PART 2! ANSWERING MORE QUESTIONS BABY GAYS ARE TOO AFRAID TO ASK

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  • Опубликовано: 25 окт 2024

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  • @laurenelloise
    @laurenelloise  4 месяца назад +36

    this is what happens when ya’ll scream at me for a part 2 🫡 hearing u loud and clear lmaooo🗣 p.s only a few more days to get 10% off new merch with code “GALPALS” 🌈 shop.laurenelloise.com/

  • @alpha_06aad87
    @alpha_06aad87 3 месяца назад +68

    My baby gay sister just came out to our lesbian aunt. She said, and I quote “We already knew”
    Her gaydar is working 100% 24/7

  • @factumfineideas3601
    @factumfineideas3601 4 месяца назад +74

    Do a part 3

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  4 месяца назад +24

      you're the first to say it ahhah 👀

    • @LaRosexo
      @LaRosexo 3 месяца назад +1

      Yess

    • @Justwavee
      @Justwavee 3 месяца назад

      Yes pleaseeeeee

  • @livresaudiobylynn
    @livresaudiobylynn 3 месяца назад +18

    I really loved this video. All your videos are really a couple minutes where I feel home, with a big sister that understands me and vibes with me, or even with parents when you and gal pal make a vid together. You two don't realise the impact your simple videos have on many gays around the world. Thank you

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  3 месяца назад +5

      this comment has really made my day

  • @lottiehodgson2230
    @lottiehodgson2230 3 месяца назад +8

    PLEASE do a part 3, these are my favourite videos ever!! I've watched them all ❤

  • @EggyEggPie
    @EggyEggPie 3 месяца назад +2

    2:58 as a baby gay (almost 2 years of knowing) this is rlly nice to hear

  • @dragon-born-nerd
    @dragon-born-nerd 3 месяца назад +3

    I CANT BELIEVE YOU ANSWERED OUR BABY GAY PRAYERS AND GAVE US A PART TWOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!! (also bonus video for 4 the gays video?!?!? lauren and galpal out here giving us the absoloute MOST this pride!!) i've sent your channel to TWO of my friends who have come out this pride and they have sent glowing reviews back to me, tysm for making these vids

  • @Klingon2468
    @Klingon2468 3 месяца назад +6

    You know Lauren I have watched both of these baby gay questions videos and I must say a lot of the advice/answers you give would work/help young straights. (is that a word) I think finding somebody to love is a universal mind bender, because weather you're straight or gay you're navigating the dating world, and that is like walking through a minefield, some steps are great and some will blow up in ya face. Well weather I am right or wrong I thought you were great, and so were your answers. ❤❤❤

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  3 месяца назад +2

      yea 100%, love is love, some of these are questions any young person might have, its nice to know that some of my answers can be universally useful! 💜💜💜

  • @laurenelloise
    @laurenelloise  4 месяца назад +17

    Timestamps to help you find what u need 💗
    0:00 4 The Gays
    1:19 My family keeps asking if I'm gay, I'm not ready!
    2:11 How do I tell boys I'm not interested (without saying I'm gay)?
    2:44 Advice u wished u received when u first came out?
    3:16 How do I stop falling for my friends?
    4:18 How long does it take to find the right person?
    6:12 How do u know if it's a bad date?
    7:34 Should I stay with someone who keeps us secret?
    9:26 Did coming out effect your job?
    10:17 How do u ask someone out on a date?
    10:47 Who should make the first move?
    11:31 What do u have with galpal that you'd want others to experience?
    12:13 How to deal with a straight girl crush?
    13:16 So u want a part 3??

    • @MayTheSwiftie13
      @MayTheSwiftie13 4 месяца назад +1

      OOOH YES PART 3 :DD

    • @sarahhh7377
      @sarahhh7377 4 месяца назад +1

      YESS PART 3! and i'm excited for the bonus video!!

    • @ellouisebadger849
      @ellouisebadger849 3 месяца назад

      Some good advice here! I fell for a friend recently. I actually thought she was interested romantically but only wanted friendship. It was an awkward situation 😂

  • @TinkerandBelle
    @TinkerandBelle 24 дня назад

    The videos are always amazing but I also love reading the comments because they are always filled with friendly people trying to help ❤

  • @trekkie74656_
    @trekkie74656_ 3 месяца назад +2

    Love your videos! Totally the highlight of Pride month for me, this is the only time I get to interact with anything even remotely gay (other than myself ;)), so I'm really grateful to you for spending so much time on them! Please, please, please make a part 3!

  • @thesparkleheartfamily8339
    @thesparkleheartfamily8339 3 месяца назад +1

    PART 3 PLEASE!!!!❤️

  • @eva4LR
    @eva4LR 3 месяца назад

    Thanks for doing 4 The Gays again this year, I love watching your viedos, I think you should do a part 3.

  • @EmArilus
    @EmArilus 3 месяца назад +1

    Another video on my birthday! The best gift of all 🎉

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  3 месяца назад +1

      Awww happy birthday!!!!!

    • @EmArilus
      @EmArilus 3 месяца назад

      @@laurenelloisethank you!

  • @Alice-9898
    @Alice-9898 3 месяца назад +1

    Thank you so much for this! I only came to terms with my sexuality about 10 months ago, when I read heartstopper for the first time and this is so helpful for me!

  • @thegingerbreadman2898
    @thegingerbreadman2898 4 месяца назад +3

    Thank you for this video, some of the questions were really helpful
    I love your videos and I hope everyone has a great day!😁🌈💖

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  3 месяца назад

      You're so welcome! and thank you!! 💜💜💜

    • @eva4LR
      @eva4LR 3 месяца назад

      Thanks for doing 4 the Gays, I love your viedos too, Thanks for having this channel. Do a Part 3. It helped me knowing I am Lesbian.

  • @Xella.Official
    @Xella.Official 3 месяца назад

    Omg this helps soooo much! If you do a part three my question is: Why do I feel more scared about a new relationship with my friend, even more so than I do happy?

  • @paolagarzon5917
    @paolagarzon5917 3 месяца назад

    LET´S GO FOR A PART 3 BABY!

  • @ambersjourneysinlife
    @ambersjourneysinlife 3 месяца назад

    I love your videos so much, do a part three please!! ❤ I'm an out queer person now but seeing these videos is refreshing, my closeted or baby gay self needed this so much! You are literally saving lives! Thank you! Ily! ❤

  • @TheLT704
    @TheLT704 3 месяца назад +1

    Loved the eye shadow
    But a very interesting informative video...i wish i had something like this when I was in my teens 😁

  • @stephenpyner4156
    @stephenpyner4156 3 месяца назад +1

    Great video Lauren, as a bi man who hasn't come out to my friends and family i can relate to a lot of the questions here as i have wondered the same things myself and at times I wish I had someone like you who i could turn to for advice or just to chat if i felt like things were getting too much but I'm too shy to try finding someone who i can turn to so as you can imagine my mind is in turmoil at times 😢

  • @rubydawn9916
    @rubydawn9916 3 месяца назад

    your merch is the best thing ever

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  3 месяца назад +1

      ahhh thank you!! and i might have to! lots of people are requesting!

  • @CharliTripii-rp5mo
    @CharliTripii-rp5mo 3 месяца назад +1

    Please do a part 3!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @darinak22
    @darinak22 3 месяца назад

    I'm here again to say that your channel brings me so much joy and support and beg you for the part 3❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

  • @Viky_00
    @Viky_00 3 месяца назад +1

    Part 3 please 🥺❤️

  • @rob4canada
    @rob4canada 3 месяца назад +1

    My wife (not that she was my wife at the time) had a list of 40 criteria that she wanted in a partner. I apparently met 39 of the 40 criteria (I was missing world traveller) but she felt I was open to being a world traveller. So yes I 100% agree to determine what you want in a partner especially what is non-negotiable. It does not mean you cannot explore but be true to yourself.

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  3 месяца назад

      Awww I looovee this!! And yeah you’re exactly right! It’s important to know which things are a must, and what ones you can compromise a lil on.

  • @ButterflyGirl-hq7zu
    @ButterflyGirl-hq7zu 3 месяца назад

    Thank you so much Lauren!! your advice always helps me so much and I'm very grateful to be able to watch these videos from like-minded people like you :) I would love a part 3

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  3 месяца назад +1

      You are very welcome! im rlly glad it's helpful!! 🤍🤍🤍 part 3 might be on the cards 👀

  • @moziixx
    @moziixx 4 месяца назад +1

    thank you so much for this videos!! Sometimes I like to put ur videos on while I fall asleep lol 🫶🏼 gotta enjoy these last 2 days of pride month before July comes around!! 😭😄🌈❤

  • @Strawberryhaze22
    @Strawberryhaze22 3 месяца назад

    Please do a part 3, you’re a godsend here. Also, what do you do if you potentially fall for someone that is questioning their sexuality but isn’t certain? Also, I myself am definitely part of the LGBTQ community because I have a sapphic attraction to women, but I don’t want to have a label. How do I know if they’re like me or just questioning??

  • @Molly-lt5dz
    @Molly-lt5dz 3 месяца назад +1

    PLZ DO A PART 3 ❤

  • @karinenoblot7352
    @karinenoblot7352 3 месяца назад

    Many Thanks Laureen, your answers are precious for everyone, xoxo ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @olivia9564
    @olivia9564 3 месяца назад

    I love your videos and I WANT part 3

  • @mossie7625
    @mossie7625 3 месяца назад

    Your merch was the best Lauren!🤩💖🌈

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  3 месяца назад

      eeee thank you once again for getting some and supporting my channel!

  • @Brexeditss
    @Brexeditss 3 месяца назад

    Can you do some for the bisexual gals? They seem overlooked pls? 🥺
    I have questions like how can I tell if I like girls more or boys more?
    How should I act around girls or boys?
    What should I do to figure out if I'm bi or gay?

  • @Mystaza
    @Mystaza 2 дня назад

    Your videos are very helpful.

  • @lassam333
    @lassam333 3 месяца назад

    Great advice! Keep it up with a part 3.

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  3 месяца назад +1

      thank you!! might have to do another 👀

  • @sarahmaria2621
    @sarahmaria2621 3 месяца назад

    i NEED THAT TSHIRT

  • @mahimaaashok792
    @mahimaaashok792 4 месяца назад +4

    OMGGG Lauren posted AHHHH

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  4 месяца назад +3

      yaaaasssss (even tho its totally bedtime for me rn lol)

  • @nikkimelo
    @nikkimelo 3 месяца назад +1

    PART 3!!!!!

  • @factumfineideas3601
    @factumfineideas3601 4 месяца назад +4

    Wow 😲 I have never been so early in a video

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  4 месяца назад +2

      yeeeehaw congrats on being super early!

  • @roniredansky6341
    @roniredansky6341 4 месяца назад +1

    I don’t know what to do. I’m in love with you 😍

  • @1_ktjt_1
    @1_ktjt_1 3 месяца назад

    Please do a part three!!

  • @adalbertodiaz4555
    @adalbertodiaz4555 3 месяца назад

    Hope u had a great pride month ❤

  • @RyuSoFine1724
    @RyuSoFine1724 3 месяца назад +1

    Part 3 please🙏

  • @MissMargaretFey
    @MissMargaretFey 2 месяца назад

    every time i think of kissing anyone at all, i am terrified of missing and just ending up face-planting into her 😂 (i also have anxiety sooo....)

  • @MayTheSwiftie13
    @MayTheSwiftie13 4 месяца назад +2

    yayy moreee!!

  • @ruebennomura9143
    @ruebennomura9143 3 месяца назад

    Morning from Hawaii I thought you did good on part 2 on baby gay on this video

  • @KaylaSings-bc3io
    @KaylaSings-bc3io 3 месяца назад +1

    do a part 3, i love gay shit!

    • @K8_4life
      @K8_4life 3 месяца назад

      Lol 💯

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  3 месяца назад

      hahaha 🙈 seeming likely itll happen

  • @HarrisonDonnelly-vk5ok
    @HarrisonDonnelly-vk5ok 4 месяца назад +11

    15 seconds gang

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  4 месяца назад +6

      i dont understand how u can be sooo fast omg

  • @TinkerandBelle
    @TinkerandBelle 24 дня назад

    I’m like 97% sure my best friend is lesbian/bisexual/pan but idk I don’t have a crush on her but I haven’t come out to her yet! I guess I want to come out to her but idk how she would react?!!? We spend half our day gossiping about heartstopper🍂! I don’t think she’s straight she love hugs an physical touch😂 we literally walk around school holding hands ! But idk the gay panic

  • @maximus0wls6415
    @maximus0wls6415 3 месяца назад

    I totally feel the lack of lesbians in the dating pool esp as a christian and bc i havent been in classes lately but im hoping i can start dating soon I've never dated b4! I've felt comfy in my sexuality for a long time but the right time just hasnt come yet. Also my mom has encouraged me to find a christian gf but I don't know if christian lesbians exist! (At least ones that would be interested in me) it's hard to make a list when i have had little luck

    • @annalisejolly7092
      @annalisejolly7092 3 месяца назад

      i’m a christian and a lesbian! we should get in touch!

  • @JaelJackson-r2m
    @JaelJackson-r2m 3 месяца назад

    Part 3!! (thx for making pt 2!)

  • @sasharowe
    @sasharowe 2 месяца назад +1

    I am curious as to when someone is no longer a baby gay

  • @AliceThePineapple4
    @AliceThePineapple4 3 месяца назад +2

    I think I messed up! I asked out my best friend 2 days ago and she said yes. I’m pretty certain I’m actually attracted to her (that’s what made me want to be her friend in the first place) but after your advice on it I’m scared. What do you think? (I’m 14, have been out to myself for 3 years and my friends/school for 1.5, have been friends with her for 1 year)

    • @dragon-born-nerd
      @dragon-born-nerd 3 месяца назад

      hi! i've been dating my gf who was by best friend for a year and a half now- one of the best decisions i've ever made! i think that i have picked up some tips over that time period- feel free to take this advice :)! my main tip is to CONSTANTLY communicate- maybe tell her how you feel or show her this video? in my experience communication is super important as it keeps you on the same page so the friendship remains if you decide to end it romantically. my gf and i have talked over this issue and lauren's advice many times, but have both decided that we want to be in a relationship together romantically at the moment. if that changes, we can end things on a good note, but as we are still only 14 we have decided to take it slow and put the chances to the test. hope this helps/makes sense

    • @theprehistoricpoet
      @theprehistoricpoet 3 месяца назад

      ​​@@dragon-born-nerd
      As someone from an older generation, it is refreshing to find such a helpful site for those younger than us, sadly society often ignores them!
      Your answer is perfect! The key word in every relationship Is communication!!!! I would prefix that with the word honest !!!!
      So many relationships breakdown because we don't communicate our feelings on a regular basis with our partner. Regular communication will enable small adjustments to be made before they escalate into much larger problems!
      David 🦖

    • @oliviasaia9046
      @oliviasaia9046 3 месяца назад +2

      i dated my bsf for 2 months it was honestly one of the best things ive ever done i am so thankful for her and being able to experience young love with her even tho it can be painful in the end in my case we symply didn’t work out due to her parents being extremely homophobic and it can be rly hard trying to keep that person as your bsf and watch them move on especially if u are still in love with this person it is still very possible to keep them as ur bsf but j keep in mind that it can be one of the hardest things to do obviously this was just my case but i can guarantee u that u did not mess up no matter what happens you ik u will be thankful for the experience she gave you i hope ur relationship goes great for you

  • @Mac_n_cheese680
    @Mac_n_cheese680 3 месяца назад

    Do a part 3 plzz and how do I stop crushing on my friend when I know she is bi but I just had a brake up and I don't know what to do but I being 14 have no clue what to do and I love being a baby gay🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

  • @Rensescapism
    @Rensescapism 3 месяца назад

    part 3, when?

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  3 месяца назад

      ahhhhh the demand 🙈 gonna have to do it

  • @Deldel-r2q
    @Deldel-r2q 2 месяца назад

    I am bi and I have a have a girlfriend though I am only out to her and my friends… eh and maybe half of our school because with the amount me and my girlfriend hug and hold hands in the hallways it’s kinda obvious we’re dating 😅 Thank you your videos have helped me so much. I am hoping to come out to my parents sometime in the next year or so. Keep posting ❤❤❤
    I LOVE GAY SH!T

  • @Summersorensen12
    @Summersorensen12 3 месяца назад

    I LOVE UU❤❤

  • @Robintheboss11
    @Robintheboss11 3 месяца назад

    Love you soo much

  • @karinenoblot7352
    @karinenoblot7352 3 месяца назад +1

    As an asexual woman, can i find a girl?, often sex is very important and the idea of sex is just fear, even terror, some tips to help me?

  • @Strangerthingsheartstopper
    @Strangerthingsheartstopper 3 месяца назад

    Part 3 NOW 😃😡😁

  • @Nutriaa.00
    @Nutriaa.00 3 месяца назад

    I have a question for anyone who sees this:
    Well, lately I've been watching videos of people's experiences of discovering and accepting their sexuality, and they're all super complicated! I don't even remember when I discovered my sexuality, just one day in 3rd grade I said to myself "hey, maybe I'm bisexual" who knows why and here I am hahaha.
    The thing is, I don't know how you know that you've come out to yourself. I still have many doubts and I don't know what the signs are that I feel comfortable with my sexuality. Is it if I'm able to say it out loud or how? Right now I feel so dumb, sorry hahaha

  • @Earthling_fanpage
    @Earthling_fanpage 3 месяца назад +1

    I really need your help. i’m discussing my sexuality at a young age 11 and I just am stressing right now. I’m I bisexual am I lesbian? Am I straight? Bc I don’t know because I’ve never find myself dating a man and if I did a woman that would be weird but it feels more natural can you please help me? Am I just Delulu?

  • @jomesu9595
    @jomesu9595 19 дней назад

    I have a strange "relationship" with my sexuality. I'm woman, biologically. And I look very feminine, I have quite rounded shapes, I love long skirts and my overall appearance as a woman. In real life I use she/her pronouns. It's just easier, I avoid weird questions, etc. I still haven't come out to my family :(
    However, for several years now I have been introducing myself as a boy on the internet and using male pronouns, and I feel much better about it. I would like to be a man, but mentally. Because I see my sexuality through the prism of the body I have. A woman's body.
    I am rather more fascinated by women, but men too (but only romantically!!). I can't define it.
    What I'm more curious about is how I could be a lesbian while mentally relating to myself as a man.
    And would I be able to find a girl who would physically recognize me as a woman and mentally as a man? I have no idea what to think about this. I also don't have anyone I could talk to about this, my family doesn't tolerate it.
    I don't know what to do with myself, it's too complicated

  • @barnaliadhikary2045
    @barnaliadhikary2045 2 месяца назад

    2.25.... i think as lesbians we have full right to say NO to male advances without having to beating around the bush, that also for our safety from the man??? That's trashy...we can straightway say that "no I am not interested and I am into women".. plus generally one doesn't have to necessarily explain any reason to reject a man... Or to say no... Saying "no i am not interested" is itself enough..., women aren't answerable for their reasons.. it's just nice that they do....If "no" is by default rude to someone then that's their entitlement issue they should get cured of it... 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @ally-clairebear
    @ally-clairebear 3 месяца назад

    so i like fictional men
    -book characters-and then like a few male celebs but other than that i don’t like guys. (aka. i don’t like real men) so i don’t know if that would make me bisexual or a lesbian or what tbh

  • @Percy_Jackson_Lover16
    @Percy_Jackson_Lover16 2 месяца назад

    Part 3! 13:27

  • @roniredansky6341
    @roniredansky6341 4 месяца назад

    I love you so much❤ but please reach to the video music lunch by Billie eilish

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  4 месяца назад +3

      aww sending hugs! also maybe! its really hard to do videos like that with the copyright, but ill have a see!

    • @roniredansky6341
      @roniredansky6341 3 месяца назад

      Thank you so much! I know that hard because the copyright, but other RUclipsrs do this so I think you can

  • @Cracha1241
    @Cracha1241 3 месяца назад

    Can I know what to do when you’re gay and your parents are homophobic bc.. I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT TO DO HELP- 😭😭😭😭

    • @livresaudiobylynn
      @livresaudiobylynn 3 месяца назад

      Just be smooth in the way you express yourself at home, keep your shine of gayness for when you're outdoor without your parents. I have had an undercut for 7 months now and they still don't know abt it. They don't necessarily need to know abt your sexuality. Then when you move out from under their roof you can start thinking abt coming out without risk

  • @Ace_mais
    @Ace_mais 4 месяца назад +1

    2 min gang

  • @NotThisAnonymous
    @NotThisAnonymous 3 месяца назад

    Random but what’s your opinion on the English or Spanish thing? Can’t make up my mind on whether it’s homophobic or just a dumb trend (or both)

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  3 месяца назад

      Im sorry i have nooo idea what you're referring to! pls enlighten me ahha

    • @NotThisAnonymous
      @NotThisAnonymous 3 месяца назад

      @@laurenelloise It’s a TikTok/RUclips shorts trend thing where basically someone will ask someone “English or Spanish?” And then say “first one to move is gay”. Dunno if I’m describing it the best so you might want to look it up

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  3 месяца назад +1

      @@NotThisAnonymous ohh okay! I’d say it’s a dumb trend that holds absolutely zero truth. I would just ignore it! With most TikTok trends, they don’t stick around for very long, and since TikTok has grown to be massive, trends are very micro / niche anyway.

  • @dipankarhalder9451
    @dipankarhalder9451 3 месяца назад +1

    When are you marrying her?

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  3 месяца назад

      we've looked into wedding stuff, next year is our timeline!

    • @dipankarhalder9451
      @dipankarhalder9451 3 месяца назад

      @@laurenelloise Congratulations looking forward for Pre-wedding Vlogs..

  • @Bigurlie4508
    @Bigurlie4508 3 месяца назад

    With your hair up you kind of look like River from Heartbreak High (1994) 😅

  • @leahstumm9662
    @leahstumm9662 3 месяца назад

    👍

  • @SpiderDJDU
    @SpiderDJDU 3 месяца назад

    𝑫𝒐 𝒂 𝒑𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝟑 𝒑𝒍𝒛

  • @SpiderDJDU
    @SpiderDJDU 3 месяца назад

    𝟑 𝒉𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒈𝒂𝒏𝒈

  • @medukameguca5071
    @medukameguca5071 3 месяца назад

    3:16 How do I stop falling for my friends
    Part of your advice is to find other people to crush on (like celebrities or whatnot) but what if you're demi (like me) and only develop a crush on people once you get to know them and you're friends with them on some level 🥲