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Do you care too much about being a HIGH VALUE male?
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- Опубликовано: 31 июл 2024
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If you're only trying to present the image of a "High Value Man", I would agree, it is just acting. It's not authentic. But actually focusing on personal development and growth is, in the end the only way you're going to be able to make a healthy adult relationship work. Your only concern is that you don't fall for a woman that's putting on an act.
The problem is, most are selling a "female's version of masculinity", sold to us as a man's version (through other guys).
They’re all actresses! So why waste your precious time?
You do it for yourself.
I have always done ✅ it for myself. Because in the end nobody is coming to save you in mankind’s world 🌍
@@MJ98774 it’s not plagiarizing this is life . The shit we’re talking about now was definitely talked about throughout history. We’re just more modernized .
“Pretty little sociopath” seems an apt description from what I see online these days …
I see it online, offline, fucking everywhere.
This kind of people are very loud and visible. They tends to stay is the dating game for very long (even when they are engaged) and as a result negatively influence the state of dating (wich can be hard even for two decent people).
"Be a high value male" is the same as a woman telling you to be a "real man" - but told to you in a male voice.
Wisdom
Great insight.
That’s a very legitimate and insightful, valuable observation and contribution.
When women tell you to be a real man, some of them are just manipulating you. Others are giving you good advice. Gentlemen, don't be losers. Be real men.
Human, you are one of the only manosphere guys out there not trying to sell something and I appreciate it.
Imagine selling one's integrity to shill a bar of soap or a VPN.
@@threethrushes You are going to an extreme. I agree with your idea, but if someday huMAN would need more advertising to keep the channel going I wouldn't mind. There must be a balance between what is needed and profit making and I am confident that huMAN will find it.
You should take a look at the thinking ape
I'd buy a huMAN tshirt ;)
Everything is transactional.
"Be more handsome! Workout more! Be richer, loser!" Basically they are trying to say that you're value as a man is still depended on how you appear to women. On one hand, they complain about women, but then spend 98% of their attention and time telling you how to appeal to them. A lot of times it sounds like, "Be a man, but check with mommy first."
Thank you for your comment. I'm going to do a video on what you've said here as it's worth talking about.
can you please explain it more
@@sllaym I would but I have to redo the video. Too many issues and I wasn’t consistent enough
There is no contentedness. If you are happy with yourself, that's being content and it's a wonderful thing. You should still have ambition, but the virtue of being content is something divine. It's something women cannot fathom and truly a male virtue.
Peace and tranquility follows, gentlemen.
The virtue of manhood, the very root of VIRtue
Damn dude. Well said
It's because women are evolved to be part of a group, and men are evolved to be individuals.
This is because women require the safety of the group in order to survive pregnancy and nursing. They value harmony, conformity, emotional sensitivity, status, consensus-seeking, humor and emotional manipulation as things which advantage them within the group. Individuating from the group isn't incentivized; it's punished.
Men on the other hand require distinction from the group to succeed at reproduction, since reproduction is a zero-sum game for men. This incentivizes individuality. Freedom and self-reliance to seek opportunity are rewarded. As a consequence, this has freed our happiness from being bound relative to the rest of the group in a way I don't think women are capable of. Their happiness within the group is relative to the rest of the group. Our happiness apart from the group is absolute, or can be.
It's an enormous advantage which evolution has given men, but only so long as we don't make ourselves responsible for - and dependent on - the happiness of women.
@@jeffjones7108 very well said!
This is a dumb take by cukMAN. Yes, you should be ambitious and should strive for more out of life. If you don't feel that way then please get your Test levels checked. There may be something wrong with you.
Whether you do this for yourself, or to have an easier time getting women or for some third reason is totally up to you as a *man*.
"A man who knows the price of everything and the value of nothing" - Oscar Wilde. When relationships between men and women are reduced to nothing more than a business transaction, it's sure to result in buyer's remorse.
And yet relationships in the frame of transactional analysis make much more sense than esoteric frames of 'star-cross'd lovers'.
@@threethrushes Indeed. Emotionalism v. Rationalism. Unwinding the human condition has never been a task for the faint of heart, or those prone to self-deception.
@No No I can assure you that there are millions of men who share your opinion, in viewing relationships as nothing more than business transactions. I suspect that there are even more women who feel that way, only from the female perspective.
@@threethrushes ...
Yeah ... but the point of the book where the quote came from (The Picture of Dorian Gray) regarding Dorian's womanizer friend, was that it can lead to debauchery (Charlie Sheen being a modern example).
@No No Ooh a _unicorn_ here boyz 😂 ma'am you just absolutely have no idea how it looks from our perspective do you ?
This is pure gold. I'm age 55 and know what human says to be true. Hot women and relationships did nothing but take its toll on me. I pray that I was less better looking when younger. All I ever dated was bimbos. Learn to be happy alone. It can be very peaceful. Focus on what you want out of your life. Seek no one's approval but your own. Listen to your gut.
High value becomes another mask. When men become distracted with the guises of the world, we lose focus. The focus of individuality. BE SOVEREIGN
And the devil takes another soul...
Bait and hook
High value target??? I'm just for myself
I found that as soon as I stopped wanting a wife and family, I also stopped caring about status. The two went hand in hand for me. It was hugely freeing. I realized I could now have a life of peaceful minimalism without having to worry about anyone else's happiness.
Honestly it's disturbing how many PUA concepts and buzzwords creep through the manosphere. It's like having a multi-level marketer as a housemate. They're inordinately concerned with status, wealth and image because those are things women are inordinately concerned with.
And they have the same parasitic relationship with other men that women have, because the tournament of mating is a zero-sum game. They're not genuinely interested in helping men as far as I can see, they're only genuinely interested in gaining a following and getting maximum money and clout from them. So they can get more kitty-cat. It's a group of people stuffed to the gills with Dark Triad types.
It's sad that PUAs is how most men find the manosphere. The censors make sure this is the case. They're the antithesis of what we're about. I've been thinking about this a lot lately, due to "high value man" and especially "alpha" and "beta" creeping into the lexicography. Especially when they're used by men to insult men. That's the tournament talking.
Evil, that's the most accurate word for it.
Going My Own Way meant leaving evil behind. Yes, spiritual enlightenment if you will, leaving those material and fleshly burdens behind.
Like Plato's Cave, if you go back to the cave dwellers and tell them, they'll hate you and get violent for challenging their delusion.
They're primitive people proudly wading through a stinking bog from my perspective.
Your posts are extremely erudite, cheers.
It's really disturbing tbh
Men and women are in trouble
Im a naturally lethargic person and not having to worry about "keeping up with the joneses" the way a family man has to suits me so much. It seems to annoy other people that I'm not after a traditional life and don't want children which makes me think, maybe they're jealous? Ah I dunno. Each to their own.
Nope. I'm fine with me being of value to myself. I don't need external validation.
same here and plus i dont like people
@@ChroniclesofAJ most people are morons.
@@ChroniclesofAJ Well well well, look who is here
The most liberating moment of my life was when I stopped needing the approval of other people in order to like myself. I was free to be myself without fear. If a woman didn't like me for who I was, then she failed the test and that was her problem to deal with. I'd just move on and give someone else a chance.
The only high-value man I want to be is a man of God.
Isaiah 2: 8-9
Their land is full of idols; They bow down to the work of their hands, to what their fingers have made. So people will be brought low and everyone humbled - do not forgive them.
God is the way. All what this life contains can't fullfill our hearts.
Just another source of external validation.
Very well put brother. Be blessed
A high value man in a gynocentric social order - this too must be overcome..
Well said. Being "high value" in gynocentrism means being defined only by what benefits women. But what benefits ourselves and other men is what truly makes society work.
Exactly what I was thinking. Red pill channels keep spiting that you have to become a high value male in order to attract beautiful women. What they call alpha might not be alpha at all but a glorified beta.
In other words f Kevin Samuels....
@@chrisnamaste3572 🤣🤣🤣 I think KS is trying to bring females down to earth
@@augustlion5105 "Being "high value" in gynocentrism means being defined only by what benefits women"..... I have been narrating the same thing for a long time.
Today, the term “high value male” is conveniently aligned with what brings more benefit to wmen: looks, money and status… i.e: the superficial triad that governs the female world. That’s just great, is it not?? For them…
Yep
It's funny, it's like these coaches are telling guys what they want. "See, you want money, women and muscles. But to get women, you need to get money and muscles, no matter what your interests are. If not, you are low value."
The only muscle she wants must be as thick as a house 🏠 so she can feel it on her walls!
"Superficial triad", I like that.
The very term "high value male" is a sign that we as a species have come full circle to the tournament model of reproduction & social organization to which we adhered in the days before agriculture & civilization. Women collectively raise children while being supported by the tax dollars of men they will never meet as well as the child-support dollars of men they do meet & have kids with.
In fact, what I care most is being happy and doing my own thing's. I don't care if others see me as a high value men..
@@billyblazkowicz2263 what you talking about.
we want to be high value alpha males .
to be one use promotional code.🙂
It is amazing the comments here versus, say Rich C. Clips. I mean that is a positive way for those here.
It has occurred to me while watching a few of those videos that in the end their definition of whether they are "High Value" or "Alpha" depends on how successful they are in attracting women. Allowing OTHER PEOPLE to assign a value to them in other words. Could be in great shape and financially successful, but in the absence of a constant stream of hot women to "bang" (RCC's frequent word), using their criteria you are not really high value and need to schedule a consultation at $1000/hour so they can tell you that you are not alpha enough. :)
Wow huMAN knocks it out of the park once again. The pua idea is a collective style one, not individualistic.
I have never understood the high value male thing. Show me a man that doesnt fight back if you try and punch him. I dont even understand what chasing excellence is for anyone else. I have more self esteem now at 51 years old just by adopting a solid set of morals and living by them. Materials mean less to me as I creep toward that long sleep.
I don’t understand the principles of nano computing. However my ignorance of the matter doesn’t mean its unimportant. Smarter people than me who want to achieve something will find it important, just like chasing excellence
@Andrew Dongs You should care for the things you own like car, motorcycle, bike, Dong. especially if you ever change your mind about a chick. I'm curious as to why you do not want a place for putting your Dong. Is it something I can understand because now and especially at your age having a place for a Dong was so much a priority that I said EF u American Dong holder! I followed Eddie Murphys advice and got an African but I'm a professional. Not recommended for anyone making 59k year or more but is ok if willing to relocate there in Lagos Victoria island. perks include chicks assume you are rich. Downside: Everyone thinks you are rich.. lol
People will at times address you by Master or Boss .
yeah...that's not comfortable at all but VooDoo is to be avoided and instead take malaria pills. I'm mostly serious just about your Red Pill level. Are you red pilled or what?
@Andrew Dongs That's hilarious that it wont let you change but pretty awesome. haha Make it legal and just change everything. TooLoong Dongs or something. When someone asks if that's your real name...bet them $50 everytime. I see money in your future lol
Hey but I looked at your little picture and I think we maybe chatted before. Have we? I hope I was not trolling you and was polite...I'm sorta am fading out from the Red Pill community as time goes on. I've been here since 2012. I came to MGTOW the very worst way. I try to not exaggerate when I'm being serious. I dont know why but if I had just had one or 2 tragic situations hit me, like divorce and say...any of the 1st 5 top stresses that push someone to end it...I would possibly not be here. i had almost every tragedy occur in my life simultaneously. My world was so dark that the dark helped me see that one little hope the beam of light from a pin prick in my sad sack [ I am trying to remember what quote is from but I cant recall so I'm describing how it was] Had my life not been so dark as I sat in prison from so many false allegations from the mother of my son that I was being pummeled to death. My family and friends turned on me. All of them. if I wasnt being accused of something I was having siblings plotting to add to the allegations. Had I not been who I am and I would be justified to defend myself. These people and my in laws went scorched earth and tried to put me in prison for life. I'm not joking. These people I have forgiven but I still hold each one accountable. That's only right but my power is not going to prevail in that. It's not my job to worry over their punishment. My power is to live. I just found my son. He was 7 last time I saw him. He thinks he hates me. 23yrs old and his mother has raped his mind. his name is Sean Bruno Berry. I saw him on Facebook yesterday in a video. I thought I was looking at myself. his mom is black/korean so he looks like the mexican version of me . check him out if you are selling a house. I guess he is a realtor now. he is going to be hard on me. .so I'll take it slow. it's not his fault. . His mom is just the average life sucking woman who used the weapons we allow them access to. armed men and we believe every lie they tell. I have no fear though. she is now fatter. uglier. She cant use her tears and I'm using the truth. and I film everything. my youtube has video of my gf after her. doing same shit. I filmed it. it's there. along with my polygraph videos. it's all coming together. I know this sounds like drama. I'm not a crazy person. lol I'm not seeking revenge. I'm just gonna hopefully help my son. it won't be today. He has to just work through it. if he cant then I've still done what I could. Men still shoulder the responsibility of truth seeking. When I say the The Hard Way" I dont say that lightly. I'm lucky back then coming to MGTOW. I think Human is cool. His insights I get. I feel and understood everything I've heard him say. He and others may not agree and I've had people say things like they dont like this or that or the other guys but I have tons of respect for almost everyone that has at least attempted to inform other men. It's a responsibility of a man in whatever circle of influence he has to pass on wisdom. The man that drew me in the very first days I came..crying. feeling sorry for myself..grieving...MESSENGER RISING contacted me. Personally and on the phone and he had 2 others that joined in. No one could DO anything for me and the sappy part of it was i could hear in his voice..genuinely he was feeling my pain. He was almost a little helpless and wasnt sure how to help me but it was that moment that told me i had to keep pushing through it. He and others like Human speaking out and articulating what we cannot or dont want to risk showing our emotions is like ...The strength that men possess that women can be so jealous of. It helped me understand why my own mother tried to get away from my father. It was because she was going to never love me at the depth my father could. So she wanted to kill him or ruin him. she did. Now...my own son and i are in the duplicate cycle that I'm going to end. I'm going to be what my Father was unable to be. There was no support in the 70s and he died broken and still trying to come back. I had been looking for him. The only photo I have was his booking photo. and a news paper article that sums up what men are put through in society as we get bad mouthed for being men by other pricks and women. He had been falsely arrested. His crime was walking to pay Bill's at a bank. He was with a girl. she was 11. He was arrested for being in public with a little girl. The article seems to paint it as they paint all men. pedophile mania. Turned out he is friends with her parents. her brother was 15yrs old. They had an argument and I'm betting a 15yr old can be a jerk. He asked the girl if she wanted to walk to the bank. police interrogate the girl and her familiarity and every detail of the walk matched. You have to use a red pill lenses on the article but it boiled down to society just allows police to be used as tools to get revenge for people you dont like. The 15yr old boy had said that he was worried that my dad was going to hurt her. just same crap my mom did in 1973. This is the shit men have to endure. Thank you and I'm sorry for the long post. Human. you're a good man. I dont know you but if you're able to speak to the depth of what I am. and I understand the emotional as well as the rational part of me. Then I know you. I'm a good man. so you must be too. I'm not wrong
@@saulgood2366 "chasing excellence" is another way to say "stay on your grind". In my experience you learn faster and get better results by slowing down.
@@Koozomec Not, it means chasing excellence. If I meant something else I would have used different words. Hard to believe
I feel like a lot of men, even RP men are trying to become high value to impress women which means you’re not actually RP. I honestly don’t care what wamen think anymore. I see wamen for what they are now. They don’t deserve my respect. I live my life for me
THIS.. i dont hate women i just try to sidestep them... they way society is setup means that you cant do ANYTHING about it... its slanted to ensure and benefit them.... they wont challenge their own programming until they are held accountable and that will NOT be in our lifetimes.
The RP community is morphing back into the PUA stuff and that AGAIN is all about the women.
By virtue of investing in oneself, incessantly, you will attract like-minded people in your life.
That surely is an unintended consequence.
@@TheStreetProfessa Exactly 👌
Exactly what I was thinking. Red pill channels keep spiting that you have to become a high value male in order to attract beautiful women. What they call alpha might not be alpha at all but a glorified beta.
100 percent. RP is not about becoming a High Value Male or about Hating. It is simply Men chosing to live a life on their own realistic terms. (I say 'realistic' because we live within laws and moral codes). This is something society will generally have to realise, not that we care too much for what society thinks either way.
My grandfather actually taught me this before he died. He said sit down I'm old not going to be here much longer and I want you to tell me who you are. I kept describing myself with what I do. He stopped me walked to a desk pulled out a pencil and paper handed it to me and told me to go off and write down who I am not what I do. And after I figure that out to come back and tell him who I am. I did and the following year he passed away.
So what did you learn about yourself? Who are you?
@@regulus6773 I learned that I am an artist and a sculpture with too much of a romantic side. A side that I have to rain in for a happier life.
The question isn't what I learned about myself but what you should learn about yourself. Every Man's answer is going to be different. It will also be something they have to discover for themselves. The hard part is separating what you do from Who You Are.
It is said that each person has multiple faces. The face they show the world and tell them that it is true. The face that the world actually sees and believes is true. The face they hold to themselves and believe is true. Then there is the face that actually is true and is kept from the world and themselves because they cannot recognize it.
Contentment and happiness comes from within first. Not from what other people want you to be for their sake.
I actually maintain an effort to be low value to stay under the radar
Being a "high value male" just puts a target on your back.
Exactly! Particularly when it comes to high value through high earnings they expect you to live expensively, have the cool toys and nice car, and essentially flaunt it. A wise high net worth man does not make a show of it because it only brings trouble.
@@brerpossum if you try to attract women with cheese, all you will attract is rats. Cheese = $$$ in this analogy.
Like how? Is a women going to force a man to date her?
@Andrew Dongs they’re using a delusion to justify their own failure in life.
Every man is born with the dominance instinct and competes with his fellow man.
The problem I see, is it becomes tiresome too quickly in our current culture, and it doesn't pay dividends like it used to.
Those dating coaches teling you to become ab"high value man" are like a Union boss telling its workers to spend their hard earned money at the company store.
High value men judge themselves against themselves according to their own standards without seeking for someone else to validate them.
Correct.
Nail on head.
From what I can discern, a high value men is the perfect pet for them, it's what society is telling you, remember, the common story, the guy that works all of hes live just to get one of them at the end, yeah.......yeah.
Couldn't care less about being high value. I just want to be the best version of myself. Value is subjective.
huMan, remember to maintain frame. But yes our first responsibility is to our own integrity, ethics and values which will in turn serve as our boundaries and standards to keep away toxic bs.
I have never appeared to be, nor wanted to appear to be, a 'high value' male. I have very wide shoulders and a huge barrel chest, so a suit makes me look cartoonish. I hide my wealth for the most part, nobody would look at me and think "That dude has money, is debt free, owns land, and does cool shit" and I don't want them to see any of that. Just yesterday as I left the gym, a chick with a half shaved head was on her way out at the same time. She started to ask 'if that was my car' then she changed and said its a nice car. Its a 70 AAR Cuda (clone) in eye searing green. They do similar things when I get in my 1965 or 1970 GTOs.
I build and drive those cars because I like to drive them, they are fun, the GTOs are rather fast, and they are extensions of me when I build them. They are not status symbols, nor do I have them to get chicks. You don't own 25 vintage Pontiacs, several Fords, and a total of 60 to 70 vehicles if you intend to impress whamens, because your yard is full of vehicles. Its what I can do with those vehicles, what I can make from them. I will often walk out my door and think, "Damn, there is some cool shit parked here." I forget that because I see them every day.
Life is too short to drive boring shit, and its not fun unless its dangerous. No appliances for me thanks.
Restoring an old rusty GTO is far less expensive than a female, and its far more rewarding in the long run as well.
I do not play a role, I am who I am and IDGAF what others think of me.
You go ahead, be a HVM so you can get the girls. I've had the girls, and I am unimpressed with them.
Now I must go play 'yard tetris' so I can get the POS out of the back and junk it, to make room for some of the muscle cars I have owned for 25-35 years that have been waiting their turn in my shop.
I got rid of my car in favor of daily driving motorcycles year round. I thought it would be a more interesting adventure to end my dependence on cars. Plus motorcycles can do so much that cars can't.
The disappointing thing I’ve heard from so-called self-help gurus is they try to frame the idea of improving yourself in order to get validation from other people. The idea of improving yourself should stem from the satisfaction of achieving your own goals and fulfillment
Those" how to be a high value man " like kevin Samuels are annoying
Thanks for mentioning it.
I don't know who that guy is and RUclips was offering me some videos of him on the suggestions right pane. I was reading their titles and was getting suspicious of the thing. Thanks for confirming it and saving me from some useless clicks.
@@Bigvs.Dickvs its a pleasure man.
..... .. ... KS defines high value as $10,000 a month earners for five years ... but KS does challenge average females who only have time for 2% of males out there and who never get married ... the hypergamy problem ... it puts average earners into the below average category of attraction for some women who earn twice what men do ... the idea being educated females with PHDs can never find a partner, because they look for "usefulness" in attraction ... which for some females means equal earners or higher earning males ... personality comes later, if at all ... or your simply invisible to most educated females ...
I just do my best for myself...There is no need to show off my success to attract women. They want to be in my life they need to have the same motivation and drive and not be the focus but a compliment to the relationship.
And that's exactly how they should be. Simply a compliment.
FINALLY
The only sane man in the manosphere who views this "high value man" concept as bogus and a trap. 👏👏👏
"Be a man" doesn`t mean anything in itself. It`s just an all-purpose generic phrase used to coerce a man to do something that benefits others (women, other men, whoever).
yes, i always ask these so called "true men" if they killed a bear with their own hands, if they killed in a war, if they built their own houses from scratch, if they get anything they need from food to shelter all on their own, always exaggerating to ask them if they are real men, if anyone tells you that a real man does X know that they want something from you, and that most of the time they wont do X themselves
Its a phrase used to activate the programming
Well said 👏👏👏
Thank you for this actually. It came out in a very good time. I needed to hear this
Strange times we living in. You are allowed to be anything or anyone other then yourself.
Love it.
HuMan, I AM a "high value man", and the TRUTH of your opening line made me laugh so hard I literally have tears coming down my face!🤣
I tried so hard to become the man that mothers want for their daughters, only to achieve my goal and THEN find out their daughters aren't even worth wanting!
I am appreciative of your talent for articulating certain truths so damn eloquently!
Cheers, Good Sir!👍🍻
DENVER --- "I tried so hard to become the man that mothers want for their daughters, only to achieve my goal and THEN find out their daughters aren't even worth wanting!" ... very well put, Denver 👍
Even though he isn't a PUA, I'd still throw Alexander Grace and his elusive concept of the "high-quality man / woman" into this, too. He might be more of the analytical type when it comes to evolutionary dynamics, and some of his videos are indeed just about gaining a deeper understanding. But given his private consultation business, at the end of the day, he still wants to sell you something, too.
HVM is a new "package" of PUA 2.0 selling to incels, it consists usually of 3 things: money, social status, look. Mostly materialistic values. Doesn't mentions character, (actual) values - basic and fundamental beliefs that guide or motivate attitudes or actions -, ethics and firm personal boundaries.
I really don't care if others see me as a "high value" man. I create value in my life by doing things I find fulfilling and worthwhile. People with similar values will come along of their own accord, and people with dissimilar values will steer clear. Either way, there's nothing else I can do but be me.
You said all I needed to hear thank you
What's the target? The recent shenanigans with F&F and Aba and Preach turned me off to that whole manosphere bollox.
I love watching you and ItsAGundam. I know totally different channels. Gundam makes me laugh and you make me think. Your channel is brilliant. You offer value to men. Men wanna feel valued and you do that. Good job man
Those to channels to '' main stream '' to care about.
Try BetterBachelor
Replicantfish is good. You haven't watched Coach Greg Adams. Try it
“Pretty, little sociopath” 🤣🤣 spot on 🎯💯
When every guy is 'high value'.... none of them are!
Man, huMan nailed it here. And many wise comments, too. My efforts to follow the narrative as an insecure young man who tried to impress others from the outside in left me feeling empty. No real sense of self and always competing/comparing. And if you can't measure up, despite your best efforts, then you feel like such a loser. Better live by your own values and be authentic. That's true power. Ironically, it resonates more with others who matter.
Just be yourself and don’t let people treat you poorly. Male or Female. I don’t put on a show or pretend to be something that i’m not. And i don’t let a stranger define how i should or shouldn’t live my life.
Enjoy life gentlemen. I wish you all nothing but the best.
Simple and down to earth. That's what I'm now.
A man needs to value himself highly rather than chasing external validation and wasting his life working to please others. Contentment is the best thing to strive for. Spent the weekend watching footy finals and MotoGP with my male friends. All of us are single, free and content. None of us chase $$$, pu$$y or “succe$$” anymore …
I'm just basic, i work on my values, principles, character and faith. 👊
Men might consider watching the 1987 movie, Moonstruck... where the older brother in the suit (high-value) loses out to his younger brother, a baker (ordinary 'Joe') who cleans up nicely for dates.
Which one was the better looking one?
We've become a species of people who've dedicated our lives to becoming what we think the world wants us to be. I'm done with that foolishness. Health, happiness, solitude and freedom are priceless treasures that in my opinion, no woman will be a fair trade.
Going your own way means going your own way, not following somebody else's footprints. Self improvement at the end of the day should all be about you and yourself only, do what's right for you.
Have been suspicious about this whole 'high value male'-thing since I discovered the Red Pill.
It's a silly concept. If you're set on attracting the kind of women who want these types of men, then guess what? Unless you're the best looking man, who has the best body, the highest status and the most money, than she'll always be able to find someone better. So you'll end up in the same boat. Better to say, if you're going to look for a relationship, than avoid the types of women who need these types of men. They do exist.
Thank you, im getting kinda tired of people in this sphere telling me what value is and I must be what THEY consider a “high-value male.”
I value independence and intelligence. So if I work, pay my bills, put aside monies for later and spend my free time studying who cares if I’m not King Douche of “alpha-male” island?
No, I strive to be a high ethical male. I don’t care about what the World perceives of me , especially women. People don’t care about you anyway so why bother?
I walk my own path in life.
This, strongly this. Reality hit me when I learnt that people generally do not care or will only notice the flaws of others.
I advise young men to learn a trade/skill.
To then master those skills.
These should be the kind of skills which well equip a man to be completely self sufficient in an off grid senario
I hear you bro
This is fantastically thought-provoking. Thank you huMAN. :)
When someone pedals the "high value male" sales pitch I know a grift is coming.
Just like a guy who uses coach in his user name.
I always wondered why that phrase become a thing. I just look at it as either you a man or not. “High value man” overtime just remind me when women started saying as the norm, “real man”. Like does those words mean? ……….oh, both saying the same thing. 2 sides of the same coin….
I was waiting for this video! Cheers from a remote Greek Island
The the Mediterranean sounds nice right now. Lucky you.
Great chat, I totally agree! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼💪🏼😎✌🏼
Great video and insight, please keep it up. Men today need to know the true concept of RESPECT and honor.
Brother, you are speaking true wisdom. 1000% keep up the work, it is needed.
A mans value is that of his morals, respect, honesty and integrity that he keeps, and no one can put a value on that! our value of worthiness is not worth(less) thanks HuMAN👍🏼 so many great points raised yet again.
I don't think I can properly article this, but I do find it interesting how we related value in regards to both sexes.
Women want the top percentage of men while ignoring men in their vicinity for having no value. Even though the same women have no clue on how to get men on their level.
While men want the majority of women in their vicinity and already put more value into a woman before they would investing meaningful value within themselves.
So glad I found your channel. A very needed voice.
Always good things to think about. This is even better than usual. Thank you, huMAN.
On point, as always huMan.Greets from Poland!✌️🍻
Love your videos Human! Always well thought out and consice with your unique asthetic.
I have definitely made the mistake in my past of trying to be the "Man" everyone wanted, expected or needed me to be. Until, that is, I was so miserable that I lost perspective and myself. It causes so much anxiety and depression in men, and to be fair, in women as well. Until, hopefully, you say enough and take the time to face the people and terrible ideas that are holding you back and simply say, "No more." It's a painful process to look internally to see where you are going wrong so you can find the man you want to be for yourself and not others or society.
This is 1 of your Best vide's huMAN-And very much needed at this time-Well done & please keep up this great Content-!!!!!!!!
Your videos are deep and you bring so much more to the topics which other channels lack, your observations and views are interesting and I find watching your content challenges me to look at things in a different way.
It just doesn't seem to be the right way to get the right girl. They also make it like this is totally going to be easy to sustain long term, when personality is set pretty early in youth. Never tried but must be exhuasting to act for months or years as someone you aren't and do a decent job. What is the point?
After being so angry with the way things are in our modern society, this really helped me see that my passivity and lack of motivation is just a way of trying to get back at the world. Internally saying, "Fine, if you don't want Men to be anything other than a punching bag for society, then I will just not do a thing until our society falls apart." I now realize that it's just another way of letting the world control my personal actions, all while I thought it was my idea. I guess, the best response would simply be to live as I would like, despite how the world is just chopping it's own roots that keep it alive...
Well done. Always asking the right questions
Once again Human you've hit the nail on the head. When men today hear things like unless we're will to be come some thing that is superficial to women we're not good enough. This society we live in doesn't understand how daming and damaging it is for men to be told some thing like this. Especially having to hear this all of our lives from our mothers growing up.
I spent the majority of my life being mentored by a person who values the high value target only to realise that person didn't care who I was and wanted to mold me into the pathetic (fake) alpha male he thought I should be. I have a family and kids of almost 15 years and when he kept being a narcissistic piece of shit who ultimately abandoned me for his woman, I learned what a real man is. I'm there raising my kids to question everything, yet understand gender norms (without limiting them) and can communicate with my wife (who has bad views on what a man should be, like the high value male), Did my life get better. I know who I am and what I enjoy and now my family does too. We are are a unit. The (oh my god) perfect nuclear family. Thank you for your videos. I learned a lot and now this best friend is gone from my life.
The confidence artist.
I know I am a high value male, because I place my values above morals and ethics. This makes me high value to my male peers, because my love, loyalty, and respect has never been free, or cheap, and when it comes down to it, if a brother who has earned them, comes to me with a problem, they know I will not judge them, morally, I will instead pick up the shovel, and ask them were to dig.
Placing your values above morals and ethics, ensures that for the most part, you cannot be bought, manipulated, or exploited, especially, by fee mails. (your morals, and compliance with ethics, are your undoing as men, because they themselves, lack moral precedence, but will none the less, use and abuse, yours).
Of course, this doesn't necessarily mean I am high value according to other demographics, but that isn't really a concern, because those other demographics have not earned my consideration.
If I wanted to project value to a demographic with known desires/criterion, I would be a confidence artist, for all intents and purposes.
Remember, 'they' haven't earned anything from you.
Know thy role instead of know thy self. Brilliant observation.
Thank you
In my humble opinion this is the best video you’ve ever done... I’m going to have to go and have a long hard think about this. Thanks for the food for thought brother 👊
Cheers, Adam.
Your insights are extraordinary sir! it clicks perfectly. Thank you so much. You have made me feel so much better with the direction i am in. God bless, An appreciative new subscriber.
Its a good point. High value is still playing the game for the woman, who values resources, most.
"Be high value." In other words, be a Ken for her doll house.
Great, great video and points, huMAN.
I am getting much ROI on my Patreon support of your work.
Thanks for supporting my work on Patreon, Rick 👍
( appreciate it )
The first 14 seconds of the video was the best. ... It's sums things up pretty good.
The information is great, thank you, but your editing is also top notch!
Every man is one book away from being high value according to the latest popular charlatan. The majority of it is just teaching men pickup culture.
Completely agree and once again my thoughts put into words. What are you working towards? What are you sacrificing. I'm not encouraging mediocrity, but rather consider what is the payoff for all the sacrifice and hard work. Sometimes success and reaching the next level is a whole new set of headaches.
I love the editing.
Excellent content as always.
Another well played scenario. Indeed there is a continual problem of the "presentation of self in everyday live," to borrow the work of Erving Goffman. We present our self in social interaction according to roles, like actors on a stage. But, this presents a dilemma, which you so wonderfully outline, that lies at the core of modern social life: the problem of "acting" like a mensch as opposed to "being" a mensch. And like any sort of issue of duplicity, the next question emerges: how can others tell the difference. They can't. Only YOU can know (or SHOULD know) the quality of your own presentation.
Personally, I have arrived (at long last) at an age where just being a PERSON is enough.
I love the Max Headroom homage. Keep on posting.
this is needed,,thank you.....i drop back in to rollo and such every now and then but always left feelin empty, coz im not rich...its nonsense
Those people want to turn you in a pet for society and the fefeails.
There is a burden of performance placed on men by society. But a man who is keenly aware of his position in society realizes that he doesn't actually have to "perform." We are defined by our actions, but when we take positive action only for the benefit of ourselves, other people and society by large will benefit. That's the power that men have when we put ourselves first regardless of how society or women will judge us.
I love you dude.... You are getting next level..... Thank you for sharing your content....
Being a "High Value Man" means one thing to me. It means that everyone you encounter will be positioning themselves to try and take advantage of you to procure your resources by any means possible. Women do it..."friends" do it...the government does it. They are all looking to steal your resources and to use you. A high value man will always have a target on his back. Being a "High Value Man" is not the answer. If it was, high value men would not be getting crushed in divorce courts. They would not be robbed blind by "friends" and family. If your a man and you put a high value appearance on, you might as well be a fully loaded Brinks truck driving around with a "Please rob me" sign on it. If I came into great wealth, I would stay in my crappy little apartment, and drive my 2014 Kia Soul until the wheels fall off. I would not let anyone know I was now "high value." I would rather live my life being happy in obscurity, than to place a target on my back. The current debate on "High Value Men" is a debate using gynocentrism and feminism as the starting point for deciding what it even means. No man should be involved in a conversation with women when they are the ones defining what words mean. Letting women or leftist define words leads to stupidity and disaster.
Spot on
Before I walked off the lot, I looked at myself Through The Eyes of hypergamy
Once I quit caring about hypergamous woman's opinion, and started looking at myself as a human being rather than a plow horse, I realized how much better then my self-image I really was
This resonates. What men really want is intimacy, but we also want to deserve it. We, as men, are visual and that can be an Achilles Heel, because we'll look for that intimacy in the first philly that walks by, not with someone that we have things in common with and a deep connection to.
I seek to have a quality connection with a woman I respect and am attracted to. Not a bunch of randos so that I feel like the man "gurus" say I'm supposed to be.
I like the video and think you should do more on the high value men that so many guys want to talk about today.
Once I gave up the "American Dream" things got better for me real fast....