The bigger problem is dating a man for 4 year without you introducing him to your family. If really love him marriage should be arranged immediately to avoid such thing sister
Lacagtu hadey deyn aheyd waa leyahey makey hesho bay bixineysaa .Hadii aan lagu heshiin in ay dayn tahey markii hore waxba kuma leh gabadha .waa aragtideyda
Asc wallal marka hore waad mahadsantahay Ninkaas waa nin qaali ah Sababtoo ah dad badan ayuu ka badbadadinayaa xaraan inay galaan gabdho iyo wiilal ba miskiin ku dhclay gabadh unbadana waan u soo joognay illaahay ha kacabsadaan waxa mihiima gabdhu marka uu xidhidhka will ay wada socdaan xadkaas gaadho mar walba inay la socdaan walidkeed si ayna fhibkaas oo Kele u Iman inay xaran tahayna wan ku racsanahay culimada gabdha soogudbisayna Marlabad ban ku salamayaa walal aad bad u mahadsantahay
I don't understand the scenario of our girls confessing CALAF as an excuse of ending up marrying different man instead of the man they were hunging around for years, and yet the girl child has the right to marry the man of her choice and our Diin has nothing to do about it, If a girl stand firm with her decision of marrying the man of her choice then the parents themselves have no right to force to their daughters in another relationship.
Asc, horta wad mahadsantahay marki hore, Horta waxaan kuweydina lacagta ma adhiga wilka weydin jiray misee asaga Ku garan jiray, hada weydin jirtay wilka lacagta ama Daarka oo marki as weydisa as kusiinay, lacaag tas wa xaaran, lakin asaga haduu markasta lacagta ama Daarka inu kusiiya Ku garanay, xarran kugumaaha, Mida kale wilka waqti iyo jaceyl bas kugubixi ee walidka ma iskaqincin waysi oo madihi waysi, aabe iyo hooyo Horta wadmahadsantihin sidi as wilkan as igukenten, somajirto isweydiin aniga qaf caqli iyo Karti ama hami leh marki as iikeneysin nin as Wax as igusameyna as garaneynin,
Horta marka hore isagaa wax waalan ahaa ninka 4 sano naag uusan qabin lacag ku daldalaya, sdarteed way ku sugtay, Iyaduna inay weydiiso & inaysan weydiin waa isku mid oo markay lacagta ka guraysey way ogayd inuu mustaqbal dheer & awlaad ku rabey, oo walaashiis lacagtaas u baahnayd uusanna siin jirin, sdarteed hadday af buuxa ku tiri kuma rabo oo ninkay waalidkey isiiyeen baan rabaa waqtigii uma soo celin karto ee hantidiisii ha u soo celiso si uu naag aan khiyaanayn ugu raadsado..
The major issue is that you have cheated your friend after four years that you have wasted all time and his money as well without any reasonable matter, so he has the right to get back everything that has spent upon you, because you could solve the problem by consulting your parents telling them the truth for everything regarding the relation with this man, as he show you all the evidence that you could trust him, and all his kindness.
To cut the story short,,the man did very wrong for giving her money..that's why most men don't do that. It's confirmed that ladies always neglect, hate and leave those men who give them money, protect and love them. The moment you give an extraordinary love to your girl and show her that love,,,it's the end of you,, that's what I always know
Using someone’s money while deep inside you know you are not going to Marry is a scam! We have seen this happen many times and all of you guys know that. It’s haram to steal someone’s property. All forms of scam is also haram! Including this one ☝🏽
For me i can say the man has no problem when he is asking his wealth back because the girl couldn't confuse her parents then that could have been the best solution.he already missed the love but let him not miss the money.
Anab mansha allaah afka allaha kaama goyo waxaan dhahilay ayaaf dhah day lacag ayeey ka fakareysaa qof dhay mustaqbalkisa ku cayartay aniga waxan ahay Hooyo caruurleh weliba labanjiraa gabadheyda marabo inay wil ku cayarto ama wilkeyga saas lo xumeyo hadal iyo dhamaan hadii ayjirto sida ayshegeyso beenta badan wiilkaa waxaan dhehi lahaa bahi ama eedo ilaahey wax ka qeer badan allaha kuu sahlo
ASC FADLAN CAYDA JOOJI MARKA HORE TA LABAAD NINKAAS WEYDIISO INUU KU SAAMAXO WAAYO KHALADKA ADAA LEH LAMAAD SOCODSIIN WAALIDKAA INAAD SHEEKO LA WADAAGTO NIN KALE TAAS WEEYAAN MASHAAKILKU INSHA ALLAH THANKS
Hadaba ogow inta aad xaskayga ka noqonayso Wan kula xisaabtamaa wax walba aan ku siiyo Hadad igaga baxdo balanta Hadad ila joogto kadibna xaskayga noqoto waa halkan rabay madaxa sare ku saaran jecelkayga mustaqbalkaay😢
is so funny she used like his money but when he asked her back he became midgan sister pay his money back you not his women you break his heart we have to be fair as women
Haah wuu ku saxanyahy sababtoo ah waa hinaasey waxaa laga guutsada qofka kaliya uu dunida ku lahaa ee u hibeeyey nololshiisa hadane la soo istaagtay waa ley guusaday waa waali cass
Haduusan ku qabin siduu Cagaha kuugu dhaqayey? Nin aan ku qabinse maxaad Xoolaha intaa le’eg uga Cuntay? Qof walba Xoolihiisu way u xisaab san yihiine waxaadan lahayn si fudud ha isaga cunin
Allah hadii laga cabsanayo adiga qaldan waayo nin aad afar sano xoolihiisa cunaysey inaad ugu jawabto nin baa la isiiyey waa khalad ee lacagtana bixi dharki iyo cuntadii iyo ka ihiina ha cafiyo isaguna
Asc wll marka hore khalad ayu ku siyay adoon ahayn xaaskisa lacg dhan $7000 lkn haduba khaldamay gabdhu wa inay lacagta iska bixiso wxu kaaga iibsaday qalbigaga hadad qalbigagi ninkale siisay isana lacgtisi u celi oo ninkan kale ka qaad ama u shaqee nin aan xisaabtamin ninba ma aha hadad daacad tahY intaad wxaso lacaga cunaysay ayad u sheegi lahay rerkina inaan ninkas rabto oo uu mustaqbal rabo lkn wad khayanty ee lacagta un iska celi wayba yartHye aadan ladhimanine
As Muslims, we believe that if someone gives you something they have no right to ask you back. Also, why did you take money from someone who isn't related to you? Just because you two were planning to get married .😢😢
Adiga iska soo qaad afarsano nin lacag ku bixinay say in aad guur sato kadibna jacayl aad ubadan ayuu kuu Muujiyey adigoo calafkiisa milkiyey qalbi ahaan ayuu gabarkale guursaday sidee yeeli lahayd wa su aal adaga lagarabo
Iyada iyo kuwa la midka ah ee raga ka ajaanibka la sheekaysta sanado amaba xitaa bilo, ee suuqa u raaca, ee lacag ka qaata waa danbiilayaal if iyo aakhiraba. Bal maxay ka wads sheekaysanayeen 4 sano? Gabadh qofkii doonayaa waa inuu waalidkeed u tago oo weydiisto. Shukaansiga reer xamarku waa xaaraan sideedaba, waana waxyaabaha keena sinada intaysan is guursan
😂😂😂haduusan kuu cafin hadaad Aduunka ku bixin weysaan dhamaan. Aakhiro ayaad la or ordeeysaan hoo hoo oon lagaa qaadan lkn in badan wey cafiyaan Maasha Alaah
When someone gives you something as a gift then that thing automatically becomes yours and no longer his or hers. Unless it was lend to you so that you may return then the one who gave it has the right to ask for it back.
Asc Walaal! If what you have said here is true and things unfolded as you have described. My advice is first of all both of them must repent to Allah SWT asap for engaging in a non islamic relationship. Second, to my opinion she doesn’t have to pay back anything because it sounds like the man was doing all this willingly. And lastly and very Important always obey your parents, it’s one way ticket to Jannah. Allah knows Best
Ight i'mma be honest with you here ...... everything in this world has a payback and everything is accountable he had showered her with his money, he loved her with all his heart he did that because of what he wanted to see her happy since she's the source of his Happiness trust me the word Love is painful really painful 😣 How can you spend his money lavishly and being happy with it thinking you are the only one she never even bothered to just think for awhile where does her boyfriend gets the money from ? What if the money she's has been given by her lover was an inheritance left for the guy? He spend with you because he thought someday when the time is right he'll marry her When you love you love wholeheartedly We the guys are aware of (Calaf) and those kind of stuff but why do you think he spent all his wealth and spared his time with her? Ofcoz he had the hope of marrying her ...... Why didn't she fight for his place Why didn't she introduced him to her parents Why didn't she settle down with her parents discussing what the guys has done for her Why didn't she tell her parents that they'll be consequences if the guy is doesn't marry her I swear this is not love in return If she loved him and cared about his feelings she would atleast do one of those things That guy is really strong if he kept you alive and didn't do stupid stuffs to himself Please pray for him don't cut him off like that it takes time for a heart to heal so be there for sometime and leave when the guy is OK Just an advise please to our beautiful sisters our weakness are you and that won't change a thing walahi even our prophet advised us about women So stop using men's wealthy and most importantly Time since this generation they say Time is money You can't use a heart just to get your needs Don't use a heart for fun I swear walahi there no guy will do that much for you if his mindset is to use you for LUST or stupid things But that guy ! Man am sure he had the mentality of marrying her So is either you refund his money or she marries him So stop only saying you will listen to your parents only and leaving a soul that you hurt you think you'll ever be happy Tell your parents that you love him and would like him to marry you atleast do your part for God sake If they reject Allah will question them in the hereafter you can force your children to marry someone who they don't want just because you earned that respect i know parents wants the best for their child ofcoz they'll listen to you eventually
Walidkaga ma qofadan shekeysan oo ad is arkin wuxu yahay na adan ogey ayad racdey kad shekeysaneysen gacana ku geystey waxad ka jeclatey mid adan aqoon oo weliga adan arag 🇸🇴❤️🇸🇴❤️🇸🇴
first i didn’t understand the question i’m confuse and i don’t know what to say suaal shiekh umal ka oohisay i was waiting su aasha iyo jawaabta shiekha adoo raaliya culimada hakaga been sheegan ciwaanka mawduuca aad ka hadlayso
@@fatumaiftin6787 kuma xiro walaal inuu la hadlo, ayadaba waa ogtahay in rabitankisa ka faidaysanaysay malkana lama ogolo in dadku si badil ah kukala cunaan,
Gabadhaan way qaldantahay, bal diintee u ogol in ay nin aan qabin xiriir aad la yeelato, ceebteeda waxay meel lasoo fariisanee nin aan 4 sano la socday, xijaabkaas wayna way xirantahay, nina waa la isiiyay ayay leedahay, waalidkeedna waa maqli donaan haday runtahay sheekadaan, markaa maxaa qaldan? Waa yaab!! SubxanAllah
Yac waa dhibka hada ii haysa oo telefonka xita uu badalay ,whatsapp u delete garey ,Facebook uga baxay . Waxan subiya ma aqaano wlhi I want to refresh my mind and recover the wound 😫 😢 😞 😪
First and foremost to take money from a man who has no relation with you its haram. He is not your mahram. Second he should not have given u money. That is his mistake. He should forget what he gave you and only Allah knows what is best.
Dear sister. You are not being honest. Dating this guy for 4 years and your family are not aware of the relationship. I agree with him and stop pretending.
Mid aa saxibo nahay aa hada saa kusocdo, naagtan jiljileca kada aa kakari la ahay. Nimanka qaar siil jiljilec iyo baryo in lagu helo ayey modan. Nin rag waa kii guur uso diyar garoba hadu rabitan ka arki waayane naagta kamaarma. Naag nin jilcan oo xisabtamenin marabto.
Maya Haddii ragga qaar ay yihiin probably weey kuu cafin lahaayeen I believe aniga waa ogahay waxa aan siiyo hase yeeshee 4 San waxa aan ku siinayey weligeey ma xasuusteen, haddise uu rabo lacagta ha dhiibo kii laguugu daray ama waalidkaa he was genuis to remember all this money may be becouse he was greedy oo naagaha wax siiyo Ragga aan waxba ku saacidin anyway go'aanku waa lacagta si tartiib tartiib ah Afar sano ku bixi haddii aad adiguna baqiil aheyn wa billaahi towfiiq
WLL MA WACNA HORTA IN SAAS LAGU QAANABO IN CAFIS AYAA FIICAN LKN OGOW WLL XAQ AYUU U YEELANAA HADAY NOQOTO XISAAB WAAYO SHARCIGA ISLAAMKU MARKA UU DHAHAY HA DHAWRSANAADO QOFKU SABABAHAA AYAA LOO DIIDAYAY QOFKA ISLAAMKA AHNA WAA ILAALIYAY ALLE SHARAFTIISA IYO MAALKIISABA
Talo fican ayaad sisay qofku waxisa waa uleyahay, dhibtu caruurta ay kan u dhali donto ayay asibaysa whyo qofka xaqisu melcidla ah ma dhacayo marka waa in xarifka lagu qabtay ay ushegta oo dhahda arintas ayaajirto.
Sister if you really loved him you suppose to tell your parents about your 4 years relationship. To be honest and fair pay him back his money. You break his heart. 👋
Sister wu ku saxsanyhay wayo mahmah somali tidha xolahagu xeer hakugu jiran ama xero wxase ku wacnyd inad walidkaga u sheegto wiil sidas ku daryelanaya inad haysato lagayaba kan lagu siyey inanad daryelka ka helin hadal iyo dhaman ninka wxisa u celi ilayn sadaqo kuma siine adaa wacadki ka bexee kulahaa my xisabtaman
Asalaam aleykum warahmatulahi wabarakatuhu I remember as I grew up alhamdulilah my brother advised me with one thing never in your life ever take a penny from any guy before marriage No we're in the Quran nor Sunnah give you the right to take any money from a guy and infact it's haram to use a guy if you knew he will not be the one you will end up marring. I believe that the guy has all the right to ask for his money back.
taking long to know one another is expensive. To Not meet the desirable Outcome of the lengthy period of conversation and enjoyment is Painful. NB: When getting to have Life partner be precise, conscious, and pray to score goal the Shortest possible time to avoid Luxurious chats .
Aniga ahan adiga khaldan aflagadad jogi mideyda abayo mxa marki hore adiga mxa u culeysay xolohisa sas khalad ah wayo ma ogid ina kalaf la yelaneysid wa laiska ilaliya
Why dont you tell your parent what you get from that man or why dont you make your parent to be understandable about your way ....if is haram you have to pay back
How is possible your parents didn't know that what you was getting from that man so if this story is true you have to pay back what ever you got from that man
Subxana allah ma xola islameda inta cunta hadane sas u hadle tankle 2badinba wad qaldantihin hadii hadafkinu yahay in aad is guursatan maxa kenaya waqtigas tirada bdn in aad wada socotan walidkaga we fcntahy in aad ixtiramto intad wada socten maxad ugu shegi wesay
Rag xuulehe farana katirsan ferana kaxisabsan ... my sister it is good to hear but also it's better we hear the other side ..the QURAN and sunnah of the prophet Mohammed SCW...Hubsina hal ayan lasiya .. we can't just overrun and make judgements.....assalamu alykum
Raga isku mid ma ahan wlasheyda laakin qadar dhacay canaan maleh kor uugu bax waxaas aduunka qof walbo waxa uu kuleeyahay lee kaqaada marka horay uso wll
Asc wr wb Qofka hadanad rabin Qofka wixiisana ha qaadan 4 sano Maxaad ula sugaysay Hadaad Dan ka leedahay shukansi 4 sano socda diintu maba ogola sheekaysta heshiiya Markana Waalidka ha loo tago Asxaabahii ayey sidan ku dhacday Lkn wey qabeen xukunkuna wuxuu noqday inay celiso wax kasta oo uu ka bixiyey Adiga maba lagu qabo 10.000$ haday tahay xata waa inaad iska dhiibta wuxuu kuu siinayey mustaqbal ayuu ka rabay Qofka aan Balanka ka soo bixin ma aha qof iiman leh Marka wa lagugu leeyahay xoolaha ama Imika iska bixi ama Aakhiro ayaad keenaysa
Haa habo waa la xisaabtamaa. Xoolo Rag faro ka dhiiban feero ka xisaaban. Kan ku guursanaayo familkaaga ku siiyeen ha bixiyo. Waxaad aroos ku dhigan laheeyd ku bixi. 2nd option cafis weydiiso. Gabar la’aan iyo xoolo la’aan. No No sabab baa laguu siinaayey. Xadiyad yar haa lkn cun maalin kasto
Marka hore muuqalka dhameyso intaadan cay iyo af lagaado soo qorin. Mahadsanid
Midgaan maxay ka wadaa?
Saaxiibeey 1lacagta markaa ka qaadaneysay waxaad ugu sheekeyn jortay amaba aad ku qancin jirtay guur.2 waalidkaa ninka lugaha kuu dhaqaayo iyo meeshaa ka Keeneland dharkaan mudo 4 sano eh mexey ka dheheen 3 ma adiga iyo waalidkaaba qiyaanada ayaad ku heshiiseen hadalkiyo kooban galaas biya ah oo uu ku sii yay iska soo celi qaasaaro iyo naag la,aan ma qabata wiilkee .
Midgan wa caay but anyway Anshaxa ilali
@@sakariyejamaladam9860 000
Haa ninkaas lacagtaa waa in aad sidaa
Waa kugu daaraan hadii aad ka baxday sabatii uu kuu siiyey
Isk cunto iska bixi
Iska qaadato iska bixi
Iska xidhato iska bixi
Bye bye
The bigger problem is dating a man for 4 year without you introducing him to your family. If really love him marriage should be arranged immediately to avoid such thing sister
Well spoken. If it's truly love why she didn't tell him her parents.
Lacagtu hadey deyn aheyd waa leyahey makey hesho bay bixineysaa .Hadii aan lagu heshiin in ay dayn tahey markii hore waxba kuma leh gabadha .waa aragtideyda
Lacagtas
Waxaraan
Had ninkii. Addiiday
Subhannallah rabi hanawafajiyo xaqa inlesku naxaresto waaye sidoo rabi nogo naxaristo inshallah
Ninka lagou disay iya bihin
Diintu Waxay ku Sheegeysa in aadan Cunin Ninka Xoolihiisa Haddii aadan Guursaneyn! Diintu Waxay ku Sheegeysa in aadan Balanta ka bixin!!!
faan baddan Naagta
Asc wallal marka hore waad mahadsantahay Ninkaas waa nin qaali ah Sababtoo ah dad badan ayuu ka badbadadinayaa xaraan inay galaan gabdho iyo wiilal ba miskiin ku dhclay gabadh unbadana waan u soo joognay illaahay ha kacabsadaan waxa mihiima gabdhu marka uu xidhidhka will ay wada socdaan xadkaas gaadho mar walba inay la socdaan walidkeed si ayna fhibkaas oo Kele u Iman inay xaran tahayna wan ku racsanahay culimada gabdha soogudbisayna Marlabad ban ku salamayaa walal aad bad u mahadsantahay
Inbalan laga baxo ma.ahan dhaqan mu.min wa dhaqan munaafiq
(SUBXAANALLAAH) ma midgaanaa kulahaa akhlaaq malihid wiilka xoolihiisa uceli cafisna weeydiiso wallaalkeey adigana ( ALLAAAH CASAA WAJALAH☝🏼) waxaan kaaga baryay mid ka qeyr badan (INSHA.ALLAAH )
Adu xoolorag markaad 4sano iskugusarsay ma inaad guursan iyo inkalema ogide maxaakuguwatay xaqiisa
War kaasi is again Midgaan ahaa
I was waiting for sheikh umals ilinta cesheniweye
I don't understand the scenario of our girls confessing CALAF as an excuse of ending up marrying different man instead of the man they were hunging around for years, and yet the girl child has the right to marry the man of her choice and our Diin has nothing to do about it, If a girl stand firm with her decision of marrying the man of her choice then the parents themselves have no right to force to their daughters in another relationship.
Very disappointing to need for returning what you have given out that is what I can say
Byhrkyhthlemyhhsyhb
Syhtyhgsuhryhrijyhnyhrgyhnlyh
Wyhgyhltuhyh
Walai that’s dam true and heartbreaking
Don’t take money if you can’t keep your promise that’s men’s wealthy.
Lknse hadi qofku lacag asaga uu kusiyo xaran miya ilen waba isiyey ee
@@souadsiman_official9559 bilaash miyuu kuusiinaa wuxuu rabaa inaad unoqoto xaaskiisa. Hadii aad qiyaaneysid koley lacaktu xaaraan bey kaatahay. Mideeda kale raga gawadha mabaqabaane sidey kusiinaayaan lacakta. Doqonimo ayn u'arkaa
True
Tell her😂
@@samirzain7212 saxiix
Asc, horta wad mahadsantahay marki hore,
Horta waxaan kuweydina lacagta ma adhiga wilka weydin jiray misee asaga Ku garan jiray, hada weydin jirtay wilka lacagta ama Daarka oo marki as weydisa as kusiinay, lacaag tas wa xaaran, lakin asaga haduu markasta lacagta ama Daarka inu kusiiya Ku garanay, xarran kugumaaha,
Mida kale wilka waqti iyo jaceyl bas kugubixi ee walidka ma iskaqincin waysi oo madihi waysi, aabe iyo hooyo Horta wadmahadsantihin sidi as wilkan as igukenten, somajirto isweydiin aniga qaf caqli iyo Karti ama hami leh marki as iikeneysin nin as Wax as igusameyna as garaneynin,
Jawab Sax ah
Horta marka hore isagaa wax waalan ahaa ninka 4 sano naag uusan qabin lacag ku daldalaya, sdarteed way ku sugtay,
Iyaduna inay weydiiso & inaysan weydiin waa isku mid oo markay lacagta ka guraysey way ogayd inuu mustaqbal dheer & awlaad ku rabey, oo walaashiis lacagtaas u baahnayd uusanna siin jirin, sdarteed hadday af buuxa ku tiri kuma rabo oo ninkay waalidkey isiiyeen baan rabaa waqtigii uma soo celin karto ee hantidiisii ha u soo celiso si uu naag aan khiyaanayn ugu raadsado..
The major issue is that you have cheated your friend after four years that you have wasted all time and his money as well without any reasonable matter, so he has the right to get back everything that has spent upon you, because you could solve the problem by consulting your parents telling them the truth for everything regarding the relation with this man, as he show you all the evidence that you could trust him, and all his kindness.
This girl wants to combine two big mistakes, 1. She took the money and time, 2. She lost his love and wealth.
To cut the story short,,the man did very wrong for giving her money..that's why most men don't do that. It's confirmed that ladies always neglect, hate and leave those men who give them money, protect and love them. The moment you give an extraordinary love to your girl and show her that love,,,it's the end of you,, that's what I always know
True 💯✅
The problem is the haram you are doing. Go about things the halal way, and allah will reward you.
Using someone’s money while deep inside you know you are not going to Marry is a scam! We have seen this happen many times and all of you guys know that. It’s haram to steal someone’s property. All forms of scam is also haram! Including this one ☝🏽
Cala cal kasari mayo wixi aad laqlaqeeday badeela darsaneesay iska bixi hduu wayay waxii uu rabay ma aabuu kuu ahaa bal caqli xumada Intan laeg
Aduu iimaan li daa maxaad rab tay inaadxoolorag usoo dhidideen aad aayar iskaqadato
Ineey dad ajnabi ah kala ah isla socdaan baa xaaraan ah.
Lacag aad qof hadiyad usiisay ii soo celi majirto.
Haduu guur rabo aabeheeduu u tagi lahaa, lacagtuna meher bey ahaan leheyd
4 years of dating a person and not telling your family is wrong.
For me i can say the man has no problem when he is asking his wealth back because the girl couldn't confuse her parents then that could have been the best solution.he already missed the love but let him not miss the money.
Subxaanalaah wll ani waxaan kudhihi lahaa warka dhan jooji oo ninka kharashkiisa haloo celiyo ama abahaa kaqaad ama ninka lagugu darayo kaqaad waxanoo kalena umada hala soo horfadhisanin
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Wa runta wey khaldantay
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Masakiin dad inaadan ahayn raga soomaliyeed ayaad halkan ka cadaysa😡😡😡😡😡😡😡
Anab mansha allaah afka allaha kaama goyo waxaan dhahilay ayaaf dhah day lacag ayeey ka fakareysaa qof dhay mustaqbalkisa ku cayartay aniga waxan ahay Hooyo caruurleh weliba labanjiraa gabadheyda marabo inay wil ku cayarto ama wilkeyga saas lo xumeyo hadal iyo dhamaan hadii ayjirto sida ayshegeyso beenta badan wiilkaa waxaan dhehi lahaa bahi ama eedo ilaahey wax ka qeer badan allaha kuu sahlo
Xaaraan ayay kugu tahay ninkan wuu ku aaminay 4 sano ayuu ku dhaqaaleenaayay ee adigu miyaadan isla yaabeeynin, lacagta afta sano kaliya maahee haduu xataa meel qaar oo maxkamad fcn kutaal haduu kudacweeyo dhaawaca moralkiisa aad u gaysatay xataa walagula xisaabtami, I really appreciate ninkaas hadii uu qofta ama ninka naagata lagu daray dilinbo
Gabadha qalad malaha waalidkeed ayey aadarisay hadii uu guri lagali lahaa saas kadaran ayuu uxisaabti lahaa allaah ayaa kaa badbaadiyee ugud ooyaryaree
Haiwareerinin ahaan usii gabareey
Fikirkaaga ayaan an kula qabaa sxb
ASC FADLAN CAYDA JOOJI MARKA HORE TA LABAAD NINKAAS WEYDIISO INUU KU SAAMAXO WAAYO KHALADKA ADAA LEH LAMAAD SOCODSIIN WAALIDKAA INAAD SHEEKO LA WADAAGTO NIN KALE TAAS WEEYAAN MASHAAKILKU INSHA ALLAH THANKS
4T SANO WALIDKA MAXAD UGU SHEEGI WAYSAY HADADAN QAYANA WADAN TANKALE WALIDKAA MIYAY ARKEYN DHARKA IYO ITAAS DHAN OO KU SOO GELEYSAY? ANIGA WAXAY ILA TAHAY QAYAANO AYAAD SAMEYSAY IS DABA QABA INTAAD NOOSHAHAY
Waaa sidaad sheegtay
WcABAA
Waa sax wll tan
Ok
Hadaba ogow inta aad xaskayga ka noqonayso
Wan kula xisaabtamaa wax walba aan ku siiyo Hadad igaga baxdo balanta Hadad ila joogto kadibna xaskayga noqoto waa halkan rabay madaxa sare ku saaran jecelkayga mustaqbalkaay😢
I agree with my brother because he is not ur husband and pay back his money, respect our men's heart and try not to cheat them
is so funny she used like his money but when he asked her back he became midgan sister pay his money back you not his women you break his heart we have to be fair as women
Asaga muxuu u siiinayay pay back waxay .xalaal bay u tahay lacagta
Haah wuu ku saxanyahy sababtoo ah waa hinaasey waxaa laga guutsada qofka kaliya uu dunida ku lahaa ee u hibeeyey nololshiisa hadane la soo istaagtay waa ley guusaday waa waali cass
Haduusan ku qabin siduu Cagaha kuugu dhaqayey?
Nin aan ku qabinse maxaad Xoolaha intaa le’eg uga Cuntay?
Qof walba Xoolihiisu way u xisaab san yihiine waxaadan lahayn si fudud ha isaga cunin
Xooolo rageed Been been lugamacuuno eee Adeer iskadhiibi lcqta mise Naftada sii
See lugaha kuugu dhaqaa nin aan ku qabin subxaan weliba way isla saxan tahay
wll waxan aysheegayso marunbaa mise caanbay rabtaa ? midgo kulahaa midkuhu waadad sharaf leh
Allah hadii laga cabsanayo adiga qaldan waayo nin aad afar sano xoolihiisa cunaysey inaad ugu jawabto nin baa la isiiyey waa khalad ee lacagtana bixi dharki iyo cuntadii iyo ka ihiina ha cafiyo isaguna
Walasheey anigu waxaan qabaa fikrad intaaba kaduwan wana sidan waxad inoshegtay bilowga shekada in adigu aad eheyd gabadha wax walbo losameynaye ilaa gabdhaha kale ay kamaseraan aaqirka shekadana waxad nabareysaa iney gabar kale tahay sidee lorumeystaa shekada
Right
Legend buu ahaa
Iska bixidee
Qalbigaaga Ayuu kaaga iib saday soo maad nin kle siin adba
Qaladka uguwayn aad gasheenbo wuxuu ahaa jacayl afar Sano aad jilayseen
Asc wll marka hore khalad ayu ku siyay adoon ahayn xaaskisa lacg dhan $7000 lkn haduba khaldamay gabdhu wa inay lacagta iska bixiso wxu kaaga iibsaday qalbigaga hadad qalbigagi ninkale siisay isana lacgtisi u celi oo ninkan kale ka qaad ama u shaqee nin aan xisaabtamin ninba ma aha hadad daacad tahY intaad wxaso lacaga cunaysay ayad u sheegi lahay rerkina inaan ninkas rabto oo uu mustaqbal rabo lkn wad khayanty ee lacagta un iska celi wayba yartHye aadan ladhimanine
Joog waarye fadwo bilaa cimi ah ee
@@xassansaalxa7930bilaa cilmi mahe waa sax wll culimadana sidas unbey odhanayan.
Kamaba qaato nin lacag naftu haday iga dhacayso nin aan walalkay ahayn
Why using the name of our caalim to seek attention and to get more viewers… how deep we have sunked as a society
Waa dulmi & khiyaano arzaaq lugu raadiyey
xishoo wll oo u celi waa runtii wuu ku saxsanyahay 100%
Shale marku sinaye deyn wye mu dhahaye realy qof wanaagsan mhn
Maxad kula socotay afarta sano in aad isguursataan soma ahayn mise qiyaali been baad usheegay say hadii aad guur ku heshiiseen waxay ahayd in ad ugudbiso reerka gabdhu raga waxay kula socdaan guur iyo gaabsi hadaad guur kuwadasocoteen waad qaldantahay waad qiyaamaysay ninkaas wuu sheektana waa lagaa rabaa
Waxaan odhan lahaa Gabadhan walaasheen ah iyo Cidkastaba , Horta ma habooneyn inaad soo fadhiisato Baraha Bulshada, waayo Xal kama heleysid baraha Bulshada hadii aan wax yar ka idhaahdo Baraha bulshada waa Faafiyaha/Baahiyaha wax kasta oo la soo dhigo , (Soomaalina waxay horey u tidhi) Ceebtaadoo Kun ogtahay Kow looma sheego oo kun iyo kow lagaga ma dhigo, Wax Af soo dhaafay afaaf dhaaf, Hadaba aniga oo Ilaalinaya Qiimaha Gabadhnimo ee aad leedahay sida walaashay oo kale, walaashay waxaan ku odhan lahaa waxaa wanaagsaneyd inaad inaad waalidkaa la tashato oo aad u sheegto wiilka xidhiidhka idinka dhaxeeyey , adiga oo waalidkaa raali galinaya taladana Gacanta ka saaraya una sheegaya siduu kuu xanaaneynayey Siiba hooyadaa waayo hooyada ayaad is fahmi kartaan xaga xogaha gaarka ah, Hadaba , Hadii ay kuu diidaan wiilkaas oo ay ku yidhaahdaan kulama rabno mid ogow Xaga diinta hadii uu ku liito iyo Akhlaaqda Diinta islaamka waa laguu diidi karaa, balse waaliku hadii ay eegaan Xaga dhaqaalaha iyo sharafta ama Madaxnimo, ogow Arintaas xor ayaad u tahay oo shareecada Diinta islaamka ayaad la tagi kartaa , Hadaba hadii ay dhacday inaad Wiilkiina Diido waalikaan Raali galiso Wiilkiina ku yidhaahdo Xoolahaygii 4 sano soo dhig, Laba ayaa loo kala qaadi
1. Wixii Hadiyad ah uu kuu keenay isagu sida
1.1. Dhar hadii uu kuu keenay
1.2. Shoobin uu kuu keenay
1.3. Iwm
Arintaasi waa Hadiyad oo qofka laguma laha
2. Wixii Hanti ah uu kuu keenay isagu sida
2.1. Lacg
2.2. Dahab
2.3. Iwm
Arintaas Hantida ah sideedaa lagugu leeyahay waa inaad iska bixisaa waayo shuruuda uu kugu siinayey ayaa ahayd inuu ku guursado hadii aad shuruudii ka baxday u celi lacagtiisa
Allah markuu Rasuulka la hadlayey
قا الله تعالي : يَا أَيُّهَا النَّبِيُّ إِذَا جَاءَكَ الْمُؤْمِنَاتُ يُبَايِعْنَكَ عَلَىٰ أَن لَّا يُشْرِكْنَ بِاللَّهِ شَيْئًا وَلَا يَسْرِقْنَ وَلَا يَزْنِينَ وَلَا يَقْتُلْنَ أَوْلَادَهُنَّ وَلَا يَأْتِينَ بِبُهْتَانٍ يَفْتَرِينَهُ بَيْنَ أَيْدِيهِنَّ وَأَرْجُلِهِنَّ وَلَا يَعْصِينَكَ فِي مَعْرُوفٍ ۙ فَبَايِعْهُنَّ وَاسْتَغْفِرْ لَهُنَّ اللَّهَ ۖ إِنَّ اللَّهَ غَفُورٌ رَّحِيمٌ
حديث
عَنْ أَبِي ذَرٍّ الْغِفَارِيِّ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ عَنْ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه و سلم فِيمَا يَرْوِيهِ عَنْ رَبِّهِ تَبَارَكَ وَتَعَالَى، أَنَّهُ قَالَ: "يَا عِبَادِي: إنِّي حَرَّمْت الظُّلْمَ عَلَى نَفْسِي، وَجَعَلْته بَيْنَكُمْ مُحَرَّمًا؛
حديث
عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ قَالَ: قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه و سلم " لَا تَحَاسَدُوا، وَلَا تَنَاجَشُوا، وَلَا تَبَاغَضُوا، وَلَا تَدَابَرُوا، وَلَا يَبِعْ بَعْضُكُمْ عَلَى بَيْعِ بَعْضٍ، وَكُونُوا عِبَادَ اللَّهِ إخْوَانًا، الْمُسْلِمُ أَخُو الْمُسْلِمِ، لَا يَظْلِمُهُ، وَلَا يَخْذُلُهُ، وَلَا يَكْذِبُهُ، وَلَا يَحْقِرُهُ، التَّقْوَى هَاهُنَا، وَيُشِيرُ إلَى صَدْرِهِ ثَلَاثَ مَرَّاتٍ، بِحَسْبِ امْرِئٍ مِنْ الشَّرِّ أَنْ يَحْقِرَ أَخَاهُ الْمُسْلِمَ، كُلُّ الْمُسْلِمِ عَلَى الْمُسْلِمِ حَرَامٌ: دَمُهُ وَمَالُهُ وَعِرْضُهُ" . [رَوَاهُ مُسْلِمٌ].
What about if he said to you waanka cafiyey? Nabsi iyo il ma noqon karta
Raguu waxay ku sinayan lacag adan adiga ka codsan wlhi aniga nin aya 1000$ii kenay wlhi hf ayan u celiyey saan ubaryaye raga kheyr alhaa siye dumarka ayaga lacagta laso donta calaf ayaa jira ogada
Marka hore ALLE khayr haku siiyo wllo
Een ninkan waa qaldan yhy sbbto ah adu maad diidinee kumana aanad baylihin jacaylkii iyo axdigii sidaa darteed inuu iska samro umbaa fiicin haduu calaf meesha soo galay oo waalidkaa ku siiyay ninka kale
4taa Sano caqligaa frozen kaanoqday miyaa ninkaaga camal leekadhigatay
Foolxumo waaye xoolihiisii intaad
Xaqdaro kucuntey baad hadana aflagaado ugudartay wiilkaa xoolihiisa
Uceli
Sax markaa xoolaha qaadaneysay inaad xisaab tanto bey aheed
As Muslims, we believe that if someone gives you something they have no right to ask you back. Also, why did you take money from someone who isn't related to you? Just because you two were planning to get married .😢😢
Except the parents. Haday wax ku siiyaan wey kaa la noqon karaan xilli kasta
اللهم صل وسلم على نبينا محمد وعلى آله وصحبه
خياركم خياركم لنسائهم اللهم ارزقْ بناتنا خير الأزواج ......
Adiga iska soo qaad afarsano nin lacag ku bixinay say in aad guur sato kadibna jacayl aad ubadan ayuu kuu
Muujiyey adigoo calafkiisa milkiyey qalbi ahaan ayuu gabarkale guursaday sidee yeeli lahayd wa su aal adaga lagarabo
She is not his wife but a girlfriend as a western society
Haduu jeceylka dhab kaa ahan lahay waalidkaa waad lasocod siinlahayd
Scw
Hadu ku hibeeyay uu kusiay jacayl dartii❤❤ calafkiina ushaqAyn waayo❤❤wuukucafin❤❤
Ask xaliye you get the right answer (wadalantahay)
Iyada iyo kuwa la midka ah ee raga ka ajaanibka la sheekaysta sanado amaba xitaa bilo, ee suuqa u raaca, ee lacag ka qaata waa danbiilayaal if iyo aakhiraba.
Bal maxay ka wads sheekaysanayeen 4 sano? Gabadh qofkii doonayaa waa inuu waalidkeed u tago oo weydiisto.
Shukaansiga reer xamarku waa xaaraan sideedaba, waana waxyaabaha keena sinada intaysan is guursan
Masha allah aad iyo aad ayaan kuu gu raacaasanahay الله يهدي بناتنا وبنات المسلمين
Dad gooni ah baad weeraraysa shukaansiga waqtiga dheer dhalinyarada soomaaliyeed oo dhaba samaya
Gabadha waxa ay leedahay kaalin loga talagalay hadii 4 sana xiriir lawaday wax yar ma ahan adigane marwalba waxad dhihi jirtay love you baby la'aan taa nolol majirta intaas waxaa kaqaali san waqtiga quruxda badan dhafarka habeenki wlhi waxaan aamin sanahy gabadha saxda kuu jacel imana leh xoola islaamed maku deg degto zabanadaan waxaa iska jira dhibaata badan gabar walba waxa ay raadisaa lacag taasina nolosha kamid ma ahan waa doqon nimo waa waqti dhumis Caqabada nololedna waa ay leedahy .Aniga waxan aqaan gabar aan jeclaaday iyadane sidoo kale farinteyda waa an sii wadi dona ila soco
😂😂😂haduusan kuu cafin hadaad Aduunka ku bixin weysaan dhamaan. Aakhiro ayaad la or ordeeysaan hoo hoo oon lagaa qaadan lkn in badan wey cafiyaan Maasha Alaah
Waxaan gurka waxba hakqa qadanina gadhow hana waxan waxan ku idhi ikacelii daanka
Ninka iyo gabadha dhawrsoon sheekadoodu madaba dheeraato sababtoo ah dareen ayaa Allah ku abuuray kaasoo ay sahlan tahay in shaydaan ka faa'iideysto. Waxa labada qof isu jiida xalaasha mar haddii xeero fandhaal kala dhacaan xaajo Waa daba dheeraan inuu guur xalaala dhacona Waa adag tahay.
Mashaa alaah gabadhaan ayada kuma dhicine waxay ka wadaa tusale sidaa baan u fahmay
When someone gives you something as a gift then that thing automatically becomes yours and no longer his or hers. Unless it was lend to you so that you may return then the one who gave it has the right to ask for it back.
,ghhk
Gift la iskama kaa siiyo
Yes but she promised him that she will marry him.
Adigaa ka baxay balanta
Waxay ahayd hadyad hadyadna lama ceshado haddii aanay shardi ku xidhnayn
Asc Walaal! If what you have said here is true and things unfolded as you have described. My advice is first of all both of them must repent to Allah SWT asap for engaging in a non islamic relationship. Second, to my opinion she doesn’t have to pay back anything because it sounds like the man was doing all this willingly. And lastly and very Important always obey your parents, it’s one way ticket to Jannah. Allah knows Best
Shirbaadadan kasarilaha
Inaad kaqaadato ma,aheen ninka kuguurdanaya habixiyo lacagtaad.nigerianka 270 milyan saas bay udhaqmaan.
Iskuma ayna dayin iney waalidkeed tidhaahdo nin ayaan lasocdaa marka marmarsiinyo waalidkey Ma diidi karo ayey kuleedahay intey waliba ninka caayeysaa
Hadal wax ba lama wadwadee ader. Lacagta iska bixi. Nin aad xoolihiisii dhacday ayaad weliba cay iyo aflagaado ugu daraysaa. Xisaabtanka dunida ayaa ku dhisan adr mesha miyuu ku caawinayey oo haayad ayuu ahaa.
Lol 👍
Wllhi waaa runtaa zhp 😂😂😂😂
Ight i'mma be honest with you here ...... everything in this world has a payback and everything is accountable he had showered her with his money, he loved her with all his heart he did that because of what he wanted to see her happy since she's the source of his Happiness trust me the word Love is painful really painful 😣
How can you spend his money lavishly and being happy with it thinking you are the only one she never even bothered to just think for awhile where does her boyfriend gets the money from ?
What if the money she's has been given by her lover was an inheritance left for the guy?
He spend with you because he thought someday when the time is right he'll marry her
When you love you love wholeheartedly
We the guys are aware of (Calaf) and those kind of stuff but why do you think he spent all his wealth and spared his time with her? Ofcoz he had the hope of marrying her ......
Why didn't she fight for his place
Why didn't she introduced him to her parents
Why didn't she settle down with her parents discussing what the guys has done for her
Why didn't she tell her parents that they'll be consequences if the guy is doesn't marry her
I swear this is not love in return
If she loved him and cared about his feelings she would atleast do one of those things
That guy is really strong if he kept you alive and didn't do stupid stuffs to himself
Please pray for him don't cut him off like that it takes time for a heart to heal so be there for sometime and leave when the guy is OK
Just an advise please to our beautiful sisters our weakness are you and that won't change a thing walahi even our prophet advised us about women
So stop using men's wealthy and most importantly Time since this generation they say Time is money
You can't use a heart just to get your needs
Don't use a heart for fun
I swear walahi there no guy will do that much for you if his mindset is to use you for LUST or stupid things
But that guy ! Man am sure he had the mentality of marrying her
So is either you refund his money or she marries him
So stop only saying you will listen to your parents only and leaving a soul that you hurt you think you'll ever be happy
Tell your parents that you love him and would like him to marry you atleast do your part for God sake
If they reject Allah will question them in the hereafter you can force your children to marry someone who they don't want just because you earned that respect i know parents wants the best for their child ofcoz they'll listen to you eventually
Iska celi lacagta wayo jacelkisi baad haleysay qalbigisi baad jabisay
Subxanallah, you've taken "leave a comment", to another level. 🙄
Bravo bro 👏👏
Walidkaga ma qofadan shekeysan oo ad is arkin wuxu yahay na adan ogey ayad racdey kad shekeysaneysen gacana ku geystey waxad ka jeclatey mid adan aqoon oo weliga adan arag 🇸🇴❤️🇸🇴❤️🇸🇴
first i didn’t understand the question i’m confuse and i don’t know what to say suaal shiekh umal ka oohisay i was waiting su aasha iyo jawaabta shiekha adoo raaliya culimada hakaga been sheegan ciwaanka mawduuca aad ka hadlayso
Kas awelbo nin raga musan aheyn waxna ha sinin cidu kugu soo dacweyn laha ala arko calfka hadu shaqeyn wayey nasibka adiga ma adan dhihin waxas ikeen isaga kugu qasbey ❤️🇸🇴❤️🇸🇴❤️🇸🇴❤️🇸🇴❤️🇸🇴
It's Haram return the Money wether it's 1 shs or 100bob plus the other belongings.....if its Me you will return everything including 👞 👟 adios
xaq buu u leeyahay balankii aad kaga baxday darteed waxay ahayd inaa waalidkaa u sheegto arinta xidhiidhkiina oo dhahdo wiil baan wada soconaa oo aan jeclahay .
hadaadan jeclayn maxaa wixiisa u qaadanaysay meesha khiyaana ku jirta aad samaysay .hadaa odhan lahayd adi mooye cidkale ma rabo .arintu halkaas ma gaadheen.
Wll ninkaasi lacagta waa kugu leeyahay.
Lacagta ujeed buu kuu siiyey, sadaqa iyo macaawino toona kuuma uusan siin, hadafkii iyo ujeedkii aad iska lahaydeen haddii uu meesha ka baxay ninkaasi lacagtiisa waa kugu leeyahay ama hakaa qaato ama haku saamaxee.
Bro soo ma fiicnaan laheyn in markii uu u sheego lacagtan waxaan kuu siinayaa inaan ku helo hadaan ku waayo waa deyn??????
@@fatumaiftin6787 kuma xiro walaal inuu la hadlo, ayadaba waa ogtahay in rabitankisa ka faidaysanaysay malkana lama ogolo in dadku si badil ah kukala cunaan,
Gabadhaan way qaldantahay, bal diintee u ogol in ay nin aan qabin xiriir aad la yeelato, ceebteeda waxay meel lasoo fariisanee nin aan 4 sano la socday, xijaabkaas wayna way xirantahay, nina waa la isiiyay ayay leedahay, waalidkeedna waa maqli donaan haday runtahay sheekadaan, markaa maxaa qaldan? Waa yaab!! SubxanAllah
Yac waa dhibka hada ii haysa oo telefonka xita uu badalay ,whatsapp u delete garey ,Facebook uga baxay . Waxan subiya ma aqaano wlhi I want to refresh my mind and recover the wound 😫 😢 😞 😪
Every coin we give it's counted ....why is it that ladies don't give back mjifanyie kazi ....inanyaheey
The question I keep asking myself is, how in the world did I ended up in here?!! Cajiiib!!
I have the same here
I dont know some times life get in to
It's the title that got me🤣🤣
It's hard to reason with a woman..... Hada ayada waay isla qumantahay... Why take money if you can't keep the promise!
First and foremost to take money from a man who has no relation with you its haram. He is not your mahram. Second he should not have given u money. That is his mistake. He should forget what he gave you and only Allah knows what is best.
Iskabixi xoolaha micnaha lagusiyay xaqkumad lehena adalagurabay Adna waddaneysatay 😂
Dear sister. You are not being honest. Dating this guy for 4 years and your family are not aware of the relationship. I agree with him and stop pretending.
Bro mine I am supporting u keep going
Huuno calaacalka joojiyoo ninka lacagtiisasii hadii aad ninkale kadooratay
Mid aa saxibo nahay aa hada saa kusocdo, naagtan jiljileca kada aa kakari la ahay. Nimanka qaar siil jiljilec iyo baryo in lagu helo ayey modan. Nin rag waa kii guur uso diyar garoba hadu rabitan ka arki waayane naagta kamaarma. Naag nin jilcan oo xisabtamenin marabto.
@@xafsahaydeyn7647 😂😂😂 usheegbo qumaya ka indho adag
If you asked the ulamaa the public have nothing else to say
sorry abàyo dhibkada ba ha noqotee iska radi lacagtas ilaheyna ha ku sazlo amiin
Ameen Ameen Yaa RAABBI
Asc sheikh umal xld k w r n waxan ku waydiin rabac su aalo muhiim ah misilan dhanka dumarka waxan rabac inan guursdo lacagta wuu bihiyay waxanla gaaray maalinta meherka kadib gabadha guurka waxay itiri meher deen ah marwi waxan rabac lacag kash ah aniga waxan dhahay waan ku mehersinaaya lakiin dib ayan kasiinaaya waa cidiiday mxad khadhahday sheikh umal
How could you befriend a man who's not married to you.the whole relation was corrupt. So repent.
Maya Haddii ragga qaar ay yihiin probably weey kuu cafin lahaayeen I believe aniga waa ogahay waxa aan siiyo hase yeeshee 4 San waxa aan ku siinayey weligeey ma xasuusteen, haddise uu rabo lacagta ha dhiibo kii laguugu daray ama waalidkaa he was genuis to remember all this money may be becouse he was greedy oo naagaha wax siiyo Ragga aan waxba ku saacidin anyway go'aanku waa lacagta si tartiib tartiib ah Afar sano ku bixi haddii aad adiguna baqiil aheyn wa billaahi towfiiq
WLL MA WACNA HORTA IN SAAS LAGU QAANABO IN CAFIS AYAA FIICAN
LKN OGOW WLL XAQ AYUU U YEELANAA HADAY NOQOTO XISAAB
WAAYO SHARCIGA ISLAAMKU MARKA UU DHAHAY HA DHAWRSANAADO QOFKU SABABAHAA AYAA LOO DIIDAYAY
QOFKA ISLAAMKA AHNA WAA ILAALIYAY ALLE SHARAFTIISA IYO MAALKIISABA
Talo fican ayaad sisay qofku waxisa waa uleyahay, dhibtu caruurta ay kan u dhali donto ayay asibaysa whyo qofka xaqisu melcidla ah ma dhacayo marka waa in xarifka lagu qabtay ay ushegta oo dhahda arintas ayaajirto.
@@khadarcaawiye5560haà runtis e lacagta dhib
My comment on this issue waxaa weeye, adigu inaad reerkiina usheegto ayay ahayd xiliga aad hawsha wada wadeen. Khaladka adigaa iska leh ee waalidkaa iyo wiilkani midna maleh. Marka waa cadho waxa hada sidan ka yeedhsiinaaya, raali halin kabixi, khalafkaagana qaado, reerkiiniina usheeg in hawshani ay jirto, halii la awoodo waad bixin waayo qlbi jabin way baad kukeentay, hadii la awoodi waayo usheeg inaad adigu gaftay waalidkaana aadan lasocodsiin in wiil aad aheekaysataan, hadana qabtanibkugu dhacday. Nin rag ahi wuu iska kaa cafiyi. Hadii sidaa aad diido waxad tahay daalimad markii hoteba qalin shubato ah
Sister if you really loved him
you suppose to tell your parents about your 4 years relationship.
To be honest and fair pay him back his money.
You break his heart. 👋
Haa waay jiiran rag sidas ah oo Aniga Ku jiiro😂😂😂
Adigaaba qaaimad kake ah oo like raadis warka saad u waday baad kusoo gaba gabeysay aniga ma ihi,waxadna ku bilaawday waa aniga,sheekh umulaana weydinaa qaaimad koobaatba waa adi
Why would use the names of our respected ulama on this kind of idle talk ? For heaven sake respect our ulama
You should pay the money if you didn't fulfilled the promise therefore he was right hundred percentage and she was wrong %.
Asc wll wan ku salamay magacaygu waa sharmaake xasna waa xarane bixi lacagta 😄😄
english ka ad soakraysiin ma abihiin bale
That is a fraud. Hiding behind the parents after defrauding a man for 4 years.
Adeer wuu xisaabtamayaa runtaanu kuu sheegaynaaye Waanuu ku saxanyahy %
Waayo waa dhididkiisii uu qorraaxda iyo dhaxantaba umaray midda aad kuqaldan tahayna waxa waxay weeye
Marka horeba inaad ninka aad wada socotaan iyo family-kaaga isbarto ayay ahayd
Waayo waalidkaagu hadday ogaan lahaayeen inaad nin sidaas kuu daryeelaya wada socotaan cidkaleba kugumay dareen
IMMIKANA NINKA LACAGTIISA ISKA RAADI
Adke waa caynkaa😂😂😂
Wllhy runtaa sidaas ah
Aabahaa ayaa. GartA. Niqi. Jirey. Iyadaa. Isla. Quman. Waa. Bilaa caqli
Sister wu ku saxsanyhay wayo mahmah somali tidha xolahagu xeer hakugu jiran ama xero wxase ku wacnyd inad walidkaga u sheegto wiil sidas ku daryelanaya inad haysato lagayaba kan lagu siyey inanad daryelka ka helin hadal iyo dhaman ninka wxisa u celi ilayn sadaqo kuma siine adaa wacadki ka bexee kulahaa my xisabtaman
Asalaam aleykum warahmatulahi wabarakatuhu I remember as I grew up alhamdulilah my brother advised me with one thing never in your life ever take a penny from any guy before marriage
No we're in the Quran nor Sunnah give you the right to take any money from a guy and infact it's haram to use a guy if you knew he will not be the one you will end up marring.
I believe that the guy has all the right to ask for his money back.
taking long to know one another is expensive. To Not meet the desirable Outcome of the lengthy period of conversation and enjoyment is Painful.
NB: When getting to have Life partner be precise, conscious, and pray to score goal the Shortest possible time to avoid Luxurious chats .
Aniga ahan adiga khaldan aflagadad jogi mideyda abayo mxa marki hore adiga mxa u culeysay xolohisa sas khalad ah wayo ma ogid ina kalaf la yelaneysid wa laiska ilaliya
I agree with you it's not good sio taking money from a man???
Asc walaaley Adiga markii hore ma u sheegtey hooyo iyo Abe
Ma is bartey Asaga iyo familka. Qaladka adigaa iskaleh
Wiilkaas danbi weyn baad ka gashay ilaahay haw booga dhayo
Why dont you tell your parent what you get from that man or why dont you make your parent to be understandable about your way ....if is haram you have to pay back
4 years is too long to continue talking were the parents not aware of your relationship
Wixii yaraa ee macaanaa uu ka doo nayey haday siin wayday lacagtiisa ha u celiso
How is possible your parents didn't know that what you was getting from that man so if this story is true you have to pay back what ever you got from that man
That means all of you mans are same hhhhhhhhhhh
Zxp lacagtaa waa lag igu leeyehay
You want to go like this girl 😂😂😂 he's right you have to pay for..
Naa aduunkaan wax walba xisaabay ku socdaanne wiil xoolihiisa uu celi soow adiguba balantii kamaad bixin
Subxana allah ma xola islameda inta cunta hadane sas u hadle
tankle 2badinba wad qaldantihin hadii hadafkinu yahay in aad is guursatan maxa kenaya waqtigas tirada bdn in aad wada socotan
walidkaga we fcntahy in aad ixtiramto intad wada socten maxad ugu shegi wesay
Wllo xisaab xilmaleh ee lacagtasi waa wax laguugu leeyahay maxa dhcay aysan uqurxsaneyn ad bay uquruxsanthy
You unlucky lady opportunity knocks at your door only once that has gone dont regret
asc, dhibka ayaa ah in dumarku aaney garan karin qofka daacada iyo khaaska u ah.
subhanallah 4sano ma yara miskiinka maxad family ula socodsiso aheyd u celi lacagtisa waad ka qaldan tahay ???miskiinka niyada ka jebisay runti
Haa wey xisaabtamayaan wyo maah maah soo maaliyeed baa aheyd nin xoolahiisu farana ka xisaabsan feerana ka tirsan zxp ❤😩 kuley xaaraan 💵🤔😏 ilama aha wyo mrkisii horeba wuu ku siinayay oo xalaal bey kuu aheyd 😊💰💸 hadeyba saas tahy de matagiisii uun buu kulaab tay it's SORRY ❤😢 wll qaaali😂😱😭 😂😂 wd iga nixisey ficil baaba iqaadaye faarax lugo basto is not east❤❤😂😂😂😂😂😢
He is Wright you must to give his money
Rag xuulehe farana katirsan ferana kaxisabsan ... my sister it is good to hear but also it's better we hear the other side ..the QURAN and sunnah of the prophet Mohammed SCW...Hubsina hal ayan lasiya .. we can't just overrun and make judgements.....assalamu alykum
Nothing to say 😭 4 years loss + 7000
Lacagta siduu kuu siyey ku xirantahy, hadii uu hadiyad ahan ku siyey, wuxu noqonayaa sidii eey matagiisa cunaya sida Nabiga NNKHA inoo shegay, hadii uu guur dartiis kuu siyey waa bani'adame hadadan guurseyn xoolihiisa sii, meherkaga iskaga bixi kolley intaa wuu dhan yahe, waa calool xumo lkn xoolo dadow yaa la cunin.
Allah haku sahlo amuurta qali qurux badan❤
Raga isku mid ma ahan wlasheyda laakin qadar dhacay canaan maleh kor uugu bax waxaas aduunka qof walbo waxa uu kuleeyahay lee kaqaada marka horay uso wll
Asc wr wb Qofka hadanad rabin Qofka wixiisana ha qaadan 4 sano Maxaad ula sugaysay Hadaad Dan ka leedahay shukansi 4 sano socda diintu maba ogola sheekaysta heshiiya Markana Waalidka ha loo tago Asxaabahii ayey sidan ku dhacday Lkn wey qabeen xukunkuna wuxuu noqday inay celiso wax kasta oo uu ka bixiyey Adiga maba lagu qabo 10.000$ haday tahay xata waa inaad iska dhiibta wuxuu kuu siinayey mustaqbal ayuu ka rabay Qofka aan Balanka ka soo bixin ma aha qof iiman leh Marka wa lagugu leeyahay xoolaha ama Imika iska bixi ama Aakhiro ayaad keenaysa
Sax waaye wlhi wiilkas moral dilaaca kudhaca hadhowna qashimdu aruurina isku naxriista yaaqay
Subxaanalaah malikul qarandumis ilaahayoow soodee gabadhan walaasheen ah aamiin aamiin
For meditation opinion, you're totally wasted his time and your not alone for womans ignorant attitude.
She is your Muslim sister don't say that
Awalba kuuma banaanayn inaad ninkaas 4 Sanno la hadasho wax ka cunto wax qaadato .Haduu ku siiyayay kuguma laha❤
Raga xoolahiisa way xisabsanyahiin nin afar sano la socotay xoolahiisa cunaysay aad ninkale ka guursatay wa qiyaano
Haa habo waa la xisaabtamaa. Xoolo Rag faro ka dhiiban feero ka xisaaban. Kan ku guursanaayo familkaaga ku siiyeen ha bixiyo. Waxaad aroos ku dhigan laheeyd ku bixi. 2nd option cafis weydiiso. Gabar la’aan iyo xoolo la’aan. No No sabab baa laguu siinaayey. Xadiyad yar haa lkn cun maalin kasto