My Dying Ex Is Trying To Blackmail Me!
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That isn’t a man. Real men don’t sabotage their children to spite an enemy
J. A. E. You’ed be surprise how often people do this to their ex partners
Real men don't risk damaging their children psychologically. It must be terrible for any child to have a father who would be willing to cause them loss, just out of spite, but even worse for a child's father to do that to spite the mother.
She’s not even an enemy. She’s the mother of his children.
This man hasnt met Stannis Baratheon.
Every woman in a divorce though.
Making $275k a year should make you immune to anyone threatening you financially.
cadavison , she said it was together they earn $275k.
@@samanthapeters2972 That's still enough to make you immune to threats.
@@cadavison Truth! I wouldn't even have a conversation with that idiot. They can more than live comfortably and responsibly IF they are not currently living over their means.
@@cadavison Making more money does not make you *immune* to threats, it actually does the opposite. It makes you a larger target for predators.
@@bitronicc1887 You are immune because you can tell anyone who targets you (and threatens you) to f-off. As I said, you are immune to threats. I didn't say you wouldn't be threatened.
My father is exactly like this. Mom didn’t do anything wrong and he was the one who cheated, yet due to resentment towards her, he took it out on his five children. He has never paid child support and took all of our savings. Been broke my whole life and my siblings and I are changing our family tree. I’m going to college next fall with a full ride! Thanks Dave! I found you just a week before college applications were due.
Don't get into too much student loan debt that's a killer.
I got a full ride to college and it includes tuition, room, and board! I'm extremely excited and thankful. Hope your debt snowball is going good or even better if you don't have any debt. ✌️
Yep, plenty of commentators don't realize that the only thing she probably did "wrong" was leave his abuse. Congrats on your full scholarship!!! Thank you for changing your family tree.
@@merrymerrymar Thanks and that's great you don't have to take out any loans. Remember to study hard and don't party too much lol.
Congrats Marisol! Change your family tree and your in control of your life. Godspeed
"I don't do Extortion"
This is America and we dont negotiate with terrorists.
@pissedpookie
there is already a policy in place it's already set and signed. it's in the divorce decree that they both agreed to that they would hold life insurance policies on each other he agreed to it. now this guy wants her to revoke it and hold his kids hostage to do it
the children do not get this money.
she just gives it away
not right by this guy.
@pissedpookie The ex-husband could be lying. He might have already cut his children out of his will, just to spite her. And now he wants to break his agreement regarding the life insurance. It's not worth going back and forth with someone like that. Just have your lawyer deal with it, and move on with your life.
Yeah!!! With $275K family income - she has the FU money to do this.
Love it!
His ex-wife sure is taking up a ton of real estate in his head.
Some folks never learn how to move on.
Even according to her it sounds like she dragged him to court quite often after they got divorced a buddy of mine was dragged through Court for over 2 years for a divorce that could have been very simple and then she is continuing to threaten taking him back to court just because she can.
Okay, you’re handsome...
That dude needs a hunting accident to fix his ex wife.
Soooo trye
Grant Armbruster did you hear what a narcissist her ex is? It probably went both ways. He took her to court for custody. She was granted full custody so he made allegations and threats then she took him to court to abide by court orders then he took her to court for health insurance monies and she took him for violations of not upholding visitation etc... this is life with a narcissist. Until you’ve actually lived it, you can’t assume you know she was just running to court to bleed him.
I’ve lived this. In the end, he chose to continue paying his “chump change” (his words) child support and relinquish all visitation visits. He did it to hurt our son because I wouldn’t give in to his tactics. It’s sad and real.
Not all men are victims of a gold digger. Most men put themselves in that situation. They lie and cheat and abuse and expect the woman to conform to their evil ways. 💔
I can see why he's an EX!
SingingBeeize well.. we don’t know what this lady did though. For all we know she did something really terrible
@@MJVelascoSalvador there is NOTHING one can do that is bad enough to justify using your own CHILDREN as weapons!!!!!
Cathy Rowe he’s giving them money just not the wife, right?
@@IWantToMature85 No. He's threatening to totally disinherit his kids from his multi-million $ estate if she doesn't agree to drop the life insurance policy on his life with her as beneficiary. They each agreed to carry 250k policies on their lives w/ the other as beneficiary in the divorce 10 years ago. (BTW notice no mention was made about dropping the policy on her life w/ the ex as beneficiary. Guess he thinks it's ok if he profits from her death but not other way around!)
Really, the $ isn't the issue here, it's the fact that dad is willing to deprive his kids & use them as weapons just to get back at the ex-wife!
@@IWantToMature85 He told her he established a trust (not sure when this was done, or was it actually done or just his bluff) that would pay out $1m to each of his children when they reached 30. However, 10 years ago when they got divorced, as part of the settlement, they both take a life insurance policy on each other's lives, with the children as beneficiary. They did that just in case something happen to one of them. However, as the children are minor, they would need a trustee. So they named each other as trustee. If this was reverse, and this caller was dying instead, the ex-husband would become the trustee to her life insurance. As trustee, they oversee the fund and to make sure it is appropriately managed. So technically, she not benefiting anything as trustee. But in his hateful and vindictive mind, he think that it's a windfall for her.
There's a saying "if you really want to hurt a mother, you hurt her children."
Thelondonbadger you sound sad
But they're also his children!
@Thelondonbadger That's not good logic. We don't even know if he has what he says he does set up for the kids... $250,000 assured that she can share with the kids is better than millions he may or may not actually have.
But the other thing: consider this man's behavior. He didn't just start this kind of extorting behavior this year, and he would have raised his children the same way if she hadn't gotten herself and them away from him.
Evil- those are his kids as well. SMH
This is a classic case of a Narcissist who marries a doormat intentionally to always be in control. The doormat finally decides to leave and marries someone better and the narcissist loses his control and is bitter and spends his lifetime trying to gain back control.
Well said Neema.
Narcs are so evil.
Nailed it.
She (Lauren) sound like the type of person who needs to hear advice like this from a stranger and NOT from immediately family like her current spouse. It's been 10 years and she still has not grown a backbone - the ex-husband is trying to control and manipulate her from the grave. I am glad Dave recognised this immediately.
As Judge Judy always says, you're supposed to love your children more than you hate your ex-partner. I think the ex is angry that he's dying and she isn't, maybe he thinks he is superior to her and she should be the one dying instead. It must be incredibly irritating to see your ex, move on, be happily married, making good money and have the ability to watch your children grow-up.
im not completely sure that judge judy is a great source of advice.
Judge judy is awesome. Im about to watch right now. She has good morals and can usually tell who's lying. Once a guy said he was getting worker's comp and she got him to admit he was hurt at the bus stop. On tv
My thoughts exactly. It sounds like he's incredibly bitter that his exwife has moved on and is living an amazing life and he probably never moved on. The wife may not even care but the man sees that his woman isn't in the gutter and in need like he hoped but instead is with another man who's better looking and can provide far more than he ever could. Not only that, but your death will further benefit her and her new husband. That's got to sting. This life insurance thing is the only control and thing he has over the situation and it's his end game and everything but it's really nothing to the exwife. $250k life insurance policy when you're making almost that a year is nice but not life changing.
I agree with Dave. The fact that she and her husband bring in $270,000.00 a year, they will be okay! Their kids will be fine too. What's baffling to me is that the ex-husband is so vitriolic. You're dying and you still hate someone...whew.
Rachel Celia yea lol
Cluster B people hold grudges for the rest of their lives. It sounds like she was being financially abused before divorcing that guy
@@anthonywaldrep5982You are absolutely correct. A personality disorder is highly likely in this situation.
@@Evelyn-pl3we Once you've nearly been destroyed by them, you can spot them a mile away. Knowledge and internal peace from my core problems were my rewards for finally being able to break free from it. Ross Rosenberg says it's a result of Self Love Deficit Disorder and he is quite right.
Rachel Celia you have know idea how much she may have dragged him through the courts etc. there are 2 sides to every story.
Wow, this man is dying and he's worried what his wife is doing instead of trying to get ready to meet his father.
I believe the ex-husband has control issues, he wants to have control even beyond the grave. my mother is sadly doing the same thing.
@@DanDeGaston Unfortunately he won't have control because of the court order in place. What a miserable way to end your life, hating your ex so much that you punish your own children.
Record everything and get a lawyer
How does that help recover money thats buried in the ground at the hands of a man who swallowed a poison pill?
Nah that does not help lol, it's his money he earned it. He decides what happens with it. If you don't like your kids and want to give the money to the state then you can do that.
cooper1056 he signed a agreement tho
Also recording everything doesnt work per wiretap laws unless you let the person know and understand you're recording them.
Apophis PNW Maybe in a criminal case but in divorce court, it might be useful. They do have a signed agreement so she has recourse if he doesn’t.
Honestly, that's why he's so sick...because of his attitude.
Yup. He has a terminal illness and dying because of the massive karma he's reaping
But what if she cheated on him?
@@mopar21 even if she did cheat on him, this is no way for him to behave and treat her nor the children.
Shes afraid of her children blaming her and it damaging their relationship. And THAT is probably what he really wants. This is a vindictive move.
You know I can understand his request to not leave her money, but to sabotage your OWN kids to one up your ex?? He’s messed up..
Maybe she took his kids away??
I kind of get it but at the same time the guy is dying. You cant take money with you when you die. You mine as well give it away. Yeah maybe it sucks that its going to his ex wife. But he agreed to it when they divorced.
The divorce decree states (and they BOTH agreed to it) that each other will have a life insurance policy for the other. Period
Right. He hates her more than he loves his own children. Sad.
Narcissist, hire an attorney, have no contact.
@Anton Zuykov either way, no contact is a great idea
She needs to get a lawyer ASAP to enforce the divorce decree & sue him for damages & abuse!!
Hes bluffing 100%. Dont fall for it. Ex husband sounds nuts.
Is he even dying is my question
Well we all are.
@@grizzlybear2702 . Bitter for some reason
I thought the same thing. Assuming that what she's saying is true, how angry does a person have to be to do that to their children?
@Igor Kurdin As a woman, I'm well aware of the dirt that some of us do as I'm sure that you may realize that some guys can be just as dirty. That's why I started my statement by saying assuming that it's true. There's her side and his side; the truth usually lies somewhere in between.
was literally first thing I wandered
Don’t sign anything! Period! Just let him pass on! He will be alright.
lol
😉
Yep... if all I had to do was sit still and let this play out, I would. 17-19 YEARS until those kids hit THIRTY and get a DIME, but I'm supposed to give up sure money that I can use for their education and entry to adulthood now for a trust that may or may not exist with money he MAY or MAY NOT have?
I'd love to know what happened after this call👂👀👂
That is biblical levels of petty and extortion is illegal.
So is looming at one side, words dont mean much, ive heard people say many horrid things but never fell through to any of it, including myself.
Dave; spot on response to her situation!
Granted, I would want to hear his side, however he crossed the line when he said the kids won't see a penny - that is petty and low.
his side doesnt matter because they have a divorce decree which is what they both agreed to in court. he has to follow that and if he wants to change it they can go back to court.
exactly. how can you take it out on the kids. If i was her, i would be absolutely 100% transparent with the kids and explain to them that because their father is blackmailing her, they might not inherit money, but at least she wont allow such behavior.
When a couple have children, their best interests should be the only concern.
You don’t really need to hear his side. He’s using his kids as a pawn and it’s not ok.
Next time she meets with the ex to discuss this, she needs to take the kids along. Let daddy explain exactly why he is threatening to disinherit them because he hates their mom!
Yes, thats harsh but remember, none of the ex's family can later claim mom did something to cause this.
Oh dear, sounds exactly like my father. If my mom didn't go along with him, he took it out on us. We were means to end for him and nothing else. Growing up with a narcissist is horrific. Those kids will do better seeing their mom stand up for herself and show appropriate boundaries then they ever would with $2000000
@@lylaaxiom8750 , The children belongs to him and being still stupid and vindictive, when you are dying, come on !!!
@@lylaaxiom8750 Sounds like it was part of their divorce agreement to benefit their children.
Stand your ground and stick to the divorce decree. What a horrible man.
They are divorced. she should focus on her husband instead of trying to collect from a dying ex-husband.
If she were the one dying the ex husband would be in the exact same situation. It was agreed upon by both partners at the time of the divorce and it stated in the divorce decree. It must be upheld in court.@@PORTDEPAIX
VanéRivas she’s wrong to care about money. I’m assuming that she divorced him, because women do the divorcing most of the time. This could have hurt him.
VanéRivas would like to know both sides of this one. This lady is playing the role of the angel who endured this but I'm sure there is more to it.
She should say sorry and not care about the money. He needs to go to heaven. Does she hate him that much?
Call the lawyers. He isn't thinking about his kids.
@Thelondonbadger yeah and she has a new rich hubby but is still trying to make sure she gets her ex's life insurance. lol she probably only contributes 10K to their household.
@@GUURL101 it’s their biological father’s money. The agreement was legally made during the divorce before this relationship we are led to understand.
She doesn’t want it, she wants he kids’ education paid for and the have something left for her kids….
She said she doesn’t care but she wanted to know if she should sacrifice the insurance policy trust fund and being it’s trustee for her kids (which has rules and guidelines as to what constitutes benefitting the kids) in order for them to get the inheritance when they are 30 yrs old…. How is that not sacrificial?
Ramsey said to not play ball and tell this buttwipe ex no about his dying demands.
Who hates someone so much they want to take from their own flesh and blood?!
I pray the ex husband find peace and heal his soul before he passes away.🙏
Yasss u right about that Miss. That's the most important part of it all. Hope his bitterness don't lead to his demise.
Before being dragged to hell
You know she hung up the phone and signed it 😐 The only reason this man is manipulating her, is because he knows he can 👎🏽
She might want to confirm the reality of this terminal illness. I've known super-manipulative people who lied about being ill - it's called "hoovering" as in a vacuum. They'll use any evil tactic to get their way.
Money is the number one cause of divorce. Get your finances in order before getting married and keep taking care of them during marriage 💰👰🤵
finances in order.. no way,, get a prenuptial agreement, ironclad one at that..
@@ronwhiteleo3352 prenups are toilet paper, it will most likely get thrown out.
Your comment is irrelevant to this call. Nothing about this call shined any light on the reason for their divorce.
Chris Invests - he did! - has 2 million to leave his kids. She did - household income of 275k. The question was about extortion - give in or not
Chris your response shows you don't really understand. I feel bad for your money. 😂
Right at 2:00 the description goes from "Ex-husband is dying"
To
"Ex-husband is dying; Being difficult to deal with" lol
Nothing to stop the husband from doing it anyway if she agrees
Paula F Agreed. People like this can’t be trusted. Tactically she should take the 275k because it’s a sure thing. And Dave is right on about him being evil.
True
Trancendental no I would tell him to shove it.
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Bitterness. For when you want to Poison urself, and others.
right!
Unfortunately this is exactly why he’s sick. When we can’t let go of anger, resentment, and hate it manifest as dis-ease in the body.
Dead now, most likely.
I got my post notification on. I saw the title and had to click fast 😂
Edit: after watching, Dave is always on point, she should probably take on counseling or therapy. This guy has gotten so far only bc she’s allowed it in the past. Either way she’s doing good with that type of income and her kids are good and there’s SS till the age of 18 for the kids. If he buries the money with him that only reflects on him not her.
Can we get an update on this one?!!! I would love an update on this one. I think about this from time to time. It’s very troubling.
My suspicion is he's already wiggled out of funding the trust and he wants her to sign away her right to litigate.
Enjoyed visiting the studio. Our family was so blessed by all staff. The young lady that works the bakery was such a blessing to our daughter. Thanks Dave!
Yeah, that's a rough situation. Sorry she's having to deal with that. As for our family, we don't do bribes and we certainly don't do extortion.
Great advice, as always.
I hope that he repents before he departs this earth.
There’s always two side to every story
@Abes 150 I'm concerned for this man's eternal destiny. His behavior indicates that he is unforgiving, and those who don't forgive others will not be forgiven by God and will spend eternity away from Him.
@@jojobean5382 You dont know other side of story. this woman might be bluffing .. so judgement before listening to other side isn't logical
JoJo Bean I’m chill with spending my eternity away from that psychopath
@@contactarshad I don't have a gavel and a robe. I'm not judging him. My hope for that man is the same hope that I have for others. That he would not take his anger with him when he dies because it will be all that he will have.
She's better than me because I wouldn't even allow him to waste my time listening to his mess. You just empowered him and he feels he still has some level of control over her even though their divorced. My ex husband is taking me back to court to try and get his back child support payments lowered. He told me I need to just close the case out because he's struggling. He owes me 40,000 dollars. I will not close out NOTHING!! I'm praying he gets blessed financially, so my children and I get blessed too. Lol!!
Some people got so nerves.
"I don't do extortion" Do not negotiate with terrorists! Love it Dave! Honestly this ex-husband reminds me of the deal Darth Vader makes with Lando Calrissian in Cloud City. "I am altering the deal, pray I don't alter it any further".
We hear only one side of the story, and we never hear questions about the wife attitude in the marriage. I think it is time men writes or speak up about this but we don’t do that.
Ex sounds like he is a manipulative psychopath. Whether he is even heading for the graveyard is another question. Does put it past him that he is saying that just to push you again. Get out of this man's way and get the kids away as well.
She needs a lawyer stat!!! And idc if she cheated as some ppl have stated, they've been divorced for 10 years! Heal and put the livelihood of your kids first. Dave is right this will be a lasting memory for them.
I loved how Dave handled this. I wish I had him in my family. I would bounce so many things off him. He’s so resolute and to the point!
God I feel for this woman and her kids. My ex is the same way. It sounds so obvious to those of us that aren’t in it what she should do, but people like that spend an insane amount of time and energy trying to scare the other person.
I wish there were follow-up calls. I'm guessing he's alive and well.
The moral of the story is dont have kids with someone you dont like, what that really means is dont get pregnant on accident with anyone you dont really know and you wont know anyone until you live with them for a few years...WAY to many people, take marriage lightly since they know they have the "get out of jail free card" called divorce, but even when divorced you truly never rid yourself of that ex or that old life...
Children! My parents divorced but us kids will tie them together for life. Be careful who’s children you carry
Very well said by Dave.
Good advice Dave. He's actually a great therapist
I think Dave is wrong here he is leaving in inheritance for children which he does not have to do and that he fears doing because she will get her hands on the money. All he is asking for is for her to sign away her rights over the money so that the many can be managed by someone else after he is dead. I hate it when Dave steps into these marriage issues and only gets one side of the story and completely maligns someone who cannot defend themselves
I love how people call Uncle Dave for life help
I wonder what she did to him people don’t get that way for no reason.
It’s funny how she’s married again and still is wanting the insurance money from her ex-husband it’s not for you it’s for the kids and you shouldn’t be able to touch it.
The guy is so bad yet you still want his money.
I would definitely want to hear his side of what happened.
100% correct
Great point. BTW her and her new husband make a combined 270k plus a year? Tells you right there how her first marriage ended and more importantly, who ended it.
All women are hypergamous. They are always looking to “trade up” to the bigger, better, and richer deal. Any woman in the modern-day western world who tells her husband she loves him is a bona-fide liar. I speak from experience on this and I was one of the lucky ones to get out with my life and future intact.
The husband sounds really bitter...
I suspect there might not be millions ... or even a terminal illness.
Jen Fee yea he’s just crazy and likes messing with her mind!
I'm pretty sure she knows his financial standings it would have been dealt with in the divorce.
He doesn't want the wife and her new husband to benefit from his demise. He's dying
It's supposed to go in a trust for the kids. Even if she's in charge of the trust that doesn't mean she can go buy herself a diamond bracelet. Trust still have rules about how the money can be used, if he feels like it's still open for abuse he should fix that loophole while he still alive. It likely stipulates a certain amount monthly for the kids expenses like clothes and food (child support) and it sounds like they can use portions of it for college and marriage before age 30 at which point they get the remainder. 😔
Such wise and excellent advice. This can be used in many situations.
Sounds like the typical divorce scenario where he needs to ask himself "Do I love my kids MORE than I hate my ex?" when people fail to ask themselves that, this nonsense tends to happen.
It is truly sad that his bitterness toward his ex-wife is more important to him than his love for his children.
Long Ranger His children would get all the money without the ex wife spending any of it, it seems like she doesn’t care about the children
That lady with the dying husband, she will give in and he will still leave them nothing. She only knows that he SAID he has everything in place, he didn't SHOW her anything.
*LOL I saw the title and was like.... WHEN CAN THAT HAPPEN TO ME... (well minus the blackmailing)*
The thing I love about this show is that it brings to light really tough financial situations and gets you thinking about them and you can learn from the mistakes of others!
Dave: I just cannot imagine punishing my children because I was mad at somebody. My dad: I will not give child support or even food or wood to heat the house because my ex wife will benefit as well as the kids. My mother paced the hall at night it was so cold she was sure one of us would die. We missed so many meals many ended up with food issues, me, a 25 year eating disorder that almost killed me. (To be fair it was also the abuse that set it off).
Wow its a messed up situation dying plus blackmail
INVESTING WITH M yeah man its tricky
People can get evil when comes to divorce they want to punish everybody because bitter and angry inside they want to punish everybody along with it.
@@daniellamoreno3616 true
ya. you would think he would want to go in peace knowing his kids are being taken care of
What a horrible way he is choosing to go out at the cost of his children. I hope she stands her ground and he changes his decision.
These "short" meetings, phone calls, etc. are his way of controlling your life.
Sad thing is that this happens a lot. My grand father is giving money to his biological kids now and placing a hold on the other 4 kids he raised on a 5 year hold that includes my father who possibly won't live that long. Before I came back the kids weren't on the will at all. Trying to make some progress here I hope as a granddaughter.
Is this really a problem? Jesus... that's wild.
Excellent advice 👍
2:05 caption pops up “being difficult to deal with” I laughed out loud
Wow. completely ripping someone from only hearing one side of the story.
Yes. I am shocked that he often engages in character assassination with only one side of the story. Usually the woman's. I am guessing that some woman in Dave's past---a sister, mother, friend--- got s very raw deal from someone, and it still rankles him.
Probate judges just love breaking vindictive wills. The money will end up being divided per stirpes, and not being left to some spite chosen organization.
Depends on the state. In Louisiana the parent is only required to leave the minor child 1/3 so the other 2/3 the person can so as wish. I have no idea what Ilinois says. Bad guy that he would do this to his kids. So may be the judge would only alot the 1/3 not the full thing.
As bad as this sounds we are only hearing one side of the story.
rockey rocket no side of any story justifies this. This pathetic excuse for a father clearly has determined his children are worthy of his inheritance but chooses to deprive them of that for some vindication he holds against his decade long ex-wife. She may have cheated on him and left him for her now husband (the only thing I can think of that would cause such vindictiveness) or what-not but their divorce had parameters that he knew about for many years and thus agreed to them; if my previous scenario were the case he would have had grounds for a settlement where this wouldn’t be happening. So now that he doesn’t like the terms at the end he wants to cut his nose off to spite his face. It’s childish, it’s pathetic, it’s extortion and it’s evil only pathetic people do pathetic acts.
Nice response Dave
There's more to this than she is letting on
Despite his threats, the children can still make a claim on inheritance after he's gone.
Tam712 Yeah, but he wants to hide the money so they can’t have it.
Is inheritance a right?
Was everyone watching a different video? He's going to bury the cash in the ground somewhere so that it's lost. Personally, I'd say why not burn it so theres no chance of it being recovered.
@Thelondonbadger He's terminally ill. I know I wouldn't care if I was on the way out
I have a friend whose ex is like this. She's moved on and happily remarried but he tries to torture her through their kids (who hate him).
Why does she need that life insurance money for herself??? Let it go! Let his money go!
To help raise the kids
Wow... Before reading the comments in Dave's videos, I never realized how many men absolutely despise women in general. There are so many nasty things that are being said about ALL women that I know without a shadow of a doubt don't apply to me.
I understand that many men have been hurt and feel bitterness because of their experiences. I'm so sorry that this happened. I'm also sorry if you were not treated fairly by the court system. However, why must all women pay for other people's actions?
By the way, I feel the same way about similar generalizations about men. Every person is an individual who deserves to be judged on his/her own character traits and actions.
slor This is what you get for turning to RUclips for validation. Don’t get hung up on what you see on the Internet...
We need a follow up lol
This is more common than you would think. My wife has a friend with an ex just like this. He quit a job paying over $300k (20 yrs ago) to keep her from getting child support. Tried working for someone under a fake identity. Got caught and went to jail. Blamed it all on her and spent years manipulating her and filing false charges against her to take her to court. Ended up sick, broke and penniless.
Dave gives good advice as usual.😇
LAWYER UP!!! NOW!! BURY HIM BY USING THE LAW.
Because she needs his life insurance $ that much? If she takes the advice, and her kids end up with nothing, they will figure it out and hate her for it. She didn't want him ten years ago. She will now risk her kids' future income just to be right. For $ she clearly doesn't need. Her kids will hate her later on if this goes south.
Why do I get this feeling that HE has another side to this story? Until you KNOW both sides you really cannot judge...
So true, exactly what I was thinking. For all we know she could have cheated on her ex with her current husband. Theres always two sides to a story.
Yes I can. He's using his kids to manipulate his ex wife. Even if she cheated on him, he's threatening to punish his own children for it! You sound ridiculous
@@heyitschinoable That would have been addressed in the divorce decree.
He's threatening his children. What else do you need to know?
There is no excuse, when the children are involved. Let him take the money with him. I will not even discuss it but all will be on record, in tap, for generations,after all we all have limited time.
Master manipulator OR dealt with her as a bitter ex taking him to court and not being able to see his kids.
Again only hearing the one side of things from her.
That's sick . If that's not just only her side of the story.
Him: "I won't leave the kids anything if you don't ag--"
Her: "I'm sorry dying man, do you think I need money to raise your kids without ever knowing you even existed?"
Him: "Wait I'll give them money though..."
Her: "You know what, get yourself a $2 million coffin or something. I'll come squat over it at some point."
Him: "Wait but my mone--"
Her: "Thanks for calling, have a nice death. I'll remain rich and alive without you. Byeeee."
I need snacks while I watch these shows.
the fact that she even called in about this when she makes so much money is so beyond strange
He could be lying. He might have already cut the children out of his will just to spite her.
No telling what this woman did to earn his hate, she doesn't sound believable with her, ' oh so perfect ' tales she's trying to tell.
I'd like to hear his side of this story to figure out what she really did to him.
Josh S Exactly! His side of the story is irrelevant. It takes a pretty awful person to use your own kids as pawns to get back at your ex.
@Josh S
Maybe he doesn't want her having any say in how that money is spent.
Odds are she's an average woman presenting a water color canvas to every male she meets.
Her so perfect lines on the show gave her cover, but GOD teaches us not to trust women - Dave should know better, but it's good stuff for a show.
@@TheDecoCottage
You're only hearing hers.....
There is more to it, because women are a water color canvas to all men they meet, Dave included.
Never believe anything a woman says when it comes to money, or truth.
I'd like to hear his side.
Yeah, for all we know she uses his child support on herself and he's worried she'll try to steal everything he's trying to leave his kids. It's not like that hasn't to others.
Hopefully a judge will.
Idontwanttogivethisbitchanything
The child probably isn’t his anyway
Was going to say this exact same thing.
So sad!😥
If I had to guess, she cheated on him with her current husband who makes a lot more money, she initiated the divorce, kept the house, took the kids, and otherwise cleaned his clock in court. He's bent on screwing her back until it kills him, and I'm not sure I'd blame him.
“My husband and I” make 270k a year. More like, her new husband makes 270k. The ex husband was probably cheated on, abandoned and still forced to pay her alimony.
How do you know all that?
@@landeeld9596 90 percent of all divorces are initiated by women who like this one, use their hypergamy as she found someone better and more financially sound but still wants her "poor" ex to fund her pleasures after she screws him over. Dave is a simp and always sides with these loser women.
Sounds like karma is working it’s magic
She should tell the blackmailer take his money along with him. Anyways she's going to get his insurance proceeds. Better for both.
That was great and wise advice