Heartfelt Tribute to Fatima Sydow: Renfred's Thank You

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  • Опубликовано: 29 сен 2024
  • Our beloved Fatima Sydow, Cape Malay Cooking Queen, left us peacefully on 19th December 2023. Join us forty days later as her partner of more than 15 years shares cherished memories, including special moments that defined her culinary legacy.
    We express our heartfelt gratitude to everyone who welcomed Fatima into their homes. Share your memories and let's continue to celebrate the culinary queen who touched our lives. Rest in peace, Fatima. Your love and legacy will endure in our hearts.
    PS: We apologize for the poor sound quality.

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  • @jessicakruger7
    @jessicakruger7 8 месяцев назад +56

    Thank you for sharing. Please dont take down her RUclips channel. It keeps her close to us, her infectious laugh is medicine for our souls. Love you always aunty Fatima, forever in our hearts.

  • @juliebrown7532
    @juliebrown7532 8 месяцев назад +52

    Thank you for sharing, Renford. Memories last forever and Fatima left us with so many beautiful memories. She was a lovely and loveable person... she encouraged everyone and had such a peaceful spirit explaining how she loves holding on to her used utensils or sloffies, etc... she was thankful for small mercies and that shows a lot about her genuine character... I will always search for her recipes eventhough I've been cooking since my childhood just like her. Fatima had such a way of expressing herself and relaying stories of the past which will always stay with me. Stay strong and continue to live with passion the way Fatima enjoyed life. 🛐 Thank you for being there for our special Fatima.

  • @annak4045
    @annak4045 8 месяцев назад +53

    Thank you for this.
    I am not the greatest cook, but during lockdowns, I found Fatima online, and she taught me to cook curry. I will never be on her level, but I can do more than before. And slowly I am teaching my son.
    So her legacy will live on.
    Condolences to you and the rest of her family.

  • @michellevankervel5164
    @michellevankervel5164 8 месяцев назад +55

    May I take this time to say thank you to you, Renfred for bringing joy and sunshine to Fatima during the last few years of her life.
    Heartfelt Condolences to you.

  • @anandajrfall5469
    @anandajrfall5469 8 месяцев назад +7

    Im not even a blood member of Fatima but i still feel like she's my sister in my ♥ it feels empty with out o frikkadel will always miss you my sister

  • @SuperDee49
    @SuperDee49 8 месяцев назад +111

    Please dont take this channel downxx

    • @nataliefeltman2486
      @nataliefeltman2486 8 месяцев назад +1

      Please

    • @onthatilethati
      @onthatilethati 8 месяцев назад +4

      Yes please don't take it down instead cook your favorite meals used to make for you SIR please ❤

    • @onthatilethati
      @onthatilethati 8 месяцев назад +3

      Yes please don't take it down instead cook your favorite meals used to make for you SIR please ❤

    • @miranda5042
      @miranda5042 8 месяцев назад +3

      Please don't sir , Sunday I was cooking one of her recipes lamb curry, and hearing her voice really made me feel good, her laughter wowwww 😢

    • @wendybrunette6392
      @wendybrunette6392 7 месяцев назад +2

      Hi Renfred... I luv Fatima.... Tk u for doing this...An Amazing woman and u are a good man... And Sonny will be by your side.... Fatima chose u as her partner... So u are also special... Tk u too too...

  • @jackiejohnson8906
    @jackiejohnson8906 8 месяцев назад +1

    So sorry 💔🙏

  • @corneliafrolick1157
    @corneliafrolick1157 8 месяцев назад +7

    Thank you Renferd (Fatima would have said, "my better half")for this video. When doing videos and she mention you; i could hear the love in her voice. You know being thankful or saying thank you even 100 times; is a sign of being humble and appreciate the little things. It brings blessings and happiness even now in time of your pain. I've never met Fatima but i miss her, even loved her. Thank you for sharing her with us; the world. All the best. God bless you🙏🏽

  • @missmaryhdream6560
    @missmaryhdream6560 8 месяцев назад +4

    I am so sorry for your loss, will miss her vibrant personality, deep sense of fun. Plus her brilliant way of teaching us,quite simply, how to cook good food. God bless her beautiful soul. God grant her Heaven.

  • @chantelnel7765
    @chantelnel7765 8 месяцев назад +1

    Praying for you

  • @cesi7472
    @cesi7472 8 месяцев назад

    Thanks for sharing ...

  • @hannah50353
    @hannah50353 8 месяцев назад +4

    I miss her on her channel, with all the traditional Cape Town (South African) food memories that Fatima shared with us ❤ Thank you for sharing from your heart.

  • @daphnebarendse6177
    @daphnebarendse6177 8 месяцев назад +2

    Thanks for sharing this beautiful tribute. She was truly a remarkable phenomenal woman. She'll be forever in Our hearts.strongs my friend.❤

  • @chantelnaidoo8954
    @chantelnaidoo8954 8 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you Renford for this beautiful tribute. Fatima will live on through her family, friends and fans. May God give you all strength🙏🙏🙏

  • @deelite4955
    @deelite4955 8 месяцев назад

    May her soul RIP!💔

  • @chantelles8335
    @chantelles8335 7 месяцев назад +2

    So sorry for your loss. I have used so many of her recipes here in the USA to keep the South African food memories alive for my family. She will be missed, but her memory will live on. ❤

  • @nelliedejager9553
    @nelliedejager9553 8 месяцев назад +1

    May God bless you for sharing beautiful memories with the online friends...you had the opportunity to make a physical difference to her world of cooking so we could get to share her experiences and passion through your eyes....you are special and I know the void and loss you feel is still with you...we pray healing and comfort in the space you shared with Fatima ..it will never be the same without her but we truly grateful for taking the time to give us a glimpse into her personal journey she shared with you esp the Cadbury wrapper and the clover...she was always radiant and full of love in her expression and we now know that it was because you made this experience a memorable one for her and you included us the viewers ...she was a special lady and we thank you for being part of the journey in her beautiful kitchen..God bless.

  • @DeevraNorling
    @DeevraNorling 8 месяцев назад

    Loved the story about Sonny boy and his toys. ❤ I miss her videos. Thanks for sharing some of your special stories about Fatima.

  • @emmiewahl2842
    @emmiewahl2842 8 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you Renfred. 🙏

  • @marshaytrout4657
    @marshaytrout4657 8 месяцев назад

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @kauatafatiaki9441
    @kauatafatiaki9441 8 месяцев назад

    My heartfelt condolences to you and your family from Fiji. May Fatima's soul rest in peace. TY both for your videos❤❤❤

  • @elviracoetzee9048
    @elviracoetzee9048 7 месяцев назад

    Thank you to you Renfred, may God bless your heart

  • @Wife_of_Yusuf
    @Wife_of_Yusuf 6 месяцев назад

    I can finally cook now because of Aunty fatimah. Alhamdulillah my family is very happy when I dish up. ❤ May Allah grant her jannahtul firdous. AMEEN ❤

  • @dorothystrydom9665
    @dorothystrydom9665 8 месяцев назад

    Hi..you are so brave..j mag ma huil you only human..ek voel dit sam jo wn jy mak mens sam jo hartseer..God is with u through it all. Strongs dear.

  • @KatMug
    @KatMug 8 месяцев назад

    When I missed my grandmother’s cooking because I now live in the USA Fatima’s channel was the one that popped up during my search . Her recipes have helped me bring back great memories of my grandmother’s cooking in my own kitchen . A robale ka kgotsho Mme Fatima.

  • @bevtiras1232
    @bevtiras1232 8 месяцев назад

    She was a remarkable soul. Thank you for being so open...the four leave clover...❤

  • @tanyalendis255
    @tanyalendis255 8 месяцев назад

    i watched with subtitles but did my heart break...

  • @rhodapillay5226
    @rhodapillay5226 8 месяцев назад

    Such a beautiful tribute to Fatima , Thank you Renfred for sharing your special memories .May the lord give you and the family comfort.❤😢🎉🎉

  • @ericasmith3054
    @ericasmith3054 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you for sharing
    Listening with tears ..

  • @carmencolon5647
    @carmencolon5647 8 месяцев назад

    I'm so sorry, she was the sweetest lady on Utube. She will be missed 😞

  • @carolstones5025
    @carolstones5025 8 месяцев назад

    Beautiful tribute. All the very best for you. Hold onto the beautiful memories. I use her recipes often and live listening to her voice and giggle. May her soul rest in peace🙏🏽

  • @maritzasandramaart2839
    @maritzasandramaart2839 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you for sharing your memories with us

  • @forgoogletotrack7181
    @forgoogletotrack7181 7 месяцев назад

    I can see that you're a good man. And it must be hard to see her kitchen so quiet. We are with you and her/your family in your time of grief.

  • @crystalxyz3286
    @crystalxyz3286 8 месяцев назад +2

    What a beautiful Tribute Renfred to a beautiful soul, Fatima touched so many lives. Thank you for sharing her with us, she will always be remembered with Love. ✨🙏💖

  • @adiebasallie455
    @adiebasallie455 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you for sharing your special memories with us. She was one very amazing lady. May Allah SWT grant her janaah tul firdouze, place nur in the qabr and sabr and contentment in your and the families heart.

  • @asaceres101
    @asaceres101 8 месяцев назад

    Thanks to yu for shear ng this video realy feel it with her thinking about Fatiema alot

  • @sharonabrahams775
    @sharonabrahams775 8 месяцев назад

    It's the first time ,we meet you,and we glad that we did,always remember Fatima might not be with you now but her memories will always stay with you,everywhere you look she will be with you,look after Sonny and love him like Fatima. Did.

  • @sfortuin9710
    @sfortuin9710 8 месяцев назад

    So sad 😢😢

  • @ShireenJulius-q1w
    @ShireenJulius-q1w 7 месяцев назад

    ❤😢

  • @RuthCogill
    @RuthCogill 8 месяцев назад

    🥰❣🙏

  • @dougbotha6661
    @dougbotha6661 8 месяцев назад +83

    I am a South African living in the USA. I have been following Fatima for a long time now. I chatted to her and prayed for her recovery. She was an Angel. I am so sorry for your loss. Fatima was loved by all. She had such a beautiful personality, even though she was sick she would always laugh and be happy.
    God called his Angel home. God Bless you my friend. I hope you find peace with your loss.

  • @phumzilenkomo9571
    @phumzilenkomo9571 8 месяцев назад

    ❤❤❤

  • @garyfester4282
    @garyfester4282 8 месяцев назад +165

    Hi Renfred. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings of Fatima. The path you find yourself on is not easy. You are at a stage where the waves of emotions still come crashing down and leave you gasping. From my experience, it does get better as you are able to see the wave coming and prep for it. To you and all of Fatima's family, may God cloak you in comfort, grace and peace. One day at a time is all you need to get through. Grief is not a race. Take your time. May God bless you and keep you in the palm of His hand always. RIP Fatima. Till we meet again.

  • @Shona578
    @Shona578 8 месяцев назад +51

    Omw I cant get through this video without crying 😭 Thank you for sharing your beautiful memories with Fatima with us and for being brave enough to get in front of the camera🙏Thank you for showing us how beautiful Sunny boy is doing 🙏May God comfort you and all Fatima's loved ones during this difficult time 😢🙏

  • @nicky_kkz
    @nicky_kkz 8 месяцев назад +60

    What a BEAUTIFUL video to Fatima’s fans in her honour. Thank you for sharing

  • @michellemans6956
    @michellemans6956 8 месяцев назад +115

    Thank you for sharing her with the world. She was a true gem. Miss her voice so much❤❤❤

    • @elizabethletsoso2558
      @elizabethletsoso2558 8 месяцев назад +7

      Miss her voice so much too and her giggling while she's cooking so sad

    • @fariedarylands3964
      @fariedarylands3964 8 месяцев назад +5

      God bless you 🙏

    • @livinglavidaloca4597
      @livinglavidaloca4597 8 месяцев назад +6

      Miss her too! Just to hear “Hello Everyone!”

    • @bonnifowkes7051
      @bonnifowkes7051 8 месяцев назад +6

      Thank you for sharing Fatima with us. We will always love and miss her. Please continue to share these precious memories.

    • @carolrowe3344
      @carolrowe3344 8 месяцев назад +1

      Hi Renfred..Thankyou so much for sharing..My tears just flowed freely now..If we miss Fatima the way we do then I cannot imagine how you must feel..I have a cook book that was signed by Fatima and sent to me by a Friend from Cape Town to the UK as a gift..❤

  • @oya-hazelgumede711
    @oya-hazelgumede711 8 месяцев назад +71

    Dear Renfred - As one of Gorgeous Fatima's you tube followers, I just have to add in, on the chorus's of thank-yous. Thank you for doing this video, and thank you for sharing Fatima with us.
    I was reminded of a quote on thankfulness at the end of the book Eat, Pray, Love, when you spoke about saying thank you many times, and when I thought about how grateful and thankful I was, for finding Fatima online during Covid. The quote says - " In the end, though, maybe we must all give up trying to pay back the people in this world who sustain our lives. In the end, maybe it's wiser to surrender before the miraculous scope of human generosity and to just keep saying thank you, forever and sincerely, for as long as we have voices." Thank you to Allah for the GIFT, BLESSING AND PURE RAY OF JOY that Fatima was. I am thankful that she sustained and continues to sustain us. Thank you to you for loving her, and thank you to her family and to all for the journey with her, which continues in our hearts, minds, and kitchens forever (even as we speak, I cannot count the many number of times that I have come back to this channel, since her passing, to look for a recipe ) -" Guy's, its all there on you tube... Yummy in my tummy... Love You Guys" she would say...
    We love you Fatima, forever and always, gone in flesh, here in spirit, always remembered, always loved, never forgotten... may we all, as she would say, live our best lives, cos we are privileged to have been graced and loved by her...Blessings, Blessings, Blessings, and Thank You🙏🙏💞💝

    • @PatriciaKester
      @PatriciaKester 8 месяцев назад +1

      😢😢😢😢😢😢

    • @luloawentzel6159
      @luloawentzel6159 8 месяцев назад +2

      Thank You for your beautiful words, and thank you for being grateful for Fatima, I am grateful 🙏 🙏🥲🥲🥲🥲

  • @personal3766
    @personal3766 8 месяцев назад +53

    I'm all the way in Saudi Arabia, and Fatima popped into my life during Covid, with her infectious giggle and wonderful recipes. During a time of such isolation and pain, she was a beacon of light to so many. Dear Renfred, your pain breaks my heart, yet your sensitive soul shines through. We see why Fatima loved you. Trust that you will be together again. Hold tight to your memories till then. Sending you my prayers for strength. God bless you, Sunny and all the family. 🙏🏼💫🙏🏼

    • @chandrejohannessen4393
      @chandrejohannessen4393 7 месяцев назад

      She kept me entertained during COVID. Her smile and laughter were contagious.

  • @marlenebornman1751
    @marlenebornman1751 8 месяцев назад +22

    Dear Fatima's number one. Thank you not once not twice but many times for this soul bareing video for so.eo e who never wanted to be on camera you have really opened up. I could feel your pain through this screen and could relate as i just tragically lost my only son a month ago ......im glad you did this talk it helps with the healing so does crying so ro that whenever and wherever. You are in my prayers .. May Fatimas soul rest in peace and the perpetual light shine upon her Amen P.S. i have started writing to my son daily i find this helps with the pain maybe you should start a journal as well

  • @Difraser
    @Difraser 8 месяцев назад +47

    I honestly believe you are Fatima’s third four leaved clover etched forever in her heart. Our hearts go out to you and on behalf of everyone who loved Fatima and her huge heart we say thank you to you!

    • @jacquelinecallow114
      @jacquelinecallow114 8 месяцев назад +2

      My heart goes out to you Renfred ..I bought Fatima’s book and watch lot of the videos and some I remember how she called sunny boy in her videos especially if he barks when she wanted him to remain quiet . I live in the Uk never had a chance to meet Fatima . If there is anyway I could send some funds to assist with sunny boys maintenance pls let us know . Would be grateful to help. Miss her smiley face, her ‘Jinne frikadel’ and her sense of humour. May she RiP and we pray for your pain to become lighter and lighter as the days fly pass.

  • @oliviajanuary9456
    @oliviajanuary9456 8 месяцев назад +45

    Thank you so much for this beautiful video. Fatima will forever be in our hearts and remembered. 🙏🙏🙏❤🤗

  • @MaryFont62
    @MaryFont62 8 месяцев назад +28

    My hart is seer. Thank you. And thank you for loving Fatima.

  • @nicinaude6189
    @nicinaude6189 8 месяцев назад +48

    Dear Renfred,
    Thank you so much for this wonderful, heartfelt video. It's so special and means a lot to us. Thank you for taking the time to speak to us about our beloved Fatima and about Sunnyboy as well. I love this video so much. Beautiful Sunnyboy....he is just so special. ❤
    Thank you for making Fatima so happy, Renfred. We love you and we are still praying for you. May God hold you extra tight today and may He take all your pain away and leave you with only those wonderful memories.
    Sending love and big hugs to you.
    May God bless you abundantly.

  • @marevanniekerk6710
    @marevanniekerk6710 8 месяцев назад +30

    Baie dankie Renford vir hierdie pragtige video..Fatima was n blou diamant haar waarde het geen perke gehad nie....en sy was baie lief vir jou en Sunny...jy was haar sterkte....koester haar nagedagtenis...gesels meer male met ons op video dit gaan jou pyn ook verlig....ek was ontsettend lief gewees vir Fatima met die mooi en groot hart...baie sterkte en liefde❤ sy was n besonders mens

    • @sanetteupton2001
      @sanetteupton2001 7 месяцев назад

      Thank you, Renford, for your message. Heartfelt condolences to you and her family and friends. RIP FATIMA.

  • @michellepaulse4854
    @michellepaulse4854 8 месяцев назад +18

    Thank you for making Fatima happy.
    Thank you for being her partner and companion.
    Thank you for sharing your heart with us.
    God Bless you and Sonny.... Always ❤🌈🙏

  • @rachealselvaranijames3547
    @rachealselvaranijames3547 8 месяцев назад +18

    Hello Renfred,
    THANK YOU so much for this tribute for Fatima, we always heard and saw Fatima's family, Sunny Boy and Grandpa.
    You were always hiding from the camera, it must have taken so much for you to be in front of the camera......we the followers appreciate seeing the side of Fatima with her better half...THANK YOU.
    Whenever I'm with my grand children they always request that we watch one of Fatima's cooking videos, my granddaughter was devastated to hear about the loss of Fatima.
    Fatima had followers of all ages, she was loved by all.
    We shall miss her so much.
    It would be wonderful if Waseela can continue the channel by sharing Fatima's favourite recipes.....just a thought

  • @SiphaG
    @SiphaG 8 месяцев назад +25

    Mr Renferd I’m crying here listening to your beautiful tribute. I must say a thousand thank you appreciate this so much . Sorry for your loss. Hope Sunny is okay Aunty Fatima will be so proud .All the blessings to you 🙏🙏🙏🇦🇺💞💞💞

  • @theresavanwyk8317
    @theresavanwyk8317 8 месяцев назад +17

    Baie Baie dankie vir die mooi gedagtinis van Fatima wat jy met ons kom deel het. Die kombuis mag leeg wees maar ons harte leef nog vol van haar. Sy was n regte Engel deur God gestuur om ons harte en maagies te vul met haar spontaneous liefde en konings resepte. Nogmaals dankie en dankie

  • @ghonamiyer5812
    @ghonamiyer5812 8 месяцев назад +19

    A Beautiful Tribute, Thank you Renfred, My Heartfelt Condolences to you, Fathima was indeed a Beautiful Soul, Effervescent. She will be Forever Loved,Missed and Remembered❤ Cherish the Beautiful Memories of her ❤

  • @lesleyannekirkman6840
    @lesleyannekirkman6840 8 месяцев назад +11

    *Don't grieve for me now I'm free*...
    *I'm following the path God laid for me*
    *I took His hand when I heard Him call*....
    *I turned my back and left it all*....
    *I could not stay another day*
    *To laugh, to love, to work or play*....
    *Tasks left undone must stay that way*...
    *I found that peace at close of day*....
    *If my parting has left a void...*
    *Then fill it with remembered joy...*
    *A friendship shared, a laugh, a kiss...*
    *Ah yes these things I too will miss*
    *My life's been full*....
    *I've savoured so much*
    *Good friends, good times*
    *A loved ones touch*
    *Perhaps my time seemed all too brief*...
    *Don't lengthen it now with undue grief*...
    *Lift up your hearts and share with me...*
    *God wanted me now, He set me free.....*"

  • @cherylmosavel7739
    @cherylmosavel7739 7 месяцев назад +24

    Gone but never forgotten. Fatima touched my life in such a profound way. She taught me that regardless of happened in the past , we CAN rise above it all and stand tall. I'm a South African living in New Zealand and across the sea and miles and miles away she lifted me up. I am forever grateful that she shared herself with us. Lots of love and gratitude. Rest in peace.

  • @jaychetty1012
    @jaychetty1012 8 месяцев назад +19

    Gosh Renfred this couldn’t have been easy for you. We thinking of you and keeping you and Oupa in our thoughts and prayers. Thank you for doing this. It’s so special.

  • @kallieuil5297
    @kallieuil5297 8 месяцев назад +8

    Die video is amper klaar en hier sit ek nog en huil oor die chocolate se wrapper.

  • @capeadventurecamps
    @capeadventurecamps 8 месяцев назад +17

    Thank you my brother for sharing the pure love and genius that Fatima was... Your beautiful tribute brought a tear to my eyes. I followed her and was greatly inspired by her love for cooking our traditional dishes especially when I was travelling overseas. Please know that Fatima is a legend and her spirit will always live in our hearts💜

  • @carolb8452
    @carolb8452 8 месяцев назад +14

    Please don't take this channel down. I hope someone in the family will continue with the cooking videos.

  • @zanedunn3621
    @zanedunn3621 8 месяцев назад +24

    Aunty Fatima was instrumental in my cooking journey, as a 30 year old father I can confidently cook for my family today and I will always be thankful for her. Miss you aunty Fatima. Thank you so much.

  • @richardleroux3007
    @richardleroux3007 8 месяцев назад +18

    Thanku Renfred for sharing your precious memories u shared with Aunty Fatima u all in our thoughts .She had a caring precious sole. We Miss u Aunty Fatima.

  • @tasneemhendricks9873
    @tasneemhendricks9873 8 месяцев назад +14

    Thank you so much for this beautiful tribute to our beloved Fatima. This was obviously very difficult for you. May the Almighty ease your pain❤❤❤ My heart goes out to the Sydow sisters, Pa & all the family. A few weeks ago I made something from her last cookbook and I told my kids this is absolutely amazing coz whenever I open this book I make duah for her. I was just thinking how many other people are doing the same. We will always be reminded of her especially her giggle and Sonny-boy in the background....oopsie daisy or hoopie and yummy in our tummies will still be in our kitchens as we prepare a sweet treat or two❤️May Allah SWT grant her the highest place in Jannah Insha Allah Ameen 🌹Fatima was a giver and a people's person and we will surely miss her😢❤

  • @concernedsouthafrican1828
    @concernedsouthafrican1828 8 месяцев назад +15

    We want to thank you also for being there for her and for making Fatima the happy lady she was. She was such an amazing lady and taught us so much. I spend hours learning, laughing, and adoring . She was a VERY special lady and is dearly missed. Much love. Her memory lives on ❤😢

  • @ZethuMazibuko
    @ZethuMazibuko 7 месяцев назад +15

    It's the sound of Fatima laughing at herself on camera that was so endearing and what I'll remember most, besides the delicious meals she prepared.
    Thank you to you, Renfred, sir. Such a heartfelt tribute to a beautiful soul who gave so much of herself till the very end.
    She will be missed. However, thanks to her works found in print and vlogs she will also be remembered fondly.
    My prayers to you, the family and dear friends of Fatima 🙏🏾❤️

  • @samanthajulius8263
    @samanthajulius8263 8 месяцев назад +22

    Good day Renfred
    Our hearts go out to you, thank you for sharing Fatima with us. I had the pleasure of meeting her in 2016, at Salt River community center, where she had the launch of her 1st cookbook. She was such a beautiful human being, she wrote a message in there that brought tears to my eyes, she made me feel like we knew each other. I will treasure her cookbooks and memories forever. May she rest in eternal peace.
    May God be your comforter always 🫂

  • @asgisa100
    @asgisa100 8 месяцев назад +11

    Thank you for sharing these precious memories and stories with us. We will treasure her memory forever. I wish you well on your healing journey! We're holding space for you and your family during this difficult time 💙📿

  • @teancumbabes
    @teancumbabes 8 месяцев назад +17

    Thank you so much Renfred for sharing these things with us. As Fatima's followers, we love & miss her very much and we share your grief.
    Fatima's channel helped me to develop a love for cooking.
    Thank you again.
    May you find strength to bear this.

  • @venusstardust479
    @venusstardust479 8 месяцев назад +12

    Wow, how sweet and we finally get to see your face and hear your voice, thank you so much...this was beautiful.

  • @Viv779
    @Viv779 8 месяцев назад +17

    Hello Renfred,
    My condolences and my heart goes out to you. As you know Fatima was a wonderful, funny, generous and inspirational lady and I miss her and her little giggle.
    Thanks for sharing the beautiful special times with us and I hope you will keep posting. Sending you and Sunny a big hug. Fatima will be looking down on you and will be so very very proud of you.xx

  • @joanray6897
    @joanray6897 8 месяцев назад +19

    Thank you Renfred for this beautiful tribute you paid to your beloved Fatima. I can see it was not an easy task to talk about this great personality who was larger than life. Time is a great healer and you will come out the other end learning to dwell upon and remember with love the beautiful moments you enjoyed together. Rest assured there are many people who admired her and adored her programmes on You Tube and other places. Please accept our heartfelt sympathy on the loss of a lovely lady to you and all the family.

  • @creannegovender688
    @creannegovender688 8 месяцев назад +17

    Thank you Renfred, you were truly the love of her life. I applaud you for sticking by her side until the very end. Fatima, changed my life, her laugh, her recipes, the joy she brought to her cooking videos, priceless. God be with you all, RIP Fatima, until we meet again ❤

    • @HeatherLouw-dp2lt
      @HeatherLouw-dp2lt 26 дней назад

      Hi as I was listening to you I cried I know how you feel so sorry for your lost and the family

  • @rindakotze685
    @rindakotze685 8 месяцев назад +18

    Thank you Renfred! Everything I know about “Maleise kos”, I learned from Fatima. On RUclips and in her Cookbooks. We are Afrikaans people from Pretoria, but I will continue honouring Fatima with every dish of hers that I cook. Whether it is cooking “with” her on RUclips or from her cookbooks. Like she said in her last cookbook …..you will be in our hearts forever Fatima!❤

  • @irisdavids9312
    @irisdavids9312 8 месяцев назад +21

    Renfred I had the opportunity to meet you 10 years ago at my niece's 21st. Fatiema couldn't stop talking how amazing you are in her life. Awesome, Humble everything a woman wanted. You made her forget everything that wasn't from God. Thank you for being the Amazing Rock of Love to a woman who forgave all her past hurt and pain. Two people who lived life to the fullest with Eternal Love. You had the Best of the Best. Once Again Thank you 🙏

    • @PatriciaKester
      @PatriciaKester 7 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you Renfred for taking care of my Queen ..I didn't meet her but I love her.. She's and aways will be one of a kind Rest easy my hero Fatima Sydow I will always carry you in my heart..❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @barenisepeffer3815
      @barenisepeffer3815 7 месяцев назад +2

      What a beautiful love story

  • @emeldalombard1880
    @emeldalombard1880 8 месяцев назад +13

    Wow ,I know Fatima is smiling and so proud of you, thank you for bringing out the best in her, you are a remarkable man, may God comfort you during this difficult time and may you find strength to carry on and live out her legacy , she was truly an amazing woman.

  • @FaezaAdams
    @FaezaAdams 8 месяцев назад +39

    Thanks Renfred for sharing this very touching thank you to Fatima’s followers. I can see from this why Fatima would have chosen you - you allow yourself to vulnerable, and you’re a tender and loving person. I cried a few times while listening to you - your tenderness when you speak about her comes through so strongly, and you really loved each other. That much is palpable. Thanks for keeping her memory alive in such a beautiful and loving way 💚. May she rest in eternal peace, and may you too find peace and comfort through the beautiful memories you shared over your 15 years together 🥰. Thank you for all that you did for her too 🙏🏾🥰

  • @JJ-vs2gi
    @JJ-vs2gi 8 месяцев назад +42

    Thank you Renfred. I understand completely why she loved you so dearly. Thank YOU for loving her and taking care of her and protecting her the way you did. May God bless you and comfort you. 🤗

  • @thulidagracedndlovu4826
    @thulidagracedndlovu4826 8 месяцев назад +13

    I bumped to her on youtube she was doing mayo chicken, was hooked, her calm peaceful voice, her laughed was a joy to hear, she is resting in peace now, free from pain, but she touched and impacted many with her skill, she will always be loved and missed. Comfort and blessings to you and your family

  • @vanessaoaker8855
    @vanessaoaker8855 8 месяцев назад +16

    This is beautiful ❤. Wishing you strength peace and comfort. ❤

  • @FEMININELY_ME
    @FEMININELY_ME 7 месяцев назад +7

    Oh my Saviour! 😢💔
    I literally revisited a video of hers about 3 months ago and expressed how thankful and what a full circle moment it was for me to stumble upon her channel after so many years of not being as zealous as I used to be about the kitchen.
    Listen, SHE TAUGHT ME HOW TO COOK. No exaggeration whatsoever. I was still in high school then and now I’m out of high school and finishing Uni. I’m a young black woman and I think it’s safe to say; I will make a good wife in terms of cooking for my household & inlaws.
    She was SO gentle in her delivery and explanations. I always felt like she was next to me holding my hand through the then intimidating recipes.
    My love for cooking AND baking has literally been ignited and who else to come back to than Mama Fatima? Only to find this sad, sad video…
    My heart is in pieces. I’m sending ALL my love to you and your family. Rest in peace Aunty 😭💔🤍🕊️

  • @cotton3912
    @cotton3912 8 месяцев назад +10

    Renfred losing Fatima has been such a blow to us that we cannot imagine your suffering. Heaven has gained a beautiful soul.❤ A creative and caring food artist who shared love and knowledge with us. Never forget that although it hurts yet you had the honour of knowing and loving this awesome woman. Keep well.

  • @lucindepage9024
    @lucindepage9024 8 месяцев назад +11

    My Deepest Sympathy to you and family. Fatima was and will always be my role model😢

  • @sameerahamid2579
    @sameerahamid2579 7 месяцев назад +9

    😢 wonderful to hear that Fatima was blessed with a kind soul as a partner 😢

  • @Godschild52909
    @Godschild52909 7 месяцев назад +8

    Renfrew. I've been watching and interacting with Fatima for a few years. I live in canada and want to sendvyou my heartfelt condolences for your immeasurable loss. She is(I don't say was because she still exists) a wonderful soul and I have much fondness for her. May she be at peace in love. ❤❤

  • @sonjabrendalewis457
    @sonjabrendalewis457 8 месяцев назад +8

    Thank you Renfred for your touching tribute! Fatima left a beautiful legacy! She'll always be in my kitchen, just yesterday I prepared her delicious chicken akni that my family loves so much!! May her beautiful soul rest in peace!!

  • @nazmeeramujahidsaleem9980
    @nazmeeramujahidsaleem9980 8 месяцев назад +17

    Thank you for being with her and making life awesome for her❤My deepest sympathy to you and her family ❤🙏

  • @420jacked
    @420jacked 5 месяцев назад +6

    Omg I just found out! I’m so sorry for our loss! Fatima has helped a lot of South Africans abroad get through the struggle of homesickness. 😢😢😢 stay strong brother.

  • @NinaSingh777
    @NinaSingh777 8 месяцев назад +26

    Dear Renferd thank you for your touching tribute of your love Fatima Sydow. I saw you two were madly in love. It must have really taken a lot of courage to come here since you are a reserved person but you did it for Fatima. I pray God would strengthen you and ease your pain. Fatima was a bubbly loving and caring person as I witnessed and so many others. Thank you to all the people and you who loved and took care of her. Take care and God bless you 🙏

  • @RSAgirl100
    @RSAgirl100 8 месяцев назад +9

    I’m so happy we finally got to meet her other half. You are an amazing person thank you for being there for her through it all, it was evident that she loved you dearly. You are a beautiful person just like her. She will be watching over you forever ❤

  • @hadjira
    @hadjira 8 месяцев назад +16

    Thank you Renfred for all your love and unconditional support 😢.

  • @Helloyoutube-z3q
    @Helloyoutube-z3q 4 месяца назад +5

    I'm making a promise to myself that I will know how to cook in the next six months🌹
    Rest well Aunty Fatima

  • @tracyschmitt4625
    @tracyschmitt4625 7 месяцев назад +9

    Thank you for being with Fatima. I’m a South African living in the UK and watching Fatima always made me feel like I was back home. I’m so incredibly sorry for your loss ❤

  • @desireehare2807
    @desireehare2807 8 месяцев назад +11

    You were truly blessed with each other and we, her online family, were blessed with her. Thank you for being her 'better half', for all your love and support for 15 years. For never giving up on her. Smile please. She's watching you. May the beautiful memories of 15 years of love and caring and sharing carry you through this difficult time. And may your God grant you peace and acceptance in time. RIP dear Fatima. With much love and gratitude ❤

  • @wendynewman8627
    @wendynewman8627 7 месяцев назад +5

    I feel your grief and I pray you will take comfort in knowing that Fatima is smiling down on you all. She was a phenomenal human and her infectious giggle was so unique 🍀 Strength to you and Fatima's family and close friends. I will be showing this video to Shelly. Shelly has been with me for 14 years and worked for Fatima for the last four years.

  • @beverlyjansen4313
    @beverlyjansen4313 8 месяцев назад +9

    Thank you for being part of her life until her passing. It's okay to cry. Tears are liquid love that springs from a broken heart. Fatima's recipes are still being used. Christmas time especially when we were looking for trifle and cheesecake recipes. We used her recipes and her saying: yummy yummy yummy, I've got love in my tummy. And her delightfull giggle. She will always be remembered