Great question! Families with autistic children and teenagers can have a lot of stress sometimes. Stress management options include time for helpful self-talk, enjoyable family activities, organization, relaxation exercises and self-compassion. Hope this helps!❤️❤️❤️
@@7AheadfamilyThese are very important topics that weren’t really talked about when I was growing up back in the late 1970s, 1980s, and even into the 1990s.
Thank you for sharing these insights with us. Your kids are lucky to have strong parents like you. My son is 3 years old and we believe he is autistic. He used to say few words before but now stopped saying them. He behaves more like Simon than Ezra. We are waiting for the autism diagnosis results to see how severe his autism level.
Thank you for sharing! And welcome to our channel. Please feel free to let us know what kind of content you feel would be helpful for you on your journey. We love to serve people just like you. We are filming another babysitting video tonight with the autism family and hope to be able to point out useful tips.
Yes, thank you for the wonderful tips. My grandson is like your oldest son and is non verbal, as well. He is also 5 years old. I will pass this vid along to my daughter. We also give “Sie” meal replacement drinks. It’s tough trying to get him to eat regular foods. His diet consist of salty snack foods or sugary sweets.
As a Mom this breaks my heart almost daily. My son refuses to try some new things or textures. I still try to at least introduce it to him, but most of the time he refuses or pushes it away. It requires lots of patience. Tfs your routine 💙🧩
I wasn't horribly picky as a kid, but if I violently rejected food, it was never an attention seeking thing, it was an "Eating this is torture" thing. Most of the time I was just made to continue eating, but there were a few things that I rejected with enough consistency and vehemence that they were either no longer served or I was served something else. Then there was the time that we all ended up in the doghouse because my mom made a hash of all the leftovers for lunch, me and my brother turned our noses up at it, and when she tried to get my dad's help making us eat, he couldn't stand it either. I don't recall exactly, but I'm pretty sure we were on our own for dinner that night (that's the only time I can recall dad showing open displeasure with mom's cooking, though). If Ezra has trouble eating when he first wakes up, I'd give him at least an hour before trying to feed him. When I've been up less than an hour and it's earlier than 10:00 AM or so, I need something pretty sugary to motivate me to eat at all, and there's a good chance that I end up feeling awful for hours if I do eat that early. Simon's love of choices and tendency to sneak stuff he's refused to eat when nobody's looking may match up with an autism profile I've heard some autistic youtubers talk about called PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance). It doesn't really describe me (though I do inherit a bit of a stubborn streak from my mom), so I can't say much about it behind recognizing it as a possibility.
I was a picky eater when I was younger (possibly as a result of being born three months prematurely and the neurological effects of that, or possibly for other reasons (Who knows?)). I was recently talking to my parents on the phone and my mother reminded me that she would cut sandwiches into interesting shapes using cookie cutters in order to get me to eat. She started doing this when I was about two or three and she needed to continue doing this until I was about six (if not seven). Therefore I actually remember eating some sandwiches shaped like stars, Christmas Trees, etc. around the time I was in preschool, kindergarten, and first grade. Also being able to dip meats in various sauces (ketchup,mustard,barbecue sauce, and later (around age nine or ten) horseradish sauce (when I was no longer bothered as much by strong smells and tastes). My sister (she was born at least a month late) is also a picky eater (even though she’s older than I am) but she will generally eat if she is able to dip what she eats in either honey or maple syrup. My sister and I were both told by neurologists that we are probably on the autism spectrum but the doctors who said this back in the 80s and 90s could only be 85 to 95 percent sure of this because testing back then was less precise than it is today. There is some family history of this on one side of the family so there’s a good chance that we have this to various degrees (my sister never forgets a name, date, or birthday) and I have perfect pitch and can usually remember a song, TV show, or movie almost verbatim for number of years after no more than two or three viewings.
Wow, thank you so much for sharing. ❤️ That is such an awesome idea to cut the sandwiches into shapes and different things. Awesome to hear about you and your sister story. ❤️
Regarding choice it is often best to limit it to two or three. For example I read in an article that even neurotypical adults have an easier time picking an ice cream flavor if it is narrowed down to three flavors (at the most) like “chocolate or strawberry” or “chocolate, strawberry, or vanilla”.
Hearing you mention giving choices here I wonder if Simon already had a PDA diagnosis at this point or whether that’s more recent. Maybe you can cover that in a future video l
You are so kind, thank you so much for watching and commenting. ❤️ yeah we’ve been doing a video every day now for quite some time so there’s getting to be a lot of them out there. 😊
I just remembered that when I was younger (probably around three years old or so) my mother helped me to learn how to put a spoon in my mouth in just the right position by putting some honey, maple syrup, or something else that is sweet on the bottom of the spoon in just the right spot and having me lick the spoon. You might try this with Ezra in order to introduce him to how to use a spoon and give him some incentive to practice this. If he does not yet have the eye-hand coordination for this (even with the type of incentive mentioned above) then some physical and/or occupational therapy might help to address this. With Ezra being older than four to five years old here (he likely has less neuroplasticity than someone younger would have) it might take quite a while but over time it can still eventually work. When he learns this a similar technique can be used to teach Ezra how to use a fork.
My sons previous evals at 18months & 2 showed verbal delays but no autism. We’re struggling with many areas since. My son refuses to feed himself most the time & with little help I pick my battles & just feed him as he’ll be in a worse mood hungry. Do you think this is an autism Red flag? I know he knows how to hold a fork but he really won’t do it the majority of the time. Just curious for your Opinion. What a beautiful thing it is having two super dedicated parents with such understanding.
You are so kind ❤️. It sounds like you’re going through a lot. As the parent you do see a lot, so getting a second opinion is never a bad idea. Are you able to get any therapy help?
I hear a lot of noises on the video. I don't know if that's just on the video, or if the sounds were actually on the terrace while you were eating. That could also be a reason why Ezra couldn't eat on the terrace. For me it would be almost too strenuous to eat, as there are already too many stimuli present, and the food is another stimulus to add. Otherwise, my question would be whether there are foods that Ezra always likes, or is it hard to tell? Greetings from Germany
Thank you for bringing that to our attention. Come to think of it, Ezra lately has only been able to eat inside. Perhaps you just solved a mystery for us. We’ll try to keep him inside more as we feed him. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. The food we were trying to feed him are foods he will usually eat. (Except for the celery)😃
It’s possible that Ezra might have grabbed Simon’s sippy cup when it was put down because it was close enough to where he was that he might not have realized that it was for Simon. This would depend on where Ezra is both socially and cognitively but it’s definitely one possible (perhaps even likely) explanation for why Ezra did this. It’s fairly likely that Ezra does not yet understand the concept of property (which likely factors into him not thinking much of donating a shoe to the falls in the Niagara Falls video).
My son has autism. He won't eat cooked food.. Before, when he was smaller, he ate cooked food I don't know, we don't know what we will do when he won't eat anything..
I know we mentioned this in the movie and talked about different ways of trying to get kids to eat different foods, but one thing that helped our son Ezra get nutrients is giving him a meal replacement shake at least once a day. A lot of times he will eat I mean drink two meal replacement shakes a day, including his other food. He is still so skinny, he probably needs to eat more but we’re working on it
Ezra still doesn’t really have words. He will say mama some times when he gets really mad at me, but still it’s not often maybe a couple times a year. -Holly
Also I wanted to add. I’ve always avoided sauces and hate the texture of sauces. Maybe he doesn’t enjoy them also, and that’s the problem sometimes? Just a thought. It may be inaccurate.
My daughter's story is same as Simon's. She is diagnosed with mild to moderate autism yesterday. She is 3 yrs. old. Is mild autism is curable? Or therapy will continue throughout the life
Everyone’s story is different, but it’s been our experience that therapy can be very helpful when the focus is to give the autistic person the most independence as possible. For everyone that we know autism is something that stays with us throughout our life, but the symptoms and severity can change. Good luck on your journey.with your daughter. Good for you for getting the diagnosis. And know you are not alone.
Get to know them. 😊 at least with our kids, it’s pretty easy to tell when they are happy for us, but sometimes other people are not aware, and think that they are not happy when they actually are. 😊
@@7Aheadfamily ye I always wonder to other people who have autism if there stress or happy because I can only identify my brothers when they are stress or happy
@@7Aheadfamily that’s what I figured but wasn’t sure. My 8 year old hates having anyone put things in or near his face so I was wondering if Ezra does too because he flinches and backs away. It’s so hard getting kids to eat when they don’t want to or can’t make themselves. We do a lot of smoothies over here.
Thank you for sharing. Sometimes Ezra will let us have a small bowl of something in front of him, but he gets over stimulated visually when there are a lot of choices in front of him, so he will (almost all the time) throw off whatever is in front of him. He does this even when he is hungry.
Fruits and nuts when unregulated, juice sometimes (orange, carrot and beet helps a lot) , it's really hard to eat when stressed out. When I am ok I like to eat something like gluten free bread or pasta with humus, tomato sauce, guacamole, mix of leaves and sugar free jelly
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You two are amazing. This can’t be easy but you look so calm and patient, how???
Thank you for your kind words. We just take it a day at a time. But we aren't perfect, we try again, everyday, to be a little better.
Great question! Families with autistic children and teenagers can have a lot of stress sometimes. Stress management options include time for helpful self-talk, enjoyable family activities, organization, relaxation exercises and self-compassion. Hope this helps!❤️❤️❤️
@@7AheadfamilyThese are very important topics that weren’t really talked about when I was growing up back in the late 1970s, 1980s, and even into the 1990s.
Snow capped mountain view from your deck is beautiful! Earth's beautiful wonders.
It is very beautiful😊 Thank you for commenting!❤️❤️
The food looks so good ❤ Ezra and Simon are so cute 🥰
Thank you! It was a good dinner, especially when we could finally get Ezra to eat. ❤️ -Holly
Thank you for sharing these insights with us. Your kids are lucky to have strong parents like you. My son is 3 years old and we believe he is autistic. He used to say few words before but now stopped saying them. He behaves more like Simon than Ezra. We are waiting for the autism diagnosis results to see how severe his autism level.
Thank you for sharing! And welcome to our channel. Please feel free to let us know what kind of content you feel would be helpful for you on your journey. We love to serve people just like you. We are filming another babysitting video tonight with the autism family and hope to be able to point out useful tips.
You parents are Saints !! How much patience and dedication, awesome !!
You are so kind. Thank you! ❤️
God bless you all abundantly
Thanks for helping us via these videos. Means a lot to us
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Yes, thank you for the wonderful tips. My grandson is like your oldest son and is non verbal, as well. He is also 5 years old. I will pass this vid along to my daughter. We also give “Sie” meal replacement drinks. It’s tough trying to get him to eat regular foods. His diet consist of salty snack foods or sugary sweets.
You are so welcome! It’s always good to hear tips on how other families create their own unique normal. Thanks for sharing.
As a Mom this breaks my heart almost daily. My son refuses to try some new things or textures. I still try to at least introduce it to him, but most of the time he refuses or pushes it away. It requires lots of patience. Tfs your routine 💙🧩
Yes! A lot of patience. Thank you for sharing. ❤️
Thanks for sharing great ideas that help with mealtime!
Thanks for watching ❤️
To be fair I would do the same thing if offered celery.
Ha! Thanks for being honest! 😃
Same I hate celery
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I wasn't horribly picky as a kid, but if I violently rejected food, it was never an attention seeking thing, it was an "Eating this is torture" thing. Most of the time I was just made to continue eating, but there were a few things that I rejected with enough consistency and vehemence that they were either no longer served or I was served something else. Then there was the time that we all ended up in the doghouse because my mom made a hash of all the leftovers for lunch, me and my brother turned our noses up at it, and when she tried to get my dad's help making us eat, he couldn't stand it either. I don't recall exactly, but I'm pretty sure we were on our own for dinner that night (that's the only time I can recall dad showing open displeasure with mom's cooking, though).
If Ezra has trouble eating when he first wakes up, I'd give him at least an hour before trying to feed him. When I've been up less than an hour and it's earlier than 10:00 AM or so, I need something pretty sugary to motivate me to eat at all, and there's a good chance that I end up feeling awful for hours if I do eat that early.
Simon's love of choices and tendency to sneak stuff he's refused to eat when nobody's looking may match up with an autism profile I've heard some autistic youtubers talk about called PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance). It doesn't really describe me (though I do inherit a bit of a stubborn streak from my mom), so I can't say much about it behind recognizing it as a possibility.
We see some PDA is our family for sure. Thanks for your thoughts.
I was a picky eater when I was younger (possibly as a result of being born three months prematurely and the neurological effects of that, or possibly for other reasons (Who knows?)).
I was recently talking to my parents on the phone and my mother reminded me that she would cut sandwiches into interesting shapes using cookie cutters in order to get me to eat. She started doing this when I was about two or three and she needed to continue doing this until I was about six (if not seven). Therefore I actually remember eating some sandwiches shaped like stars, Christmas Trees, etc. around the time I was in preschool, kindergarten, and first grade.
Also being able to dip meats in various sauces (ketchup,mustard,barbecue sauce, and later (around age nine or ten) horseradish sauce (when I was no longer bothered as much by strong smells and tastes).
My sister (she was born at least a month late) is also a picky eater (even though she’s older than I am) but she will generally eat if she is able to dip what she eats in either honey or maple syrup.
My sister and I were both told by neurologists that we are probably on the autism spectrum but the doctors who said this back in the 80s and 90s could only be 85 to 95 percent sure of this because testing back then was less precise than it is today. There is some family history of this on one side of the family so there’s a good chance that we have this to various degrees (my sister never forgets a name, date, or birthday) and I have perfect pitch and can usually remember a song, TV show, or movie almost verbatim for number of years after no more than two or three viewings.
Wow, thank you so much for sharing. ❤️ That is such an awesome idea to cut the sandwiches into shapes and different things. Awesome to hear about you and your sister story. ❤️
My son remembers dates of unnecessary things n pictures in my phone n in calendars
Is it normal
Also sings clearly
Most of us are pretty big singers here at our house as well. :)
Regarding choice it is often best to limit it to two or three. For example I read in an article that even neurotypical adults have an easier time picking an ice cream flavor if it is narrowed down to three flavors (at the most) like “chocolate or strawberry” or “chocolate, strawberry, or vanilla”.
Thank you for your ideas❤️
Hearing you mention giving choices here I wonder if Simon already had a PDA diagnosis at this point or whether that’s more recent. Maybe you can cover that in a future video l
Good idea!💜💜
I saw annother video, you both have verry behave children, especelly the older children, lotts of love from the Netherlands 💝
Thank you so much!
You are so kind, thank you so much for watching and commenting. ❤️ yeah we’ve been doing a video every day now for quite some time so there’s getting to be a lot of them out there. 😊
I’m tearing now because of the severe autistic boy😢😢😢 I hope he progress
Yes. He’s such a little sweet heart. ❤️ he is learning though. And we’re really excited that he is using his iPad now to communicate.
Thank you! ❤️ We hope he does too! 😊😊😊
@@7Aheadfamily wish him all the best and a bright future I appreciate how much patient and strong parents he has he’s blessed 😇
Thank you so much! ❤️❤️❤️
I just remembered that when I was younger (probably around three years old or so) my mother helped me to learn how to put a spoon in my mouth in just the right position by putting some honey, maple syrup, or something else that is sweet on the bottom of the spoon in just the right spot and having me lick the spoon. You might try this with Ezra in order to introduce him to how to use a spoon and give him some incentive to practice this. If he does not yet have the eye-hand coordination for this (even with the type of incentive mentioned above) then some physical and/or occupational therapy might help to address this. With Ezra being older than four to five years old here (he likely has less neuroplasticity than someone younger would have) it might take quite a while but over time it can still eventually work.
When he learns this a similar technique can be used to teach Ezra how to use a fork.
Thank you for sharing😊😊
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You're welcome 😊
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Thank you for sharing!💙💜💙
I’m super picky and sometimes a way I eat food is I find food I like and just eat that.
You’re not the only one!
@@7Aheadfamily Thanks
Of course
My sons previous evals at 18months & 2 showed verbal delays but no autism. We’re struggling with many areas since. My son refuses to feed himself most the time & with little help I pick my battles & just feed him as he’ll be in a worse mood hungry. Do you think this is an autism Red flag? I know he knows how to hold a fork but he really won’t do it the majority of the time. Just curious for your Opinion. What a beautiful thing it is having two super dedicated parents with such understanding.
You are so kind ❤️. It sounds like you’re going through a lot. As the parent you do see a lot, so getting a second opinion is never a bad idea. Are you able to get any therapy help?
Aww I live you boys so adorable
Thank you. ❤️
I hear a lot of noises on the video. I don't know if that's just on the video, or if the sounds were actually on the terrace while you were eating. That could also be a reason why Ezra couldn't eat on the terrace. For me it would be almost too strenuous to eat, as there are already too many stimuli present, and the food is another stimulus to add.
Otherwise, my question would be whether there are foods that Ezra always likes, or is it hard to tell? Greetings from Germany
Thank you for bringing that to our attention. Come to think of it, Ezra lately has only been able to eat inside. Perhaps you just solved a mystery for us. We’ll try to keep him inside more as we feed him. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. The food we were trying to feed him are foods he will usually eat. (Except for the celery)😃
@@7Aheadfamilyave you tried ear defenders for Ezra? He holds his ears at some sounds, over stimulated by loud sounds it seems
We have tried traditional headphones, and Ezra won’t keep those on. 😊 Is there a specific brand or type of headphone you recommend? ❤️❤️❤️
It’s possible that Ezra might have grabbed Simon’s sippy cup when it was put down because it was close enough to where he was that he might not have realized that it was for Simon.
This would depend on where Ezra is both socially and cognitively but it’s definitely one possible (perhaps even likely) explanation for why Ezra did this. It’s fairly likely that Ezra does not yet understand the concept of property (which likely factors into him not thinking much of donating a shoe to the falls in the Niagara Falls video).
Thank you for your insight❤️
I never knew Ezra can go that far in his chair 4:16
Yes! He can go quite far, it actually has wheels on the bottom. LOL! he gets around.
@@7Aheadfamily oh that why he pushes him self in another videoto the door that is a cool chair right there
yes. He can move around in the chair.
I'm kinda a picky eater, but I like vegetables though,my favourite is fish and chips
Nice! Ezra actually loves broccoli and carrots usually. 😊
@@7Aheadfamily I love both of them❤
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I was a picky eater as a child, I would refuse to eat almost anything that was cooked or non-vegan
Thank you for sharing. I think picky eating is very common.
What did you like to eat?
Is the reason that Ezra needs to take naps because of medication side effects or is it because he’s still pretty young?
He doesn't anymore, but certain medication did make him tired for a bit.
My son has autism. He won't eat cooked food..
Before, when he was smaller, he ate cooked food
I don't know, we don't know what we will do when he won't eat anything..
I know we mentioned this in the movie and talked about different ways of trying to get kids to eat different foods, but one thing that helped our son Ezra get nutrients is giving him a meal replacement shake at least once a day. A lot of times he will eat I mean drink two meal replacement shakes a day, including his other food. He is still so skinny, he probably needs to eat more but we’re working on it
Can I ask if ezra had any words at ages 2 or 3
Ezra still doesn’t really have words. He will say mama some times when he gets really mad at me, but still it’s not often maybe a couple times a year. -Holly
Where do you live? It’s beautiful. I just discovered your channel. I have level 1 autism myself.
Also I wanted to add. I’ve always avoided sauces and hate the texture of sauces. Maybe he doesn’t enjoy them also, and that’s the problem sometimes? Just a thought. It may be inaccurate.
Thank you! We love the mountains here. We live in Utah.
Thank you for sharing. That’s a good idea. We’ll try that.
I myself am level 1.5 autism.
Sounds like you and Simon are very similar. ❤️
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Yeah. We try to give them food that they like. ❤️😊❤️
My daughter's story is same as Simon's. She is diagnosed with mild to moderate autism yesterday. She is 3 yrs. old.
Is mild autism is curable? Or therapy will continue throughout the life
What was the symptoms?
Everyone’s story is different, but it’s been our experience that therapy can be very helpful when the focus is to give the autistic person the most independence as possible. For everyone that we know autism is something that stays with us throughout our life, but the symptoms and severity can change. Good luck on your journey.with your daughter. Good for you for getting the diagnosis. And know you are not alone.
@@7Aheadfamily thank you
You bet! Thanks for being here and keep in touch ❤️
How can u tell if a person who has autism is happy or stressed?
Get to know them. 😊 at least with our kids, it’s pretty easy to tell when they are happy for us, but sometimes other people are not aware, and think that they are not happy when they actually are. 😊
@@7Aheadfamily ye I always wonder to other people who have autism if there stress or happy because I can only identify my brothers when they are stress or happy
You can always ask too, if you don’t know what emotion they are feeling.
@@7Aheadfamily ye I just feel like they are going to get offended because sometimes they don’t have autism and I just asume
Yeah, it’s always much easier the more you know the person.
Is there a reason why you don’t just put some food Ezra likes on his tray?
I’m genuinely curious, not trying to sound rude.
I’m just guessing so I could be wrong, but maybe he will try to throw it away.
Very good question, yes because he will take it off and throw it. 😊
You got it. 😊
@@7Aheadfamily that’s what I figured but wasn’t sure. My 8 year old hates having anyone put things in or near his face so I was wondering if Ezra does too because he flinches and backs away.
It’s so hard getting kids to eat when they don’t want to or can’t make themselves. We do a lot of smoothies over here.
Thank you for sharing. Sometimes Ezra will let us have a small bowl of something in front of him, but he gets over stimulated visually when there are a lot of choices in front of him, so he will (almost all the time) throw off whatever is in front of him. He does this even when he is hungry.
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Thanks for watching and commenting. 😊 hope you get feeling better. ❤️
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Diferenta intre copii.
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I am a picky eater too, only eat organic and non fried food
That sounds much healthier. What are a few of your favorite meals?
Fruits and nuts when unregulated, juice sometimes (orange, carrot and beet helps a lot) , it's really hard to eat when stressed out. When I am ok I like to eat something like gluten free bread or pasta with humus, tomato sauce, guacamole, mix of leaves and sugar free jelly
That sounds great! We need you to come and be a chef at our house for a little bit. 😊
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Thank for sharing and for the advice