I followed your advice on accident (wasn’t emotionally ready to be in a relationship with the guy) right when his interest in me peaked. I dated other people and realized I wanted to see him again, and lucky for me he was still interested in me. It’s been over the span of 8 months, but since January we have been talking more frequently and going out on dates. Coming up on our 6th date...and I think we’re both developing feelings. He pays for meals, he opens doors, we naturally laugh at each other’s jokes and touch etc. The key was dating other people and working on my self-confidence/hobbies. By taking it slow and not being too invested in the beginning I’ve had the most success because normally I care too much and I don’t get past the third date! ❤️
A R he is good. Also check out mark rosemfeld. They are my two favorites. I use to love Matthew hussey but I’ve moved to the more real Elliot Scott and Mark Rosenfeld
A man may show incredible interest at first because he's operating off of fantasy, not reality. After all, he still doesn't know who exactly he is dealing with. When some of the realities sleeps in, his interests may drop drastically as his ladylove was not exactly what he imagined.
I love you Elliot Scott... been a fan since day 1. You keep it real unlike most, and I respect that. For every person that doesnt like you there’s 10 others that do. Dont ever change bro
You're the first one, OUT OF ALL of these videos who has really helped me understand my current situation with the person I'm talking to. I need to just chill out and focus on having fun.
You're already famous lol for "orbiting", "provide & satisfy", and "investing resources". I really hope to see your book published & inside of a book store.
I'm in a relationship and I'm happy. But as relationships progress, I still like to keep learning. I just love watching your videos because I love the way you express yourself. You always keep it real and explains things in simple terms so we can let all this info sink in.
I absolutely love this video. You are so real and I f*#$king love your advice! Your humor is great. Keep up the fantastic work and I will recommend you to every woman I know. Thanks Elliott!
I just wanna say thank you. Your a human male trying to help us ladies! I appreciate you and all the common sense stuff you actually say. Yes we might know it but it goes futher hearing it from a guy. My male friends , comfuse me So your the perfect alternative. Keep up the good work!
You might be my favorite dating coach, I think. I’m still playing the field a bit and enjoy being single, but you’re doing a good job. I appreciate your advice and your commentary brings me a warm smile
OMG, he's doing all of this. I let him do the chasing and it's worked. He really shy and he used to back away if i was forward even very low key. He's investing over time and now tells me things , such as he's comfortable with me and likes to talk with me. Every a.m. and p.m. we text good morning and good night. He says he can't sleep without it or his day isn't complete. The other day he said I bet you didn't think you'd still be doing this. LOL We have a lot of laughs too.
Thank you so much. It’s so hard to find videos that don’t talk about physical contact stuff, which does me no good. My guy doesn’t do that because he’s kind of shy and takes things slow, which i exactly what your video talked about. So again, thanks.
You're my favorite dating coach Elliot Scott. And I love you too. You're so cute in a nerdy but crazy cussin' kinda cute way. Thanks for breaking things down for me.
You know what is frustrating. When you ask for a healthy relationship and the guy you like like mad about just got out of a relationship and his building a foundation with you but very slowly.
Genevieve Reindl Elliot talks about rebound relationships. If he has been out of a relationship for 3 months or less, Elliot says he’s likely emotionally unavailable and u may need to move on
Dang! im glad ive found your channel.... you are the most acurate dating adviser ive ever heard....all you said is true...it does really makes sense...
Hi Elliot. Your advices are extraordinary! This guy that I like somehow gives a little bit of each of these signs, but I don't know what should I do to be in a relationship with him. He has never been in a relationship before and we are in the same group of friends for almost a year. Can you please make a video on this topic (about the guys that don't have a lot of experience with women) or give an advice if I should be the one to confess?
It makes me feel uncomfortable when guys want to go really fast and not take things slow. I have run into guys on Tinder that want to know a whole bunch of personal stuff about me right away and want to meet up right away. I want to get to know this total stranger first before I meet him or jump into things. Especially if its someone I met on Tinder!
I love all your advices, I learn so much from them. Always so honest, it makes me realize what I do wrong and what I need to work on. Love it can get enough of the.
Don't give up on life and the universe I know of a great man who helped you me fix my broken hear beat relationship and everything was restored to pormal in days without delay
one thing I realized, is if you want a guy to keep his interest you must must must allow him to miss you which is creating some needed space, otherwise, someone will get taken advantage of real quick
My first day seeing any of this dudes videos, and wtf. Cool af! I’m liking his advise, and so far everything makes sense. This is like the third video I’ve watched, and he’s fuckin right so far!
Hey hey !! I enjoy your channel 💎 If you have time can you make videos on how to beat guys at their own toxic games. I'm not interested in dating guys, or being their girlfriend but I do want to know ways to take their poison and shoot back into their own veins. For example: 1) when they are subtly being manipulative with questions offensively and making you play defence, how can you turn it around and put them on the defence? 2) gas lighting. When you confront them about their bullshit behaviour and they tell you that you are out of line, or say "I don't know what you're talking about?" Guys are *****. And what about sharehouses? Living with guys in share houses? Have you done a video in that?? And also have you ever done a video on ways guys "feed" off women? How they find girls around them and just try to use them to feed their own egos?? And don't give any thought about the girls well being. I fucking hate guys, I don't want to date those assholes I just want to fucking destroy them. But legally. Without jail time. Thanks.
Don't give up on life and the universe I know of a great man who helped you me fix my broken hear beat relationship and everything was restored to pormal in days without delay
The woman doesn't choose to leave, he makes her. Personally she shouldn't have slept with him but that's the way it goes. I don't like people saying put out. i don't get it, seems so sexist and shows no respect.
Hehehe - you made me smile when your spelling got funky *wink wink* :P These four reasons are simple and yet so many women don't seem to know the thing about why girls fall in love. Girls fall deeply in love when a man is willing to share his resources, be it time, money, ability to listen and help solve your problems, making you dinner etc. I know I do at least. I read it many years ago... about the chemistry of love. It's how I know if a guy is seriously into me or not, especially over time. When he makes an effort, 6, 12,18 months in, I know I am under his skin for real. It's like buying stocks - you don't always know what you get into, but if you're lucky they keep giving dividends... 😉 Actually it could be pretty fun to write a blog post about stocks and dating someday in the future I think... *thinking smiley*
I have a question, I hope you answer. I’m texting a guy from Uni and he texts every few days. And we were talking about a tv show, and he says I should watch this other one and that he has the box set if I’d like to watch it sometime? And I wasn’t sure what he meant by that. Did he mean I could borrow it or he wants to watch it with me. Because I showed some friends and they said it’s to borrow, a couple say he likes me, and another said he’s letting me decide. Please let me know what he means :)
It’s hard to find good guys out here. I hope to find a guy friend who I can turn into a serious relationship. Maybe a very educated Christian man with high value.🤓💪💖🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
The guy I’ve been seeing for the last 2.5 months is an alcoholic and a tight wad. He sits at home and drinks until he passes out. I didn’t know this until one day I went over to find out why he’d disappear after 6 pm during the week and some weekends. That’s because he was home passed out from being completely wasted. He did a good job of hiding it from me until I found out. All I use him for now is a FWB because he has a hot body.
I followed your advice on accident (wasn’t emotionally ready to be in a relationship with the guy) right when his interest in me peaked. I dated other people and realized I wanted to see him again, and lucky for me he was still interested in me. It’s been over the span of 8 months, but since January we have been talking more frequently and going out on dates. Coming up on our 6th date...and I think we’re both developing feelings. He pays for meals, he opens doors, we naturally laugh at each other’s jokes and touch etc. The key was dating other people and working on my self-confidence/hobbies. By taking it slow and not being too invested in the beginning I’ve had the most success because normally I care too much and I don’t get past the third date! ❤️
You're welcome :)
Poor guy
Only 6 dates in 8 months?
Are you with him? Update please ❤️
@@jackie41083 I had to end things because he ended up not being the right fit for me but I don’t regret the experience.
After watching a half dozen dating coaches on RUclips, you're definitely the best. You keep it real.
A R he is good. Also check out mark rosemfeld. They are my two favorites. I use to love Matthew hussey but I’ve moved to the more real Elliot Scott and Mark Rosenfeld
@@GypsyRock Mindful attraction is the best.
A man may show incredible interest at first because he's operating off of fantasy, not reality. After all, he still doesn't know who exactly he is dealing with. When some of the realities sleeps in, his interests may drop drastically as his ladylove was not exactly what he imagined.
I love you Elliot Scott... been a fan since day 1. You keep it real unlike most, and I respect that. For every person that doesnt like you there’s 10 others that do. Dont ever change bro
my advice....
there is only one way to know if a guy wants to be in a relationship...
the moment he realises that it's safe to
be around you...👍
Yes. When he trust you
Can u elaborate with examples??
It is safe to be around every woman, not sure what you are saying. Every woman is safe, it is women that are not safe.
@@nofybn7794 true 😂👏
@@nofybn7794 very true 😂
You're the first one, OUT OF ALL of these videos who has really helped me understand my current situation with the person I'm talking to. I need to just chill out and focus on having fun.
Antonio Perez but....he coaches women.....??
Elliot I love it when u cuss😂😂 valuable information 👍❣
I want a man who brings out the best in me, is my best friend, has my back, is loyal and makes me laugh!😎💖🔥🔥🔥🔥
I love your videos, you are very well spoken, nothing sexier then a well articulated man!
You're already famous lol for "orbiting", "provide & satisfy", and "investing resources". I really hope to see your book published & inside of a book store.
😂😂😂 you're my favorite coach if that counts for anything 🤷♀️
THANKS Elliot!!! for not wasting my time with the obvious, cliché answers. I appreciate your style and honesty.
You're the best dating coach ever! ❤️❤️❤️
Nicole Figueroa I second that! If women listen to his advice and follow them they will definitely cut their losses all the time! 😉
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I'm in a relationship and I'm happy. But as relationships progress, I still like to keep learning. I just love watching your videos because I love the way you express yourself. You always keep it real and explains things in simple terms so we can let all this info sink in.
I absolutely love this video. You are so real and I f*#$king love your advice! Your humor is great. Keep up the fantastic work and I will recommend you to every woman I know. Thanks Elliott!
Kassandra Moi hahaha u can cuss! Elliot does! Don’t worry about it!
“Y’all say I always blab in the comments... sorry about that” 😂😂😂😂😂
Gina Dale बेह
I just wanna say thank you. Your a human male trying to help us ladies! I appreciate you and all the common sense stuff you actually say. Yes we might know it but it goes futher hearing it from a guy. My male friends , comfuse me So your the perfect alternative. Keep up the good work!
Perfect timing
Toya Mel same good luck girl
You might be my favorite dating coach, I think. I’m still playing the field a bit and enjoy being single, but you’re doing a good job. I appreciate your advice and your commentary brings me a warm smile
i love when you swear lol
OMG, he's doing all of this. I let him do the chasing and it's worked. He really shy and he used to back away if i was forward even very low key. He's investing over time and now tells me things , such as he's comfortable with me and likes to talk with me. Every a.m. and p.m. we text good morning and good night. He says he can't sleep without it or his day isn't complete. The other day he said I bet you didn't think you'd still be doing this. LOL We have a lot of laughs too.
Thank you so much. It’s so hard to find videos that don’t talk about physical contact stuff, which does me no good. My guy doesn’t do that because he’s kind of shy and takes things slow, which i exactly what your video talked about. So again, thanks.
You're my favorite dating coach Elliot Scott. And I love you too. You're so cute in a nerdy but crazy cussin' kinda cute way. Thanks for breaking things down for me.
thanks, this is actually pretty helpul in mentally weeding out the disintetersted.
You are a teacher, just not a regular one. 😃
Elliot, I love your energy, it's so very awesome. I enjoyy hearing your coaching. You are the best!
You're the BEST Elliot! ❤
I’ve probably watched every coach on RUclips...you are my favorite dating coach...so yeah...f- whoever doesn’t think so. 😁
When you make graphs you should include axes like intensity vs time
He puts effort, is slow, makes me happy but does not want commitment
You are definitely my favorite dating coach!💜
lolololol luved it when you wrote horrible..poor guy😊 laughed my ass off 🤣
best asset..your honesty♡
You know what is frustrating. When you ask for a healthy relationship and the guy you like like mad about just got out of a relationship and his building a foundation with you but very slowly.
Genevieve Reindl Elliot talks about rebound relationships. If he has been out of a relationship for 3 months or less, Elliot says he’s likely emotionally unavailable and u may need to move on
Love your charts Elliot!
3:13...i swear...this is the ultimate truth..it happened to me...what a wake up call..
Your right mr scott
Dang! im glad ive found your channel.... you are the most acurate dating adviser ive ever heard....all you said is true...it does really makes sense...
GENIUS!!!! Needed this
You truly completely best coach. Your staff works
staff? lol
Elliot Scott stuff
Hi Elliot. Your advices are extraordinary! This guy that I like somehow gives a little bit of each of these signs, but I don't know what should I do to be in a relationship with him. He has never been in a relationship before and we are in the same group of friends for almost a year. Can you please make a video on this topic (about the guys that don't have a lot of experience with women) or give an advice if I should be the one to confess?
It makes me feel uncomfortable when guys want to go really fast and not take things slow. I have run into guys on Tinder that want to know a whole bunch of personal stuff about me right away and want to meet up right away. I want to get to know this total stranger first before I meet him or jump into things. Especially if its someone I met on Tinder!
Your my favorite coach because I feel you tell the truth wether it's good or not you don't bullshit people or give false hope
0:15 😄❤️ loved it! Elliott
You the best dating coach I watch a few of you guys and after a year of watching you , I can say you the best
Thank you ! Love your videos
Staying low intensity, still not sure if he makes me happy...or vice versa. I think there should be more Feelings.
Mel Berry if there’s no feelings on ur end (or his) move on! Don’t waste ur time
My first time finding you... these are awesome! Seriously -actually solid advice and funny af. Soooo keep doing what you’re doing. 🤗
You are in my top 3 of dating coaches.
Tashea Key me too. Is mark rosenfeld one of your faves ?!
I love all your advices, I learn so much from them. Always so honest, it makes me realize what I do wrong and what I need to work on. Love it can get enough of the.
Don't give up on life and the universe I know of a great man who helped you me fix my broken hear beat relationship and everything was restored to pormal in days without delay
Text him on WhatsApp
PERFECT TIMING holy COW ELLIOT
What if it goes SOOO slow you lose interest!?
You are brilliant! My fav! The cursin’ makes it real!
"Horrible,Horrible, omg" 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 . But dw we only need that chart
one thing I realized, is if you want a guy to keep his interest you must must must allow him to miss you which is creating some needed space, otherwise, someone will get taken advantage of real quick
You actually are my favorite dating coach!
yes Elliot you are my favorite dating coach
That chart really is sublime 🤣✨
You're hilarious to me. You are now my favorite. Absolutely. I wasn't sure at first but you definitely are now. Without a doubt 😂😅😚😙
My first day seeing any of this dudes videos, and wtf. Cool af! I’m liking his advise, and so far everything makes sense. This is like the third video I’ve watched, and he’s fuckin right so far!
Hey hey !! I enjoy your channel 💎 If you have time can you make videos on how to beat guys at their own toxic games. I'm not interested in dating guys, or being their girlfriend but I do want to know ways to take their poison and shoot back into their own veins. For example: 1) when they are subtly being manipulative with questions offensively and making you play defence, how can you turn it around and put them on the defence? 2) gas lighting. When you confront them about their bullshit behaviour and they tell you that you are out of line, or say "I don't know what you're talking about?" Guys are *****.
And what about sharehouses? Living with guys in share houses? Have you done a video in that??
And also have you ever done a video on ways guys "feed" off women? How they find girls around them and just try to use them to feed their own egos?? And don't give any thought about the girls well being.
I fucking hate guys, I don't want to date those assholes I just want to fucking destroy them. But legally. Without jail time. Thanks.
😀 enjoying your videos and sense of humor , way to go 👍🏼
You really are helpful that's why I subscribed and like 👍 and keep coming back
You are my favorite dating coach!
You're the funniest dating coach!!!
I love that you cuss alot and blab on...best videos ever
So clear thanks 😊
Could the guy be behaving like that if he just wants to be your friend? May seem like a dumb question but just want to clarify
Natasha Vadnais seems like it
Your just the greatest for Passion in helping us as always!! 🤗💕
Don't give up on life and the universe I know of a great man who helped you me fix my broken hear beat relationship and everything was restored to pormal in days without delay
Text him on WhatsApp
+1=2=0=4=8=0=8=2=2=3=4. ...
You are my favorite dating coach and you‘re hot, Elliot!
Good 🙏i score 4/4
Thanks for the video
Do you ever do live stream q and ad's anymore.
The woman doesn't choose to leave, he makes her. Personally she shouldn't have slept with him but that's the way it goes. I don't like people saying put out. i don't get it, seems so sexist and shows no respect.
You are doing a great job
Add me on IG elliotscottdating
Hehehe - you made me smile when your spelling got funky *wink wink* :P
These four reasons are simple and yet so many women don't seem to know the thing about why girls fall in love. Girls fall deeply in love when a man is willing to share his resources, be it time, money, ability to listen and help solve your problems, making you dinner etc. I know I do at least. I read it many years ago... about the chemistry of love. It's how I know if a guy is seriously into me or not, especially over time. When he makes an effort, 6, 12,18 months in, I know I am under his skin for real. It's like buying stocks - you don't always know what you get into, but if you're lucky they keep giving dividends... 😉 Actually it could be pretty fun to write a blog post about stocks and dating someday in the future I think... *thinking smiley*
Hey Elliot! Notice now how every coach on RUclips is using the term "investing resources"? 😅 Right on!!
Just like they use my word "orbit" too... Lol
You're awesome!
Who are the high school boys giving dating advice?
So true
I live for these charts😩🤣
Very informative
I have a question, I hope you answer. I’m texting a guy from Uni and he texts every few days. And we were talking about a tv show, and he says I should watch this other one and that he has the box set if I’d like to watch it sometime?
And I wasn’t sure what he meant by that. Did he mean I could borrow it or he wants to watch it with me.
Because I showed some friends and they said it’s to borrow, a couple say he likes me, and another said he’s letting me decide. Please let me know what he means :)
Anny Apple just ask him not your friends lol
We ❤️ Elliot!
I love you and I love your videos❤👍
Actually starts writing HORR... :)
😂😂😂😃😅
This was some really great insight. Especially the "short term gain guy". Huge eye opener.
You’re my fav!!! ❤️❤️❤️
I don't have my dream man but Elliot would be my dream son. Scary, right?
“EX-SCAPE” Lol.
3rd video in... & I love you.!
Ty elliot scott
It’s hard to find good guys out here. I hope to find a guy friend who I can turn into a serious relationship. Maybe a very educated Christian man with high value.🤓💪💖🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
You're so funny, I love it!
Yeah my favourite.
You are my favorite!!;)
Yes, wish I had found you BEFORE I fucked it all up!!!!
Yes
You are so cool!!
The guy I’ve been seeing for the last 2.5 months is an alcoholic and a tight wad. He sits at home and drinks until he passes out. I didn’t know this until one day I went over to find out why he’d disappear after 6 pm during the week and some weekends. That’s because he was home passed out from being completely wasted. He did a good job of hiding it from me until I found out. All I use him for now is a FWB because he has a hot body.
Not sure I would want to have you work with me as I don't know how much of your four-letter expletives I could personally put up with.