Dope video!! I hate when men say they can “turn you back” straight or “you just haven’t had the right d*ck” it literally irks my soul. The fact that we don’t want or need them messes with their ego.
“No he don’t do you need to be a lesbian” no lie when I finally decided to come out and date a girl it was the best thing ever. Not afraid to text paragraphs, share feelings, talk periods like it’s literally like having a best friend who you smash and both can have multiple big O’s so even the sex is better 😩
We lesbians have so few representation, or miss representation that i think people ask you for more lesbian content so we can talk about our things, relate with other women and just build a positive online community. Thank you for sharing. 💜
As a lesbian myself, everything you said hit the nail on the head; especially the thing about opinions. Lots of people in the LGBT community believe that you have to have the same exact opinions on EVERYTHING or else you're 'not really apart of the community' or something ridiculous. Anyways, I'm so glad to see you and Amy! I'm looking forward to the new vids! 💜💜💜
2 other pros is that I feel like with a woman you don’t have to tell them what to do all the time like wash the dishes, do laundry, chores, make a doctors appointment etc. they just do it automatically cause I guess we are raised that way or it’s just natural. Also if you wanted to have kids and you didn’t want to (as in carry a child and give birth) your partner can do it for you guys
Girl, I LEGIT was just thinking about you the other day and was wondering when you were going to post again! Also, from one lesbian too another, I don't want kids either so I love that I don't have to worry about unwanted pregnancies and all that. As for the period thing, it'd feel pretty embarrassing for a guy (boyfriend/husband) to know when I'm on mine so that's another plus for me too. As for the having kids thing, FOR ME, it's not that I don't like kids. I'm just not for the responsibility and plus the pain of childbirth legit scares the absolute fuck out of me.
What I hate about being a lesbian is that ppl will ask you who’s the boy and who’s the girl in the relationship… like the shit don’t even make sense when they say shit like that 😂
Ayana, you are freaking on point, transparent, unapologetic, and just adorable. I loved this video with Tipsy Ayana and may you have all the joy and peace that your heart desires.
I miss watching your videos, I love the transparency. Yass girl! I'm not sure why people are obsessed with your sexuality, it doesn't matter to me, im just here for the wigs/hair, tea, transparency and laughs.
Why is Ayana so friggin adorable!?? I know you grown grown girl but the cuteness, sass and the real talks you give ...well they are giving what's supposed to be gave and that's why I am a subby. Btw Its been a long time since you did a story time I know you got something in the vault or since you been back to work we need details girl!!!
The way that the constitution is written once gay marriage passed and was recognized in one state it has to be recognized in all other states. That’s one of the reasons they passed the first bill. Everyone has the right to live their lives the way they want.
So glad your back!! I have been married for 6 years to my wife and I am always scared they are going to take away our legal marriage. We had to go to another state to get married and we only could do a court house wedding because many people couldn’t travel!
Sometimes I wish I wasn't so that I could feel more normal 😕 I know it's internalized but I always hated how nonchalant I felt about men and wish I could see what others see. Like when I was younger 18, 19, 20 I would literally get angry about my lack of attraction to them like WHY can't I be normal. I felt like straight women seemed so happy, always having crushes on someone, knowing they can act on it, being excited about it being reciprocated. I've had so many crushes on girls but never was brave enough to act and even that one girl I knew liked me... it was just ugh too complicated. Like life as a straight girl seems so much more freeing. The biggest cons for me is that I always feel alienated. Even withing the lgbt being black. I feel like an impostor... I also wish I had the comfort of being normal. Which is fucked up. But always being the other is tiring. And the constant pinning on women I can't have kills me. So far I haven't seen the good sides tbh 😭 its like a curse . Okay I'll stop I didn't mean to dump this here but it's not like I can talk about this to anyone ever 💀
I hope things get better. You just haven't found someone you can let your guard down with. I am not saying being overly trusting or desperate. You just seem like you allow anxiety and pressure get to you and discourage you. Things will work out with the right person.
Maybe just try men? No woman who genuinely loves women is going to be comfortable dating a woman who practically hates her same sex attraction and wishes she was "normal". Love is normal, you just are not comfortable with your sexuality. Good luck! I'd seek therapy before expecting a relationship with a woman tbh.
I luv ur candied opinions on this topic & so wish every person that is in a relationship w/ another sex was as open and Loving of their self as U seem to be. My daughter is also a lesbian and no one better not try my baby infront of me cause it’s goin to be on & popping 😆… continue to luv urself beautiful & grow.. 💕
Con: ppl won't just expect you are a lasbain they always say it's a faze you will be back maybe for some people but that don't go every woman dang!!! I miss you hun 😊
This video was so good! I totallyyy relate to the people asking you to watch their kids and shit for them. I didn’t even realize they do this because they don’t respect gay relationships. Smh
This video had me on stitches. I'm not a lesbian and have one kid. But, I enjoy your content fr. For those who don't like the honesty..then that's on them. At least you being real and that's one thing we in society need to be is " True To Thy Self". Regardless of what your wants and desire are be happy with it. And make your life simple.
I'm late but I you will say I'm (bi) I don't really identify as anything but don't want to confuse people 😂 I like women more than I like men lol. If I would have lived my truth in my 20s and stay talking to women I wouldn't never had 2 kids. That's definitely a pro not having to worry about pregnancy lol.
I’ve been torn between the idea of having kids. At one point I felt the same way about children until I realized how important family was to me. Once my parents pass away and all my siblings create their own lives, loneliness with begin to creep on you. Relationships don’t last forever and divorce is a thing but my family and children will always be there. Putting my career first will get me so far and once I hit that peak age of 45 I know it will sink in that I have no kids. So with that children won for me.
Kids are a blessing Most people don’t know the value of having children until they are 75+ and have no1 to handle their affairs no grandchildren around to visit them. God bless you and ur children!
Omg I can't seeing Amy walking by as u closed ur video she so funny and adorable u guys are so blessed to have each other I wish my husband and I had that we lack commutation badly on his part and it's hurtful and sucks
Me and my bf dont share so much as he prepares for me coming over lol. Like the tampon thing, he will buy them for his house for me. I keep a bonnet there, I keep food there I like, and I always forget jewelry when I go so I think hes gonna buy me some hoops for when I come over just in case 😂
Love this! I recently moved to Atlanta and tryna find more queer people to network and hang out with. Maybe it’s just me but I thought the atl would be way..gayer lol? Do you have any suggestions?
Ayana I miss u soo much how have u and Amy been? THTS my daughters name Amy I jus love ❤️ u guys relationship I wish u the best in life may ur relationship get even stronger ❤️🥰
Hey Girly.. People are always assuming no matter what type of relationship your in. LOL Hey Amy we see you passing by in the back. Can't wait for you to post the vlogs/videos
Con: People don’t look at a same sex relationship as a real life relationship, it’s a joke to them( family to be specific) #wierdos) Con: We’re on the same scale is as the ppl who do as things. Like how???
Hi Ayana! I just watched your video! I loved it. I recently came out at 50 and it is taking forever to find someone to date. I am trying to be patient.
I’m wine drunk right now and idk if you’ll see this comment but ayana I know you got at least one pretty lesbian friend bro. I love you and Amy’s relationship I’ve always wanted couple friends like y’all and I feel like we would all click. If you got some pretty lesbian friends or at least 1 let me know…. I’m a writer and a therapist I got my own everything just think about it
Dope video!! I hate when men say they can “turn you back” straight or “you just haven’t had the right d*ck” it literally irks my soul. The fact that we don’t want or need them messes with their ego.
I can never survive without my man's meat 🤤 yummy
“No he don’t do you need to be a lesbian” no lie when I finally decided to come out and date a girl it was the best thing ever. Not afraid to text paragraphs, share feelings, talk periods like it’s literally like having a best friend who you smash and both can have multiple big O’s so even the sex is better 😩
Con: people don’t take the relationship seriously.
That's a pro though 😂
*men, because they don’t take women seriously.
We lesbians have so few representation, or miss representation that i think people ask you for more lesbian content so we can talk about our things, relate with other women and just build a positive online community. Thank you for sharing. 💜
Eeewww
“She said tell me if your boyfriend will have tampons on call “😂😂😂 lmao “no he won’t so you need to be a lesbian “ 🤣🤣
As a lesbian myself, everything you said hit the nail on the head; especially the thing about opinions. Lots of people in the LGBT community believe that you have to have the same exact opinions on EVERYTHING or else you're 'not really apart of the community' or something ridiculous.
Anyways, I'm so glad to see you and Amy! I'm looking forward to the new vids! 💜💜💜
2 other pros is that I feel like with a woman you don’t have to tell them what to do all the time like wash the dishes, do laundry, chores, make a doctors appointment etc. they just do it automatically cause I guess we are raised that way or it’s just natural. Also if you wanted to have kids and you didn’t want to (as in carry a child and give birth) your partner can do it for you guys
Not about raising. We women are just logical.
Y’all she finna make us wait a month for the next video. 😭 soak this lil video in.
No I’m not! Omg! 😭😭
Please dont make us wait!
@@ayanafite lmaooo. It’s fine!
Chileee I took it all in😭😭
Right but love this tipsy one lol😂🤣❤️
“Fuck them kids” I never laughed so hard 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Was looking for this comment🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Girl, I LEGIT was just thinking about you the other day and was wondering when you were going to post again! Also, from one lesbian too another, I don't want kids either so I love that I don't have to worry about unwanted pregnancies and all that. As for the period thing, it'd feel pretty embarrassing for a guy (boyfriend/husband) to know when I'm on mine so that's another plus for me too.
As for the having kids thing, FOR ME, it's not that I don't like kids. I'm just not for the responsibility and plus the pain of childbirth legit scares the absolute fuck out of me.
Girl, same. I adore children, but I never wanna give birth. I'm good with being a foster/adoptive mom in the future.
What I hate about being a lesbian is that ppl will ask you who’s the boy and who’s the girl in the relationship… like the shit don’t even make sense when they say shit like that 😂
The worst question!
Even worse when you date studs or butch women. They think those women secretly wanna be men and look like men so you must be straight
@zebb duhhhhhh 🙄
I love learning about the advantages and disadvantages to being a lesbian from your lens.
Ppl also think if you don’t have children then that must mean you have all the money in the world.
I meannnnnnn 🤣 u might - except when it’s tax season :(
i know right! is so annoying
Exactly. That's really insulting. Don't count my money and don't try to make me feel like I am obligated to help you out.
Ayana, you are freaking on point, transparent, unapologetic, and just adorable. I loved this video with Tipsy Ayana and may you have all the joy and peace that your heart desires.
I miss watching your videos, I love the transparency. Yass girl! I'm not sure why people are obsessed with your sexuality, it doesn't matter to me, im just here for the wigs/hair, tea, transparency and laughs.
Why is Ayana so friggin adorable!?? I know you grown grown girl but the cuteness, sass and the real talks you give ...well they are giving what's supposed to be gave and that's why I am a subby. Btw Its been a long time since you did a story time I know you got something in the vault or since you been back to work we need details girl!!!
The way that the constitution is written once gay marriage passed and was recognized in one state it has to be recognized in all other states. That’s one of the reasons they passed the first bill. Everyone has the right to live their lives the way they want.
So glad your back!! I have been married for 6 years to my wife and I am always scared they are going to take away our legal marriage. We had to go to another state to get married and we only could do a court house wedding because many people couldn’t travel!
My fiance actually buys me tampons in bulk. Lol Just because he thinks it's crazy to run out of something that I need every month.
Sometimes I wish I wasn't so that I could feel more normal 😕 I know it's internalized but I always hated how nonchalant I felt about men and wish I could see what others see. Like when I was younger 18, 19, 20 I would literally get angry about my lack of attraction to them like WHY can't I be normal. I felt like straight women seemed so happy, always having crushes on someone, knowing they can act on it, being excited about it being reciprocated. I've had so many crushes on girls but never was brave enough to act and even that one girl I knew liked me... it was just ugh too complicated. Like life as a straight girl seems so much more freeing. The biggest cons for me is that I always feel alienated. Even withing the lgbt being black. I feel like an impostor... I also wish I had the comfort of being normal. Which is fucked up. But always being the other is tiring. And the constant pinning on women I can't have kills me. So far I haven't seen the good sides tbh 😭 its like a curse . Okay I'll stop I didn't mean to dump this here but it's not like I can talk about this to anyone ever 💀
I hope things get better. You just haven't found someone you can let your guard down with. I am not saying being overly trusting or desperate. You just seem like you allow anxiety and pressure get to you and discourage you. Things will work out with the right person.
Maybe just try men? No woman who genuinely loves women is going to be comfortable dating a woman who practically hates her same sex attraction and wishes she was "normal". Love is normal, you just are not comfortable with your sexuality. Good luck! I'd seek therapy before expecting a relationship with a woman tbh.
The pro and con list we needed
😭😭😭
You need to post moreeeee... we really got love for you ayana...
♥️♥️♥️
I luv ur candied opinions on this topic & so wish every person that is in a relationship w/ another sex was as open and Loving of their self as U seem to be. My daughter is also a lesbian and no one better not try my baby infront of me cause it’s goin to be on & popping 😆… continue to luv urself beautiful & grow.. 💕
Con: ppl won't just expect you are a lasbain they always say it's a faze you will be back maybe for some people but that don't go every woman dang!!! I miss you hun 😊
Girl all them pros you named makes me want to consider switching teams 😆
Wassup ❤
It’s always been the truth….
I love it!!! Me and my wife feels the same way! I feel this 100 percent!
This video was so good! I totallyyy relate to the people asking you to watch their kids and shit for them. I didn’t even realize they do this because they don’t respect gay relationships. Smh
This video had me on stitches. I'm not a lesbian and have one kid. But, I enjoy your content fr. For those who don't like the honesty..then that's on them. At least you being real and that's one thing we in society need to be is " True To Thy Self". Regardless of what your wants and desire are be happy with it. And make your life simple.
Lol... in my 20's is when I decided that I didn't want kids. I'm much better at being an Auntie. Ask em😏
I definitely agree 100% with everything you said lol… the arguments are the worst but i wouldn’t trade my wife for nothing!!!!
Ah some good ol lesbian content. I missed you Ayana! ❤️
Gurl I love that you're unapologetically uu.
I really appreciate your transparency! Str8 married woman but I agree with everything ur saying about Rights & your choice to love whoever u want❤️
I'm late but I you will say I'm (bi) I don't really identify as anything but don't want to confuse people 😂 I like women more than I like men lol. If I would have lived my truth in my 20s and stay talking to women I wouldn't never had 2 kids. That's definitely a pro not having to worry about pregnancy lol.
Hola !! Hope you and Amy are welled. ✊🏽good to hear you back speak on lesbianism 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
I just started dating women again in my mid twenties & I have to agree with you!
The con about rights is soooooo trueeee 😩😩😩😩
I’ve been torn between the idea of having kids. At one point I felt the same way about children until I realized how important family was to me. Once my parents pass away and all my siblings create their own lives, loneliness with begin to creep on you. Relationships don’t last forever and divorce is a thing but my family and children will always be there. Putting my career first will get me so far and once I hit that peak age of 45 I know it will sink in that I have no kids. So with that children won for me.
Religions are man made. Animals are queer there is no way humans would be the exception. Great video!
Love this video...totally agree!!! My girlfriend is my best friend and we definitely share most things and love doing it!!! Cant wait for more🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Ion like kids and I got 2 😭😂
Kids are a blessing
Most people don’t know the value of having children until they are 75+ and have no1 to handle their affairs no grandchildren around to visit them. God bless you and ur children!
@@natachaganthier5837 nobody asked you for your opinion
This! And people think you're weird 😂 I hate when people ask me to watch their kids and I'll be like no I'm only responsible for my 2 kids🤷🏿♀️
Girl U too real and I’m here for it keep up the content been missing u 💕
Omg I can't seeing Amy walking by as u closed ur video she so funny and adorable u guys are so blessed to have each other I wish my husband and I had that we lack commutation badly on his part and it's hurtful and sucks
Because men aren’t emotionally available lol
Girllll....I've been missing you! I screamed when you said "F' them kids!"🤣🤣🤣🤣
Your vids mysteriously started showing up on my homepage after this man started trying to date me, I’m so conflicted
Lmaoooooooo! Reconsider!! 😭😭😂
Me and my bf dont share so much as he prepares for me coming over lol. Like the tampon thing, he will buy them for his house for me. I keep a bonnet there, I keep food there I like, and I always forget jewelry when I go so I think hes gonna buy me some hoops for when I come over just in case 😂
Maybe some ppl have a hard time coming to terms that you’re lesbian is because you’re pretty lol idk
Not you abandoning us 😭😭 glad to see a video from you 🥰🥰🥰
Am I evil for agreeing with her and praising her for saying "Effff those kids..."😂🤣?
No you're not crazy lol
Love this! I recently moved to Atlanta and tryna find more queer people to network and hang out with. Maybe it’s just me but I thought the atl would be way..gayer lol? Do you have any suggestions?
Girl we missed you wtf
😭😭♥️♥️
So glad ur back! I always look forward to seeing ur videos!
this is why I love your Chanel 🙌
so honest and real 🙌
we love and miss you, post when you feel like it. S/O to AMY!!!!!!!
THANK YOU FOR POSTING!
Most anticipated video. Looking splendid as always ma’am. Bless up Amy Don
Welcome back!
I’m guesssing you are loving the day job. I’m super happy for you. Gotta keep that notification bell on.
I don't have to wait for something to get back up after round one💀🤣
She keepin it real….
Ayana I miss u soo much how have u and Amy been? THTS my daughters name Amy I jus love ❤️ u guys relationship I wish u the best in life may ur relationship get even stronger ❤️🥰
Hey Girly.. People are always assuming no matter what type of relationship your in.
LOL Hey Amy we see you passing by in the back.
Can't wait for you to post the vlogs/videos
yesss you're back!!
I love the hair, it’s really pretty 😍
Love this video! it gives us alot of learnings about lesbians🥰
Where have you been though girl!!!! Welcome back. Lots of love🇰🇪
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Con: People don’t look at a same sex relationship as a real life relationship, it’s a joke to them( family to be specific) #wierdos)
Con: We’re on the same scale is as the ppl who do as things. Like how???
Good to see ya!! Missed ya!!
Finally I missed you I love watching your videos
Love this!!! I got to share with my family and friends so they will quit asking me shit lolol 😂 welcome back love!!!
I would love to see a video on you discussing things you don’t agree with within the lgbt as you being gay
Hey, love your vids. Especially your storytimes.
I was here for "F--k them kids" lol Great video!
I never got a notification for this vid, damn.
She just walked in with ✌️✌️✌️✌️✌️✌️ and no words 🤣
Finally my good sis dropped a video 😜😜❤️❤️
2:13 you need to be a lesbian 😌 lol
You dooooo 😭😭😭
I love you Ayana❣️, your videos are unique👌. We miss you❤️❤️
Good seeing you hun! You look great 😻
ladies and gentlemen .. THE QUEEN of the YT !!😍😍😍😘😘😘🤍🤍🤍
Yes sis we love you drunk sober all around your lovable person and we love you 😍 🥰😘🥹🤣
Hey girl yes you back 😝
Whos this??! we know you?! LMAOOO Glad your back missed you boo
Can Amy do a hair video cause hair video is super cute and I’m bout to start my journey 🤗
I love your intro 💕
Guuurrlll where u been??? I've been missin YOU!!!
I have been waitingggggg
SOOOO IN ❤WITH THIS COUPLE🥰 #COUPLE GOALS FR👈🙏💯💯
I miss your vlogs dang hope to see you again soon😂
Ayana where you at sis?? We miss u girl!
Just posted! lol
Hi Ayana, missed you. Thank you for sharing.
Hi Ayana! I just watched your video! I loved it. I recently came out at 50 and it is taking forever to find someone to date. I am trying to be patient.
Like fr been waiting
I’m wine drunk right now and idk if you’ll see this comment but ayana I know you got at least one pretty lesbian friend bro. I love you and Amy’s relationship I’ve always wanted couple friends like y’all and I feel like we would all click. If you got some pretty lesbian friends or at least 1 let me know…. I’m a writer and a therapist I got my own everything just think about it
It looks super NATURAL!!!!!
Yes to everything you said!!!!
that last point 💯
Miss you! When’s the next video ? 😍
We missed you 💕🏳️🌈
Who is single and ready to date
You so pretty Ayana