GAMOPHOBIA THE FEAR OF COMMITMENT AND MARRIAGE

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  • Опубликовано: 25 окт 2024

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  • @deborahadebiyi4830
    @deborahadebiyi4830 11 месяцев назад +265

    The people going to Apostle Femi’s church are really enjoying God. Please always pray for your pastor. He’s a blessing to this generation. Don’t take him for granted. God bless you sir and I celebrate your Grace 🙏🧎‍♀️😊

    • @EjiroEnakirehrhi
      @EjiroEnakirehrhi 11 месяцев назад +8

      You are so right. I am currently wishing I can have the experience to seat live under his preaching.

    • @godsblessingamaefule5329
      @godsblessingamaefule5329 9 месяцев назад +2

      Honestly oh❤

    • @joeloludamilola8727
      @joeloludamilola8727 9 месяцев назад

      You are not wrong❤

    • @ochee_
      @ochee_ 9 месяцев назад +14

      Very true! But it's our responsibility as well to pray for Him whether we are members or not. If we are blessed by His teachings, we should as well intercede for Him. And other Ministers God is using.

    • @prissyquarcoo930
      @prissyquarcoo930 9 месяцев назад +3

      I feel so too

  • @obinnachijindu
    @obinnachijindu 10 месяцев назад +124

    Causes of Marriage Phobia
    1. Dysfunctional Background
    2. Environment
    3. Traumatic Experiences
    4. Experience with a wrong partner
    5. Wrong Counsel
    6. Wrong Exposure
    7. Spiritual Attack
    8. Past Mistakes
    9. Lack of Trust for yourself

  • @igrowingrace5548
    @igrowingrace5548 8 месяцев назад +38

    “A man who lacks accountability will make a witch out of any woman” ❗️💥💥💥💥💥

  • @otekanonso7059
    @otekanonso7059 9 месяцев назад +32

    The kind of informed and outspoken pastors God has raised this end times are just too fit for job. Many blessings sir you are doing well.

  • @marvy2766
    @marvy2766 6 месяцев назад +2

    Apostle thank you so much. You are healing me with God's word and I am really grateful. You are a blessing to our generation. Healing is not a light switch but I know I'll get there. My fear of Marriage is about 5 of the reasons mentioned. I know God is with me on this journey. Thank you Apostle!

  • @EyramAfia
    @EyramAfia 7 месяцев назад +6

    I am not alone! GOD HAS GONE AHEAD OF ME to make the crooked paths straight 🙌🏽🔥

  • @florenceichipi2562
    @florenceichipi2562 8 месяцев назад +7

    I am so scared of marriage but this teaching is really lifting my soul. God help me.

  • @EyramAfia
    @EyramAfia 7 месяцев назад +11

    I will be married! I will marry right! My home will be heaven on earth! Than you Jesus🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @fawariebi5650
    @fawariebi5650 9 месяцев назад +19

    This message is for me...i literally run when I start hearing too much of "let's take this relationship to the next level ".. but i believe God healing has come for me. Thank you Apostle Femi, God continue to strengthen and bless you.

  • @carineateh3278
    @carineateh3278 10 месяцев назад +28

    I never knew I had a childhood trauma but 16mins into this massage I burst in tears noticing where my fear of marriage is coming from.

    • @evoemeraphael
      @evoemeraphael 8 месяцев назад +2

      May God heal you from every scar

  • @igrowingrace5548
    @igrowingrace5548 8 месяцев назад +18

    Apostle Femi Lazarus is my new staple - his teachings are powerful and real. Very humane and liberating relatable and transforming! God bless you so much and You Tube for introducing your teachings to me 🙌🙌🙌✅✅✅

  • @QueenDesewa07
    @QueenDesewa07 10 месяцев назад +15

    My stumbling to this teaching meet my current needs😢

  • @preciousoluwayemisi6108
    @preciousoluwayemisi6108 11 месяцев назад +25

    Thank you Pastor Lazarus for always taking us to the root of our problems. More anointing sir🙏

  • @nma8678
    @nma8678 8 месяцев назад +6

    Thanks 🙏🏾 I always scan through your messages. God bless you and keep you and cause his face to shine on you. May everything you lay your hands on be blessed, may your children never encounter hardship. Your generation is blessed. You will not miss heaven. No weapon formed against you will prosper. The ends of the earth will hear what God has deposited for you. Your going out and coming in is blessed. God richly bless you Sir for this teaching

  • @danyocharles1949
    @danyocharles1949 8 месяцев назад +4

    Preach on sir.
    We will love you to do teachings about the VOICE OF GOD.
    Amen and amen

  • @Olajumoke_Adeife
    @Olajumoke_Adeife 11 месяцев назад +12

    A thought provoking sermon!!!
    God bless you sir.

  • @euniceekwere9653
    @euniceekwere9653 11 месяцев назад +18

    We appreciate your presence in this our Genz Baddie generation. Cos Most of these genz have lost it(they’re totally lost).
    Thank you for your words of wisdom and appearance in this our generation🙏. I love you daddy but God loves and blessed you best🩶.

  • @soniajoe7698
    @soniajoe7698 8 месяцев назад +1

    Finally i have been dealing with this for yrs i went online to search about it i have been studying about it , i just decided to listen to his teaching today' and I saw this 👏🙏.

  • @abiolaalice9611
    @abiolaalice9611 9 месяцев назад +2

    Thanks for the sincerity in your teachings sir and also the ability to relate with what the youth are passing through in this 21st century.

  • @Helenteee
    @Helenteee 10 месяцев назад +5

    Have not listened to this sermon yet but i know i will be blessed.
    May the Lord continue to strengthen you sir

  • @Pneuma_hair
    @Pneuma_hair 11 месяцев назад +12

    Thank you sir for this timely message. I saw a short clip on IG I knew I had to come here🙌🏼🙌🏼

  • @PreshEhi
    @PreshEhi 2 месяца назад

    Omo this preaching is very important, it's filled with many truths

  • @monicadiegboh9339
    @monicadiegboh9339 9 месяцев назад +15

    I will be married and i will marry well in jesus name amen 🙏

  • @prudenceokagbue7103
    @prudenceokagbue7103 8 месяцев назад +1

    The Lord bless you and keep you Sir. May He give you more wisdom and preserve you. Profound yet with a good dose of jokes

  • @aghoghoeze5546
    @aghoghoeze5546 8 месяцев назад +1

    Apostle Femi Lazarus talks like Rev Areogun of Dream Centre, one of our Fathers in Osun State.God bless you sir for your messages.May God grant you and your family the grace to finish well and strong in Jesus name, Amen.

    • @Abishaiah
      @Abishaiah 5 месяцев назад

      So true! I'm always deeply blessed by Rev Areogun. His wisdom is just unmatched & so vast. He is a hidden gem & treasure, in that God has chosen that his public profile be not as nationally known as say Bishop Oyedepo or Rev. Wale Oke, etc but he is truly one of the fathers in this generation and such a mighty blessing. Love him & his ministry.

  • @marielouis5981
    @marielouis5981 9 месяцев назад +2

    My future partner n I must go over this messages over n over till we digest it. Our marriage must b heavenly ❤❤❤

  • @ijeomanlemchukwu3732
    @ijeomanlemchukwu3732 9 месяцев назад +1

    This apostle is an exceptional man if God. You are indeed God sent to our generation. Thank you sir and more anointing to function in Jesus name. Amen

  • @lindaasante4263
    @lindaasante4263 7 месяцев назад

    is as if this preaching was made for me. May the Lord help me out of this mental order

  • @Excellence_Oz
    @Excellence_Oz 10 месяцев назад +3

    Powerful insights and teaching, may God bless you Pastor!!! 😊

  • @joanlubemba5905
    @joanlubemba5905 11 месяцев назад +3

    Ayaaa👏👏👏👏I love what i am learning here. God bless you man of God

  • @talkswiththe_blackybones6670
    @talkswiththe_blackybones6670 8 месяцев назад +1

    I am more connected to Christ than to the family I was born into. Yes Lord 😊💃

  • @uncommonwealthentrepreneur9240
    @uncommonwealthentrepreneur9240 11 месяцев назад +21

    This issue of gamophobia is serious ooh...
    I think what my fear is in getting married is a lot. Ranging from sexual satisfaction, to been slowed down in terms of achieving my dream kind of lifestyle, to issues like being a burden to my spouse because of sickness and maybe financial uncertainties...
    I believe God for a positive outcome in my marriage when it finally Happens. But there are deep things I can't talk about just here in the comments section

  • @ConstancehappyIdaghe
    @ConstancehappyIdaghe 8 месяцев назад

    O lord bless my marriage this is the reason why I listen to you everyday of my life 🙏

  • @virtuouzgirl8328
    @virtuouzgirl8328 7 месяцев назад

    I've noticed that these sermons primarily talk to women when concerning marriage and I wonder why the men aren't addressed as much. But I love the wisdom in this sermon

  • @basseyemmanuel
    @basseyemmanuel 9 месяцев назад

    Am short of words is been blessing upon blessing ever since I come across your massage sir
    Thank you Jesus 🙌🙏
    Thank you apostle 🙏

  • @ChukwukaDivine-b3c
    @ChukwukaDivine-b3c 10 месяцев назад +2

    I'm addicted. God bless you sir

  • @Onyinyechukwupeaceofobuike
    @Onyinyechukwupeaceofobuike Месяц назад

    Thanks for be a blessing to the body

  • @The.PrettyBlessing
    @The.PrettyBlessing 9 месяцев назад +2

    This message is exceptional ❤ thank you Apostle

  • @jasmyncollins7294
    @jasmyncollins7294 10 месяцев назад +2

    This was healing and insightful. Thank you for wise, and compassionate men of God.

  • @ConstancehappyIdaghe
    @ConstancehappyIdaghe 8 месяцев назад +2

    My marriage is covered with the blood of Jesus

  • @heavenlynelsons1379
    @heavenlynelsons1379 9 месяцев назад

    This is deep❤. God bless you Sir

  • @edithashaju6512
    @edithashaju6512 8 месяцев назад +1

    Aah God, this message is for me... Please God help me

  • @giftynifah3542
    @giftynifah3542 11 месяцев назад +4

    Oh God this is so me 😭😭😭Am delivered in Jesus name

  • @EruvwuObuaya
    @EruvwuObuaya 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you so much for sharing these insights Pastor Femi. God bless you!

  • @olofintoyetemidayo
    @olofintoyetemidayo 14 дней назад

    Thank you Apostle

  • @monicadiegboh9339
    @monicadiegboh9339 9 месяцев назад

    Am blessed beyond measures today 🙏 May God bless you richly sir 😘 you hit the bottom am speechless omg 😮

  • @dan-jumbonengimarvy6000
    @dan-jumbonengimarvy6000 8 месяцев назад

    Lord this message is for me 😢😢😢. Thank you lord

  • @GideonInnocent
    @GideonInnocent 11 месяцев назад +5

    I am listening to this message asking myself when last i attended a wedding, i missed my sister's wedding this month also 😶

  • @phennyongonga6056
    @phennyongonga6056 10 месяцев назад

    This man reminds me of my late pastor daddy Adebayo 😢. I love your teachings more grace sir

  • @johnsonkenigua4216
    @johnsonkenigua4216 9 месяцев назад +2

    My home will be heaven on earth in Jesus name.....Amen

  • @glamlookbykem
    @glamlookbykem 8 месяцев назад +1

    This message is deep!

  • @felsyquarcoo
    @felsyquarcoo 8 месяцев назад +1

    I'm not alone,God has gone ahead of me to set it straight

  • @estherdamina7720
    @estherdamina7720 9 месяцев назад

    😢🙌🙏 blessed message. God bless you sir.

  • @Lex-World
    @Lex-World 11 месяцев назад +3

    Thank you man of God.. this was very inspiring

  • @thesonofalion3544
    @thesonofalion3544 9 месяцев назад

    God bless you for this enlightenment sir

  • @georginaagyapong8744
    @georginaagyapong8744 5 месяцев назад +1

    I will be married, and I will marry well 🙏 My home will be heaven on earth🙏 in Jesus name. AMEN!!!

  • @EzinneOgwo-Ude
    @EzinneOgwo-Ude 9 месяцев назад +5

    How can I get this pastor's official email. I can't believe how God is so intentional in helping and healing my mind with his messages. May God bless him.

  • @opeyemisamuel5530
    @opeyemisamuel5530 8 месяцев назад

    More Grace Sir

  • @abiolaalice9611
    @abiolaalice9611 9 месяцев назад

    No dey lie😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 in Apostle's voice

  • @brightsekoni
    @brightsekoni 10 месяцев назад +2

    God bless you Apostle ❤

  • @cecetaiwo3887
    @cecetaiwo3887 8 месяцев назад +3

    My children shall marry well.

  • @obileyeprecious9394
    @obileyeprecious9394 8 месяцев назад +1

    Thank God for grace, showing the graphics was too much

  • @lindaasante4263
    @lindaasante4263 7 месяцев назад

    my parents marriage was disaster , dad was cheating, mum got beaten by dad, mum drunk,poor home,nobody cares, i fell wrongly in love out of lack of love from home, i got married to an abuser with two kids, mhmm life haven't been fair. Lord help me out of this,i am transfering this pains in every relationship.

    • @Tolulope_Olaosebikan
      @Tolulope_Olaosebikan 5 месяцев назад

      I am so sorry, God will give you strength, he will flush out every pain with light and Joy
      God is with you through it, you will shine through Linda. You will shine through

  • @kachollom503
    @kachollom503 6 месяцев назад

    Ah God have mercy on us oh and help us. ❤❤❤❤

  • @miriamzange9474
    @miriamzange9474 10 месяцев назад +1

    My elder sister got married and got infected
    Also lost her husband through same infection
    Since then, I developed Gamophobia🤦🏾

  • @reubenchukwudobe2793
    @reubenchukwudobe2793 5 месяцев назад

    God bless you sir

  • @Fabbonbagay23
    @Fabbonbagay23 9 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you so much for this message. Will there be a lesson on how to repair marriages that are failing?

  • @beebeetea
    @beebeetea 10 месяцев назад

    I know someone who left her highly-paid job to move in with her husband in another city after the wedding - he wasn't earning as much and wasn't getting paid consistently .... years later what did the man do? Do not abandon the wife of your youth!

  • @TheresaBilonda-bf4fv
    @TheresaBilonda-bf4fv 4 месяца назад

    I will be married and I will marry well, my home will be heaven and earth in Jesus name amen 🙏

  • @wchappjumbo
    @wchappjumbo 11 месяцев назад +2

    Preach Sir… deep and thought provoking message 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @ihemekwelamdeborah7518
    @ihemekwelamdeborah7518 9 месяцев назад

    Thank you Jesus for deliverance

  • @AkinladeTobiloba
    @AkinladeTobiloba 10 месяцев назад

    God bless you for this sir 🙏🙏🙏..

  • @winfridahchibale5281
    @winfridahchibale5281 10 месяцев назад

    Am blessed by this message

  • @chiemelielilian335
    @chiemelielilian335 7 месяцев назад +1

    I will be married, and I will marry well
    My home will be heaven on earth.

  • @dwise1StreamingJoy
    @dwise1StreamingJoy 11 месяцев назад +4

    Deep truth ....please does he have a Bible school I can train in ?

  • @ritacareakum
    @ritacareakum 5 месяцев назад +1

    Ohhh thank you Lord

  • @akinrodoluemmanuelo.1273
    @akinrodoluemmanuelo.1273 9 месяцев назад

    God bless you sir.

  • @Charisablessing
    @Charisablessing 11 месяцев назад +1

    Timely message 😢

  • @sylviaodhiambo1936
    @sylviaodhiambo1936 3 месяца назад

    I shall marry well,my children shall marry well,my grandchildren shall marry well,my great grandchildren shall marry well

  • @desmondewemade4283
    @desmondewemade4283 9 месяцев назад +3

    I will be married and I will marry well

  • @maur7892
    @maur7892 11 месяцев назад +4

    1:04:23 directly speaks to me, i always have to push him to apply for opportunities. No personal initiative whatsoever. What's the best way to approach this?

    • @akinolasamuel2693
      @akinolasamuel2693 7 месяцев назад +2

      he will keep getting frustrated the more you push him, the best advice is to speak to a friend he trust to relate the opportunity with him.

  • @wema_merr
    @wema_merr 4 месяца назад

    I will be married and I will marry well. My home will be heaven on earth.

  • @itsallaboutjesus6111
    @itsallaboutjesus6111 3 дня назад

    word❤

  • @felsyquarcoo
    @felsyquarcoo 8 месяцев назад +3

    I will marry and marry right

  • @desmondewemade4283
    @desmondewemade4283 9 месяцев назад +3

    I am exempted in Jesus name

  • @AnthonyGloria
    @AnthonyGloria 10 месяцев назад +3

    Please what is the name of pst Lazarus church and is there a branch at ota

  • @ayomideojo-eleka2315
    @ayomideojo-eleka2315 12 дней назад

    I’ll be married and I will marry well

  • @Aduxrealty
    @Aduxrealty 7 месяцев назад

    Can we experience at least 50% of this culture shock in courtship ? Also, can we ask questions directly while courting ?

  • @owarietablessing7101
    @owarietablessing7101 6 месяцев назад +1

    I will marry and I will marry well

  • @ayomideojo-eleka2315
    @ayomideojo-eleka2315 12 дней назад

    My home will be heaven on earth

  • @EkopeneEsther-sk1vt
    @EkopeneEsther-sk1vt 9 месяцев назад

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @BigTems
    @BigTems 11 месяцев назад +3

    ❤❤❤

  • @sharonlelia1726
    @sharonlelia1726 11 месяцев назад +1

    Ameeen

  • @cecilandibanbang361
    @cecilandibanbang361 10 месяцев назад

    Thank you sir 🙏

  • @mefolerekehinde6014
    @mefolerekehinde6014 9 месяцев назад

    I am afraid

  • @perpetuadaniel8190
    @perpetuadaniel8190 2 месяца назад

    i will marry right 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @BlesynYvonne
    @BlesynYvonne 9 месяцев назад +1

    57:10 🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @OjoMichaelInspires
    @OjoMichaelInspires 11 месяцев назад +2

  • @akinola-idowudeborah3503
    @akinola-idowudeborah3503 10 месяцев назад

    My fear 😢

  • @queenadekunle9635
    @queenadekunle9635 11 месяцев назад +4

    Please how do I get the telegram link?