Inside The Most INSULAR Sect of Hasidic Judaism
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- Опубликовано: 6 июн 2024
- Frieda Vizel is in the unique position of having left the extremely devout Hasidic Jewish community - often considered America's most religious community - while still remaining in touch with it through her work as a Brooklyn tour guide of the area in New York. I am a London Jew, and have done episodes with defectors who spoke entirely negatively about the sect, so this was a chance to hear a different perspective, and I found it absolutely fascinating speaking with Frieda. She has made videos about everything from the Hasidic marriage customs to a black Hasidic or Haredi Jewish woman called Sara Braun. Travel RUclipsr and Arizona Jew Drew Binsky just did a great report on the hasidic sect, known as America's most religious community.
Chag sameach (Happy Passover) to those celebrating on the final night of Pesach.
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Chapters:
0:00 'Let me paint my world for you'
6:50 Was there love in your childhood?
9:55 Never imagined she would leave
13:30 The most INSULAR sect of Haredi Judaism
16:40 Dating practices & the Satmar sect
18:30 Intentionally keeping children in
22:00 Individualism vs the Collective
23:30 Andrew tries to speak Yiddish (German)
27:30 Storytelling is AMAZING
31:00 How Frieda Got Out
34:00 Could have lost her son!
37:50 Her devastated family
41:00 Hysterical RUclips attention & JEANS!
46:30 How Frieda was match-made
50:00 The Wedding Night & Issue of Consent 
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You asked for it - more on the Hasidic community. What would you like me to do next? (and hit the like!)
Hey there Andrew 👋
All religions are cults.
Oh that's what I was really interested in learning more about.
Sorry I missed most of the premiere. I'll have a proper look now.
Great guest, Andrew 🇱🇷💯🥰
Andrew, are there any of these Hasidic communities in Britain? Maybe you could find somebody to interview face to face.
I think this woman is so open and so honest, she left the community but she is not bitter such an Intelligent person
yeah, likely because her family didn't actively destroy her life like the families from ost extremist religions do. It's very obvious from the interview her family was extremely tolerant compared to others (she was allowed to read books from a library, keep her child after leaving, enter the community while wearing pants later on, etc)
And that she isn't even a native English speaker is simply astounding. She's an incredibly articulate and attractive lady.
An amazingly intelligent woman.Such a balanced outlook on life and its complexities.Amazing insight , sensitivity and so understanding and respectful.
Very genuine woman
@@vonickles5033ppp
What a darling! She's so honest and non judgemental! As an hasidic woman I feel that she portrayed us honestly and wasn't eager to lie and make us look like a cult like some others that left the community do. Thank you Frieda! It's always a pleasure watching you!
What? You're hassidic?
How do you get access to the internet? Isn't that forbidden?
Yeah how are you watching this?
@@saschamayer4050 sounds like a cult to me! Cults restrict information. They restrict access to controlled contradictory information about the cult. They cause fear of the outside. They isolate the acolytes. They justify their isolation and “special “ knowledge. They dress in a way that signifies membership and /or relating to dogma. This is just the beginning. Look up Cult tendencies.
She did a fantastic interview on her channel with an elderly hisidic lady called pearl. Great bunch of interviews
@@saschamayer4050 was just thinking the same thing!
Frieda’s channel is fantastic! Not a Jew myself, but totally facilitated with her channel and understanding a different culture than my own. She does a fantastic job showing the community with respect without it seeming like she is exploiting the community.
What is her Chanel called?
@@vonickles5033 www.youtube.com/@FriedaVizelBrooklyn
Facilitated by a channel thats new mate.
aside from the fact she knows absolutely nothing shes great
@@writerdirect You know loads ?
I am a Christian female and worked as a cleaning person for a large Hasidic family for over a year. I became close with the family and was invited to some events. It is a different way of life but thoroughly enjoyed it. I learned a lot and the daughters were interested in my life. I cleaned for other family members too. The wedding was a learning experience!
This woman is so intelligent and thoughtful. She speaks without bitterness. I love how she delivers this information to people who would not understand it without her explanations.
Just leaving this here, after listening to the lady explain. The Hanukkiah is the Hanukkah Menorah which can hold 9 candles, the eight candles representing 8 nights plus the Shamash, which is the candle used to light the other candles each night. A regular Menorah has 7 branches, for 7 candles. It's meant to be like the Menorah in the 1st and 2nd temples. So every Hanukkiah is a Menorah, but not every Menorah is a Hanukkiah.
Hard to believe someone who grow up in this community for years would not know that.
@@alg11297 This also surprises me very much, but is not the only thing that Frieda does not know anymore.
@@Barbara-bl7xv Anymore? Says alot for person who claims to be a victim of a community and then makes a living showing outsiders what it's all about.
Hanukkiah is a modern Hebrew word, and it's not generally used in the Orthodox community; rather, we just say menorah.
As an older American Jew, I had not heard hanukkiah in my youngest years but called it menorah as most everyone else in my time and place. Over time Israeli Hebrew, food and culture began to influence much of American Jewry. But Satmar Jews do not support modern political Zionism. Their Hebrew is Loshen Koydesh (Holy Tongue) not modern Israeli Hebrew. Of course, they would not use hanukkiah, a word invented by Zionists and used in modern Israel.
After reading Julia Haart's book, Brazen, this interview is so welcome. While Julia seems to be filled with so much anger against her community, Frieda is so balanced in her outlook. She manages to see the positives. Would welcome further interviews with her. On her channel , the interviews with Pearl are fantastic.
Unfortunately Julia Heart is not very honest about her history. It's sad !
I feel something is off with Julia Haart. She comes across as inauthentic.
@@sarahgillen5281 While trauma can cloud a person's memory and paint a picture that is different from reality, she seems to just wanna milk her story for all its worth and this is the way to the cash
I’m busy reading Brazen. I got into watching all Jewish movies. I don’t mind Julia Haart at all. I’m just interested in their way of life.
Pearl is the real deal! Julia, unfortunately, is not!! The numerous lies she has told in her show have all been proven as 100% false! And then she went on her book tour and continued to lie in her interviews! I just saw her do it on this channel (I am shocked they didn't research if her claims were true before bringing her on as a guest!).
She was not raised in a cult and did not belong to a cult! And while she did not go to the most mainstream of Yeshivas, she did have a solid education. After having seen her in a bunch of interviews, it turns out she's just really dumb! The examples she quotes regarding Jewish prayer and Jewish laws are all WRONG! She doesn't have the years right (not even close!), the history, the translations and deeper meanings of the texts, etc. etc. I have less of the feeling that it is due to her Orthodox schooling and more to do with the fact that she is just plain dumb!
I'm a huge fan of balanced commentary. I have been watching Frieda's channel for a while. She's a pleasure to watch.
Frieda is the gentlest, most insightful, intelligent and caring former-Hasidic I know. She has the best tours (which I recommend). She shows and talks about the community with a smile in her face which shows that she truly cares and respect them despite the pains she might have endured. I am always in awe to listen to her. Her vocabulary, her eloquence… all so inspiring. Andrew, you really nailed it! You are my favorite people! (This is not a paid advertising)
Where does she do yours? In Williamsburg? Joel?
I know! Love her and her channel. I could be friends with her easily!
What a charming, fair-minded/-hearted, and thoughtful guest!
I love this interview, and Frieda has a great channel, too! You are both delivering great content!
I feel Frieda shows respect for her former community and her family. She really describes her life in the Hasidic community growing up.
yea she advocated for her cult very well. it's not a cult, it's a different way of life and she did well make it more relatable. all other cults should learn from her.
@@businesswalks8301 She doesn't seem to advocate for it very much. She just shows how even though it didn't work for her, it works beautifully for thousands of others who do chose this way of life
@@beans4853 I try to tell the scientologist the same thing, just because you didn't like it, doesn't mean all the other tortured souls in your cult don't like. they should learn from Frieda on how to make it seem like a lifestyle choice and not coercion.
lol if you think being born into a cult is a choice, you are insane. I got 5 likes to my original comment because they couldn't tell I was being VERY sarcastic, Frieda is of course OUT of her mind. I heard those rabbis abuse the kids and spank grown women with goat hangers. stop the madness
thank you *so* much, Ms. Frieda, for your honesty, frankness, and openness in this interview! It was a fascinating conversation, and I learned quite a lot from both of you.
I really enjoyed this interview and the way that Frieda so openly and honestly shared her experience growing up in the Hasidic Jewish community. 💗
Only 15 mins in, so I've not heard her story of leaving the community, but I have loved Frieda's content ever since I discovered it several months ago. Thank you so much for this interview - I think she is such a role model to all! She gives such a calm, balanced and view of the community she came from and how it connects with the secular world.
As a non Jew I’ve learnt so much from Frieda!! She has a deep and genuine respect which opens a window through which to view Hasidic culture without the added anger/resentment of being OUT, OUTTED or OTHERED!! It’s so refreshing!!!!
Thank you for the interview! I have been waiting for this! Freida, as always your ability to describe things, even the most complicated concepts- is incredible. I enjoyed very much the interview and I related to so many experiences you described. l think the biggest takeaway is every individual who leaves the chareidi community will have a different experience and a different perspective. Mutual respect is key.
Glad you enjoyed it!
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THE SECRET OF THE JEWS about the man of the earth, COMES FROM JESUS to noah. BLEND DON'T MIX. Meets Noah gives him plum. Speaks and interprets all languages known to mankind. Has the dove. I am he. JESUS gave Noah the secret you are not to write on paper or tell outside the house. Time to rethink your beliefs.THE VISION however you are to tell, or, lose all you have.
Shallom.
Another great conversation! Thank you!
Frieda is a wonderful human being, a shining light. Her RUclips channel is beautifully presented, her conversations with her subjects and subject matter are both warm, honest and a joyful celebration. Thank you for featuring her here!
I loved this interview. Thank you so much.
Our pleasure!
Fantastic interview!! Thank you 😊
I’ve come to really look forward to your new videos. As a Blighty, it’s fantastic to see one of my own chart a path in this space. It’s just a matter of time before you get a viral video and that 100k jumps to 1m. You’ve absolutely got the skills to be a real leader in the debates and humanisation of the huge variety of alternative cultures. Thankyou 🐝 x
Wow, thank you!
Frida brilliantly explains the complexities dividing the outsiders view and the Hasidic insiders experience. So wise and articulate. The interviewer does a good job as well, letting her speak and appreciating the content.
Frida we appreciate your work and contribution to the Hasidic community’s presence in the world and I think this is your way of being part in a way that works for you!
Thank you!
As someone who is not Jewish nor knowledgeable about the Hasidic community in any way, I've learned so much from Frieda's channel. She offers a respectful, and nonjudgemental perspective. I'm glad I was able to learn more about this thoughtful, caring, and intelligent woman.
Thank you Frieda and Andrew.. that was fascinating. Loved it. I'm off over to Frieda's channel.
Glad you enjoyed it
I was suggested Frieda’s channel on RUclips but I hadn’t really watched anything yet. After seeing this open and honest interview I’m a fan and I’m sure I’m going to love her channel. Frieda you are such lovely and respectful woman!
I totally agree!
What is her channel called please?
Frieda is so incredibly articulate and thoughtful! Thank you for your story.🙏❤️
Fascinating! Truly enjoyed this
I just started following Frieda's channel. She does a fantastic job. I'm glad I got to hear her story.
Wow, I have loved this interview so so much!!
Really enjoyed both of you sharing your feelings , thanks
LOVE THIS INTERVIEW SO MUCH! I’m so happy you both connected!
Thank you !
ruclips.net/video/IX5_AnKcyYo/видео.html
THE SECRET OF THE JEWS about the man of the earth, COMES FROM JESUS to noah. BLEND DON'T MIX. Meets Noah gives him plum. Speaks and interprets all languages known to mankind. Has the dove. I am he. JESUS gave Noah the secret you are not to write on paper or tell outside the house. Time to rethink your beliefs.THE VISION however you are to tell, or, lose all you have.
Shallom.
I have already come across Frieda's podcasts and thoroughly enjoy them. I think Frieda has inherited her mother's ability to story tell - she has a wonderful voice and is so easy to listen to. Great program! thank you
I really enjoyed your conversation with Frieda. It was a good, balanced and informative discussion. Thank you.
Glad you enjoyed it!
I am ultra orthodox.
Frieda is the only ex-Hassid who does not bash the community.
Mainstream media is very anti-religious.
So anyone who will bash a religious community is made into a celebrity, a best selling author.
That is what fuels a lot of the bashing, the $$$
And attention it generates.
Great interview. Love the peeks into the fascinating lives of the Hasidic community, but also Frieda’s. I already follow her,she has loads of great videos. Would love to hear more about her experience on leaving the community and how she adapted into ‘regular’ life in NY.
I'm so happy you're talking to Frieda, she's amazing!
My worlds combine! I've been following Frieda for years. So excited to see her on your show!
she did an amazing job advocating for her cult. you don't usually see that. I wish the interviewer didn't lie and say he tried to get a balance view on cults. I didn't see a single pro-scientology video.
another incredible guest who I'll b definitely checking out -🙂🙂🙂
As a Mormon, just watched 2 of Frieda’s episodes and found Andrews interview. Im actually in a faith crisis as a Mormon of 60 years. I appreciate the discussion of lifestyles as well as God. Thank you so much for sharing such new knowledge. ❤
Please go to a Catholic Church for 5 Sundays in a row and then decide if the Catholic Church may offer you peace.
@@suzannakoizumi8605 i definitely would. My second husband was Catholic and 2 out of 4 of my kids spouses are Catholic. 😉
I am also LDS and have gone through a faith crisis period. I have since been able to move through it and feel so liberated by what I learned. I have moved from "brittle belief" to " flexible faith." If you're interested, watching faith crisis episodes by Jared Halverson has been wonderful. Wishing you the best.
@@jbailey1898 I’ve watched JH. Very good. Also, read “Faith After Doubt” by Brian McLaren. It is wonderful. Press on, friend. ❤️
As a Mormon all I want you to know is that the gift of Jesus Christ's life it's all you need, and there is nothing more you need to do in order to get into heaven but believe that uses Christ as your savior. Please go to a bookstore and get the gospel that's not Mormon made. May the Lord bless you always! You are worthy now! ❤
Such and interesting and compassionate interview. Ms. Vizel is lovely and so articulate. It takes such courage to speak honestly (and carefully) as it is evident there is love, affection and caring for her family and the community since her childhood. I sense Frieda is an independent thinker, which is a gift and can be lonely at times too. I was raised Catholic although practicing Episcopalian (it's important for everyone to be invited and to hear a women's voice from the altar). Anyway, I see so many parallel's as with many religions, I suppose it's what makes us all human looking for sincere connection. Having worked as a nurse in NYC with mother's and high-risk infants, I can also share confidently how truly wonderful it is to see such care and connection within the Jewish community as there is such care for one another. Ms. Vizel will go far in her vision as I sense we all strive for this connection she speaks so eloquently.
I really liked this interview Andrew! Frieda is so interesting to listen to and I did subscribe to her channel. Thank u
Thank you both for a refreshing, open, honest and respectful conversation about a world most viewers know nothing about. Freida presents a welcomed, balanced experience that is greatly appreciated in a time of black and white, “in a box” thinking. Well done!
I have been watching Frieda’s channel and it is fascinating. I enjoy learning about other religions.
I love your channel Frieda. Can’t wait to hear your story.
What a fantastic interview. Thank you both.
Glad you enjoyed it!
ruclips.net/video/IX5_AnKcyYo/видео.html
THE SECRET OF THE JEWS about the man of the earth, COMES FROM JESUS to noah. BLEND DON'T MIX. Meets Noah gives him plum. Speaks and interprets all languages known to mankind. Has the dove. I am he. JESUS gave Noah the secret you are not to write on paper or tell outside the house. Time to rethink your beliefs.THE VISION however you are to tell, or, lose all you have.
Shallom.
I'm not Jewish. I really like both Ms. Vizel and Mr. Gold. I do not understand why anyone would be affronted by these wonderful people. I guess I have a lot to learn! I hope Ms. Vizel gets everything she wants in her human journey.
Awesome interview!
Andrew i must say i found your interview with Frieda fascinating and i stayed glued to my phone the whole time.Frieda was just so eloquent and i found her story about her life in a Hasidic community very interesting. As a Messianic Jew i have a completely different story ,but was also abandoned by my jewish family in the beginning but after many years i was accepted and even understood. Years later when i became a missionary to haiti and leaving the USA and my secular job was a total shock to my family as well as my friends.I look forward to watching more of your videos in the future
Evangelist Roger Mansour
Great interview. Love learning something new
Frieda is awesome! I love her channel! I would love to go on one of her walking tours in NYC! ❤️
This was fascinating. I love Frieda and her RUclips channel.
Thanks for this interview with Frieda Vizel. She is courageous and articulate and brings me to a community that I am intensely interested in but would have no ability to learn. Thank you.
Yes, please, another interview! I've been following Frieda’s channel for quite a long time, and her being interviewed is just great! Hearing you speak German was unexpected but so good. Thanks, Andrew, this was a great interview!
Frieda, your are such a special honest respectful person.
i really enjoyed this interview.frieda thank you, you did so well!!
Frieda channel is awesome!!
I loved this thanks Andrew & Frieda ❤👏. Really enjoy hearing people's stories & experiences ✌️. I hope you can do a follow up that would be great 🤗.
I’ve watched Frieda’s videos and like others, have found them fascinating. However, because she is an expert interviewer, we only hear about the person she is interviewing.
This interview was brilliant. What an intelligent, compassionate and strong young woman! I rarely, if ever watch a video that’s more than 15 minutes but I watched and enjoyed every second of this. Hope she comes back for another discussion.
Beautiful interview. Frieda is such a breath of fresh air
Frieda has had a different experience with the Hasidic community and I’m glad she came on to speak about it. I can only imagine it’s still hard for her being hurt and shunned by people she loved and thought loved her. However, she seems to have built a life for herself and becoming a RUclipsr. Frieda speaks so eloquently, it’s the one thing I’m sure she’s happy about that the girls got taught English. Well done Frieda!
This was such a good interview. I hope you interview her again.
ruclips.net/video/IX5_AnKcyYo/видео.html
THE SECRET OF THE JEWS about the man of the earth, COMES FROM JESUS to noah. BLEND DON'T MIX. Meets Noah gives him plum. Speaks and interprets all languages known to mankind. Has the dove. I am he. JESUS gave Noah the secret you are not to write on paper or tell outside the house. Time to rethink your beliefs.THE VISION however you are to tell, or, lose all you have.
Shallom.
Loved this interview. Quite a breath of fresh air as she comes across as very balanced and doesn't have an axe to grind.
This was very interesting! Thank you both for such an good discussion.
I loved listening to her and this conversation. 🥰
What a delight and pleasure to listen to this young woman. She is so wise, thoughtful, and considerate in her language. Such a clear-thinker. Breath of fresh air that she absolutely thinks for herself. I expect a great deal of her rare composure and what seems to me her self-possession (in a very fine way) comes from her upbringing! This was A PLEASURE to listen to while doing mise en place for dinner here in rural Texas. THANK YOU.
I enjoyed this interview with Frieda and her thoughtful description of Hasidic life. I feel like part of her heart is still with the community.
Thanks for introducing me to her channel.
Freida, great job. You were well- spoken, open, but guarded enough to make the interview question more respectfully.
Respectfully!? I won't hear of such a thing ;) Thanks for listening, Cathy.
I am a Catholic female and I love Friedas Channel. I have learned so much~ it’s all about learning :)
Just let me tell you something. I’ve paused you to write this or to say this. So, I have come to the conclusion that you are my favorite talk show person. You allow your guests to make their point or thought without over talking or interrupting. Thank you!
I live a Frieda and her channel. Loved this interview Andrew. You are a great journalist and ask great questions. The Hasidic community is definitely doing something right. Every Hasidic person you've interviewed or that I have seen interviewed on other channels is articulate, eloquent and very poised. I could watch them all talking about paint drying honestly and I'd find it interesting. But honestly, this was a great interview.
Excellent interview. What a lovely, well-spoken woman. I wish her all good luck with her life.
Frieda is the most balanced ex hasidic I know! I love you Frieda, you spread love!! Ur making the world a better place ❤
I have a friend who converted to Judaism and who lives with her boyfriend on the edge of a more modernized Orthodox neighborhood. She tells me about things and I sometimes don't understand them, Frieda did a great job of explaining things. Thanks for the interview.
You Rock Frieda😁👍🏼I took one of her tours last year. Awesome 😁👍🏼. Thank you for interviewing her Andrew 😁
My pleasure!!
Omg! A crossover of two great channels!
Right?!
Thank you so much! Amazing interview freida answered very good 👍👏👌
Thank you for this wonderful opportunity to understand your world within past community. Your lovely.
Really good interview..Thank you..
Really appreciate the
Context you have highlighted with this
Balanced “other” look
Into these groups.
Thank you for asking
For listeners’ thoughts.
ruclips.net/video/IX5_AnKcyYo/видео.html
THE SECRET OF THE JEWS about the man of the earth, COMES FROM JESUS to noah. BLEND DON'T MIX. Meets Noah gives him plum. Speaks and interprets all languages known to mankind. Has the dove. I am he. JESUS gave Noah the secret you are not to write on paper or tell outside the house. Time to rethink your beliefs.THE VISION however you are to tell, or, lose all you have.
Shallom.
I think that FV’s respectful and compassionate approach is why she receives respect and compassion in return. ❤️
Thank you Andrew very informative and well balanced, real journalism 👩🏻🦳🇬🇧
Very intelligent discussion…both individuals sharing thoughts without bias or obfuscation. Well done.
Vielen Dank für das interessante Interview mit Frieda. Durch ihren Kanal habe ich einiges gelernt
Bitte :)
You're so smart Frieda. Thank you for sharing part of your story.
Frieda is such an open and honest person. I really enjoy listening to her story which she tells without totally bashing and bringing down the orthodox community. I really appreciate that despite her need to leave she finds the amazing little bits and pieces which she still holds dear. The story telling of her mother is something I think many wish they had now instead of the social media and TV etc. I watch her channel and she is so respectful of the community as she walks the streets and you can tell that she has "earned" a certain amount of respect.
Incredibly mature, interesting, intelligent and insightful interview.
As I suggested in the other video, Interviewing Shloimy Zionce would be an excellent choice . Also this Frieda was amazing, Thank you!
What I love most about Frida's channel is her absolute respect for the community and every person she interacts with and there is never any judgement in her interactions or interviews! She asks her questions purely from a point of interest and not because their lifestyle is so different from the outside world. Great interview, thank you! For those who have never seen Frieda's channel, I suggest you start with one of her videos with the indominable Pearl! They are a great introduction to how a woman who loves being in her community wouldn't want to leave.
Thank you both for enlightening all of us with such care and compassion ... Freida you are a scholar of the highest order.
Really interesting! I learnt so much Thank you to Frieda for telling your story! And of course thank you Andrew Gold!
Thank you for this great video. Frieda is a lovely lady and gave us a great look into the Hasidic community and the different levels of Hasidic communities. I live in Ireland and we only have a tiny Jewish Community. A mix of Orthodox and Conservative/Liberal.
That was excellent thank you. It’s great to hear Frieda’s perspective that is still respectful of the community she grew up even though she decided that that way of life was not for her. It was also pleasing to learn she still has a relationship with her family ❤️
Wow. I am so enjoying this interview. So interesting and educational. I have subscribed.
Frieda, you speak so well and this was a lovely conversation. You bring a balance to the culture and present as a lovely, caring and respectful person. I enjoy all your videos.
I've seen Frieda's own videos on her channel. She is always so thoughtful and articulate!
This was good to hear a more positive perspective. I think for most people in religious families, for eg, it feels very difficult to exist with one foot in each world: One in the secular and one in the religious. However, for the sake of family, it does seem inevitable. But worth it. She's blessed to have had a healthy and peaceful childhood
Great interview
Frieda’s channel is great. She will give you insight into the Hasidic community. As a secular Jew I have learned a lot from Frieda’s channel.
I love Frieda!!! And I love Andrew's channel, his interview approach and questions! Two tremendously intelligent people to listen to!! ❤❤❤ What a WONDERFUL interview!! Todah Rabah!!!!!