Yes, I unfortunately have experienced the same issue, in Norway of all places. As if we dnt have sects & groups of mentionless ppl is dark such as scientology & Mason's to name a few. My dad used to be a part of from he was just 17y old when he experienced a special interest in him, by another elderly Mason man. Introduced my papa into Masonry, it took him down a very dark & strange place. And IDK a lot but some abt Masons but their very interconnected & protected in any community obviously. I grew up in what looked very privileged home, and it was physically, looking past the SA NARC abuse etc.,my pa was much like uncle Scrooge type of man .. We did look good on the outside, we had a big house & yea we were wealthy My papa is the first millionaire in my fam, but it means everything to my fam members $$$ is all I'm the only 1who knows what is true welth & the greater currency is compared to $$$ My children are taught by them to stay antagonistic towards me bcs of it of course, I'm the scapegoat the black sheep, although now their the sheeple of us sadly Sad as a mother especially 😢 yet it's my truth, i dnt stay in their negative energies but keep them all at a vaste distance. I DNT keep my enemies close to me. I think it's very unwise to do so. Hate is 2toxic 2be invited by me, I learned that early on in life ❤ thx Andrew
Hey, I just want you to know if you need to take a break a lot of us will be right here waiting for your triumphant return. (Yes, I did indeed watch all the way to the end of the video!) So please consider your mental health and take time off if you need to. Hell, you're going to need at least a few days off for that wedding whenever that happens! I know RUclips can be rather punishing when an upload schedule is interrupted, but there are ways around that. Take care of yourself, because I want to see the many years of excellent videos to come!
My husband bought me a 23and me test for Christmas last year and I finally did it. Backstory, my grandma was a genealogy whizz before computers and everything we use now and I saw that we had alot of Jewish sounding last names in the family tree. I asked my grandma if our family was originally Jewish but somewhere down the line we changed religions. At first she just outright told me no but later on she admitted she wondered the same thing and her father who actually died the day I was born told her no. Now I know you can never go off of looks but my grandma looked Jewish. She had dark hair, olive to tan skin and her facial features resembled many of the characteristics I saw of my Jewish friends parents and grandparents. Fast forward to now and I wish my grandma was here bc I am Ashkenazi Jewish per the 23 and me test and it is definitely inherited from my grandma as my cousins on that side of the family are Ashkenazi Jewish too. I wonder what relative left Judaism and why? I also wonder were we hasidic, orthodox.....I wonder if someone married in and did not disclose their background and took on the religion of their spouse. So many questions that are lost with time and I will never know. I only bring this up as who knows what my life could have been if one person would have made a different decision.
I too am Chavi. Not her. But a woman who went through what she did. I had my 11 year old daughter kidnapped by my own siblings after leaving the hasidic community in 2015… and I’m in London. This is worldwide. Thank you for sharing your story. You are a true inspiration ❤
@@brucelevine6517 And telling from your comment, you are the best human being in this universe. How can you have a brain and a heart and not use them ??!! People like you make me lose faith in humanity.
Very proud of Chavie and her courage. My great grandfather (9 times over) founded the chassidim in the 1700's so I understand the world she lived in well. There are crushing complexities involved. Footsteps is a wonderful program and does great work for her and so many others.
I've watched the first video you've done with her so I'm glad we have an update. I'm so incredibly happy for her and her children. She is insanely brave and strong. I have such immense respect and appreciation for her. Oh, I have to add- I think Chavie is a fantastic mum. She's raising her kids in an amazing way. They are so lucky to have her. Also for you, Andrew. You're talking about such important topics. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. Greetings from Croatia P.S. I would really appreciate if you could update us on what's happening with Jacob. He is so young, yet so brave. I'm just worried about him...
She's engaged to a MAN 😂😂😂 I swear these feminists kill me. She destroyed her marriage and now she's gonna go back to a man because you can't fight Allah's biology. A woman is NOTHING without a man in her life. We don't need women but they need us. And she doesn't even wanna work. Typical modern woman wants it both ways. Pathetic.
I watch every interview with Chavie that comes up. I love how self-aware she is - all the 'I don't know', 'I'm still figuring out', etc. Very inspiring way to be.
Great intellectual discussion. Chavie Weisberger could edify the world at large with her eloquent and intelligent knowledge of the Chassidic community/religion. She is compassionate, compelling, highly knowledgeable and easy to listen to. Kudos to this really great activist.
A judge in family court can do anything! I was told where I could live. If I tried to live a few miles from there then I would automatically lose my children. Their father could live wherever he wanted. Women who- fight- in a divorce case, are considered uppity or confrontational, a big negative. I do not live in the Deep South, but sort of close. It is worse for women here. We need to be obedient and sweet and not make waves.
I know someone who this happened to in a mountain town in California. There was literally no work in the area, so once her husband left and she needed to work to support herself, she couldn't and so her and her kids were living in extreme poverty until they were grown. He was a lawyer and kept lying about his income and how much support he could provide. Her ex husband was using lawfare against her. The same judge keeping her in the small town, awarded custody of a boy with Downs Syndrome to the father after the mother said that the boy was terrified of his father because he was violent. His rationale was that she was obviously brainwashing the child against his father. She eventually got him back after the father beat the boy so badly he needed hospital treatment (broken bones, the lot) and CPS got involved. No consequences for the evil Family judge who facilitated it of course.
There are unregulated Hasidic schools in London, where students spend 12 hours a day in religious learning. Some students have left, they can't speak English, have no education, can't read or write, know nothing of maths, the sciences & are unable to function in modern society. The Hasidics do this to tie the kids to the community & ensure they stay there.
Really interesting comment about beauty standards. I remember when Frida Vizel interviewed Pearl (a Hasidic grandmother) on her channel, Pearl mentioned in passing how it's difficult to pull off a simple kerchief as a woman if you don't have a naturally beautiful face and bone structure, which is partly why she chooses to wear a wig. It makes me wonder if there are married Hasidic women who choose a kerchief over a wig not necessarily out of piety, but as a display of attractiveness?
Andrew ought to interview Pearl - if he wants perspective at all. Pearl is a lovely Hasidic woman who is happy and fulfilled in her Orthodox Jewish faith, but he only seems to want to accentuate the negatives (which align with his atheism).
the negatives? Abuse, coercion don't ever speak of such negative things! I'm so glad more people are speaking up about abuse period! Uall are like the Catholic ped O priests who were sent around to abuse others instead of kicked out for being evil. And you alll! Worship man, not god. predators who become religious authorities got it the easiest of all. Bowed down to while destroying individuals
0:12: 💔 Javi Weisberger, a former member of the Hasidic community, shares her journey of leaving her religious community, coming out as queer, and fighting for custody of her children. 6:39: 😔 The speaker discusses the power dynamics and struggles within the Hasidic Jewish community, including issues related to custody battles, religious practices, and LGBTQ+ acceptance. 13:07: 🤔 The speaker discusses the challenges of fitting into a traditional belief system and the lack of opportunities for those who don't conform. 18:48: 👥 The speaker discusses the importance of parenting in different ways and finding meaningful ways to mark time in a secular world. 24:49: 😔 The speaker was unhappy in her arranged marriage and feels disconnected from her family. 30:19: 🗣 Leaving a religious community and rebuilding a new world is a challenging process, but finding new communities and aspects of identity can help. 36:09: ✨ Leaving a religious community and adjusting to a new culture can be challenging, but there are resources available to support individuals in their journey. 42:10: 🌈 The speaker is currently on a paid sabbatical and is involved in meaningful work supporting vulnerable individuals, particularly in the LGBTQ community. 48:51: 🌈 Javier is proud of their children who have thrived and found their own identities, while they themselves have found clarity and comfort in their own journey. 55:40: 🗣 Abby Weisberger discusses the importance of fixing issues in our own lives and the potential harm of misguided help in distant communities. Recap by Tammy AI
14:30 Turning on electric light during Shabbat is prohibited. Rules like this and the Muslim insistance on women wearing head coverings just prove how controlling religion is.
Thank you for writing Muslim and not Islam. Believe it or not, Muslims and Islam are at opposite ends. Muslims have deviated from Islam from as early as the day prophet Muhammad became ill and was about to die. Muslims came up with a religion that’s more or less like the previous religions, the very religions that Islam came to correct. But people are people.They worship control and their own ego,, It’s very hard to find a genuine Muslim who truly follow the Quran, the word of Allah, these days. Even though they all memorize the Quran by heart!!
That's why not everybody is made to live like this, but only those who chose. Some people do not find this controlling, you would be surprised how many live a peaceful and fulfilling in these communities. Nothing is controlling if your serve your God, not for many.
She has been through so much but she isn´t bitter at all, never trashing anyone or anything. What a kind, smart, wonderful woman she is! I feel inspired.
I disagree. I sense a vindictiveness and a desire to tear down her family’s faith - or maybe faith in general. LGBTQ generally hates anything to do with religion. Atheism is the god of narcissists.
It is heartbreaking that you have lost your sister Chasi. 💔 The repercussion for them may make it very difficult to openly embrace you. Prayers for you and for them
Very good. When I first saw her, i thought oi vey, but listening to her speak, she is impressive and well spoken, unfortunately still naive about ever changing the Chasidic community.
Something is wrong here. A New York court does not take away children just because the mother is a lesbian. It is VERY difficult for a mother to lose custody if she provides a safe home for the child. The court especially does not like to change the status quo. Usually something is happening like in her “exploration” the woman is bringing in a parade of overnight strangers, partying, drugs, exposing children to adult sexual material, etc. Independent to and unrelated to her sexuality she could be made to share custody with a father who comes back into a child’s life especially if the man now has a stable family. That’s not a punishment to her that is in the best interest of the child. She said in passing she only got them three nights a week that sounds like joint custody not lost custody. No way children in NY of all places get taken away from a safe, stable home just because the mother is a lesbian.
Glad you noticed that hole in her story. Most of what she said makes no sense including how she manages to make a living.It's sad that a person with this many problems capitalizes on her story to become a media darling and celebrity. Feel bad for her kid who has no contact at all with her ex husband.
She says hers was a landmark case so I assume what she said happened. Get a bad judge- there are plenty of bad judges- you get a bad result. It’s ridiculous to state that no bad or unfair decisions are made by US courts- there was a whole doco on Netflix recently “take care of Maya” that exposes failings in the family court system.
I don't know why this was in my feed BUT I have to say this woman has and IS doing all the work and whoever the interviewer is needs to just listen more. I LOVE how many times she corrected him, lol. Take the lesson, Andrew. ;)
It would be awesome to see you interview Daat Emet, he's a former head of a kolel and now an atheist activist. His english is pretty bad but he would love to talk about what haredi jews actually believe.
That's the name of the organization, the dude who went atheist is Yaron Yadan, had not heard of them before, thanks for mentioning it so that I could research it
I saw her documentary years ago and I admire her fortitude and her utter stubbornness to not be apologetic about who she was, what she was going through, and that she was being discriminated against for the ideal situation of a "status quo" type of mentality. And that mentality is horseshit when it comes to a cult type of "status quo". I don't know if that made sense, but to me all of these types of communities are cults, doesn't matter what they believe or why they formed, they are cults, period and to have backing from a court that is suppose to help mainly the children in these situations is utterly baffling to me. How can you back a cult mentality? Speaking of conspiracy theories, George Carlin did an interview and he talked about how conspiracies are not just all wack jobs talking about lizard people, it's that all the " higher ups" know each other and everything they do is to benefit themselves and their "friends" and everyone else gets the scraps. He said it more eloquently than I just paraphrased here, but look it up, it's a compelling interview. Anyways, great interview Andrew. I love Chavie so much and I hope she and her children are happy and healthy today. Love to you, Chavie and my fellow humans 💕🥰🤗🥂🦄🌈🍭💜💞🤘🥳
27:26 just because you weren't happy doesn't mean that they are not happy, almost every hasidic guy is happy that they are who they are, why are you pushing this narrative that it's not good for them?
The Jewish community she is from is a fundamentalist sect. So this would not be a good interview to learn about how most Jews live in the US, just the fundamentalists.
Fat shaming!? That surprises me. Also tge emphasis on looks surprises me that a religious community would be shallow like that. But we are all human afterall.
This is interesting to me in the more general sense that this fundamentalist community tried to tell this person that their life experiences and thoughts were not authentic. I see that all the time from a more secular but culturally Jewish background where religious extremists from multiple religions, and even some people who deem themselves not very religious, try to label my experiences and beliefs as not being authentic, like say when I point out that certain words and behaviors are antisemitic. We're seeing a lot of that now in more moderate and secular Jewish communities being attacked by antisemitic people trying to unauthenticated our existence. I'm not trying to say my experiences were anywhere near as rough or extreme as this person's were, just that a lot of people discount others on account of religion.
most of the hasidic sad stories I've heard come from people that have left the Monsie community, is there a difference of doctrine between Monsie, Williamsburgh and Boro Park?
@@daisyalice77to be specific there are two communities, a community was divided because the Satmars leaders sons fought, I remember seeing footage of New Jersey state troopers at a gravesite separating the two of them from fighting, it was bizarre
I am Jewish, vegetarian, smoker, non Democrat (yes, I voted for Trump), artistically and creativly, gay (not queer, not LGBTQAIA.......). My question. Why di you find it necessary to address the world by your 'queer' lifestyle every third sentence? If someone finds out I'm gay, fine. I don't wear a queer nametag insisting that my lifestyle is somehow more meaningful than theirs. If you move into the world of lesbianism, you have only laterally moved from the cult of Hasidim to the cult of queerness. There's no evolution going on there. I'm a 70 yr old male. If there's one thing I've learned in this non-redemptive world, it's that the world is made out out of cults, and those that break out find themselves hopelessly isolated, bitter, and cynical. Just mentioning. Live your life as you wish, but there will always be consequences
Nowhere in the Talmud or Torah does it say that voting for a FASCIST PIG like TRUMP is a good thing! Pigs are NOT KOSHER, especially disgusting FASCIST PIGS like TRUMP! Let it be never forgotten that the FASCISTS who ruled Germany in 1933-1945 were the worst enemies Jewish people ever had and the same is true about present day FASCISTS such as TRUMP! That is why it’s such a shame to see Jewish people supporting TRUMP!
@@nigelmarshallkenyonabbott8684 “I am Jewish vegetarian smoker non democrat gay”. Why did you feel the need to preface your message with this and then slam Chavie for “addressing the world by your queer lifestyle every third sentence”? The contradiction is ironic.
@@diaryofanotdgirl Because I don't go through life identifying my personal lifestyle and immediately creating questionable personas as to where I am in lif. When I meet people, I make the determinationas to what personal they will get about me and when. Simply put, I don't introduce myself as 'Hi, I'm _______and you must know what my lifestyle is as soon as you meet me. I have relatives and friends that I still haven't told I'm gay and frankly, it's none of their busines unless I decide to make it so. Over time, people will either speculate or be informed about my personal life.
Hi Andrew. This is a brave lady. Life has been tough for her but she kept going. Fancy losing custody of children who needed her. And she got them back! This sort of person is what might make me subscribe. Important work and opposite to Wooton and Sussex's irrelevancy. Keep it up. Please do something on Andrew Tate. We need to work out if he is bad or harmless. You can help with that. I'm not sure. Cheers.
Hi Andrew, I see a lot of your content is Jewish based and specifically focuses on the ultra orthodox community. I think it would be very interesting to talk with someone in the community who deals with the sexual abuse, cover ups, and other terrible things done to people. Someone who is in that community and can speak against it but also explain the positive and beautiful aspects of religion. Also the fact that many Jews are living happy, fulfilling, and loving lives with their families. That isn’t to say that some families aren’t sick and abusive. But you have that in every culture. Anyway this rabbis name is Rabbi YY Jacobson. I recommend that would be a interesting and enlightening conversation and he would be able to shed some light on many of the things you discuss in your videos.
@@myopinions1 in that case she's showing herself up as a charlatan.So she cheated??? Lured her poor religious, unsuspecting husband into marrying her? Haha, the plot thickens eh? She better be careful what she says. I find it interesting how the story changes with time!
As a Messianic Jew “On The Edge” with my Hasidic community: I’m in the closet with Christ, or rather I have placed Christ in the closet for a while - until the right time comes up where I can discuss with Rabbi all of the scriptural evidence that demands a verdict - all of the prophesies that have stamped Christ throughout the Old Testament. I know when I “come out” I will get THROWN OUT, but I am prepared for that moment. What people don’t understand is that the true Messiah can and will change the human heart to make it loving where there was hate. Where there was envy, lust, and unbelief, one can find peace, patience and faith. When I listen to stories like this: I usually think, well good for them. They did something that took a lot of courage and belief in their own values. I just can’t see the good and virtue in going from a belief in Almighty God (and living like their is one) to atheism. And, if atheists do not believe in God: why do they even bother to say his name, especially when they are dying? I look at it this way: IF I AM WRONG, I WILL HAVE LOST NOTHING. I WILL SIMPLY FALL ONTO THE PLATFORM THAT THE ATHEISTS HAVE BUILT, BUT IF THEY ARE WRONG, THEY HAVE LOST EVERYTHING!
How Sad. "Let's Get Biblical" with Rabbi TOVIA SINGER is essential for you. There are NO Prophecies or Foreshadowings in Torah. Jews know how to read their OWN Scripture in THEIR OWN language. Don't you know BIBLICAL HEBREW? The KJV is GREEK. Don't be a KAPO. Or you might like Jews For Judaism. Have a debate with TOVIA SINGER first to prove that you are right and a JEWISH Scholar who KNOWS the New Testament and Old in and out is incorrect.
No love like Christian Hate. We are to love God, in that way we are Loved. Why don't you feel loved? The Nag Hammadi shows that The Gospel of Thomas was removed from the Apocrypha, the CATHOLIC Bible, written in GREEK. Read about Martin Luther's Antisemitic Pamphlet and the History of the ROMAN EMPIRE. Is your internet in the closet too?
I don't believe that you are a Jew at all... I believe that you are in a CULT and are simply CHRISTIAN. Every Jewish Critical Thinking Jew knows the book of ISAIAH and they are reading the Biblical Hebrew, so they know why Jews don't accept Human Sacrifice and Idolatry. They know why JOSHUA (Jesus) did not meet the requirements of Moschiach. There were many Messiahs, all of them were the Jewish Prophets: Moses, Jeremiah, Isaiah, Daniel, Zechariah, Malachai, etc. Trying to Gain A WEAK JEW by Deception certaintly falls in line with the ethics of your PAULINIAN CULT. Shame on you. Once you become a Christian, you are no longer Jewish. You can't be a Hindu Mormon. You must choose ONE. Judaism and Christianity have different Eschatological beliefs and texts. Isaiah belongs to Jews and is not about Joshua (Jesus). You need a Rebbe who knows The New Testament inside and out and has been through Yeshiva. TOVIA to the rescue!🚸🕵️🎯
Umm her so called family cares more about superstitious bull than her is what u mean. She should care more about herself than people who condemn her and don't accept her. I'm glad she does I hope these stories inspire other people in cultish religious abuse to leave
@alisonmercer5946 wrong. She should care more about gd and keeping his laws than herself. We are not created to be selfish. It says in the ten commandments to honor gd to honor the sabbath and to honor your parents. It never says to honor yourself.
Check your leaders know what you believe and why, how will we know when we are being abused in the name of anyone or any thing. It’s on the individual to do their homework.
Why divorcing parents throw their sexuality in their kids faces will be unfathomable to me until the day I die. I remember back in 1984 like it was today sitting at Williams pub in uptown Minneapolis with some friends having breakfast watching a table nearby where two men and three children were sitting. the children were uncomfortable and the men were affectionate with each other. eventually I overheard that one of the men was the father of the children and had come to breakfast with his boyfriend. 10 years earlier I remember feeling uncomfortable as my father brought a date on one of his custodial visits, all kids want is parental normalcy, don't add adult themes to that and you'll do less wrong.
Wow this blows my mind that this could have happened in modern day. We have really let the LGBTQ community down thinking we advanced and were all accepting once marriage laws changed and being gay was normalized.
Chavi you are very great looking the great looks is a present from God you do not have to chasidish you must keep gods law there are many good Jews who follow gods law and are not chasidish
I don't know much about your guest but there is more to the story than is being told. In New York State, custody of the children is almost automatically given to the wife unless it is demonstrated that she is an unfit parent. This is a very high bar for that definition. Then she states that she fought and fought to get her children back but has not spoken at all to her husband in years. So that her children don't seem to have any connection with their father. I sounds like a very self centered way of looking at your life.
@alg11297. Totally not what you're thinking, I think.The community she left has access to large amounts of money and uses that funding to hire top lawyers to fight single mothers who try to leave the fold and 'save' the children by giving custody to the 'righteous' fathers.Its very corrupt and all kinds of tactics are used to get the kids.
This is not true for the jurisdictions I know of. The status quo is maintained to ensure that the children’s day to day lives, which they are used to, are not disrupted. So if the Hasidic way was their ‘normal’ the judge would likely not be as inclined to uproot the kids and overhaul what they were used to by sending them to mum. I practiced family law briefly but will qualify that I was in a totally different jurisdiction.
@@torontotsts8218 We're still getting less than 10% of the story which is why she is so vague about everything. To give custody to a father you would have to prove the mother was an "unfit mother" and detrimental to the welfare of the children. She wasn't even given joint custody so this was pretty bad. She doesn't seem too stable even in this interview. It's amazing how people can use their children's unfortunate circumstances to create a cause of their own. How is this not a self-centered person's narcissistic attitude? It's really hard to have an respect for a person like this.
Anyone negatively criticising "The Sound of Freedom" needs to follow all these stories until they know just how endemic sexual abuse is. We are a horrifically long way from equality.
Andrew for goodness sake … you must read the plot of a shakespearian work before going to watch it , But even my kids have watched it without and although they didn’t understand each word , they did get the main meaning out of the play. By the way you can watch Shakespeare 10 times and there are always new things to notice!!! I hope you were 😮exaggerating !
What a shame there are so many judgmental people in this world who would boil down an entire human's existence to the color of their hair... it's really absurd. You really think hair color is a marker of mental capacity or moral aptitude?? What a sad way to navigate the world. Normally wouldn't comment on a video like this seeing what has already been said, I feel I must stand for some sense of reason! Whatever happened to the old saying... don't judge a book by its cover... and maybe try some critical thinking too while you're at it ;))) Peace and Love to you all!
Yeeeeahhh.You are judgemental too!! Would you trust a doctor with dirty clothing? We all automatically judge.Well....if you have a functioning brain at least .
I judge and discriminate constantly, if someone is wearing a face diaper near me I want nothing to do with them, add colored hair and they're like radioactive, when others broadcast their stupidity to the world my receptors are on and I avoid them like the woke virtue signalers that they are
13:51 yes it's forbidden in the torah which is to be guy especially for a guy, and it's not a problem if you want to be secular but we are not going to except you as a jew it's very understanding
Please pardon my ignorance….. How does it work if a woman is unable to get pregnant or has fertility issues?? What happens then? Or are fertility issues almost nonexistent due to no years and years of birth control?
Children are not toys. I grew up in a society of broken marriages with the exception of my dear parents. Kids would shelter at our house; there would be at least three kids at breakfast. That taught me well how raise my own child. Once you have them they're with you until adulthood despite your desire to abandon yourself to hedonism and experimentation. Then you can run about 'discovering' yourself afterwards knowing that. Despite the fact that you've transitioned into, a lesbian-dog, multi-organed Seksiboi, or whatermahavyew, it won't get them beaten and tortured in the playground on a daily basis. Think on it.
If God would not have made that in nature there would not people in the world think about it a woman in her front part is a vat of b and the back side is a vat of s but the man want to go between the womens feet
I fully support Chavie's choice to leave and live as she wants to, but her story is incoherent in one way: She believes in her right as a parent to be herself and raise her children according to her own values, truth and ideology. But then she criticizes her own parents for doing the exact same thing "to" her. If her parents are guilty of "brainwashing" her with "their" views, then she's guilty of the same thing because she has embraced western Feminist and gender ideology. Those are instructive worldviews with beliefs and absolutes exactly the same as a religious world view. She feels the father's religion would have "harmed" her kids. Okay. But he believes that her ideology will "harm" his kids. So...?? She's literally doing the exact same thing that she's criticizing but in a different reality. There is no fact that she's "right" and what she left is "wrong." It's all opinion and culture... so essentially she's arrogant. "I will control how my kids are raised and what they are exposed to, but it's wrong when my parents did it." Hypocrite.
She is dead weong. The law is very clesr sbout it and its o ly fair: if you got married and decided with your husband thst your future joint children will be raised a certain wsy, the one who lesves that wsy cannt claom to raisd them. Si ce its like breaching a contract. You chose to change yoyr own religion,but cant take along the kids with you on this ride
Why can't she take her kids with her? We are not a Cult.Sorry but this crappy marriage set up does often not work for people.The attitude of our community is appalling.Be honest.The chassidish men, actually the Litvish frummers are equally unpleasant need to revise their behaviour.I know what all this is like even though I look absolutely nothing like the protagonist on here. Time to be really honest with ourselves!
@@pdubbzloves6205 typos as result of fast typing does not mean "can't spell ", my comment was very clear and spelled correctly, it is crystal clear that the typos therein are typos only, such as "weong" instead of wRong, since the letters "e" and "r" are right next to each other on the keyboard, and so forth! Your reply was a typical reply of a demagogue who can't face the true facts presented, and hence is trying to find under the rug false excuses to "disprove" the true proven correct facts!
How should this woman raise children when she is a child herself in a new world she have no clue about? Raisi f children while finding out who she is?!?
I completely understand where she is coming from. Someone that I used to work for the people that I was working for they tried to convert me to being Jewish and I refused to be converted to their religion
Sorry, but you got the wrong religion. Judaism does NOT proselytize. Ever! We actually give people that show interest in the religion, a very hard time.
Of all the things that never happened. Try approaching an actual orthodox rabbi with a conversion request not making assumptions about what your boss may have said.
You can convert to Judism but it is a long involved process that takes tons of study and commitment. Jews don't go around trying to covert people to Judism it is not a thing.
So your still in a cult don't lie and say kids are traumatized kids don't give two fucks about adults and there business. Go back to living a lie in your twisted religion
If the children are traumatized by her coming out I would imagine they have bigger issues. There are many people who are part of the LGBTQ+ community in this big world.
@@paulamacdonald7070 They have their own communities and they don't live in this big defenerate world, Paula.Don't expect all to be polluted with this.
She's still pretty but what's is it to you? You fucking her? I highly doubt she cares about what some fat loser on RUclips with a anime picture thinks about her looks.
Can you believe how religious sects try to take children away from people who leave? Hit the like, and comment below.
Yes, I unfortunately have experienced the same issue, in Norway of all places. As if we dnt have sects & groups of mentionless ppl is dark such as scientology & Mason's to name a few. My dad used to be a part of from he was just 17y old when he experienced a special interest in him, by another elderly Mason man. Introduced my papa into Masonry, it took him down a very dark & strange place. And IDK a lot but some abt Masons but their very interconnected & protected in any community obviously. I grew up in what looked very privileged home, and it was physically, looking past the SA NARC abuse etc.,my pa was much like uncle Scrooge type of man ..
We did look good on the outside, we had a big house & yea we were wealthy
My papa is the first millionaire in my fam, but it means everything to my fam members $$$ is all
I'm the only 1who knows what is true welth & the greater currency is compared to $$$
My children are taught by them to stay antagonistic towards me bcs of it of course, I'm the scapegoat the black sheep, although now their the sheeple of us sadly
Sad as a mother especially 😢 yet it's my truth, i dnt stay in their negative energies but keep them all at a vaste distance. I DNT keep my enemies close to me. I think it's very unwise to do so. Hate is 2toxic 2be invited by me, I learned that early on in life ❤ thx Andrew
thank you for this great interview. Fantastic and eye-opening subject.
They feel they are “protecting” the children but in the long run it’s damaging and traumatic.
Hey, I just want you to know if you need to take a break a lot of us will be right here waiting for your triumphant return. (Yes, I did indeed watch all the way to the end of the video!) So please consider your mental health and take time off if you need to. Hell, you're going to need at least a few days off for that wedding whenever that happens! I know RUclips can be rather punishing when an upload schedule is interrupted, but there are ways around that. Take care of yourself, because I want to see the many years of excellent videos to come!
She said she had her kids 3 nights a week. That's joint custody. That's usually the case in a divorce. Am I wrong here?
Great interview. She's such a lovely genuine person. 😀
My husband bought me a 23and me test for Christmas last year and I finally did it. Backstory, my grandma was a genealogy whizz before computers and everything we use now and I saw that we had alot of Jewish sounding last names in the family tree. I asked my grandma if our family was originally Jewish but somewhere down the line we changed religions. At first she just outright told me no but later on she admitted she wondered the same thing and her father who actually died the day I was born told her no. Now I know you can never go off of looks but my grandma looked Jewish. She had dark hair, olive to tan skin and her facial features resembled many of the characteristics I saw of my Jewish friends parents and grandparents. Fast forward to now and I wish my grandma was here bc I am Ashkenazi Jewish per the 23 and me test and it is definitely inherited from my grandma as my cousins on that side of the family are Ashkenazi Jewish too. I wonder what relative left Judaism and why? I also wonder were we hasidic, orthodox.....I wonder if someone married in and did not disclose their background and took on the religion of their spouse. So many questions that are lost with time and I will never know. I only bring this up as who knows what my life could have been if one person would have made a different decision.
I too am Chavi. Not her. But a woman who went through what she did. I had my 11 year old daughter kidnapped by my own siblings after leaving the hasidic community in 2015… and I’m in London. This is worldwide. Thank you for sharing your story. You are a true inspiration ❤
I love your name!
thank G-d your siblings took your children you were selfish and not a good mother
@@brucelevine6517 And telling from your comment, you are the best human being in this universe. How can you have a brain and a heart and not use them ??!! People like you make me lose faith in humanity.
@@brucelevine6517how horrible and judgemental.
Very proud of Chavie and her courage. My great grandfather (9 times over) founded the chassidim in the 1700's so I understand the world she lived in well. There are crushing complexities involved. Footsteps is a wonderful program and does great work for her and so many others.
I've watched the first video you've done with her so I'm glad we have an update.
I'm so incredibly happy for her and her children.
She is insanely brave and strong.
I have such immense respect and appreciation for her. Oh, I have to add- I think Chavie is a fantastic mum. She's raising her kids in an amazing way. They are so lucky to have her.
Also for you, Andrew. You're talking about such important topics. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
Greetings from Croatia
P.S. I would really appreciate if you could update us on what's happening with Jacob. He is so young, yet so brave. I'm just worried about him...
She's engaged to a MAN 😂😂😂 I swear these feminists kill me. She destroyed her marriage and now she's gonna go back to a man because you can't fight Allah's biology. A woman is NOTHING without a man in her life. We don't need women but they need us. And she doesn't even wanna work. Typical modern woman wants it both ways. Pathetic.
I watch every interview with Chavie that comes up. I love how self-aware she is - all the 'I don't know', 'I'm still figuring out', etc. Very inspiring way to be.
What a beautiful person. Dealing with her own trauma but still being kind towards her former community and understanding everyones own experience. ❤
I hope her kids are safe and away from her. She has clear mental issues
Great intellectual discussion. Chavie Weisberger could edify the world at large with her eloquent and intelligent knowledge of the Chassidic community/religion. She is compassionate, compelling, highly knowledgeable and easy to listen to. Kudos to this really great activist.
A judge in family court can do anything! I was told where I could live. If I tried to live a few miles from there then I would automatically lose my children. Their father could live wherever he wanted. Women who- fight- in a divorce case, are considered uppity or confrontational, a big negative. I do not live in the Deep South, but sort of close. It is worse for women here. We need to be obedient and sweet and not make waves.
What are you doing to your children? Lol
Oh god. Join Scientology and live life to the fullest
It actually sounds from your story like the judge is protecting the children from being moved.
@@niemand262 Because it's child abuse to move house when you have kids? You have some strange ideas!
I know someone who this happened to in a mountain town in California. There was literally no work in the area, so once her husband left and she needed to work to support herself, she couldn't and so her and her kids were living in extreme poverty until they were grown. He was a lawyer and kept lying about his income and how much support he could provide. Her ex husband was using lawfare against her.
The same judge keeping her in the small town, awarded custody of a boy with Downs Syndrome to the father after the mother said that the boy was terrified of his father because he was violent. His rationale was that she was obviously brainwashing the child against his father. She eventually got him back after the father beat the boy so badly he needed hospital treatment (broken bones, the lot) and CPS got involved. No consequences for the evil Family judge who facilitated it of course.
Lovely interview, thank you for sharing.
Lots of people take kids away sadly regardless of their religion 😕
There are unregulated Hasidic schools in London, where students spend 12 hours a day in religious learning. Some students have left, they can't speak English, have no education, can't read or write, know nothing of maths, the sciences & are unable to function in modern society. The Hasidics do this to tie the kids to the community & ensure they stay there.
Based
How would that be allowed by the State !
This women is an antisemetic
@@BlackStump172 who cares
That's Child Abuse.
Listening to this woman is so educational (for me, who is not religious at all) and enjoyable. Thank very much ❤🔯
Really interesting comment about beauty standards. I remember when Frida Vizel interviewed Pearl (a Hasidic grandmother) on her channel, Pearl mentioned in passing how it's difficult to pull off a simple kerchief as a woman if you don't have a naturally beautiful face and bone structure, which is partly why she chooses to wear a wig. It makes me wonder if there are married Hasidic women who choose a kerchief over a wig not necessarily out of piety, but as a display of attractiveness?
Probably many, sadly
Andrew ought to interview Pearl - if he wants perspective at all. Pearl is a lovely Hasidic woman who is happy and fulfilled in her Orthodox Jewish faith, but he only seems to want to accentuate the negatives (which align with his atheism).
the negatives? Abuse, coercion don't ever speak of such negative things! I'm so glad more people are speaking up about abuse period! Uall are like the Catholic ped O priests who were sent around to abuse others instead of kicked out for being evil. And you alll! Worship man, not god. predators who become religious authorities got it the easiest of all. Bowed down to while destroying individuals
@tamararutland-mills9530 o.k.,I'm glad I read your comment.
@@tamararutland-mills9530She'd have him back in shul before he knew it!😂
Such a pleasure seeing Chavi again. Great talk. Thank you both!
0:12: 💔 Javi Weisberger, a former member of the Hasidic community, shares her journey of leaving her religious community, coming out as queer, and fighting for custody of her children.
6:39: 😔 The speaker discusses the power dynamics and struggles within the Hasidic Jewish community, including issues related to custody battles, religious practices, and LGBTQ+ acceptance.
13:07: 🤔 The speaker discusses the challenges of fitting into a traditional belief system and the lack of opportunities for those who don't conform.
18:48: 👥 The speaker discusses the importance of parenting in different ways and finding meaningful ways to mark time in a secular world.
24:49: 😔 The speaker was unhappy in her arranged marriage and feels disconnected from her family.
30:19: 🗣 Leaving a religious community and rebuilding a new world is a challenging process, but finding new communities and aspects of identity can help.
36:09: ✨ Leaving a religious community and adjusting to a new culture can be challenging, but there are resources available to support individuals in their journey.
42:10: 🌈 The speaker is currently on a paid sabbatical and is involved in meaningful work supporting vulnerable individuals, particularly in the LGBTQ community.
48:51: 🌈 Javier is proud of their children who have thrived and found their own identities, while they themselves have found clarity and comfort in their own journey.
55:40: 🗣 Abby Weisberger discusses the importance of fixing issues in our own lives and the potential harm of misguided help in distant communities.
Recap by Tammy AI
Thank you Chavie, love hearing you speak.
I just dont see this extremeness in my Orthodox Jewish life. Glad I was raised in a more open minded community and home.
Same here
Same
Are any of you queer?
Just because you didn’t does not mean it’s not there It’s a cult that’s all there is to it
14:30 Turning on electric light during Shabbat is prohibited. Rules like this and the Muslim insistance on women wearing head coverings just prove how controlling religion is.
Controlling for men and women?
@@bee-eu6cg For both, but more so for women.
Thank you for writing Muslim and not Islam. Believe it or not, Muslims and Islam are at opposite ends. Muslims have deviated from Islam from as early as the day prophet Muhammad became ill and was about to die. Muslims came up with a religion that’s more or less like the previous religions, the very religions that Islam came to correct. But people are people.They worship control and their own ego,,
It’s very hard to find a genuine Muslim who truly follow the Quran, the word of Allah, these days. Even though they all memorize the Quran by heart!!
That's why not everybody is made to live like this, but only those who chose. Some people do not find this controlling, you would be surprised how many live a peaceful and fulfilling in these communities. Nothing is controlling if your serve your God, not for many.
Love these interviews. Desperately need to get these religious trauma victims voices heard and these stories told.
she traumatized her self unnessisaraly
She has been through so much but she isn´t bitter at all, never trashing anyone or anything. What a kind, smart, wonderful woman she is! I feel inspired.
I disagree. I sense a vindictiveness and a desire to tear down her family’s faith - or maybe faith in general. LGBTQ generally hates anything to do with religion. Atheism is the god of narcissists.
How was this even legal in the US? To be treated so badly. Im so happy you prevailed!
It is heartbreaking that you have lost your sister Chasi. 💔
The repercussion for them may make it very difficult to openly embrace you. Prayers for you and for them
I feel we haven't lost storytelling. we've lost listening.
Very good. When I first saw her, i thought oi vey, but listening to her speak, she is impressive and well spoken, unfortunately still naive about ever changing the Chasidic community.
Something is wrong here. A New York court does not take away children just because the mother is a lesbian. It is VERY difficult for a mother to lose custody if she provides a safe home for the child. The court especially does not like to change the status quo. Usually something is happening like in her “exploration” the woman is bringing in a parade of overnight strangers, partying, drugs, exposing children to adult sexual material, etc.
Independent to and unrelated to her sexuality she could be made to share custody with a father who comes back into a child’s life especially if the man now has a stable family. That’s not a punishment to her that is in the best interest of the child. She said in passing she only got them three nights a week that sounds like joint custody not lost custody.
No way children in NY of all places get taken away from a safe, stable home just because the mother is a lesbian.
Glad you noticed that hole in her story. Most of what she said makes no sense including how she manages to make a living.It's sad that a person with this many problems capitalizes on her story to become a media darling and celebrity. Feel bad for her kid who has no contact at all with her ex husband.
If you have enough money in the US court, it’s pretty easy to win.
And she got them back.
She says hers was a landmark case so I assume what she said happened. Get a bad judge- there are plenty of bad judges- you get a bad result. It’s ridiculous to state that no bad or unfair decisions are made by US courts- there was a whole doco on Netflix recently “take care of Maya” that exposes failings in the family court system.
She did explain the reasoning behind it. Listen to her again. She is being entirely frank and honest. Listen.
I don't know why this was in my feed BUT I have to say this woman has and IS doing all the work and whoever the interviewer is needs to just listen more. I LOVE how many times she corrected him, lol. Take the lesson, Andrew. ;)
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Thankyou for this interview, great questions ❤
It would be awesome to see you interview Daat Emet, he's a former head of a kolel and now an atheist activist. His english is pretty bad but he would love to talk about what haredi jews actually believe.
That's the name of the organization, the dude who went atheist is Yaron Yadan, had not heard of them before, thanks for mentioning it so that I could research it
Chavie is brilliant. Her insights into the human condition are honest and revealing. Cudos!
RUclips feed ran on after the Dan Wooton video. So glad it did, this was a brilliant watch, best wishes to the lady.
Respect, Chavie!Honest and empathetic!
She might just be the best person on the planet? or at least on the internet. She could solve wars with her wisdom
Another interesting interview. Thank you Andrew.
I'm curious as to the reasons people say that they're disappointed in you? 😂
I saw her documentary years ago and I admire her fortitude and her utter stubbornness to not be apologetic about who she was, what she was going through, and that she was being discriminated against for the ideal situation of a "status quo" type of mentality. And that mentality is horseshit when it comes to a cult type of "status quo". I don't know if that made sense, but to me all of these types of communities are cults, doesn't matter what they believe or why they formed, they are cults, period and to have backing from a court that is suppose to help mainly the children in these situations is utterly baffling to me. How can you back a cult mentality?
Speaking of conspiracy theories, George Carlin did an interview and he talked about how conspiracies are not just all wack jobs talking about lizard people, it's that all the " higher ups" know each other and everything they do is to benefit themselves and their "friends" and everyone else gets the scraps. He said it more eloquently than I just paraphrased here, but look it up, it's a compelling interview.
Anyways, great interview Andrew. I love Chavie so much and I hope she and her children are happy and healthy today. Love to you, Chavie and my fellow humans 💕🥰🤗🥂🦄🌈🍭💜💞🤘🥳
27:26 just because you weren't happy doesn't mean that they are not happy, almost every hasidic guy is happy that they are who they are, why are you pushing this narrative that it's not good for them?
Amen
I didn't hear about anything that the Hasidic Sect did to her... nor what the video thumbnail is about. Kind of boring.
Agreed. The podcast was wrongly titled. Clickbait 👎
Acting Jewish doesn't make you religious. If you don't believe in the 13 principles....
Lovely interview , she is so genuine. It’s Insightful and thought provoking, for me as I did not know a lot about the Jewish religion.
You are not getting educated in this interview, I hope. This is no introduction, I assure you.
The Jewish community she is from is a fundamentalist sect. So this would not be a good interview to learn about how most Jews live in the US, just the fundamentalists.
Thank you having Chavi on - love ‘em!
Fat shaming!? That surprises me. Also tge emphasis on looks surprises me that a religious community would be shallow like that. But we are all human afterall.
Would you be comfortable if one of your children chose to join a hassidic community if it was their choice as an adult?
I am reminded of the movie A Price Above Rubies.
Price of Rubies ,Excellent film regarding Hasidic family in Brooklyn,New York starring Renee Zellweger.
@@ronm8948, and Christopher "Dr. Who" Eccleston!
This is interesting to me in the more general sense that this fundamentalist community tried to tell this person that their life experiences and thoughts were not authentic. I see that all the time from a more secular but culturally Jewish background where religious extremists from multiple religions, and even some people who deem themselves not very religious, try to label my experiences and beliefs as not being authentic, like say when I point out that certain words and behaviors are antisemitic. We're seeing a lot of that now in more moderate and secular Jewish communities being attacked by antisemitic people trying to unauthenticated our existence. I'm not trying to say my experiences were anywhere near as rough or extreme as this person's were, just that a lot of people discount others on account of religion.
most of the hasidic sad stories I've heard come from people that have left the Monsie community, is there a difference of doctrine between Monsie, Williamsburgh and Boro Park?
there is also a community in orange county ny, kiryas joel.
And another community in Crown Heights, NYC.
@@daisyalice77to be specific there are two communities, a community was divided because the Satmars leaders sons fought, I remember seeing footage of New Jersey state troopers at a gravesite separating the two of them from fighting, it was bizarre
First saw Chavi on cults to consciousness she is a wonderfully strong women.
Doesn't doing what you think is right apply to hassidic Jews as well or only secular individuals?
I am Jewish, vegetarian, smoker, non Democrat (yes, I voted for Trump), artistically and creativly, gay (not queer, not LGBTQAIA.......).
My question. Why di you find it necessary to address the world by your 'queer' lifestyle every third sentence? If someone finds out I'm gay, fine. I don't wear a queer nametag insisting that my lifestyle is somehow more meaningful than theirs. If you move into the world of lesbianism, you have only laterally moved from the cult of Hasidim to the cult of queerness. There's no evolution going on there. I'm a 70 yr old male. If there's one thing I've learned in this non-redemptive world, it's that the world is made out out of cults, and those that break out find themselves hopelessly isolated, bitter, and cynical. Just mentioning. Live your life as you wish, but there will always be consequences
Nowhere in the Talmud or Torah does it say that voting for a FASCIST PIG like TRUMP is a good thing! Pigs are NOT KOSHER, especially disgusting FASCIST PIGS like TRUMP! Let it be never forgotten that the FASCISTS who ruled Germany in 1933-1945 were the worst enemies Jewish people ever had and the same is true about present day FASCISTS such as TRUMP! That is why it’s such a shame to see Jewish people supporting TRUMP!
So well said, I am so tired of LGBTQ ppl feeling we care about their sex lives.
No bitterness with Chavie!
@@nigelmarshallkenyonabbott8684 “I am Jewish vegetarian smoker non democrat gay”. Why did you feel the need to preface your message with this and then slam Chavie for “addressing the world by your queer lifestyle every third sentence”? The contradiction is ironic.
@@diaryofanotdgirl Because I don't go through life identifying my personal lifestyle and immediately creating questionable personas as to where I am in lif. When I meet people, I make the determinationas to what personal they will get about me and when. Simply put, I don't introduce myself as 'Hi, I'm _______and you must know what my lifestyle is as soon as you meet me. I have relatives and friends that I still haven't told I'm gay and frankly, it's none of their busines unless I decide to make it so. Over time, people will either speculate or be informed about my personal life.
Hi Andrew.
This is a brave lady. Life has been tough for her but she kept going.
Fancy losing custody of children who needed her. And she got them back!
This sort of person is what might make me subscribe. Important work and opposite to Wooton and Sussex's irrelevancy.
Keep it up.
Please do something on Andrew Tate. We need to work out if he is bad or harmless. You can help with that. I'm not sure.
Cheers.
Tate is a plant. He is bad whether or not the charges against him are true or not. White boys and men who turn to him are being fleeced and deceived.
What about Trinary instead of Binary?
Even the judge was siding for the voting block, I think.
Hi Andrew,
I see a lot of your content is Jewish based and specifically focuses on the ultra orthodox community. I think it would be very interesting to talk with someone in the community who deals with the sexual abuse, cover ups, and other terrible things done to people. Someone who is in that community and can speak against it but also explain the positive and beautiful aspects of religion. Also the fact that many Jews are living happy, fulfilling, and loving lives with their families. That isn’t to say that some families aren’t sick and abusive. But you have that in every culture.
Anyway this rabbis name is Rabbi YY Jacobson. I recommend that would be a interesting and enlightening conversation and he would be able to shed some light on many of the things you discuss in your videos.
I’d like Andrew to interview Orthodox women who are very happy and fulfilled with their faith. There are many.
They should never of taken the kids off you,absolutley absurb.........
I know this is off topic but I love your hairstyle 😊❣️(you too Andrew🤣)
She never believed in g-d as she said...
And...?
@@Tali5899 she was never religious.
@@myopinions1 in that case she's showing herself up as a charlatan.So she cheated??? Lured her poor religious, unsuspecting husband into marrying her? Haha, the plot thickens eh? She better be careful what she says.
I find it interesting how the story changes with time!
Footsteps is its own cult though. I think project makom is more helpful and reliable and actually cares to do what's in your best interest.
Exactly!
The Jewish tradition is very diverse. Completely throwing it away is also inauthentic!
As a Messianic Jew “On The Edge” with my Hasidic community: I’m in the closet with Christ, or rather I have placed Christ in the closet for a while - until the right time comes up where I can discuss with Rabbi all of the scriptural evidence that demands a verdict - all of the prophesies that have stamped Christ throughout the Old Testament. I know when I “come out” I will get THROWN OUT, but I am prepared for that moment. What people don’t understand is that the true Messiah can and will change the human heart to make it loving where there was hate. Where there was envy, lust, and unbelief, one can find peace, patience and faith. When I listen to stories like this: I usually think, well good for them. They did something that took a lot of courage and belief in their own values. I just can’t see the good and virtue in going from a belief in Almighty God (and living like their is one) to atheism. And, if atheists do not believe in God: why do they even bother to say his name, especially when they are dying? I look at it this way: IF I AM WRONG, I WILL HAVE LOST NOTHING. I WILL SIMPLY FALL ONTO THE PLATFORM THAT THE ATHEISTS HAVE BUILT, BUT IF THEY ARE WRONG, THEY HAVE LOST EVERYTHING!
Jews have been murdered in the name of Christ for thousands of years. Loving indeed.
How Sad. "Let's Get Biblical" with Rabbi TOVIA SINGER is essential for you. There are NO Prophecies or Foreshadowings in Torah. Jews know how to read their OWN Scripture in THEIR OWN language. Don't you know BIBLICAL HEBREW? The KJV is GREEK. Don't be a KAPO. Or you might like Jews For Judaism. Have a debate with TOVIA SINGER first to prove that you are right and a JEWISH Scholar who KNOWS the New Testament and Old in and out is incorrect.
No love like Christian Hate. We are to love God, in that way we are Loved. Why don't you feel loved? The Nag Hammadi shows that The Gospel of Thomas was removed from the Apocrypha, the CATHOLIC Bible, written in GREEK. Read about Martin Luther's Antisemitic Pamphlet and the History of the ROMAN EMPIRE. Is your internet in the closet too?
I don't believe that you are a Jew at all... I believe that you are in a CULT and are simply CHRISTIAN. Every Jewish Critical Thinking Jew knows the book of ISAIAH and they are reading the Biblical Hebrew, so they know why Jews don't accept Human Sacrifice and Idolatry. They know why JOSHUA (Jesus) did not meet the requirements of Moschiach. There were many Messiahs, all of them were the Jewish Prophets: Moses, Jeremiah, Isaiah, Daniel, Zechariah, Malachai, etc. Trying to Gain A WEAK JEW by Deception certaintly falls in line with the ethics of your PAULINIAN CULT. Shame on you. Once you become a Christian, you are no longer Jewish. You can't be a Hindu Mormon. You must choose ONE. Judaism and Christianity have different Eschatological beliefs and texts. Isaiah belongs to Jews and is not about Joshua (Jesus). You need a Rebbe who knows The New Testament inside and out and has been through Yeshiva. TOVIA to the rescue!🚸🕵️🎯
Why would you abandon HaShem and your Jewish Education for Egyptian Roman Pagan Gnosticism?
Seeing her i understand why she left chassidim. She cares more about herself than gd and her family.
Umm her so called family cares more about superstitious bull than her is what u mean. She should care more about herself than people who condemn her and don't accept her. I'm glad she does I hope these stories inspire other people in cultish religious abuse to leave
@alisonmercer5946 wrong. She should care more about gd and keeping his laws than herself. We are not created to be selfish. It says in the ten commandments to honor gd to honor the sabbath and to honor your parents. It never says to honor yourself.
@@gothicyid yeah how do u know what God wants?
@@alisonmercer5946 he says so in the Bible clear as day.
You do realise the Bible is a book of fiction written by men to oppress women don’t you.
Check your leaders know what you believe and why, how will we know when we are being abused in the name of anyone or any thing. It’s on the individual to do their homework.
Why divorcing parents throw their sexuality in their kids faces will be unfathomable to me until the day I die.
I remember back in 1984 like it was today sitting at Williams pub in uptown Minneapolis with some friends having breakfast watching a table nearby where two men and three children were sitting.
the children were uncomfortable and the men were affectionate with each other. eventually I overheard that one of the men was the father of the children and had come to breakfast with his boyfriend.
10 years earlier I remember feeling uncomfortable as my father brought a date on one of his custodial visits, all kids want is parental normalcy, don't add adult themes to that and you'll do less wrong.
Terrific interview.
No one owns words
Wow this blows my mind that this could have happened in modern day. We have really let the LGBTQ community down thinking we advanced and were all accepting once marriage laws changed and being gay was normalized.
Very brave woman
I've watched a diffent video of your story it's an amazing story I admire your strength an courage ❤ your hair beautiful hair has gone though 😢
She could grow it back but does not !
In a few years she'll be covering her hear again
Chavie you are wonderful!
I really like Chavie 🥺
ANDREW 20 OUT OF 250K PEOPLE DISAPPOINTED ? YOU ARE BEING UNNECESSARILY SENSITIVE ❤
Chavi you are very great looking the great looks is a present from God you do not have to chasidish you must keep gods law there are many good Jews who follow gods law and are not chasidish
I don't know much about your guest but there is more to the story than is being told. In New York State, custody of the children is almost automatically given to the wife unless it is demonstrated that she is an unfit parent. This is a very high bar for that definition. Then she states that she fought and fought to get her children back but has not spoken at all to her husband in years. So that her children don't seem to have any connection with their father. I sounds like a very self centered way of looking at your life.
This is absolutely not true. With enough money, children are taken from mothers all the time.
How do you know we're you there?
@alg11297. Totally not what you're thinking, I think.The community she left has access to large amounts of money and uses that funding to hire top lawyers to fight single mothers who try to leave the fold and 'save' the children by giving custody to the 'righteous' fathers.Its very corrupt and all kinds of tactics are used to get the kids.
This is not true for the jurisdictions I know of. The status quo is maintained to ensure that the children’s day to day lives, which they are used to, are not disrupted. So if the Hasidic way was their ‘normal’ the judge would likely not be as inclined to uproot the kids and overhaul what they were used to by sending them to mum. I practiced family law briefly but will qualify that I was in a totally different jurisdiction.
@@torontotsts8218 We're still getting less than 10% of the story which is why she is so vague about everything. To give custody to a father you would have to prove the mother was an "unfit mother" and detrimental to the welfare of the children. She wasn't even given joint custody so this was pretty bad. She doesn't seem too stable even in this interview. It's amazing how people can use their children's unfortunate circumstances to create a cause of their own. How is this not a self-centered person's narcissistic attitude? It's really hard to have an respect for a person like this.
Hi Jesse❤
Anyone negatively criticising "The Sound of Freedom" needs to follow all these stories until they know just how endemic sexual abuse is.
We are a horrifically long way from equality.
terrific lady.
Their souls aren't less important their role is different.
Andrew for goodness sake … you must read the plot of a shakespearian work before going to watch it , But even my kids have watched it without and although they didn’t understand each word , they did get the main meaning out of the play. By the way you can watch Shakespeare 10 times and there are always new things to notice!!! I hope you were
😮exaggerating !
The child who is not embraced by the village will burn it down to feel it's warmth
45😂
Just interested; what are the 'core values' Chavi mentions? Just do whatever you like as the fancy hits you? Great values 😂
It is one of the modern buzz words .
Well said. To replace a faith in Almighty God with atheism? That’s a step forward?
Wokeness
Women rabbis I had zero idea that was a thing
this community is not so bad that you think
Yes it is
She seems nice but I can understand why her ex-husband would want custody of their children.
Chavi ...we heard your story over and over again...all you kids going on the circuit is humiliating yourself , not us...
What a shame there are so many judgmental people in this world who would boil down an entire human's existence to the color of their hair... it's really absurd. You really think hair color is a marker of mental capacity or moral aptitude?? What a sad way to navigate the world. Normally wouldn't comment on a video like this seeing what has already been said, I feel I must stand for some sense of reason! Whatever happened to the old saying... don't judge a book by its cover... and maybe try some critical thinking too while you're at it ;)))
Peace and Love to you all!
Yeeeeahhh.You are judgemental too!! Would you trust a doctor with dirty clothing? We all automatically judge.Well....if you have a functioning brain at least .
Not our fault that people choose to advertise their mental capacity by dying their hair
I judge and discriminate constantly, if someone is wearing a face diaper near me I want nothing to do with them, add colored hair and they're like radioactive, when others broadcast their stupidity to the world my receptors are on and I avoid them like the woke virtue signalers that they are
13:51 yes it's forbidden in the torah which is to be guy especially for a guy, and it's not a problem if you want to be secular but we are not going to except you as a jew it's very understanding
My Orthodox Rabbi told me that God makes allowance for those men and women who are gay by nature and does not condemn them.
@@tamararutland-mills9530 that's totally not true, your rabbi is lieing maybe write here who your rabbi is.
I would have ran not walked away
Please pardon my ignorance….. How does it work if a woman is unable to get pregnant or has fertility issues?? What happens then? Or are fertility issues almost nonexistent due to no years and years of birth control?
There are some chassidim who allow for IVF if they want children
Children are not toys. I grew up in a society of broken marriages with the exception of my dear parents. Kids would shelter at our house; there would be at least three kids at breakfast. That taught me well how raise my own child.
Once you have them they're with you until adulthood despite your desire to abandon yourself to hedonism and experimentation. Then you can run about 'discovering' yourself afterwards knowing that. Despite the fact that you've transitioned into, a lesbian-dog, multi-organed Seksiboi, or whatermahavyew, it won't get them beaten and tortured in the playground on a daily basis. Think on it.
Horrible assumptions on your part.
What?
@@JM-pg5rc Nope, observations and experience.
@@BavonWWI was one of the sheltering kids. Not yours obviously. So I agree with you.
Calling someone a lesbian dog shows your stupidity and danger to women. I hope women stay far from you and protect their children.
Where was the smoking gun?
Whoever doesn’t believe tho is true of what goes on in this sect try living in it
Chavie is this right for your children?
Very interesting….
If God would not have made that in nature there would not people in the world think about it a woman in her front part is a vat of b and the back side is a vat of s
but the man want to go between the womens feet
I fully support Chavie's choice to leave and live as she wants to, but her story is incoherent in one way: She believes in her right as a parent to be herself and raise her children according to her own values, truth and ideology. But then she criticizes her own parents for doing the exact same thing "to" her. If her parents are guilty of "brainwashing" her with "their" views, then she's guilty of the same thing because she has embraced western Feminist and gender ideology. Those are instructive worldviews with beliefs and absolutes exactly the same as a religious world view. She feels the father's religion would have "harmed" her kids. Okay. But he believes that her ideology will "harm" his kids. So...?? She's literally doing the exact same thing that she's criticizing but in a different reality. There is no fact that she's "right" and what she left is "wrong." It's all opinion and culture... so essentially she's arrogant. "I will control how my kids are raised and what they are exposed to, but it's wrong when my parents did it." Hypocrite.
MacBeth?!
It’s a GCSE text
Hasnt her pendulum swung too far back?
She is dead weong. The law is very clesr sbout it and its o ly fair: if you got married and decided with your husband thst your future joint children will be raised a certain wsy, the one who lesves that wsy cannt claom to raisd them. Si ce its like breaching a contract. You chose to change yoyr own religion,but cant take along the kids with you on this ride
Says the one that can't spell and can't even make a sentence
@@pdubbzloves6205maybe English isn’t their first language.
Why can't she take her kids with her? We are not a Cult.Sorry but this crappy marriage set up does often not work for people.The attitude of our community is appalling.Be honest.The chassidish men, actually the Litvish frummers are equally unpleasant need to revise their behaviour.I know what all this is like even though I look absolutely nothing like the protagonist on here.
Time to be really honest with ourselves!
@@kimberlypl5272 and don't talk shit then
@@pdubbzloves6205 typos as result of fast typing does not mean "can't spell ", my comment was very clear and spelled correctly, it is crystal clear that the typos therein are typos only, such as "weong" instead of wRong, since the letters "e" and "r" are right next to each other on the keyboard, and so forth! Your reply was a typical reply of a demagogue who can't face the true facts presented, and hence is trying to find under the rug false excuses to "disprove" the true proven correct facts!
How should this woman raise children when she is a child herself in a new world she have no clue about? Raisi f children while finding out who she is?!?
God gives us free air free taste lets you walk talk think feel great looks no ed so why go against HIS law
I completely understand where she is coming from. Someone that I used to work for the people that I was working for they tried to convert me to being Jewish and I refused to be converted to their religion
Sorry, but you got the wrong religion. Judaism does NOT proselytize. Ever! We actually give people that show interest in the religion, a very hard time.
@@rm2070 sorry but you are completely wrong, I over heard from my former boss saying that about me
Wrong again! Do your research before posting erroneous statements
Of all the things that never happened. Try approaching an actual orthodox rabbi with a conversion request not making assumptions about what your boss may have said.
You can convert to Judism but it is a long involved process that takes tons of study and commitment. Jews don't go around trying to covert people to Judism it is not a thing.
She was my daughter’s teacher , her students are very traumatized how she came out, and her standards look very misleading .
So your still in a cult don't lie and say kids are traumatized kids don't give two fucks about adults and there business. Go back to living a lie in your twisted religion
If the children are traumatized by her coming out I would imagine they have bigger issues. There are many people who are part of the LGBTQ+ community in this big world.
@@paulamacdonald7070 They have their own communities and they don't live in this big defenerate world, Paula.Don't expect all to be polluted with this.
Man she used to be pretty before she liberal'd her appearance 🤣
She's still pretty but what's is it to you? You fucking her? I highly doubt she cares about what some fat loser on RUclips with a anime picture thinks about her looks.