as an ace person, thank you so much for addressing the weird questions ace and asexual people get about relationships. you're right you wouldn't ask that to a non straight person so why ask a person in the ace community. it's refreshing to relate so hard to someone when it's hard to find ace/asexuals offline. thank you for this video!
As a black aromantic asexual woman, thank you for this. I get SO tired of people constantly badgering me about my lack of a relationship life. And thinking I'll chaneg my mind despite me being the same way for the past 30 years. You are absolutely right that people would not question someone who is homosexual. It's irritating. Even more so when people use your accomplishments or looks against you because you're not sharing it with anyone. So thank you for taking the time to talk about it.
I feel like as an asexual we don’t have enough representation, not that I’m aware of anyway. I love finally knowing what I am. I have 3 kids so I worry people don’t understand my sexuality and guys think they can turn me. Im way happier I’ve been celibate over 5 years now and I’m happy to the rest of my life without a man 🎉🎉
oooh i’m the same i’m 24 zeroooo relationships and i’m quite certain that’s the way it’s gonna be for the rest of my life 🥴 i just have no desire to be in a relationship. side note, you’re gonna grow sooo fast on here i think the algorithm is in your favor!
Im so glad you shared your experience on asexuality. Rn im doing some questioning about my own sexuality so it was enlightening to hear about another person’s experiences on this subject.
people have to lay off you in terms of your asexuality! you’ve addressed it before time and time again, and people just need to get it isn’t going to change; like you said, you wouldn’t ask this to anyone else, I don’t know why people keep asking you about this instead of the wonderful other things you get up to !!!!!!!!
@@cocochinelo I'm not really familiar with your content tbh (I just subscribed today) 😂...but I'm glad you got your spunk back As a fellow asexual myself it's so refreshing to see you openly speak about it 🤍🖤💜 Anyways, I'm off to go binge watch your videos 🏃🏾♀️ ( I can't believe I didn't find your channel sooner ✨️)
As an asexual woman who ALWAYS gets the question, I'm so glad to see another ace woman stand their ground. I'm not fucking dating 😂 I'm 26 and never dated and have no desire to. Same as you no situationships or even guy friends either. I'm completely satisfied with my platonic relationships with other women. I don't need a male partner or a sexual relationship. A lot of people can't fathom that.
aww, I'm really glad you're posting again. I can't believe it's been over 4 years since I stumbled into your channel. Happy to see how much you've grown.
Just found your channel. I was wondering if RUclips was your full-time job, then you talked about med school which is very honorable. Also thank you for putting a little bit about yourself in the description box. I love when youtubers do that. I'm glad you said you weren't abused by a man. I know social media can cheapen dating and a lot of men get crazy so it's nice to hear you don't hate men in general.
I think asking if someone is still gay and asking if you have a boyfriend is a bad comparison since being gay is fixed that's just how you are forever and having a boyfriend can last a short or a long time. It can be a flexible varying thing.
I loved this video!! This is the first I've watched of yours in a while and I realized I've missed you!! I'm glad you're doing great, I will definitely be consistently tuning in :)
A breath of fresh air! Happy to have found you. I recognize your style in mine. I look very feminine at 5’2”/95 lbs and I love dressing like a tomboy but with a twist. I dress for me. Thank you for your videos. I don’t fo Tik Tok. It is a dangerous medium as they are brainwashing our youth with their heat button. Anyways I will follow you here. Been binge watching your content. Very impressed.
I’m glad you’re agnostic! Makes me wanna subscribe. Also are you aromantic too? Since you said you never want a relationship it seems like it. I’m lesbian and romantic and I understand feeling asexual cuz sometimes I wonder if I am.
omg I’m so happy I found your channel! just subbed :) I just graduated and planning on applying this cycle too. I also really love fashion and your personality!!! How are you balancing having a social platform and school? I’m interested starting a platform of some sort but scared I won’t be able to balance everything.
Ooooo if not studying abroad is one of your regrets you should see about medical universities that you can study at and be able to practice in the US :) You still got time ^^
Sagittarius ♐️ 😣 too but it’s a love hate thing we either get along like white once or its a fight to the death 😤 I have my best friend n little sister to thank for this realization 😅
Found your channel yesterday and watched that male and female gaze video. Based on that video I thought you might be lesbian since you seem to prefer female company more than men. Then I saw this video and your why I don't date video saying that your asexual. Also, you said all you know about men is what you read on the internet. Just remember to do research because what is said about men online is mostly negative.
I’m not a fan of fire or water signs at all. it’s a tie between Pisces ♓️ and Leos ♌️ Way too emotionally charged and don’t listen even when they ask you for advice 👎🏽 🙅🏽♀️ @theempress.v
It’s so reaffirming to know u don’t really hv guy friends because I swear everyone ik has guy friends but I’ve never had one (the last time I had one was when I was in 1st grade lmao) now I feel a little less left out haha 🫶😭
happy day 5 of 12 days of chinel-ho ho ho! ⁑ what's your least favorite zodiac sign??? lmaoooo
Probably Pisces tbh @_delsieadela_
I'm a Leo, so anyone who isn't one lol! @ezinne.odi
I have two 😅 Leos and Capricorns 🥴🥴🥴 they just don’t mesh well with us Cancers
@ittybittyizzie
My least favorite is Taurus @bellaesioma
Was gonna say none but a Libra once did me dirty so yeah I’m holding grudges @tolamamus
As a Black asexual young woman, this is reaffirming to see someone stand in their asexuality because its valid but not treated as such.
as an ace person, thank you so much for addressing the weird questions ace and asexual people get about relationships. you're right you wouldn't ask that to a non straight person so why ask a person in the ace community. it's refreshing to relate so hard to someone when it's hard to find ace/asexuals offline. thank you for this video!
no problem!
@@cocochinelo love your bangs as well makeup too.
Wait what’s the difference between ace and asexual?
@@kikialeaki1850nothing, ace is short for asexual
@@kikialeaki1850 ace is used as an umbrella term for the asexual/aromatic community as well as a phonetic shortening of asexual
As a black aromantic asexual woman, thank you for this. I get SO tired of people constantly badgering me about my lack of a relationship life. And thinking I'll chaneg my mind despite me being the same way for the past 30 years. You are absolutely right that people would not question someone who is homosexual. It's irritating. Even more so when people use your accomplishments or looks against you because you're not sharing it with anyone. So thank you for taking the time to talk about it.
honestly you being open about being asexual is refreshing
I feel like as an asexual we don’t have enough representation, not that I’m aware of anyway. I love finally knowing what I am. I have 3 kids so I worry people don’t understand my sexuality and guys think they can turn me. Im way happier I’ve been celibate over 5 years now and I’m happy to the rest of my life without a man 🎉🎉
med school was the best decision i made, wishing you the best with your application!
love what was said about people changing, changing doesnt have to be a bad thing👏
it's okay to change! we're human
oooh i’m the same i’m 24 zeroooo relationships and i’m quite certain that’s the way it’s gonna be for the rest of my life 🥴 i just have no desire to be in a relationship. side note, you’re gonna grow sooo fast on here i think the algorithm is in your favor!
Im so glad you shared your experience on asexuality. Rn im doing some questioning about my own sexuality so it was enlightening to hear about another person’s experiences on this subject.
people have to lay off you in terms of your asexuality! you’ve addressed it before time and time again, and people just need to get it isn’t going to change; like you said, you wouldn’t ask this to anyone else, I don’t know why people keep asking you about this instead of the wonderful other things you get up to !!!!!!!!
honestly i luv that ur being so real about everything and actually even just answering some of those hard questions like about a devorce♥
First time finding another black young asexual women ❤
I can't get over how stunning and real you are! New sub 🧡
I love how open you are ❤
aww thanks! i feel like i used to be open but then i got kind of reserved. happy to be back :)
@@cocochinelo I'm not really familiar with your content tbh (I just subscribed today) 😂...but I'm glad you got your spunk back
As a fellow asexual myself it's so refreshing to see you openly speak about it 🤍🖤💜
Anyways, I'm off to go binge watch your videos 🏃🏾♀️ ( I can't believe I didn't find your channel sooner ✨️)
As an asexual woman who ALWAYS gets the question, I'm so glad to see another ace woman stand their ground. I'm not fucking dating 😂 I'm 26 and never dated and have no desire to. Same as you no situationships or even guy friends either. I'm completely satisfied with my platonic relationships with other women. I don't need a male partner or a sexual relationship. A lot of people can't fathom that.
aww, I'm really glad you're posting again. I can't believe it's been over 4 years since I stumbled into your channel. Happy to see how much you've grown.
So happy to see you back on RUclips, I feel inspired to come back as well on here💜
you should!!!
Totally gonna do it cause I be thinking bout coming back every single time and talk bout it so much all the time.
And thank you really💜
love a good sit down vid, it’s giving old timessss
:))))
you are literally so real
just became a subscriber and I came from your male vs female gaze video! loved hearing your thoughts and excited for more vids to come:))))🎄🎄🎄🎄
Just found your channel. I was wondering if RUclips was your full-time job, then you talked about med school which is very honorable. Also thank you for putting a little bit about yourself in the description box. I love when youtubers do that. I'm glad you said you weren't abused by a man. I know social media can cheapen dating and a lot of men get crazy so it's nice to hear you don't hate men in general.
I think asking if someone is still gay and asking if you have a boyfriend is a bad comparison since being gay is fixed that's just how you are forever and having a boyfriend can last a short or a long time. It can be a flexible varying thing.
I missed you soo much! I am glad you're back chichi
Oh my God, a fellow asexual? I love you already. 💜🖤🤍🩶
I’m so happy you brang this back, it’s been FOREVERRR
i knowww! i'm so happy to be back
The mic definitely set the mood😍😍
You’re soo beautiful!! We need more black girls in stem
Omg I remember watching you back in 2019 when you used to make videos about your 4c hair and got your nosejob!
I loved this video!! This is the first I've watched of yours in a while and I realized I've missed you!! I'm glad you're doing great, I will definitely be consistently tuning in :)
A breath of fresh air! Happy to have found you. I recognize your style in mine. I look very feminine at 5’2”/95 lbs and I love dressing like a tomboy but with a twist. I dress for me. Thank you for your videos. I don’t fo Tik Tok. It is a dangerous medium as they are brainwashing our youth with their heat button. Anyways I will follow you here. Been binge watching your content. Very impressed.
Yessss, RUclips is def the superior app
I refound your channel again and I missed you sm! Glad to be watching you again
awww thanks for coming back
I’m glad you’re agnostic! Makes me wanna subscribe. Also are you aromantic too? Since you said you never want a relationship it seems like it. I’m lesbian and romantic and I understand feeling asexual cuz sometimes I wonder if I am.
your videos bring me life! thank you for this, I love getting to know you more
What’s the lip combo 😭😭it’s sooo good
Buddakan is really nice! Also love your videos chi chi. I’m from Philly and want to start going out more
omg I’m so happy I found your channel! just subbed :) I just graduated and planning on applying this cycle too. I also really love fashion and your personality!!! How are you balancing having a social platform and school? I’m interested starting a platform of some sort but scared I won’t be able to balance everything.
You're so mature. Thanks for sharing
what lip combo do you have on?! it's so beautiful!!!
Loveee your videos! ❤
glad you like them!
0:34 youtube has always been superior ❤
Ooooo if not studying abroad is one of your regrets you should see about medical universities that you can study at and be able to practice in the US :)
You still got time ^^
You are so pretty. All the best for graduating and getting into medicslal school!
im asexual too!!!
Ran here as fast as I could ❤
haha good because this is a good one
Sagittarius ♐️ 😣 too but it’s a love hate thing we either get along like white once or its a fight to the death 😤 I have my best friend n little sister to thank for this realization 😅
Wow,im so happy ur back❤❤❤
Aww i remember when you weren’t too pressed about having friends and was solo- love that you have a group of friends ❤❤
Girl the wig plugggg thanksssss
Off topic your face is so beautiful. Like how is that even possible. 😍😍😍.
I love the asexual representation!
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Love your vibe :D i'm new to the channel. So happy that i found it ☺
i prefer quality over quantity too
but change is so scaryyy😭
then are you both aromantic and asexual ? at least thats what it sounds to me (genuine question).
Found your channel yesterday and watched that male and female gaze video. Based on that video I thought you might be lesbian since you seem to prefer female company more than men. Then I saw this video and your why I don't date video saying that your asexual. Also, you said all you know about men is what you read on the internet. Just remember to do research because what is said about men online is mostly negative.
Great video 😊
thank you ✨🤍
can you share what microphone you are using?! 😇
Least favorite zodiac aquarius have definitely been most shisty in my experience 💯
I literally only read the title of the video and Omg are you okay?
wouldnt u be aroace not just asexual since u arent interested in rships either?
yes
How did you do your hair
The Good Guys are Rare so it’s very understandable
U look like kelly stamps!
🫶🏾
Gemini is my least favorite zodiac sign
Nah, you're just confused
nah you are
My least favorite zodaic sign might be Libras. I do not know I just never vibe with them as much! @francescakianaa
Least favorite would be Aquarius, only bc I don’t get their vibe 🤷🏽♀️😅 @hey_itstey
leo duhhh.... who else matters? @audreynguemo
My least favorite zodiac signs are Sagittarius and Aries. I'm an Aries but the men are terrible creatures lol
@Cierrakatherine_1
I feel like Taurus
eliza_oyetu
I’m not a fan of fire or water signs at all. it’s a tie between Pisces ♓️ and Leos ♌️ Way too emotionally charged and don’t listen even when they ask you for advice 👎🏽 🙅🏽♀️ @theempress.v
I love growing up with you 🤍 thank you for being so raw, I can’t help but sit and listen to you
Aquarius ♒️❤ @anaisveroniquee
The pisces men
@ ninagiselle3
virgos @baddgalerii
pisces @baddgalerii
How does one make friends after being outta schoooolll🥲
It’s so reaffirming to know u don’t really hv guy friends because I swear everyone ik has guy friends but I’ve never had one (the last time I had one was when I was in 1st grade lmao) now I feel a little less left out haha 🫶😭
cancer @llil.liv 💞
I feel like Taurus
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I feel like Taurus
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I feel like Taurus
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I feel like Taurus
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I feel like Taurus
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I feel like Taurus
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