They know the sex workers and strippers have less long time value, so they are fine with potential competition hurting their own chances, but they are pissed that the guys they want prefer to date women younger than them.
It's simple when you realize it's exclusively about what benefits them.. They want to strip but they don't want the guys their age to go for younger ones. That's it. Nothing deeper to it
@@AndreiGeorgescu-j9p 💯%. It’s just resentment. And they use that false moral argument because it’s the best way to discredit someone, to say they are bad people. And the men who endorse that, it’s the same, they envy the men that can actually accomplish dating very young women, because those younger women won’t date them.
I generally agree with the guys on the podact but if you're 40 dating an 18 year old you're most likely kinda creepy. 18 is almost always still very child-like. I'm 36 and when I speak to 18 year olds I feel like I'm talking to a kid.
@@sHART1780 I have a daughter over and 2 more on the cusp... if they decide to date a guy that is 40, yeah I wouldnt like it, but I would allow them to make their own choices and learn the lesson.... I had to at 18... but no one talks about the inverse...
@robertshank3729 you wouldn't like it because you'd know that the 40 year old guys are most likely dating them out of horniness. I've hung out with college girls in my 30s and I couldn't do it often because they were completely different than me. They are nice to look at but they're like kids in adult bodies. Women in their 30s and 40s are overall way more pleasant to be around because they're mature and way easier to talk to. They also live adult lives.
Maybe it’s just weird and how long is that relationship going to last when the guy is 70 and she is 30 ? Also if you want kids don’t you want a partner that is going to be fit and healthy to do activities with your kids and actually be alive when they grow up ?
She already gave the answer. Andrew kept changing his questions. And Andrew himself could not come ip with any logical argument about why he would not advise his 18 year old to be with a 40 year old man .
@@anthonycampos8057 her answer was that book smart is different from Street smart or emotional smartness. That’s why voting at 18 is not a big deal. But 18 year old marrying a 40 year old would definitely be a red flag
Because women only surround themselves with people who already agree with them (constant affirmation and validation). I look at my friends group, then their friends group and they are diverse as hell. Lot of respectful disagreements, guy who play sports having friends who are artists. Conservatives and Liberals being friends and having discussions and disagreements. Men who hunt friends with guys who have never touched a gun in thier life and so on. I look at my female friends and their entire friends groups are practically clones when it comes to likes and ideas. I see one say something blatantly stupid or false and without fail all of her friends just agree and tell her how right she is. Men will just tell other people it was a stupid idea regardless of who said it. This is why women struggle articulating their stance or their ideas being challenged, it's literally new to many of them because they basically live in a bubble they curate for themselves to soak in validation. No one challenges them because they avoid anyone who does. --then it becomes mansplaining, or men controlling, or "yelling" at her.
Yea younger woman have more leverage than older women. Which narrows the power dynamic. Cougar: "im leaving you " Me "bye" Beautiful young woman: "im leaving you" Me: "lets take a vacation and works this out baby"
At 18 I met my late husband who was 18 years older than me. Everyone in my life was not happy until they met him and saw our relationship. I think the age gap discussion really depends on both parties.
@@melissah5391 i remarried at 25 to an amazing man that I love with all my heart but understands the love I will always have for my late husband. He helped me become who I am now. I doubt I would have been the woman my now husband wanted to date and marry without him. He will always have a place in my heart.
I married my 18 year old wife when I was almost 24 and 36 years late life is great. Some women today are little Dictators, they ruined their lives by being Taxis and now want ruin others lives.
@Whatever Clips. It's quite annoying that you don't number your videos. The videos with the same round of guests should have some indicator that they belong together.
I married my husband when I was 22 - he was 41 - 19 yrs older. He had his doctorate and I was a college student. We were married for 32 years until he passed away. First marriage for both. Great match! Miss him terribly
I agree that it’s difficult to find quality women - Feminism has been no friend to girls and women - they’ve been lied to and bought a horribly false narrative. Very sad
You should speak up more about your relationship. @melissah5391 so many people are scared to date younger or older because of the social stigma. And it would probably give people more insight into whether it's for them or not, especially women.
and you could look up to your older man, and you KNEW if he was responsible and a provider. You dont know that about other 22 year old boys just starting out. Age gaps should be the norm
I don't think there would be much of a power struggle between a 40 yo man and a 18 yo women. A 40 yo man wouldn't even bother with an 18 yo unless she was absolutely kind, agreeable, and submissive. At 40 we know EXACTLY what we want.
You can have so much in common with folks in different ages. I get on with my older coworkers (30+ years older) more than my own age! Music, politics, love of animals, love of art, nature, we connect on all sorts of things. My boyfriend is 30 years older than me. We connect on basically everything. These girls are so brain dead.
That's great but did your boyfriend go trolling for younger women before he landed you. Or did your relationship just happen out of natural circumstances. This is the part that none of these people understand. Generally older men or older women don't go chasing after younger people for the purpose of a relationships. It's one thing when you have older people who through the course of hanging out and talking forum a friendship which then can develop in to more. It's a whole another story when older people specifically are targeting younger people. Generally when this is going on its because they believe they can find some one they can control and have power over.
@@sierravan That's the difference. There a difference between men who actively are seeking out younger women or men verse moving through life and meeting some one and a relationship developing out of that. When older men or women seek out some one younger I have serious questions about their motivations. Verse some one who just happens to meet some one much younger then them a relationship forms. Your husband wasn't looking for anything when he met you. Yet a relationship formed out of it. There was no motivation there.
Thought the same thing. It's immoral to put an 18 yo in a relationship where they may be at a cognitive disadvantage, but TOTALLY fine to sell their bodies to millions of strangers.
@@davidbrotherton789 The issue is not so much the girl as it is with the guy. I'm 49 years old. I would question any man who wants to be with an 18 year old girl. I can't stop them from having a relationship but I would have serious questions about that man. Dude as 49 year old man the idea of being with an 18 year old girl is like Jail bate in my opinion. That's robbing the cradle. When I was 30 years old that girl wasn't even born. It doesn't matter to me how attritive she is. Not to mention that I have nothing in common with an 18 year old girl.
@@davidbrotherton789cognitive disadvantage is funny AF too since that study they love so much didn't say anything they're claiming and the scientists who did it said publicly people need to stop quoting it
@@deaddudegamingthis is some nice cope to virtue signal. I would question a 49 year old that got with anybody over 35 as not being able to get anything except the clearance bin
Its amazes me that these ladies will downplay a 18 yos character by saying they have no knowledge in a real relationship but at the same time when they were 18 will tell anyone who willing to listen that they grown when they wanted to do something grown up
Yep. An 18 year old woman is smart and capable enough to vote, do OF, even gold dig older men... but the moment an older man gets somethign in return from that same 18 year old, she is now magically not smart enough to make decisions. --- it falls into a pattern women do now when it comes to men: the moment a man gets something from a woman he wanted, it's "controlling". Man has a wife that cooks; controlling. Man dates a girl who joins him at the events he chooses; controlling. Man wants to have kids; controlling. Man asks his girl to not dress like a 304 to not draw unwanted attention; controlling. Man asks for a sandwich; controlling (but it's perfectly fine to replace said sandwich with an orange as long as it's the woman asking because then if he doesn't do it he sucks)
@@davematt2002 He does it for the audience, to illustrate how women think and act. He obviously doesn't believe this will lead to any enlightenment or change of mind on their part.
Every single time it's always about an older man wanting to "manipulate" or the younger woman doesn't have enough "life" experience argument; these women don't like the fact that men prefer younger women to those that have a lot of baggage and drama plus kids.
Also at the same time. They’re acting like the women are braindead, the women know exactly what they’re doing when they’re with an older man. It’s like they think they can some how hypnotize them into being in a relationship or something
An 18 year old woman CAN'T GET a 40 year old man WITHOUT MANIPULAING HIM. I say this AS a 40 year old single man. The SOLE way she'd 'get' me is by exploiting me. By throwing it at me.
@@wh3elson To a degree yes they can hypnotize a girl just not in the way you think. A older man can find that right young girl who doesn't have the right level of confidence can step in say and do all the right things and gain a certain measure of control and power over her. Generally the men who do this are the ones out their trolling for young women. The vast majority of older men that end up with younger women wasn't because they were intentionally trolling for younger women. They just happen to be out their talking and meeting people and maybe they started talking to some one on like or met some one in person and they got along. This lead to a friendship which lead to a relationship. These relationships I don't question. It's when older men purposely go out of their way to target 18 to 25 year old women. They looking for a specific type of women a women who doesn't have the experience and self confidence to know she being controlled or manipulated. He using her own emotions against her. Doesn't make those women stupid. I seen first hand how a really bright and intelligent girl can fall for a older guy and then watch that older man just completely use her emotions against her and gaslight her to such a degree that he controls her. I'm 49 years old and could do it easily if I wanted to. I don't because I have nothing in common with most 18 year old girls. I don't have the energy to keep up with some one at that age. I have lot of energy for a 49 year old man. I don't always have to be doing something. I'm very much content with staying home and watching tv or playing video games. Also when I look at 18 year old girl any girl younger then say 30 I think jail bate. I think that when I was in my 30s that girl wasn't even born. I'm think that girl is young enough to be my daughter or even my granddaughter. I have no desire to go down that road. Just the idea of doing it creeps me the F out. It take unusual circumstance for me to be willing to date a much younger women.
Also you think older men don't have as much baggage as women do. Trust me if you have older single man more then likely that man has a lot of baggage. Most men who are my age 49 or around their who are single because they never found any one or because they been divorced have a lot more baggage then you care to recognize.
Why is it always framed as "this older man will manipulate this inexperienced and unconfident young woman for his own benefit"? Why is it never framed as "this older man will use his experience to help this young woman build up her confidence and fulfil her potential as a human being".
I'm a 40 year old man, THE ONLY WAY an 18 year old woman could get me IS manipulating me with sex. I'd have no other reason to be with her. That's younger than my youngest sister by a decade lol. SHE would have to WORK to get me, like effort and way out of her way.
As an American citizen we have the right to vote at the age of consent and adulthood. That would be the age of 18. Some 18 year olds are stupid when it comes to voting and some r stupid when it comes to relationships. But that is the age of legalized adulthood that had been given.
Got with my lady in high school 1981 still together, not married. We grew together, not rich ,its been a long, great life. Ups and Downs are what it's all about. These kidds want all good, or they quit. 😂😢
Generally women in their 30s and 40s are single for a reason. But yeah, girls mature faster than boys... physically. Emotionally and intellectually not so much
I guarantee she wouldn’t get angry at a 40 year old woman dating an 18 year old man Even though a 40 year old woman can’t give you anything compared to an 18 year old woman (infertility vs fertility) She’s just jealous
This is why my gf of 15 years now, is older then me by about the same. I got lucky and haven't had to deal with the crazy drama I see most videos and people in. Love my gf and my life is so easy because of her. I hope I make hers as easy and as good as possible.
I dated an 18 year old when I was 23 and I dated a 34 year old when I was 25. The 18 year old was liiiiightyears more intelligent, more grounded, more mentally and emotionally stable, and waaaaay less chaotic, because she had a very strong family. The 34 year old was an absolute disaster of a woman and I broke up with her because she was too immature and showed no signs of ever being willing to get her sh*t together.
Its literally how we're hard wired, men are meant to be secure, financially and physically, and to protect. That is literally why 18-24 should be seeking a 30-40 year old man. Also, unless it's your body and your choice, your opinion on it doesn't matter. And I'm a woman, now 43. These girls don't get that body count actually matters and so does the ability to pair bond. Also why the age gap is hard-wired.
I'm 27, never been in a relationship, never had sex. My mom keeps pressuring me to get with an older man. The problem is that I genuinely feel no attraction for older men. And I think that if I were to marry, I wouldn't get a model or movie star, but I'd still want someone I'd feel a minimum of attraction towards.
Uh yeah non most women i know would find it VERY weird and uncomfortable! Stop the playing devils avocate purely cause women bring up the argument. Women are holding each other a lot more accountable on toxic behavior than men do towards other men. Seen it hundreds of time in my life. Men just shut up if they respect the guy even if theyre wrong or not or either shit their pants. Very rarely a brave man will stand up against his own friends or other men when they cross the line and is willing to deal with tbe consequences.
@@heidis6130 The point I was making was that a lot of women are hypocritical when it comes to the age gap argument. I personally think that as long as they're both consenting adults no one should give a flying f***. I also came to the conclusion that it's usually old bitter women that have an axe to grind that are against relationships of this type because they can't attract a man their own age because that man is sick of all the boss babe BS and/or keeps getting pumped and dumped by some young Chads i.e. A Self-fulfilling prophecy.
@@juanme555 nope... ive been around a lottt of men cause i am quite strong for a girl and like heavy jobs and i can certainly say in all my years i exist here on earth men get away with a lot more vile shit than girls or women do in their own network. Guys say vile shit constantly oversexualizing most things being so inappropiate and guys just laugh it away.. even if they feel shame on behalf of the guy, most simply wont take them accountable. They just join them. Ive seen it soooooo often. Girls on the other hand give you a sweet lie... like youre a ten or whatever but if they say fucked up shit their girlfriends will really tell them off.. or be shunned from their female circle. Women hold one another as an overall a lot more accountable on fucked up stuff. Jep you have some nasty women walking the planet.. but i csn garantuee women their moral is a lot higher than men. While a men physical strength is a lot higher then women. Most women have a LOT more empathy for all parties and all situations than men do... which automatically make them wiser beings in general. Plus we also tend to be less overhyped sex freaks which poisons the soul on daily basis which is also huge problem in the male community
21 will still want to experience life. A 40 years old is done with life and wants to travel and stay home. Also, he'd get jealous of a 21year old if she wants to go party or hang out with her friends. Men, stop manipulating these young ladies.
'Experience life' Aka sleep around and rack up body counts and have many babies without the father around instead of staying with one man. Regardless of age.
I’m not a dad, I’m just an oldest brother in a fatherless family, but, is getting your daughters/sisters to date the RIGHT men not the goal? Not not dating anyone?
I hate when men say I don't want my daughters dating anyone. They seem to forget that their wives or girlfriends are all daughters. If no daughters ever got married, the human race would have stopped with Adam and Eve.
My wife is from a completely different continent and in her mid-20's. I'm in my mid-30's. I don't care that our taste in music/movies, our hobbies, etc. are very different. What matters is that we like being around each other, we can joke around, we care about each other, we're attracted to each other, and we're loyal people.
She also completely overlooks the fact that many men in their 40s are still inexperienced. Especially in this modern era where only the top 2% gets to have sex. Hell, I'm 34, soon 35, and I've only been with 1 woman (my ex) and that was 7 years ago...
Andrew makes good points much of the time. This isn't one of them. Avoiding admitting the fact that he would be happier with his 18 year old daughter dating a 20 year old guy, than a 40 year old guy.... by saying he'd advise his daughter to date no one (stupid & unrealistic) is an obvious weak cop-out. And the smugness he displays while actually taking an "L", is cringeworthy.
He said he wouldn't like his daughter dating anyone. I'm a dad I know what he means. If when my daughter was 18 I would just want her to be happy. Age is irrelevant when it comes to falling for someone. Also he said he wouldn't mind the 40 year old in some circumstances
I was just about to point this out, it intellectually dishonest, he proposes hypotheticals all the time and suddenly can't engage in this one. He doesn't want to admit the girls have a point, they're just not verbally able to articulate it well, which is common.
@@alfredaguite7781 That's true. One other issue I have with their conversations is this. They pretty solidly criticize OF girls with legit negative points. The problem is that they don't typically acknowledge the fact that there wouldn't even be an OF if it wasn't for the fact that quite a few guys are willing to part with their hard-earned money, just to get some pathetic, BS, virtual satisfaction from following OF girls. So I do believe that guys share some blame. But digging deeper into that raises the question of "how did we get here"? Did it start with A- women becoming narcissistic, delusional pseudo-10's that aren't worth dealing with? ...or B- women were generally "great", guys really had it pretty good, and they decided to dip out of reality and go virtual, for some other reason? As a guy who has dated women, with friends who have been dating in these times, I lean toward A. Many women are very light on gratitude, appreciation, reciprocation, humility.... and heavy on entitlement, delusion and narcissism. Definitely not all. But quite a bit. And I think all this has a lot to do with the rise of social media and the superficial, unearned, instant gratification that has messed up too many heads.... mainly of women.
I agree with you. I think he hears something across the table that sounds like it's against his "brand" so he begins an argument. The problem is that once he is has began arguing he will not alow himself to accept his "opponents" arguments. I believe he debated in school and as a career. Hes done it most of his life so he can't shut it off. When we focus only on winning a discussion or an argument nobody wins. I literally and I actually mean the word literally not how "whatever women " use it 😂 but literally I can't picture Andrew saying " actually your right I was wrong good arguement" he can not and will not allow himself to loose. All of that said, I do enjoy watching Andrew confuse and piss off these braindead women they get on here.
For the most part older men are an appreciating asset. A older woman is not. A younger woman therefore, has greater value to a man than an older woman.
My husband is 22 years older than me. It is love. True life changing love. We have been together for 14 years and we have two beautiful children. No man I've ever met before in my life compares to this man damn his age. ❤❤❤
The average 18 year old girl, has more sexual experience then the average 40 year old guy. And I'm not saying that is a good thing. At 56 years of age, as a man, I have a body count of 3. Can you say the same, ladies ?
The fact that you don’t know what they would have in common means absolutely nothing. It’s not a valid objection. You’re not the one dating either of them. Maybe they have nothing in common. Maybe they have a lot in common. Who cares? The point is they’re dating. What’s wrong with it? If your objection is “they shouldn’t be dating because I don’t know what they have in common and I don’t know what they connect about.” then get over yourself. Just assume that Whatever they connect about is whatever they would want to connect with someone about whether they were 20 or 40. Then answer the question again. Now what’s wrong with it?
I'm 43 and my wife is 25, we don't really have incommon. But the 1 think we both do have in come is the most important. We both want more kids and a big family. You don't have to have alot in common to have a good relationship, you just need a couple of important things in common
Good on you man. If it works, great. People don't realize how many younger women want older mature men with a good head on their shoulders. I'm experiencing this first hand as a 35 year old on marriage / dating sites.
when someone intentionally tries to avoid answering a simple question, it's because they are not operating in good faith. and they are afraid to answer a simple question without being able to play out the entire argument in their heads. that's why judge judy used to tell defendants to just answer the question and stop thinking.
I generally tend to agree with the guys on this podcast but a 40 year old dating an 18 year old is a bit creepy. I'm 36 and when I talk to 18 year olds I feel like I'm talking to a child.
I also agree with you. But I don't think Andrew is particularly advocating it either. He did allude that any good father would have a problem with it. I think he's pressing for a firmer reason, other than "it's just gross.".
I love Andrew and his ability to think so fast on his feet however a simple thought as to the 40 year old and the eighteen year old would be an attorney right out of law school vs a seasoned attorney both being attorneys. Who would you want representing you in a murder trial. Remember they are both the same according to Andrew’s logic.
Problem is that they front that an older man is bad, but given the fact they meet one that was "hott and rich" and all the things.. this argument is null and void.
So I'm 38 and my wife is 58 and we don't have too many things in common but that actually made it easier for us to introduce ourselves to each other's likes and form bond over stuff we like doing together that doesn't mean we don't love each other. We love each other very much and just celebrated 13 years together in February
He was exceptionally bad this time around. He seems to do fine when he can pigeonhole some of these dumber more narcissistic girls with basic arguments and hypotheticals, but it wasn't working for him this time. In fact, you could tell he was trying to weasel his way out of the hypothetical she presented to him about his own daughter dating a 40 year old. Lol, he knew his position was compromised by his emotions in the hypothetical, but instead of saying that he tried to say it was irrelevant when it wasn't, tried to argue specifics from general truths, ignored averages, created non-sequitors and redherrings; every trick under the sun. He's not wrong all the time and can make good points, but Jesus he really hates the finger being pointed back at him 😂
I wish I could have been at this table to describe how much my wife and I do not have in common. We both agree that we are perfect for each other and have been looking for the virtues. Each the other has. As far as commonality, it is virtually nonexistent.
I think it's about emotional experience versus physical experiences. I'm a male who married at 17 because my 24yr old GF got pregnant. When I became 27 I realized that I never had my teen years so we divorced. But we are friends and take care of our daughter equally.
I'm 37 and my husband is 26. We got married when I was 30 years old and he was 19. I'm from south America and I was raised to fear God and be submissive to my husband. Older than him but barely life experience since I came from another country. I asked him how a young handolsome man will want to date, married and make a life with me, he said because you aren't like Americans women, they aren't loyal, they don't want to be submissive, not value on them, he also said the body count mattered to him. I grew up in Peru, had one boyfriend all my highschool,.. came to America. It's incredible to see how these young women don't see the damage they are causing on their lives for ever. The damage is for ever. We currently have 2 babies and another one in the way. I like watching these podcasts. ❤
She said an 18 year old does not know what she wants therefore she shouldn't date an older man. So she shouldn't date at all in that argument because if the 18 year old woman dates an 18 year old man, shes still 18 so she still does not know what she wants cause she is 18 lol so she shouldn't date at all . If you then say that he has more life experience and will manipulate her, that's assuming that he is an evil person. That's like saying don't date someone because they can still your money from your wallet when you're asleep lol
This is stupid. What if the 40 year old man has no relationship skills like in the 40 year old virgin. Would it be OK for him to date a 18 year old since they're both equal in relationship experience?
How to be a Whatever Podcast Guest - Step by Step Guide Step 1: Make a claim based on feelings Step 2: When challenged, try to rationalize your feels, even if it doesn't make logical sense Step 3: When backed into a corner, get angry at the person, say you're bored and want to talk about something else, agree to disagree, or rage quit
This thought process is what you get when you give tons of people rights, freedoms, and entitlements without corresponding obligations, duties, and accountability.
I'm currently dating a Hispanic woman. don't speak much Spanish and she doesn't speak much English. We are from completely different countries completely different walks of life and have almost nothing in common. We are the same age so point being having nothing in common is not a roadblock to a relationship no matter the age
You can have things in common with any age. For example, 18-60 year olds go to the gym, go hiking, enjoy watching movies, enjoy concerts, work in the same field, like to travel, etc. Having nothing in common is an excuse to say that the laws should match their beliefs. Two 30-year olds can be opposites, which is mostly the case. The man can enjoy working in law enforcement, watch football, enjoy coaching kids, enjoy building things for the home, enjoy Spanish music, be ugly, while the woman can be beautiful, enjoy country music, dislike working out, coaching, like being lazy, etc. and be happy together.
Being against 18 year olds dating older men but completely fine with 18 year old sex workers and strippers is something that puzzles me till this day
They know the sex workers and strippers have less long time value, so they are fine with potential competition hurting their own chances, but they are pissed that the guys they want prefer to date women younger than them.
@@TheJoshman01Bingo!
It’s called lying, the real reason is because they are furious to the fact that they will no longer be desired past 30 or way less desirable
It's simple when you realize it's exclusively about what benefits them.. They want to strip but they don't want the guys their age to go for younger ones. That's it. Nothing deeper to it
@@AndreiGeorgescu-j9p 💯%. It’s just resentment. And they use that false moral argument because it’s the best way to discredit someone, to say they are bad people. And the men who endorse that, it’s the same, they envy the men that can actually accomplish dating very young women, because those younger women won’t date them.
she hates the age gap because she isn't 18 anymore.
Bingo
Exactly... and they dont want 18 year old guys... theey all want older men 😂😂😂
I generally agree with the guys on the podact but if you're 40 dating an 18 year old you're most likely kinda creepy. 18 is almost always still very child-like. I'm 36 and when I speak to 18 year olds I feel like I'm talking to a kid.
@@sHART1780 I have a daughter over and 2 more on the cusp... if they decide to date a guy that is 40, yeah I wouldnt like it, but I would allow them to make their own choices and learn the lesson.... I had to at 18... but no one talks about the inverse...
@robertshank3729 you wouldn't like it because you'd know that the 40 year old guys are most likely dating them out of horniness. I've hung out with college girls in my 30s and I couldn't do it often because they were completely different than me. They are nice to look at but they're like kids in adult bodies. Women in their 30s and 40s are overall way more pleasant to be around because they're mature and way easier to talk to. They also live adult lives.
She doesn't think it's right until she meets a 40-year-old billionaire herself, then all her pretend standards go right out the window lol
It got heated because she couldn't come up with an actual argument. Andrew pressed and pressed and she had nothing.
Maybe it’s just weird and how long is that relationship going to last when the guy is 70 and she is 30 ? Also if you want kids don’t you want a partner that is going to be fit and healthy to do activities with your kids and actually be alive when they grow up ?
@warreng8976 what are you talking? We're talking about attraction.
She already gave the answer. Andrew kept changing his questions. And Andrew himself could not come ip with any logical argument about why he would not advise his 18 year old to be with a 40 year old man .
@govegetarian100 and what was her answer? Please enlighten us.
@@anthonycampos8057 her answer was that book smart is different from
Street smart or emotional smartness. That’s why voting at 18 is not a big deal. But 18 year old marrying a 40 year old would definitely be a red flag
They never got their opinions and mindsets grilled before.
Exactly.
Because women only surround themselves with people who already agree with them (constant affirmation and validation). I look at my friends group, then their friends group and they are diverse as hell. Lot of respectful disagreements, guy who play sports having friends who are artists. Conservatives and Liberals being friends and having discussions and disagreements. Men who hunt friends with guys who have never touched a gun in thier life and so on. I look at my female friends and their entire friends groups are practically clones when it comes to likes and ideas. I see one say something blatantly stupid or false and without fail all of her friends just agree and tell her how right she is. Men will just tell other people it was a stupid idea regardless of who said it.
This is why women struggle articulating their stance or their ideas being challenged, it's literally new to many of them because they basically live in a bubble they curate for themselves to soak in validation. No one challenges them because they avoid anyone who does. --then it becomes mansplaining, or men controlling, or "yelling" at her.
they also never formed their own mindsets and opinions
I just love how they throw these women's illogical beliefs in their faces
She hate age gap because w can’t manipulate older men hahahaha
Bingo 👏🏽.
She hates age gaps because she isn't wanted anymore because she is old.
Yea younger woman have more leverage than older women.
Which narrows the power dynamic.
Cougar: "im leaving you "
Me "bye"
Beautiful young woman: "im leaving you"
Me: "lets take a vacation and works this out baby"
I think younger women can manipulate older men.
w can't manipulate older men?
What do you mean "w"?
It’s astonishing the lengths some women will go to avoid accountability.
Yea crazy, I hope they get how stupid they sound and develop some brain cells
At 18 I met my late husband who was 18 years older than me. Everyone in my life was not happy until they met him and saw our relationship. I think the age gap discussion really depends on both parties.
So sorry for your loss.
@@tallapoosawpcp2785gtfo. As you knew everything about her.
My husband was 19 yrs older - marriage was 32 yrs until he died.
Miss him everyday
@@melissah5391 i remarried at 25 to an amazing man that I love with all my heart but understands the love I will always have for my late husband. He helped me become who I am now. I doubt I would have been the woman my now husband wanted to date and marry without him. He will always have a place in my heart.
I married my 18 year old wife when I was almost 24 and 36 years late life is great. Some women today are little Dictators, they ruined their lives by being Taxis and now want ruin others lives.
@Whatever Clips. It's quite annoying that you don't number your videos. The videos with the same round of guests should have some indicator that they belong together.
To get clicks
You can just look at the guests and figure it out too. Thats how I do it.
Each clip has a link to the original broadcast.
Would it help if he came to your house and held your hand? Grow up and do the work yourself.
Or date
The problem is that they're not 18 anymore. Crabs in a bucket.
No one is in the same walk of life. Just because you’re the same age, doesn’t mean you’re in the same phase.
I married my husband when I was 22 - he was 41 - 19 yrs older. He had his doctorate and I was a college student.
We were married for 32 years until he passed away.
First marriage for both.
Great match! Miss him terribly
You are the example of the good foundation to a prosperous society. A loving man meets his angel. May he Rest In Peace😇
I'm sorry for your loss, I can only dream of having such a relationship... Not a lot of good women in this world anymore.
I agree that it’s difficult to find quality women - Feminism has been no friend to girls and women - they’ve been lied to and bought a horribly false narrative. Very sad
You should speak up more about your relationship. @melissah5391 so many people are scared to date younger or older because of the social stigma. And it would probably give people more insight into whether it's for them or not, especially women.
and you could look up to your older man, and you KNEW if he was responsible and a provider. You dont know that about other 22 year old boys just starting out.
Age gaps should be the norm
The age gap thing makes no sense. Each person has their own preferences each situation is different and age is only one factor about any individual.
I don't think there would be much of a power struggle between a 40 yo man and a 18 yo women. A 40 yo man wouldn't even bother with an 18 yo unless she was absolutely kind, agreeable, and submissive. At 40 we know EXACTLY what we want.
Woman* women is plural.
This is why no real man respects any laydees. They can't even make an argument.
Woman use emotion to win arguments not logic. Ask most husbands and they will admit to apologising for things they did not do just to end the grief...
Yeah but she said 'correlate'.
@@RobertMorgan LOL!
@@garrycoates2147men need to take charge
The lights are on but no ones home.
In other words that 18 year old baddie is a threat that they themselves know they could never compete with.
It's funny to see how opinions just fall apart after asking some reasonable questions.
18 year old girl shouldn't drink alcohol , drive, vote, fuck it she shouldn't be allowed to walk outside alone... make up your mind
They're so busy trying to win that they can not answer any of his questions
Deflect and avoid answering a direct question harder and longer. She would not answer one direct question at all.
You can have so much in common with folks in different ages. I get on with my older coworkers (30+ years older) more than my own age! Music, politics, love of animals, love of art, nature, we connect on all sorts of things. My boyfriend is 30 years older than me. We connect on basically everything. These girls are so brain dead.
That's great but did your boyfriend go trolling for younger women before he landed you. Or did your relationship just happen out of natural circumstances. This is the part that none of these people understand. Generally older men or older women don't go chasing after younger people for the purpose of a relationships. It's one thing when you have older people who through the course of hanging out and talking forum a friendship which then can develop in to more. It's a whole another story when older people specifically are targeting younger people. Generally when this is going on its because they believe they can find some one they can control and have power over.
@@sierravan Daddy issues, obviously.
@@deaddudegaming no he never went looking for younger women. He actually accepted the single life and was quite content. It naturally fell into place
@@sierravan That's the difference. There a difference between men who actively are seeking out younger women or men verse moving through life and meeting some one and a relationship developing out of that.
When older men or women seek out some one younger I have serious questions about their motivations. Verse some one who just happens to meet some one much younger then them a relationship forms.
Your husband wasn't looking for anything when he met you. Yet a relationship formed out of it. There was no motivation there.
Imagine birthing two identical brainless children
Instead of asking them if 18 yo women should vote, a better question would be if 18 yo women should be able to have OF.
Thought the same thing. It's immoral to put an 18 yo in a relationship where they may be at a cognitive disadvantage, but TOTALLY fine to sell their bodies to millions of strangers.
@@davidbrotherton789 And it's something they can relate with far more than voting..
@@davidbrotherton789 The issue is not so much the girl as it is with the guy. I'm 49 years old. I would question any man who wants to be with an 18 year old girl. I can't stop them from having a relationship but I would have serious questions about that man. Dude as 49 year old man the idea of being with an 18 year old girl is like Jail bate in my opinion. That's robbing the cradle. When I was 30 years old that girl wasn't even born. It doesn't matter to me how attritive she is.
Not to mention that I have nothing in common with an 18 year old girl.
@@davidbrotherton789cognitive disadvantage is funny AF too since that study they love so much didn't say anything they're claiming and the scientists who did it said publicly people need to stop quoting it
@@deaddudegamingthis is some nice cope to virtue signal. I would question a 49 year old that got with anybody over 35 as not being able to get anything except the clearance bin
Its amazes me that these ladies will downplay a 18 yos character by saying they have no knowledge in a real relationship but at the same time when they were 18 will tell anyone who willing to listen that they grown when they wanted to do something grown up
Yep. An 18 year old woman is smart and capable enough to vote, do OF, even gold dig older men... but the moment an older man gets somethign in return from that same 18 year old, she is now magically not smart enough to make decisions. --- it falls into a pattern women do now when it comes to men: the moment a man gets something from a woman he wanted, it's "controlling". Man has a wife that cooks; controlling. Man dates a girl who joins him at the events he chooses; controlling. Man wants to have kids; controlling. Man asks his girl to not dress like a 304 to not draw unwanted attention; controlling. Man asks for a sandwich; controlling (but it's perfectly fine to replace said sandwich with an orange as long as it's the woman asking because then if he doesn't do it he sucks)
They are just trying to argue their feelings as per usual it hurts the brain
He literally Destroyed every aspect of Their Argument, He left no stones unturned. Absolute annihilation
Relationships are almost never based on commonality. Basing it on that is why so many women are alone and why divorce rates are so high.
Andrew needs to quit and accept that the answer is just that, "it gives me the ick!" 😂
Because "it gives me the ick!" isn't a reason/legitimate argument. It's a completely made-up subjective "feeling" based on nothing concrete.
He needs to stop arguing with women 😅
@@davematt2002 He does it for the audience, to illustrate how women think and act. He obviously doesn't believe this will lead to any enlightenment or change of mind on their part.
@@supremelordoftheuniverse5449 i guess, he needs to be relevant and feed his family. I respect the hustle
Every single time it's always about an older man wanting to "manipulate" or the younger woman doesn't have enough "life" experience argument; these women don't like the fact that men prefer younger women to those that have a lot of baggage and drama plus kids.
Also at the same time. They’re acting like the women are braindead, the women know exactly what they’re doing when they’re with an older man. It’s like they think they can some how hypnotize them into being in a relationship or something
An 18 year old woman CAN'T GET a 40 year old man WITHOUT MANIPULAING HIM. I say this AS a 40 year old single man. The SOLE way she'd 'get' me is by exploiting me. By throwing it at me.
@@wh3elson To a degree yes they can hypnotize a girl just not in the way you think. A older man can find that right young girl who doesn't have the right level of confidence can step in say and do all the right things and gain a certain measure of control and power over her. Generally the men who do this are the ones out their trolling for young women. The vast majority of older men that end up with younger women wasn't because they were intentionally trolling for younger women. They just happen to be out their talking and meeting people and maybe they started talking to some one on like or met some one in person and they got along. This lead to a friendship which lead to a relationship. These relationships I don't question.
It's when older men purposely go out of their way to target 18 to 25 year old women. They looking for a specific type of women a women who doesn't have the experience and self confidence to know she being controlled or manipulated. He using her own emotions against her. Doesn't make those women stupid. I seen first hand how a really bright and intelligent girl can fall for a older guy and then watch that older man just completely use her emotions against her and gaslight her to such a degree that he controls her.
I'm 49 years old and could do it easily if I wanted to. I don't because I have nothing in common with most 18 year old girls. I don't have the energy to keep up with some one at that age. I have lot of energy for a 49 year old man. I don't always have to be doing something. I'm very much content with staying home and watching tv or playing video games. Also when I look at 18 year old girl any girl younger then say 30 I think jail bate. I think that when I was in my 30s that girl wasn't even born. I'm think that girl is young enough to be my daughter or even my granddaughter. I have no desire to go down that road. Just the idea of doing it creeps me the F out. It take unusual circumstance for me to be willing to date a much younger women.
Also you think older men don't have as much baggage as women do. Trust me if you have older single man more then likely that man has a lot of baggage. Most men who are my age 49 or around their who are single because they never found any one or because they been divorced have a lot more baggage then you care to recognize.
@@deaddudegaming lol
Why is it always framed as "this older man will manipulate this inexperienced and unconfident young woman for his own benefit"?
Why is it never framed as "this older man will use his experience to help this young woman build up her confidence and fulfil her potential as a human being".
I think it’s creepy when a younger woman predates on older men who have worked for years to develop wealth.
You don’t belong here. Your astute logic doesn’t belong in this wacky feminist country! 😆
I'm a 40 year old man, THE ONLY WAY an 18 year old woman could get me IS manipulating me with sex. I'd have no other reason to be with her. That's younger than my youngest sister by a decade lol. SHE would have to WORK to get me, like effort and way out of her way.
She's not just 18, she is 18 yrs old with 100 bodies... they keep forgetting to mention that part
As an American citizen we have the right to vote at the age of consent and adulthood. That would be the age of 18. Some 18 year olds are stupid when it comes to voting and some r stupid when it comes to relationships. But that is the age of legalized adulthood that had been given.
As a 40 year old man, NO WAY I'd want an 18 year old EXPLOITING me. Nope, find a 17 year old man. I'm TOO GOOD for you, and you can't afford me.
Did she say I am too stupid to talk politics?!
Man this is painful.
Andrew wouldn't let that happen, he wouldn't let a 40 year man date his daughter. He was dodging the hell out that question 🤷🏾♂️😂😂😂😂
All these chicks have dated a guy 10 plus years older.
These women dont even know what love is
Got with my lady in high school 1981 still together, not married. We grew together, not rich ,its been a long, great life. Ups and Downs are what it's all about. These kidds want all good, or they quit. 😂😢
andrew copped out with his answer he knows he would shit his pants if his 18 year old daughter was dating a 40 year old
Can be deceived by 40 year old, can't be deceived by 40 year old politicians
Generally women in their 30s and 40s are single for a reason. But yeah, girls mature faster than boys... physically. Emotionally and intellectually not so much
100%. Women have always been and still are coddled. This leads to not maturing emotionally.
Women mature faster, so OBVIOUSLY they AGE OUT faster lol.
CAN'T
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I guarantee she wouldn’t get angry at a 40 year old woman dating an 18 year old man
Even though a 40 year old woman can’t give you anything compared to an 18 year old woman (infertility vs fertility)
She’s just jealous
This is why my gf of 15 years now, is older then me by about the same. I got lucky and haven't had to deal with the crazy drama I see most videos and people in. Love my gf and my life is so easy because of her. I hope I make hers as easy and as good as possible.
REPEAL WOMENS VOTING RIGHTS.
I dated an 18 year old when I was 23 and I dated a 34 year old when I was 25. The 18 year old was liiiiightyears more intelligent, more grounded, more mentally and emotionally stable, and waaaaay less chaotic, because she had a very strong family. The 34 year old was an absolute disaster of a woman and I broke up with her because she was too immature and showed no signs of ever being willing to get her sh*t together.
Its literally how we're hard wired, men are meant to be secure, financially and physically, and to protect. That is literally why 18-24 should be seeking a 30-40 year old man. Also, unless it's your body and your choice, your opinion on it doesn't matter. And I'm a woman, now 43. These girls don't get that body count actually matters and so does the ability to pair bond. Also why the age gap is hard-wired.
I'm 27, never been in a relationship, never had sex. My mom keeps pressuring me to get with an older man.
The problem is that I genuinely feel no attraction for older men.
And I think that if I were to marry, I wouldn't get a model or movie star, but I'd still want someone I'd feel a minimum of attraction towards.
I bet you that none or at least most of these women would have a problem if it was a 40 year old woman and an 18 year old dude being with each other.
They'd celebrate it in fact. It's only creepy the other way around.
Uh yeah non most women i know would find it VERY weird and uncomfortable!
Stop the playing devils avocate purely cause women bring up the argument. Women are holding each other a lot more accountable on toxic behavior than men do towards other men. Seen it hundreds of time in my life. Men just shut up if they respect the guy even if theyre wrong or not or either shit their pants. Very rarely a brave man will stand up against his own friends or other men when they cross the line and is willing to deal with tbe consequences.
@@heidis6130 The point I was making was that a lot of women are hypocritical when it comes to the age gap argument. I personally think that as long as they're both consenting adults no one should give a flying f***. I also came to the conclusion that it's usually old bitter women that have an axe to grind that are against relationships of this type because they can't attract a man their own age because that man is sick of all the boss babe BS and/or keeps getting pumped and dumped by some young Chads i.e. A Self-fulfilling prophecy.
@@heidis6130
"Women are holding each other a lot more accountable on toxic behavior than men do towards other men"
Absolutely false.
@@juanme555 nope... ive been around a lottt of men cause i am quite strong for a girl and like heavy jobs and i can certainly say in all my years i exist here on earth men get away with a lot more vile shit than girls or women do in their own network. Guys say vile shit constantly oversexualizing most things being so inappropiate and guys just laugh it away.. even if they feel shame on behalf of the guy, most simply wont take them accountable. They just join them. Ive seen it soooooo often.
Girls on the other hand give you a sweet lie... like youre a ten or whatever but if they say fucked up shit their girlfriends will really tell them off.. or be shunned from their female circle. Women hold one another as an overall a lot more accountable on fucked up stuff. Jep you have some nasty women walking the planet.. but i csn garantuee women their moral is a lot higher than men. While a men physical strength is a lot higher then women. Most women have a LOT more empathy for all parties and all situations than men do... which automatically make them wiser beings in general.
Plus we also tend to be less overhyped sex freaks which poisons the soul on daily basis which is also huge problem in the male community
The woman with the blue hair is smarter than all the women on the channel combined
21 will still want to experience life. A 40 years old is done with life and wants to travel and stay home. Also, he'd get jealous of a 21year old if she wants to go party or hang out with her friends. Men, stop manipulating these young ladies.
I sure hope this is satire...
'Experience life'
Aka sleep around and rack up body counts and have many babies without the father around instead of staying with one man. Regardless of age.
Andrew is wayyyy too smart to argue with these girls
I’m not a dad, I’m just an oldest brother in a fatherless family, but, is getting your daughters/sisters to date the RIGHT men not the goal? Not not dating anyone?
The women in their 30s or 40s don't have what it takes to be young again and its over for them
I hate when men say I don't want my daughters dating anyone. They seem to forget that their wives or girlfriends are all daughters. If no daughters ever got married, the human race would have stopped with Adam and Eve.
No man says that
My wife is from a completely different continent and in her mid-20's. I'm in my mid-30's. I don't care that our taste in music/movies, our hobbies, etc. are very different. What matters is that we like being around each other, we can joke around, we care about each other, we're attracted to each other, and we're loyal people.
She also completely overlooks the fact that many men in their 40s are still inexperienced. Especially in this modern era where only the top 2% gets to have sex.
Hell, I'm 34, soon 35, and I've only been with 1 woman (my ex) and that was 7 years ago...
Same here, I'm 40, last chick I was with was 18, and I was 20 lol.
I'm too rich and hot now lol. Millionaire with a six pack, no one looks twice.
Damn brother you need up them numbers, at least 2, so that it's the love of your life you go out on. 😊
Lol who the hell goes to High School reunions anymore? I'm 42 and have never been to 1.
Andrew makes good points much of the time. This isn't one of them.
Avoiding admitting the fact that he would be happier with his 18 year old daughter dating a 20 year old guy, than a 40 year old guy.... by saying he'd advise his daughter to date no one (stupid & unrealistic) is an obvious weak cop-out.
And the smugness he displays while actually taking an "L", is cringeworthy.
He said he wouldn't like his daughter dating anyone. I'm a dad I know what he means. If when my daughter was 18 I would just want her to be happy. Age is irrelevant when it comes to falling for someone. Also he said he wouldn't mind the 40 year old in some circumstances
I was just about to point this out, it intellectually dishonest, he proposes hypotheticals all the time and suddenly can't engage in this one. He doesn't want to admit the girls have a point, they're just not verbally able to articulate it well, which is common.
There analogy, example, DOESN'T defeat his point.
@@alfredaguite7781 That's true. One other issue I have with their conversations is this. They pretty solidly criticize OF girls with legit negative points. The problem is that they don't typically acknowledge the fact that there wouldn't even be an OF if it wasn't for the fact that quite a few guys are willing to part with their hard-earned money, just to get some pathetic, BS, virtual satisfaction from following OF girls. So I do believe that guys share some blame.
But digging deeper into that raises the question of "how did we get here"?
Did it start with A- women becoming narcissistic, delusional pseudo-10's that aren't worth dealing with? ...or B- women were generally "great", guys really had it pretty good, and they decided to dip out of reality and go virtual, for some other reason?
As a guy who has dated women, with friends who have been dating in these times, I lean toward A. Many women are very light on gratitude, appreciation, reciprocation, humility.... and heavy on entitlement, delusion and narcissism. Definitely not all. But quite a bit. And I think all this has a lot to do with the rise of social media and the superficial, unearned, instant gratification that has messed up too many heads.... mainly of women.
I agree with you. I think he hears something across the table that sounds like it's against his "brand" so he begins an argument. The problem is that once he is has began arguing he will not alow himself to accept his "opponents" arguments.
I believe he debated in school and as a career. Hes done it most of his life so he can't shut it off.
When we focus only on winning a discussion or an argument nobody wins. I literally and I actually mean the word literally not how "whatever women " use it 😂 but literally I can't picture Andrew saying " actually your right I was wrong good arguement" he can not and will not allow himself to loose. All of that said, I do enjoy watching Andrew confuse and piss off these braindead women they get on here.
For the most part older men are an appreciating asset. A older woman is not. A younger woman therefore, has greater value to a man than an older woman.
Arguments will always break apart when your arguments are based on “feelings” vs logic.
My husband is 22 years older than me. It is love. True life changing love. We have been together for 14 years and we have two beautiful children. No man I've ever met before in my life compares to this man damn his age. ❤❤❤
Post wall woman is just mad cause men dont want her.
The average 18 year old girl, has more sexual experience then the average 40 year old guy.
And I'm not saying that is a good thing.
At 56 years of age, as a man, I have a body count of 3.
Can you say the same, ladies ?
Those earrings are a huge red flag.
The bigger the hoops the bigger the crazy...
The fact that you don’t know what they would have in common means absolutely nothing. It’s not a valid objection. You’re not the one dating either of them. Maybe they have nothing in common. Maybe they have a lot in common. Who cares? The point is they’re dating. What’s wrong with it?
If your objection is “they shouldn’t be dating because I don’t know what they have in common and I don’t know what they connect about.” then get over yourself.
Just assume that Whatever they connect about is whatever they would want to connect with someone about whether they were 20 or 40. Then answer the question again. Now what’s wrong with it?
Yep same here women in their 30s and 40s brings lots of drama
The "because I'm a good dad" comment from Andrew @ 1:55 - 2:05, reallllly triggered her.
I just held my breath for 22 minutes and 57 seconds
I'm 43 and my wife is 25, we don't really have incommon. But the 1 think we both do have in come is the most important. We both want more kids and a big family. You don't have to have alot in common to have a good relationship, you just need a couple of important things in common
Good on you man. If it works, great. People don't realize how many younger women want older mature men with a good head on their shoulders. I'm experiencing this first hand as a 35 year old on marriage / dating sites.
Also excellent point about having the biggest things in common. Religion, children, key family goals for me
when someone intentionally tries to avoid answering a simple question, it's because they are not operating in good faith. and they are afraid to answer a simple question without being able to play out the entire argument in their heads. that's why judge judy used to tell defendants to just answer the question and stop thinking.
Dave Chappelle “HUH” gets me every time
I generally tend to agree with the guys on this podcast but a 40 year old dating an 18 year old is a bit creepy. I'm 36 and when I talk to 18 year olds I feel like I'm talking to a child.
TBF when I talk to a 40 yo woman I feel like Im talking to a child so....
@@johnsavage7507exactly
@@johnsavage7507 who are you talking to? I know plenty of try mature women.
I also agree with you. But I don't think Andrew is particularly advocating it either. He did allude that any good father would have a problem with it. I think he's pressing for a firmer reason, other than "it's just gross.".
12:17 their problem is that if men keep dating younger while they get older, men won’t date them after a certain age and that’s scary for women
On point
"I Think"... thats the issue
I love Andrew and his ability to think so fast on his feet however a simple thought as to the 40 year old and the eighteen year old would be an attorney right out of law school vs a seasoned attorney both being attorneys. Who would you want representing you in a murder trial. Remember they are both the same according to Andrew’s logic.
Problem is that they front that an older man is bad, but given the fact they meet one that was "hott and rich" and all the things.. this argument is null and void.
Andrew is really dodging the question about his daughter.
You cant argue stupid out of some people 😂
So I'm 38 and my wife is 58 and we don't have too many things in common but that actually made it easier for us to introduce ourselves to each other's likes and form bond over stuff we like doing together that doesn't mean we don't love each other. We love each other very much and just celebrated 13 years together in February
Andrew: "please dont interrupt me"
Then proceeds to imterrupt every person
He was exceptionally bad this time around. He seems to do fine when he can pigeonhole some of these dumber more narcissistic girls with basic arguments and hypotheticals, but it wasn't working for him this time. In fact, you could tell he was trying to weasel his way out of the hypothetical she presented to him about his own daughter dating a 40 year old. Lol, he knew his position was compromised by his emotions in the hypothetical, but instead of saying that he tried to say it was irrelevant when it wasn't, tried to argue specifics from general truths, ignored averages, created non-sequitors and redherrings; every trick under the sun. He's not wrong all the time and can make good points, but Jesus he really hates the finger being pointed back at him 😂
I wish I could have been at this table to describe how much my wife and I do not have in common. We both agree that we are perfect for each other and have been looking for the virtues. Each the other has. As far as commonality, it is virtually nonexistent.
She is using 110 percent of her 1 brain cell.
I'm 39. My wife's 23. Life's great 👍
I think it's about emotional experience versus physical experiences. I'm a male who married at 17 because my 24yr old GF got pregnant. When I became 27 I realized that I never had my teen years so we divorced. But we are friends and take care of our daughter equally.
This is she knows the answers but clumsily dances around them
1:33 is as far as i could make it. Just plain tired of these women.
I'm 37 and my husband is 26. We got married when I was 30 years old and he was 19. I'm from south America and I was raised to fear God and be submissive to my husband.
Older than him but barely life experience since I came from another country. I asked him how a young handolsome man will want to date, married and make a life with me, he said because you aren't like Americans women, they aren't loyal, they don't want to be submissive, not value on them, he also said the body count mattered to him.
I grew up in Peru, had one boyfriend all my highschool,.. came to America.
It's incredible to see how these young women don't see the damage they are causing on their lives for ever. The damage is for ever.
We currently have 2 babies and another one in the way.
I like watching these podcasts. ❤
She said an 18 year old does not know what she wants therefore she shouldn't date an older man. So she shouldn't date at all in that argument because if the 18 year old woman dates an 18 year old man, shes still 18 so she still does not know what she wants cause she is 18 lol so she shouldn't date at all .
If you then say that he has more life experience and will manipulate her, that's assuming that he is an evil person. That's like saying don't date someone because they can still your money from your wallet when you're asleep lol
They basically base their ways off How much money you have and how big your STUFF is
lack of experience = ignorance not being dumb, being dumb means your brain lacks computational capacity
This is stupid. What if the 40 year old man has no relationship skills like in the 40 year old virgin. Would it be OK for him to date a 18 year old since they're both equal in relationship experience?
How to be a Whatever Podcast Guest - Step by Step Guide
Step 1: Make a claim based on feelings
Step 2: When challenged, try to rationalize your feels, even if it doesn't make logical sense
Step 3: When backed into a corner, get angry at the person, say you're bored and want to talk about something else, agree to disagree, or rage quit
This thought process is what you get when you give tons of people rights, freedoms, and entitlements without corresponding obligations, duties, and accountability.
Attraction isn't symmetrical... it's asymmetrical. Conversation over.
Older guys may not be alive to raise their children.
Can’t believe I haven’t heard this comment
I'm currently dating a Hispanic woman. don't speak much Spanish and she doesn't speak much English. We are from completely different countries completely different walks of life and have almost nothing in common. We are the same age so point being having nothing in common is not a roadblock to a relationship no matter the age
You can have things in common with any age. For example, 18-60 year olds go to the gym, go hiking, enjoy watching movies, enjoy concerts, work in the same field, like to travel, etc. Having nothing in common is an excuse to say that the laws should match their beliefs. Two 30-year olds can be opposites, which is mostly the case. The man can enjoy working in law enforcement, watch football, enjoy coaching kids, enjoy building things for the home, enjoy Spanish music, be ugly, while the woman can be beautiful, enjoy country music, dislike working out, coaching, like being lazy, etc. and be happy together.
Andrew is absolutely amazing to listen too! I wouldn't even try to argue, I would just shut up and listen to him rant for days!