💗Disclaimer: I in no way think I’ve mastered self love and confidence lol I actually think I have a long way to go but I’ve grown over the years and feel like I’d love to share how I overcame self hate in a society that wants me to hate myself so bad💗 I think there should even be a part two lol I hope you enjoy 💗
The thing about high schools putting people in boxes in terms of beauty is so real and has unlocked soooo many memories🥴🥴. It's so weird how it was actually perceived as normal
Oh my God Kabarak destroyed my confidence because I am on the slim side and guys laughed at me once, I never removed that oversized jumper again. I will also never forget being called ugly by a guy in class because I stood up for myself when he verbally abused me. It has taken me so much work to start loving myself again since I left and came to the states. Thank you for creating this safe space Temina ❤️
Oh no I can imagine how much that would've impacted your self love and even your ability to stand up for yourself. I hate that it happened to you I think that school has a long way to go in terms of unlearning or rather teaching unlearning to students. I hope your path to self love is getting easier ❤❤
Oh no I can imagine how much that would've impacted your self love and even your ability to stand up for yourself. I hate that it happened to you I think that school has a long way to go in terms of unlearning or rather teaching unlearning to students. I hope your path to self love is getting easier ❤❤
In a society that is constantly signaling to us that we should feel bad about ourselves, it's a radical rebellion to foster a high level of self love. This was a great video!
You hit so many amazing points in this video 🙌🏿 I totally relate to struggling to manoeuvre the beauty hierarchy and feeling the need to shrink myself. Am still a long way on my self-love and confidence journey, but am happy with how far I have come.
This was beautiful. Please keep having more of these conversations over here. Self-confidence is such a long slow journey and I have just started building my own confidence. Its not easy but its very possible
Exactly! I don't think there's ever a time I'll comfortably express that I've reached the peak of my self love journey but I always celebrate the growth.
Exactly! I don't think there's ever a time I'll comfortably express that I've reached the peak of my self love journey but I always celebrate the growth.
I have watched this video till the end and all I can say is thanks alot 🙏 ❤ #self confidence is all we need, self love too 🤗can't wait for another one ❤
Exactly tems!! ..I don't get it when people say you're doing too much..just imgn if we were all the same .. like we did what society told us 🙄the world would be so boring...I want to see different people ..diff fashion styles, different hairstyles makeup, shoes , Jewellery...It defines us people in a beautiful unique way ..and nobody should try to fit that in standards..but oops this world is cruel ... but with such tips😩step by step.. I'm getting comfortable in my own skin and who I am😄❤️great video 💯💅💖
Exactly like we shouldn't want to be less cause of other people, and why should other people be able to dictate what we can and can't be? Who gave them that power? and why should we give them such power in our lives? I want to see how different we are cause I know we are not on earth to be carbon copies of each other 💗
The society contributes to self hate that's true but it hurts the most when it comes from family. Especially when they always pick out things in your body and weight telling you how to look. Having your parents or relatives who find it funny to always make jokes about your weight and find nothing wrong in laughing it off is just so disrespectful , more so the fact that they are older and need to be role models. I came to realise that at the end of the day its just them projecting their insecurities but it still takes alot to brush off those comments on a dailiy basis because its not all the time we are in good vibes and have strenght to brush it off.
Yes I believe the family is a clear projection of society in a way that is closer to each one of us and that's what makes it hard to ignore. The thing is society has normalized these comments of people dictating their opinions on people's bodies and how they should look and what not which makes family members think it is more than okay to comment on these things. I stand on the fact that we have a lot of unlearning to do as a society but sadly I don't know where we can begin. Maybe we can start by being the change we want to see in our family settings and hopefully this will reflect a change in our future families.
💗Disclaimer: I in no way think I’ve mastered self love and confidence lol I actually think I have a long way to go but I’ve grown over the years and feel like I’d love to share how I overcame self hate in a society that wants me to hate myself so bad💗 I think there should even be a part two lol I hope you enjoy 💗
There should definitely be a Part 2💯💯❤️
I think it’s been a tough self love journey for every woman in a world filled with negativity. Also I LOVE the ginger hair color on you! 💜
I t really has its actually kinda sad and thankyou ❤❤
The thing about high schools putting people in boxes in terms of beauty is so real and has unlocked soooo many memories🥴🥴. It's so weird how it was actually perceived as normal
This is what really destroyed me
Like why did they all want us to think the same and look the same so bad its very weird how it was normalized
Oh my God Kabarak destroyed my confidence because I am on the slim side and guys laughed at me once, I never removed that oversized jumper again. I will also never forget being called ugly by a guy in class because I stood up for myself when he verbally abused me. It has taken me so much work to start loving myself again since I left and came to the states. Thank you for creating this safe space Temina ❤️
Oh no I can imagine how much that would've impacted your self love and even your ability to stand up for yourself. I hate that it happened to you I think that school has a long way to go in terms of unlearning or rather teaching unlearning to students. I hope your path to self love is getting easier ❤❤
Oh no I can imagine how much that would've impacted your self love and even your ability to stand up for yourself. I hate that it happened to you I think that school has a long way to go in terms of unlearning or rather teaching unlearning to students. I hope your path to self love is getting easier ❤❤
I've literally never been more obsessed with a Vlog on self love by a fellow Kenyan. ❤️
Awww thankyou!!!
You gained a new follower😊
Who else loves the outfit ❤️ Temina is my fashion icon in Kenya 🥰
Ugggh thankyou!💗
In a society that is constantly signaling to us that we should feel bad about ourselves, it's a radical rebellion to foster a high level of self love. This was a great video!
Exactly, We're basically rebels for refusing to hate ourselves and that's how messed up the world is or rather the society is. ❤❤
More sit downs please. This is inspiring
Thankyou and yes I want to do so many sit downs 💗
You hit so many amazing points in this video 🙌🏿 I totally relate to struggling to manoeuvre the beauty hierarchy and feeling the need to shrink myself. Am still a long way on my self-love and confidence journey, but am happy with how far I have come.
I'm so happy you've even started the self journey, I rerally think that just making the start is really amazing. Sending you lots of love 💗💗
This was beautiful. Please keep having more of these conversations over here. Self-confidence is such a long slow journey and I have just started building my own confidence. Its not easy but its very possible
Exactly! I don't think there's ever a time I'll comfortably express that I've reached the peak of my self love journey but I always celebrate the growth.
Exactly! I don't think there's ever a time I'll comfortably express that I've reached the peak of my self love journey but I always celebrate the growth.
I have literally downloaded this video. It is so beautifuly said and quite timely. Thanks Temina! :))
Awwww that makes me so happy!
This is so wholesome and true ✨ love it !
Awwww thankyou ❤
Temina is SO BEAUTIFUL OH MY!
i loved this so much and i definitely agree with your takes😊💗
Thankyou I love that you do 💗💗
❤❤❤❤This!
Self love is an everyday journey for me.
Literally me too 💗
Love love this! ❤There's so much to learn❤
Awwww thankyou we should definitely talk more on here
Well said Temina. We need to be having more conversations like this . Very insightful . Love from Zimbabwe 🇿🇼
Thankyou so much and I definitely agree💗
I totally can relate to this episode 100% am also excited to see you back in youtube
Awwww thanks for watching, excited to be back ❤
I really loved this video Temina!!!❤
I'm looking forward to more of these
Awwwww thankyou and yesss I have so many topics written down I can't wait ❤
Awwwww thankyou and yesss I have so many topics written down I can't wait ❤💗
Dang !! I'm loving this 😍
Thankyou!💗
I have watched this video till the end and all I can say is thanks alot 🙏 ❤ #self confidence is all we need, self love too 🤗can't wait for another one ❤
It's literally such an important part of growing up that I feel should be emphasized more ❤
But she's very pretty 🥺 watching this for the second time ☺️
Awwww thankyou!💗
I love your energy 💕
This is officially part of my morning routine (the best part😊)….thank you so much for this Temina, I’m looking forward to more talks❤️
Awwwww that literally makes me so so happy I can't even explain 🥺
Exactly tems!! ..I don't get it when people say you're doing too much..just imgn if we were all the same .. like we did what society told us 🙄the world would be so boring...I want to see different people ..diff fashion styles, different hairstyles makeup, shoes , Jewellery...It defines us people in a beautiful unique way ..and nobody should try to fit that in standards..but oops this world is cruel ... but with such tips😩step by step.. I'm getting comfortable in my own skin and who I am😄❤️great video 💯💅💖
Exactly like we shouldn't want to be less cause of other people, and why should other people be able to dictate what we can and can't be? Who gave them that power? and why should we give them such power in our lives? I want to see how different we are cause I know we are not on earth to be carbon copies of each other 💗
Girl , why are you me?Down to the Hubba Bubba.(Still my fav chewing gum to date) This video is so timely. Thank you for sharing this :)
Hahahaha I;m so glad you relate so strongly lol, thankyou for watching 💗
that was lit.....
Thankyou ❤
Very important conversation Thankyou for sharing with us❤
You're welcome and anytime 💗
Thank you, firstly, and secondly, I'd like to know here can I purchase the cards? I've tried looking for it but I can't get it.
Wisdom 💯
Subscribed already
Awwwww thankyou 💗
Where did you get the wig from??
Yeah, more people should see this👏🏿
Awwww thankyou ❤
Yeeeeyy first one😍
Yessss love the energy ❤️❤️🥰
Your pretty 🔥
Kindly do the most 😊,loved it
More of this🔥🔥
Yesss I love that you loved it
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Right on time. 💜💜💜
Love how early you are 😭❤️
I love love Trinity!!!
Me too!💖
We want podcasts now ♥️🔥
Hahahaha I could have a whole playlist of these talks honestly and yes maybe a podcast could work too.
Absolutely lovely ♡♡♡
Thankyou 💗
Never been this early💃 Love from Uganda
Awww sending so much love 💞💞
I really needed this
Im so glad 🥺💗
Such conversations 💯💯
I'm glad you enjoyed this 💗
Hi did you dye your hair...n if you did what dye did you use...please....it looks so pretty
Hey I didn't its actually a wig
Yo you should definitely dye it ginger....it looks so good on you girl .....i was thinking of dyeing mine ginger too thats why i was asking.😊
The society contributes to self hate that's true but it hurts the most when it comes from family. Especially when they always pick out things in your body and weight telling you how to look. Having your parents or relatives who find it funny to always make jokes about your weight and find nothing wrong in laughing it off is just so disrespectful , more so the fact that they are older and need to be role models. I came to realise that at the end of the day its just them projecting their insecurities but it still takes alot to brush off those comments on a dailiy basis because its not all the time we are in good vibes and have strenght to brush it off.
Yes I believe the family is a clear projection of society in a way that is closer to each one of us and that's what makes it hard to ignore. The thing is society has normalized these comments of people dictating their opinions on people's bodies and how they should look and what not which makes family members think it is more than okay to comment on these things. I stand on the fact that we have a lot of unlearning to do as a society but sadly I don't know where we can begin. Maybe we can start by being the change we want to see in our family settings and hopefully this will reflect a change in our future families.
Lowkey triggering 😭 but I can’t stop watching. There there Diana, We’ll get there some day….some day
I know right? lol it triggered me too just talking about it. Don't worry baby steps ❤
Weird but, I really like your dental formula
Awwww thankyou 💗☺