why i dropped out of nyu
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- Опубликовано: 2 окт 2024
- hi guys. so here's the video you guys have been asking for. hopefully it clears the air. there are also a couple other reasons that i didnt mention in the video, but i didnt want to ramble on for hours. i hope you understand why i came to this decision.
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Wow her gpa was 3.7 and she was disappointed...? You better not know my gpa 😂😂😂
nusaiba kindy same tho
nusaiba kindy omg I’m in 8th grade and it’s so hard and I have a 3.7 too SCARED FOR COLLEGE JSUQIFISIWIFJ
Miss Kay it’s college/school grade and it is out of 4.0
Miss Kay i believe it stands for grade point average. I’ve known if existence for as long as i can remember but legit have no idea how it actually works...yeah this is why im gonna drop out of college🙃
right
Proud of you girl! Your 80 year old self would thank you 🤠
Haley Pham ohh yes preach girl!
HALEYYYYYYYYYYYY
hakeyyyyyy omg!!!!!
Heyyyy beeeeech 🤪
Oof another one of my favorite RUclipsrs
Yikes $70,000 for NYU???? That's such a scam
Hahahahaha for me it was, but it can be worth it if you are able to take advantage of all the resources the city and school provide, which obviously I couldn’t
when most US colleges are worth that that much without aid its a BIG scam rip
No kidding 🤯
Well, she's from Canada so that international tuition though...
@@ceceria860 well NYU is private so intl or in state or domestic all doesn't matter, they all pay the same unless there's aid which NYU is quite infamous for.
College will always be there if you decide to go back. I'm currently in community college and I hope to transfer to a 4 year university. Although I still kind of think I'm missing out on the full college experience, being able to stay at home with my family has been so much better for my mental health and for money saving purposes. Just remember that everyone has their own path that they take 💕
I'm happy for you that your parents let you stay at home because of money reasons but most importantly for your mental health. I don't have parents. After my foster parent found out about how I got accepted to the community college (that I'm still currently at) she told me about if I lived on campus it would be easier for me because of classes/to meet people. I am glad I was able to move into the dorms but mentally after living I'm the dorms for a few months its mentally exhausting. My point is you arent really missing anything except being roomed with complete strangers that I dont understand how my roommates got matched up with me
Selena Y. Thank you for sharing!!! I’m actually just about done with my first semester. I can see where your foster parent was coming from because it has definitely sometimes been hard for me to get to class due to car issues. But on the other hand college is already such a huge transition from high school so being able to stay in an environment that you’re already familiar with can be a big help. This especially applies to those who are first generation college students and don’t have anyone who can tell them what it’s like. I’m wishing you good luck as you continue with school and life 😊
@@roxanna616 of course no problem. That's great to hear. I finished my first semester last week. I agree with where you're coming from about if you're familiar with the environment. It's just I wished she would understand that(or maybe she does idk). Are you a first generation college student? Since you brought that up... I hope your semester and college life goes well too :)
Hi Roxanna I totally get where you're coming from. I just finished community college this past May. I dont regret it, I know I saved thousands of dollars and I am not in debt. My plan was/is to transfer to a 4 year. I've gotten into the school I want to go to but I've decided to hold off because of finances. So it's been an interesting experience being home it's good and bad. It's like relaxing but stressful. I dont have pressure of grades and homework but there is also this uncertainty in it all. But I dont think its helped mentally, it's been an important time of self reflection
That is true, i do still want to earn a bachelors, masters and phd but atm im just aiming for my associates degree and im earning my cosmetology license and my cosmetology instructor license and just become a beauty school instructor and then if i want to go back to college in the future i can cause ill have general education courses but right now i want to just get a better job thats better than customer service and is fun, and then focus on moving
I'm also an NYU drop out, we exist!!!
i got accepted into NYU but decided not to go because it was way too expensive!! and I felt like other schools could offer me more
@@Cindy99765 I applied to NYU... it's my dream school...
@@nikkidutt2034 I get you. NYU is definitely a really nice school, but the tuition is pretty expensive, so without the scholarships and work study, it isn't financially feasible for a lot of people sadly
Nikki Dutt Not worth the tuition imo just for the dream school experience. Student debt is a huge burden and to leave with 280k in debt is just insane.
@@Justin-ev8nn strongly agree
tbh NYU is a school for ppl who know what they wanna do because if you don’t there’s so much to get lost in
Destiny Tullis not necessarily I’m in LS which is undecided so you take two years then transfer to whatever school you want
Wow! I went to NYU and came to this conclusion too.. the ones that loved it had a very clear direction (probably not possible for most college freshman sophomores). Having too many choices isn’t always the best thing!
Low key we just study to get a stable job and make money but if you’re already making money there’s no need to be in college. That’s the TEA ☕️
That's just WRONG so wrong SO you're telling me that all what you learn in school is actually equal to money What makes some ppl hate school is this type of thinking and that's not what jenn ment by doing the video . That's the tea
No that's not how life works...
tasnimchelbi chelbi no offense but if Jen didn’t mean this then why did she heart this comment just saying
We study to learn more about what we want to learn, that’s a terrible motive to learn
I’m not saying it’s a good motive to life by I’m just saying that I think Jen meant this cause she hearted this comment I’m not saying I believe this
You do you boo. I'm the academic type of person but I believe mental health is better. Why waste your life on something you don't enjoy doing. I believe you made the right choice for yourself. Your so lucky for having supporting Asian parents lol. ❤️
Rahi Mitra it’s actually “you’re* this is the reason why we stay in school no matter what. No disrespect, there are short careers or just take generalas.
Adnilem is a Grammar Nazi and authoritarian Dick.
Is that better?
Exactly. Life is too short for wasting it doing something that just doesn’t make you happy.
@@noneed8196 Public school doesn't teach proper grammar. Most teachers don't even know the difference between modern English, Middle English and Anglish(Old English).
12:11 I am indeed shooketh out of my seat right now😂
but I can seriously sense the relief you feel after this and you made so much sense. Wishing you the best jen❤️
I'm a huge fan 🤣😱💖
aloohaa!!
Katie Tracy OMG I LOVE U
Me too
College isn't for everyone, AND THAT'S OKAY. Don't apologise for not wanting to pursue college, there are other options out there.
^ siempre
3.7?? As a senior in college I can honestly say thats a pretty amazing GPA. It sounds like you had bad advisors and picked the wrong major and college. If you are a creative person business majors are probably not the best lol. That being said college isn't for everyone and if it is making you so miserable and you have better options that you enjoy, take those. It's sad to see how society has placed this sense of self worth on whether you get a degree or not. And to make you feel any better, unless you get your degree in undergrad to enter into some graduate or undergrad program like medical school, law school, PA, PTA, PT, then its extremely hard to even find a job and sometimes you are working jobs that are not even what your degree was about which thens up creating a life that is unfulfilled. Props to you for realizing your options early. School will always be there.
I definitely agree. I think a university with a great arts program where she could learn more about what she does would have been so much more beneficial. I go to Temple and am hoping to be a Graphic Design major and switching to this major was definitely the best choice. Also most schools in nyc just dont have that cliche college experience people are looking for.
I have a 3.5 rn and I feel: fucked. My goal was a 3.7 oop
If economics in uni makes you miserable the take away isn't necessarily that university isn't for you. I would also be miserable studying economics.
@@faginnyc Highschool grades barely even matter.
“ i feel like all students kinda joke about dropping out and becoming strippers” AHAHHA MOOD!
You dropping out makes you a lot more human. I appreciate your honesty and I feel like a lot of your subscribers can relate. You usually seem very put together, it’s nice to know that we all struggle and that no one‘s perfect.❤️
Omg thank you for being so real Jen. Everyone on RUclips seems to have an amazing life so it’s great to see the “other side”. You’re such an inspiration for me. Every time I have a bad day at school I watch your college videos. When I watch them I always tell myself not to give up so one day I can be like you, happy and eager to learn. You have helped me so much with my anxiety. It’s your life so do what you want. I’ll be supporting you whatever you do. Thank you so much for helping me go trough the bad times in my life in your own way. You may not know it but your videos really have an impact on some people’s life.
You might not read this but if you do I just wanted to say thank you once again! ❤️
Charlotte M. Dude she helped me too get out of my anxiety thanks to her!!! ❤️
DO NOT MAJOR IN COMMUNICATIONS I REPEAT DO NOT MAJOR IN COMMUNICATIONS! my dad is an English major and he works in communications and he has straight up said that communications majors are always the worst applicants and he doesn't hire them. If you want to work in PR/communications study English instead because knowing how to write well is a really valuable skill in that field! This has been a PSA.
Edit: why is this getting so many likes I don’t understand
Ouch, I'm a Communications major..why doesn't he like us?
@@ASightToSee_ please correct me if I'm wrong but from my understanding it's because as a communications program you spend more time studying the industry and stuff than the skills that you need to do the job well (like writing). Obviously I have never been a communications major so I'm just reciting things I have been told. It's also worth mentioning that part of it can probably be attributed to the fact that English is kind of a dying major and he feels protective of it but not so much that it would invalidate his opinion.
@@helena-hp8vl I actually can see why he would say that. I am extremely passionate about my major, but I also wish I minored in English at least. I feel like I needed to improve my writing skills. Writing is important for most jobs anyways. But I also feel like a lot of employers just bash recent college grads in general. I always hear on the side that we're not prepared ( not just COMM majors) .I know I don't know everything, but I do know craft takes time, practice and maybe years to grab. That's why internships are SO important. If I was an undergrad, I would REALLY focus on perfecting my craft and doing more internships. Too late now haha although I think I'm doing just fine in my career path. Thanks for sharing
I'm currently a senior in high school and I've applied to schools as communications or journalism majors if I could minor in English as well would that be beneficial or would I have to become an English major. I'm just a bit worried since I've applied to schools as such but if there is any alternatives or additional courses I could add to the major please let me know!
@@asami6715 Depends on what you want to do career wise
i know this is completely irrelevant, but i want ur hoodie
Jen. Hi.
I'm 20 years old (so I think we're like the same age??) and I completely relate. _ughihavesomuchtosayokay_
So I also dropped out of college with media classes and I was terrified to hear what people had to say about it.
My reason to drop out was that my mental health was seriously going down the drain and I couldn't even get myself to go there anymore.
So here's what I learned from that and wanted to share (obviously it's not the *exact* same situation but y'know-):
1. You are in charge!! You're an adult (legally at least, adulting _whaaat_ I know, same tbh) so you can make big decisions like these no matter what your family/friend/whoever says (unless it's the cops, seriously stay out of jail kids)
My family was 0% supportive of me dropping out and I ended up having to move into my own place; I can't stress enough how important it is to make decisions that make YOU happy! (Your no might make them angry but it will make you free)
2. Literally *NO ONE* knows what they're doing. Seriously, we all have no clue.
I have so many things that I can see myself doing in the future and I don't know if I'm gonna enjoy any of them. It is terrifying and it f-cking sucks but I'm never going to know if I don't try which brings me to my next point...
3. It is OKAY to make mistakes. (insert rant about capitalistic society and high expectations) We need to make mistakes to learn new things about us just like you said and idc what anyone says but it's fine. Like 1000% okay. No one has any right to be mad at you for making a mistake, no one has any right to hold that against you or make you feel bad. I made mistakes too, am I proud of them? No. And it's scary to admit to them because we all feel pressured to achieve and function in society. But honestly-
4. _DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY!_ (I trust that anyone that reads this won't hurt anyone else in the process) Take that step back. Focus on yourself. Go for that break. Try out that new thing. Reach out when you're sad. Don't forget number 3. You are SO loved and there are SO many people that care about you.
To end this philosophical ramble, take a quote from my fave John Green: " You are helpful. And you are loved. And you are forgiven. And you are not alone."
_yeet_
This is amazing. Thank you for saying all this! I hope everything works out for you, and thank you so much for your support 💕
@@JENerationDIY Omg you're welcome sis, been a supporter for about 2 1/2 years now 💕 I am still struggeling a little, my mental health improved A LOT since I dropped out (in hindsight, obvi there are ups and downs) but things are looking good. I would do it again in a heartbeat though. From the bottom of my heart I wish you all the best and hope that your friends and family keep being there for you. You got this!!
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kreativkoma _yeet_
This was a lot but I read it all. I am only 11 so I am not in college but school just drains all my energy and I just can’t deal with it school puts so much work on just small kids but I have no choice to drop out! So I hate it! But what you guys said made me feel proud of you for dropping out I just wish I could! 😩
*WHO ELSE IS GOING TO SUPPORT JEN NO MATTER WHAT?!*
btw I'm a small youtuber :)
Same here
Kasi Kay meeeeee
Kasi Kay Has day was a really
Yeah I’m sure sure it’s going bowling right lol I just gotta keep the kids going bowling lol lol yeah babe haha was my birthday so I’ll call
Kasi Kay same and i want to reach 100 by christmas
"And I got really bad grades" *goes on to say you got B+'s*
glad to hear you making decisions based on your own wants and needs! :) I struggled with a lot of the same problems and hearing you talk about it helps a lot. you should always focus on your own wellbeing!! will always support you 💖💕
Hey Jen,
I just dropped out of college as well. Thank you for making this video, it makes me feel like I'm not alone. I never realized how much I hated school and how I simply wasn't ready for any of it. I never felt more miserable and lost in my entire life. This video made me happy realizing others and yourself go through the same type of feeling. Thank you once again.
Honestly as long as you’re happy, just do you! 💖
No, the reality is its not just about doing what makes you happy. The reality is “SUFFER NOW, ENJOY LATER” i get that you’re staying positive but thats just not the case, sometimes we gotta do what we need to do you should be old enough to understand. 🤣😂
@@buster8607 Honestly, you don't need to know anything higher than 1st grade for life.
@@buster8607 I agree and disagree. Society these days is getting more and more difficult to live in with prices raising each day and such. Getting a good education and good job is the best bet. But there is a limit to things. Going to a community college is enough. Top colleges aren't necessary.
I'm in grade 12 and I don't know what to do with my life hehe *help*
I'm already in college for 3 years. Still have no idea what to do with my life.
My professors suggest explore your interests. Do what you love.
It's okay! You'll figure it out soon.. Go with the flow till you get that one thought which is right for your life! All the best!❤
i feel you ;-; i literally don’t know what to do in life at all we’re graduating soon and i still have no clue of what i’m doing :(((
Go to community college.
@@mehh9364 Thanks :)
it must’ve been a tough decision to make especially with so many norms in society and culture telling you this and that, but i’m with you from beginning to end on this journey jen! i will support you no matter what and only wish you the best in this new chapter in your life ❤️❤️
Gosh, some of the people in these comments... College is not the center of the universe. It's not for everyone. If you want to go-- go. But it's no one's job to try and force someone else to go or shame them for not going or dropping out. People have their reasons for the way they handle their college experience, and no one has the right to try to control that. Everyone's mindset is different. People act like someone is "pathetic" for dropping out of school or not going, but to me, it's sad when people do go and end up miserable the entire time because they sacrifice their mental or physical health. I'm proud of you for doing what you felt was best, Jen.
I feel like people are more bothered over the fact that she quit because of social media and feared that if she focused on school and came back it will no longer be there. Like how silly is that.
Ikr people need to learn self-love. College is pretty optional and if it gives you that much stress it's a reasonable choice to drop out and it's a reasonable choice to stay. College is usually a 4 year course too it's never to late to join. To sum up, I agree with you college should be the center of somebodys life..
"People do go and end up miserable sacrificing their mental and physical health"
Sadly, this is true for me and it's is taking toll on my mental health since a year ago.
I'm not trying talk this issue to my parents or even my relatives because their only advice will be "Just finished it okay ?" .
Then there's my Asian parents who don't believe in mental illnesses like anxiety (which I have) and blame me for failing when previously I've always been the over achiever... Yeah Asian parents.
I am so glad you took the big step and your parents supported you! It's hard to break the Asian stereotype
feel you girl.. my mom just tell me to deal with it, and that I clearly haven't experienced the hardships of life if I'm struggling now. Well, sorry I have anxiety and struggle with depression.. (she once laughed at me when I told her I got bullied)
Feel the same... my parents, specially my dad, thought I was being ungrateful for failing a couple of classes in university. Truth is, I was suffering from anxiety, felt worthless most of the time and sometimes I even wanted to die. But to them, I was being just a spoiled brat because "college was harder when they attended", so I invited them to see all the work I did in college and finally they understood that for some reason my college experience was very different from theirs.
My dad is that type of Asian parent too 😔 it’s definitely heartbreaking having to mentally move apart from your parents in that sense, but trust me it is worth it.
I had a depression phase when I was younger and my mom said "If you want to give up so easily then you won't survive. Just jump out the window then"
@@linx97x Your mom really laughed at you?...thats wrong.😧😞
Well that's ironic, I dropped out around the same time but it was more for health reasons. I never thought about making a video about it though because I doubt anyone would really care lol. It's great that you have youtube to focus on, at the end of the day you know what's best for yourself and people will support you :)
Megan Weller hi megan !!
Imagine having that much money that you can just go to college for the experience
^ Good Point.
we are gonna to support u, no matter what. we love u Jen
*_School isn't learning, it's passing._*
🔥🔥🔥
“I got really bad grades - B+”
Duuuude, you should see my grades
Dropping out of high school was a real LIFE CHANGING experience for me as well Jen. Just shared my own story on a new RUclips video, thought you'd find it interesting ❤️
*Super early* .... Love your videos! It's ok college isn't for everyone. I will *always* support you 💕
This whole thing was peer pressure.
*Hey Jen, you're still doing great and did better than I ever have. I am a Junior at university right now, and thankfully I have a big traditional campus to enjoy everything, but I don't. I also don't know what I want to do, but I chose a degree that I thought would be best for me. Not going to college was also not an option for me, and it sucks more that I got a full ride scholarship that I cannot walk away from easily. My friends have paid insane amounts and I feel guilty when I do bad and see them struggling to pay their tuition. My friends and I always joke about wanting to die and dropping out. We are always tired and sleeping and we don't even feel like going out, I've seen my friends stressed and crying. It really is depressing and having a lot of stress doesn't help. My GPA is far lower than your, a low 3.0 but at this point Cs get degress and I'm just trying to make my Mexican parents proud. College isn't for everyone and it isn't the perfect little experience everyone expects. Fortunately things are looking better for me, although I don't think I'll end up using my degree at this point. I'm glad you found your way out and I hope day you can find something you like so you can get that degree you always dreamed about! I'm not giving up because there's a ton of occupations I want to try after college and I'm definitely ready! You go girl, love you!*
You go girl! And even though you're not sure what you want to do it will be nice to have that degree to fall back on. You worked hard to get your full ride don't ever feel bad for earning something like that! I understand what it's like not being able to pay too though, I've had it a little both ways. Good luck!
you do youuu! make up on point girlll
Jennifer
Everyone thinks that if you think this is the best decision, we support you
Don't worry
I'm also an academic person
I feel like Asian families always want their families to do soo well
I also have no idea what I want to be
Jennifer
You are an amazing person
We would ALWAYS support you
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J G The capital letters of the first four lines spell JEDI😂
@@alexguild6430
Oh my god
They do
How did I not realise
😂
J G May the force be with yyoooouuuuuu
@@alexguild6430 lol
thanks
same to you
J G
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like this
GIRL, YOU FREAKIN DO YOU, AM SO PROUD OF THE FACT THAT YOU CAN MAKE ALL THESE IMPORTANT DECISIONS FOR YOURSELF. I STAN
I literally got an add for a college before this video
The government😂😂
Is it a sign or a warning?
OMG lolz
I will love and support you forever!!! I am 13 so I don’t know how much stress and anxiety you are feeling but you’re such an inspiration to me to not do thing for OTHERS. I need to learn to do what I want to do. I’m only in eighth grade and college is already a source of stress, you showed me that college isn’t that big of a deal and how following your dreams is way more important.
We support you always Jen❤️💞
I am 100% with you on this. I’ve dropped out twice, though only once was due to my unhappiness at the school I was in. Ended up deciding to go back, and the second drop out came after being sexually assaulted. I moved back in with my grandparents and ended up taking classes I loved at the community college near me and really love the school and the environment and actually met the love of my life at said school!! I’m currently taking a semester (or maybe two) break to kind of get myself together and get a plan for my life, now that I’ve actually decided what it is I really want to do with my life (lol, maybe, it changes sometimes on the daily) but I know I want to work in retail or marketing, and either open my own clothing boutique or work for the big mouse in charge at one of the Disney parks :)
I don't think you had your priorities straight in college. You said that you were always busy with school and youtube but a lot of people with a big following like you tend to forget that youtube and your subscribers will be there at the end of your final. I feel like you should have put youtube in the back burner while you were trying to do good in college and have a social life and that's what made you miserable. Thinking if you don't upload then you won't be as popular. As you said, RUclips and your popularity on social media isn't going to last so why waste time building something that is going to crumble right in front of you? School will always be there but trust me, once you're used to staying at home and filming for a living and earning millions basically doing the easiest "job" out there (lets be real), you're not going to like the reality that people have to earn degrees and work hard everyday.
I agree with you. It's not wrong to havr a RUclips channel but choosing that over academics? 🙅🏻♀️ But hey, at least she's "happy" lmaooo 😂
Nothing but love and respect for you, Jen! ♥︎ It's your life. You absolutely should be making decisions that will make YOU happy - along with what's most practical / beneficial.
((Also, the thought of getting a B was THE WORST when I was in high school!))
SoCraftastic OwO
Thats because your not better than Harsh, Miss Ma, Cant handle the big dildo and not a real OG Barf bag
my man u still smarter than me
This isn’t to be rude or anything, just genuinely curious, if you had attended university in California do you think you would still be in this position? Or was school and RUclips together just overall not realistic? Regardless good luck to you Jen, I’ll still be watching your videos no matter what.
Vanessa Handy That’s a good question, I hope she answers
That's a pretty rhetorical question.. there is no way of knowing but california could have possibly been cheaper and ofc other things like teachers, challenges etc would be different
I mean, even if it's not realistic she can take 1 class a semester, which is better than doing none. She can even go to an online uni/college. She could easily get A's as well as paying substantially less. She's just looking for an easy out and just to not have to worry about it.
70k a year for a job making an average 50k a year is no worth it. You will be in debt for the rest of your life.
^ Bingo. Waste of $
This is SO relatable. The expectations that we place for ourselves can become so overwhelming.
I'm glad you are doing what makes you happy!
Me when I fail a test
Citlalli Ramirez 😂 same
sameeee!
3.7 gpa must be so nice LMAO
wow. Me as an Asian university student can relate so much. It is so true that growing up we just aim to have good grades but actually ended up being so lost for our future. Actually i am considering switching my major for grad school. I support you and admire you for making this brave decision. Hope your future will make you genuinely happy.
I’ve never heard someone sound so sad while saying “all of the classes that didn’t pertain to my degree.... I got all A’s” HAHA I get the necessary 60% needed for that class and I’m like YAS
We all support you fully 💕🎄
Brogan Algar Are You Still With Him, aka Owen?
ok hun, i support you all the way, but please please please don’t become another emma chamberlain
m i t o c h o n d r i a lol in what way
JENerationDIY yeah lol, that’s what i meant. you’re already sweet, funny, and amazing, i really love you and your personality, and it’d kill me to see you turn into the ‘i dropped out of college, i’m so cool, look at my gucci peasants’ kind of person (even though i know that wouldn’t happen). love you the most!!
@@vxhmn emma didn't say , that she's cool because she dropped out 🌵
@Ekam Randhawa it's inevitable for people to change though. everyine does
I dropped out of college in my senior year. At the time, I thought it was a terrible decision, but later, after I knew myself better, I went back to a much better school and got my BFA. Then, some years later, after I FINALLY figured out what I wanted to be when I grew up, l went back again and got my Masters. And I didn’t have a successful RUclips channel, like you, because back then, there was no RUclips and no internet and computers that could fit on desks were a new thing (yes, I am an old lady). But it all turned out all right for me in the end, and I have confidence it will for you, too. You already have a successful RUclips channel! That’s great! If that’s your passion, keep going with it. College can always be an option for you later on. You have your whole life ahead of you-might as well follow your passion. If it doesn’t work out, you can always change direction later on, when you know more about yourself and about life.
"and I would get really bad grades"
*goes on to talk about how she got all B+'s and A's *
I know kinda pissed me off
john wick hahaha I’m at NYU too so like ugh
When you compare yourself to like perfect students it feels that way.
I always joke with my friend to drop out of college and search for a sugar daddy..
thank you so much for opening up! I am an NYU student and I relate so much. I have considered dropping out, but I am instead going to graduate early thanks to my AP credits. I also was a transfer student so I literally will have only been at NYU a year and a half when I get my degree, but it is just so stressful and hard to balance everything here. I have a small youtube channel and I am getting my journalism career going so I fully understand how hard it is to balance everything. It has been a serious detriment to my mental health so I am glad you are doing what is best for you :) I am just trying to hang in there and cannot wait to be graduated so I can pursue my true passions more!
EARRRLLLYYYYY 💖 I support u no matter what Jen
I feel you. I dropped out from an Italian University because I didn't feel happy anymore, I was also so stress about my grades dropping. That was also my biggest decision in life but I don't regret. I'm enjoying life now and doing my best to achieve my goals in life.
I'm so happy but when i first read the title i got so scared but its alright i accept you cause you control your education so your not disappointing anyone from your subscribers because its alright we trust that this is the right decision
This made me a little nervous because you are one of the reasons I applied to NYU! I find out Thursday. I know that NYU is my dream school but this made me a little sad that your experience wasn’t amazing :(
hey Lauren! i’m a sophomore at NYU and i love it! The experience is different for everyone. Personally, i love it & so do my friends. if you have any questions, let me know!
Jenn hey!!! I’m so glad to hear that! what school are you in? I’ll be going to Gallatin next year :))
Don't sweat it Jen. You don't need a full education to be successful. You are a perfect example because you're already successful!! It's ok, we're all here to support you :)
I understand, this is my first year of college. But I attend community college, and I am confused on what I want to study. I’ve been watching your videos for so long and don’t feel bad. Do what makes you happy.
I feel so scared right now because I think I’m gonna stop college tomorrow .I am 18 and was very confused regarding what college should I go to .I wanted Web Design but there is no college even close to it in my country so I picked Computer Science .My major in highschool was Literature so I haven’t done maths in 3 years now .I decided to go to this college where there was no admission exam required and got it because I had a really high GPA but my GPA was for something totally different than what the college was about .I’ve been going to this college for a week now and I’m mentally destroyed ,I can’t keep up because I lost years and years of maths and I just don’t understand a thing... I went to so many classes and I couldn’t even take notes properbly because AGAIN I was parallel to this subject .Everyone screams at me saying “You knew what you were getting into” but the truth is I didn’t ,I am freshly 18 ,my parents put me in school one year earlier than the other children btw and I am so confused right now ... I really want to go to college but I know for sure that this is not for me in this moment of my life because I literally cannot keep up .It would be okay if there were no tests or exams or exercises in front on the class but there are .They already started asking students to go in front of the class and solve problems for points ...my mom tells to just keep going but I told her it’s impossible because teachers want you to be present and learn all they teach and I can’t learn some complicated shit when I don’t know any pf the basics .If they pick me I wouldn’t solve shit there cause I’m clueless ...next month they announced a test already and I’m fuckec because there is no way I can catch up on 4 years of M1 mathematics and the one teached in college . I never been so scared in my life and my parents don’t understand because they keep saying that I should have it all figured out . I am so terrified ....I just try to calm myself by telling me that I can also enroll again ...I actually have classmates at this college that literally tried 3 colleges before ,others that took one year break to rediscover themselves ,others that are 40 ,30,46,39 etc. I know it is my mistake for getting in here but I also was clueless and I knew I wanted to do web design which I have done before and it doesn’t compare to the craziness we do here .Any advice would be well appreaciated 😭
Wow you’re blessed with understanding parents! I wish i could drop out, i’m literally wasting my time in school bc i don’t even know what i want to do & i feel miserable but my parents wont let me drop out :///
LOVE THIS! One of my dream schools WAS NYU but $70,000 a year for a university that doesn’t even have a real campus ... is a joke.
Im 19, and I just started university and I feel exactly like you do. I have always been a straight A student, but I really don't know what to do with my life, and idk what I want to do in the future.
College isn’t for everyone, Jen ❤️ I’m glad that your parents supported you through this. My dad also dropped out of college, but still has a good job.
i def understand what she is going through.
i feel like theres an obligation in any asian family that college/university is mandatory, and if you do not graduate, you seem worthless. and sometimes, they say you have to be a doctor or engineer, but that may not be of interest to you. sure, you may need it to get a good, stable job, but sometimes thats not what makes you happy. and i hate when they compare you to other people like family and cousins, what really matters is that you are happy and have some way of creating income to sustain yourself. also, universities such as harvard and yale are not a reason to brag for, if anything, there is a higher graduation rate from schools that are not as high level, and often it is more expensive. and nowadays, its easier to make a living without the need of university through entrepreneurship and etc. im just glad my parents are not too strict.
“I think all students joke about dropping out of school, and become strippers”
rosiekoko I’ve been joking about that since 7th grade and I’m lowkey considering now that I’m in Highschool lmao
Once you’re neck deep in college, the idea of becoming a stripper is something you seriously think about
I've considered it. Strippers make a lot of money. I'm only in high school 😂
I grew up in BC (Coquitlam actually) Growing up I thought I'd go to UBC. Then I moved to Ontario, developed severe depression, anxiety..... never had any ambition for what I wanted to do as a career. Now I'm on disability, 40 years old and a total failure. School or no school, keep going and be successful in what you do. Don't end up a loser like me
I'm so happy that your family supported your decision and that you took your health into your own hands :,)
what you said about NYU vs UCSD reminds me of how my whole family wants me to go to UCLA instead of UCSD (if i do get into both) just because it's UCLA and it's "better". i understand where they're coming from but i feel like i would have a much better time at UCSD because i feel like i'm not good enough for UCLA... anyway, i hope everything goes well for you and i'm proud of you for doing what you feel is right :) you got this!!
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hey jen! i think it was very brave of you for opening up to us about something you've clearly been struggling with and hesitant to share. ofc this will only make you stronger! don't feel guilty about your decisions because this is your life and you're the one living it, not others. i understand that you value your family's opinion a lot, and you don't want to disappoint them or yourself, but it's okay to be a little selfish and do things that feel right to you. :) and you made a good point! school will always be there. life isn't a rush. take it at your own pace
My friends, this is why its good to start at a community college FIRST
YES!
No ew I want to go to MIT
Yess!!! Community Colleges have like bad reputations but in reality they are the best to start in if you don't know what you want to major in or just save some money on general ed courses (this is based from my experience)
If you’re from California this isn’t a good idea. All of my friends kind of regret doing CC just because they’re so overcrowded and it’s so hard for them to get their classes. At least in SoCal. 😭
Azura Forestglen you can still go to mit if you go to community college... your degree isn’t going to say “graduated from mit (and community college”. it’s just going to say “graduated from mit”
I dropped out of high school my junior year for mental health issues. Sometimes its better to do what you think is right than being miserable. Do the things that make you happy and dont let people make you feel bad about dropping out because you are your own person. Love you jen!
Respect your honesty and humility! I currently attend nyu and can relate so much. It is hard to get used to, draining, and can be very lonely. Good luck, excited for future content :)
I'm in the same situation, and even though my parents aren't Asian they would so freak out if I told them I want to drop out. I'm so miserable right now because I don't like what I'm doing. It's not what I wanted to study and my parents were the ones who pushed me in this direction. I really liked your video and the way you exposed yourself so honestly, that's so brave of you. I wish I could do the same.
I dropped out of College as well because of my mental health. The school lacked resources and the staff lacked empathy.
I just re-enrolled into a better University with tons of resources and wonderful staff. I'm much happier now and I'm glad I made the decision I made.
You made one of best decisions of your life , Your mental health is so important, God bless you!
@@HenriqueSantos-ux5cu Thank you so much ❤ God bless you too 💓
Really appreciate you being honest with us and sharing your story❤️ It must of been hard to post this so thank you, we support you!! I could definitely understand, coming from an Asian family myself, the pressure of staying in school and trying to adhere to traditional expectations. My parents aren’t that strict but I still somehow feel like I always have to do well??? If not I just feel like a failure and idk why. Ive felt like that ever since I was really young. So when you talked about having such high expectations for yourself even if your parents weren’t pressuring you and freaking out over a lower grade than normal (even if other people might say it’s still a good mark), I FELT THAT GIRL. I’m really glad that your parents were supportive and I’m wishing you all the best! I look forward to hearing what’s to come! Also you mentioned that you were having a hard time since you moved back and I’d be interested in hearing that story in another video :)
You should of changed your major if you hated the major you are in. Never study something you hate.
RoadtoLivia exactly
Right? She's too picky
I don’t go to NYU so I can’t give you my own experience but I’ve heard that they make it hard to transfer majors. Sorry it’s so late
Ella Caine it’s really not though and I go to NYU
Ok so I'm a junior in highschool, and this helps so much, especially the story of your acceptances and stuff. And honestly, you're fine. Your school experience was most likely normal, I wouldn't know. But at least you're out, and done trying to actually enjoy this stuff. Just take your feelings and stuff into account. That's all. If you don't enjoy it, or its too much, its fine. I'm glad you're (maybe??) A bit happier.
did you consider switching majors or transferring to ucsd or another college? just curious
Anyone else knew that her announcement was about dropping out even before watching her main channel video? Even with your vlogs there has always been this feeling of you not enjoying new York at all. I remember very clearly when you mentioned in a video that your course isn't what you thought it'd be. The only reason i never thought you'd drop out was because you are Asian (i am Asian too i feel ya). Proud of you that you took this step. Now you have time to actually invest in whatever you really want and we'll there's always online school if you ever wanna continue with it. Good luck Jen i am extremely proud of you❤️
Can definitely relate Jen. I've finished 1st year doing Exercise Physiology at a prestigious university in Australia. I had no idea what to do after Year 12 either. Everyone, especially my parents, urged me to go to uni. I got a really good result in high school, so I decided to pursue further study. I kinda loved my course at the beginning, but I kept getting borderline Passes in Semester 1 to Fails (I believe - we get our marks soon) in Semester 2. I'm seriously considering dropping out, but I feel obligated to keep going or at least transfer to another course because of my parents' expectations. Plus, in order to be successful with a stable career, everyone says you must get a degree.
I've recently been diagnosed with clinical depression. University is what triggers it. I'm currently seeing a psychologist, and I've got decently-supportive friends and family. I haven't hung out with my friends in so long. I don't even have a "best" friend to talk about my life to. However, now that my exams and 2nd Semester's over though, I feel like I can breathe again and do things without feeling guilty because I have nothing to study for at the moment. It's good though because I love being by myself. I learn about and love myself more.
I'm so glad that you have such supportive friends and family Jen. I'm really happy you've gone after your passions, even if you had to "waste" time and money to do so. I really hope I find my way soon. Although I still have no idea what to do, and there's so much pressure, I know God has a plan for me.
If anyone has taken the time to read my comment, I'd really love some advice and I'd greatly appreciate you keep a stranger in your thoughts and prayers.
C G I think you should take the Myers Briggs personality test. I already knew what I wanted to be but I took it anyway because my counselor suggested it. In the results, it showed a list of my potential career choices that my personality fits. I feel like that's a great start for you since you don't know what you want to do. Also, try out some hobbies to see what you enjoy or don't enjoy. Some people were able to make a whole career out of their passion (music, art, dance, etc.). Since you have depression, it's very important that you take good care of yourself. Do meditation, journaling, listen to motivational music, find inspirational quotes and place them where you often look, go for a walk when you're stressed out, treat yourself to a bubble bath, etc.
I didn't continue my study after high school. My ambition is to be a veterinarian so bad until this second. I decided to not continue because of finance. I don't want my dad (he's the only one working) to financially support me anymore. He's 59 yo and his wish during his birthday was to retire at 60 and vet course is atleast 5 years which I'm certainly sure he will still work until I graduated. Ya I can find a scholarship but I'm not confident with my results because this kid was playing during high school time :') So yaaaa...none of the people that know me knows the exact reason I'm not continuing my study. I always told them I'm tired of studying. I've been working for almost two years now saving money to study vet tech and plus I'm currently working as vet assistant. Not the job and achievement I wanted but I'm around that goal rn.
HARVARD? wow you had so much to live up to im the first one in my family to go to college and it’s community college so yeah
sintia1192 smh
I come from a strict Asian family too and I was literally SHOOK when you said that your parents let you drop out! My mom would have smacked me so hard, I would have flew to the other side of the world!!! (Jk) I think it was the right decision for you to drop out. I’ll support you no matter what. You’re so beautiful and I love all your diy videos! ♥️
omg i can say that i have the same problem in 2016 i choosed to study computer science instead of going to arts university even i wasnt knowing anything about it so felt miserable and i failed . in 2018 i was repeating the same year but also i was rejected too and i was sooo sad😌 but now im doing something i love so i m greatful that i was rejected
if someone is reading my comment i want to tell just do what you love in life no matter what 💖 💖 💖 lov u jennn 💖💖
No hate, but couldn't she have switched to a different major if she didn't like the major she was doing?
Jaya Ravi kinda wondering that too.. sis just dropped $140,000
@@locketofsunshine she was technically an international student but idk
chello fr
It seems like she just wanted the LA movie college experience lol. Which, even in LA, isn't actually what college is like.
Jaya Ravi and to a different school $70k a year? Wtf
I had the same experience as you, but slightly different. :P Ended up going to a school I hated because I felt like I didn’t have any other choice, ended up dropping out after sophomore year. Ten years later, I decided to go back to school and I LOVE IT. I’m going to a school I connect with and am studying something I know I’m going to continue being interested in. So this is me saying you’re never too old for school if that’s what you want! But again, school isn’t for anyone, so you shouldn’t feel bad about your decisions if that’s what is making you happy. :)
I’m so thankful for this because I remember feeling jealous of your NYU experience and I always saw your uploads and labeled you as “The successful RUclipsr who also attends NYU” and without realizing it, I made myself feel like a failure or something lol. I’m so excited to see what you will do next!
@LizzieDeerest
Plss don't think of yourself as it not really the best for you
I'm kinda scared for college since I just started high school and British colleges or universities as they call it here are soo annoying
millions of virtual hugs for you! thank you for sharing this with us I know it wasn't an easy decision to make but as long you're happy that's what matters. love you queen
Omg this is very interesting to hear because I am signing up for college and I'm still not sure where to go because I'm worried about paying for college. Today I got a letter from a college I want to go to and I got a $52,000 Scholorship but I'm still not sure if I want to go there.
I understand. You were going through a lot and taking a break or just dropping out is completely acceptable. I also think you should listen to your gut and go to any college you want, and I'm sure UCSD would want you back. Stay strong and we're supporting you sis💕
College is not for everyone. I think you did the right thing, you were not not happy, enjoying classes or the whole experience so I am glad you made the decision. I just hope that you keep learning, we are in the best time to learn new things without the need to spend a bunch of money. I have a full time job and go to college, not fun but I like my major so I keep going. Wish you the best in this new point of your life.
I send my love to you💜💜💜I’m sure that this whole thing was so hard on you so props on u for doing something most people wouldn’t do to pursue ur dreams. I can’t wait to see what you have in store next for this hooligan
Maybe given your experience with art and DIY (and also rad skills) you can try out courses in design that aren't full time