John Gray-Men, Women & Intimacy (What To Watch Out For Over 40!)

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  • Опубликовано: 4 ноя 2024
  • John Gray of MarsVenus fame Shares Secrets About Men Every Woman Needs To Know. John Gray shares how a woman can ask for what she wants and needs from a man and what works for men and women in relationships. John Gray of Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus fame helps single women understand men and have love, intimacy and passion with a man.
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Комментарии • 271

  • @MichelleMarchantJohnson
    @MichelleMarchantJohnson  Год назад +1

    Get John Gray's complimentary course: www.marsvenus.com/
    & *FREE 10 Secrets About Men HERE: whatrealmenwant.com/

  • @cathyl7944
    @cathyl7944 10 месяцев назад +37

    Just got married at 44 for the very first time! I had given up on finding a man that I truly connected with, but with my husband it was nearly instant. We’ve been married for six months and I’ve never been happier! I can already see the impact that a committed relationship with a man makes on my femininity. It’s a relief and a joy to let go of some of the masculine responsibilities I’ve carried over my years of single life and let my husband carry that burden. And he loves having me take care of him, cook his food, kiss him goodbye in the morning and make our home warm and welcoming. Traditional gender roles get a lot of flack, but boy do they create a foundation for a happy marriage!

  • @terrybear5398
    @terrybear5398 3 месяца назад +8

    Hey, John, I was a facilitator, of a Mars/Venus group, in Hawaii, with Mitsi Gold, years ago!!! I'm quite sure she'll remember me☺️
    I tell you, truthfully, after all these years, your books, teachings and messages about the male,/female relationship have stood the test of time. AND, after MANY years of not being in a sexual relationship, or thinking it has passed me by...BINGO, at 76, I met the love of my life, in the waiting room of an auto repair shop! I feel like a teenager...a CONSCIOUS teenager 😀❣️
    I have gone back and reread your Mars/Venus on a Date, like it was my first time!
    Just want to say Thank You so very much for helping the species to keep love alive❤

  • @laurafahey542
    @laurafahey542 2 года назад +85

    People never give up never surrender and always know there is someone out there for you

    • @ImranKhan-tj3dr
      @ImranKhan-tj3dr 2 года назад

      Hi 😍😍❤❤🌷🌷

    • @cathalinasamante4912
      @cathalinasamante4912 2 года назад +4

      Put God first in everything..God deserved the best!Thy crown of success will follow as long as we trust and believed in his power, strenght for he created everything!!

    • @yogo5140
      @yogo5140 Год назад

      ❤️❤️❤️

    • @dentistry42
      @dentistry42 11 месяцев назад +3

      Giving up but being happy and at peace is the best feeling

    • @mariadavis2472
      @mariadavis2472 8 месяцев назад +1

      It's hard my boyfriend pulling away I feel sad and miss him a lot, heartbreaking. Yes staying close to God really helps xx

  • @carlinebeck1618
    @carlinebeck1618 3 года назад +52

    I Love that John teaches men too. Women can't do All the work. Men need their work too. There's a real need for it.

    • @MichelleMarchantJohnson
      @MichelleMarchantJohnson  3 года назад +4

      Yes, men definitely need help too. Thanks for watching and for your comment too Carline!

  • @Zazahra8742
    @Zazahra8742 3 года назад +82

    I am young but many things worry me about long term intimacy. None tells you about these things . I am so glad you people exist . God bless you 😇

  • @ourworldtoday2024
    @ourworldtoday2024 11 месяцев назад +3

    John gray drops precious diamonds every time! I thoroughly enjoyed listening to this so much extremely vital information for married nen and women!❤

  • @lilianasaba9846
    @lilianasaba9846 3 года назад +87

    Been so worried. I have been a single mum for a really long time and was worried I don't have much time left to have sex strange but that's how I have been feeling. Finally I met a man & we are planning to get married next year. So I am encouraged.

    • @MichelleMarchantJohnson
      @MichelleMarchantJohnson  3 года назад +8

      We hope things work out well for you and your man. Thanks for watching!

    • @lilianasaba9846
      @lilianasaba9846 3 года назад +6

      @@MichelleMarchantJohnson thanks.

    • @wshelby83
      @wshelby83 2 года назад +5

      @@lilianasaba9846 hi Lilian, how have things been?

    • @lilianasaba9846
      @lilianasaba9846 2 года назад +5

      @@wshelby83 we went to splitsville. Never worked out. Never got married. But I have so much peace now. Thanks for asking

    • @wshelby83
      @wshelby83 2 года назад +3

      @@lilianasaba9846 oh man, sorry to hear! Hopefully you’ll get that man someday still

  • @BBGshop7
    @BBGshop7 3 года назад +38

    This explains so much why I feel so good after I get my hair done.

  • @jinna0512
    @jinna0512 3 года назад +13

    So many people out there try to teach this but lack the knowledge or true understanding of the facts. Dr. Gray, YOU are the teacher’s teacher, and have taught me so much. I trust you for truth. So many out there… I question! My law professor mentioned your MARS/VENUS book in class one day! LOL

    • @ImranKhan-tj3dr
      @ImranKhan-tj3dr 2 года назад

      Merry I m single 👧👧❤😍🌷🌷

  • @matilda4406
    @matilda4406 4 года назад +96

    that's really sad... the young generation being de-sensitized from watching porn, resulting in the inability to have real sex, very sad indeed

    • @MichelleMarchantJohnson
      @MichelleMarchantJohnson  4 года назад +10

      Thanks for watching Matilda! It is sad!

    • @stanspb763
      @stanspb763 2 года назад +1

      It is not by choice that young men are turning to porn. The bottom 70% of men in social status have no access to women since women are only available to the top 10% of men. In the US 35% of 30-year-old males are virgins. They have no access to females because of social media and the strong trend of increasing masculine women. Evidence is aplenty that this change in mate selection has been present prior to most collapsing societies i history. The birth rate in the US is now 0.8 births per woman. That is much lower than 30 years ago and a sign of a cultural end. First-generation immigrants from the 2nd or 3rd world have normal birth rates for the first generation and within another generation, the birth rate drops almost to the rates of the dominant population. At one time, couples formed from people they knew, from the neighborhood, or school or a small social circle. Norman average people selected average people as mates. With the advent of young people living life through social media instead of direct human interaction, both males and females believe the average or norm is the top 2% in attractiveness, people they have never seen examples of in real life because real life does not have Photoshop or Filters that create images that would not be recognized by their own parents. Females control access to sex but males control access to relationships. When half the males are never going to have a real relationship, that means a lot of women have no access to relationships because they only know images of the top few percent of males, they are not going to settle for less. And die alone.. That is how civilizations collapse, not wars. In the US and all the countries that are tied into its social media and social customs are going through the same decline in marriage and relationships.. I advise men to leave if they really want a serious relationship or marriage. Go to societies that are not collapsing this way, where people still interact with people like themselves.. I left the US 22 years ago and have had a completely different range of options but see even that is closing down couples forming families.
      Women should consider leaving also if they are not in the top 20% in social media ranking for attractiveness, go to a society where normal couples form families... In the 22 years, I have been the society I am, I have seen the marriage age go from 21 to 32 for females and the majority of people being single.. 50 years ago, a single adult was rare., now, married couples are a minority in their 20s. A female that has not bonded with a male by 22, is likely now to never have a committed relationship. When I was going to high school in the US I never saw a fat girl. Every girl was attractive and fit enough to attract a compatible male.. Now even in grade school, a great many girls are fat which limited their life choices throughout their lives. Only males with low self-esteem would accept a mate who was fat.. If is not uncommon for women to gain weight after child-raising age but if they have a partner the weight gain was gradual and accepted by the long-time partner. But not in family formation ages..Women must accept that their options in mate selection drop dramatically with excess weight.

    • @matilda4406
      @matilda4406 2 года назад

      @@stanspb763 Oh dear... go, while you can. Where did you go? It is collapsing because of one word.... greed.

    • @PinkCodeBook
      @PinkCodeBook 8 месяцев назад

      According to this, it builds testosterone because they’re detached.

    • @carolynmitchell7330
      @carolynmitchell7330 3 месяца назад

      It's not just the young. Even older men have pornography at their fingertips nowadays😢

  • @stephaniefortney22
    @stephaniefortney22 2 года назад +7

    Incredible Information 🔥🔥🔥So Helpful….appreciate Both of you very much…Thank you …certainly Grateful u

  • @newyorkdiva3
    @newyorkdiva3 4 года назад +51

    I love when John Gray is on always very informative!

  • @gratitude1181
    @gratitude1181 4 года назад +24

    Wow! This is really fulfilling and really life altering information Thanks so much Michelle and Gary 🤗

  • @Wildevis
    @Wildevis 2 года назад +8

    Thank you John, this is the video we should share with the man in our lives

  • @joannpotts1407
    @joannpotts1407 3 года назад +21

    Dr. Gray that was a powerful message on estrogen & testosterone thank you.

  • @queenofcups3753
    @queenofcups3753 3 года назад +18

    I love the science behind the information!

    • @MichelleMarchantJohnson
      @MichelleMarchantJohnson  3 года назад

      Glad to hear it! Thanks for watching!

    • @springfauna1465
      @springfauna1465 3 года назад

      Me too!! It's always fascinating what makes us tick from a scientific standpoint.

  • @vomitt1
    @vomitt1 2 года назад +21

    As I get older I've always wanted a partner to explore tantra with me but my fear us that I'll never meet a man who is spiritually open and Patient

  • @northstar4851
    @northstar4851 2 года назад +7

    Porn and vibrators--not a prim approach to them by Dr. Gray, so I really heard the logic of his reasoning.
    I was turned off by his message in the '90s, bc i thought he was demeaning to women. Wrong. As he explains it now, and I've lived more myself, I see it is not a matter of gender roles, but simply a biological difference in genders. I hope to find a love that recognizes and honors that. Thank you for the continuing education, Dr. Gray!

  • @Hebrewsista
    @Hebrewsista 3 года назад +9

    I am loving this!!! WOW!! I am learning so much!!

  • @Lilly_pad2020
    @Lilly_pad2020 3 года назад +46

    Thank you so much for this information. I'm on a journey to increase my estrogen levels. I love sex but I had no idea I needed to be vulnerable.

    • @MichelleMarchantJohnson
      @MichelleMarchantJohnson  3 года назад +1

      Thanks so much for watching and for your comment too!

    • @DT-abcd
      @DT-abcd 3 года назад

      You a man or woman?

    • @ImranKhan-tj3dr
      @ImranKhan-tj3dr 2 года назад

      Same me 😍😍❤❤💏💏💋💋👄👄😘😚

  • @yvonnetatalovich4485
    @yvonnetatalovich4485 4 года назад +86

    Thank you John....My husband and I are trying to learn how to have a sexual relationship after 60!

    • @MichelleMarchantJohnson
      @MichelleMarchantJohnson  4 года назад +7

      Thanks for watching Yvonne! I hope things go well for you and your husband!

    • @yvonnetatalovich4485
      @yvonnetatalovich4485 3 года назад +32

      Sex after 60 can be very sensual and hot! Just understand your partner’s ability’s and go with what is possible! We are so much in love and make it happen😍

    • @finna5970
      @finna5970 3 года назад +4

      Yvonne, good on you 🥰

    • @vickieporter822
      @vickieporter822 2 года назад +5

      Me too. It's so better

    • @GenRN
      @GenRN 8 месяцев назад

      How is it going?

  • @laurafahey542
    @laurafahey542 2 года назад +9

    yes I was single for like 11 or 12 years by choice after having a really bad heartbreak and I thought I wanted him back but I didn’t after I saw him I was like now I let go and I found or I should say I found I called in a beautiful soulmate 20 years younger than me but he doesn’t mind nor do I I’m 60 he’s 38 he has a son he doesn’t want any more kids and I don’t have kids so it’s a win-win we see him on the weekends and eventually we’re going to take custody of him but boy I’m so glad to learn from you you’re so right and I just love you thank you Mr. Edwards so I just call you John Edward sorry I meant John

    • @wideawakerealist2141
      @wideawakerealist2141 2 года назад +3

      I am genuinely delighted for you. I am in my sixties, been alone by choice for a very long time, given up on the whole idea…my life was okay, met a man 18 years younger online, ( not on a dating app, in a friends circle) who spun me a beautiful fantasy of a second spring, and age didn’t matter etc etc….but he turned out to be somewhere on the narcissistic spectrum, started devaluating me after the love bombing phase, and then a sudden brutal discard. Obviously, at my age you worry about the state of your body, and it hurts badly when you come to realise, men love your personality still, but apart from possibly some 80 year old with prostrate problems, who wants to replace his dead wife in the kitchen etc, you’re past your own sell by date. Usually men want a younger woman. Still, lesson learned and back to reality. I won’t ever bother again. Hope it all works out for you long term.

    • @ImranKhan-tj3dr
      @ImranKhan-tj3dr 2 года назад

      ❤❤👧👧😍😍🌷🌷

  • @victoriamonteiro1998
    @victoriamonteiro1998 3 года назад +4

    Entertaining my self reading the comments 😅🙈anyways thanks for Sharing this amazing comment Mr Gray and Michelle 😘🇨🇵

  • @patrickcampbell5009
    @patrickcampbell5009 3 года назад +11

    I watch these programs all the tine I find them very informative thank both of you

    • @MichelleMarchantJohnson
      @MichelleMarchantJohnson  3 года назад

      Thanks so much for watching and for your comments too Patrick! Much appreciated!

  • @terrybear5398
    @terrybear5398 3 месяца назад

    I learned do much from this video. THANKS ❤

  • @je7452
    @je7452 3 года назад +6

    Brilliant insight. Thank you so much ❤❤

  • @mindfulnessmovementmusic9661
    @mindfulnessmovementmusic9661 3 года назад +13

    SO much wisdom in this! Thank you!

  • @meditationsandy
    @meditationsandy 3 года назад +6

    That was SO interesting and informative! 👍

  • @maryjanewesterlund9958
    @maryjanewesterlund9958 2 года назад +1

    Wow! What great info. Thank you.

  • @janetbass5562
    @janetbass5562 3 года назад +5

    John Gray is the best!

  • @louiseraindrops8777
    @louiseraindrops8777 3 года назад +19

    Can we all have a John Gray in our lives please. Not having sex for some time now and I’ve been feeling sad and frustrated but thought it was other things but I’m restless at night so I now understand why. Unfortunately I only meet unavailable married men who throw themselves at me! Single guys nowhere to be seen

    • @MichelleMarchantJohnson
      @MichelleMarchantJohnson  3 года назад +7

      Yes Louise. It would be great to have someone like John Gray in the life of every woman. Hang in there and stay strong for the right man for you who is also available. Thanks for watching my channel too!

    • @louiseraindrops8777
      @louiseraindrops8777 3 года назад +3

      @@MichelleMarchantJohnson Thank you Michelle ❤️

    • @wshelby83
      @wshelby83 2 года назад

      @@MichelleMarchantJohnson I hope you found someone eventually!

    • @ImranKhan-tj3dr
      @ImranKhan-tj3dr 2 года назад +1

      I m here 🙋🙋🙋🙋🙋
      For u ❤❤😍😍👧👧🌷🌷
      I love u
      I like u
      Well u merry me I m single 💑💑💝💝🌹🌹

    • @stanspb763
      @stanspb763 2 года назад

      Single men have abandoned the relationship arena because they are not 10%ers, they are average which 50 years ago meant they were average, and average was married and had 2.8 kids and stayed married. You will not consider an average guy so you and millions of other single women who are focused on the same 10% guys, will remain without a partner. Polls of women show they view 80% of men are below average. There are a lot of women who will die alone, which never occurred in such percentages in the past. At the same time, self-ranking surveys show that single women are by very wide margins, ranking themselves in the top 20% of females and refuse to "settle"... If a female will not "settle" for a 50% guy while she is a 50% woman, she is going to be used as a sex toy by the single or married men who have the options of a 10%er but never have a relationship with her. Back when most people were average and accepted an average mate, almost everyone had a family. If you are not attracting single desirable men, you are not in the game, you have priced yourself far above your actual sexual marketplace value.
      Many females rank themselves higher because of their career or education but if anything that lowers their value.. Having a higher education has little to do with adult competency or knowledge. Men actually shy away from women who value themselves based on their income or job title. A man does not care about your money or earnings, because he knows you do not share it, he only loses time with his partner who has a career and any children will be raised by a babysitter. He would be better off marrying the babysitter.

  • @richricogranada9647
    @richricogranada9647 2 года назад +2

    I’m 60 and have been eating lots of estrogen foods, like soy products, etc

  • @alichajamison4157
    @alichajamison4157 3 года назад +14

    This totally makes sense to me!!!! I've personally never cared for vibrators and I know many women, including myself who have experienced a man with "dick don't work correctly " issues!!! And they're all enjoying the online porn that's so popular!!! Smh

  • @gloriahohman2790
    @gloriahohman2790 3 года назад +8

    How interesting and informative.

  • @devondp7086
    @devondp7086 3 года назад +5

    This was amazing

  • @lancemarchetti8673
    @lancemarchetti8673 Месяц назад

    Brilliant

  • @Countess777
    @Countess777 2 года назад +13

    *edit- This comment made before I realised I have largely only met narcissists* many men have absolutely no idea how to help a woman feel safe to express herself sexually with them.

    • @ImranKhan-tj3dr
      @ImranKhan-tj3dr 2 года назад +1

      Well u merry me
      I m single
      Am alone
      I like u really
      I m intrested eith u 💑💑💑❤❤❤😍😍😍🌷🌷🌷🌷

    • @stanspb763
      @stanspb763 2 года назад +1

      If you know how, teach them. It is not something men naturally know about. Women are a mystery for most men, they want women but have no idea of what the nature of a woman is. The increase in highly masculine competitive women means the only women young men come in contract with.. The way to teach them is to have them discover it themselves by being guided, not told.

    • @nicholasmonsarrat719
      @nicholasmonsarrat719 Год назад +1

      Suggest, do not command. Just use your words to convey your wants

  • @michaelvandenheuvel317
    @michaelvandenheuvel317 5 месяцев назад

    Campaign on my behalf. Facilitate is all I can say.

  • @susanhaines3153
    @susanhaines3153 3 года назад +12

    Where can we find in-depth teachings on this topic from Dr Gray?

    • @MichelleMarchantJohnson
      @MichelleMarchantJohnson  3 года назад +4

      This is pretty in depth. However, John Gray has his own RUclips channel with many hours of teaching. Thanks for watching!

  • @John83118
    @John83118 11 месяцев назад +1

    The narrative of this content is a transformative odyssey. Reading a book with related ideas had a profound influence on me. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint

  • @cynthiawoong
    @cynthiawoong 7 месяцев назад

    Dr Gray,
    Could you provide a talk addressing how to be communicate & be active with Herpes. Alternative methods & tecqniques to keep partner safe.
    I have found alot of fear and stigmatism with potential partners. My personal experience is that after thhe initial outbreak & awareness of contraction, I have not had any other outbreaks by using homeopathic remedies. I've also been told that aftwr initial outbreaks varying with each person, it often recedds.
    Please inform us!
    TY

  • @franci-uz
    @franci-uz 2 года назад +1

    WOW! PERFECT!!!!

  • @judys6458
    @judys6458 2 года назад +1

    😲 average 2-3 minutes! Never experienced that thank goodness.

  • @anudeshmukh2011
    @anudeshmukh2011 3 года назад +11

    I need to feel something towards a man else sex is useless n wrong for me as if i had for the need but always end up getting feel like I'm used by someone 😣

    • @michellemc5338
      @michellemc5338 3 года назад +3

      I feel that it empowers a woman when having an intimate connection with a man they like, helps that we choose & lead the man... I then don't feel guilt or regret, cos I have given myself permission & the power to lead, but not in an aggressive way. It's more about your own power as a woman.

    • @anudeshmukh2011
      @anudeshmukh2011 3 года назад +4

      @@michellemc5338 yes now I'm knowing myself n that's how i function
      I need that connection,attraction, feels towards the man else money doesn't attract me that much now coz i end up feeling lonely and empty 😣

    • @ImranKhan-tj3dr
      @ImranKhan-tj3dr 2 года назад

      Well u merry me I m alone
      Single
      I like u really meet me
      💑💑😍😍💝💝🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷

  • @suzanaandrade2125
    @suzanaandrade2125 2 года назад +4

    I'm curious if lack of sex in a man can lead him to loose sex drive over time by lowing testosterone. What happen to middle age men who still live with their mother? Will their testosterone be affected?

  • @jamishepard98
    @jamishepard98 3 года назад +9

    Very informative!! 🙏🏽

  • @gmcacadia9973
    @gmcacadia9973 Год назад +4

    You mentioned a woman having orgasm before penetration. Did that many times but never got her to the next level as she was too overly sensitive to continue. I'm now widowed and trying to get back in the game after 15 years of non-sex marriage.

  • @Eva-cj8pq
    @Eva-cj8pq Год назад +1

    I KNOW that’s right! it’s been 4 years for me ( with the pandemic) & I see 5 (yrs) coming around the corner, bc S you said married, unavailable guys are everywhere (🥲) and single men are not around (or too young) for me, I’m not taking care of these guys who really need their “mamas” !! I
    am looking for other ways to find my fulfillment 🙏

  • @delphinenyirahabimanam.d.8510
    @delphinenyirahabimanam.d.8510 3 года назад +5

    New subscriber! Good content

  • @queenkristine9590
    @queenkristine9590 3 года назад +2

    dr. gray says women need lots of sex, but also says to limit to once a week. 🤷🏻‍♀️ what frequency does he consider “lots of sex”?

  • @tylerridgeway8596
    @tylerridgeway8596 2 года назад +9

    As a man who grew up with porn most of his life, not being able to meaningfully connect with my wife during sex (because I have to play a fantasy in my mind to feel any pleasure) is devastating. Are there any tips or content that can provide men guidance who are caught in this situation?

    • @mariab.774
      @mariab.774 2 года назад +1

      Look for Matt Fradd videos on that

  • @a.b.2850
    @a.b.2850 3 года назад +13

    I’m not repressed.. I’m 40, I attract men a lot, very handsome ones, and I’m easily attracted to men, and I have a high sex drive, so I have sex, with whoever I want, whenever I want, wherever I want, I just don’t care anymore. It’s just important to keep that part of your life very private, never share this with men, because of all the societal judgements. Oh, and my oestrogen level is 👌🏼

    • @jfireball2461
      @jfireball2461 2 года назад +3

      I am the same way and I'm 41.

    • @lynette599
      @lynette599 2 года назад +6

      John Gray ALSO said sex without love is empty and boring and all the same - you are equating having multiple partners to having a good sex life...whereas it is actually the OPPOSITE that is true - ONE partner that you love brings another dimension to sex which can never be replaced by casual sex.

    • @ourworldtoday2024
      @ourworldtoday2024 11 месяцев назад

      Its basically same as self pleasing, vibrator, etc

    • @a.b.2850
      @a.b.2850 11 месяцев назад

      @@lynette599 no where I said that.
      That’s your judgment.

  • @ourworldtoday2024
    @ourworldtoday2024 11 месяцев назад +1

    New subscriber here too

  • @amandabarendse3398
    @amandabarendse3398 3 года назад +4

    Thank you!

  • @lifeslessons9889
    @lifeslessons9889 3 года назад +8

    Wow ! So, a women needs fulfilment BEFORE the man enters her . I’ve done that for years thinking it was wrong 😑

    • @MichelleMarchantJohnson
      @MichelleMarchantJohnson  3 года назад +2

      Yes. That is right. Thanks for watching and for your comment too!

    • @kellyanne4207
      @kellyanne4207 3 года назад +4

      I say this all the time- meb need sex to feel good, women generally need to be feeling good before they can have sex.

  • @sylviedenault1006
    @sylviedenault1006 2 года назад +1

    You get it !

  • @danaspoint
    @danaspoint 2 года назад +4

    Bio identical hormone replacement therapy changed my life after a devastating hysterectomy. I have amazing sexual drive at nearly 60 years old. Highly recommend…

  • @ghanaempressajourneyhome4266
    @ghanaempressajourneyhome4266 2 года назад +1

    100% correct

  • @BOOGBUSTER
    @BOOGBUSTER Год назад +2

    Ha ha aloe Vera really is a miracle plant

  • @ocallaghanrobert2491
    @ocallaghanrobert2491 2 года назад

    What people choose in their background while on line is very significant. Is that a statue of Venus or the Virgin Mary in the background

    • @trixiedoodles67
      @trixiedoodles67 2 года назад

      Definitely the Virgin Mary. And, I'm intrigued by that, as well. I've watched so many of his videos, and it's kind of weird for me to hear him speak about sex and such, with the Virgin Mary in the background, lol.

    • @tuathadesidhe1530
      @tuathadesidhe1530 Год назад

      The christians appropriated "Mary" anyway, so at its core the figure represents the feminine

  • @danielfronc4304
    @danielfronc4304 3 года назад +14

    Substituting soy based products for meat protein has been found to be bad, especially for those physically inactive or those age 40 and up. Why? Because soy has phytoestrogens in it, which mimics female hormones, laying down an abdomensl fat layer, making most who use it regularly pre-diabetic. Very high consumption of soy on a regular basis can make you diabetic.

    • @kealani6535
      @kealani6535 3 года назад +2

      Plastic also. Store food in stainless steel or ceramic containers. Avoid plastic tumblers and other drink containers.

    • @dlemmon1276
      @dlemmon1276 2 года назад

      Wow! Thank you. I never read that about soy. Husband is CKD and can only choose plant based protein and not much.

    • @drink-water.
      @drink-water. 2 года назад +2

      Organic soy is excellent for anyone.

    • @SKOLAH
      @SKOLAH 2 года назад

      I just read about this, literally 5 minutes ago.
      It isn't as clear cut as you make it sound. Yes, there are drawbacks for some, but there are also huge benefits.

  • @Katie-sp2lu
    @Katie-sp2lu 2 года назад +6

    I don't think this hormonal information is correct for everyone. I'm very happy being free and single and having a few men around that I can enjoy and share intamcy than actually being in one relationship. I tried to do the whole thing and I became deeply unhappy and my sex drive just disappeared. Being in a monogamous relationship makes me crazy and unbalanced because I'm submissive and most men are very very feminine these days, so much so it's like trying to teach a parrot how to knit. I'd rather pick a few masculine men that suit me than settle for one.

    • @rejectionisprotection4448
      @rejectionisprotection4448 10 месяцев назад +1

      Do they know about each other? Your experience about losing your sex drive in a monogamous relationship is very common. Domesticity seems to kill women's sex drive.

  • @sherylronquille9398
    @sherylronquille9398 3 года назад +4

    I need help, I’m 48 he’s 56 we both have very low sex drive. I had blood work done and have little to no estrogen, I’m going through menopause. I also have a extremely stressful job where I’m the boss, he is a massage therapist. He is definitely more feminine than I am. We love each other but sex is non existent, we both get very frustrated. He really wants me to initiate sex, I need romance which he does not give. I should also mention we have only been dating 6 months ☹️ is this a lost cause or what?

    • @katerinagiannioudi401
      @katerinagiannioudi401 2 года назад +4

      Had the same problem but the other way around. He wanted romance first and I wanted quick sex to get it over with. I was the manager for a 100+ employees and he was retired so this explains a lot... We both got frustrated at times but because we loved each other it kept us together. Sadly he passed away and I am now retired, distraught and alone.

    • @sherylronquille9398
      @sherylronquille9398 2 года назад +6

      @@katerinagiannioudi401 I'm so sorry for your loss. My relationship ended around Easter of last year unfortunately. Every day is an opportunity to start new and to keep moving. You will be in my thoughts and prayers my friend

    • @ImranKhan-tj3dr
      @ImranKhan-tj3dr 2 года назад +1

      I love u
      Really
      I like u
      I m also very romantic very sexy
      Well u relationship with me I m intrested with u really 💑💑💑😍😍😍😍💖💖💖🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷

  • @LaNereNere
    @LaNereNere 3 года назад +1

    Awesome!!!

  • @chadwickdavis1749
    @chadwickdavis1749 4 года назад +27

    This is good stuff.. and lubricants work well to keep a lady from being too dry,

    • @MichelleMarchantJohnson
      @MichelleMarchantJohnson  4 года назад +2

      Thanks for watching Chadwick!

    • @chadwickdavis1749
      @chadwickdavis1749 4 года назад +18

      @@MichelleMarchantJohnson I enjoy your content, it’s informative and meaningful and I myself am starting a relationship/possible marriage with a mature lady, I’m 63 shes 71, not bragging but your content is letting me know that I’m getting a lot a things right, thanks again

    • @matilda4406
      @matilda4406 4 года назад +1

      @@chadwickdavis1749 Go Chaddy !!

    • @chrishop942
      @chrishop942 3 года назад +1

      @@chadwickdavis1749 hi, chadwick, im intrigued at your honor for the dating up.
      I want to get married but the guy im seeing was hurt by his wife and doesnt see the need to be married after already having children. Thoughts?

    • @lilianasaba9846
      @lilianasaba9846 3 года назад +9

      Okra or ladies fingers works wonders and it's all natural. Just eat okra and you will never need lubricants. I eat okra and it has helped me a great deal

  • @pepper5908
    @pepper5908 2 года назад

    Oh goodluck to the long distance relatiinship

  • @andreabeasley3287
    @andreabeasley3287 2 года назад

    I don't make any testosterone or estrogen since a complete hysterectomy at 39.

  • @AquaDiLuisa
    @AquaDiLuisa 2 года назад

    12:33, 19:00

  • @scopeunlimited17
    @scopeunlimited17 3 года назад +5

    I stopped at 1.07 minutes. He doesn't do it for me cos I'm not making enough estrogen? What about 'he doesn't do it for me, cos he just doesn't!!!' And believe me, some still do!

  • @yan28286
    @yan28286 3 года назад +6

    Amazing! Very true!!

  • @archanamehtapatel6469
    @archanamehtapatel6469 3 года назад +2

    This jewel information

  • @babajaiy8246
    @babajaiy8246 3 года назад

    Interesting that you mention women saying they're just not interested (those over 40). I'm not taken back by that, but I'm a man in his 50's and I feel the exact same way about women. To me it's much more practical and pragmatic to seek out a women near my age - but it's just not cutting it. Now I know why. I'm currently seeking a relationship with a women who is much younger. And as before, for practical/pragmatic reasons I actually don't like the big age difference(I feel it's not fair for her). But on an energetic level, it seems to only have a possibility with such young women.

    • @stanspb763
      @stanspb763 2 года назад +2

      Women in their 50s and older who have been working in a career set more value than men do on her earning power. Men get nothing from her career except less time with her and higher babysitter expenses. I did what many north American men are doing, by the millions every year, moved out of the US 22 years ago.To do it, I gave everything away, cars, houses, businesses, airplanes, art etc, and moved to a society where there was not hostility betwn the sexes. I landed where I did not know the language with 2 suitcases and $6000 in my pocket and have loved every minute of it. I started new small businesses, one had 68 employees, all but 2 were women, and have a very low cost of living and far more favorable social scene with a much more cultured, broader-based educated population. I have never met a woman who did not have a college degree but they are still feminine, open friendly and fit. I am now 73 and very active socially, going dancing at least once a week until 5am, attending opera, theater and ballet at least once a week and surrounded by attractive women. My current long-time GF is the second oldest I have ever been out with, at 44 and really pretty, fit and successful in heading her marketing company.. She could easily pass for 29 without a wrinkle even in the eye corners were everyone ages. The big difference is the sexes get along well and even of they have careers, it is secondary to being a woman. The younger women are plugged into social media however so they will have the same unrealistic expectations of having 10% guys and will not settle for less than an Instagram model. That will end the entire culture as not enough babies are being born and most 25-year-olds are not married. Since have been her the average age of marriage when from 22-22 to 32-34.. My GF has a 22-year-old daughter who might never get married or have children because she is plugged into social media. But At my age, I can't imagine a better life that could be more fulfilling or fun. We have an active sex life and I am still working in my 4 businesses but at reduced hours to allow more fun. One thing I have noticed on my rare visits back to the US is seeing so many women with dead eyes....not actually dead but without sparkle and liveliness and who have replaced feminity with masculine competitiveness, and angry, ever ready to be offended or angry over nothing.
      While you still can, you should consider moving out of the country because most places in the world offer a better social and living quality of life than the US now. Countries that were poor 40 years ago have a better quality of life now than the US. Where I am one can have a superior live on$1200 a month or 2 people, including many more cultural options like theater,, ballet, jazz and rock clubs, opera, and great art and museums.. My adopted city has 600 well-maintained beautiful parks that are safe 24/7, and more world-class museums and opera/symphonies or ballet than the entire US does, at prices everyone can afford. There is no homeless, almost everyone over 20 has a college degree, and owns their home free of debt. The US would not be so violent and aggressive is people had security and no debt.. The highest cost of living is because everything is financialized in the US, with contracts with monthly payments for everything.. So women seek only rich men and they are not going to get them so will die bitter and alone. Medical care is both good and free here, as is a university if one passes exams. If one pays for college, it might be $3000

    • @jupiterpheonix3631
      @jupiterpheonix3631 2 года назад +1

      @@stanspb763Wow! It sounds like Shangri-la . . BTW, I happen to be one of those dead-eyed, sparkle having gone out, angry women. I work to survive, have no partner and the future looks grim. You are correct, but we are not monsters just looking for a chance to spit venom on someone . .many of us are just lonely and tired, and sad that we will die with a song still in our hearts.

    • @lizgonzales1389
      @lizgonzales1389 Год назад

      @@jupiterpheonix3631 9

    • @rejectionisprotection4448
      @rejectionisprotection4448 10 месяцев назад

      ​@@stanspb763Where do you live?

  • @diannanagelvoortsaltz469
    @diannanagelvoortsaltz469 Год назад

    I guess this consultation is for people raised to be “normal’ or “emotionally confident.”

  • @carolynmitchell7330
    @carolynmitchell7330 3 месяца назад

    Im 55 and my husband 58. His viewing of women online of inappropriate and sexual suggested material has ruined our relationship 😢💔🌽

  • @bibiharoon3811
    @bibiharoon3811 2 года назад

    Thank you MR John I’m very happy listening all interested topic & watching your videos very interesting now I have questions an need you advice I have my fiancé his estrogen is very low or something about what you was explaining in this video not enjoying having sex soon he started he finished in 2 minutes he talk to me about it asking if there is something he can used to get back on track because he not enjoy an he also wants me to enjoy too at they same time he is Hard working he’s age 56 yrs I’m 45yrsthank you god blessings be with you always….🙏

  • @conniereynolds1729
    @conniereynolds1729 2 года назад +4

    What to do if I really like a man but he is pressuring me for sex on the fourth date. Isn’t that too soon. Anyone?

    • @pamelasbutterflylife1312
      @pamelasbutterflylife1312 2 года назад +5

      Trust your gut wisdom and do not feel rushed to engage in any sexual activity until you are ready! You have to decide when is the right time! Women by enlarge are receivers. Men are providers and protectors. What has he given you in terms of provision and protection where he deserves your body and spirit?

    • @ImranKhan-tj3dr
      @ImranKhan-tj3dr 2 года назад +1

      I m single
      😍😍❤❤🌷🌷

  • @hollydaze5625
    @hollydaze5625 2 года назад +1

    What about morals?

    • @MichelleMarchantJohnson
      @MichelleMarchantJohnson  2 года назад

      Moral are important and they are also personal. Take care and thanks for watching!

  • @sallylittleshell645
    @sallylittleshell645 3 года назад +1

    Is there a link to the aloe vera?

    • @MichelleMarchantJohnson
      @MichelleMarchantJohnson  3 года назад +1

      Please go to John's website MarsVenus.com. He has a lot of health related products there. Thanks for watching Sally!

    • @dorik700
      @dorik700 3 года назад +1

      He recommends Aloe Cadabra. I found it on Amazon. Here's the video: ruclips.net/video/dqsPv7fyLZg/видео.html

  • @alffuergregor
    @alffuergregor Год назад

    Id like to see a medical study that confirms that estrogen in women will rise when they ask a man a question…

  • @stormchylde3999
    @stormchylde3999 4 года назад +5

    This is making me wonder what about men who don't orgasm because they cannot? Will they never bond with a woman? I'm dating a man who cannot orgasm because of diabetes and medications he's on. Because of this and his inability to maintain an erection, he also has a lot of trouble penetrating....he is a wonderful lover otherwise, though. This makes me wonder if he will never bond with me.

    • @jshdhdyjfjdjfhfyyene731
      @jshdhdyjfjdjfhfyyene731 Год назад

      He has bonded with you. Just you haven't understood, accepted, practiced it enough to know it in your mind and then heart

  • @Shasha8674
    @Shasha8674 4 года назад +5

    Meat/dairy/soy/BPA/chemicals/own fat/The Pill/Baby formula/flax etc may make people estrogen dominant.

    • @MichelleMarchantJohnson
      @MichelleMarchantJohnson  3 года назад +1

      That's true. It can for sure.

    • @yahnferral9163
      @yahnferral9163 3 года назад

      What do you mean flax? Like flax seed?
      Im not sure flax seed causes estrogenenic response in the body if thats what you mean.

    • @Shasha8674
      @Shasha8674 3 года назад

      @@yahnferral9163 Yes...flax has estrogen which can block the thyroid.

    • @wshelby83
      @wshelby83 2 года назад +1

      So what makes more testosterone? Most of the meat products seem to have estrogen

    • @Shasha8674
      @Shasha8674 2 года назад

      @@wshelby83 You can buy meat from a local farmer maybe where no hormones are added to the animals. Pea protein or eggs may help that are not fed GMO soy etc. GMO soy/GMO corn/many grains have Roundup on them. Zn may raise testosterone and Coleus. There are bio-identical hormones, but they are expensive and you need to find the right ratio of hormones. Saw Plametto for men may help them. Most people may have too much estrogen due to the food etc and it gets into the sewer water and affects fish etc. if released into the streams etc..

  • @AftabAhmedLakhani
    @AftabAhmedLakhani 2 года назад

    💝

  • @karenholtzclaw3135
    @karenholtzclaw3135 2 года назад

    🙂

  • @marian5967
    @marian5967 3 года назад +8

    The HPV vaccine is also causing boys to go impotent and a few young girls I know to have cervix and uterus problems including endometriosis

    • @Prawnstar.
      @Prawnstar. 3 года назад +3

      One is born with endometriosis. Vaccines don't cause genetic predisposition to disease. I went through major issues with endometriosis long before the HPV vaccine was invented. I no longer have issues with endometriosis due to various reasons, none related to vaccine related anything. Please do the research regarding endometriosis if you're interested in how it works, impacts, and what they believe are the contributing factors.

    • @hevoskuiskaaja2008
      @hevoskuiskaaja2008 2 года назад

      Not true. My son is vaccinated against HPV and he’s in puberty now. No impotence there.

  • @lw3263
    @lw3263 3 года назад +2

    What if a woman takes bio identical hormones with estrogen and testosterone?

    • @MichelleMarchantJohnson
      @MichelleMarchantJohnson  3 года назад +1

      John's website has some info on this and also his book Beyond Mars Venus. Check those out and thanks for watching too Linda!

    • @lw3263
      @lw3263 3 года назад

      @@MichelleMarchantJohnson Thanks Michelle!

    • @lw3263
      @lw3263 3 года назад

      I also love you and Helena!

    • @marian5967
      @marian5967 3 года назад +2

      Red maca root

    • @marylindsay7653
      @marylindsay7653 2 года назад

      @@marian5967 what does red maca root do for a woman?

  • @sweetangel4761
    @sweetangel4761 3 года назад +2

    🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻💖💖💖

  • @lauriepeifer7297
    @lauriepeifer7297 4 года назад +3

    I've never been fulfilled w/o an orgasm. Only left frustrated and unhappy!

  • @JACKTHEGAMER008-u8e
    @JACKTHEGAMER008-u8e 11 месяцев назад

    What if hes under 40 37 and not wanting sex with me his partner of 5 years we have a 10 month old daughter

  • @HangNguyen-zz3ig
    @HangNguyen-zz3ig 2 года назад

    😭

  • @georgevue8175
    @georgevue8175 Год назад

    My sexy wife hit menopause at age 48 & after that she said stay the Hell away from me, no more sex! Bottom line: I wish I never got married, once I put the ring on her finger the relationship was over. If I could do life over again I'd have 2 to 5 year relationships with women and end it there before they start to turn on me, because they all turn on you eventually.

    • @georgevue8175
      @georgevue8175 Год назад +1

      @@AndrewDeSimone I thought I was getting my mom when I married. At age 75 my dad had a heart attack one hour after him & mom had their morning sex, that's the way I wanted to die, & I would rather be alone than live with a woman that doesn't like or desire me enough to be intimate with me, and I work hard keeping myself in good shape, dressed well, & nice and clean.

    • @AndrewDeSimone
      @AndrewDeSimone Год назад +2

      @George Vue same here man. I'm very fit and have a good job. Menopausel women's options are very slim to none. They have hit the wall and they're sexual market value drops significantly at age 50. Us men do not have that problem. Take care of yourself make money and find a younger more desirable woman.

    • @SheenaRea
      @SheenaRea 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@AndrewDeSimone What you say is sad but true. However, just for the record, I'm past the menopause stuff... And must say that a good man + lots of foreplay = fantastic sex for menopausal women. Not trying to be disrespectful but blunt, and so many women out there stop having sex because they buy into this notion that menopause means to stop the sex. They couldn't be more wrong! My man and I are "over the hill" so to speak and we have dynamite sex sessions, it's sad that so many women give up on quality sex. I think society tells women that after a "certain age" it's over for them sexually. Sure isn't true for me and my guy -- we're in our sixties. All the best to you.

  • @sherika1977
    @sherika1977 3 года назад

    😳

  • @hanafri8
    @hanafri8 3 года назад +6

    I will have to borrow someone elses husband ;)for keeping my oestrogen levels ;)

    • @eugeneglenn2607
      @eugeneglenn2607 3 года назад

      You don't need to love

    • @hanafri8
      @hanafri8 3 года назад +1

      @@eugeneglenn2607 of course I do

    • @eugeneglenn2607
      @eugeneglenn2607 3 года назад +2

      Well I am not married and I am ready to rumble

    • @eugeneglenn2607
      @eugeneglenn2607 3 года назад

      Drop your email let's talk on hangouts

    • @ImranKhan-tj3dr
      @ImranKhan-tj3dr 2 года назад

      I m alone
      Need 👧👧😍😍❤🌷🌷

  • @shyamanissanka4592
    @shyamanissanka4592 3 года назад

    👍💖🇸🇪

  • @a.d.b535
    @a.d.b535 2 года назад

    10 years celebate and at age 65, finally dating again. Nature's doing a great job of making us feel 25 again.
    Qfll