically feel the pain the character... It was something more of related to the movie... Now, unfortunately i'm living this. Now is about to be 7 months since my last boyfriend broke up with me... and I still can't let him go... I hate him for making me love him so much that now i'm afraid i can't feel the same love i felt for him with another person. He was for me my true love and... the worst thing is that i still feeling the same thing. I know i'm an idiot and need to get over him soon but is hard... I saw this scene again and i'm in tears... I know i have to stop hating him so much, but is so HARD, is so hard to stop... anyway i just wanted to leave a mark here under this beautiful movie and BOOK, btw. I read it and is awesome. Liz Gilbert is a great writer.
time heals the harshest of wounds. Give yourself time to feel sad n then pick yourself up enjoy yourself. Your focus should be you n them n only then the right person will come along
+Audrey Adams thank you so much for your reply. Now that I read the comment I made a year ago I can't remember how sad I was when I wrote it. Now time has healed me. Feeling so much better now and enjoying life and self love. It was such a nice touch from you. I wish you the best.
+Juan José Gaviria Arias thank you! i wish you all the best too. God bless
Oh my... This gives me hope. Its been five months since my fiance broke up with me... Wish this pain is over 😔💔
Juan José Gaviria Arias I’m in the same place. I still love him and I can’t let go.
"It won't last forever. Nothing does."
I am afraid to say she's wrong. Sometimes it DOES last forever.
I agree. Love never dies, whether by death or divorce. Grief marks where love was.
This makes me cry every single time!!!!
I love this song, and what coincidence, I'm a Gutierrez, from Brazil.
I dont think everyone understands the message of this scene. Just like the reality when someone breaks up with someone.. many people do not understand that sometimes it just doesnt work and your not for each other. People always believe in the dumpee and the dumper and the dumper is an asshole. Sometimes you're only setting someone free despite they love you so much and it hurts them.
god i almost died when Harvenst Moon started playing! love Neil Young!
I love this scene, the song it's amazing, beautiful and very romantic !!! the soundtrack's from the movie Pray.Eat.Love is lovely!!
It is so beautiful! This is my favorite part of the movie
i will always love you, jonathan. forever.
loved the movie all...
Sending light and love to you...so, love me, so, miss me....Send me love and light every time you think of me... Then drop it...it won't las forever. Nothing does. Love you, too.
Today is Valentines Day and I forgave a friend of mine who had deeply hurt me. I love them. I'll miss them. I send light and love each time I think of them and finally was able to truly let go of the hate I'd been bearing against them. I wish them the best and you know what? The wound in my heart healed and I feel..good. Lighter. Happier. At peace with my memories of them.
If I had anything to say to someone who has yet to do the same forgiveness is a selfless, selfish thing to do. You cry, scream and struggle but slowly the pain in your heart goes away. You'll feel lighter, less angry, and come to terms with the fact that although they aren't there anymore all that's left for you to give to them is a distant memory.
I love you. I miss you. I forgive you. This is it for us. Goodbye and God Bless.
This scene is such a tear jerker.
My dearest friend has the same smile as Julia. She lights up my day, even tho we are so far apart.
Love this song and moovie of course
A beautifully heartbreaking scene 🙂
PARA MIM FOI A MAIS BONITA CENA DO FILME! A MELHOR DECLARAÇAO Q JA OUVI E UMA BELA CANÇAO!
I just wish my sister was alive to see me in my wedding Be perfect
Ive been through this. I know exactly what this feels like. You get over it, but you never really recover from it.
My wedding song is 1995 - I still miss him in 2013
what happened? 😢
My favorite movie...Favorite part ♡
She: “I did love you, Steve”
He: “I know, but I still love you."
She: "So love me"
He: "I miss you"
She: “So miss me, send me love and light every time you think of me and drop it.... It won’t last forever. Nothing does."
My favorite scene in the movie. The song, the dialogue between them, the dance, I just feel this scene ;|
I'm 18 and this is my favourite song...I could never get sick of it. It's so timeless and sentimental, such a wistful classic
This song is the greatest love song ever 😊
This would be an amazing song to dance to at a wedding.
never forever... te amo... te extraño... pero es lo mejor...
lifes about changing & nothing ever stays the same.
I love this scene, I am sending you love and light everytime I think of you, and then drop it. Miss you a lot.
Jason Silva brought me here... he mentioned this scene in one of his poignant talks and now I see it again in a whole new way. Sending love and light to everyone who is heartbroken and despairing. You'll be OK. 💕
É uma cena sensacional. É uma abordagem bem madura e realista das relações. Extremamente triste a situação do Steven e ele interpreta de forma espetacular; nada é tão ruim qto não ser retribuído num amor. Ainda bem que, de fato, nada é para sempre...
my mom used to tell me, how to be free of attachment (the basic ways) is to accept that you're attached, understand it and let it go. kinda difficult to explain it, in example : someone used to cheat my money, i feel sad & stupid, and feeling gloomy all along. My sifu (a monk) tell me to accept the reality that "yes I'am stupid, yes I'am sad coz I trust someone easily thats why I got cheated - so I need to be careful the next time".
I feel so enlighted that time, someting this easy, sometimes we just can't see the light coz it's too bright to our eyes..
(I'm a buddhist btw)
Because she is not in love anymore, she did love him and she is telling him to get over it in a nice way.
I love this scene.
This book, song and movie are helping me to move on...
But years from now, she will miss him with all her heart, when she realizes, what she has given away. True love doesn't coming knocking everyday.
best scene
for someone who’s never had this happen to them before, this scene has me absolutely bawling my eyes out every time…😭
This film is such a Gem!
This was such a wonderful part of the movie. I love this song. Thank you!
I WAS SHOCKED WHEN THIS SONG PLAYED...HOW MANY PPL TODAY REMEMBER NEIL YOUNG..
.I DO...WONDERFUL MEMORIES...I WAS FLOORED ON THIS PART.......I LOVE THIS SONG... :D
This scene has me all the way fucked up y’all
nothing last forever. not even the pain.
Heartbreaking
I cry every time I hear this song ❤️