What No One Tells You About Being a Mum | Can Ask Meh?

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  • Опубликовано: 1 июн 2024
  • Being a mum is no easy feat. These are stories of heartbreak, sacrifice and love from mums from every walk of life.
    Happy Mother's Day to ALL kinds of mums out there: single mums, young mums, mums who have lost their babies, mums who are dads, dads who are mums - WE CELEBRATE YOU!
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    00:00 Opening
    00:34 Did you always want to be a mum?
    03:49 What was the hardest part of being a first time mum?
    07:09 What was the most difficult sacrifice to make?
    10:11 Do you think you're a good mum?
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  • @shaunateo5736
    @shaunateo5736 2 года назад +121

    walao this episode got to me.... definitely started tearing up when the mums talked about their personal struggles, especially after knowing my own mum struggled with me the most :""" so much love for all mothers and maternal figures out there

  • @katharinesoh9482
    @katharinesoh9482 2 года назад +57

    I resonate so much with Celine when she shared about going back to work after her ML. I'm a preschool teacher too. The first weeks were so tough for me and I would nearly cry whenever I think about how I had to put my child in IFC just to care for other people's children. It also killed me inside when I couldn't attend my kids' orientation as I had children enrolling in my classes too.

    • @hawaiianpizza7
      @hawaiianpizza7 2 года назад +1

      You are a great lady. Sacrifices for our children. A salute for that.

  • @imbomi7845
    @imbomi7845 9 месяцев назад +1

    I just want to give everyone a big hug.. motherhood has been a wild beautiful ride.

  • @kireii91
    @kireii91 2 года назад +96

    I think we should have a "What No One Tells You about Being A Dad" video on father's day :)

  • @alui5362
    @alui5362 2 года назад +2

    beautiful. very very well done OGS. thank you.

  • @kaiyanchong9661
    @kaiyanchong9661 2 года назад +10

    every parent will have their own struggles... thank you for sharing and being so honest about your journey

  • @odechan9659
    @odechan9659 2 года назад +64

    I’m a mom too, but I feel like compared to all my mom friends, I don’t overly sacrifice my life for the kid.
    I still have a personal life, hobbies and date my husband a lot. No domestic helper, but my kid is sleep trained, eats independently and taught to play with anything and anyone including fallen leaves and twigs.
    So sometimes it’s boring to hang out with other moms cos they fuss over their kid(s) wayyy too much and neglect their fun life and socialising with their circle. 😅
    I felt that this alternative perspective was not said in this video (moms who are not crazy to be moms but neutral about being moms)

    • @diyanaznl7807
      @diyanaznl7807 2 года назад

      This! Thank you.

    • @HQR000
      @HQR000 Год назад

      How do you do it??? Tips please

  • @someshsalunke2731
    @someshsalunke2731 2 года назад +15

    Such a wholesome video. I teared up at the end. Celine's daughter looks just like her. So cute!!

  • @chi7dish
    @chi7dish 2 года назад +22

    what a refreshing take on motherhood!! it's so enlightening to hear more about the trials and troubles... and how despite all of that our moms still love and care for us ❤

  • @MsEverAfterings
    @MsEverAfterings 2 года назад +5

    That’s such a good interview. I can’t wait to be a mum in future.

  • @sabahnoorrahman7739
    @sabahnoorrahman7739 Год назад

    This is such a wholesome video 🥺💕

  • @dystq
    @dystq 2 года назад +2

    What a heartwarming video

  • @cystocomplex
    @cystocomplex 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for sharing.

  • @redking2499
    @redking2499 Год назад +1

    all of you are the perfect moms please dont doubt yourselves :)

  • @georgeabdulnour2727
    @georgeabdulnour2727 2 года назад +8

    Hi from Melbourne Australia, Happy Mother's day to all the Amazing Mother's.
    I Miss my Mother Every day since I lost her 21 years ago.
    Mother's are the best in the world 🌎 ❤️.
    From George Abdulnour.

  • @lovedblissed
    @lovedblissed Год назад +1

    No matter what you are to your child, they definitely love you for being there for them. All moms should support other moms and enjoy their motherhood. ❤

  • @Skyrockerification
    @Skyrockerification 2 года назад +3

    All love for Jean :)

  • @vanillameltz
    @vanillameltz 2 года назад +1

    Nice episode .

  • @tincoronelarnaprints
    @tincoronelarnaprints Год назад +2

    i cried watching this...becausee.
    when i was in my 30s i really wanted to have a kid..but the doctor told me i cannot have 1.
    fast forward i was 36 i got pregnant.. i was 37 when i have my son
    my world stucked and changed 360..
    im exhausted for 4 years..i wish i never wished to be a mom...its too much for me😭😭
    i lost my self
    dont even know what to do..i thought im crazy because of being soo exhausted..
    and he was diagnosed with adhd,, so my exhaustion turned to multiple times.
    if i could turn back time id rarher be single.
    😥😥😥😥

  • @HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS
    @HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS Год назад +3

    Being a mother is no easy feat indeed!
    Much Respect to all the hard working mothers in the world

  • @perfectlyimperfectmae6137
    @perfectlyimperfectmae6137 7 месяцев назад

    the mother in the wheelchair is so strong.

  • @claretheworm
    @claretheworm Год назад

    Happy mommy's day my fellow moms. 🎉❤

  • @tanfrederika2123
    @tanfrederika2123 Год назад +1

    Body changes. It didnt affect me that much in marriage cos sex life was just sex.. but once in a while i think why my body so saggy.
    Now after divorce.. i start to missed feeling pretty and hot..
    Anyway.. these young mom still pretty.. i think pregnant once is not that much changes.. but i would not trade anything for my third baby. She is everything

  • @kentang1528
    @kentang1528 2 года назад

    I cry and i ams sad for all the mums ...but the only to prevent all these unncessary suffering is by not having a kid in the first place. I am in full support of antinatalism

  • @flynastaran
    @flynastaran 2 года назад +5

    Such a inspirational story. After watching till the end, i repeatedly cry. the fact is I totally understand how hard it was for each of you. life still continues. a very big hug from me! 🤍

  • @joivivre6163
    @joivivre6163 2 года назад +21

    Interview childfree couples

  • @TheCabbagepatchgirl
    @TheCabbagepatchgirl 2 года назад +24

    lol why after watching the video , the more i dont want kids lol

  • @kentang1528
    @kentang1528 2 года назад

    Life is so tough in itself and the suffering, so in order not to have all these problems , support and practice antinatalism.

  • @SSBMA1994
    @SSBMA1994 Год назад

    Im 20 weeks pregnant. Im excited, but I also worry

  • @ItsMe-wc9ww
    @ItsMe-wc9ww 2 года назад +7

    What No One Tells You about Being A dad next

  • @ProjectElf
    @ProjectElf 2 года назад

    Oh dear is gwen gonna divorce? I rmb watching her zula video....

  • @KP-om9fj
    @KP-om9fj 2 года назад +5

    The part where she said *"when you're a young mum you connect to your child better".*
    She was schooling and the child didn't have a father and didn't have a job. Ok. Whatever.

    • @sophinetan8104
      @sophinetan8104 2 года назад +12

      please watch properly. it's 2 different ladies that said the things you wrote down. and what do you mean by "the child didn't have a father"?

    • @KP-om9fj
      @KP-om9fj 2 года назад +1

      @@sophinetan8104 you clearly need help.

    • @emilyteo8966
      @emilyteo8966 2 года назад +4

      @@KP-om9fj YOU are the one that need help?

  • @MiracleKY
    @MiracleKY 2 года назад +1

    Asian 😒
    Why need to worry how people see you? If you want that baby, take care of it and do what you want.
    And abortion if you are not ready for it, do it.

  • @sleepy_dobe
    @sleepy_dobe 2 года назад +8

    11:40 Huh? Why does Gwen think that she'll be a single mum? She's still so young and attractive. I'm sure if she's willing to put herself out there, there'll be a whole line of suitors for her to pick. As a single guy, I think she'll be a really good partner. Young, attractive, capable, and already a mum! Sorry, I find those qualities very attractive. She's gonna be a good mum, and definitely a good wife if she's willing to "accept applications for Jayden's father".....haha...

    • @steffie6582
      @steffie6582 2 года назад +81

      creep

    • @sleepy_dobe
      @sleepy_dobe 2 года назад

      @@steffie6582 What's creepy about finding Gwen attractive? The fact that she's a single mom? Single moms go thru so much on their own, without the help and support of a life partner. It's testament to their strength and resilience to come thru all that. I find that attractive. What's creepy about it? If you thought otherwise, you're the creep.

    • @runwiththeqase
      @runwiththeqase 2 года назад

      Don't be a simp, bruh. Watch a lot of Kevin Samuels videos ffs.

    • @jamie68560
      @jamie68560 2 года назад +23

      Behold the male audacity. A man who thinks what he thinks of a woman is necessary. This entire video is about their struggles, and instead of empathizing, all you saw was an opportunity to share what you think of one of their bodies and you weren't even shy about expressing your desire for her. All about her, and nothing about what you bring to the table. Keep dreaming. You'll never be able to find a woman who will think you're someone great for her if you're this self absorbed.

    • @sunlightdavid
      @sunlightdavid 2 года назад +4

      Lol we're feeling an overwhelming amount of incel energy here.