I wouldn't wish that. Rory shouldn't even be thinking about sex now because she's too young and she would never make the same mistake as her mom. It's a good thing she didn't actually go through with it and the subject was forgotten after this episode
@@nadimabbas4093 Having sex at 18 is not too young. And it would have been much, much better if she had sex with a long boyfriend at 18 than with a married ex-boyfriend at 19...
@@iamsultana 18? I thought Rory was 17 during this episode. In my defense it's hard to keep track of a tv character's age regarding the circumstances of the later seasons. I also never understand why there are teenagers in an adult series set on having sex at their age, especially if they are still in high school. I think Rory should have waited until she was at least 25 to be more prepared for the experience and avoid making the same mistake as her mom. Speaking of Lorelai, she contracted herself in this conversation because she actually encouraged Rory to sleep with Jess even though she is usually afraid that if Rory has sex she'll become pregnant like her and when Rory actually did sleep with Dean Lorelai was furious and called her out for following her footsteps (even though Rory did not get pregnant)
@@nadimabbas4093 She is 16 in the first season, and she gets older by one year with each season. Waiting to have sex at 25 is a ridiculous notion, because the majority of people become hormonal and desire sex from a much earlier age. To ignore biology is not smart at all. When you feel hunger, you get yourself a meal, don't you? You just make sure it's something healthy and clean and safe to eat. Same goes for sex. Sex is great but it has to be right. Sleeping with a married man isn't right - and THAT is why Lorelai was mad at Rory. She said it was OK to have sex with Jess (even though she clearly didn't want her to but she knew it wasn't her decision to make) because Jess was Rory's boyfriend. I agree with you that for most people, it's better to wait until you are of legal age to start having sex because once you are a college student on your own, maybe even work, can vote etc., you tend to be more responsible. Besides, any sexual encounter can technically end with pregnancy so everyone should certainly be encouraged to wait until they could take care of the baby in case pregnancy happens. However, teens wanting sex at 18 is not something out of this world, it's normal and is just a part of life.
the way they both get over fights and sort it out so quickly is why they’re my favourite couple ever, they just work it all out and it’s over with in a day
well actually she did lose her virginity to dean, but when he was married a lot later in in the show, she clarified in an episode when paris was over that she hadn't done it with jess nor dean at that point.
Ikrrr??? Like that lie was the first step into their downfall as a relationship, why? He could’ve just said the truth, he had already told it to Luke… It was nonsense for me
Both of them really messed up when it came to emotional intimacy. Neither one knew how to communicate w’ each other and due to that they imploded. He absolutely would have been her first if they had both been more honest which this scene illustrates. They connected on so many things but this kind of communication wasn’t one of them. They were kids doing the best that they could with their own junk at the time. Sadly, the disconnect grew til it broke them. It happens way too often, esp in high school.
i find it so cute when jess says "next time i got to ur grandmother's ill try not to have one" and rory goes "next time" all smiley and jess agrees"next time" it's so cute😩
When Rory and Jess are together, you only see smiles and happiness. When Rory and Dean were together, Rory wasn’t happy a lot and wasn’t smiling a ton. When she got with Jess she became a happier person. And Jess became a better person
That is sooo true!! She was always so happy with him, and they had the most chemistry! Part of it I think is because while Rory and Jess were falling in love on screen, Milo and Alexis were falling in love off screen! Literally Jess and Rory's journey we are watching Milo and Alexis fall in love, that's why there are so many butterflies, sparks, and chemistry through the roof. Until the writers decided to mess them up 😔 The writers were so unfair with Jess and Rory's relationship they by far had the best chemistry! Where were all the date nights, and movie nights, and book shows, even prom?! We could have had so much more, and less Dean, but noo the writers had to mess it up 😔 I'll never be over how the writers treated this relationship! Logan, and Dean both had more time, and byy far she had the most chemistry with him! I feel like we we're robbed!
Right and till she had a Rant about Jess to her Mom. She was definitely most happiest with Logan, I mean the times she and Jess meet she didn’t attempt to get him back, and in AYITL when they were both single, she only wanted Logan.
I didn't really like Rory in season 4 mostly because she slept with Dean and she thought it was ok even though he was married and her mom was mad at her that just bothers me that she thoug t it was ok to sleep with Dean like 😑😑but it also bothers be how Dean also thinks it was ok and he is kinda a bitch like 🖕🖕
@@naomidesta8226 I think Dean was never held accountable like Rory, although Lorelai apologized to Rory (which was stupid), Dean kind of came out unscathed. Dean was terrible to Lindsay and was just so emotionally manipulative which was not a surprise as he always had anger issues even in season 1. I don’t think he was affected much from the divorce or breakup because when Rory comes to his house, he complains that he dissapointed his parents and Lindsay’s parents which is more of him being worried about his reputation or how people perceive him. Dean never complained that he lost Lindsay or anything in that matter because he didn’t really love her. Unfortunately, Rory never really learnt anything though and she kept being the mistress. Maybe Rory learnt that Emily was the mistress or the “other woman” so she thought grandma succeeded so she would. No I’m kidding that’s not why Rory lets men cheat with her.
@@cnstqnce2841 regardless of what dean meant by it, being able to acknowledge how his actions affected other people shows that in the end, he has a greater sense of morality than rory does. Rory runs away from the criticism, and in the rare case where she does acknowledge her mistakes, she's only focused on how it affects her instead of bothering to think about how others may feel
@@tristan7844 I mean... Yeah? My comment didn't exclude that. Someone isn't gullible just because you don't try to apply some comprehension skills to their RUclips casual comment. If you're that upset about this I would have a sit and a think about that. Hope you're okay
this scene further proves how jess's behaviour to rory at kyle's party was so out of character. here, after they have a passionate kiss, rory says "keep thinking what you're thinking" hinting at sex and jess replies saying "i don't have a choice". he literally says he doesn't have a choice or say in the matter unless rory's ready for it. how can u make a character say that in one episode, and in the next you show him forcing rory to do something????? MAKE IT MAKE SENSE. I WILL NEVER FORGIVE ASP FOR THIS!
so true, i just hate that scene and everything that happens after it. the worst thing ever is rory’s behaviour starting from s4, when she had an affair with dean and all that mess. god i hated this show after jess left lol.
Yes. I stop watching after this party episode. I know the writers want to end it, but it was so out of character. He stays calm when Dean provokes him, when he finds out she spent time with Dean, tells her to warn him next time, this scene etc. Jess and Rory deserved for better ending of relationship.
Actually he had just found out that day that he wasn’t graduating and therefore couldn’t take her to prom like he promised . He was very upset and angry and confused so he tried to ruin things with her because deep down he felt like he was disappointing her and that was never an issue before ( for him to disappoint others ) he cared and felt that he wasn’t good enough for her or realised that they shouldn’t be together and for that to happen he chose to show her to expect only the worst from him just like everybody else including himself.
Agreed! I’m re-watching GG on Netflix now after like 15 years and I’m at the end of season 3 and remembering how much I hated Jess leaving the show 😢😒 and then Rory getting with dean ughh
Ikr?? Like why? It was the beginning of their downfall as a relationship, and it wasn’t even meaningful. Like he had already told it to Luke… Just why??
4:01 Those little moments of this series, like watching them just eat and nothing more are the reason why I feel like I'm not watching a show, but I'm really seeing the life of a family through a hidden window.
It will never not be creepy how they're acting like someone just got a cancer diagnosis or something when Rory says she might be ready to have sex soon. This is not a tragedy, ffs, no need to treat it like one.
Yeah and all their sexual experiences are so negative, apart from the thing with dean, Paris‘s first time was ‚punished‘ by not getting into Harvard and lane‘s first time was terrible too. Why must this show create so many bad stories around sexual relationships
I dont think sexual relationships are seen as negative, I mean, I get that Lorelai was a bit "surprised" by the news, I mean, it's never easy to realize your kid is growing up, but I dont think she overreacted or anything
I honestly think that they should have stayed together longer. but when Jess came all the way from California just to ask her to come with him, she said NO?!? Like whaaa- If somebody comes such a long way just to tell you they love you and want to have a life with you, why would you say noooo?! I’m crying fr 😭😭😭
omg the solemn eating at the end of lorelai and rory's scene I can't 😂 I wish some nice "la la la" guitar music would play at the end of every one of my mother and I's conversations
wait why couldn't he just lie on the spot when they were at her grandmother's? and am i the only one who understands why rory reacted the way she did?? i mean dean and jess were all up in each other's face literally everytime they met or crossed paths it's not wrong for her to be concerned abt her boyfriend + she was probably panicking that's why she was so frantic and demanded a quick response
Lorelei and Rory’s conversation is so awkward for no reason. I get that Lorelei doesn’t want Rory to get pregnant like she did, but… at least tell her to be safe and wear a condom?! Or get on birth control? Also when she tells Rory to tell her before she does it.. Lorelei of all people should know that Rory’s not gonna call her right before. It’s just gonna happen. She should’ve had a bigger conversation about it and been more open. Rory keeps her cards close to her chest. That’s why the thing with Dean ended up happening. She needed someone to open up to but Lorelei only displayed fear
Daughter - we have to talk Me - marriage Daughter - but Me- marriage Daughter - but Me - if u that important to him, he marry u Daughter - ok Me - ok, now let's eat Music - Lalalala
And this is why your daughter will never talk to you about it, won't be properly prepared, and will end up a pregnant teen, because you're a terrible mother.
@@karar7796 or *seriously speaking* if she has any faith in God at all she just wait until marriage because I will also quote, "know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived neither *fornicators* , nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, nor theives, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor reviled, nor extortioners shall inherit the kingdom of God. (1 Corinthians 6:9,10) And then I will show the proof of God disapproval by talking about STDs, aids, hiv, unwanted pregnancies which leads to poverty or abortion(even if u did use condoms or birth controls they do not work 100% of the time, also birth controls mess with hormones which can lead to cancer and they cant stop stds,aids,nor HIV ). so in conclusion do u wish to trade your physical and spiritual life for a moment of pleasure? Daughter: 😨 Me:good *music plays*
@@kikyoC I'm an atheist, "God" doesn't exist, grow up. The reason the US has SKY HIGH rates of STDs, teenage pregnancies, etc, compared to other western countries, is your idiotic belief in "abstinence". Contraception has health benefits too, including clearer skin, regulation of periods, massive reduction of ovarian cancer risk (80% death rate), among others. And abortion is great. You're talking to the wrong person, wack job. Marriage early in life leads to misery & divorce.
@@kikyoC "Science that goes against atheist belief" - what science would that be? Atheism isn't a belief it's a lack of belief. I don't "hate God" anymore than I hate Santa Claus, hating an imaginary figure is pretty ridiculous. And religious attempts at pseudoscientific nonsense combined with cherry-picking is not "science".
why tf does lorelai wanna know BEFORE her daughter does it? it feels a bit different than just saying "let me know (when it's happened) because i just wanna check in with you about the experience" -- no, she says let me know BEFORE?!? isn't it super creepy that if she knows, she'll be, like, sitting at home thinking "yep, my daughter is doing it somewhere tonight"? and Rory will also have her Mom on her mind!!! EwW
@@isabel_lima How should I know that take outs in USA are cheap . Everyday,all day take outs here in Europe its expensive. Have a brain ? Girl, you must be a mean person hahah
I think it’s like in a secret contract for main characters to do this. Serena in Gossip Girl did the same thing except she didn’t do it when a guy kissed her she just did it when something was a minor inconvenience.
I love Rory and Jess but i also love logan and Rory but i dont know if i like dean that much Like dean broke up with Rory twice and once i didnt understand why but he is ok
Dean could have been a great choice for Rory actually he was a good boyfriend except when he used to broke up with her and in front of everyone ( so embarrassing ). I Like Logan very much but I really want her to end up with Jess. I hate that she is so I love with Logan that she forgot about Jess ☹️
I like her and Logan and her and Jess but Dean is just a bitch he broke up with her 3 times and the first one was because she didn't say I love u the second one was because Rory had feelings for Jess and the third time was just because she was hanging out with Logan ,Colin, and Finn and some other guys like why that made me so mad it's like Dean wants to be with her but he has the urge to break up with her every time it annoys the shit out of me and I honestly don't see what Rory saw I in Dean like he is kinda a bitch but anyway I like her and Logan together out of the three or maybe if she would have gave Tristan a chance maybe they would be somewhere
This is the most toxic relationship ever ugh. Jess being avoidant and not telling things and then gaslighting is so unattractive. He could have just mentioned from the start that a swan attacked him. So unnecessary. And yes, no wonder Rory wanted to know. How can u trust a douche who always lies to u and starts fights. I really worry when people worship these types of relationships.
I don't think there's anything wrong with enjoying these kinds of ships. As dysfunctional as Jess and Rory were, they did have a lot of cute moments as well. For me, the only issue is that people overromanticize Jess like he wasn't terrible to Rory while they were together and then they turn around and paint Dean as this abusive monster.
When I heard that everyone was team Jess I really expected something else than this. I don't like the way he treats her at all. It's kind of a disappoitment for me. I have no doubts he loved her but the way he lied to her and the whole drama he caused was so unnecessary. So I'm starting to think I'm not really team Jess after this episode. Coming back to Dean - I know how badly he acted later in the series but I'm only going to watch first 3 seasons, so based on this- I really liked Dean. He loved her dearly, cared about her and yes I know, he was jealous and toxic sometimes, but I felt really bad for him. This whole Jess- Rory thing is not what he deserved. I just can't see it. The public breakup wasn't the greatest decisions, neither the way he sometimes tried to control her. But I remember an episode from season 2 when he really tried to get better for her. I don't see even that much effort on Jesse's side so far. So yeah, I'm not team Dean either, I don't think I ship Rory with any of those two. My humble opinion is that Dean was a great guy for Rory's character. Yes, I do agree the chemistry between Jess and Rory is way more intense but I'm not sure about how their characters fit together. Okay if you read this all the way to here, hi:) I'd love to hear your opinion.
@@marcelapcolova1532 But how about all of the times Dean abusively yelled at Rory for the smallest things and didn’t let her explain. Also about when he cheated on his wife with Rory. Dean never had the same interests that Rory had and Dean was not smart and couldn’t keep up with Rory. One time Rory in season one realize that she needed to do a lot more activities to have a better chance into getting into Harvard. When she told Dean she needed to start planning instead of hanging out with him he got so mad at her. Dean was never nice and was always abusive and jealous to Rory. After being together 3 times and breaking up, I don’t think at all that Rory and Dean were right for each other. (In a nutshell) Jess and Rory complemented each other in so many ways and had many of the same interests and challenged each other. I know that Jess had some communication problems but when season 6 Jess was there he was definitely more mature and was now just waiting for Rory. And can we also talk about how many abandonment problems he had so what would you expect from a teenager with so many family issues? There’s no hate to your opinion but I like talking about mine!😊
@@clairuh hi!:) actually you are very right, now that some time passed my opinion...well hasn't changed so much but I think neither of them was good for her. HOWEVER i am 100% know i would absolutely hate Dean in the 4th season and adore Jess later in the series. I didn't watch after season 3 because of when I heard about Rory and Dean's character downfall. Based on the 3 seasons I've seen - I loved Dean in season 1, season 2 - well more neutral, actually kind of mad , season 3 was enough:D but I did feel sorry for him and that's probably why i said it. I originally started watching the show because of Jess but he disappointed me too in the 3rd season. Not that he was a bad person but definitely not the perfect Jess I heard about.They were better for each other, but he needed to grow up and I am glad he did later in the series...and she didn't deserve him afterwards at least from what I heard, this time. So all that I want to say is that I agree with you with all but somehow his toxic traits managed to make me more angry than Dean's and I think it's because I idealised him so much. Anyways, neither of them was a great boyfriend so I will humbly stay with my boy Dave:) haha! Have a nice dat
@@marcelapcolova1532 I would definitely watch the rest of the show (or at least the parts where Dean and Jess are in there)!! Trust me, season 6 Jess helped Rory out so much and the final episode that Jess was in is so sad cause you could tell that in the end Rory didn’t deserve Jess😢. We shouldn’t even talk about Logan, just - no. Haha. Take care!
this hairstyle on rory is literally the prettiest
agreed
@@ChocolateSpreadify the victory rolls are #1
she had a great hairstylist.
These two had REALLY good chemistry. And Rory's hair is awesome in this scene.
Agreed, I think there chemistry was so good because they were dating in real life
How did she not see through that lie?! Why would jess play ball with a buddy?😂😂 he has no buddies😂
LMAO 😂😂😂
Exactly my thought! He has no buddies 😂😂😂😂
Happy Gilmour Right? That was my first thought lmao 😂
Bruh how dare u talk about my Jess like that
😂😂
Her kisses with jess can t be compared with the one with Dean..there is too much passion between her and Jess
they dated in real life thats why
@@MissModernprincess they did! oh wow, I did not know that...
Camelia 1122 they where actually dating
@@riakonkumalla7059 yeah for like 4 or 5 years
Ikr I want that one day😭
That little nose thing at 1:38 is SO cute! Ahhh!
I know right it is so cute ❤
Haha! I hadn't even noticed that! Their chemistry on screen is undeniable ❤
He does that in a kiss scene in heroes and in this is us too. It makes me want to scream it’s so cute.
i didn’t even notice it until you brought it up they’re literally so cute together ❤️❤️❤️
My grandma calls them butterfly kisses
The way he says "yeahh" after she says "You poor thing" is so funny and cute at the same time😅😍
I still feel like she didn't properly apologize for the way she acted, and how she attacked him.
you mean the Swan? :P
Did Rory give Jess a black eye
he was being a jerk, he should have apologized.
I wish she would have done “it” with Jess. I love that he was the first person she was really wanting and thinking about it though.
I wouldn't wish that. Rory shouldn't even be thinking about sex now because she's too young and she would never make the same mistake as her mom. It's a good thing she didn't actually go through with it and the subject was forgotten after this episode
@@nadimabbas4093 Having sex at 18 is not too young. And it would have been much, much better if she had sex with a long boyfriend at 18 than with a married ex-boyfriend at 19...
@@iamsultana 18? I thought Rory was 17 during this episode. In my defense it's hard to keep track of a tv character's age regarding the circumstances of the later seasons. I also never understand why there are teenagers in an adult series set on having sex at their age, especially if they are still in high school. I think Rory should have waited until she was at least 25 to be more prepared for the experience and avoid making the same mistake as her mom. Speaking of Lorelai, she contracted herself in this conversation because she actually encouraged Rory to sleep with Jess even though she is usually afraid that if Rory has sex she'll become pregnant like her and when Rory actually did sleep with Dean Lorelai was furious and called her out for following her footsteps (even though Rory did not get pregnant)
@@nadimabbas4093 She is 16 in the first season, and she gets older by one year with each season.
Waiting to have sex at 25 is a ridiculous notion, because the majority of people become hormonal and desire sex from a much earlier age. To ignore biology is not smart at all. When you feel hunger, you get yourself a meal, don't you? You just make sure it's something healthy and clean and safe to eat. Same goes for sex. Sex is great but it has to be right. Sleeping with a married man isn't right - and THAT is why Lorelai was mad at Rory. She said it was OK to have sex with Jess (even though she clearly didn't want her to but she knew it wasn't her decision to make) because Jess was Rory's boyfriend.
I agree with you that for most people, it's better to wait until you are of legal age to start having sex because once you are a college student on your own, maybe even work, can vote etc., you tend to be more responsible. Besides, any sexual encounter can technically end with pregnancy so everyone should certainly be encouraged to wait until they could take care of the baby in case pregnancy happens.
However, teens wanting sex at 18 is not something out of this world, it's normal and is just a part of life.
@@nadimabbas4093 25? Damn that's some boring shit
the way they both get over fights and sort it out so quickly is why they’re my favourite couple ever, they just work it all out and it’s over with in a day
IS ANYONE NOT GOING TO TALK ABOUT THE WAY JESS TOLD HER NOT TO GO?! uwu
Adorableeeee 💕
part of me wished she lost it to Jess and not Dean
The_under grape Weakley her virginity
well actually she did lose her virginity to dean, but when he was married a lot later in in the show, she clarified in an episode when paris was over that she hadn't done it with jess nor dean at that point.
ryangoslingsexyabs ya she’s saying she wished she lost it to jess instead of dean
Same 😞
Me too
LMAO and then she ends up doing "it" with a married Dean a few months later this show really gave me trust issues
Lauren Cheng she did????? For real????? What a 🐍
omg sorry for the late reply and yuuuuup i can't make this stuff up lmao
And she never did it with Jess
xPhoenomenon 😒
A few months later ? Im sure it was more than a year between.
Damn it Jess just tell her about the swan
This was before or during the early days of RUclips vids, now we all know that swans and geese are nuts and hyper aggressive/territorial.
Ikrrr??? Like that lie was the first step into their downfall as a relationship, why? He could’ve just said the truth, he had already told it to Luke… It was nonsense for me
You can definitely tell Rory left her mark on his heart...
Her first time had to be Jess. She wanted it to be like that. Here she says it.
Not that absurd betrayal with Dean in season four.
well, in real life he was her first time
@@BlasdLezo1689 you don't know that
YES EXACTLY
Both of them really messed up when it came to emotional intimacy. Neither one knew how to communicate w’ each other and due to that they imploded. He absolutely would have been her first if they had both been more honest which this scene illustrates. They connected on so many things but this kind of communication wasn’t one of them. They were kids doing the best that they could with their own junk at the time. Sadly, the disconnect grew til it broke them. It happens way too often, esp in high school.
i find it so cute when jess says "next time i got to ur grandmother's ill try not to have one" and rory goes "next time" all smiley and jess agrees"next time" it's so cute😩
HE RUBS NOSES WITH HER AT 1:38 MY HEART IS MELLLLLLLLTING
When Rory and Jess are together, you only see smiles and happiness. When Rory and Dean were together, Rory wasn’t happy a lot and wasn’t smiling a ton. When she got with Jess she became a happier person. And Jess became a better person
That is sooo true!! She was always so happy with him, and they had the most chemistry! Part of it I think is because while Rory and Jess were falling in love on screen, Milo and Alexis were falling in love off screen! Literally Jess and Rory's journey we are watching Milo and Alexis fall in love, that's why there are so many butterflies, sparks, and chemistry through the roof. Until the writers decided to mess them up 😔 The writers were so unfair with Jess and Rory's relationship they by far had the best chemistry! Where were all the date nights, and movie nights, and book shows, even prom?! We could have had so much more, and less Dean, but noo the writers had to mess it up 😔 I'll never be over how the writers treated this relationship! Logan, and Dean both had more time, and byy far she had the most chemistry with him! I feel like we we're robbed!
Which is not true at all, it's not always smiles and happiness
Right and till she had a Rant about Jess to her Mom. She was definitely most happiest with Logan, I mean the times she and Jess meet she didn’t attempt to get him back, and in AYITL when they were both single, she only wanted Logan.
Boy do we sure lovely romanticizing toxic relationships just bc of the “chemistry” in America!
@@jossieeeiee yeah romanticizing adults cheating on each other's partners!! you rogan stans are ridiculous.
ugh I missed this Rory in season 4
The_under grape Weakley no there saying that they miss rory compared to the rory in season 4 💓
I didn't really like Rory in season 4 mostly because she slept with Dean and she thought it was ok even though he was married and her mom was mad at her that just bothers me that she thoug t it was ok to sleep with Dean like 😑😑but it also bothers be how Dean also thinks it was ok and he is kinda a bitch like 🖕🖕
@@naomidesta8226 I think Dean was never held accountable like Rory, although
Lorelai apologized to Rory (which was stupid), Dean kind of came out unscathed. Dean was terrible to Lindsay and was just so emotionally manipulative which was not a surprise as he always had anger issues even in season 1. I don’t think he was affected much from the divorce or breakup because when Rory comes to his house, he complains that he dissapointed his parents and Lindsay’s parents which is more of him being worried about his reputation or how people perceive him. Dean never complained that he lost Lindsay or anything in that matter because he didn’t really love her. Unfortunately, Rory never really learnt anything though and she kept being the mistress. Maybe Rory learnt that Emily was the mistress or the “other woman” so she thought grandma succeeded so she would. No I’m kidding that’s not why Rory lets men cheat with her.
@@cnstqnce2841 regardless of what dean meant by it, being able to acknowledge how his actions affected other people shows that in the end, he has a greater sense of morality than rory does. Rory runs away from the criticism, and in the rare case where she does acknowledge her mistakes, she's only focused on how it affects her instead of bothering to think about how others may feel
@@naomidesta8226 Rory slept with Deans in season 5 not 4 and its takes two to tango
Pretty sure during season 4 Lorelai wished she lost her virginity to Jess then with a married man,Dean
Yeah
Definitely.....
How did Rory really buy his story? Throwing a football around with a buddy? Jess has no buddies and I don’t see him playing any type of sport.
Unless boxing counts.😂😂
@@kebster2675 Jess doesn't do boxing either
Lol.. Jess is to embarrassed by swan. Luke really made fun of him.. Lol🤣🤣🤣😂😂
@@reneeg4817 he was lying to both
The fact that the "it" never happened with Jess is absurd. They were perfect for each other.
rory was so beautiful in this scene, her hair frames her face perfectly it’s just breathtaking
I fell in love with Lauren Graham on GG and followed her career ever since. Getting close to 20 years now. What an underrated actress.
That sound that Rory makes every time she kisses Jess…
How she had her first time with Dean is beyond me. Jess is the right one for her.
His little smile when she walked away at 1:58 😭🥺🥺💗
"Keep thinking what you're thinking"
Delaine Cayenne do you know why rory said that line? i’m kinda confused
@@levaayesha1320 keep thinking of her after the kiss
Emma Casey thanks!
@@RodneyAndMeVideos she meant KEEP THINKING ABOUT US BEING INTIMATE...jeeezz you guys are gullible
@@tristan7844 I mean... Yeah? My comment didn't exclude that. Someone isn't gullible just because you don't try to apply some comprehension skills to their RUclips casual comment. If you're that upset about this I would have a sit and a think about that. Hope you're okay
I love jess and rory
this scene further proves how jess's behaviour to rory at kyle's party was so out of character. here, after they have a passionate kiss, rory says "keep thinking what you're thinking" hinting at sex and jess replies saying "i don't have a choice". he literally says he doesn't have a choice or say in the matter unless rory's ready for it. how can u make a character say that in one episode, and in the next you show him forcing rory to do something????? MAKE IT MAKE SENSE. I WILL NEVER FORGIVE ASP FOR THIS!
so true, i just hate that scene and everything that happens after it. the worst thing ever is rory’s behaviour starting from s4, when she had an affair with dean and all that mess. god i hated this show after jess left lol.
Yes. I stop watching after this party episode. I know the writers want to end it, but it was so out of character. He stays calm when Dean provokes him, when he finds out she spent time with Dean, tells her to warn him next time, this scene etc. Jess and Rory deserved for better ending of relationship.
Actually he had just found out that day that he wasn’t graduating and therefore couldn’t take her to prom like he promised . He was very upset and angry and confused so he tried to ruin things with her because deep down he felt like he was disappointing her and that was never an issue before ( for him to disappoint others ) he cared and felt that he wasn’t good enough for her or realised that they shouldn’t be together and for that to happen he chose to show her to expect only the worst from him just like everybody else including himself.
Agreed! I’m re-watching GG on Netflix now after like 15 years and I’m at the end of season 3 and remembering how much I hated Jess leaving the show 😢😒 and then Rory getting with dean ughh
"Maybe, with Jess"
"Mmmm with Jess"
Oh Lorelai, honey, soon you'll gonna wish it had happened with Jess
This mother daughter talk is sooo not normal. I mean are you kidding? Tell me before? What does that even mean? I wish this dialog never happened.
Thanks for saying this. I thought it was just me 😂
It’s one thing to tell them that you need birth control or something but -this-
agree it‘s just weird
In glad they had the talk. Moat parents don't wants to have the sex talk with their kids. Then they get mad when their child comes home pregnant.
Exactly, why the hell before?? I never got Lorelai on that.
I am Team Jess forever and to me he can do no wrong, but I wish he would’ve told her the truth. 17 years later and I still don’t know why he lied. 😔
I know🤧
Ikr?? Like why? It was the beginning of their downfall as a relationship, and it wasn’t even meaningful. Like he had already told it to Luke… Just why??
Because she wouldn’t have believed it😭
4:01 Those little moments of this series, like watching them just eat and nothing more are the reason why I feel like I'm not watching a show, but I'm really seeing the life of a family through a hidden window.
"will that make you happy?" gets me every time
I almost wish he had told her the real story. I wanna know her reaction
It will never not be creepy how they're acting like someone just got a cancer diagnosis or something when Rory says she might be ready to have sex soon. This is not a tragedy, ffs, no need to treat it like one.
Yeah and all their sexual experiences are so negative, apart from the thing with dean, Paris‘s first time was ‚punished‘ by not getting into Harvard and lane‘s first time was terrible too. Why must this show create so many bad stories around sexual relationships
I dont think sexual relationships are seen as negative, I mean, I get that Lorelai was a bit "surprised" by the news, I mean, it's never easy to realize your kid is growing up, but I dont think she overreacted or anything
😂😂😂
She didn't like Jess at this point. It wasn't sex but Jess
And Rory was an innocent girl who couldn't say the word quite at that point 🥰😇
How is that creepy
Rory and Jess have SOOO much chemistry!! :-)
I honestly think that they should have stayed together longer. but when Jess came all the way from California just to ask her to come with him, she said NO?!? Like whaaa- If somebody comes such a long way just to tell you they love you and want to have a life with you, why would you say noooo?! I’m crying fr 😭😭😭
Sry this is so long but I got more😂 Rory is just so much happier with him you can just see the difference with Dean🤢 and Logan🥱 (no offense)
This kiss is everything oh my gosh
omg the solemn eating at the end of lorelai and rory's scene I can't 😂
I wish some nice "la la la" guitar music would play at the end of every one of my mother and I's conversations
the fact she wanted to do it wid jess not dean or logan:(
She didn’t know Logan at this point, maybe that’s why.
she didn’t know logan this season
1:38 i never noticed that before GAHSBSJS THATS SO CUTE
it’s so sad how her and jess never lasted as long as i hoped!!! i always thought they would last forever
1:15 "you poor thing" "yeah" they are too cute
They really do look like mother and daughter ❤️
0:43 was too cute 🥺
it still painful to think that she did "it" with dean and not with jess
4:29 I love this scene. Even tho they’re uncomfortable they put their arms around each other. I love that.
When I watch these Rory clips, all I can think of is, "Get a room".
And cue awkward dinner... lol
wait why couldn't he just lie on the spot when they were at her grandmother's? and am i the only one who understands why rory reacted the way she did?? i mean dean and jess were all up in each other's face literally everytime they met or crossed paths it's not wrong for her to be concerned abt her boyfriend + she was probably panicking that's why she was so frantic and demanded a quick response
thank you for this! please more 🙏🙌❤👏
Team Jess in the house c:
They’re so cuteee
Lorelei and Rory’s conversation is so awkward for no reason. I get that Lorelei doesn’t want Rory to get pregnant like she did, but… at least tell her to be safe and wear a condom?! Or get on birth control? Also when she tells Rory to tell her before she does it.. Lorelei of all people should know that Rory’s not gonna call her right before. It’s just gonna happen. She should’ve had a bigger conversation about it and been more open. Rory keeps her cards close to her chest. That’s why the thing with Dean ended up happening. She needed someone to open up to but Lorelei only displayed fear
Rory just had "the talk" with Lorelai, which is when kids ask their parents about sex. Never mind that Rory is a teenager
Lorelai offered Rory no advice whatsoever, didn't discuss birth control, being safe, consent etc. Weird. She just seems to want to know, that's all.
Daughter - we have to talk
Me - marriage
Daughter - but
Me- marriage
Daughter - but
Me - if u that important to him, he marry u
Daughter - ok
Me - ok, now let's eat
Music - Lalalala
And this is why your daughter will never talk to you about it, won't be properly prepared, and will end up a pregnant teen, because you're a terrible mother.
@@karar7796 or *seriously speaking* if she has any faith in God at all she just wait until marriage because I will also quote, "know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived neither *fornicators* , nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, nor theives, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor reviled, nor extortioners shall inherit the kingdom of God. (1 Corinthians 6:9,10) And then I will show the proof of God disapproval by talking about STDs, aids, hiv, unwanted pregnancies which leads to poverty or abortion(even if u did use condoms or birth controls they do not work 100% of the time, also birth controls mess with hormones which can lead to cancer and they cant stop stds,aids,nor HIV ). so in conclusion do u wish to trade your physical and spiritual life for a moment of pleasure?
Daughter: 😨
Me:good
*music plays*
@@kikyoC I'm an atheist, "God" doesn't exist, grow up. The reason the US has SKY HIGH rates of STDs, teenage pregnancies, etc, compared to other western countries, is your idiotic belief in "abstinence". Contraception has health benefits too, including clearer skin, regulation of periods, massive reduction of ovarian cancer risk (80% death rate), among others. And abortion is great. You're talking to the wrong person, wack job. Marriage early in life leads to misery & divorce.
@@karar7796 an atheist that hates God and any science that goes against athiest belief, why am I not surprised
@@kikyoC "Science that goes against atheist belief" - what science would that be? Atheism isn't a belief it's a lack of belief. I don't "hate God" anymore than I hate Santa Claus, hating an imaginary figure is pretty ridiculous. And religious attempts at pseudoscientific nonsense combined with cherry-picking is not "science".
1:39 did anyone else see the lil nose thing? 🥺
I NOTICED THAT AND WAS LIKE “🥺I’m so lonely”
I just love those two ❤
Okay but why did she believe him- 1. Did she really think that jess was throwing a FOOTBALL 2. He has buddies?
she's so disgusting. she believed her ex over her own boyfriend and he forgives her so fast every time.
And he still lies to her after all of that! Idk how people are so obsessed with Jess
1:07 jess's voice here omg 😵💫
How the hell did she buy that lie? He hangs with no one except her and Luke to a certain extent. 😂
why tf does lorelai wanna know BEFORE her daughter does it? it feels a bit different than just saying "let me know (when it's happened) because i just wanna check in with you about the experience" -- no, she says let me know BEFORE?!? isn't it super creepy that if she knows, she'll be, like, sitting at home thinking "yep, my daughter is doing it somewhere tonight"? and Rory will also have her Mom on her mind!!! EwW
WHY didn't you tell the TRUTH?! Jess please, what was this
He was embarrassed Luke really made fun of him
Wth did Lorelei mean by "telling her before"? Like 2 hours before, give a call to your mum to let her know you're getting laid that night?
my god, people on this show lie a lot unnecessarily.
How can they afford all those take outs ?
they are not poor and take out food in the USA isn't expensive at all, especially in a small town in 2003. have a brain? USE IT
@@isabel_lima How should I know that take outs in USA are cheap . Everyday,all day take outs here in Europe its expensive. Have a brain ? Girl, you must be a mean person hahah
@@seldak9066 I also live in Europe and I know this, it's common sense
@@isabel_lima well we can’t know everything 🤷🏻♀️
Lorelei was left handed??
soooo cute🥺
I HATE RORY FOR HER CHOICES..
"I have to go" 😒😒
I think it’s like in a secret contract for main characters to do this. Serena in Gossip Girl did the same thing except she didn’t do it when a guy kissed her she just did it when something was a minor inconvenience.
@@cnstqnce2841 lol
Jess you don’t have buddies she shoulda knew he was lying
How did Rory not see through that lie 😂
I definitely think she should have been with and stayed with Jess.
she doesn’t realize the damage she does by being the baby but then wants to also be taken seriously/
So she's afraid of Pennywise the clown??
This was a joke, please don't attack me XD
Well so is “Dean” 😂
YALL JUST GAVE ME A SPOILER ABOUT SEASON 4 WITH DEAN AND RORY… i’m in season four anyways it’s fine
What episode is this?
God bless you all :) .
"a swan, I was attacked by a swan" ROMAN EMPIRE
How did he actually get it??
Payton Watts but then he told Rory that he was throwing a footy with a friend
A swan beaked him right in the eye
I love Rory and Jess but i also love logan and Rory but i dont know if i like dean that much Like dean broke up with Rory twice and once i didnt understand why but he is ok
Diamond Springs Dean was nice but insecure about not being smart and not being rich. He lets his immatureness get the best of him.
Dean could have been a great choice for Rory actually he was a good boyfriend except when he used to broke up with her and in front of everyone ( so embarrassing ). I Like Logan very much but I really want her to end up with Jess. I hate that she is so I love with Logan that she forgot about Jess ☹️
I like her and Logan and her and Jess but Dean is just a bitch he broke up with her 3 times and the first one was because she didn't say I love u the second one was because Rory had feelings for Jess and the third time was just because she was hanging out with Logan ,Colin, and Finn and some other guys like why that made me so mad it's like Dean wants to be with her but he has the urge to break up with her every time it annoys the shit out of me and I honestly don't see what Rory saw I in Dean like he is kinda a bitch but anyway I like her and Logan together out of the three or maybe if she would have gave Tristan a chance maybe they would be somewhere
Why wouldn’t her mom bring up birth control
I’m guessing they’ve already covered the basics
Jesus, there’s nothing worse than separation anxiety.
*Roress*
Esmee Oostwal na bro Jory
it’s Literati
my fav together is rory and logan
Why did Jess like and say it was a football and not the truth a swan?
He struggles to be vulnerable
A part of me kind of wishes that they did at the Party
But why does she even trust dean?! Ugghhh 🤦🏻♀️
Guessing Lorelai took Rory for birth control off camera...
AM i the only one who don't like Jess? Like, he's complete rude and broken...
yea u r very much the only one😊
*cringe*
This is the most toxic relationship ever ugh. Jess being avoidant and not telling things and then gaslighting is so unattractive. He could have just mentioned from the start that a swan attacked him. So unnecessary. And yes, no wonder Rory wanted to know. How can u trust a douche who always lies to u and starts fights. I really worry when people worship these types of relationships.
I don't think there's anything wrong with enjoying these kinds of ships. As dysfunctional as Jess and Rory were, they did have a lot of cute moments as well. For me, the only issue is that people overromanticize Jess like he wasn't terrible to Rory while they were together and then they turn around and paint Dean as this abusive monster.
When I heard that everyone was team Jess I really expected something else than this. I don't like the way he treats her at all. It's kind of a disappoitment for me. I have no doubts he loved her but the way he lied to her and the whole drama he caused was so unnecessary. So I'm starting to think I'm not really team Jess after this episode. Coming back to Dean - I know how badly he acted later in the series but I'm only going to watch first 3 seasons, so based on this- I really liked Dean. He loved her dearly, cared about her and yes I know, he was jealous and toxic sometimes, but I felt really bad for him. This whole Jess- Rory thing is not what he deserved. I just can't see it. The public breakup wasn't the greatest decisions, neither the way he sometimes tried to control her. But I remember an episode from season 2 when he really tried to get better for her. I don't see even that much effort on Jesse's side so far. So yeah, I'm not team Dean either, I don't think I ship Rory with any of those two. My humble opinion is that Dean was a great guy for Rory's character. Yes, I do agree the chemistry between Jess and Rory is way more intense but I'm not sure about how their characters fit together. Okay if you read this all the way to here, hi:) I'd love to hear your opinion.
@@marcelapcolova1532 But how about all of the times Dean abusively yelled at Rory for the smallest things and didn’t let her explain. Also about when he cheated on his wife with Rory. Dean never had the same interests that Rory had and Dean was not smart and couldn’t keep up with Rory. One time Rory in season one realize that she needed to do a lot more activities to have a better chance into getting into Harvard. When she told Dean she needed to start planning instead of hanging out with him he got so mad at her. Dean was never nice and was always abusive and jealous to Rory. After being together 3 times and breaking up, I don’t think at all that Rory and Dean were right for each other. (In a nutshell) Jess and Rory complemented each other in so many ways and had many of the same interests and challenged each other. I know that Jess had some communication problems but when season 6 Jess was there he was definitely more mature and was now just waiting for Rory. And can we also talk about how many abandonment problems he had so what would you expect from a teenager with so many family issues? There’s no hate to your opinion but I like talking about mine!😊
@@clairuh hi!:) actually you are very right, now that some time passed my opinion...well hasn't changed so much but I think neither of them was good for her. HOWEVER i am 100% know i would absolutely hate Dean in the 4th season and adore Jess later in the series. I didn't watch after season 3 because of when I heard about Rory and Dean's character downfall. Based on the 3 seasons I've seen - I loved Dean in season 1, season 2 - well more neutral, actually kind of mad , season 3 was enough:D but I did feel sorry for him and that's probably why i said it. I originally started watching the show because of Jess but he disappointed me too in the 3rd season. Not that he was a bad person but definitely not the perfect Jess I heard about.They were better for each other, but he needed to grow up and I am glad he did later in the series...and she didn't deserve him afterwards at least from what I heard, this time. So all that I want to say is that I agree with you with all but somehow his toxic traits managed to make me more angry than Dean's and I think it's because I idealised him so much. Anyways, neither of them was a great boyfriend so I will humbly stay with my boy Dave:) haha! Have a nice dat
@@marcelapcolova1532 I would definitely watch the rest of the show (or at least the parts where Dean and Jess are in there)!! Trust me, season 6 Jess helped Rory out so much and the final episode that Jess was in is so sad cause you could tell that in the end Rory didn’t deserve Jess😢. We shouldn’t even talk about Logan, just - no. Haha. Take care!
His voice bothers me
Ikr I love it too!!!
I love his voice.....
@@kiannaknox1610 ah I wasn’t a real Gilmore girls fan when I wrote that but I love Jess & Tristan so much now lol