When Does A Man Stop Cheating?

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  • Опубликовано: 11 окт 2024
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  • @jameelahsalahuddin226
    @jameelahsalahuddin226 Год назад +89

    A chronic cheater will only stop cheating when he gets sick, is too old, no longer can perform well or the money ran out.

    • @babydii3487
      @babydii3487 6 месяцев назад +6

      💯💯💯 and still be out there tryna find something to lick

  • @peaceriver1793
    @peaceriver1793 Год назад +59

    My father said, when a man no longer has options, he stops cheating.

  • @FreeBirdee
    @FreeBirdee Год назад +284

    The safest relationship to be in is with yourself.

    • @LethalWeapon73
      @LethalWeapon73 Год назад +15

      I agree and what I plan to do is take myself out on dates.

    • @doraleslie8518
      @doraleslie8518 Год назад +12

      I totally agree with you. Who has time for hidden agendas & games. Continue loving yourself, dating yourself & putting yourself first!!!❤❤❤

    • @tlc6756
      @tlc6756 Год назад +12

      But safe isn't always rewarding. I'd rather find my soulmate and grow with him with God in our lives. I'm tired of being alone. There's no such thing as "safe" in this world anyway.
      I could say I don't ever want to travel in a car because I could get into a car accident, but I enjoy going places and my freedom to drive. Yes, maybe there's more of a chance of a husband cheating than us getting into a car accident, but with God all things are possible.

    • @FreeBirdee
      @FreeBirdee Год назад +9

      @@tlc6756 You know what is rewarding? Having the freedom and autonomy to choose your life path without limitations. Loving and relating with people without attaching and/or being codependent on them to keep you company. Waking up every morning realizing that you are love and that no one can love you more than you can love yourself. Good luck on your search for a soul mate…you’re going to need it!!

    • @tlc6756
      @tlc6756 Год назад +2

      @@FreeBirdee haha...well I think if you truly loved yourself like you say, you wouldn't have a need to make demeaning insults. This may be why you are bitter towards relationships. Yes, I agree, it's great to be single because there's no one to answer to and there's alot of freedom. But there can be a price to pay if we truly want to be married. Being married doesn't make the relationship codependent. With a spouse, each one can end of having freedom in other ways if each one is giving in healthy ways in the relationship. Perhaps you haven't come to a place of depth or insight yet about relationships it sounds. I wish you the best.

  • @joannaturyk9360
    @joannaturyk9360 Год назад +497

    It sounds like being faithful to a woman is a struggle for a man, even if he is in love. That's the difference between a man and woman. If a woman is happy in a relationship and in love she doesn't wants to or needs to go with another man. Correct me if im wrong.

    • @angelaslaton3211
      @angelaslaton3211 Год назад +83

      I don't agree. My grand parents were married for over 60 years and we're always together. 150 percent didn't cheat. There are a lot of stories of faithful couples. Men need to stop watching pornography, and stay off the internet. No way would I ever listen to a cheating man talk to me about God. Or teach me.

    • @realtalk1709
      @realtalk1709 Год назад +6

      Wrong…..once hypergamy hits you’ll sleep wit the gardener, paper boy and the milkman🤷‍♂️

    • @BigDeejaypro
      @BigDeejaypro Год назад +33

      @@angelaslaton3211 no way you could even possibly know that for a fact smh

    • @angelaslaton3211
      @angelaslaton3211 Год назад +34

      @@BigDeejaypro "Thou shall not commit adultery" Not everyone breaks that commandment, they fear God too much.

    • @angelaslaton3211
      @angelaslaton3211 Год назад +19

      @@BigDeejaypro also when a man commits adultery, he has to tell his wife about it because then she gets to make a decision whether she wants to continue to stay married or not. If he doesn't tell her, then he's withholding by lying Now he also has an evil demonic soul tie in his marriage as well. And being a continual liar as well The Bible says not to grieve the holy Spirit, So do you think it pastor who is doing these things is hearing from God? I assure you their not.

  • @benithacalloway8286
    @benithacalloway8286 Год назад +263

    When I don’t have time to watch your content I still put a like on it because you’re genuine and trustworthy

  • @RealAndrea
    @RealAndrea Год назад +283

    I’m realizing Tony is too much truth for a lot of these people. But Lord give Him strength to stay in his purpose.

    • @angelicsweetness444
      @angelicsweetness444 Год назад +6

      Right ‼️❤️‍🔥

    • @ptalester
      @ptalester Год назад +4

      Mr. Gaskin,
      I am a true believer. I believe God has a man especially for me. I don't want a man that has no discipline. I don't want all those women in me.

    • @ptalester
      @ptalester Год назад +1

      I don't like or trust your advice. May God continue to bless you anyway. I think you need prayer.

    • @tracysanchez2139
      @tracysanchez2139 Год назад +1

      @@ptalester i think we all need prayer, no matter how well we’re doing in life. Be fr

    • @soniaspicer2050
      @soniaspicer2050 Год назад +1

      There is some truth in wat he is saying but it's because men tend to lack in discipline when it comes to cheating because of their respect level towards women. They don't have a problem withholding when something is a deal breaker for them.

  • @melissajdelacruz
    @melissajdelacruz Год назад +193

    I really wish more men thought like this. The family unit is suffering badly.

    • @IAMJEWEL7
      @IAMJEWEL7 Год назад +16

      It definitely is in the black community…. I see too many broken homes in the black community

    • @xyz-mc5of
      @xyz-mc5of Год назад

      The down low manosphere is spiritual wa*fare and has destroyed and turned out those men who let their weak minds be infiltr.

    • @transitionsnc
      @transitionsnc Год назад +5

      Agreed.

    • @gingerandspice1209
      @gingerandspice1209 Год назад

      Blk men don't value marriage or blk women

    • @maria_goretti
      @maria_goretti Год назад +2

      Yep

  • @angieponders3844
    @angieponders3844 Год назад +12

    When he begins respecting himself.

  • @954dreamer1
    @954dreamer1 Год назад +61

    Kinda reached a point in my life where I view people cheating on each other as something trashy like a jerry springer episode or judge Judy episode

    • @954dreamer1
      @954dreamer1 Год назад +9

      While no one has done it to me. I know if someone did best thing to do is leave them. I’m not going to lose my mental sanity or be kicked out of social groups bc of being withal a cheater

    • @954dreamer1
      @954dreamer1 Год назад +1

      Being with a cheater is social suicide. Please everyone living in America, don’t feel obligated to stay with a cheater

    • @dublingirl1691
      @dublingirl1691 Год назад +2

      🙌🏻🙌🏻💯🎯

    • @954dreamer1
      @954dreamer1 Год назад +5

      @@Negative_A It really is 😂

  • @doraleslie8518
    @doraleslie8518 Год назад +15

    No one has time for games. Women, please put yourselves first and don't surrender power to game players!!! You DERSERVE BETTER!!!❤

  • @diadash
    @diadash Год назад +55

    This why after many years my husband and I have separate rooms. I need at least 8 hours of solid sleep and the snoring and different sleep patterns were killing my vibe. Things are better than ever. I can see why they did that back in the day.

    • @Queengemi5
      @Queengemi5 Год назад +1

      How y’all get things back together

    • @diadash
      @diadash Год назад +17

      @@Queengemi5 Giving each other space.

    • @tlc6756
      @tlc6756 Год назад +3

      Hopefully you can still commit to intimacy though. If you are Christians, the Bible says that you shouldn't deny each other sexual Intimacy (it never said you have to sleep in the same bed though, lol).

    • @diadash
      @diadash Год назад +11

      @@tlc6756 If anything it increased it. No one is in the mood if they don't sleep right .

    • @tlc6756
      @tlc6756 Год назад +8

      @@diadash that's wonderful 😊

  • @KFontLab
    @KFontLab Год назад +44

    Whew!!!!!…. Thank you!
    Commitment is a matter of Discipline not Love. Ladies please remember that. I tell this to ladies who ask me all the time.
    Preach sir!

  • @n.Lenice
    @n.Lenice Год назад +20

    I honestly wasn't going to listen to this video bc a relationship is not a top priority now, BUT I usually do click on all Tony's videos when they pop up in my feed just to hit the like button and then go bout my business 😂 BUT for whatever reason I stayed, set the speed on 2.0 (I've found that I prefer to listen to videos and podcasts at high speeds) and so he began. It was nothing but an answer to a prayer I've been longing for for quite some time. Thank you, Tony. God finally said, "You gonna stop and listen TODAY"😂

  • @joiagenae
    @joiagenae Год назад +14

    When Tony gives the disclaimer about being a man.. it always takes me out bc he bout to go in 😂😂 lol

  • @rekindledaffinity520
    @rekindledaffinity520 Год назад +23

    The more he talks the more.I don’t want a man there behavior is what I don’t want around me👁️

  • @stay_blessed23
    @stay_blessed23 Год назад +45

    Yes Tony go off! 😂 As long as I’m good with God and doing what I’m supposed to do, he gonna make sure I have everything I need on this earth until I’m gone! Very wonderful testimony Tony! I will take this knowledge in now that I’m 26🙏🏽

    • @ptalester
      @ptalester Год назад

      Mr. Gaskins,
      According to you no man has any discipline! Secondly, I don't want al those soul ties in me. No, no no! I want someone to love me for me. Your wife, I wonder how sure she can be about you?

  • @MeetMeOnTheMoon
    @MeetMeOnTheMoon Год назад +122

    You be hitting where it hurts. I feel this in my heart, my stomach. My eyes are getting puffy. I’ve been affirming “I accept me as I am” every time the feelings of unworthiness come up. Oh here come the tears.

    • @lillianthomas9046
      @lillianthomas9046 Год назад +9

      l can honestly sympathize with you sweetie...praying / pouring out to GOD and DAILY AFFIRMATIONS is how you will build your self LOVE...l am praying for you...🤗❤🙏

    • @OctaviaMonique2
      @OctaviaMonique2 Год назад +8

      You are beautiful! I affirm this with you! 🙏🏾

    • @gapeach7814
      @gapeach7814 Год назад +2

      🙏🏽♥️

    • @whiteswan8210
      @whiteswan8210 Год назад +6

      We are WORTHY, and sometimes the person that we are pouring our ALL into, and if it's not being reciprocated, then they are vibrating on a lower level than we are, and we deserve better Queens.
      I'd rather be alone, than to have someone that I have to share, just because he's a MAN. No excuses!!!

    • @loismartin9634
      @loismartin9634 Год назад +1

      ​​@@whiteswan8210 Yes! I agree yes it hurts like hell when the man we love cheats. If it is one time and you pray seek God's guidance....you may forgive it one time BUT for me if you continue to cheat & disrespect our vows (if married) I WILL not stay period...no matter how much I love him or how well he takes care of me! And the same thing goes if we are dating "exclusively". Now if we are not exclusive that's another thing. I am worthy of love & a commitment from a man...I am not tolerating that anymore! I've lived and value myself much now than I did in my younger years.

  • @mszaire5705
    @mszaire5705 Год назад +12

    Exactly..my husband says he fears God..I tell folks all the time that my husband's faithfulness and commitment has little to do with me.

  • @Jewelz90
    @Jewelz90 Год назад +13

    Man this man asked for a child, I get prego, he lost his son, & while I’m baking our child, he goes on a vacation & cheats. I tried to make it work but I can’t get over the face that he cheated while I was creating our child. He said the other woman offered the vacation since he lost his child but what woman gets involved in such an act while she knows his expecting a child (after losing his only one!) I know it takes two to tangle. So they can keep poisoning each other & leave mines alone. I’m over it. He plays like his all godly but constantly cheats! I need my power back. & your video is so true. He says “his doing what is needed for us” whole time she’s helping him get recruited into her job company. I’m sooos drained. My daughter is only 2 months & he just got his own Apt & says it’s for “us” yeah right! I tell him all the time his better off single! & I’ll show him better then telling him

  • @AmberOJohnson
    @AmberOJohnson Год назад +13

    All men should watch this and TAP IN!

  • @AmberOJohnson
    @AmberOJohnson Год назад +78

    I love all of this message and I’m only 22 mins in…come on Pastor, Coach, Mentor Man Of God!!! Praying continued blessings for you and and your family!

  • @TheRuchingDiva
    @TheRuchingDiva Год назад +7

    "My credit with God is good"... 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @acomment5991
    @acomment5991 Год назад +26

    Before I even watch, I’ll answer. They stop cheating when they bellies pop out and their prostate becomes an issue. Then you can have them to yourself.

    • @Liyahw2326
      @Liyahw2326 Год назад +2

      😂😂😂😂 might just be true

    • @Emptytopfloor
      @Emptytopfloor Год назад +1

      Eww……no thanks. 😅

    • @acomment5991
      @acomment5991 Год назад +1

      @@Liyahw2326 it’s true. That’s how the baby boomer women stayed married for 40 years. Grin and bear it until they age out of being desired 🤣

    • @acomment5991
      @acomment5991 Год назад +1

      @@Emptytopfloor 🤣

  • @vikki7286
    @vikki7286 Год назад +46

    This message is the confirmation I needed, Tony. Thank you! I'm being tested, tempted, and ostracized right now from several different angles--- including a married man having the audacity to proposition me.
    My gangsta is being tested at the HIGHEST level, but the spirit told me to keep being a good person.
    Then I heard this message TODAY.
    Thank you!!! Thank you!!! Thank you!!!!!
    God bless you and your family, Mr. and Mrs. Gaskins!!!!

  • @Fabii._
    @Fabii._ Год назад +21

    I’ve been rewatching numerous videos of yours.. you’re pure gold

  • @stephaniegrace8993
    @stephaniegrace8993 Год назад +3

    60yrs, trying to figure stuff out for years. God's spiritual wisdom is ageless, timeless. Thank you (UK).

  • @wechwech695
    @wechwech695 Год назад +12

    Tony’s so unintentionally funny 😂

    • @moniqueb387
      @moniqueb387 Месяц назад +1

      I swear. Not hit her with the $5😂 That's some discount 😻 forreal.

  • @emunique
    @emunique Год назад +21

    Yeah every time I watch a video of you Tony I always learn something different.
    Love isn’t enough for men .
    I’ve witness a lot of men say this even in todays music. Once I get to know the man I see the root of there decisions in life.
    God really holds me accountable and shifts my perspective .
    I love this message by the way. Keep sharing the truth.
    God bless you❤

  • @KrystleLaughter
    @KrystleLaughter Год назад +27

    I love the way Tony does his videos. He puts in so much information, and I always get something I didn't expect. You have a lifelong supporter. Your messages have genuinely changed my life. I was a broken and insecure mother of 7 who didn't know her worth and value. You taught me how to value myself. I took what I learned from you and wrote a best-selling book called: Love Yourself First. Now I have a RUclips channel & I am working on my academy. Thank you, Tony!❤❤❤

  • @tarahbruno3793
    @tarahbruno3793 Год назад +17

    “ I’m spending my money”!! 😂 facts. No need to hold on to Money for dear life. This whole message was soooo good!

    • @user-wt9xm6xz6l
      @user-wt9xm6xz6l Год назад +1

      That part took me out 😂💀💀😭 Tony is hilarious man

  • @weareallone6148
    @weareallone6148 Год назад +18

    Preach, Tony, preach! When one lives in Righteousness, God is going to Bless them in all areas of their life! Stay Blessed, Tony because you live in Righteousness. Thank you for guiding the Ones who are listening.🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @diamondgold5277
    @diamondgold5277 Год назад +95

    Some Men will stop cheating once he hits a Wheel Chair, on a Cain, a Walker and wearing Dentures lost all his hair on his head, and his wee wee not working no more, then he ready to settle down talking about he loves you and he's waiting you to cook him dinner 😂

  • @tieonneyvonne1222
    @tieonneyvonne1222 Год назад +36

    Tony, I want to thank you for all of your life-changing content. Your Growth Club, Saturday sessions, and RUclips videos have helped me grow so much over the past year.

  • @yasminogbu8929
    @yasminogbu8929 Год назад +5

    I agree! A god fearing man! There is nothing like it! You don’t need to worry about him listing after the next chick or watching porn or cheating! He is accountable to his maker who he knows sees EVERYTHING!! HUGE DIFFERENCE

  • @yourfuturedocburenbeiya
    @yourfuturedocburenbeiya Год назад +30

    I have so much respect for you & rare men like you. I hope there are more men in the world who grows up to live life the way you do with this solid character, values, morals, etc. That means a lot more than money/status. Thank you for all you do & I love watching/listening to these videos whenever I get a chance. Your delivery is always on point & I literally lol when you say certain things. Stay blessed & God bless to you and your family! 🙏🏽

  • @angelshevell
    @angelshevell Год назад +8

    You are a true man of Integrity...thank you man of God, for your honesty and openness. Thank you for using your gift of telling the truth❤

  • @thankyouforfavor8396
    @thankyouforfavor8396 Год назад +20

    WHEN YOU WALKING IN YOUR PURPOSE GOD GOT YOU. IT'S NOT JUST THE MONEY. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY!! WHEN GOD BLESS YOU HE ADDS NO SORROW. PRESS DOWN SHAKEN TOGETHER AND RUNNING OVER!!!🙏🙏❤

  • @PeachReverie
    @PeachReverie Год назад +6

    I'm giving up on love, just sounds like there's no hope

    • @Emptytopfloor
      @Emptytopfloor Год назад

      I keep hearing men are lonely and yet they can’t stop cheating? No thanks. I’m happy with my own company.

  • @Baquetsartbakery
    @Baquetsartbakery Год назад +9

    PUT ALL OF YOUR TRUST IN CREATOR AND HE WILL DIRECT YOUR PATH!

  • @fenesss
    @fenesss Год назад +14

    Thank you Lord for this video!!! Just a reminder of the blessing you have for me after the storm!! Sometimes you get weary because of the storm. But the storm should make you happy because there is a blessing at the end of it! Just hold on and keep the faith, it's something beautiful waiting for you when it's all over!! Thank you Jesus for the storm!!!!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️

  • @teishahowlett6342
    @teishahowlett6342 Год назад +2

    That part right there when tony said I’m not fixing to call my Wife, and his facial Expression, I laughed and rewind for about 3 Minutes, that was so damn funny..

  • @tlc6756
    @tlc6756 Год назад +6

    If a husband is a Christian, he should already be in touch with his purpose...which is to love and cherish his wife (and to raise his children if they have them).

  • @clarkclarke
    @clarkclarke Год назад +14

    Very powerful Tony
    I wonder if people will ever come to realize that cheating creates nothing positive .. it's like smoking .. what are you left with ... Nothing you can take to a bank .. or like picking up someone else's scraps off the ground ....😫
    continued blessings to you Mr G ....
    You deserve EVERY blessing coming your way 💕🙏🏾

  • @love7loyalty-MHA
    @love7loyalty-MHA Год назад +9

    Thank you, Uncle Tony. Today I've learned the difference between jail vs prison. I had no idea. This video is full of GEMS 💎

  • @Konfident_Lee
    @Konfident_Lee Год назад +5

    "You're not going to sacrifice for God, for long, without reaping the benefits"💯🎯

  • @tlc6756
    @tlc6756 Год назад +8

    I think love can be enough for a man if he lost a woman he loved because he cheated in the past. Some men do learn that it wasn't worth it and become stronger/wiser the next time around.

  • @angelaslaton3211
    @angelaslaton3211 Год назад +11

    I was in a serious relationship with a guy and I know he never cheated. The others did though. Not every guy cheats. Not even in the most horrific situation s in the relationship. I think cheating is an individual thing. Low self esteem, insecure, wife won't give him sex of any kind, boredom etc .Men and women should never be alone with the opposite sex either. Pentecostals send witnesses when a brother or sister needs help. No meeting a husband without his wife present. Big No No. Stay off the streets too, and away from big booty clubs and flirtatious women. And the internet!!

  • @Kingdom_Women_Rise_41
    @Kingdom_Women_Rise_41 Год назад +4

    Amen tell ‘‘em Tony, it’s the Lord faithfulness. God will reward the faithful

  • @marrencebaraquiel
    @marrencebaraquiel Год назад +5

    you helping a lot of women including myself. thank you so much tony!

  • @gailhughes1258
    @gailhughes1258 Год назад +4

    YES LORD, THIS MAN IS TELLING THE TRUTH.

  • @lizmestanza4891
    @lizmestanza4891 Год назад +4

    Im going through spiritual warfare and enemy wants to also bring down my children!

    • @SassyMrsK
      @SassyMrsK Год назад +1

      Same

    • @MysticKueen-y7d
      @MysticKueen-y7d Год назад

      🙏🙏🙏

    • @lizmestanza4891
      @lizmestanza4891 Год назад +1

      @The Lovely Life thank you very much! I pray that God uses you in a very special way in others’ lives.

  • @kimberleymcdonald9235
    @kimberleymcdonald9235 Год назад +3

    Your wife is a very lucky and blessed young lady. I'm sure you are too, to have her in your life, as well. Keep up the good work. You sound like my step sister, she says her kids aren't getting any of her money either. I understand you both.

  • @lisarichey7029
    @lisarichey7029 6 месяцев назад +1

    I believe he is totally correct! I love his speaking. Ive always wanted to know a mans perspective

  • @goddessk4610
    @goddessk4610 Год назад +1

    Not the part about playing with the scammers 😂😂

  • @KhaliahAli
    @KhaliahAli Год назад +8

    Very powerful message brother!

  • @hip-hopchromosomes4858
    @hip-hopchromosomes4858 Год назад +1

    What’s the cost fo a lil such and such? - “Oh, Fih dawlahs”

  • @qscott888
    @qscott888 Год назад +3

    Oh the tap-ins coming in I’m sure on this one. 😂 listen to the end…so many takeaways in this one here.

  • @renategolucky8973
    @renategolucky8973 Год назад +2

    Tony, you are awesome!!
    “I’m spending my money” you funny to me!!!🤣🤣🤣😆

  • @phylliswilliams2391
    @phylliswilliams2391 Год назад +10

    I needed this topic today! Thank you Tony!

  • @AuntieJett3134
    @AuntieJett3134 Год назад

    I am cracking up because I'm one of those "saving" folks and Tony says..."I'm spending my money!!" cause you right, them kids will blow your entire savings!! Lmbo...

  • @SassyMrsK
    @SassyMrsK Год назад +2

    😂 when he started talking about spending all his money 😂

  • @maria_goretti
    @maria_goretti Год назад +2

    So damn on point. The point of surrender to God and doing what's right by Him in obedience brings the blessing and overflow.....God and hustle and grind.....thank you for sharing those necessary wisdom pearls

  • @Honey-vz1qq
    @Honey-vz1qq Год назад +7

    15:59 I was listening but at this point 15:59 my spirit shook my body. I know for a fact that that is true! Abundant...!!!!!!

  • @LarennPBel
    @LarennPBel Год назад +6

    I love listening to his content. Thank you Tony!!!!!!!

  • @stephaniechatman3679
    @stephaniechatman3679 Год назад +5

    Amen Great Topic in the buisness and or should I say The Oath Of God is very serious with which A lot of people should not sign up for marriage if they are not mentally physically and spiritually and emotionally ready it is levels to a prosperous and healthy marriage because at times when the body mind and or spirit gets weak you have to stay devoted to that husband and or wife in order to grow its like saying anybody can make a baby but it takes a real man or woman to raise one same as a MARRIAGE God Bless you and your Wife and Hope you keep spreading this information ! Fear no one but God ! ❤

  • @simplymekia1563
    @simplymekia1563 Год назад +5

    Amen! Love that part that my credit with God is good 🙏🏾.

  • @jennleadley9080
    @jennleadley9080 Год назад +6

    Makes sense .. my ex was never a one women man . After we broke up he child with another women and has a son . Now he is finally “ tapped in” with her. That’s where the purpose came in . It’s sad though that a man needs a purpose to be 150% in . 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @queenefuah444
      @queenefuah444 Год назад

      I promise you he will cheat on her! Be happy you dodged that bullet.

  • @joannwright3552
    @joannwright3552 Год назад +2

    Very true! Thank God for your relationship you have with God. Many one night stands received AIDS from cheating affairs. I pray God will continue to keep you. Amen!

  • @tead9684
    @tead9684 Год назад +65

    So good. I was gonna say that men stop cheating when they physically can't anymore.😏
    And thanks for that reminder nugget about "you can't keep a person unless they want to be kept" in so many words.
    Some of the things that you said are kind of terrifying & heartbreaking because women think so much differently than men do. But I appreciate all of the advice nonetheless.Thank you again.

    • @MichelleNagir
      @MichelleNagir Год назад +4

      💯

    • @Missybella92227
      @Missybella92227 Год назад +11

      What I’m experiencing currently.
      My current BF was married for 13 years and openly admitted to constantly cheating on her.
      He is 38 and suffers from ED. I’ve never experienced this and it’s tough for me. I know it’s likely this condition that contributes to his monogamy.

    • @la6136
      @la6136 Год назад +24

      @@Missybella92227 why are you putting up with that? If it was the other way around he would have left you. You deserve way better. His ED is his karma.

    • @MichelleNagir
      @MichelleNagir Год назад

      @@la6136 Yep, probably from porn use.

    • @ugreene1
      @ugreene1 Год назад +2

      So is this why you’re with him? Do you feel you deserve better?

  • @odiliagaspar4339
    @odiliagaspar4339 Год назад +4

    😊wow this speaks: thank you for sharing. Helps me to understand more about my husband, ease things with my wondering chatting mind this silence all that mind chatter.

  • @gailpdesigns
    @gailpdesigns Год назад +2

    Please Tony next video “Rooted & Grounded” how to recognize it in yourself first!

  • @familyjewel
    @familyjewel Год назад +3

    36:45 is gospel!!! This is how I made the choice to align with the husband. Lack of character & discipline scares me.

  • @yoditassefa7126
    @yoditassefa7126 Год назад +2

    Thank you for being honest. We all need to hear and know the truth.

  • @the_feisty_vegan_llc
    @the_feisty_vegan_llc Год назад +6

    THIS! Very encouraging, spirit-filled message. Thanks, TG!

  • @Fitbody_bysarah
    @Fitbody_bysarah Год назад +6

    Most men who approach me are married🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @cmack3795
      @cmack3795 8 месяцев назад +1

      They're sick of their wives

  • @lisasmilez
    @lisasmilez Год назад +2

    Brother Tony the last 5 mins! 😂😂😂😂😂God bless you! I love your teaching style 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @MichelleNagir
    @MichelleNagir Год назад +2

    Good will win in the end!! Makes me so happy because I do go through some attacks and I know it’s short term.

  • @UnpredictableAri
    @UnpredictableAri Год назад +5

    Your wife hit the jackpot with you, a man on his purpose/faithful/getting money. The problem with this topic of men cheating though, is that every man may not figure out his purpose or have the direction to get there, leaving many men still open to cheating and broken homes due to most women not allowing that and leaving

    • @tlc6756
      @tlc6756 Год назад +2

      If the husband is a true Christian, he already has a purpose...which is to love and cherish his wife.

  • @profmj7630
    @profmj7630 Год назад +3

    Yes sir Tony! This is a powerful message and helpful when picking a future husband

  • @chrissysam7949
    @chrissysam7949 Год назад +6

    Thanks for this TG! Praying for all of us 🙌🏾❤️🙏🏾

  • @sandeejaye7239
    @sandeejaye7239 Год назад +1

    I'm so glad I listened to this one. Faith without works is dead.

  • @HaliSue2009
    @HaliSue2009 Год назад +4

    Enjoy the fruits of your labor, TG 🙏🏽

  • @sherryharvey9873
    @sherryharvey9873 Год назад +2

    Amen.. It takes more than Love to have a Successful relationship.

  • @purely7762
    @purely7762 Год назад +1

    “The devils throwing snares & God’s throwing blessings, people don’t know the difference “ This blessed me as my husband left me, his beautiful, faithful, forgiving wife with all of our kids living in horrendous conditions, got a new car, house, job, promoted several times while children & I don’t see a dollar.
    Snare made it make sense, mercy for his soul. I want God’s blessings that add no sorrow! Glad I listened to the end 😊

  • @teanna4569
    @teanna4569 Год назад +4

    Yessss men are very much so compartmentalized, and being disciplined within yourself is where it starts, its easy for men to live 2 and 3 different lifestyles, but god with make you pay that KARMIC DEBT back so the energy you dish out… is the energy you get right back ❤

  • @shegotstandards
    @shegotstandards Год назад +11

    Tony is so funny and keeps me smiling along with the good information he provides. I know Tony talks about relationships but he seems to light up and have a passion when he talks about business things LOL.😊

  • @lifegoeson1545
    @lifegoeson1545 Год назад +3

    I like how Mr Tony breaks things down an bring forth understanding. Thank you so much

  • @bobbycolebrook9335
    @bobbycolebrook9335 Год назад

    HEAVY ON THE “IM SPENDING MY MONEY” 😂😂😂😂

  • @channingtaylor9323
    @channingtaylor9323 7 месяцев назад

    This is truly amazing thank you Lord for changing this man’s heart and for blessing him and his family for his sacrifice of be obedient renewing his mind and his heart!!! This is so inspiring Ty for sharing!

  • @tejuanahardison7516
    @tejuanahardison7516 Год назад +2

    You just lit a fire underneath me Tony. I’m signing up for some courses classes etc. I’m manifesting a 100k business

  • @destiny2092
    @destiny2092 Год назад +3

    SPEAK ON IT TONY!!🙏💯🙏

  • @Fabulous_Four
    @Fabulous_Four Год назад +6

    Thank you for this, your words are always truth. Continue what you do, servicing God through your channel. Giving knowledge to many many people. 🙏🏽

  • @carlar801
    @carlar801 Год назад +5

    Thank you for the gems as always! Main thing you gotta fear God

  • @UCanHaveHim
    @UCanHaveHim Год назад +6

    This is why I'll never respect a man.... I'll never trust him therefore I'll never feel safe so he's no good to me.

  • @attcustomer1863
    @attcustomer1863 Год назад +1

    Thank you Tony I needed to hear your inspiration today I really did thank you ,you are a blessing,I love to see black love and black couples in a happy marriage

  • @Happyhour7
    @Happyhour7 Год назад

    I love me some Tony Gaskin. You are the man, brother. Love your family and wife. Keep up the good work. Sir.

  • @VirtuousWoman1143
    @VirtuousWoman1143 Год назад +1

    BLESSINGS VS. SNARES !!!! TONY U BETTER PREACH THAT THANG !!!!

  • @IAMJEWEL7
    @IAMJEWEL7 Год назад +1

    Sir we need generational wealth in our community!

  • @ciscotutorguy7214
    @ciscotutorguy7214 Год назад

    Your son is 16?! Wow! Time has flown! I remember when he was a lil kid playing soccer.

  • @Lookabove1
    @Lookabove1 5 месяцев назад

    All do respect Tony you have amazing videos its best to assist people to truely see others grow who dont ask for a raddle and a play pen