MALE GAZE VS. FEMALE GAZE OUTFITS! WHICH ARE BETTER FOR YOU?

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  • Опубликовано: 23 янв 2024
  • #malegaze #femalegaze #dressingforthemalegaze #dressingforthefemalegaze #malegazeoutfits #femalegazeoutfit
    A B O U T T H E V I D E O
    heyyyy! continuing our conversation about the male gaze vs the female gaze, i wanted to elaborate on the outfits that the two entail.
    S O C I A L M E D I A
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    F A Q
    ➜ what’s your name? chinelo, but you can call me chichi
    ➜ how old are you? 22 (november 6th, 2001)
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Комментарии • 89

  • @Ginza92
    @Ginza92 6 месяцев назад +279

    Straight male here. I don't know if there's a word to describe someone that's attracted to both male and female gaze outfits, but you look gorgeous in any outfit.

    • @cocochinelo
      @cocochinelo  6 месяцев назад +99

      you are just a lover of all styles, and that’s great :)

  • @Camila-sc7wf
    @Camila-sc7wf 6 месяцев назад +480

    I thought your female gaze outfit in the last video was so cool, idc what people say😤

    • @cocochinelo
      @cocochinelo  6 месяцев назад +43

      aww thanks so much ✨🤍

    • @killkaisumi
      @killkaisumi 6 месяцев назад +18

      same like????

    • @Camila-sc7wf
      @Camila-sc7wf 6 месяцев назад +6

      @@cocochinelo You're welcome🤍

    • @r.a.y.a.n.a
      @r.a.y.a.n.a 6 месяцев назад +12

      It was it ateeeeee

    • @Tevs91
      @Tevs91 6 месяцев назад +7

      I liked it! I rock fits like that too

  • @gsanchez5116
    @gsanchez5116 5 месяцев назад +49

    “Maturing as a woman is realizing not everything has to be bodycon” FACTS 💯💯💯 I was around 17 when body con/insta models were just coming up and I did the whole go to gym, only glute and leg workouts, only tight very showy clothes in my closet. I’m now 23, I’ve accepted im still skinny and not curvy and that’s how I was made, and I now wear clothes that are baggy/cover up most of my body

  • @emilydenny5276
    @emilydenny5276 6 месяцев назад +82

    I'm 40 seconds in and girl whAAAAT, your "female gaze" outfit in your first video was TOP TIER (and exactly as you mentioned might have been the case, I might have been too in awe and intimidated by how cool you looked to compliment you directly)

  • @K.amrrnn
    @K.amrrnn 6 месяцев назад +167

    U should make this a series I really enjoy these type of videos!

    • @cocochinelo
      @cocochinelo  6 месяцев назад +13

      i am! so many more to come :)

  • @jadethegemme
    @jadethegemme 6 месяцев назад +91

    no cause your social experiment video acc inspired me to make a video analyzing my own outfits for the male/female gaze a few weeks ago similar to this one!! :) so glad to see you continuing this dialogue

    • @cocochinelo
      @cocochinelo  6 месяцев назад +6

      aww of course!

    • @BleahBleah-uk8yq
      @BleahBleah-uk8yq 6 месяцев назад +1

      Let us know how it goes, or post link to vid

    • @marvin2678
      @marvin2678 5 месяцев назад

      So you did Dress for men ?

  • @AyeshaNoelle
    @AyeshaNoelle 6 месяцев назад +46

    Love that you made another video! Crossing my fingers this is becoming a series 😍 I agree that the female gaze is about what you as a woman feel good about without worrying what others might say or think. I feel more comfortable in fitting clothes, with a boho touch, so love layering on top of body con clothes. Weirdly enough the streetwear baggy clothes feel more like I’m one with the boys, which makes me feel awkward.

    • @cocochinelo
      @cocochinelo  6 месяцев назад +4

      omg i love that style!

  • @bekaht3076
    @bekaht3076 6 месяцев назад +18

    OBSESSSSEDDDD with the female gaze fits esp with the second fit, the way it's body con but would kinda likeee throw men off with the baggy short and tall boot is DELICIOUS. the male gaze fits seem to appeal only to sexuality and female gaze fits seem to appeal to SO much more, maybe including sexuality but absolutely not limited to it

  • @thisislenard
    @thisislenard 6 месяцев назад +30

    your streetwear style is fkn amazing, love the baggy silhouettes! very creative

  • @alainasmalling1347
    @alainasmalling1347 6 месяцев назад +29

    i’m trying to be in my fashion era sm and ur saving me 🥹

  • @gracelotoaso
    @gracelotoaso 6 месяцев назад +19

    Personally…I LOVED YOUR FEMALE GAZE OUTFIT IN NOT JUST THIS VIDEO BUT YOUR FIRST MALE VS FEMALE GAZE VIDEO!!!! It actually inspired me to wear something similar not long after watching it coz I loooove baggy everything too!! If you think like your last video fLoPpEd then let me tell you girl IT DID NOT! Go offfffff!!!!!

  • @AmakaIntellectualFactory
    @AmakaIntellectualFactory 6 месяцев назад +17

    I absolutely LOOOVE you are revisiting this topic! For me, attraction goes beyond looks, although looks also play a crucial role. I have found that when I admire women, it is more of the feminine woman types. However, when a stud female exhibits a nurturing side to her, then that gets my attention. PLEASE CONTINUE TO REVISIT THIS TOPIC. I LOVE IT! YOU ROCK!😍❤

    • @cocochinelo
      @cocochinelo  6 месяцев назад +1

      aww thank you so much!

    • @AmakaIntellectualFactory
      @AmakaIntellectualFactory 6 месяцев назад

      @@cocochinelo My pleasure sweetheart. You are authentically you. I love it! 😘😍

  • @user-pz2vk3pf7c
    @user-pz2vk3pf7c 6 месяцев назад +4

    Bruh that last female gaze outfit was so freaking good I didn’t even expect that I would hear you say people didn’t like it

  • @Brookelyyn
    @Brookelyyn 6 месяцев назад +7

    I love all of the outfits u put on in these video and other’s videos in this series. You really inspire me to dress how i want to dress no matter what others think(lol this sounds corny but im so frr😭)

  • @shrutivedasarkar4504
    @shrutivedasarkar4504 5 месяцев назад +2

    Girl, I love your hopps😭

  • @user-cp5iy8gn1q
    @user-cp5iy8gn1q 4 месяца назад

    MAKE THIS A SERIES I LOVE ITTT

  • @rainniebee
    @rainniebee 6 месяцев назад +4

    i love love love the last outfit in this video, it’s so fun and definitely something i would wear

  • @serenacoke6929
    @serenacoke6929 6 месяцев назад +20

    I guess I’m a male then

  • @soleyaastra7099
    @soleyaastra7099 6 месяцев назад +2

    Female gaze outfit n°2 was GORGEOUS and definitely inspiring ❤

  • @celiajose2846
    @celiajose2846 5 месяцев назад +1

    You go girl….. I aspire to be comfortable in my own style like that..

  • @quessiabuhinja
    @quessiabuhinja 6 месяцев назад +3

    You look amazing as always!!😍😍😍😍

  • @alinesaes2573
    @alinesaes2573 6 месяцев назад +5

    Love that Chinelo means literally Flipflops here in Brasil 😂 also, loved the experiment and the video ❤

  • @DunDunDun45
    @DunDunDun45 6 месяцев назад

    Your outfits are nothing but inspiring. I really do aspire to dress like you

  • @lauren..12
    @lauren..12 Месяц назад

    girl ur outfits eat every time

  • @aysiareynolds9662
    @aysiareynolds9662 6 месяцев назад +6

    Second one, heyyy gurl 🥰

  • @user-wp4vs1ug6z
    @user-wp4vs1ug6z Месяц назад

    Omg i looooove your female gaze outfits. Totally going to recreate that last one. Can you do a video about how to style baggy streetwear? I'm gonna go to college next year, and I've heard how fashionable college kids are these days. I feel like my wardrobe is boring and totally need new inspo

  • @JesusChristisGodintheFlesh
    @JesusChristisGodintheFlesh 11 дней назад

    Love the first female gaze outfit ❤ I’d wear it

  • @silvanamanea7237
    @silvanamanea7237 4 месяца назад +1

    girl u are soo pretty coco jones's twin frrr

  • @LovelyLittleLillies
    @LovelyLittleLillies 4 месяца назад +3

    You might personally enjoy baggy clothes, but I wouldn't consider it female gaze to be frank. It's give more butch gaze, and only butch women or insecure women who also hide in baggy clothes would admire. Look #2 tgat you had for male gaze is what I personally (as a more girly girl) would typically imagine as a female gaze. Women still like and enjoy feminity in other women and doll-like aoperances (for example: admiring hair that's done and makeup). Female gaze is more like cute dresses like that one that have interesting and fun shapes. Thought it was short and thought it was a little hugging, I'd see it more as a female gaze dress bc of it's fun and fashionable style. Female gaze is typically girly-derived things like pink and glittery dresses, pretty miniskirts, ribbons in your hair, cherry, lips, and other fun fruits like strawberries motifs. Take Lana Del Rey for example and how she was big on those things, like red-heart-shaped sunglasses glasses. If you take note of Harley Quinn in birds of Prey, as it was noted, it's full on female gaze. That's why her hair is in cute pigtails and died pink at the ends. It's her fashionable cute outfits, including outfits that look fun. You can notice when a movie is centered on the female gaze, because fashion is more trendy and maybe to an extent "experimntsl" in the sense that male-gaze centered outfits are very bland: ou don't need much details in the cut of the dress, just do a badic strappy slip dress cut short, with cleave ge in one plain color and it's honestly enough. It's that simple.
    In your previous video you were getting complements on your male centered outfit bc the fur hat looked so cute and was definitely a female gaze piece, plus the combo of a form fitting jumpsuit with the fur hat looked really cute. But if you took off the hat it would be a standard male gaze outfit. Tho I'd still give you a compliment bc your body looked so good!
    Maybe the young generation is enjoying baggy silliouhettes of the current fashion trends, but the areay of mini skirts you had with the y2k trend is a better representation of female gaze. I think fashions and movies pre this decade did better job of portraying and revealing what the female gaze is.

    • @lucid_3938
      @lucid_3938 2 месяца назад +7

      Female gaze is personal, I feel like you missed the point

    • @missmoraaaa
      @missmoraaaa Месяц назад +2

      I’m not reading allat

  • @End-ve4du
    @End-ve4du 6 месяцев назад +3

    Yayyy❤ earlyy

  • @honeyywheat
    @honeyywheat 6 месяцев назад +3

    So where are those earrings from?! 😅 They fit every outfit

  • @user-rb1ww1uu8t
    @user-rb1ww1uu8t 6 месяцев назад +4

    Baggy baggy jeans - NCT U

    • @tlwwweee
      @tlwwweee 2 месяца назад

      Found my ppl

  • @marle102
    @marle102 2 месяца назад +1

    Hannah Montana was referencing Bjork’s swan dress at the 2001 Oscars

  • @Amagaisie
    @Amagaisie 6 месяцев назад +1

    Female gaze #2 😍

  • @BleahBleah-uk8yq
    @BleahBleah-uk8yq 6 месяцев назад +3

    If ur going to wear those outfits, csn u make analysis on ppl’s reaction to them, like in ur other video. I’m interested in what new insights u discover

  • @JesusChristisGodintheFlesh
    @JesusChristisGodintheFlesh 11 дней назад

    Every time the screen goes black I think my tv glitched 😂😂😂

  • @ellothereoldchapitsmeolivia
    @ellothereoldchapitsmeolivia Месяц назад

    Can you do a summer female vs male gaze video pleasssssssssssse 😅😅😅

  • @chyennetatum3541
    @chyennetatum3541 6 месяцев назад

    12:55 oooh why do we have the same life experiences 😂😭😭

  • @Mariajose-ry8pt
    @Mariajose-ry8pt 6 месяцев назад +5

    First one yaayyy

    • @cocochinelo
      @cocochinelo  6 месяцев назад +2

      congratz on being first!!

  • @MK-tm8oj
    @MK-tm8oj 6 месяцев назад +1

    Where’s the orange top from?

  • @killkaisumi
    @killkaisumi 6 месяцев назад +29

    the last outfit was too cute. im going to try and recreate

    • @cocochinelo
      @cocochinelo  6 месяцев назад +1

      omg i would love to see it!

  • @annamarie2496
    @annamarie2496 6 месяцев назад +1

    The outfit of the white strapless dress and black long Bermuda shorts with the high boots was honestly iconic. I loved how honest and raw you were about how it was personal to you and it reminded you of your childhood. The 2000s Disney fashion! I felt that deep! You rocked it 1000000% better than all of them! You’re right fashion is for you for us to express ourselves! I just found you and I love you. I heard you when you said you wanted to come to Miami. I am in not even 2 hours away, let’s be friends!

  • @Lnyc14
    @Lnyc14 5 месяцев назад

    What about the original shop of the jumper dress 😭 pls

  • @ma.9029
    @ma.9029 Месяц назад

    I really want to dress strictly to the female gaze, causa i don’t want no male attention, but i love very feminine outfits like mirror palais. :( I’m not sure what to do

  • @googleyoflolz9930
    @googleyoflolz9930 2 месяца назад +1

    Was prob men who said the female gaze outfit was ugly 💀

  • @Lnyc14
    @Lnyc14 5 месяцев назад +2

    BRO WHAT!!! The female gaze outfit was so fliping beautiful omggg the baggy trousers with the white boots and the jacket over the shirt ugh is was amazing! They just have rlly bad taste and no sense of fashion

  • @donscarfa777
    @donscarfa777 28 дней назад

    I was about to comment about skin being the thing that attracts male eyes until you Flats yourself and my eyes immediately went to your thighs

  • @kittyp121
    @kittyp121 5 месяцев назад

    How can I dress for the male gaze when I'm fat? The only thing I like to show is cleavage or shoulders. I have my own style that I really love, I'm more a dark romantik type, always wear long skirts and dresses, velvet, lace, ruffles, accessoiries, hats. But I don't like that I always seem to be invisible for men. I don't want to die alone.

  • @marvin2678
    @marvin2678 5 месяцев назад

    So youre saying most women dress for men ?

  • @ChrissyFraser
    @ChrissyFraser 6 месяцев назад +2

    I’m so glad that you knew that second female gaze outfit was trash. I love you and I’m not saying that you can’t pair dress with pants but just don’t go out in that outfit that you put on. There’s a way to do it just not that cause as a woman I wouldn’t even approach you because I’d be like what the heck does she have on versus the other the other female gaze outfit I would definitely wear those or even approach you to ask you where you got them from but that second outfit I would avoid you like the black plague

    • @cocochinelo
      @cocochinelo  6 месяцев назад +17

      life is not about being approached. it’s about doing what makes you happy regardless of people’s opinions. will be wearing that outfit out today, but thank you for your feedback ✨🤍

    • @maryamasomewhathuman.7870
      @maryamasomewhathuman.7870 6 месяцев назад +4

      ​@@cocochineloyou're literally the sweetest girl

    • @lw5820
      @lw5820 6 месяцев назад +2

      I mean who said she wants to be approached tho😭

    • @tfg-oq2sc
      @tfg-oq2sc 6 месяцев назад +1

      You didn't need to use that many words to say u don't like it... just move on, no need to be rude. I like the outfit, I would wear it without a hat

    • @ChrissyFraser
      @ChrissyFraser 6 месяцев назад

      @@tfg-oq2sc so then you wouldn’t wear that outfit if you feel like you need to alter it in order to make it fit you and if I wanted to write a page essay I can y’all be saying anything cute just cause. Some things are ugly and that’s fine

  • @crisvis8905
    @crisvis8905 2 месяца назад

    The term "male gaze" isn't about a man looking at you. And there is no such thing about male or female gaze outfits. I really shouldn't have to mansplain this to a woman 💀

  • @jessicaEgo
    @jessicaEgo 6 месяцев назад

    I need that hair tutorial