I had my father for 28 years after my mom passed with ALS and he was able to watch and help me with raising his grandchildren. One of the most blessed time of my life! Treasure this time. I’m the eldest left in my family now but still going strong with the aches of mid 70s. I have treasured helping raise my grands and they are grown now, so I have moved to another phase of my life in volunteering. Life continues on as God has us all in His hands and His plans. God Bless you all 🙏
Having lived through the grief of losing my parents and then the loss of my beloved, I learned how different grief is from one loss to another. You cannot possibly understand how he feels. Please don't assume you know because of how you are feeling. There is no getting over grief. It gets more tolerable over time...years. Blessing to you all.
Russell, I don’t know if you read the comments but it is so nice that you are staying with Trent and Allie and Leo!Being surrounded by those snowy mountains is like a big hug from Mother Nature! I look forward to seeing more of you in the videos. Beware that Trent may put a hammer in your hand and put you to work! You may have to let Leo nap in your bed sometimes. Welcome to this online community of very special people who love this family, and you! You are already loved by so many. Remember to wake up with gratitude every morning although your heart is feeling so empty and sad right now. Eventually your sad heart will start to allow you to experience joy once again.
Yes well said, he may even meet another beautiful woman. He's a very handsome man. Be happy for him..or he may live with you the rest of his life. He has a long life ahead of him...❤ he's blessed to have you right now..
My wife's father moved in with us in 2015. We also remodeled the basement for his comfort. He passed away this past Friday morning. It was a blessing having him so close. God bless you all. We love you and you guys are always in our prayers 🙏
As a widower myself 8 yrs on /11/2024 I admire you both for making a home for Allie's dad. He is going to need you both very much now. His emotions are going to be hard. He loved your mother so much and now he's alone and is living a new strange life now. I was married for over 34yrs and I'm still struggling and miss her everyday. Praying for everyone. Godspeed
Not everyone will agree with this post, I've thought about even if I should post it, but here it is. I lost my wife of 63 years last February, Russell will need his own space, he already has a home and should not give it up until time passes. You have created a great place for Russell to visit, however he needs space, peace and quiet at time. He will not be able to separate grief and depression until time passes. Your grief is not the same as his grief. In Russell's new life grief will be part of his life. Russell cannot live your life, he will not always be able change overnight. Give him space, time to think and a great place to visit but not a full time new home.
@@Richard-ro2fp I have no problem with your comment. We who have lost a beloved spouse deal with it differently. I hope we are able to help them navigate this heartbreaking process. So sorry for your loss
Absolutely .... Think two points of mine are very important. Russell needs a home of his own, a temporary stay is great. Russell needs peace and a place he can talk with his departed spouse. The loss of a spouse is far more different than Allie or Trents grief , only Russell can experience this and it's almost impossible to explain. This will talk a very long time. Trent and Allie are doing an exceptional effort to help Russell, we are have them in our prayers. @@leoaz4667
I think that pic needs an explanatory title board at the bottom "Scottish Reindeer, circa 2024" & just let be an endearing part of your home for all time. Leo will be embarrassed by it in his teens, but that's ok!
I still can’t believe your beautiful mom is gone. She truly is a wonderful lady! I’m so sorry Allie. I know she is with you every second of your day. I hope you all can feel the collective love and support all of us are sending your way at this moment! Wishing you peace from the Pacific Northwest .
Your Mother will always be with you in your hearts. Kate said everything so beautifully and I just wanted to reiterate her beautiful sentiments. You both are handling this change in your lives so well. I know everything will go smoothly it just takes love and time.
I'm so glad that Russell has a soft place to land while he is trying to work his way through his grief. I think this time together will benefit all of you. After I lost my husband I was all alone in our house and it was very difficult for me. I grieved so much longer and harder than I would have if I had been surrounded by family. Be gentle with yourselves. Sending virtual hugs. 💙😇💖
My mother said the loss of a child was worse. She lost my Dad in 1980 to cancer at 43 years old, and then a year later lost my sister to complications to MS. Then several years later, she lost a grandchild to cancer at 3 years old. I think the other losses felt worse because he wasn't there to help her through them. For me, they were all equal in pain.
My heart goes out to Russell. I can’t even imagine what he is feeling, but at least he has Leo to brighten his days. Nothing like a grandchild! They are like a balm for your heart.
What a beautiful room and your Dad was so sweet to let us all see his introduction to it. I can see the hurt in your faces and the love you are all giving each other is heartwarming.
My husband passed 13 yrs ago. Russell will decorate with pics in time. Also I cried with the moose clip. I felt it was symbolic of Leslie coming up as well on the mountain top to join her husband. Her spirit will always be around your home and she will send subtle signs.
Omgosh! I saw that, too. 2 loving souls. I thought I was being wildly fanciful. It was beautiful. I hope Russel allows himself the chance and time for healing.
As I read the comments I said I’m not going to cry when I see Russell but as I watch the tears would not stop flowing. Know that you all are not alone in this journey and we are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers! Blessings to Trent, Allie, Leo and Russell.
I loved Leo calling the cow picture a reindeer, he is showing his own sweet sense of humor and personality! He is going to help your whole family heal and move forward. Sending hugs for all.
Love that Scottish Highlander photo over the bed. We used to raise them on the farm. Lovely gentle creatures they are ❤. I wish your dad the best. Just FYI, all Scottish Highlands have horns, the girls and the boys.
It is a beautiful room for a beautiful man. Family is everything! There is nothing like having those bonds. I feel your strength Allie. You are a wonderful woman, obviously raised by one. These videos make me grateful for each day.
I am so glad Russell is surrounded by your love and that he has a place within your home. A year ago I became a widow and felt untethered and very lost. It was the love and support of my kids that gave me the grounding I needed to be okay. I'm still struggling, grief is hard and weird. While the heartbreak never goes away, over time there are more smiles at the memories than tears.
Being "available" for a widowed parent is crucial to get them through the early stages of loss. What you have done, is beyond, in fact exemplary. You are fortunate to have the space in your home to do so!
Your Mom knew you would look out for him. Everything changes when everyone goes home. It will be so great to have him with you. Well done. Your best work. ❤️👍
My mom passed 10yrs ago tomorrow. My son was a little older at the time. We both sold our houses and bought one together. I think Leo will be a wonderful distraction for as long as Russel stays with you. Big hugs to you all!
Tell your Dad that we are looking forward to seeing more of him! He’s such a humble, nice man. You two are being good, supporting your father at this sad time.
Beautiful sanctuary room! It will be wonderful having Leo there to nap with Russell. It will be so healing for all of you. Sharing all the wonderful stories and keeping your mom with you. All you need do is look in the mirror, Allie. She's right there with you every day. 🤗
I'm so happy that you let us see Russell seeing his new room. It's very cozy and peaceful. Great job guys finishing in two weeks. Russell will have many distractions when he wants them, and all of you. I agree with some others, I think that a comfy chair, lamp, and little table would be nice in the gym space. Then he won't have to lay in the bed, he can sit in the chair, read or watch movies, without having to go upstairs if he feels like being alone. Love and prayers to all of you, 🙏❤️✝️
“Bitter Sweet” says it all. Im so glad you are all together . It will be a blessing to have Russel in the home. He will strengthen a bond with Leo that will last a lifetime. Laugh together, cry together , love one another . Family is everything! Blessing for you all in the coming weeks . Excited to see where you all go from here.
The bedroom turned out perfectly and I'm sure Russel will find his time with Leo to be so healing...even if he finds Leo napping in his "helix" :) Looking forward to seeing Russel blend even more into this beautiful family...just what he needs right now. I'm sure when spring is here he will be joining Trent and Brandon on their golf nights.
Which will be so good for all of them. Russel will need to let himself be happy again. It might feel strange for him to think he can be happy without Leslie, but I'm sure the beauty of Leo's happy countenance will help immensely. Russel needs to remember that Leslie would want him to be happy.
Man, has Leo grown lately. I mean so many new expressions and thoughts. Then saying, "No, it's a reindeer." Full of surprises... Life is full of surprises. And that's all we've got to go on.
Giving your dad books to read is a great idea. Having a chair to sit in where he can escape the family and read or grieve in solitude would be nice as well. Love from London, ON 🇨🇦
I agree I was thinking all that was missing is a comfy chair so he could sneak away relax ,read, or simply have some alone time . They are a beautiful family it’s difficult to see them hurting . I’m also from London Ont 🇨🇦
You guys dont have to explain why you are doing anything. As a guy who lost both of his parents, i fully understand why you had to do the things you do. I can tell that you and Trent are very close to your father and you want to give him the best life possible under the circumstances. It is nice that he wont feel lonely, but yet he will have his own space to reflect and mourn in his own way. God Bless you all.
Your mom would be so happy and proud of the care and concern you’ve shown your dad while moving forward in the depths of grief. You’re always such an incredible inspiration! 💕💕💕
Russell loved the room. He is a humble & gracious man who lost the love of his life. I am so sorry. Thanks for giving him support & love. Being with you guys will help Russell in so many ways. Family is Everything💜💜 Your Mom will truly be missed💛💛
Leo giving you a look with a twinkle in his eye when he decided to call the moose a reindeer. He was looking for a laugh. He's got a great sense of humor, just like his "Could this be a Helix?" grandfather. I agree, a small love seat, or comfy reading chair in the gym would be a great idea. Grief...complex and never ending. Don't rush yourselves, healing and adjusting to living with it is so different for each person. My heart goes out to you all. That little guy Leo will be a bright spot that helps everyone along the way without even knowing he is.
Russell, my heart hurts watching you. This is hard, everything will feel hard for a while. This family is remarkable and you’ve created a beautiful sanctuary for your dad and really for yourselves as you heal together. ❤
As a man 72 years old, you guys make me so proud. I hope when the time comes that I’ll have loving and caring kids like you to be there for me. I cried when your Dad saw his room. 💞💓
Hugs winging their way to you all from across the pond Lesley's smiling face will surely be missed but lives on in Allie's smiles and laughter as she looks so much like her mum imho xxxxx
Dear little Leo, that cow can be a reindeer, and also, the Moose can be a reindeer. Don't you just love how children look and think. What a sweetheart. Wishing you all the happiness in the world. Love from Australia ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
With only seconds into this upcoming video, to see Russell gripped my heart then hearing his kind sweet voice, tears flood my eyes. I grieve with you. In your farewell tribute, you showed Leslie walking towards the sea as she had and you'd recorded so many times. That exact memory is the one that flooded through my heart along with her face, when I first heard you mention she was ill. Some would say shhh don't mention but the others would agree to what a lovely group of people y'all all are. We feel the lose of her too and together we will love and rally with each other. My love and prayers and thanks for all the memories. Now on to minute TWO. I'm so excited. Blessings
Leo brings joy to his grandpa’s room. Whenever you look at the “Scottish Reindeer “ you will feel that joy. Russell will feel the love in this space.hugs and love from Minnesota. Very proud of you 💕
The room turned out beautiful. You may consider putting doors on the closet to keep things looking tidy and for insulation. I have two swinging doors on my master closet and like the look very much. It's always colder in the closet, not heating it also saves electricity. I've a feeling that Leo will be sneaking into bed with grandpa from time to time if Russell allows it or just cuddling with him as they watch kids movies together on the laptop. Cuddles make everything better. Keeping you all in my prayers during this difficult time. God bless.
So many beautiful and heart-rending comments. Dealing with this new normal will have its ups and downs. Russel is an active man, used to having an active life. Take each day as it comes. Remember to face each day with understanding and kindness. My heart is so, so with you all. Love. Just... love.
The new basement and room for Russell look fantastic! You all will be good medicine for one another during the coming days. This is such a special opportunity for Leo to be even closer to his Grandpa! Sending you all much love and warmth during these snowy days!
You guys are amazing! Having your Dad stay with you is no little thing. My Dad lived with me for about 5 years until his dementia got so bad we had to move him to a nursing home (which was very hard to do). Enjoy every minute with him cause tomorrow is never promised. 💜
Allie you are being so strong, the words you have said about the last few weeks I wouldn’t have been able to without crying, sending you the biggest hug, I hope your dad settles in and this move helps him and you to grieve your beautiful mom ❤
This makes me what to cry, I lost my husband eight weeks shy of 50 years ,September 2023 he had a heart attack in our home, doctor had given him a clean bill of health weeks before.What has really helped me is my family! Two sons, two daughter-laws, five grandsons a fantastic neighbour & phonecalls from siblings. They have helped me so much to getting over his loss , a long way to go but to see Trent & Allie embrace Russell this way you have no idea what this will do for him. It’s everything!! Leo is the distraction he will need. I say everyday how thankful I am for my family , I’m sure Russell is thankful for Trent, Allie & Leo. Wishing you all the best on this hard journey ❤️
I am sorry for your loss. My dad died suddenly two weeks after a clean bill of health and I really struggled for years with anger about it since he was 56, my sister hadn’t gotten married or had kids and my kids were too young to remember him. It’s been 24 years and I still miss him but I now know that I can let go of my anger and just remember the joy we shared before his death. I speak about him to my kids so he still lives in our hearts. Peace be with you as you go through your life. 😊
Sorry for your loss, glad you have family to help you through this transition in life. Interesting that the dr gave him a clean bill of health weeks before. I guess we never know when it's our time. It only makes life on a day to day basis more and more precious. Hang in there. :)
My heart goes out to Russell. How he managed to be so composed, I’ll never know. I was crying for him. What a beautiful place you made in your home and hearts for your dad. 🤼♂️ 😇 🚜 🏌🏼♂️❄️❄️❄️❄️🐕🦺🐕
Oh my gosh, that little Leo is just the cutest little guy. He’s a special little boy, a little shy, with his handsome smile. I think he knows he’s the coolest kid around. You can’t help but love him. So so cute.
Thank God you all are able to take care of him and to be with him at this time that he needs you the most. I agree as another person wrote, cherish this precious time with him. I will be praying for continued peace and comfort for your Dad and all of your family.
Lovely what you all did for Russell, while my heart aches for him, I'm so happy he has open arms and a beautiful cozy room to spend time in. Hugs to y'all,Leo is talking So Much these days!🤗♥️
My heart is with you, Russell, Allie and Trent. I'm so happy that Russell is with you. May the quiet snowfall with moose passing through, a homemade dinner and the comforts of a new, warm bedroom bring peace and comfort to all of you. Team Trent - the bedroom and lower level look absolutely wonderful, beautiful work. Little Leo stole the show here just as he will steal the heart of Nanoo ❤... - such a sweet boy.
Trent how about some closet doors, just a suggestion. Room looks awesome..... Allie's dad will love that room.....looks very homie and comfortable...great job guys.
Allie, your dad's room came out really nice. What a BLESSING to be with your dad during this time. Trent and all his friends that made this room complete🫶
Allie...my heart bleeds for you at this time. What you are doing for your dad is absolutely amazing. There is nothing more satisfying than to be surrounded by loved ones when times are tough, and you certainly have provided that by welcoming your dad into your home. Condolences to you, your dad and the rest of your family.
Russel is such a lovely man. He is so fortunate to have you, Allie, and Trent and Leo at this difficult time. His little sanctuary downstairs is beautiful. I'm happy that he likes the steer.
I can give you 476,000+ reason for motivation. Such a sweet thing you have done for your dad. Hey kiddo, your mom would/is proud of you two! Much love to you all!
So proud of you guys for helping Russell. My dad died almost 2 years ago and life is still weird and different and awkward without him. We helped my mom move and fixed up her new place.
You all did such an outstanding job of fixing Russell a room downstairs. So happy he is staying with you all at this time. Love can move mountains and you all sure did do that for your dear dad, Allie. ❤
We had my mother-in-law live at our house for a year before she passed. True, Russell is not that old, but I can only imagine that it is a relief to him knowing he has a place to call home that is welcoming, and filled with love. Welcome home, Russell. Welcome home.
I’m so glad that you have your papa with you. He will need the companionship and support from all of you. Please give him a hug from all of us and let him know that his smile is contagious. 😘
I lost my husband of 37 years from a heart attack. It makes it hard when you are use to your loved one being there with you every day. The room is so nice. Continue Prayers Allie and Trent and for your dad. Sending Lots of love and Hugs ❤️🙏
I'm a widow, and it is very hard being alone. I hope Russell has a happy life as he ages. He will no doubt grieve forever but time tends to dull the ache some. So bless you guys for putting dad first, and getting a warm, cozy place ready for him. I'm sure that he will cherish being with family. Much love to you all.
I just feel for your dad. It's such a raw and fragile time. I recently lost my husband and am about 10 weeks out from where you guys are. It's just...hard. Life. Grief. It simply is.
Leo is going to love having his grandfather with him. My heart breaks for Russell. What a punch in the gut this is for him and all of you! The room came out amazing. Great job, guys!
Allie when you were in kitchen you were being so strong talking your precious Mother…I cried for you & Trent & family! 🥹💔 Trent, Brandon & Grayson have done an exceptional job with bedroom & basement!! This is a very personal & emotional time thanks for sharing this difficult time! Russell loved his room!! ❤️🤗 Love from Australia 🇦🇺🐨
I lived with my mother for several years when I had my daughter. My daughter grew up with my mother around. They still share a very special bond even now that she’s in her 20s. This will be so good for Leo and Russell and all of you. ❤
The room turned out beautiful and I'm so glad that Russell liked it. Only time will heal his heart but being with family gives you all a chance to heal together. Living on the mountain will certainly be a be change for him, and a great distraction. Between the snow, the moose sightings, little Leo, and the ongoing construction, he'll have plenty to occupy his time. His room will be a great place when he needs to be alone with his thoughts.
Yes, they did a great job. Hope they do some doors. Couple be folding doors, sliders, something to close the wide opening. If it was to be my bedroom, I would be asking Trent to get me some doors. @@ember2874
What a comfortable-looking bedroom! Thanks for showing us Russell's initial reaction, which appears to be 100% approval. What a bittersweet moment and project. As Allie said, it's great that he can come stay with you after you created this space for him, but the reason for doing so is sad and obviously unexpected.
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I had my father for 28 years after my mom passed with ALS and he was able to watch and help me with raising his grandchildren. One of the most blessed time of my life! Treasure this time. I’m the eldest left in my family now but still going strong with the aches of mid 70s. I have treasured helping raise my grands and they are grown now, so I have moved to another phase of my life in volunteering. Life continues on as God has us all in His hands and His plans. God Bless you all 🙏
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Having lived through the grief of losing my parents and then the loss of my beloved, I learned how different grief is from one loss to another. You cannot possibly understand how he feels. Please don't assume you know because of how you are feeling. There is no getting over grief. It gets more tolerable over time...years. Blessing to you all.
Thank you for sharing. I send prayers to you and keep enjoying your grands and maybe great grands
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Thank you for sharing your life experience. Amazing story ❤
Russell, I don’t know if you read the comments but it is so nice that you are staying with Trent and Allie and Leo!Being surrounded by those snowy mountains is like a big hug from Mother Nature! I look forward to seeing more of you in the videos. Beware that Trent may put a hammer in your hand and put you to work! You may have to let Leo nap in your bed sometimes. Welcome to this online community of very special people who love this family, and you! You are already loved by so many. Remember to wake up with gratitude every morning although your heart is feeling so empty and sad right now. Eventually your sad heart will start to allow you to experience joy once again.
❤ Russell our prayers are with you.
Well said!
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Shall we take odds on how long it will be before we see Russell in his own set of cold weather snow gear, his own tool belt, with his own tools?
Yes well said, he may even meet another beautiful woman. He's a very handsome man. Be happy for him..or he may live with you the rest of his life. He has a long life ahead of him...❤ he's blessed to have you right now..
Russell, Our prayers are with you at this time of change.
My wife's father moved in with us in 2015. We also remodeled the basement for his comfort. He passed away this past Friday morning. It was a blessing having him so close. God bless you all. We love you and you guys are always in our prayers 🙏
So sorry🙏🙏❤️❤️🙏🙏
So sad to hear...all this is really scaring me in March we will have our 47th...
I am truly sorry for your loss, I am even more sorry the rest of us did not get to meet him. 😢 God bless 🙌
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Sorry for your loss ❤
As a widower myself 8 yrs on /11/2024 I admire you both for making a home for Allie's dad. He is going to need you both very much now. His emotions are going to be hard. He loved your mother so much and now he's alone and is living a new strange life now. I was married for over 34yrs and I'm still struggling and miss her everyday. Praying for everyone. Godspeed
So sorry for your loss as well. It's such a difficult place to be. I hope you have support too.
Prayers for you @leoaz4667
Not everyone will agree with this post, I've thought about even if I should post it, but here it is. I lost my wife of 63 years last February, Russell will need his own space, he already has a home and should not give it up until time passes. You have created a great place for Russell to visit, however he needs space, peace and quiet at time. He will not be able to separate grief and depression until time passes. Your grief is not the same as his grief. In Russell's new life grief will be part of his life. Russell cannot live your life, he will not always be able change overnight. Give him space, time to think and a great place to visit but not a full time new home.
@@Richard-ro2fp I have no problem with your comment. We who have lost a beloved spouse deal with it differently. I hope we are able to help them navigate this heartbreaking process. So sorry for your loss
Absolutely .... Think two points of mine are very important. Russell needs a home of his own, a temporary stay is great. Russell needs peace and a place he can talk with his departed spouse. The loss of a spouse is far more different than Allie or Trents grief , only Russell can experience this and it's almost impossible to explain. This will talk a very long time. Trent and Allie are doing an exceptional effort to help Russell, we are have them in our prayers. @@leoaz4667
Ahh my heart is full! Russell’s smile is still there, he’s surrounded by love and a Scottish Reindeer! Leo is so darn cute !
"Scottish reindeer" Kathy that was so sweet and hilarious.. ❤
I think that pic needs an explanatory title board at the bottom "Scottish Reindeer, circa 2024" & just let be an endearing part of your home for all time. Leo will be embarrassed by it in his teens, but that's ok!
@@gailcraig4495lively comment and idea!
Brandon is such the trooper...his willingness to to anything is remarkable. Go Brandon!
I could not agree more...(& Grayson, too.😊)
Yep, best crew, EVER!!!
We need Team Brandon merch 😂
@@brackalack1 agree
Yea! Hair out of square team Brandon. 😊
I still can’t believe your beautiful mom is gone. She truly is a wonderful lady! I’m so sorry Allie. I know she is with you every second of your day. I hope you all can feel the collective love and support all of us are sending your way at this moment! Wishing you peace from the Pacific Northwest .
Same wishes and love from Arizona!
Your Mother will always be with you in your hearts. Kate said everything so beautifully and I just wanted to reiterate her beautiful sentiments. You both are handling this change in your lives so well. I know everything will go smoothly it just takes love and time.
Sending love and prayers your way..in time love will heal all the pain you’re going through…just stay close to family and friends.!!❤🙏🏻
Allie, your dad seems like such a kind man. I absolutely love that you and Trent gave him this sanctuary in your home.
I'm so glad that Russell has a soft place to land while he is trying to work his way through his grief. I think this time together will benefit all of you. After I lost my husband I was all alone in our house and it was very difficult for me. I grieved so much longer and harder than I would have if I had been surrounded by family. Be gentle with yourselves. Sending virtual hugs. 💙😇💖
You are so brave and strong I could never do it alone. ❤to you
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My heart breaks for Russell.
My hope is you are surrounded with love and peace.
There is no pain like the pain of losing a spouse.
None.
My mother said the loss of a child was worse.
She lost my Dad in 1980 to cancer at 43 years old, and then a year later lost my sister to complications to MS.
Then several years later, she lost a grandchild to cancer at 3 years old.
I think the other losses felt worse because he wasn't there to help her through them.
For me, they were all equal in pain.
So bittersweet. I just wanna give you a huge hug Allie. Losing my mom was one of the hardest things I've ever gone thru. Hearts are with you.
And how it happened so quickly, a double-edged sword.
My heart goes out to Russell. I can’t even imagine what he is feeling, but at least he has Leo to brighten his days. Nothing like a grandchild! They are like a balm for your heart.
Beside Leo, he has Allie and Trent!
What a beautiful room and your Dad was so sweet to let us all see his introduction to it. I can see the hurt in your faces and the love you are all giving each other is heartwarming.
My husband passed 13 yrs ago. Russell will decorate with pics in time. Also I cried with the moose clip. I felt it was symbolic of Leslie coming up as well on the mountain top to join her husband. Her spirit will always be around your home and she will send subtle signs.
Omgosh! I saw that, too.
2 loving souls.
I thought I was being wildly fanciful.
It was beautiful.
I hope Russel allows himself the chance and time for healing.
As I read the comments I said I’m not going to cry when I see Russell but as I watch the tears would not stop flowing. Know that you all are not alone in this journey and we are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers! Blessings to Trent, Allie, Leo and Russell.
I loved Leo calling the cow picture a reindeer, he is showing his own sweet sense of humor and personality! He is going to help your whole family heal and move forward. Sending hugs for all.
The bedroom is perfect and Russell is so gracious. Team Trent and Allie, you all poured your hearts into this project. Be safe, love and peace.
Love that Scottish Highlander photo over the bed. We used to raise them on the farm. Lovely gentle creatures they are ❤. I wish your dad the best. Just FYI, all Scottish Highlands have horns, the girls and the boys.
It is a beautiful room for a beautiful man. Family is everything! There is nothing like having those bonds. I feel your strength Allie. You are a wonderful woman, obviously raised by one. These videos make me grateful for each day.
I am so glad Russell is surrounded by your love and that he has a place within your home. A year ago I became a widow and felt untethered and very lost. It was the love and support of my kids that gave me the grounding I needed to be okay. I'm still struggling, grief is hard and weird. While the heartbreak never goes away, over time there are more smiles at the memories than tears.
hugs to you
Same here, well said! And my church has also been extraordinarily kind.
Being "available" for a widowed parent is crucial to get them through the early stages of loss. What you have done, is beyond, in fact exemplary. You are fortunate to have the space in your home to do so!
Your Mom knew you would look out for him. Everything changes when everyone goes home. It will be so great to have him with you. Well done. Your best work. ❤️👍
My mom passed 10yrs ago tomorrow. My son was a little older at the time. We both sold our houses and bought one together. I think Leo will be a wonderful distraction for as long as Russel stays with you. Big hugs to you all!
We love you Allie's Dad!
I am a widow, it is so difficult, so all the love you are showering your dad is wonderful. Leo will bring so much happiness to him. God Bless.❤
Tell your Dad that we are looking forward to seeing more of him! He’s such a humble, nice man. You two are being good, supporting your father at this sad time.
It turned out beautiful. Hold your Dad close and just allow space for healing. You’ve touched my heart again! Blessings.
Beautiful sanctuary room! It will be wonderful having Leo there to nap with Russell. It will be so healing for all of you. Sharing all the wonderful stories and keeping your mom with you. All you need do is look in the mirror, Allie. She's right there with you every day. 🤗
I'm so happy that you let us see Russell seeing his new room. It's very cozy and peaceful. Great job guys finishing in two weeks.
Russell will have many distractions when he wants them, and all of you.
I agree with some others, I think that a comfy chair, lamp, and little table would be nice in the gym space. Then he won't have to lay in the bed, he can sit in the chair, read or watch movies, without having to go upstairs if he feels like being alone.
Love and prayers to all of you,
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“Bitter Sweet” says it all. Im so glad you are all together . It will be a blessing to have Russel in the home. He will strengthen a bond with Leo that will last a lifetime. Laugh together, cry together , love one another . Family is everything! Blessing for you all in the coming weeks . Excited to see where you all go from here.
Russell you are in the thoughts of thousands, I hope you enjoy your time with your wonderful grandson Leo and your kids Allie and Trent.
I grew up living with my grandpa. There’s something just so special about grandpas. ❤
The bedroom turned out perfectly and I'm sure Russel will find his time with Leo to be so healing...even if he finds Leo napping in his "helix" :) Looking forward to seeing Russel blend even more into this beautiful family...just what he needs right now. I'm sure when spring is here he will be joining Trent and Brandon on their golf nights.
Which will be so good for all of them.
Russel will need to let himself be happy again.
It might feel strange for him to think he can be happy without Leslie, but I'm sure the beauty of Leo's happy countenance will help immensely.
Russel needs to remember that Leslie would want him to be happy.
Man, has Leo grown lately. I mean so many new expressions and thoughts. Then saying, "No, it's a reindeer." Full of surprises... Life is full of surprises. And that's all we've got to go on.
Giving your dad books to read is a great idea. Having a chair to sit in where he can escape the family and read or grieve in solitude would be nice as well. Love from London, ON 🇨🇦
I was thinking the same thing. A couch in the gym or a comfortable chair.
A nice comfy recliner and an actual tv that he can run his WiFi through. Blessings to you all. ☮️💜
@@marciehall541I initially said the same thing but Trent said he likes to watch things on his laptop😊
I agree I was thinking all that was missing is a comfy chair so he could sneak away relax ,read, or simply have some alone time . They are a beautiful family it’s difficult to see them hurting . I’m also from London Ont 🇨🇦
I thought of a chair too. Everyone enjoys alone time.
You guys dont have to explain why you are doing anything. As a guy who lost both of his parents, i fully understand why you had to do the things you do. I can tell that you and Trent are very close to your father and you want to give him the best life possible under the circumstances. It is nice that he wont feel lonely, but yet he will have his own space to reflect and mourn in his own way. God Bless you all.
Your mom would be so happy and proud of the care and concern you’ve shown your dad while moving forward in the depths of grief. You’re always such an incredible inspiration! 💕💕💕
I just wanted to say that Leo's personality is precious and it's adorable that he insists the steer (or cow) is a reindeer!!! 🤗 Hugs for Leo!
Allie's dad has a beautiful smile and a great sense of humor. Allie you're blessed to have him ❤
Russell loved the room. He is a humble & gracious man who lost the love of his life. I am so sorry. Thanks for giving him support & love. Being with you guys will help Russell in so many ways. Family is Everything💜💜 Your Mom will truly be missed💛💛
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My heart was touched when Russell said he was humbled after seeing his room.
May God bring the family peace. 😔
Leo giving you a look with a twinkle in his eye when he decided to call the moose a reindeer. He was looking for a laugh. He's got a great sense of humor, just like his "Could this be a Helix?" grandfather. I agree, a small love seat, or comfy reading chair in the gym would be a great idea. Grief...complex and never ending. Don't rush yourselves, healing and adjusting to living with it is so different for each person. My heart goes out to you all. That little guy Leo will be a bright spot that helps everyone along the way without even knowing he is.
I was thinking the same thing. Russell needs somewhere to set other than the bed.
Russell, my heart hurts watching you. This is hard, everything will feel hard for a while. This family is remarkable and you’ve created a beautiful sanctuary for your dad and really for yourselves as you heal together. ❤
As a man 72 years old, you guys make me so proud. I hope when the time comes that I’ll have loving and caring kids like you to be there for me. I cried when your Dad saw his room. 💞💓
Had a wee tear in my eye when you showed your dad his room….. sending all the love for you all ❤
Hugs winging their way to you all from across the pond Lesley's smiling face will surely be missed but lives on in Allie's smiles and laughter as she looks so much like her mum imho xxxxx
Thank God Russell has family who care...Love you guys
Dear little Leo, that cow can be a reindeer, and also, the Moose can be a reindeer. Don't you just love how children look and think. What a sweetheart. Wishing you all the happiness in the world. Love from Australia ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
It is a change that it is not a dinosour.
I knew as soon as Trent asked Leo what he was going to say.
And you're right - he'll know what it is soon enough.
For now - reindeer! 🦌
0:51 Russell, we're so sorry for your loss. Lesley was such a joy to see here. Allie looks just like her beloved Mom. 🙏🕊🌻
The finished guest room is lovely, and the gym too. Well done to the best building crew ever. (Brandon really earned MVP in this episode.)
With only seconds into this upcoming video, to see Russell gripped my heart then hearing his kind sweet voice, tears flood my eyes. I grieve with you. In your farewell tribute, you showed Leslie walking towards the sea as she had and you'd recorded so many times. That exact memory is the one that flooded through my heart along with her face, when I first heard you mention she was ill. Some would say shhh don't mention but the others would agree to what a lovely group of people y'all all are. We feel the lose of her too and together we will love and rally with each other. My love and prayers and thanks for all the memories. Now on to minute TWO. I'm so excited. Blessings
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Leo brings joy to his grandpa’s room. Whenever you look at the “Scottish Reindeer “ you will feel that joy. Russell will feel the love in this space.hugs and love from Minnesota. Very proud of you 💕
It’s nay a Scottish Reindeer, but a Highland Coo 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
The room turned out beautiful. You may consider putting doors on the closet to keep things looking tidy and for insulation. I have two swinging doors on my master closet and like the look very much. It's always colder in the closet, not heating it also saves electricity. I've a feeling that Leo will be sneaking into bed with grandpa from time to time if Russell allows it or just cuddling with him as they watch kids movies together on the laptop. Cuddles make everything better. Keeping you all in my prayers during this difficult time. God bless.
I wonder if he would like folding doors on the closet.
So many beautiful and heart-rending comments.
Dealing with this new normal will have its ups and downs.
Russel is an active man, used to having an active life.
Take each day as it comes.
Remember to face each day with understanding and kindness.
My heart is so, so with you all.
Love. Just... love.
The new basement and room for Russell look fantastic! You all will be good medicine for one another during the coming days. This is such a special opportunity for Leo to be even closer to his Grandpa! Sending you all much love and warmth during these snowy days!
I cried when Russel was looking around his room. You all have touched my heart.❤
And everyone's heart!
You guys are amazing! Having your Dad stay with you is no little thing. My Dad lived with me for about 5 years until his dementia got so bad we had to move him to a nursing home (which was very hard to do). Enjoy every minute with him cause tomorrow is never promised. 💜
Allie you are being so strong, the words you have said about the last few weeks I wouldn’t have been able to without crying, sending you the biggest hug, I hope your dad settles in and this move helps him and you to grieve your beautiful mom ❤
Huge shout out to Russell. The whole family on this side of the pond sends their love and hugs to you and your family ❤️👍x
This makes me what to cry, I lost my husband eight weeks shy of 50 years ,September 2023 he had a heart attack in our home, doctor had given him a clean bill of health weeks before.What has really helped me is my family! Two sons, two daughter-laws, five grandsons a fantastic neighbour & phonecalls from siblings. They have helped me so much to getting over his loss , a long way to go but to see Trent & Allie embrace Russell this way you have no idea what this will do for him. It’s everything!! Leo is the distraction he will need. I say everyday how thankful I am for my family , I’m sure Russell is thankful for Trent, Allie & Leo.
Wishing you all the best on this hard journey ❤️
So sorry for your loss.. glad you have your family to lean on
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I am sorry for your loss. My dad died suddenly two weeks after a clean bill of health and I really struggled for years with anger about it since he was 56, my sister hadn’t gotten married or had kids and my kids were too young to remember him. It’s been 24 years and I still miss him but I now know that I can let go of my anger and just remember the joy we shared before his death. I speak about him to my kids so he still lives in our hearts. Peace be with you as you go through your life. 😊
Sorry for your loss, glad you have family to help you through this transition in life. Interesting that the dr gave him a clean bill of health weeks before. I guess we never know when it's our time. It only makes life on a day to day basis more and more precious. Hang in there. :)
What a team player Russell is. It's hard to muster up excitement in such a transitional time. ❤
My heart goes out to Russell. How he managed to be so composed, I’ll never know. I was crying for him. What a beautiful place you made in your home and hearts for your dad. 🤼♂️ 😇 🚜 🏌🏼♂️❄️❄️❄️❄️🐕🦺🐕
Well said- Same reaction from me. Bless all of you in this journey
Yes, totally unexpected to see him... that takes alot of guts to be videoed during these difficult times.
Your father is such a gracious man! He is also lucky to have such loving and supportive children-it speaks to how your parents love you both!!!
Oh my gosh, that little Leo is just the cutest little guy. He’s a special little boy, a little shy, with his handsome smile. I think he knows he’s the coolest kid around. You can’t help but love him. So so cute.
Thank God you all are able to take care of him and to be with him at this time that he needs you the most. I agree as another person wrote,
cherish this precious time with him. I will be praying for continued peace and comfort for your Dad and all of your family.
Lovely what you all did for Russell, while my heart aches for him, I'm so happy he has open arms and a beautiful cozy room to spend time in. Hugs to y'all,Leo is talking So Much these days!🤗♥️
My heart is with you, Russell, Allie and Trent. I'm so happy that Russell is with you. May the quiet snowfall with moose passing through, a homemade dinner and the comforts of a new, warm bedroom bring peace and comfort to all of you. Team Trent - the bedroom and lower level look absolutely wonderful, beautiful work. Little Leo stole the show here just as he will steal the heart of Nanoo ❤... - such a sweet boy.
Words can’t describe how much I like this channel! Again, I’m sorry for the loss of Allie’s mom. Hugs for all, especially Russell. Thanks for sharing!
Trent how about some closet doors, just a suggestion. Room looks awesome..... Allie's dad will love that room.....looks very homie and comfortable...great job guys.
Allie, your dad's room came out really nice. What a BLESSING to be with your dad during this time. Trent and all his friends that made this room complete🫶
My heart goes out to Russel. I think he really loves it. He still has that big smile.
Lovely video, Russell is a very calm dignified man and clearly a top dad.
Allie...my heart bleeds for you at this time. What you are doing for your dad is absolutely amazing. There is nothing more satisfying than to be surrounded by loved ones when times are tough, and you certainly have provided that by welcoming your dad into your home. Condolences to you, your dad and the rest of your family.
Russel is such a lovely man. He is so fortunate to have you, Allie, and Trent and Leo at this difficult time. His little sanctuary downstairs is beautiful. I'm happy that he likes the steer.
I can give you 476,000+ reason for motivation. Such a sweet thing you have done for your dad. Hey kiddo, your mom would/is proud of you two! Much love to you all!
So different seeing Russell without your mom, what an adjustment for all you guys.
So proud of you guys for helping Russell. My dad died almost 2 years ago and life is still weird and different and awkward without him. We helped my mom move and fixed up her new place.
You all did such an outstanding job of fixing Russell a room downstairs. So happy he is staying with you all at this time. Love can move mountains and you all sure did do that for your dear dad, Allie. ❤
We had my mother-in-law live at our house for a year before she passed. True, Russell is not that old, but I can only imagine that it is a relief to him knowing he has a place to call home that is welcoming, and filled with love. Welcome home, Russell. Welcome home.
I’m so glad that you have your papa with you. He will need the companionship and support from all of you. Please give him a hug from all of us and let him know that his smile is contagious. 😘
Such a cozy spot for Russell to be in to reflect and remember. I wish I could give you all a hug, especially Leo and his Reindeer!
What a blessing that you can take your dad in. You will always be so glad that you did this for him.
My dad was so lost after my mom died. It’s good to see your family support and love on your dad. It’s great to see he is accepting of your support. ❤
I lost my husband of 37 years from a heart attack. It makes it hard when you are use to your loved one being there with you every day. The room is so nice. Continue Prayers Allie and Trent and for your dad. Sending Lots of love and Hugs ❤️🙏
I'm a widow, and it is very hard being alone. I hope Russell has a happy life as he ages. He will no doubt grieve forever but time tends to dull the ache some.
So bless you guys for putting dad first, and getting a warm, cozy place ready for him. I'm sure that he will cherish being with family.
Much love to you all.
I’m a memaw & I’ll tell you I loved my grand babies snuggling me. Russell will find much healing in spending time with Leo. 💜💜💜
I just feel for your dad. It's such a raw and fragile time. I recently lost my husband and am about 10 weeks out from where you guys are. It's just...hard. Life. Grief. It simply is.
So sorry for your loss. I hope you are surrounded by loving family and/or friends. ❤ One tiny step at a time…
Leo is going to love having his grandfather with him. My heart breaks for Russell. What a punch in the gut this is for him and all of you! The room came out amazing. Great job, guys!
Allie when you were in kitchen you were being so strong talking your precious Mother…I cried for you & Trent & family! 🥹💔 Trent, Brandon & Grayson have done an exceptional job with bedroom & basement!! This is a very personal & emotional time thanks for sharing this difficult time! Russell loved his room!! ❤️🤗 Love from Australia 🇦🇺🐨
Leo will bring light back to your dad. The blessing of children
Russell's reaction was priceless you can tell that he loves the room and appreciates it and all the work yo did on it
I lived with my mother for several years when I had my daughter. My daughter grew up with my mother around. They still share a very special bond even now that she’s in her 20s. This will be so good for Leo and Russell and all of you. ❤
Trent and Allie, well done! There is nothing more important than family and I am sure that Russell is grateful and happy to be home.
So fun to hear Leo interacting with words and phrases he's learning.
So sorry for the loss of your dear mom. What a haven you have created for dad.
The room turned out beautiful and I'm so glad that Russell liked it. Only time will heal his heart but being with family gives you all a chance to heal together. Living on the mountain will certainly be a be change for him, and a great distraction. Between the snow, the moose sightings, little Leo, and the ongoing construction, he'll have plenty to occupy his time. His room will be a great place when he needs to be alone with his thoughts.
The closet needs a door (doors) of some sort to keep clothes stored within from getting dusty.
I'm glad I'm not the only person that was thinking that! I really love how it all turned out!❤
Yes, they did a great job. Hope they do some doors. Couple be folding doors, sliders, something to close the wide opening. If it was to be my bedroom, I would be asking Trent to get me some doors. @@ember2874
Sending huge hugs to your father. ♥♥♥ your father has a wonderful daughter & son in law!!♥♥♥
And GRANDSON
What a comfortable-looking bedroom! Thanks for showing us Russell's initial reaction, which appears to be 100% approval. What a bittersweet moment and project. As Allie said, it's great that he can come stay with you after you created this space for him, but the reason for doing so is sad and obviously unexpected.
I am praying for my Russell. My heart is heavy for him. Please give him my love and let him know I’m praying for him.
Shared joy is double joy, shared sorrow is half sorrow. An old Swedish proverb. You are living it. Well done.