3 Reasons People Don't Stay in Africa

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  • Опубликовано: 27 сен 2024
  • Videotaped in Kigali, Rwanda! People are returning to Africa from all over the world - but some don't remain. Why don't they stay? Dealing with a change in culture is one of the most difficult challenges a traveler will face. We discuss experiences that we've had and some others have shared. This journey has not always been a 'bed of roses.' You will learn the critical areas and what to do about them. The 3 critical areas are 1) $ Spending, 2) Income or Job, & 3) Building Community. #diaspora #africa #eastafrica #africanamerican #blackexpat
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  • @The88lightangel
    @The88lightangel 9 месяцев назад +14

    What a lovely solid couple! It was so refreshing just watching the dynamics of your interactions when communicating.
    You both seem very sound, relaxed, peaceful, patient and methodical in your mindset - this gives for a great partnership/relationship - and the ability for great Family upbringing qualities.
    Great info about when one is thinking of moving to another part of the world, I find that how I evaluate another country is by first visiting more than once, check out lifestyle things like, supermarkets, buses, clothes shops etc, Look and compare things you like and would being doing, like gyms, spas, swimming pools, Art classes, places to shop or walk, and places of interest that you would like to visit etc,.
    If you feel the new place has alot of lifestyle you like, choose an area you like and come back and rent a place for 2 months or more to get a real feel if it's somewhere you would like to live long term.

    • @AwakenWithMarkInAFRICA
      @AwakenWithMarkInAFRICA  9 месяцев назад

      Thank you 🙏🏾 for watching and the compliments.
      These are great tips that you have shared. Others who take your advice to heart will be further ahead in their journey.

  • @wendyhestick8514
    @wendyhestick8514 2 года назад +498

    People are so busy romanticising the Continent' they forget this IS a profound life changing event.

    • @AwakenWithMarkInAFRICA
      @AwakenWithMarkInAFRICA  2 года назад +19

      Well said.

    • @AwakenWithMarkInAFRICA
      @AwakenWithMarkInAFRICA  2 года назад +12

      @We the "People of the Sun". We understand both of your comments…respect.

    • @dshotmyvideo
      @dshotmyvideo 2 года назад +14

      True. I suggest just visiting for a few years first.

    • @silentnight9655
      @silentnight9655 2 года назад

      Well the USA and UK have romanticised war, colonisation, displacement and genocide in films, books and on telly.

    • @yvesderival634
      @yvesderival634 2 года назад +12

      I always believe in the roman metaphor:if you choose to live in Rome, you must follow the Romans's ways of life.So far, I heard from the couple is artificially ways of thinking.

  • @AfricanBusinessNews
    @AfricanBusinessNews Год назад +109

    I think that some African countries might not be a good fit for all African Americans. I have seen many African Americans go to places like Ghana, Gambia, Tanzania, Rwanda, and others, but some end up leaving for different reasons. One funny reason I heard from a couple that left Ghana was that the wife couldn't find American snacks. However, I have also seen many African Americans who are doing well in Africa because they learned to adjust to the local lifestyle and culture. They don't complain about things like how people drive or ignore stop signs. There is no perfect country or continent in this world. I know many friends who feel very sad in the US and want to leave. At the same time, many people want to go to America because they think it's an easy place to make money.

    • @Laci-e9q
      @Laci-e9q Год назад +1

      It's not easy to make money.
      America don't need anybody now.Unfortunately they are flooded from unskilled immigration from South America.Too much violence in USA and drug.
      You need to ban drug use and gun in home use.

    • @augreybaker9800
      @augreybaker9800 Год назад +10

      Thank African Business News.
      You sum it up perfectly when I see how beautiful these non American countries are I marvel at the beauty and simplicity. Yes you need money anywhere you live however, there are less stress people are more relaxed once you adopt to wherever you choose to live out of North America. Before, you make that decision visit that countries you have in mind, spend sometimes with the locals and see how much it would cost to live there. There a few places I admire when I watch David’s youtube and the countries and places he visited. The lushness I don’t like the cities the countryside once there’re proper facilities and amenities eg. like good running water that all life is about simplicity.

    • @doneecemcneil7826
      @doneecemcneil7826 Год назад +4

      Hi edagdwg God bless this man for sharing the truth about what happens when you leave were you are living now pay attention to what you want to what you need life is soooooo real don't follow other people go because you really want to. Not just because you are black pay attention think about your own family .pray about it talk to God ask questions he's waiting to hear from you Linda j. Peace

    • @triplebeans4159
      @triplebeans4159 Год назад +1

      I'll admit I'm one of those Africans who thinks it's easy to make money there.

    • @islyrevans295
      @islyrevans295 4 месяца назад

      Breaking the stop light is not a petty thing it's dangerous

  • @grandmamaroquet-bennet9581
    @grandmamaroquet-bennet9581 Год назад +21

    i just wanna say as someone who lived in uganda for 2 years and plans to live and teach in ghana, thank u for saying 'east africa' and 'the continent of africa' because people at my school keep on saying 'africa' like it's a country and dont even take the time to figure out the region theyre talking about.

    • @AwakenWithMarkInAFRICA
      @AwakenWithMarkInAFRICA  Год назад +1

      Hi 👋🏽. LoL you got it. Trying to combine western thinking with reality. Purest here don’t realize how “we think”. Check out our “Do You Say Rwanda or East Africa?” video. I just wish folk would consider the continent. All the best.

  • @Incognito-vc9wj
    @Incognito-vc9wj 2 года назад +540

    Wow, the respect these two have for each other is admirable and refreshing. Such a lovely couple.

    • @geatodaoz6043
      @geatodaoz6043 2 года назад +18

      Definitely great to see Black couples with God in their lives - setting a powerful example!
      Actually, the selection of a God-fearing spouse who is supportive and equally yoked is the most important and most valuable investment you can make!
      Period!

    • @MsCremant
      @MsCremant Год назад +6

      I noticed that too!

    • @towannajones6249
      @towannajones6249 Год назад +20

      Yeeeeees I love how they listen to each other without interrupting.

    • @NoName-mi8bm
      @NoName-mi8bm Год назад +18

      @@geatodaoz6043 There are many AA people similar to these two still living in America. But if we all focus on what the media want us to see we will think differently

    • @Noteworthy2024
      @Noteworthy2024 Год назад +7

      Very sweet taking notes want to do better with this with my spouse

  • @KaRclie
    @KaRclie 2 года назад +759

    I'm Ugandan but moved to US . I faced the same challenges like you when I got to the US but I can tell you the social challenges you face in the US as an immigrant are the worst compared to anywhere in the world especially if you're black. The only advantage I had was that in Africa, they teach us to always appreciate who we are and where we come from. That self appreciation and esteem is so powerful that even when we face any challenges outside Africa, we're always relaxed and have a sense that we can always bounce back anytime we wish to.
    It's so easy to go back to Africa if you're originally from Africa than it is to bounce back to any other continent financially.
    But like they said , if you don't have a stable source of income flowing in, don't even think of moving to Africa especially if you come from a rich developed nation like the mighty United States of America. 😊 The disadvantages of making that move out weigh the advantages if you don't have a source of income.
    That's the main reason why even Africans leave Africa. To look for better sources of income otherwise Africa is by far the best continent to live if you have money to sustain your life style. Organic food, good people, beautiful weather, less taxes, more social life as opposed to working all the time like in the US, peace of mind etc. The list goes on and on. But bottom line is you need to have a stable income just to sustain an average life style.
    Investing in real estate would be the easiest way to create a stable income when you get to Africa. Success guaranteed 👍🏿

    • @maryallen2317
      @maryallen2317 2 года назад +62

      You said it. That's why so many Africans leave Africa 🌍 and why so many of us don't move to Africa because job opportunities are not good at all. Having money and a good income is key to living and having a good life 😌. These two people have worked and saved their money and are now older and retired and living on Social Security. They now have a steady income that enables them to live in Africa. They don't have to work anymore and try to make a living.

    • @mariecarr3344
      @mariecarr3344 2 года назад +42

      Keep in mind this couple is not too old. They are living off their military benefits. Which is a good thing. However, most AAs are not in the same situation as they. If not all but some AAs have to keep working for many years to get some where financially past 62 years old. Please correct me if I'm wrong.

    • @1233-h1g
      @1233-h1g 2 года назад +28

      @@mariecarr3344 True. Thats a BIG DEAL when you have those military benefits. They go a long way. If you have to keep working past 62 by the time you're able to retire your body is usually acting up.
      One extended family member did 20 years miltary=pension; then did 20 years at va hospital in d.c. by then he was 67 so he took social security AND retired from va hospital with a federal pension as well.
      Sadly, this person is a boring, stuck in the mud type. Money cant help him here, in Africa or elsewhere.

    • @1Flowersinthesnow64
      @1Flowersinthesnow64 2 года назад

      @@1233-h1g that is what I don't want for my life. Working til ag 67 is crazy because you are playing the lottery. You are usually sick or developed some type of sickness physical or mental working in the federal government that long. Ask me how I know. There is no amount of money in the world worth staying in the federal government that long.

    • @AwakenWithMarkInAFRICA
      @AwakenWithMarkInAFRICA  2 года назад +60

      @@mariecarr3344 Thanks for your comment. We’re not military, nor were we a 2-salary household. I do not receive SSI, my wife does for the few years prior to her homeschooling for 24 years. We pray a lot and are grateful to God. We respect other’s situation and where they might be financially.

  • @shinethelightkenya5813
    @shinethelightkenya5813 Год назад +45

    I just came across this channel and subscribed. I was born in Kenya 🇰🇪 and moved with my family to the US more than 20 years ago and now,my husband and I are actively planning on retiring in Kenya!I dare say that when we moved here,we never thought that we would be making this move!Somehow, the mind blocked this thought and all we concentrated on was taking care of our kids. We're really looking forward to retiring in Kenya 🇰🇪 It's very exciting and relaxing because we've been visiting Kenya every year, so,we're familiar with the changes that occurred while we were away 😀 Thanks for sharing your experiences, I'm sure many people will benefit from this ❤🙏

  • @cdaniels9119
    @cdaniels9119 2 года назад +376

    So I think one of the biggest takeaways involves knowing WHY you are going, understanding WHAT you are leaving behind (“running” from), WHAT you are seeking (“running” to). And realizing there is a cost to every decision.

    • @AwakenWithMarkInAFRICA
      @AwakenWithMarkInAFRICA  2 года назад +49

      Say it loud for the people in the back of the room.

    • @AwakenWithMarkInAFRICA
      @AwakenWithMarkInAFRICA  2 года назад +11

      @@southafricaismyhome814 Respect ✊🏽 I’ve seen the vids. We hope to own a little something something there too.
      I’m just exploring for people. Some may not want the ATL/NY of the east side of the Atlantic. Some want less metropolitan, hills vs ocean, perfect climate year round, top notch safety & security, clean streets…people have options - we can’t decide for them. Each individual goes for what’s salient to them. Respect.

    • @AwakenWithMarkInAFRICA
      @AwakenWithMarkInAFRICA  2 года назад +4

      @@southafricaismyhome814 I watched Drone Snap (March 2022) and enjoyed it. This is on my list, meaning my son had called the SA embassy here for proper information. Let’s stay connected‼️🙋🏾‍♂️

    • @h.m.5724
      @h.m.5724 2 года назад +3

      @@AwakenWithMarkInAFRICA Africa is a large continent with more than 1.2 billion people and 54 countries don't generalise on your video topic

    • @Aeon1019
      @Aeon1019 2 года назад +4

      💯 enough said... you forget your purpose YOU still remain amongst the LOST!

  • @brennymapulemotlhake9109
    @brennymapulemotlhake9109 2 года назад +49

    The problem is that People coming to Africa paint the whole continent with the same brush. Africa is diverse and there are more advanced counties in Africa, counties will never be the same. It will good to speak about the country you have relocated to not about the whole continent

  • @lanettelawrence6308
    @lanettelawrence6308 Год назад +11

    Wonderfully said and that is to be in charge of your finances.
    I just finally became in charge of my finances and this is the best I have felt in my adult life.
    I am fifty eight years old and it took me fourth years to learn the finance game.
    Because of trying to buy love from family and then friends this lesson became hard to break free and learn from my bad financial decisions.
    To sum it all up and that is this is the best I have felt internally and it’s all because I am in charge of my finances.
    Thank you.

  • @ajik88
    @ajik88 2 года назад +216

    they should run a radioshow, very calming voices ♥️

    • @andylae2055
      @andylae2055 Год назад +2

      Fi real inoh.

    • @tjbooker9948
      @tjbooker9948 Год назад +2

      Making me get drowsy at work while I'm piloting this helicopter.

    • @maliwoodtalks
      @maliwoodtalks Год назад +9

      Facts dude could legit host a podcast talking about this topic alone.

    • @senecagoes6595
      @senecagoes6595 Год назад +2

      Would love to see it!

    • @Nurse_pretee
      @Nurse_pretee Год назад

      I agree

  • @raybirry3816
    @raybirry3816 2 года назад +2075

    As an african, who have been to America and lived there and travel around the country, the number one thing that I didn't like in US, is the treatment of African Americans,in AA neighborhoods poverty level is heartbreaking, but yet my AA brothers and sisters embraced me as as one of their own!

    • @pietrostavastano2356
      @pietrostavastano2356 2 года назад +72

      Like what treatment? What exactly do you mean?

    • @Johnny-tl4fi
      @Johnny-tl4fi 2 года назад +1

      Everything in Africa is built and owned by others some Africans still live in mud huts black ladies in Nigeria are selling their bodies for clean drinking water black Africans are still being enslaved by the Arabs in Africa right now black Americans are just fine

    • @honeychick4ever280
      @honeychick4ever280 2 года назад +272

      The racism towards African Americans is horrible! Police brutality against African Americans is horrible too!

    • @anikacorbett7714
      @anikacorbett7714 2 года назад +77

      @@honeychick4ever280 its so true 👍🏾

    • @Deggoo
      @Deggoo 2 года назад +1

      you're Africa American stop lying to us. African Americans don't like Africans I lived in USA for 7 good yrs. they try to talk to you once they will hear your African accent they will avoid talking to you. to my opinion I never got any love from any African Americans but I got love from other people like Mexican, Jamaican, and some whites

  • @kendrawilliams5944
    @kendrawilliams5944 Год назад +6

    I don't know how I found this, but I thank you for letting me and others into this special moment of your life. I laughed, I cried, I cheered you two on. It was wonderful! I'm in the hospital recovering from surgery and this truly lifted my spirits.

  • @paulettewright9623
    @paulettewright9623 2 года назад +348

    Totally agree with the sentiments here. I am Jamaican first African second. My ancestors were brought to Jamaica as slaves so I still hold Africa close to my heart. The most common reasons people migrate to America is economic opportunities period. I would go back to Jamaica tomorrow. However to survive in Jamaica as in any other place you must have money coming in or have money set aside. There is no other place where we as black people will feel accepted other than our homeland. The disparity in wealth and education make it harder for us than others. If only we could join togather our resources and build our own instead of building others. I am proud of my people regardless we are not the worst.

    • @sherei9530
      @sherei9530 Год назад +14

      @Paulette Wright Thanks for your comment. AADOS, African American Descendants of Slaves, have great difficulty in the US because we do NOT have a solid connection with a homeland. I am torn to define us because my one mind knows we AADOS began as US slaves under the absolute worse slavery system ever anywhere followed by Jim Crow & other overt and covert systems of oppression. These experiences bred a people who struggle to join other Black folk who come from communities that encouraged pride. Understand with empathy that AADOS were taught and learned very well that Black people are not worth much unless they are working for low wages or are entertaining. That is, however, why we were brought here. I expect immigrants to achieve goals faster than AADOS because it is engrained in our psyches to exist without hope, dreams & self-worth. Our past successes have been met with burned & flooded townships, systems that end our Renaissance period, yt folks pulling/severing our best & brightest from us. I could go on and on. Requesting your prayers and patience. Love and respect to you.

    • @mikejames8031
      @mikejames8031 Год назад

      So the millions of killings in Africa by Black run Governments is acceptance???

    • @paulettewright9623
      @paulettewright9623 Год назад +5

      @mike James I am hoping you did not think I was in any way turning a blind eye to millions of death in Africa. killings anywhere Africa or elsewhere is unacceptable. Corruption and power is the main reason outside of natural disasters. Poverty play a huge part and is man made. Get rid of those two and maybe things can change for the better. However I don't see any changes anytime soon. These are the reasons people leave. Africa is the most beautiful continent let's say place on the planet. Erase poverty and who would leave? Tell me who would leave except those who were stolen.

    • @gdcskates
      @gdcskates Год назад

      african first jamaican second, get it right fool [slave]

    • @mikejames8031
      @mikejames8031 Год назад +2

      @@gdcskates WHY??? My people came from Eastern Europe. They were running from slavers and death. I am an AMERICAN!!!

  • @atm3570
    @atm3570 2 года назад +152

    I hear you fam, I'm from North Carolina, now living in South Africa. Still wrapping my head around the higher prices here, considering alot of people don't earn a lot here. I too am retired military, and turning 62 next month. So with my military pension, and my SSI, I'm well.

    • @Camagwinee
      @Camagwinee 2 года назад

      I thought I was losing my head how no one can keep track of their money anymore. Everything went up exponentially and swiftly with nothing to show for it. Even the VAT went up but no other taxes went up. Nope, we've been sold out by our president

    • @AwakenWithMarkInAFRICA
      @AwakenWithMarkInAFRICA  2 года назад +6

      We will check out SA and other countries.

    • @mariecarr3344
      @mariecarr3344 2 года назад +14

      No wonder why you people are doing well in Africa as compared to other AAs. You people are veterans/military retirees who are benefiting from the fruits of your labor. There is nothing wrong with that. Good for you people. However, you people need to keep in mind some AAs are not you (veterans/military retirees). Hence, you need to come from a different angle so that some AAs can relate, not all.

    • @AwakenWithMarkInAFRICA
      @AwakenWithMarkInAFRICA  2 года назад +25

      @@mariecarr3344 We are not veterans/military, just regular folk who could not afford US retirement. We also were not a 2 salary household.

    • @mariecarr3344
      @mariecarr3344 2 года назад +4

      Ok. Good for you. I'm referring to those people who are living in Africa (US veterans/military retirees) who receiving monthly retirement income from America. Some AAs are not in that category. That is why the word some and not all are used in the statement.

  • @isaac198428
    @isaac198428 2 года назад +277

    I’m from Kenya & live in the US. I’ve lived in different states here. From personal experience, I can imagine how weird it would get for an American to move down there. That culture shock would certainly be too much for someone to easily get into on a permanent living basis. Easy to visit temporarily as a tourist but becoming a long term resident would be difficult because of the reasons you’ve mentioned.
    The conveniences like getting goods delivered would be hard to swallow because in the US there’s a designated home address countrywide but in Kenya, a little hard to receive goods at home since most established folks have a Post Office Box where they can pick up their packages/mail.
    Most people who make these videos already have established businesses in the US, have wealthy families supporting them financially abroad, are retired and have stable fixed incomes or are ‘social media influencers’... NOT your average Joe. Meaning it’s not that easy to simply move to another country in a different continent (especially in Africa/Asia/South America).
    Foreigners probably work in private sector businesses like in tech too. In the continent of Africa, don’t walk around telling everyone that you’re a FOREIGNER because locals AUTOMATICALLY ASSUME THAT YOU HAVE PLENTY OF MONEY & things will cost you a premium price- some folks might expect bribes or tips. You’re expected to have some foreign currency coming from abroad because struggling locals won’t understand you claiming to have given everything to ‘move back to the motherland’ when some are trying to get out for better opportunities. Always think about that. I’m not saying everyone will be jealous or negligence of your whatever situation but be cautious. Most people will love you but there will also be many opportunistic folks lurking around. A very informative video fam. 👏

    • @legion1630
      @legion1630 Год назад +8

      but yet you were able to leave Kenya and face the cultural shock in America

    • @gennisparry4352
      @gennisparry4352 Год назад +9

      I believe you and also agree with you. Same in Jamaica, some foreigners are even killed because people think they’re rich.

    • @teddyraffudeen7056
      @teddyraffudeen7056 Год назад +1

      I made a comment above. You’re on point. I agree with many of the things you stated.

    • @traveldreamer4616
      @traveldreamer4616 Год назад +1

      Thanks for your authenticity and candor. I have lived abroad. It would’ve been quite rude and disrespectful to assume that one’s culture or language is superior. Both of you seem to have embraced where you are instead of trying to remake your new society/community.
      I missed Jiff peanut butter when I was living abroad. 😊 it’s amazing what we may miss. Thank you.

    • @TheStogieMan0710
      @TheStogieMan0710 Год назад

      I have a friend that lives in Nigeria and she years everyday to come to America. I agree that an American has to come there with some sort of residual income in order to move there and live comfortably.

  • @catherineoliver307
    @catherineoliver307 2 года назад +103

    I'm currently in Namibia, Africa and the cost of food is not cheap, but the quality of some food items is so much better than in the USA. I gave up Ice cream I. The USA because it made me sick, but here I can eat it everyday because it's natural, like you said, real fruit and no chemicals in the ice cream I found. Thanks for sharing!

    • @kingmaafa120
      @kingmaafa120 2 года назад +4

      What’s the COVID-19 situation

    • @ChiefX07
      @ChiefX07 Год назад

      STOP LYING.. AMERICA HAS THE BEST QUALITY FOOD MORESO THAN ANY COUNTRY IN AFRICA. STOP THIS ROMANTICIZING AND MISLEADING AMERICANS

    • @leratoleegaweses2736
      @leratoleegaweses2736 Год назад +5

      Welcome to Namibia Sis. Welcome.

    • @tmac6586
      @tmac6586 Год назад +6

      In the US, you simply needed to read labels on food and ice cream. Buy organic and non GMO products ( and food with no pesticides) which are massively labeled now in the US. that is how you dont get sick when eating in US. US offers everything to consumers do you have to be more educated and more smarter consumer buyer in order to eat healthier..that is all.. In the US, there are even grocery chains that offer only organic and non GMO products as well as Hispanic food chains Asian chains , international food markets etc that offer the same products that find overseas and Africa. You might need to explore the difference culture of the various demographics of the 50 states of America more ( especially the African, Hispanic, Asian, neighborhoods and communities of there larger southern cities of America and even if you go Canada you can experience more cultures) and you will see what I am referring to..And you will be surprised that you have relocate overseas to get experience the same culture and foods as you are finding in Africa .

    • @blakelip3
      @blakelip3 Год назад +3

      Namibia is a beautiful place

  • @rozchristopherson648
    @rozchristopherson648 Год назад +8

    I remember listening to a testimony of a teacher here in the US becoming disenchanted with where she was living. She decided to move to Alaska. She was a single mother with a young daughter of about age 10. She arranged before arriving in Alaska to have a teaching job already lined up. But she was struck by the prices being so different in Alaska. She said one grapefruit costs nearly $5.

  • @lyonleech4733
    @lyonleech4733 2 года назад +55

    When Americans go to Europe they do say I'm going to Germany,France,UK , Spain etc but going to Africa you look at us as east and west,north south,central yet we have countries

    • @elizabethtorrales7170
      @elizabethtorrales7170 2 года назад +2

      EEEEEeewwwwwww, ugh!

    • @KingofNewYorkkk
      @KingofNewYorkkk 2 года назад +3

      Don't forget the islands such as Lamu (Kenya), Sao Tome e Principe, Cape Verde, Madagascar, Reunion, Mayotte and couple of others.

  • @digitalEbony360
    @digitalEbony360 2 года назад +140

    You guys are so calm and full of wisdom. Such important factors for consideration. Thank you 🙏🏾

    • @AwakenWithMarkInAFRICA
      @AwakenWithMarkInAFRICA  2 года назад +6

      Blessings. We’ve been through a lot and we thank God 🙏🏾.

    • @mariaseidi4023
      @mariaseidi4023 2 года назад +1

      @@AwakenWithMarkInAFRICA Hello I'm from guinea bisssau,I watch you for the first time today and I like your advices

  • @VeeShay1
    @VeeShay1 Год назад +14

    Your video reminds me of my family's transition from military life to civilian life when my father retired after 20 years in the army/navy. I was only 12, but I was sooo angry and frustrated because I could not adjust to life off the post, the people I encountered and living in a segregated black and white world. There were numerous differences I saw between my military brat life and the way my cousins, aunts, uncles and grandparents lived but having to start living that life and adjust to certain mindsets that seemed inferior felt like someone was beating me every day. Eventually, I had to learn that if I looked down on the way people lived and thought around me then I was keeping my struggle current and alive. When I finally decided to look at things as different and not lessor I had was able to move into what had been set before me. I had to stop comparing every single thing and stop resisting the changes I needed to make in my thinking. You will never be happy with new surroundings if you hold onto old memories and mindsets.

    • @AwakenWithMarkInAFRICA
      @AwakenWithMarkInAFRICA  Год назад +1

      I don't know if you thought that I would respond. I totally receive what you are saying. Thank you!!!

    • @beyond301
      @beyond301 Год назад +2

      Thank you for the comment, yes, we are reminded of this truth everyday since we first got here: we have to adjust our mindset and focus on the positive 💡

    • @VeeShay1
      @VeeShay1 Год назад +1

      @awakenwithmark Actually, I didn't consider whether you would respond or not. Your video brought to mind the struggle I experienced in such a strong way. I had actually forgotten a lot of the specific feelings and thoughts I was having back in 1980. Writng my comment was cathartic and revelatory concerning how much I have grown and how much I have learned about not allowing emotions to guide my choices. Blessings on you and your family.

  • @mrjroc318
    @mrjroc318 2 года назад +26

    There are 54 countries in Africa. They each have their own languages and cultures. It depends on where you live on the African continent.

    • @malakahbanathyasharahla2302
      @malakahbanathyasharahla2302 2 года назад +1

      What kind of Law Enforcement is in Africa? What are their laws etc. For living in Africa.

    • @tpmash
      @tpmash Год назад +8

      @@malakahbanathyasharahla2302 Africa isn’t a country

    • @firessm
      @firessm Год назад

      Damn I didn’t even know that. Sheesh, 56? That’s big.

    • @DTB64
      @DTB64 Год назад +1

      @@tpmash We know it’s a continent American we use to saying country. continent. Country. City. Road. All the same

  • @ollimekatl
    @ollimekatl 2 года назад +104

    I’m a Mexican brought here to the US as a child and am planning on moving back to Mexico. I have thought about it heavily and it’s not even another continent.
    I’m imagining my worry and concerns about moving back because if you don’t move back with money or a retirement income, you’re jacked, although there’s work around the world, it’s not good work and probably not what you did in the states and def not the same pay.
    My brother moved back and told me to take my time, save, and have enough to buy a small home and start a small business.
    I have thought that I would give up everything once I got there and go down to be a bare minimalists - but you don’t think of the boredom or anxiety built up because of that.
    So I’m saving, working on having an income I can rely on while I establish myself in Mexico, and taking it day by day from then on.
    I’ve even thought of moving to Africa , lol , and I only laugh because I have worries about moving next door.
    But if I can make it in Mexico, I believe I can make it in Africa and I would want to live in an African nation once in my life time, establish a business so that we as indigenous people of our continents may work together, at the grassroots levels.
    Maybe you’ll see me walking around ten years from now 😁

  • @yomioloko9727
    @yomioloko9727 Год назад +19

    As someone of Nigerian heritage who has recently downsized, semi retired and relocated to Abuja, Nigeria all the advice you two gave in your video I feel is spot on.
    I thing much of it comes from your maturity and life experience.
    I think a lot of younger people come to live in an African country from abroad or even returning to their African country of heritage come too stary eyed.
    Flexibility is key to successful living in the continent.

  • @7DMEDIA1
    @7DMEDIA1 2 года назад +83

    Interesting.. I remember watching a YT video of a sistah , husband, kids from Midwest, moved to West Africa to open a hair salon..She complained about power outages, non brand names, and snacks, people charging much more when they know you have American accent.. They were fed up and planning to move back to USA We need more examples of those that give their experience, good and bad..

    • @lonniedobbins1195
      @lonniedobbins1195 2 года назад

      Their governments are unstable too. But,
      *Look at the pictures of slaves on those ships?*
      Look very closely.
      *How many you think could live that way after three to four weeks chained together like that?*
      Piss, Shit, Eat, and all other body functions.? No windows.
      *A Double Decker Ship?*
      How large a crew, Where will the crew sleep, eat, row the ship?
      *We didn't come from Africa!*
      African slaves was brought over, but not the numbers we was told.
      20,000 accounted for only.

    • @achickfromthebricks
      @achickfromthebricks Год назад

      Cause the hardest thing to accept is, just because people are you're color doesn't mean they're your kind. Africans know who black American are and they treat them as such when they come to their continent, black Americans just dint know...

    • @lifeisartTV
      @lifeisartTV Год назад +9

      I remember that. Especially when she said snacks 😆 🤣 😂

    • @can_you_guess_my_new_username
      @can_you_guess_my_new_username Год назад +3

      Is that the lady from Atlanta? I remember her

    • @mamabear71234
      @mamabear71234 Год назад

      tell them to stay there

  • @earlymann1954
    @earlymann1954 2 года назад +73

    There's a LOT of negatives about moving to Africa which the youtubers who are promoting how nice it is, never mention for some reason. That's my biggest gripe with those youtubers because it doesn't give an impression that is balanced and many people will actually move and find out later it's not what they thought it would be. One has to be very adaptable when moving to Africa from a highly developed country.

    • @lazapololapolo9824
      @lazapololapolo9824 Год назад

      @earlymann1954.....you are absolutely correct. The UTubers always want people to believe that the move to Africa is mostly positive. however; most people moving to Africa are moving because of their "emotions." They use terms like the motherland to make people believe that they're moving to paradise. As far as finances are concerned Africa will not help you if you go broke. There is no unemployment, social security, or welfare help if you really need it. The infrastructure is not reliable. Black outs of electricity are the norm. The people can be very unreliable and will think nothing of cheating you with a smile on their face. Another thing is that many African countries are politically unstable. You never know when things are going to jump off and you have no safety net anywhere.

    • @catherineharris4746
      @catherineharris4746 Год назад +9

      100%FACTS!👏👏👏👍

    • @paulbrandel5980
      @paulbrandel5980 Год назад +10

      So few of those who want to go to Africa
      talk about the grinding poverty!
      Earlymann1954 did talk about the
      infrastructure. I have a lady friend from
      Nigeria. The power outages are ridiculous. Only the rich has medical
      insurance. And the extreme corruption

    • @khaleeqkaashif9348
      @khaleeqkaashif9348 Год назад +2

      Actually, I find RUclipsr presentations cover the spectrum of rationales for going to The Continent. The main take away is to have a purpose and build toward your goals....💯

    • @khaleeqkaashif9348
      @khaleeqkaashif9348 Год назад +1

      There's no negative with healers and builders.....💯

  • @staceyadams2272
    @staceyadams2272 Год назад +4

    Africa is a good visit. Living amongst my people is wonderful. I am staying where my foundations began East Sioux.

  • @michelleharley2460
    @michelleharley2460 2 года назад +71

    This is one of the best videos of living as an expat on the African continent. Loved the honesty and advice.

  • @margaretmukasa2998
    @margaretmukasa2998 2 года назад +18

    The major issue in Africa is health care. This is a major problem on the continent.

  • @Masumink
    @Masumink Год назад +16

    Great video with lots of applicable info. I have a friend who lived in Africa for about 5 years (Malawi and Uganda). She said some of the good things was the fresh food off the trees, and this made the locals very healthy. Downsides as you mentioned were electricity and other conveniences, which cost much more. She learned to appreciate things and not to waste as much.
    I think it depends on the person whether they would like and do well in Africa. There are so many factors, so whomever has this dream to live there, best of luck and may it be a good journey.

  • @ladysafari01
    @ladysafari01 2 года назад +95

    I'm from Kenya and lived in the U.S since my college days in 1990. I abruptly moved back to Kenya briefly for a couple of years in 1998 when my Dad passed on. Even though that was home , most of my family lives there and I speak Swahili, it took awhile to adjust to the way business and things work over there. I've been back in the U.S for over 12 years now and looking to retire back to Kenya coz I love my motherland and there's no place like home. However, I will have to have a major plan on what I want to do ( Farming)when I get there, I have to research and I plan to start off by slowly transitioning ( 6 months there,6 months here) before completely moving. There will be challenges in some conveniences that I am used to and learn patience in services offered...in hospitals, government offices etc.

    • @PHlophe
      @PHlophe 2 года назад +9

      I am currently in Malindi, Ke . 2 years + kids , Patience is a real virtue , trust me you need lots of it . Kenyan mentality reminds me of southern italy in that the second -people realize you are out of town . they overcharge you on basic commodity. i learned to be vigilant in italiy and i took the skill to Kenya . I am ruthless, i haggle all the time.

    • @adinas6516
      @adinas6516 2 года назад

      @@PHlophe - Is there a way that I can contact you as I am planning to move to Kenya next year.

    • @lordsombo
      @lordsombo 2 года назад +11

      @@PHlophe this is just every country. Has nothing to do with Kenya. The first thing you do when you move to a new country is get yourself "assimilated". Don't act foreign. If you act foreign, everyone will treat you as a foreigner
      bottom line: Go to Rome, do what romans do

    • @wacowstephen6050
      @wacowstephen6050 2 года назад +2

      Partnerships also go a long way in ensuring that you make the right connection and decision...
      All the best in your endeavours..

    • @TeenaDavis101
      @TeenaDavis101 2 года назад +2

      Yall always say your going back to Africa but never do.

  • @MrOldman09
    @MrOldman09 2 года назад +8

    I am not planning on going to Africa, but I really enjoyed this so much.

    • @daphneytennard3267
      @daphneytennard3267 Год назад +3

      I'll stay here in the us where I was born...i keep telling our people its nothing there for them if you are not rich...why do you think they come here? NO jobs there are easy money if you want to live decent.

  • @begood1able
    @begood1able Год назад +18

    This interview has proven to be very informative. I have been to West Africa in 1976 in my younger years. I noticed the culture shock I experienced. I like many of my peers we romanticized about Africa. First of all, Africa is a continent, not one country. And there are many different languages and lifestyles in various countries. This interview raised many issues that need to be considered before making that move. Here in the U.S. our thinking and bodies are commercialized for certain foods and medicine. A stream of income is vital. That's why so many people are coming to America, looking for job opportunities or economic growth. My suggestion in the future is for African Americans to build a base in our communities to sustain those of us who wish to take up residence in whatever country we chose to visit on the continent of Africa. I know that is a tall order and anything worth having is worth building.

    • @triplebeans4159
      @triplebeans4159 Год назад

      If indians and the Chinese,who can be racist as hell, can build foundations in the continent Black americans can also do the same.

  • @rickyv2844
    @rickyv2844 2 года назад +30

    I believe a specific type of AA moves to Joburg, South Africa. Some are retired, while others work remotely for US companies and live in Joburg or Cape Town. The trend is your Ph.D./ Business type of individuals, Realtors, etc., giving very positive feedback.

    • @bslat10
      @bslat10 2 года назад +8

      @Ricky V28, if some Countries such as Gambia would focus on improving their infrastructure, electricity, sewage and drainage, roads, and poor internet issues perhaps more people in the Diaspora would consider moving. People who have jobs in the Tech industry would be at a disadvantage if they move to countries with frequent power outages and poor internet services,

    • @rickyv2844
      @rickyv2844 2 года назад +4

      Infrastructure development is so important.

    • @rickyv2844
      @rickyv2844 2 года назад

      @@bslat10 I agree 100%. South Africa 🇿🇦 faces the challenge that USA faces with caravans over the years entering. We have so many people coming over the border to use our state hospitals. Infrastructure development is so important. Our neighbouring countries Governments are really not making it easy for South Africa. So a huge influx illegally from our neighbours, no critical skills, mostly general labour to come and look for work just to put bread on the table. Some now rape South African women and kill them, it is all over the news at the moment. Criminals are entering it is a headache 🤕

    • @TheJola106
      @TheJola106 2 года назад

      @@rickyv2844
      Q
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    • @likeagenieinabottle1591
      @likeagenieinabottle1591 2 года назад

      @@bslat10 The number 1 issue is corruption imo. Money is chipped away at every level of government.

  • @1970sbm
    @1970sbm 2 года назад +17

    I moved from Los Angeles to Detroit. I was *shocked*. When I visited Rwanda and TZ, I realized that there were huge differences between the two countries! You’re so on point with every point in this video. Thanks for sharing.

    • @AwakenWithMarkInAFRICA
      @AwakenWithMarkInAFRICA  2 года назад +2

      Thanks for sharing your experience.

    • @raybirry3816
      @raybirry3816 2 года назад +1

      Can you elaborate more?

    • @biggdogg19
      @biggdogg19 2 года назад

      Who moves to Detroit except thugs tryin to blend in?

    • @1970sbm
      @1970sbm 2 года назад +3

      @@biggdogg19 professionals who work in the automotive industry 🫠

  • @gerdine1843
    @gerdine1843 Год назад +6

    Africa is beautiful. I visited and met some wonderful people but some of them are very slick. You need to make sure you have backup. Culture shock can be something to think about. You need to visit before you think of a move there. Happy for you guys.

  • @madeyouthink3063
    @madeyouthink3063 2 года назад +6

    Off topic- the two of you have the most gorgeous skin tones. Thank you for giving us a sobering point of view on living in Africa. This is one of the best videos I’ve seen so far

  • @KingofNewYorkkk
    @KingofNewYorkkk 2 года назад +11

    The financial aspect is what's mainly important
    In certain countries, the pricing for goods, services and housing adds up. The first time I went to Monrovia Liberia, I was appalled how expensive the grocery store items were. 9$ for a box of Honey nut cheerios? Here in the U.S. that's a fraction of what it costs. Much of circumstance is due to inflation and poverty.

  • @jitkablahakova3073
    @jitkablahakova3073 Год назад +26

    It takes a while to get used to a different environment. Loneliness is definitely something to consider, building relationships takes time in one's native country, let alone oversees.

    • @AwakenWithMarkInAFRICA
      @AwakenWithMarkInAFRICA  Год назад +3

      Yes, and sadly people don’t give this area the amount of planning that it should have. Folks think that they can ask others where they should live, it doesn’t work like that. One must be accountable for their own happiness.

  • @mrssaunders2
    @mrssaunders2 2 года назад +14

    You are a lovely couple! I subscribed after hearing/ for 5 minutes. Sound and logical advice from the prospective of people LIVING there. Passing on wisdom learned from experience. Thank you!😍

  • @nadermazari3334
    @nadermazari3334 Год назад +32

    As someone who immigrated to the US back in the late 1970s from Pakistan, this was very good common sense advice. Americans in general have become so used to living on credit cards to the point the word "budget" (as you mentioned) does not exist in their vocabulary. If your income is there, there is nothing like moving to another country after doing your due diligence/research. You may not get everything that you were used to in the West but if you change your mindset, it is not that difficult. Great video!

    • @keekeemason738
      @keekeemason738 Год назад

      You are not correct. Everyone doesn't qualify for credit in the West. You have to have good credit to qualify for credit here. Some do, but most don't for various reasons. If you don't qualify for credit, you can't live off of it.

    • @keekeemason738
      @keekeemason738 Год назад

      @@anniemouse1739 accurate about what?

    • @mosijahi3096
      @mosijahi3096 Год назад

      @@anniemouse1739every in the US don’t have a high credit score, or have a lot of things.

  • @BeeBee-wu1fz
    @BeeBee-wu1fz 2 года назад +8

    Hi, I came to Tanzania a year ago, it wasn't a culture shock but I was surprised at the quality of things was less, that's why I shipped my own furniture, yard supplies, appliances, cosmetics, clothing, and a few medical supplies. I also had things in my shipment that were broken and stolen by people here and I am in litigation about that now.

    • @kingmaafa120
      @kingmaafa120 2 года назад

      Love Tanzania 🇹🇿 be back soon
      Spent 3 months

    • @Blenduu
      @Blenduu 2 года назад

      Sorry to hear. What kind of permit did you acquire (student/business/etc.)?

  • @KrystthisIAM
    @KrystthisIAM 2 года назад +7

    it's fine..the whole earth belongs to our Almighty CREATOR so feel at home whenever wherever

  • @kennettabradford6566
    @kennettabradford6566 Год назад +6

    I'm black American and never wanted to move anywhere else. I'm not African. I'm American two totally different cultures.

    • @WinifredForbes-x9n
      @WinifredForbes-x9n 4 месяца назад

      NO MATTER WHERE YOU COME. FROM AS LONG HAS YOUR A BLACK MAN YOUR AN AFRICAN
      THAT GOES TO EVERY NATION THEY BELONG TO A GROUP

    • @thenubianspeaks4329
      @thenubianspeaks4329 2 месяца назад +2

      @@kennettabradford6566 it is not unusual to have black people who are perfectly content on the plantation just like in slavery's. Obviously you have not paid attention or chose to ignore the fact that most of our black culture in America has its roots in Africa and the blacks in America and on the continent have more in common than not. You can choose to ignore the pervasive racism in America all you want but it exists nevertheless and you are a recipient whether you want to believe it or not

  • @moorfortune901
    @moorfortune901 2 года назад +13

    Ppl should learn local language,culture, and economy. Many folks move on a whim and never been to the country. Yet open a business and failed.

  • @biggalaxy9102
    @biggalaxy9102 2 года назад +7

    I must say, you two are absolutely beautiful people. You both look amazing & your energy is beautiful. My fiancé is Ethiopian & she wants me to move out there but I rather she come to the states, become a citizen here & then we can travel all over the world. It's a dream of ours & we will make it happen eventually. Thank you for an informative video & stay beautiful & keep spreading your goodness. Saludos from your Puerto Rican Brotha!

  • @achilleango3119
    @achilleango3119 Год назад +1

    What a beautiful couple the 2 of you are! Very genuine and open minded. Everything you said is true. I just want to add that one of the reasons why imported items are sometimes very expensive in Africa is that governments take a huge cut in customs tariffs.

  • @rowenaallen353
    @rowenaallen353 2 года назад +5

    Medcal, hygienic, credibly, and security is what I need! Not Afrca, I’m still looking!

  • @ehop149
    @ehop149 Год назад +7

    Thank you for your video. My husband and I are looking forward to making the move to Rwanda this summer. We have visited several countries in southern African and East Africa and think Rwanda suits us best. We look forward to hopefully meeting you two once we’re there😊

    • @sterlingkayon84
      @sterlingkayon84 Год назад +1

      ive never been to Africa but so desire the experience. would love to connect with you guys and travel there sometime and even hear your travel stories. cheers.

  • @smoothflight3090
    @smoothflight3090 Год назад +4

    I moved from California to Mississippi and it's a culture shock 🤯

    • @AwakenWithMarkInAFRICA
      @AwakenWithMarkInAFRICA  Год назад

      Where in California? Mississippi made me nervous.

    • @smoothflight3090
      @smoothflight3090 Год назад

      @@AwakenWithMarkInAFRICA I lived in the San Fernando Valley, Tarzana to be exact. I loathe living in Mississippi, I live in North Central Mississippi now. I've been watching alot of videos on Ghana 🇬🇭 the good and the bad. I am interested in going for a trip possibly. Thanks for this upload.

    • @AwakenWithMarkInAFRICA
      @AwakenWithMarkInAFRICA  Год назад

      @@smoothflight3090 Your very welcome 🙏🏾. We enjoyed SoCal which was way different from DC.
      Sadly, many folks are worried about banking, cars, etc., not many people are considering the mindset which is everything - pay attention to the cultural impact. Hope this makes sense. Best to you.

    • @smoothflight3090
      @smoothflight3090 Год назад

      @@AwakenWithMarkInAFRICA I love LA I understand it's a bit much, I was born there, it's all I know. Yes, I have to be mindful of the cultural differences. Blessings to you both. All Praises to TMH YAH Forever 🌺

    • @AwakenWithMarkInAFRICA
      @AwakenWithMarkInAFRICA  Год назад +1

      @@smoothflight3090 APTTMH

  • @jamesvickers5004
    @jamesvickers5004 2 года назад +8

    I found in my trips to Ghana, that the shopping centers, restaurants and hotels are priced for tourists and the wealthy, several items was similar priced or higher than the USA.

  • @equilabrada
    @equilabrada Год назад +7

    I’m going on 30 and this was exactly the type of candid info I’ve been looking for because I know in my 40s I really do want to move to the Caribbean or Africa. But I just have begun doing my research on things like economy, resources, gov, visas(or dual citizenship options), cultural courtesy differences, etc now so when I’m closer to 40 I’m not rushing my research. I also plan to actually visit the countries I’m interested in over the next decade for at least a month at a time to truly get a feel for them in person. I Loved this video. Loved the G.R.O.W. acronym as well. Thank you for dropping so many gems.🔥

    • @AwakenWithMarkInAFRICA
      @AwakenWithMarkInAFRICA  Год назад +3

      Let us know about your journey.

    • @sherwood9917
      @sherwood9917 Год назад

      I cannot speak for Africa, but can speak for the Caribbean. If you really want to test the waters, going for a month is not a sufficient amount of time. Go and spend extended periods there, that way you can get a feel as to whether you can cope. See if you can deal with the stress of feeling like you constantly have to watch over your shoulder, for example.

  • @TheAfrikanSuperstar
    @TheAfrikanSuperstar 2 года назад +8

    Alot people don't last in Africa because they have unrealistic expectations of what life will be like. #Afrikansuperstar

  • @bsdguy
    @bsdguy 2 года назад +6

    You guys are so right about consumerism! Advertising (propaganda) really does work.

  • @coxwagan
    @coxwagan Год назад +2

    The truth of the matter is no matter how racist no matter how violent America is. It's still one of the best places in the world to live.Facts

    • @AshaMae
      @AshaMae 2 месяца назад

      Opinion

  • @royhayes2322
    @royhayes2322 Год назад +4

    VERY DETAILED AND PURE UNDERSTANDING, BUT FAMILY LIKE YOU GUYS HAVE NO IDEA HOW MUCH THIS AT LEAST HELPS ME.... PLAIN AND SIMPLE VIDEO! THANKS GUYS

  • @miragenesoi7026
    @miragenesoi7026 2 года назад +11

    I must be meant to watch this at this exact moment because what I've been going through has been a disaster. I relocated for a job in another country, and now I'm headed back to the states. So, now I've taken a few steps back and decided what factors I need to check off and what I really desire to live a slower pace life. So, thank you.

  • @marnyalken17
    @marnyalken17 Год назад +1

    Thank you for being as honest as you can. I know others needed it. Because practise always help!!!

  • @mikec360
    @mikec360 2 года назад +22

    Excellent, factual and concise discussion! You guys deserve a lot more subscribers.

  • @burundishallsmile1day109
    @burundishallsmile1day109 2 года назад +11

    I Like your calmness
    In talking.
    Lovely show 🎩

  • @necee67
    @necee67 Год назад +1

    I have a cousin, and a very good friend who are both retired US military one lives in South Africa and one lives in Tanzania. They love it.

  • @bernadeanboykins4998
    @bernadeanboykins4998 2 года назад +16

    I have really enjoyed the content you two are providing us with. This information is critical for anyone considering moving to Africa. I plan to visit Africa in the near future. And again, thank you for sharing such profound advice 💯👍🤗!!!

  • @BLACKSTARMOVEMENTS
    @BLACKSTARMOVEMENTS Год назад +7

    Here in Africa and can concur and attest to these reality checks especially in landlocked African nations. Being a business administration grad specialized in marketing with a book keeping & computerized accounting diplomas, and worked in sales for some years, budgeting is keep part of every plan and initiative taken personal or business; Africa in generals biggest problems are a result of mismanagement, so nipping it in the bud with discipline and good planning is key success factor.✊🏿🙏🏾

  • @rlbrown65
    @rlbrown65 2 года назад +4

    Two very beautiful people! Thank you for sharing your endeavors with us who may just want to be informed. What I noticed immediately, was the softness in which you spoke. I don't know if that is a regular thing with your personalities, but living in California, you don't see that temperament unless you're interacting with someone your quite familiar with. I am now a subscriber!

    • @AwakenWithMarkInAFRICA
      @AwakenWithMarkInAFRICA  2 года назад +1

      🙏🏾 Thank you. My mother & mother-in-law tell me that I shouldn’t be talking “down in my shoes”. I think it might be my personality. But I’ve learned that money follows energy, so I’m trying to bring more excitement. Thank you for subscribing, we appreciate it.

  • @jameskagg5127
    @jameskagg5127 2 года назад +12

    Beautiful my dear brother and sister! Great information and much to consider before relocating to Africa. Thank you for sharing your knowledge and opening my eyes to the challenges involving moving into a new world. The most impressive part of listening for me came at the end when you said you were resting on the seventh day! That was the jewel on the crown!🙏🏾👑

    • @kevincampbell7338
      @kevincampbell7338 2 года назад

      I thought I heard that too, but wasn’t sure. Will go over the video again… am an Adventist too , resting on the seventh day sabbath… am Africa conscious and I must go back

  • @gsup3874
    @gsup3874 Год назад +1

    You better keep her bruh. She's agreeing with every word coming out of your mouth! Absolutely beautiful!

  • @wb1738
    @wb1738 2 года назад +14

    People need to know that North America is a different continent than Africa which is thousands of miles away so you should consider that it's going to be very expensive to import goods into the continent. If it cost several times of dollars just to visit Africa, you need to be prepared to have more than enough money to survive on a consistent basis. The main point is not thinking that Africa will be cheap and not expensive to live.
    The pandemic is a lesson for all of us to realize that things has changed so we need to consider and adopt a new normal. Don't expect to find your favorite items you use to get on a regular basis. You can shop now, but not find the things you are used to get on a regular basis.

    • @madeyouthink3063
      @madeyouthink3063 2 года назад +2

      North Africa is on the same continent as Africa

    • @livingfinance
      @livingfinance 2 года назад +1

      Yes and it has a different reality. Are all US states at the same economic level? But they are all part of the same country.

    • @madeyouthink3063
      @madeyouthink3063 2 года назад

      @@livingfinance ok I understand. I thought that you meant North Africa and Africa were on different continents.

  • @grown-ups4370
    @grown-ups4370 2 года назад +8

    I think that the most important thing is to set an intention.
    And no matter where you go, you must have a liveable income; be open to change because there is always an adjustment period.
    No matter if you are moving from one state to another. And it is just plain common sense, in my opinion, to know something about your destination.
    I would not recommend anyone to relocate to Africa unless they are retired, retiring, or have been invited by a reputable company paying a decent salary with amenities like health care and living accommodations comparable to the United States because the wages are considerably lower.

  • @RobandSijay
    @RobandSijay Год назад +10

    Loving this video. It reminds me of the similarities we experienced as expats in Thailand and the appreciation I had for America's conveniences. How the natives were content with just being and carried a smile even during hard times. It's a big difference seeing a country as a tourist vs relocating there and making it home.

  • @FreshPrincessofAfrica
    @FreshPrincessofAfrica 2 года назад +18

    Several good points. I learned some of this after seeing Africa for myself and as an entrepreneur. Americans ARE trained consumers unless you are a successful business owner. Also the cost of living may be lower but your prices also will have to be lowered to accommodate the local competitive pricing which may not sustain your living standards. Lots to consider.

  • @drumrboi72
    @drumrboi72 2 года назад +4

    As an Black American, 👁 once lived in Nigeria for 2 years (In my childhood years) but that was all my mother and 👁 could take at the time; we were just 2 spoiled and privileged Americans who simply could not adjust 2 that environment😔...However 👁 still love and miss Africa VERY MUCH and would absolutely love 2 visit and eat sum of that YUMMY 😋 Nigerian 🇳🇬 spicy food again sum day!

    • @jackjines3461
      @jackjines3461 2 года назад

      Wow how refreshing to read some truth about America. Love it or leave it! You can achieve anything you want here.

  • @adraye5123
    @adraye5123 Год назад +4

    I really appreciate you and your wife giving a true update on the highs and the lows of moving from America to Another Country.
    America is the best. Thank You !!

  • @billydanzz
    @billydanzz 2 года назад +10

    People should travel abroad first before moving to any country. There are too many basic, but important things you won't realize if you've never traveled internationally.

  • @danettacargle6591
    @danettacargle6591 Год назад +1

    Thanks so much! I am preparing for retirement in the next 5 - 7 years. This is very valuable and price less information.

  • @andrepowell3809
    @andrepowell3809 2 года назад +5

    Before anyone moves out the country that was always in the USA you should travel out of the US to a few different places and see how did you like these places, food, music, hearing different languages, people not understanding you when you speak, and just the change of things. You should do this and if you didn't like that you're probably not going to like moving to another country.

  • @lorol5224
    @lorol5224 2 года назад +5

    This is so useful. Your information is practical, down to earth and grounded. It's not hyped up nonsense like you see on some channels, romanticizing such a monumental move then people make the move without having prepared efficiently and then get stuck or give up fast.

  • @ghostman6074
    @ghostman6074 Год назад +2

    Always visit first…..if you can’t last a few weeks you might wanna stay in America…..there’s no social services to fall back on or regular bus taxi services like the states.

  • @bslat10
    @bslat10 2 года назад +12

    Hello, you made a lot of good points about having a steady income when relocating and getting out of debt. Some people don’t plan well and end up struggling and begging for donations and or try to support their lifestyles by making RUclips videos.

    • @eileenwatt8283
      @eileenwatt8283 2 года назад +7

      It's the same in the USA. People move from the North to the South because it's less expensive in the South.
      They move with credit card debt and no job offers only to return to the North because they didn't plan.

    • @daphneytennard3267
      @daphneytennard3267 Год назад

      😂😂👍👍

  • @MrRob1317
    @MrRob1317 Год назад +1

    This was a very articulate, well thought dump of information, and I realize now that my people aren't ready for a move like this

  • @MissUnique2584
    @MissUnique2584 2 года назад +5

    Thanks for being real about your experience a lot of people advertise the landscape of it beauty but not give you notes on how to live with your own income you can’t get a job there so be mindful of the misconceptions in them not telling the truth… All country is about greed when you a foreigners…

  • @cdaniels9119
    @cdaniels9119 2 года назад +5

    It makes sense to know before you go. Thanks! I appreciate the categorization (e.g., finances, community, language) of things to consider.

    • @cdaniels9119
      @cdaniels9119 2 года назад +1

      One of the biggest takeaways involves knowing WHY you are going, WHAT you are leaving behind (“running” from), WHAT you are seeking (“running” to). There is a cost to every decision.

  • @mattikarosenthal3298
    @mattikarosenthal3298 Год назад +4

    Budgeting is very important for everyone, does it matter where you live, you need to learn the skill, especially when you retire, and you need to track where all your money is going. And this is a skill you need to develop when you first start working and making an income and teach your children to do it as well.❤

  • @Adaptivities2
    @Adaptivities2 2 года назад +6

    I really enjoying this! This was very informative. Thank you Bradley’s!

  • @BB-it4pj
    @BB-it4pj 2 года назад +7

    I visited Tanzania recently although it was beautiful and we loved the people it did notfeel likehome, and the food and grocery stores did nothave what my family needed. We also got food poisoning and felt that standards at restaurants were terrible. We found one perfect restaurant though called Mama Africa this place was clean and food delicious. The flight took us 40 hours. We have an infant son and twins on the way we don't think we can travel that far again with 3 infants so we may have to consider the carribean

    • @jimsmith9546
      @jimsmith9546 2 года назад

      Sorry for what your experience, a matter of fact did they ever mentioned where they were on the continent?

    • @silentnight9655
      @silentnight9655 2 года назад +1

      You could consider Barbados, Bequia or Cuba next trip.

    • @BB-it4pj
      @BB-it4pj 2 года назад +6

      @@silentnight9655 cuba has too many yt latinos. Although I love latinos many afro latinos suffer from identity issues. We want to avoid latin countries so our children don't learn to hate themselves and don't have to assimilate to a different people. Black Carribean islands are definitely on the list

    • @silentnight9655
      @silentnight9655 2 года назад +6

      ​@@BB-it4pj Be mindful that ''black consciousness'' doesn't really exist in predominately Afro Caribbean countries like it does among A/C communities in the UK and US. Why would it if almost everyone has retained their African look even if not their African culture? Also watch out for colourism. That honestly exists, some places more than others.

    • @BB-it4pj
      @BB-it4pj 2 года назад +4

      @@silentnight9655 good advice thank you. I thought about that too. Some Caribbean black people do not have black consciousness and you are right about colorism. Honestly I am not sure which country we will choose to root our family but we will keep searching

  • @NNavyBBlue
    @NNavyBBlue Год назад

    There is no reason why this genuine, heartfelt video, filled with knowledge and cultural etiquette has been up for 5 months and only has 7k likes. Yet, videos about uncouth people and their repulsive situations are nearing hundreds of thousands to 1 M views.

  • @terrycoleman2338
    @terrycoleman2338 2 года назад +5

    Thank you for sharing very important information regarding moving to the continent. So truth about adapting to different cultures. Your experience is a eye opener. Peace and blessings. 😀👍🏾🙏🏼

  • @SSMZA
    @SSMZA 2 года назад +5

    Just to add some light on the content with due respect,South Africa can never be compared with any African country. The other guy is more on South Africa,definitely good ice cream in SA won’t cost $14. Also people take advantage when they see foreigners. Wish you well. Shalom 🙏🏽❤️

  • @reeboo43
    @reeboo43 Год назад +1

    I married in Africa but I'm American and now that my husband is here in the U.S many family and friends and surprise at his work ethic and that he can do anything I tried to tell them its instilled in them young

  • @ReincarnatedStargazer
    @ReincarnatedStargazer 2 года назад +4

    I really enjoyed the message regarding consumerism. Most people, in general, have a poor relationship with money. Wherever you go, there you are. If you spend haphazardly in the States, you'll likely do it on any corner of the earth.
    I have no social media accounts. I own no TVs. Unsubscribing from emails and snail mail are like a video game to me -- largely because I understand the psychological implications advertisements have on our self-worth. I don't need a corporation to appeal to me why I should be unhappy with my perfectly working 15 year-old fridge or my fully paid-for car. But let me clear, divesting from gross consumerism in the States can be lonely. Most have no clue how to entertain each other without spending money. And they take offense to those of us that do.
    This was an enjoyable talk and I wish you two all the best on the continent. I grew up on small rural farm in the South. One day, I plan to retire with a garden, a modest home Ave white picket fence in my majority black hometown in Mississippi. And I wish to continue to visit the continent for vacations as I explore the various sites, sounds, food, culture and beautiful people throughout.
    Meanwhile, I'm extremely grateful for the ability to appreciate the value in simplicity.
    Love and light to everyone reading this. ❤
    "An item in possession seldom retains the same charm that it had in pursuit."
    Pliny the Younger, Book II, Letter 15

  • @Star-wd5en
    @Star-wd5en 2 года назад +8

    I’m glad I stumbled across this video. I’m in the DMV, Waldorf to be exact and I want to move off of this continent. Right now I’m currently using this year to pay off all debt so a year from now I will be completely debt free! And I’m currently learning French so I can keep up with others. I’m glad I found you guys channel, I look forward to watching more videos from you!

    • @AwakenWithMarkInAFRICA
      @AwakenWithMarkInAFRICA  2 года назад +1

      So glad to speak with someone from Waldorf (my fam says hi).
      We wish you well and hope that our info is helpful.
      I’ll also pre-announce some goodies we hope to post up, probably to our website AwakenWithMark.com.
      Blessings

    • @Star-wd5en
      @Star-wd5en 2 года назад

      @@AwakenWithMarkInAFRICA Many Blessings to you and your family 🙏🏾 ❤️ 💫

    • @michellebrownonline235
      @michellebrownonline235 Год назад

      Hi neighbor, PG County & i plan to leave as well...

    • @ooooooooooooooooooooopppppp
      @ooooooooooooooooooooopppppp Год назад

      You will be back... Africa you must be kidding Africans are dying to get out of Africa...DC and Atlanta Georgia has the richest most educated blacks in history so stop lying bamma hahaha 🤣

    • @WelshKennelzCombine_DMV
      @WelshKennelzCombine_DMV Год назад

      I'm in Hyattsville Maryland but stay in Jamaica 4 months out the year

  • @vvictory3944
    @vvictory3944 Год назад +2

    At 14:00......it is very different in the states bc people from other countries can come here (US) and get hired before a citizen of this country.

  • @keithmcgilvery5614
    @keithmcgilvery5614 Год назад +4

    I really appreciate y’all taking the time to make this video. It was very informative and enlightening. I been thinking of making that move and y’all gave me some things to consider. I have done my due diligence but y’all have even gave me more perspective. I hope y’all do another and include things like health care and housing. I have lived in different countries so its not totally new to me but that was military. Also things like the banking system and the different laws and customs. Thanks a lot and I hope the most High continues to bless you both

  • @cherylwin9364
    @cherylwin9364 Год назад +1

    Thank you for speaking the truth about the matter without the cursing that our young people can’t seem to express themselves without 😮…. Thank GOD FOR MATURE AFRICAN AMERICAN PEOPLE WHO CAN EXPLAIN AND EXPRESS THEMSELVES WITHOUT DEROGATORY AND VILE LANGUAGE.❤❤❤

  • @DanielleSamoneJohnson77
    @DanielleSamoneJohnson77 Год назад +5

    This is a wonderfully pragmatic, grounded, and empowering set of principles. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and insights. Blessings and Best Wishes 💝

    • @AwakenWithMarkInAFRICA
      @AwakenWithMarkInAFRICA  Год назад +1

      Thank you for commenting 🙏🏾

    • @vividinnovations8616
      @vividinnovations8616 Год назад

      I don't know which part of Africa they are but I beg to differ, prices are lower in Africa because of the exchange rate

    • @AwakenWithMarkInAFRICA
      @AwakenWithMarkInAFRICA  Год назад

      @@vividinnovations8616 Danielle, yes, we find that prices are much better on the continent. There are over 50 countries so it depends on which one you’re going to. But we couldn’t afford retirement in the states. Please visit any “cost of living” website for data.

    • @AwakenWithMarkInAFRICA
      @AwakenWithMarkInAFRICA  Год назад

      @@vividinnovations8616 Sorry, for the incorrect name. My apologies.
      We were in Rwanda now in Zanzibar. Cost of living is fine.

  • @mamayolanda4282
    @mamayolanda4282 Год назад +2

    Thank you SO much for this honest insight! Very important information! Looking forward to our transition to the Continent but this really helped, in addition to what we’ve already researched! Much love to you all!

    • @AwakenWithMarkInAFRICA
      @AwakenWithMarkInAFRICA  Год назад

      We appreciate your comment Mama Yolanda🙏🏾. This video was done in Rwanda, we moved to Zanzibar, please see our other posts. Thank you

  • @ochyeng
    @ochyeng 2 года назад +7

    Very true; our food is more natural, hence doesn't last as long as those on your shelves that are basically laced with all sorts of preservatives.

    • @gokboru_fba
      @gokboru_fba 2 года назад

      could you explain how your food is more natural?

    • @ochyeng
      @ochyeng 2 года назад +2

      @@gokboru_fba our stores generally only receive according to what will be bought within a given period, so there's rarely a case of overstocking. That means that the food stays for shorter periods on the shelves. There's no need for a lot of preservatives in that case. More often than not, most supplies move from the farm directly to the table because the supply chains are shorter between farmers, middlemen and sellers.

    • @gokboru_fba
      @gokboru_fba 2 года назад +3

      @@ochyeng bruh, what you just explained is the process of stocking a grocery store with goods. You didn't explain how the products are "more natural". Natural is natural. What you mean are processed foods containing preservatives. But Africa has plenty of processed foods as well. Everything is about knowing how to choose whats best for your health.

  • @taurusscorpion6704
    @taurusscorpion6704 2 года назад +4

    I am in Houston and you both are correct regarding the differences in culture from one part of the states to another. Those in Maryland are a bit more calmer than of those in Los Angeles. All of my adult life I have had friends from other countries. They are just open and friendly and yes, the budget like you would not believe and make their lives work and have become successful without knowing the English language will at all. I will be visiting Ghana later this year and I have met many woman over these few years that I will be meeting in person. One lady is from here in Texas. It is good to really know and understand people who are on the ground in the land you are desiring to visit. I have put up my car, use Lyft, go fewer places, create my own entertainment, I work remote, I cook my meals that last at least 3 days, I use natural light. I have been unlearning how I have been conditioned to think. Needs are met, not the past wants. I have a goal.

    • @ooooooooooooooooooooopppppp
      @ooooooooooooooooooooopppppp Год назад +1

      Moving to Africa won't help you reach your goal ... Africans are dying trying to get out of Africa

    • @taurusscorpion6704
      @taurusscorpion6704 Год назад

      @@ooooooooooooooooooooopppppp One of many goals, thought not the main or top. My statement is aligned only to the subject matter.

  • @iownmycurl
    @iownmycurl 2 года назад +5

    I am currently living in the DMV area, thanks for sharing, this is very informative.

  • @donaldmcmullin6483
    @donaldmcmullin6483 Год назад +2

    I really enjoyed listening to you talk about the various experiences that you learned while living in a foreign country. And how planning and preparation are essential in order to make a successful transition. There's so much to consider, money being the primary consideration, because you have to be able to sustain yourself. Get to know others. Good advice.

  • @siyabonganxumalo4574
    @siyabonganxumalo4574 2 года назад +18

    I'm from South Africa. Have you visited South Africa? Your experience might be different.

    • @AwakenWithMarkInAFRICA
      @AwakenWithMarkInAFRICA  2 года назад +10

      It is on the list.

    • @siyabonganxumalo4574
      @siyabonganxumalo4574 2 года назад +8

      @@AwakenWithMarkInAFRICA you welcome. We can't wait to have you here.

    • @taniandabambi3815
      @taniandabambi3815 2 года назад +5

      @@AwakenWithMarkInAFRICA i hope you explore even the rural areas of South Africa

    • @azalianieuwenhuys8844
      @azalianieuwenhuys8844 2 года назад +7

      Please come visit our beautiful country. Also check out Dr Asad El Malik RUclips channel...he and his family just moved here from USA. It may give you some insight into what to expect when you arrive.
      You're going to love it here...
      Stay safe family.

    • @fredkofiodoom5499
      @fredkofiodoom5499 2 года назад

      I recommend Ghana 🇬🇭 for you and you will thank me later.