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  • Опубликовано: 25 окт 2024

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  • @abimbolaokunjobi-adetona4102
    @abimbolaokunjobi-adetona4102 9 месяцев назад +147

    Today is my first time listening to Pastor Femi Lazarus Sermon. Ayaaaaaa this is fire. My marriage will work in Jesus name

    • @BlessingAgomoh-mn7hb
      @BlessingAgomoh-mn7hb 9 месяцев назад +5

      Amen

    • @abrahamodusina
      @abrahamodusina 9 месяцев назад +2

      Welcome to the geng

    • @junekanini8626
      @junekanini8626 9 месяцев назад +4

      He is anointed to bring healing to many. He is a gift to the body of Christ

    • @martinsaide2634
      @martinsaide2634 9 месяцев назад +2

      Just got to listen to this man for the first time
      Thank you for coming through.
      True teacher ❤

    • @ifeyinwamuoghalu4167
      @ifeyinwamuoghalu4167 9 месяцев назад +3

      Your marriage will work who wants their marriage to fail sha dont die cuse of ma if its toxic

  • @Vickybelle92
    @Vickybelle92 9 месяцев назад +77

    I will be a praying wife.
    i shall be a good thing to my husband.
    I will pray!!!! My marriage will work.
    My marriage will stand.
    I put the thoughts of my marriage under the captivity of Jesus

  • @bukolaadeniji5962
    @bukolaadeniji5962 9 месяцев назад +16

    How i wish my husband could watch this message, my marriage will work in Jesus name. I can and i will through Jesus Christ that strengthen me. My home will blossom

  • @omoribakeikumoluyi9111
    @omoribakeikumoluyi9111 8 месяцев назад +7

    I am glad to hear a male Nigeria Pastor address the pandemic of the attack against men in out society. May I add that we "already" have women who have been over prepared for family life and have left our men behind. We have a long way to go, but thank God for male voices like this with elevated platforms. I pray that God's grace upon you will continue to increase, sir. My home shall be heaven on earth in Jesus name.

  • @ikeabakavivian5197
    @ikeabakavivian5197 8 месяцев назад +22

    This sermon made me realize that I have a lot of anger and grudge against my father,and made me realize that I need to heal

  • @olowookerekunle7936
    @olowookerekunle7936 9 месяцев назад +31

    My marriage is heaven on earth, now and forever more in Jesus Mighty Name

  • @joypwaspo5008
    @joypwaspo5008 9 месяцев назад +157

    My dad always apologises to us whenever he does something he feels we weren't happy about and he'll read the Bible in ephesians that parents too shouldn't make their children angry..i miss him.

    • @Ruthypurpose
      @Ruthypurpose 9 месяцев назад +3

      Wowwww....
      So beautiful

    • @joypwaspo5008
      @joypwaspo5008 9 месяцев назад

      @@Ruthypurpose thank you...

    • @joypwaspo5008
      @joypwaspo5008 9 месяцев назад +1

      it was indeed beautiful and something to emulate..

    • @frankogbeche5214
      @frankogbeche5214 8 месяцев назад +3

      Ur Dad is a great man

    • @joypwaspo5008
      @joypwaspo5008 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@frankogbeche5214 yes he was thank you...😊

  • @niffy002
    @niffy002 9 месяцев назад +37

    This message ended every fear in marriage, I now see now that my marriage will work and and it will be heaven on earth... Lord 🙏 I praise You in advance for this miracle 🙏❤️

  • @tolutoye02
    @tolutoye02 9 месяцев назад +7

    A Jesus Boy with a touch of Jarule😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂.God bless You Apostle for being a Blessing.

  • @sandraodighi8018
    @sandraodighi8018 9 месяцев назад +17

    I will marry well!
    I will be a praying wife!!
    I will be a praying mother!!!
    I will build my home on the word of God!!!

  • @OyakhiromeOnosenigbuan
    @OyakhiromeOnosenigbuan 9 месяцев назад +34

    Understand when times are changing
    Understand change in seasons
    Understand verbal and nonverbal communication.
    Build friendship.

    • @folukemamudu2239
      @folukemamudu2239 9 месяцев назад +1

      This your comment spoke to me. (Note this is came before I watched the video)

  • @amaechimirabel5538
    @amaechimirabel5538 9 месяцев назад +8

    I'm healed, my family is healed of every disfunctionality !!!

  • @OyakhiromeOnosenigbuan
    @OyakhiromeOnosenigbuan 9 месяцев назад +22

    PRAY O.
    Rebuild your family prayer altar and stop fighting yourselves.Fight the enemy.

  • @kingbmgable
    @kingbmgable 9 месяцев назад +9

    Friend zone is scary! It’s a legion empire cos we are manyyyy 😂😂😂😂 My G!!!!!! Bro Timothy 😂😂😂

  • @Purityadvocate
    @Purityadvocate 9 месяцев назад +9

    I’ll build my home strictly on the Word of God ❤🤲🧎🏻‍♀️
    My husband will be well enlightened about the female gender and marriage the-same way I will.
    We will walk with God…even when it gets tough, The Presence will be out help 🙇‍♀️🧎🏻‍♀️🤲

  • @ekpanrichard225
    @ekpanrichard225 8 месяцев назад +6

    I'm a home builder, I'm a priest, I'm a living husband 🎉

  • @cynthiaobianuju1966
    @cynthiaobianuju1966 9 месяцев назад +18

    A woman honors you when she can look up to you..I wish to follow the continuation of this message.
    Powerful bullet points !!!

  • @sandraosawe8718
    @sandraosawe8718 9 месяцев назад +23

    God bless you sir
    My marriage will win over every dis-functionality of our backgrounds
    My home will be heaven on earth
    I will not cause pain to my spouse
    I receive healing in my life, I am a love being
    Thank you sir for this series
    You have been a blessing to me
    More grace daddy

  • @abiolaalice9611
    @abiolaalice9611 9 месяцев назад +9

    "Singles we are praying for you"😂😂😂😂😂 Thank you for praying for us sir 🙏

  • @agnesowo5099
    @agnesowo5099 9 месяцев назад +3

    When you're listening to an interesting sermon, an hour never seem to be enough.
    The message got to the end but I was still expecting more.
    Bless you plenty Apostle, and may we all flourish when we find our true calling. Amen.

  • @kansiimesarah5043
    @kansiimesarah5043 9 месяцев назад +25

    Please let's not forget to stand in and partner with the expanding of the church if we have been really blessed

  • @oyattemi6172
    @oyattemi6172 8 месяцев назад +2

    It’s amazing how I realised I have not completely healed from past Traumas and popping in on RUclips I came across this message.

  • @rajistephen9020
    @rajistephen9020 9 месяцев назад +39

    "Find purpose before you propose"

  • @eshedania4375
    @eshedania4375 9 месяцев назад +13

    The quality of marriage depends on the quality of people in it and the quality of the people in the marriage depends on what they have learnt💥💥

  • @dorcasiyanujesu6954
    @dorcasiyanujesu6954 9 месяцев назад +25

    I will marry well in Jesus name. God will help me and I will help myself 🙏🏻

  • @jokegold4951
    @jokegold4951 7 месяцев назад

    My own Apostle ❤ you are a blessing ❤, nothing will ever bring you down 👇..
    More of God's wisdom.,this is 💯.
    I covet all

  • @Chioma3288-c4o
    @Chioma3288-c4o 9 месяцев назад +2

    Louder Sir!!!!! It doesn't make you less of a man to go far for your home. Omo! Pastor Lazarus you are preparing me for my husband. God bless you.

  • @ourdigitalprofessor
    @ourdigitalprofessor 9 месяцев назад +16

    *Pastor Lazarus* is confirming what I've been yarning for -there's an imbalance in the _"train the girl child"_ movement.

  • @abiolaoluwanifemi1654
    @abiolaoluwanifemi1654 9 месяцев назад +7

    Heavenly Father, I receive the man, the man who’s always in your presence, the man you’ve breathed in, and the man you have given an assignment to and am a suitable help to🙏🏾 amen

  • @obadanmary5791
    @obadanmary5791 9 месяцев назад +12

    This is my first time listening to pastor Femi and im stuck now 😊
    This message was timely

    • @Ogunsijit
      @Ogunsijit 9 месяцев назад +1

      Welcome to the family. I found him last month and I no dey commot. We die here!!

    • @obadanmary5791
      @obadanmary5791 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@Ogunsijit you get it!!

    • @beccadesignagency
      @beccadesignagency 9 месяцев назад

      Same here
      We die here😂😂

  • @ogwetejoshua3114
    @ogwetejoshua3114 8 месяцев назад +1

    Am from Uganda I love the wisdom and knowledge of the spirit you have that came out of the price you paid for your anointing am blessed coz of you

  • @MamcyDee
    @MamcyDee 7 месяцев назад

    Hallelujah my cup is overflowing in Grace. My marriage is corrected in Jesus name.

  • @mercychinwob
    @mercychinwob 9 месяцев назад +2

    Wow,I love your message Daddy, it give me life,and sound mind, holy ghost instruct me to follow your message during my end of last year personal retreat,and since then,wooow,it has been a blessing, I obey the holy ghost and no room to regret following you at all

  • @SamtheHealerofhiddenwounds
    @SamtheHealerofhiddenwounds 9 месяцев назад +1

    Apostle Femi Lazarus sir, I just respect and honour you so much . I respect your ministry so much. I don't even know why particularly but my heart is your compelled to honour you sir. Your ministry will continue to flourish and your heart is continually preserved. God bless you sir for all you do!
    You're truly a great blessing! A great blessing. It's not about this message sef, it's every message 🔥🔥🔥

  • @AmeduMaryjaneChiedozie
    @AmeduMaryjaneChiedozie 7 месяцев назад

    God bless you apostle for this timely message. I learnt a lot.

  • @jumokealao5066
    @jumokealao5066 9 месяцев назад +3

    Yesterday was my first time of listening to Apostle Femi Lazarus. I enjoy his teachings. More grace and anointing sir.

  • @victorenyo1070
    @victorenyo1070 9 месяцев назад +12

    What a time to be alive. I feel so blessed to have access all of the godly knowledge available on marriage now while I'm still single.

  • @oluwamuyiwaoreoluwa757
    @oluwamuyiwaoreoluwa757 8 месяцев назад +2

    I go to youtube, I was moved to search for Apostle Femi Lazarus, then I stumbled on trauma and marriage ....15mins after I started listening, Apostle said something that is my exact reality

  • @shaneilerussell5295
    @shaneilerussell5295 9 месяцев назад +10

    I can and I will keep a home. My home will be Heaven on Earth. Thank You Jesus for healing and wholeness

  • @onojighofiaelvis
    @onojighofiaelvis 6 месяцев назад

    This is my first time of listening to his massages and I was blessed

  • @doreenpearlbee2866
    @doreenpearlbee2866 9 месяцев назад +13

    it was an amazing time in GOD's presence yesterday with the wise words of Apostle Femi. God bless you more sir. Although i am single to stupor lol....... but i learnt a lot yesterday, i believe marriage is a beautiful institution and i am looking forward to mine.

    • @Shanediego443
      @Shanediego443 9 месяцев назад

      You are blessed my sister, can we be friends?

    • @doctor.chioma
      @doctor.chioma 9 месяцев назад +1

      Amen!
      I always say single women who have found Christ should praise God that they have the Spiritual maturity to seek a God fearing husband. Those who married without knowing Christ are stuck. By the mercy of God, you have escaped this problem because you know better. Praise God!

    • @QUICKENINGSPIRIT
      @QUICKENINGSPIRIT 9 месяцев назад +1

      Please is Apostle Femi in Abuja or Ibadan?

    • @mfoninyang4018
      @mfoninyang4018 9 месяцев назад

      @@QUICKENINGSPIRITabuja

  • @Ionie_B
    @Ionie_B 9 месяцев назад +28

    Don’t build your home on other people’s marriage,build it on the word 📖

  • @successfuljagaban193
    @successfuljagaban193 7 месяцев назад

    Nice teaching sir
    God bless you sir 😊🙏🏻

  • @GraceAdeyemi-tf4sh
    @GraceAdeyemi-tf4sh 9 месяцев назад +8

    Wonderful, how I am just listening to this on Spotify and came to view the part where couples were speaking words over each other, even though I'm single 😊

  • @nwoyeesther3866
    @nwoyeesther3866 4 месяца назад

    My marriage will work ijn Amen. I wish my husband will listen to this message too.

  • @eunicenshenda6341
    @eunicenshenda6341 9 месяцев назад +3

    Indeed entrance of the word brings light, thank you so much for this Apostle 🙌🏾

  • @IyanuoluwaAdeyeye
    @IyanuoluwaAdeyeye 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you Apostle for this timely message. God bless you

  • @missmiranda3579
    @missmiranda3579 7 месяцев назад

    God bless you Apostle and I celebrate Grace over your life 🙏🙏🙏

  • @PaulOlaleru
    @PaulOlaleru 9 месяцев назад +4

    I appreciate the realness of this message... such a sensitive subject which needs practicalities as being expressed by Apostle Femi Lazarus.

  • @manoniemoments
    @manoniemoments 9 месяцев назад +5

    “Get finance right. You can carry a cross Christ has not given you… There’s a way that you can just believe that it was Christ’s ordination for you to suffer.
    Once you believe that the devils says, ‘Fantastic, let’s bring the yokes.’
    And as long as the yokes are coming you’ll be saying thank You Jesus. I suffer for You.
    And Jesus is saying, ‘You are not taking all that I have for you.’ You are concluding wrongly.”

  • @ngwahyvonne3608
    @ngwahyvonne3608 9 месяцев назад +7

    These words are worth more than a thousand paid sessions from a counselor. Be blessed sir.

  • @SEUNNY2306
    @SEUNNY2306 9 месяцев назад +3

    Thank you so much sir for this powerful message. I pray that the oil on your head will not run dry in Jesus name.

  • @damyfeyi1928
    @damyfeyi1928 9 месяцев назад +1

    This is so beautiful, I thank God for your lives...Mine is coming ijn...congratulations!

  • @onojighofiaelvis
    @onojighofiaelvis 6 месяцев назад

    This is my time of listening to his massage and I was blessed

  • @helenakpan2057
    @helenakpan2057 9 месяцев назад +14

    I’m going through a trauma. I thank God for this message

    • @Adojipeniela
      @Adojipeniela 9 месяцев назад

      God bless your heart dear

    • @celestinamanyo
      @celestinamanyo 8 месяцев назад

      😅😊😅​@@Adojipeniela

    • @Adojipeniela
      @Adojipeniela 8 месяцев назад

      @@celestinamanyo yes?

  • @manoniemoments
    @manoniemoments 9 месяцев назад +10

    “Be careful of importing other people’s pain into your own life. Leave them with their experience. Let them learn their lesson. You follow God.”

  • @OyakhiromeOnosenigbuan
    @OyakhiromeOnosenigbuan 9 месяцев назад +8

    The investment of prayer gives you an Aura ❤❤

  • @estherukamaka3625
    @estherukamaka3625 9 месяцев назад +4

    I can keep a home and I will. The Holy Spirit is my strength

  • @salamiazeezat5203
    @salamiazeezat5203 9 месяцев назад +9

    My marriage will work in Jesus mighty name.Amen

  • @Sandy_ra
    @Sandy_ra 9 месяцев назад +2

    My marriage will work, my marriage is heaven on earth forever amen 🙏

  • @serahmasafwa9492
    @serahmasafwa9492 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you Lord for your timely word 🙌🙌

  • @ngwahyvonne3608
    @ngwahyvonne3608 9 месяцев назад

    Great pastor with great wisdom! More grace Sir.

  • @IdongesitOkokokn
    @IdongesitOkokokn Месяц назад

    Listening to this message give me hope and power to believe that I will marry right and Marry once at the right time someone son will treat me right as a choice not an option

  • @trini2dboneluv
    @trini2dboneluv 9 месяцев назад +1

    Blessed is the man who walks not in the counsel of the ungodly.

  • @OtitoyomiAfolajinmi
    @OtitoyomiAfolajinmi 9 месяцев назад

    More Grace sir, you will not run dry of Christ unction in Jesus name. Am refresh

  • @OyakhiromeOnosenigbuan
    @OyakhiromeOnosenigbuan 9 месяцев назад +48

    A woman HONOURS you when she sees she can look up to you.

    • @inspiringgirl1821
      @inspiringgirl1821 8 месяцев назад

      Omg ❤❤❤❤❤❤ thats a gem.

    • @keneo4920
      @keneo4920 7 месяцев назад +1

      The bible says honour all men (1 Peter 2:16). Admiration should not be a basis for honour.
      Honour and respect should not be conditional at all. This weird ideology was created by social media.

    • @keneo4920
      @keneo4920 7 месяцев назад +1

      The bible says honour all men (1 Peter 2:16). Admiration should not be a basis for honour.
      Honour and respect should not be conditional at all. This weird ideology was created by social media.

    • @SobanjoAjibola
      @SobanjoAjibola 3 месяца назад

      @@keneo4920 ‘Men’ here doesn’t mean the male gender, it means be respectful to all persons.

    • @obaduyitemitayo7804
      @obaduyitemitayo7804 23 дня назад

      It is more easier to honour a man that walks as a leader indeed. Same way it is for a man to love his wife that is submissive.
      He is not saying it should be the conditional.

  • @adedejiracheal541
    @adedejiracheal541 9 месяцев назад +4

    Always anticipating for your notification 😊 I'm addicted to your message, I can't wait to relocate to Abuja

  • @seipatiolisa741
    @seipatiolisa741 9 месяцев назад

    Femi Lazarus is blessed I am in shock with what I am learning. This manner of wisdom can only come from God.

  • @chetachisike3220
    @chetachisike3220 9 месяцев назад +1

    OMG!!!!!!! I love this mannnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn of God!!!!!!!!! Thank you so much for yielding to the call of God. God bless you so much Sir

  • @opeyemiadeosun8552
    @opeyemiadeosun8552 9 месяцев назад +1

    Apostle femi Lazarus, this has answered a long time questions in my life

  • @Memo-ij6oe
    @Memo-ij6oe 9 месяцев назад +5

    This message is timely thank you Apostle

  • @IdiabanaGodswill-xb1sv
    @IdiabanaGodswill-xb1sv 9 месяцев назад

    There’s always something to learn from every of your teachings.Thank you sir and God bless you.

  • @chiomanonyelum9409
    @chiomanonyelum9409 9 месяцев назад

    Thank you sir, the Spirit is one "Outsource".... I mentioned or rather thought about this fews days ago.... Because of issues that arises with omugwo things... Especially when parent don't consent to the marriage in the first instance. I'm glad to hear you say it here... Outsource!

  • @FlyChicTv
    @FlyChicTv 9 месяцев назад

    Great message first time watching , blessed this afternoon 🙏🏾

  • @AkingbemijoBoluwatife
    @AkingbemijoBoluwatife 9 месяцев назад

    God bless you so much Apostle 🙏
    More anointing on you sir
    I really love this preaching especially the introduction.....you sheld more light to marriage processes and say the fact!!
    It is not all about female gender because that's what the society talk more about, it is always about the female whereas the teaching and the nurturing the society ( elders in the church) gives suppose to be on both sides.
    God bless you for the preaching sir🙏

  • @mukkiejesusbaby7511
    @mukkiejesusbaby7511 9 месяцев назад +5

    This subject needs Q&A session. Hope this will be seen.

  • @DominicEzekielSopuruchukwu
    @DominicEzekielSopuruchukwu 9 месяцев назад +5

    THIS MAN IS A MAN GOD with a great experience.

  • @Ionie_B
    @Ionie_B 9 месяцев назад +6

    Be careful of importing other people’s pain into your life,leave them with their experience,let them learn their lessons.YOU follow God ok 👌 your mum’s pain was unique to her marriage,leave it there ok…👏👏👏👏Shield your Home 🙏

  • @iseghehiblessing-e5d
    @iseghehiblessing-e5d 9 месяцев назад

    Pastor you are a blessing to our world. God bless u sir

  • @rachelfamous4055
    @rachelfamous4055 9 месяцев назад +3

    This message is highly spiritual. Thank you sir

  • @joyayobami8831
    @joyayobami8831 9 месяцев назад +2

    Please pastor, talk about the deal breakers in marriage. Lot of people are going through alot. Just like the stories you said

  • @mummyt5297
    @mummyt5297 9 месяцев назад

    Thank you for this wonderful message. May God continue to refill you with wisdom ijn Amen 🙏 🙌

  • @na_naesi
    @na_naesi 4 месяца назад

    👏🏾Dont build your home on other people's marriages🙏🏾🔥 Build it on the word of God.

  • @ritacareakum
    @ritacareakum 5 месяцев назад

    Amen
    Thank you Jesus
    Thank you sir

  • @JanetAkor-o4g
    @JanetAkor-o4g 8 месяцев назад +1

    My marriage will work I pray we understand each other’s feelings and pain one day

  • @chiamakapeace3750
    @chiamakapeace3750 9 месяцев назад

    Amennnnn
    God bless you sir
    More Grace

  • @zainabekiye4078
    @zainabekiye4078 9 месяцев назад

    Apostle Femi is God sent!😭 Thank you sir🙏🏽❤️🙇🏻‍♀️

  • @harrietvico-korda2420
    @harrietvico-korda2420 9 месяцев назад

    You're such a blessing Apostle Femi Lazarus ❤

  • @nnolimfavour7194
    @nnolimfavour7194 8 месяцев назад

    Favour will keep a home❤. I am healed from the fear of a broken home

  • @harrietadjoa2
    @harrietadjoa2 4 месяца назад

    Fear will bring what is not existing...
    Fear is creative.

  • @mwesigebrian718
    @mwesigebrian718 9 месяцев назад

    Am following right but the message is superbly so interesting thank you so much

  • @ifeoluwafola7726
    @ifeoluwafola7726 9 месяцев назад +1

    @Pastor Femi Lazarus, following your analysis and the analogy of the man being in the garden first, does this also translate to a woman not marrying a younger guy? I would love you to shed more light on marrying younger guys/older ladies. Thank youuuuu.

  • @OyakhiromeOnosenigbuan
    @OyakhiromeOnosenigbuan 9 месяцев назад +3

    Check the person
    Don't rush.
    How does this person see life.
    How does this person process people.

  • @EmmanuellaIkechukwurah
    @EmmanuellaIkechukwurah 9 месяцев назад

    Pastor, Thank you so much. Every word blessed me

  • @abednegowakili624
    @abednegowakili624 9 месяцев назад

    So much great lessons learnt. Thank you sir

  • @ademayowaogunmola6492
    @ademayowaogunmola6492 4 месяца назад

    Thank you Pastor

  • @favourotusanya
    @favourotusanya 9 месяцев назад

    Thank you very much it was as if you knew my pain and im really grateful

  • @PsalmuelNino
    @PsalmuelNino 9 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you so much sir for the message,sir
    It's pointing to me directly....

  • @adeolaogundimu7021
    @adeolaogundimu7021 2 месяца назад

    Wooorrddd! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 it takes false Christians to raise false prophets! Being to lazy to pray.❤❤❤❤

  • @theresaigube5734
    @theresaigube5734 9 месяцев назад

    God bless you Sir for this revelation. God bless you Sir