This video was definitely needed. So many men want to ask a woman what she brings to the table but he doesn't even want to be a provider. The nerve! Thank you for this Tony G!!
I had a guy say to me he ask women what can you do for me that I can't do for myself. That was a red flag that I should have paid attention to cause that was a manipulation strategy.
Tony is TOO real and hilarious! 😂Been watching him for the last 4 years. I am in THE BEST relationship I have ever had, thanks to his dating and relationship advice and coaching. I STILL watch Tony while in my relationship to ensure that me and him last for the long run. The lessons don’t stop here!
"You should NOT be a ride or die...What ride or die mean is that if your man is going the right way and doing the right thing, then you riding with him. But if your man is not treating you right, if your man is not living right, you get off at the next stop. And if there ain't no stop, you jumping out and just fittin' ta do the roll...You out....Go on 'bout yo' business." 💯💯💯❤❤❤💪💪💪🔥🔥🔥💎💎💎
Been there done that….don’t not 🛑 ladies keep on going! 😂 I leveled up tho and got me a grown provider man who allowed me to be a wife of leisure…..it’s great here! Thank God I stopped the foolish ride or die ish
I'm over here making a salad for dinner while listening to this video. I can't tell you how many times I started cracking up! Tony is too funny! But he tells No Lies! He understood the assignment 💯
There it go right there! I couldn’t find the word to describe it but women need security and men need physical. I can honestly say I craved my man when I felt the most secure with him. It goes beyond just money or even women. I hate that women put on this front like they just be horny and ready to go no matter what. No when you’re making my life feel secure with you like you’re leading me to something that real the more secure I feel
Thank you for getting it straight; because a woman CANNOT respect her man if he refuses to provide for his wife and children....The only exception would be if he is disabled. Thank you!!!
My dad did some almost illegal things to provide for my mom. I thought scandalous at the time, now I feel more respect for it! This was insightful, thank you. 🔥🙏
Almost illegal? Or illegal? Because I don’t think staying with a man doing illegal things is the right thing for a woman to do... Sheri didn’t support Tony’s “almost illegal” activities.
Tony is right. Take any job. Let me say this.. Dont sleep Walmart or starter jobs.. I got a job there, started in bakery . I went to trade school & got associates degree.. I got promoted into health & wellness.. I climbed the ranks.. I've seen men & women climb the ladder there & other places.. U show up & show out , you never know where u can go.
It’s never too late. Today, I tell you the secret: Give your heart to the Lord Jesus Christ and you’ll testify about a better life. It’s spiritual! May God be with you !
So true Tony. I know of a guy who just started a meat packing/delivery business when his warehouse got flooded. All meat and machinery destroyed. He never borrowed money from his wife or touched the personal savings he started for all his 3 kids. He borrowed money from a friend who he made a business partner. His business is thriving today. He even said that that set back though painful and caused him many sleepless nights became such a blessing coz he realized his strength and what God could do for him ( he a praying man). We need to let our men be men. Thanks always for all your videos Tony.
If this wasnt PERFECT timing. Dating is tough and I really have learned the hard way to stop giving boyfriends or men Im dating, husband benefits. If you have not made a list of things you will not do until marriage MAKE ONE. The word NO has gotten me ghosted so many times. Just when im thinking i should bend alittle Brother Tony comes through clutch. Im sorry I already have kids im not looking to adopt one i can sleep with. Yuck just saying that makes me nauseated
@@nzingahoney but that’s what I’m saying. I don’t think it’s THAT deep that he should look at what his woman earns and try his hardest to earn more just because he’s a man and he should be the “provider” 🤔 you can be the provider without trying to OUT earn your wife. It just seems like a wrong point of focus to me Personally.
@@EsiriE I used to think so, too. We can all get into our heads and forget that the reality of male and female does not always neatly align with what is FAIR on paper. He, as a man, needs sex as much as his energy will allow. He cares if I am tired and all that but it doesn't stop him needing sex. So I need to be ready to learn what he needs and communicate to him what I need for me to be able to keep up with his desire. And I, as a woman, need peace of mind, and HAVING to work, to provide myself and my family what I need to have that peace of mind (and God knows healthy and environmentally friendly food clothing and other needed items is COSTLY) does NOT provide that. So he needs to be looking to out earn me so I can fully relax. Periodt.
Oh my gosh 😂😂😂😂❤❤❤God bless you Tony!! That jumping out the car and rent D had me rolling!! But you are 100 % right !! I'm talking tonthis man and he's everything you described he's chasing his dreams but also working his but off!! And he ain't for much but he dose so much for me and in return I love on him !! But no S I told him I don't want to get in to fornication and so far he's still here! Been 4 months going strong ❤❤❤
I appreciate the candid honesty.. It is well put!! & well needed.. I agree.. Providing is a trait of a good man that's serious about a woman & their future! I personally can not respect a man that will not/ can not provide.. I am in my mid 30's ,so at this stage not wasting time!
Great Insight Tony! Happy 16th Birthday to Tony Jr ! 🥳🎉🙏🎂That is a BIG milestone & BLESSING… Congrats!! He definitely earned that Bday gift 🚘 with those straight A’s 📚 🙏💙
😮, I haven’t seen all of your vlogs. I’m speaking old school now, Tony, you hit the nail on the head. I knew it was true, I liked seeing & hearing it. TY
Happy sweet 16 to your firstborn. God's Blessings to you all. This is so true. The man is bred to provide as God provides. HalleluYah. You all are a success story. Thanks for your Truth filled videos about men. God bless you Tony. You are a man of integrity. Wish more men would watch your videos and learn these Truths and put them into practice. It would be a different world. Yes women Do Not take care of a man.
I didn't click on this video expecting much, but left with exactly what I needed! Thank you for the education and for being a willing vessel for Christ. Be blessed, be a blessing
Tony thank you very much I love this I would listen to you on this topic all day...I needed to hear this to clear up some doubts that were lurking in my head....and thanks for sharing your personal experience...🙏
I know, when I tune into your videos I will always get the truth, which is so hard to come by, these days. Just wishing, I had heard these lessons long ago. Better late than never. God is definitely using you. I am in separation from past person. I did end it abruptly with him, when. I realized, through my intuition, he was juggling me. Been hearing, he is planning to contact me & wants to reconcile & make peace. So, this message is timely. My guard is up & I have boundaries, now & have been learning & listening to you & others along with healing. You have the most honest, straight forward messages of all. That's what I need to hear. 💅
Toni ……in the long run … I have yet to hear of a man who was NOT sexually cheating on his partner / wife / girlfriend …..cheating in these days is at the tip on the man’s fingers …..online and offline cheating it’s huge .
I’m grateful for the channel. I have learned so much. I make sure each and every ad/commercial plays out in its entirety. It is the very least I can do to help keep this content coming.
Thank you Tony for sharing your life. Your life is an example of what God will do in your life and I’m inspired to keep believing him and living the right way.
It doesn’t get any more real than this…Thank you man of God for being an exceptional example of what being a real man entails. You’re a man of valor and integrity and we thank God for making a difference in this lopsided world. This was a great lesson with wit to boot 🙌🏽😎.
This video was definitely needed. So many men want to ask a woman what she brings to the table but he doesn't even want to be a provider. The nerve! Thank you for this Tony G!!
🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
I had a guy say to me he ask women what can you do for me that I can't do for myself. That was a red flag that I should have paid attention to cause that was a manipulation strategy.
“He has traded his mother for you” yessss all facts!!!! I did this for years I’m done taking care of grown boys! 💯💪🏾
Do not shoot your shot. Do not take care of a man.
Tony is TOO real and hilarious! 😂Been watching him for the last 4 years. I am in THE BEST relationship I have ever had, thanks to his dating and relationship advice and coaching. I STILL watch Tony while in my relationship to ensure that me and him last for the long run. The lessons don’t stop here!
Same here. I’m happily married but still keep my ear open for lessons ❤
"You should NOT be a ride or die...What ride or die mean is that if your man is going the right way and doing the right thing, then you riding with him. But if your man is not treating you right, if your man is not living right, you get off at the next stop. And if there ain't no stop, you jumping out and just fittin' ta do the roll...You out....Go on 'bout yo' business." 💯💯💯❤❤❤💪💪💪🔥🔥🔥💎💎💎
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Exactly, u better Talk about it💯
💥 boom just like that
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After 2 grown boys back-to-back, God has blessed me with a real man. Thank you so much for this video.
Blessed! Congratulations god is good!
I am next, please pray 🤲
@@j-tenn226 I'm in agreement with you. You are next! 🙏🏽
“You need to smell a stench of burnt sun on his skin because he’s been busting his butt…” Now THAT’S a hard working man right there!
Tony is a whole comedian😂😂. I learned something and I also got a good laugh 😂😂
I said he should do stand-up 🤣🤣🤣
@@asill.6668 IKR! I’d definitely buy a ticket😂😂
The funniest part is that it sends he don’t even know it 😂
Hahaha Botha heads 😂
I’ll pass on any man chasing a rap career! Don’t want it at all!
😂😂frfr
@@iamTiffanyEmpowermentPodcast lol 😂 listen 🎧, the moment you say you be in the studio! Lol 😂 it’s a wrap lol 😂
Been there done that….don’t not 🛑 ladies keep on going! 😂 I leveled up tho and got me a grown provider man who allowed me to be a wife of leisure…..it’s great here! Thank God I stopped the foolish ride or die ish
😂😂😂😂😂😂
I'm over here making a salad for dinner while listening to this video. I can't tell you how many times I started cracking up! Tony is too funny! But he tells No Lies! He understood the assignment 💯
😂😂😂 I kw right
@@cleovintora59 😁
Yes he tell a joke but never tell a lie fr😂😂😂 he’s hilarious
@@kikiprettylife23 This 💯😅
he's legit a comedian!
There it go right there! I couldn’t find the word to describe it but women need security and men need physical. I can honestly say I craved my man when I felt the most secure with him. It goes beyond just money or even women. I hate that women put on this front like they just be horny and ready to go no matter what. No when you’re making my life feel secure with you like you’re leading me to something that real the more secure I feel
“If there ain’t no stop, you jumpin out, and doin a roll”….😂 that was too funny Tony!!!
Tony you’re always unintentionally funny. “Head rubs on both of thee heads” 🤣👏🏾😂😂 Nothing but real facts in this video 👏🏾
SAY LESS 🤣👌🏾
Thank you for getting it straight; because a woman CANNOT respect her man if he refuses to provide for his wife and children....The only exception would be if he is disabled. Thank you!!!
My dad did some almost illegal things to provide for my mom. I thought scandalous at the time, now I feel more respect for it! This was insightful, thank you. 🔥🙏
Almost illegal? Or illegal? Because I don’t think staying with a man doing illegal things is the right thing for a woman to do... Sheri didn’t support Tony’s “almost illegal” activities.
@@kaynetharutherford7975 totally agreed 💯
Tony is right. Take any job. Let me say this.. Dont sleep Walmart or starter jobs.. I got a job there, started in bakery . I went to trade school & got associates degree.. I got promoted into health & wellness.. I climbed the ranks.. I've seen men & women climb the ladder there & other places.. U show up & show out , you never know where u can go.
Tony had me rollin on the ‘sloppy toppy part’ 🤣
This video is so real and Tony had me hollering 😭😭😭; thank you big brother. Keep allowing the Lord to disciple and use you. 🤞👑
“……..ok….say less….we fittin to be broke then….”
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Congrats on your amazing come up! Your son is livin better than me for sure!!!! 💕🙌🏽💕
I'm from a family of two I started with a one-bedroom home and now I have my dream house thank you, God.😊🎉
If he not a provider i already know the men ain’t about me & im outta there
I have always met men willingly providing for others, except me, and it seems to have taken a heavy emotional toll.
I wish someone had told me this decades ago! Thanks, Tony, for your life-changing content! Happy Birthday to your son!
It’s never too late. Today, I tell you the secret: Give your heart to the Lord Jesus Christ and you’ll testify about a better life. It’s spiritual! May God be with you !
I don’t bring nothing to the table but my presence and I have never been a ride or die ‼️
I felt that Tony. Your a great man of God. Your family is blessed.
He spoke some real shit just then, do not be a ride or die.
So true Tony. I know of a guy who just started a meat packing/delivery business when his warehouse got flooded. All meat and machinery destroyed. He never borrowed money from his wife or touched the personal savings he started for all his 3 kids. He borrowed money from a friend who he made a business partner. His business is thriving today. He even said that that set back though painful and caused him many sleepless nights became such a blessing coz he realized his strength and what God could do for him ( he a praying man). We need to let our men be men. Thanks always for all your videos Tony.
a WORD. The ENTIRE playbook in 15 mins and 28 seconds. Cheers to YOU TG!
If this wasnt PERFECT timing. Dating is tough and I really have learned the hard way to stop giving boyfriends or men Im dating, husband benefits. If you have not made a list of things you will not do until marriage MAKE ONE. The word NO has gotten me ghosted so many times. Just when im thinking i should bend alittle Brother Tony comes through clutch. Im sorry I already have kids im not looking to adopt one i can sleep with. Yuck just saying that makes me nauseated
Exactly.
@@PeaceBeStill- these man will try to sweet talk you out of everything but your common sense lol
Good for you most men are just looking for a woman they can use and have fun with until they get bored.
I cannot😂 stop 😂 laughing at work😂😂😂😂 4:37 ".....the sloppy toppy,.......on her back, on her knees and popping it"😂😂😂😂
"and popping it"
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Happy 16th birthday 🎉to your oldest son and congratulations on his first car! I totally agree💯 with this message.
Happy 16th Birthday to your young man!
I don't think men should be competing with their woman financially though.
damn right. they need to surpass her. outright. out the gate. sadly, so many of them DONT GET THE EDUCATION
@@nzingahoney but that’s what I’m saying. I don’t think it’s THAT deep that he should look at what his woman earns and try his hardest to earn more just because he’s a man and he should be the “provider” 🤔 you can be the provider without trying to OUT earn your wife. It just seems like a wrong point of focus to me Personally.
@@EsiriE I used to think so, too. We can all get into our heads and forget that the reality of male and female does not always neatly align with what is FAIR on paper. He, as a man, needs sex as much as his energy will allow. He cares if I am tired and all that but it doesn't stop him needing sex. So I need to be ready to learn what he needs and communicate to him what I need for me to be able to keep up with his desire. And I, as a woman, need peace of mind, and HAVING to work, to provide myself and my family what I need to have that peace of mind (and God knows healthy and environmentally friendly food clothing and other needed items is COSTLY) does NOT provide that. So he needs to be looking to out earn me so I can fully relax. Periodt.
@N J yep! Agreed! Or you will stay in your masculine energy. That dynamic doesn't work. Men need to have more.
Oh my gosh 😂😂😂😂❤❤❤God bless you Tony!! That jumping out the car and rent D had me rolling!! But you are 100 % right !! I'm talking tonthis man and he's everything you described he's chasing his dreams but also working his but off!! And he ain't for much but he dose so much for me and in return I love on him !! But no S I told him I don't want to get in to fornication and so far he's still here! Been 4 months going strong ❤❤❤
Peach cobbler? That’s a new one. 😂
Oh no, check his other videos. He always talking about staying of yo back and don’t let a man eat the peach cobbler Lol 😂
Lower case “h” 😂😂 hood 😂😂😂😂
I received this message, but definitely not without tears.... from crying laughing at Tony 😂😂😂😂 (too comical 😅)
“And popping it…” made me choke on my tea😂😂😂😂😂 always giving 💯
Lol😅I had to go back twice to make sure i heard him right and yeah he said it.. hilarious.
When he explained what men want and how they will work you… he is not telling one fib 🥴😂😂😂
What he meant by that?
Started from the bottom now yall here ❤. Praises to you and your family.
If there ain’t no stop….you hopping’ out and doing the roll 😂😂😂 Tony the scream that I just scrome!
Wow! He is so blessed to have parents like you who are living in their purpose! Bless you, tony 💓✨️
I appreciate the candid honesty.. It is well put!! & well needed.. I agree.. Providing is a trait of a good man that's serious about a woman & their future! I personally can not respect a man that will not/ can not provide.. I am in my mid 30's ,so at this stage not wasting time!
I hope someone is telling men all this - they don't seem to know!
Great message! Thanks for sharing🙌🏾
Tony I absolutely love how you keep it sooooooo real for both the fellas and the ladies! Your sense of humor is an added bonus. 😂
Amen Tony ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ this is such a blessing and testimony .
Thank you Tony! I pray that you and your family are blessed beyond measure
This is beautiful, I love it !!! Keep the wisdom flowing !!! Blessings to you & your beautiful family !!!
Thank you for this message tony
I could cry I know that has to be a good feeling !!! Blessed
You kept it allllll the way real on this one. 💯👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
Im going to start calling TG the "no filter" Life Coach!!!😂 But we need this kind of truth!
Thank you for this message.
Dang! I love how real Tony keeps it out here!!!!! This is so good. 🙌🏽🔥🔥🔥
Solid points. Thank you 🙏🏽
This right here was on time AND on point!!!❤
Let me dip dat stick real quick. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 maaaaaaan you are hilarious !! GOD BLESS! ♥️🙏🏽
Happy blessed birthday to your son Tony. Continued blessings to you and your family. God bless!!
Blessings to young Tony. Great parents keep being blessed. Thank you, thank you, thank you for sharing. Appreciate it.
Great sayings.. you speak truth!
You absolutely tell the truth and you do so with absolute hilarity!..😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Great Insight Tony! Happy 16th Birthday to Tony Jr ! 🥳🎉🙏🎂That is a BIG milestone & BLESSING… Congrats!! He definitely earned that Bday gift 🚘 with those straight A’s 📚 🙏💙
Hello, Blessed Tribe!!🎉 I find this message so calming and reassuring. ❤🎉
😮, I haven’t seen all of your vlogs. I’m speaking old school now, Tony, you hit the nail on the head. I knew it was true, I liked seeing & hearing it. TY
Class is in session and I'm here to learn! Thanks Tony!
You preaching today sir. Excellent message. God bless
Happy birthday to your son! Tony I’m a huge fan! Needed to hear this
HAPPY BIRTHDAY to your oldest son!!! 🥳🎊🎉
Thank you for your advice! 🙏🏾
“Head rubs on both heads”💀💀
@@cherankimiorak1739 thaaaats what took me! 😂
Happy sweet 16 to your firstborn. God's Blessings to you all. This is so true. The man is bred to provide as God provides. HalleluYah. You all are a success story. Thanks for your Truth filled videos about men. God bless you Tony. You are a man of integrity. Wish more men would watch your videos and learn these Truths and put them into practice. It would be a different world. Yes women Do Not take care of a man.
You jumping out and rolling 😂
I didn't click on this video expecting much, but left with exactly what I needed! Thank you for the education and for being a willing vessel for Christ. Be blessed, be a blessing
Very happy for your family. Real advice for real life. Thank you.
Thank you so much for being so real!!!
Tony thank you very much I love this I would listen to you on this topic all day...I needed to hear this to clear up some doubts that were lurking in my head....and thanks for sharing your personal experience...🙏
Thank you, Tony!!! 💯
Shalom sir
Thank you for your wisdom.
I know, when I tune into your videos I will always get the truth, which is so hard to come by, these days.
Just wishing, I had heard these lessons long ago.
Better late than never. God is definitely using you.
I am in separation from past person. I did end it abruptly with him, when. I realized, through my intuition, he was juggling me.
Been hearing, he is planning to contact me & wants to reconcile & make peace. So, this message is timely. My guard is up & I have boundaries, now & have been learning & listening to you & others along with healing. You have the most honest, straight forward messages of all. That's what I need to hear. 💅
What a testimony!!!
Happy 16th birthday to your son!!!! 🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂
Damn not you putting me on blast. A man who ssi ran out and we had to wait on the paperwork. 3 years later I couldn’t he had to go. 😮
Toni ……in the long run … I have yet to hear of a man who was NOT sexually cheating on his partner / wife / girlfriend …..cheating in these days is at the tip on the man’s fingers …..online and offline cheating it’s huge .
Yessss I’m so proud of y’all!!! 😩👏🏾👏🏾 HAPPY BIRTHDAY to your son!!
So happy to see u on Couples Retreat Tony 👏🏾👏🏾 them people need u shidd the world needs ur advice 😂 Congratulations 🫶🏽🙏🏾
I’m grateful for the channel. I have learned so much. I make sure each and every ad/commercial plays out in its entirety. It is the very least I can do to help keep this content coming.
Thank you Tony right on time ❤
HAHAHA omg “on her knees” i canttt
Thank you Tony for sharing your life. Your life is an example of what God will do in your life and I’m inspired to keep believing him and living the right way.
hahah You are RAW! Speaking TRUTH brother!!
Thanks for the info Tony 🙏🏽✨
Happy birthday to your son! You are a blessed man! Thank you for all the good words. May God bless your family !
No lies told. Ty Tony
It doesn’t get any more real than this…Thank you man of God for being an exceptional example of what being a real man entails. You’re a man of valor and integrity and we thank God for making a difference in this lopsided world. This was a great lesson with wit to boot 🙌🏽😎.
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THiS😊🙌🏾. WELL GUESS WHAT HE WON'T BE GETTING ANY OF THAT FROM ME 😂😂😂😂.
He just hit on the nail.. Keeping it real Tony made too many Good points 😊
I wish I saw the video 5years ago before I got with a grown boy. Thank God I am free now. 🙌🏽
Just sent this to my daughter ❤
Thanks Tony G
The gospel according to TG. I approve this message!!
Be blessed Sir!
Thank you for the advice! 🙏🏾