Dude, you're changing my mindset completly. I was so tired of the no contact BS. Wish i had seen your videos before because i'm seeing results already !!
I've been watching your videos for a week now, or rather since my girlfriend started to act weird and tell me she didnt want me, but we were still together. She pulled the plug today, and I seriously need to thank you for your video's. I'm coping really well about it all. If i can get her back with your advice, awesome. If i cant, who cares. If you have any advice let me know.
My relationship ended a few weeks ago, she wasn't into me attracted to me anymore... I was doing no contact from another coach and it wasn't working.. When I found your info and started implementing it it's been working more and more it's been helping out a lot now she doesn't feel as disgusted when I touch her and she kisses me now the humor works and I had become more emotionally unstable later on in the relationship and had lost my confidence and I didn't spend as much time with her and she thought I was cheating .. Ill keep you updated as to how it goes...
Dan Bacon, I have been in no contact for months. My ex-wife changed her number, and moved away. She is in a new relationship and has been for months. Is there any way I can get her back?
I told my ex that I see that the break up was necessary and that I understand why she left me because I wasn’t man enough and I’m so sorry about that and she see that I’ve actually changed. But she goes with a friend of her (girl) always on party and drink alcohol and don’t care so much about me, we texting and speaking really nice Together, in a good mood, but I don’t know if she wants just to stay friends and I’m afraid that she will move on if I don’t do anything :(
Thanks for this video Dan. So my gf of almost 3yrs left me because she said she's unhappy anymore and her having thoughts of being single again and spending time with her family makes her happy. To be honest I didn't see this coming. I thought we were happy. We spent happy times especially this holidays and then started the year great full of love. And then this week all of a sudden she became cold, ignoring my messages and I thought she was just so stressed from work and I was left wondering so I asked what's the problem. And then last night she decided that we'll talk and so we did but like for only 2 hrs and it was mostly crying. She said she's 100% sure it's over and I can't do anything anymore to change her mind. She said she tried to be happy but she's having this thoughts that she think she's forcing it anymore and she don't wanna be selfish. She told me that she already have plans for herself and unfortunately I'm not included and it's heartbreaking. I've always treated her right we barely fight. She have terrible mood swings though I thought this was just a phase because she's always stressed from work but she already blocked me on every social platform even my number. We didn't have a fight in just one snap it's over. I'm confused I'm hoping this is all a lie and I don't know what to do feels like I don't deserve this I want her back
It's a weird thing to go through, but it's actually pretty common. In most cases, it means that you did a good job of the relationship, but the all important sexual spark just wasn't there for her as much as she wanted. This is usually due to the guy being a bit too nice, accomodating and soft with her. A woman like her wants a guy who has the balls to put her back in her place in a loving, but dominant way, rather than being so agreeable all the time and letting her run the show. If you want to get her back, this video will help you: ruclips.net/video/O46XSPkof0Q/видео.html
Hey dan, so my problem is I am the one who broke up with her and I pushed her away. However I tried to keep the spark lit by giving her little romantic moments every once in awhile. However we went to a party and she met this guy who makes her super happy and she's super in love. I have already cried and confessed my love to her but she just sees me as nothing but a friend. Yesterday we hung out and we cuddled and held hands but she still says she sees me as a best friend. Another problem is that in four months we are going to be living in different states. I want her back so badly and I'm working on becoming a better man, but she refuses to see it or even let me ignite the spark.
Hey Dan, please help im near the bad feelings. My ex said, my feelings has changed for you and ive broke up with her, after two weeks no contact i called her and she said i miss u so much, im very excited because u call but i cant heal myself yet so i cant heal your feelings and she didnt want to come back. But everyday i see her on whatsapp she always writing me but dont send messages. What does it mean? I cant solve her feelings please help i loose my mind..
Hi Dan, what shall I do since she doesn't want us to meet and talk about our broken marriage. She doesn't even want us to talk about our issues over the phone. We have a son together. Please advise.
Dan, what would you say to a guy who can meet up with his former gf regularly and have a great time, lots of laughing and flirting, she openly says he's the most confident guy she's ever met, and doesn't have a bad word to say about him, but always goes out of her way to emphasise that they're just friends now and can't ever be more than that. We have the laughter, the flirting, the rapport, just don't understand what needs to happen to get to the next level. She's been very stressed with work and originally broke off the relationship saying she simply didn't have time and energy for it and was too stressed out and burnt out by all her commitments. However, she now says she's much less stressed with work, but doesn't seem to show inclination to want to resume the relationship... what to do here...
Interesting case. It seems to be either one of two things. 1) You do make her feel sexually attracted, but you're missing the message she is trying to send to you. That being, "Hey, I open for sex, but don't try to get me to commit. Can you deal with that?" If she senses that you can't, she will remain closed up. 2) You don't make her feel sexually attracted because you're a bit too nice and give her too much power during interactions. In other words, she likes you, but you need to be more ballsy around her. If it's the first scenario, read this (it won't all apply to you because she's your ex, but you will learn from it) www.themodernman.com/blog/she-likes-me-but-doesnt-want-a-relationship.html. If it's the second scenario, then watch this: ruclips.net/video/t48pGR7fO7A/видео.html
Hi Dan, am in a mess I got drunk and told my ex that we just got together all sorts of things via voice not and she said she wants nothing to do with me am confused.i love her like crazy and she's leaving the country soon. Help me please it's urgent. Thanks
I need help fast. My ex broke up with me and I talked her last week but now she's giving me the cold shoulder and she's talking to a new guy and I think she has feelings for him. What should I do?
Problem: i did step 4 and wanted to do step 5 before step 3. I know some dudes can do this without stept 3. Seems like i forgot about step 3 because i wanted step 5 asap... I'm currently doing step 3 since 1.5 weeks (and also good ones), but still unfriended on fb. I know the step to get friends again, however, it has not worked and I received no answer. I feel a little bad that I skipped step 3. What should I do?
I lost mine she is with the next guy right now what could or can I do Dan???? 16yrs and 2kids......smh yes I did all the needy stuff!!! I messed up my job issues a lot of issues messed up the relationship!
Hey man me n my ex broke up a month ago n started to try n be friends on her behalf n It didint work I pleaded and begged n then now she kinda don’t want to do anything with me n now I’ve seen she’s having fun and kinda just talking to someone else what do I do I’m gonna try n not contact her for while because she does not want to talk to me rn but then randomly contact her to meet up n show my confidence and etc from your tips is there anything else I need to consider what’s the right way to approach this I ain’t scared by the guy or any of that
Hey Dan I've been watching some of your videos lately, me and my ex gf broke up 5 days ago in the first 2 days I was being stupid and chasing her. Then I decides to take action and change myself we never stopped contact be she seems troubled it, she had offered me a friendship and I dis refuse. But after changing I accepted it. We eventualy went out with some friends and her and It was all fine she was laughing and being nice but then today I told her If she was available for a call and we did a phone call and some time into the call she said : "I dont want you to have any hopes that we are coming back" I told her people change (ididnt ask for anything) and tried to make a joke about it.. I feel a bit sad that it doesnt seem to be working. Please Dan this is really important for me
You should have replied, "What makes you think I want you back? You were the worst girlfriend ever" and then laugh. Don't take what women say so seriously in moments like that. If you do, you place yourself in the friend zone. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/t48pGR7fO7A/видео.html
Dan Bacon Thanks for replying Dan it means a lot to me , I think she keeps me in a friendship because she just wants to keep me around because its always me texting her or calling her , I have tried to use some joking around she laugh at some but at the way I text shes just like "you're not like that" , I also asked her if we could go out , she accepted it but said exactly tge same thing "I dont want you to have hope" i tried to put that to rest by saying some joke about it she didnt laugh. But accepted to go out. Do you think after this meeting I should wait for her to say something to me and give her a bit more space ?
is it okay for me to be the one to ask out my ex ? I know you say it needs to be her idea, but could I make her feel attraction maybe kiss her and then ask her out?
Hey Dan, Ive been communicating with my ex for about a month now. We were texting quite a bit, had a couple phone calls, and even hooked up at the the very beginning. However, recently after trying to set something up again, she told me that she feels her life was healthier prior to us talking again and is pushing to end us talking or as she put it give space. My question is, how much resistance is too much to where I should let go? What should I do in this situation?
In that situation, you can stay in contact, but make sure she is getting the impression that you're moving on without her. It's not about hooking up with new girls or anything (unless you want to do that, of course). Instead, it's about how you're interacting with her and making her feel attracted, but you're not chasing a relationship. She then starts to feel drawn to you and wants something to happen again. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/8NERcd2vI6E/видео.html
Hi Dan, me and my ex broke up about 2 and a half weeks ago and she's finally giving me a chance this Sunday to make things up to her. Now I fully trust that this video will help me, but is there any other advice that you can give me so that getting her back surely works?
Need a tip dan. Did step 4 before step 3. She was unsure about it and blocked me on WhatsApp/instagram, unfriended on fb few weeks later.. I’m unblocked on WhatsApp, now doing step 3, but still unfriended on fb.. what should I do?
If you have done a great job of Step 3, then send her the Facebook message that's included in this bonus program: www.themodernman.com/social/facebook/facebook-phone-and-text-message-examples.html Alternatively, if you can call her, then do a great job of Step 3, wait a few days and then call her.
Dan I’ve got a problem. So me and this girl were in the in between stage, we were more than friends and I noticed things were changing. After I asked, we had an argument and she said we should just be friends. How do I get her back ? She’s the type of girl I’ve been looking for forever and I don’t wanna lose this
In between stage? So, where you having sex? If not, then watch this: ruclips.net/video/6kzV77TAOEY/видео.html If you were having sex, watch this: ruclips.net/video/t48pGR7fO7A/видео.html
You still haven't stopped asking me. Haha...jk. I know man, I know. I want to make all those videos, but I need to complete the videos on the topic of getting an ex back first. I will then be making relationship and pick up videos again. I have the video about picking up shy girls on my list and ready to go, but not yet. Honestly, it's probably about a year away. In the meantime, you might enjoy this playlist: ruclips.net/video/UWLcofMmC9o/видео.html
Dan I have exhausted every way of keeping this relationship and it looks after I have solved the issue. She repeats it and I talk about again and again, is solved and the cycle repeats itself. And now in my heart what she does I don't really care. But I wish things could be as they were when we met because it was nice.. I need your help, should I let go or what?
Nice video Dan I want to ask my ex cheated on me and left me for someone els but I wasn't needy or insecure or anything ,we had a great relationship and we were madly inlove and we laughed every day but she suddenly she said she doesn't feel the same but she lied to me she actualy wanted to get rid of me to get together with this guy she had a previous relationship with and after the breakup I didn't contact her for 3 weeks and she contacted me but I think she misses what do you think
Sometimes a woman isn't as committed as you think she is. She can put on an act of being happy, but secretly, she knows that you're not at the level (e.g. of manliness for example) that she wants. She hopes that you will change, but if you don't, she proceeds with her plans and cheats on you or dumps you. About her contacting you: Don't focus on what she is doing. Focus on what you are doing. What are you doing to re-attract her and get her back? That is what counts. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/gcdx4Wlqcyc/видео.html
hey dan my ex and i ar in ar long distance but i just fuckt up can you make a video about the subject I have sent you a message with more details but If you want them here, just say, hope you answer
Here are some tips for you on that: www.themodernman.com/blog/maintaining-a-long-distance-relationship.html Please note: I don't check my personal messages on RUclips. I get sent about 250 per day at the moment and it's increasing all the time. Impossible to reply, let alone read them all. Cheers, Dan
Hey Dan I want to have a personal conversation with you on the phone. I have a story to tell you and I need your advice. So can me and you actually have a conversation over the phone?
Don't focus on what she is doing. Focus on what you are doing to make her feel sexually and romantically attracted to you again. If you follow her lead, she will confuse you. BTW: If she has moved on, watch this to understand what you need to do to get her back: ruclips.net/video/DelQO5y83Hw/видео.html
Get her back, make her love you like crazy and prepare for her departure. If she loves you even more than you love her by the time she has to leave, she's going to be the one feeling like she is missing out. How can you get her back? Watch this: ruclips.net/video/gcdx4Wlqcyc/видео.html
WHat do I do when we're in mid text conversation and suddenly she just stops replying? I was making her laugh (she kept saying lol/lmao to what I was saying) and boom she suddenly stops replying but she hasnt read or opened my text. In my mind im thinking she's just busy because knowing her she is. Im hoping EVENTUALLY she will respond maybe when im sleeping so I can use that response as a way to text her in the morning. Also, should I wait until we can keep a stable text conversation going before I ask to call her/see her? This is literally my first day of trying any of your advice so Im not trying to rush her or us back together. One more thing. I made her mad a few days ago when talking to her in person. She said "btw any second chance of us getting back together flew out the window." She said it like she was about to cry or get mad. Obviously getting her mad wasnt a good thing. But I'm taking the emotion in her voice as a good sign that there are SOME feeling left. Thoughts on that too?
It's totally normal for a woman to stop replying like that. Men do it to women too (I did it to girls who texted me too much back when I was dating. I'm happily married now). About your question: No, you should not ask to call her. You should just call her when things seem to going good via text. Here are some texting tips for you: ruclips.net/video/YbL8aUxw_LE/видео.html About making her mad: Well, it depends why you made her mad. If it was due to you pushing for a relationship, being clingy, jealous or controlling, then those are negative turn off feelings that won't make her want you back. If she got mad because she was being a pain in the butt, then you should laughed at her for being a little drama queen. She will then respect you for having the balls to put her back in her place like that, in a dominant, but loving way.
Dan, i miss my girlfriend but she doesnt wanna back and she said she is 100% sure of it. the past week i have been acting sad and depserate towarrds her and i think ive ruined my chances for now. she said we might get back in a few months she said have too wait and see what do i do man? i try to reattarct her by making her laugh and being a good person but she is still cold to me with just oks and cool idk what too do can you help me out
Hello Dan, this is the first time I ever get dumped, she supposedly have stopped loving me and likes another man, I think it has to do wity my insecurities like you hace said in your videos. i’ve been trying techniques like humor whe she texts me and it seems to be working because she texts me often. how can i fix this? me: I think i was a good decision for us to break up, Ive been feeling good with myself, thanks for your support these years, i wish you the best. she: thats good, you’re welcome. how can i fix this, i feel like i have made a mistake but i haven’t said anything else, this was a while ago she still haven’t texted me again. please if you can reply i’ll appreciate it. love your videos.
well i have a question how should you ask your ex for a date so it doesnt seem strange or weird , and how often should you meet ex, once a week? what you think
I recently posted an article about that topic here: www.themodernman.com/blog/should-you-ask-your-ex-do-you-want-to-start-from-the-beginning-and-date-again.html
guys change your life if you want her back, its starting to work for me, getting closer every day.;
Dude, you're changing my mindset completly. I was so tired of the no contact BS. Wish i had seen your videos before because i'm seeing results already !!
May our CREATOR accepts and blesses these messages and advices
I've been watching your videos for a week now, or rather since my girlfriend started to act weird and tell me she didnt want me, but we were still together. She pulled the plug today, and I seriously need to thank you for your video's. I'm coping really well about it all. If i can get her back with your advice, awesome. If i cant, who cares. If you have any advice let me know.
And sometimes people break up coz all they do is argue...
My relationship ended a few weeks ago, she wasn't into me attracted to me anymore... I was doing no contact from another coach and it wasn't working.. When I found your info and started implementing it it's been working more and more it's been helping out a lot now she doesn't feel as disgusted when I touch her and she kisses me now the humor works and I had become more emotionally unstable later on in the relationship and had lost my confidence and I didn't spend as much time with her and she thought I was cheating .. Ill keep you updated as to how it goes...
Dan Bacon, I have been in no contact for months. My ex-wife changed her number, and moved away. She is in a new relationship and has been for months. Is there any way I can get her back?
I told my ex that I see that the break up was necessary and that I understand why she left me because I wasn’t man enough and I’m so sorry about that and she see that I’ve actually changed. But she goes with a friend of her (girl) always on party and drink alcohol and don’t care so much about me, we texting and speaking really nice Together, in a good mood, but I don’t know if she wants just to stay friends and I’m afraid that she will move on if I don’t do anything :(
Thanks for this video Dan. So my gf of almost 3yrs left me because she said she's unhappy anymore and her having thoughts of being single again and spending time with her family makes her happy. To be honest I didn't see this coming. I thought we were happy. We spent happy times especially this holidays and then started the year great full of love. And then this week all of a sudden she became cold, ignoring my messages and I thought she was just so stressed from work and I was left wondering so I asked what's the problem. And then last night she decided that we'll talk and so we did but like for only 2 hrs and it was mostly crying. She said she's 100% sure it's over and I can't do anything anymore to change her mind. She said she tried to be happy but she's having this thoughts that she think she's forcing it anymore and she don't wanna be selfish. She told me that she already have plans for herself and unfortunately I'm not included and it's heartbreaking. I've always treated her right we barely fight. She have terrible mood swings though I thought this was just a phase because she's always stressed from work but she already blocked me on every social platform even my number. We didn't have a fight in just one snap it's over. I'm confused I'm hoping this is all a lie and I don't know what to do feels like I don't deserve this I want her back
It's a weird thing to go through, but it's actually pretty common. In most cases, it means that you did a good job of the relationship, but the all important sexual spark just wasn't there for her as much as she wanted. This is usually due to the guy being a bit too nice, accomodating and soft with her. A woman like her wants a guy who has the balls to put her back in her place in a loving, but dominant way, rather than being so agreeable all the time and letting her run the show. If you want to get her back, this video will help you: ruclips.net/video/O46XSPkof0Q/видео.html
I’m in the same situation mate
Hey dan, so my problem is I am the one who broke up with her and I pushed her away. However I tried to keep the spark lit by giving her little romantic moments every once in awhile. However we went to a party and she met this guy who makes her super happy and she's super in love. I have already cried and confessed my love to her but she just sees me as nothing but a friend. Yesterday we hung out and we cuddled and held hands but she still says she sees me as a best friend. Another problem is that in four months we are going to be living in different states. I want her back so badly and I'm working on becoming a better man, but she refuses to see it or even let me ignite the spark.
This is the very best advice on this I have ever heard :)
I fall in taking her for granted catagory😂
Hey Dan, please help im near the bad feelings. My ex said, my feelings has changed for you and ive broke up with her, after two weeks no contact i called her and she said i miss u so much, im very excited because u call but i cant heal myself yet so i cant heal your feelings and she didnt want to come back. But everyday i see her on whatsapp she always writing me but dont send messages. What does it mean? I cant solve her feelings please help i loose my mind..
Hi Dan, what shall I do since she doesn't want us to meet and talk about our broken marriage. She doesn't even want us to talk about our issues over the phone. We have a son together. Please advise.
Dan, what would you say to a guy who can meet up with his former gf regularly and have a great time, lots of laughing and flirting, she openly says he's the most confident guy she's ever met, and doesn't have a bad word to say about him, but always goes out of her way to emphasise that they're just friends now and can't ever be more than that. We have the laughter, the flirting, the rapport, just don't understand what needs to happen to get to the next level. She's been very stressed with work and originally broke off the relationship saying she simply didn't have time and energy for it and was too stressed out and burnt out by all her commitments. However, she now says she's much less stressed with work, but doesn't seem to show inclination to want to resume the relationship... what to do here...
Interesting case. It seems to be either one of two things. 1) You do make her feel sexually attracted, but you're missing the message she is trying to send to you. That being, "Hey, I open for sex, but don't try to get me to commit. Can you deal with that?" If she senses that you can't, she will remain closed up. 2) You don't make her feel sexually attracted because you're a bit too nice and give her too much power during interactions. In other words, she likes you, but you need to be more ballsy around her. If it's the first scenario, read this (it won't all apply to you because she's your ex, but you will learn from it) www.themodernman.com/blog/she-likes-me-but-doesnt-want-a-relationship.html. If it's the second scenario, then watch this: ruclips.net/video/t48pGR7fO7A/видео.html
Hi Dan, am in a mess I got drunk and told my ex that we just got together all sorts of things via voice not and she said she wants nothing to do with me am confused.i love her like crazy and she's leaving the country soon. Help me please it's urgent. Thanks
Can you do a video about what to do after she unblocks you after a while? I don’t know what to do and I don’t want to mess up
My ex said no chance because of my anger and she has moved on we have 2 kids together and we had 11 years together how can I get her back
I need help fast. My ex broke up with me and I talked her last week but now she's giving me the cold shoulder and she's talking to a new guy and I think she has feelings for him. What should I do?
If she is moving on, use this approach to get her back: ruclips.net/video/DelQO5y83Hw/видео.html
Problem: i did step 4 and wanted to do step 5 before step 3.
I know some dudes can do this without stept 3. Seems like i forgot about step 3 because i wanted step 5 asap...
I'm currently doing step 3 since 1.5 weeks (and also good ones), but still unfriended on fb. I know the step to get friends again,
however, it has not worked and I received no answer. I feel a little bad that I skipped step 3. What should I do?
I lost mine she is with the next guy right now what could or can I do Dan???? 16yrs and 2kids......smh yes I did all the needy stuff!!! I messed up my job issues a lot of issues messed up the relationship!
Hey man me n my ex broke up a month ago n started to try n be friends on her behalf n It didint work I pleaded and begged n then now she kinda don’t want to do anything with me n now I’ve seen she’s having fun and kinda just talking to someone else what do I do I’m gonna try n not contact her for while because she does not want to talk to me rn but then randomly contact her to meet up n show my confidence and etc from your tips is there anything else I need to consider what’s the right way to approach this I ain’t scared by the guy or any of that
Okay, these two videos will help you: ruclips.net/video/O46XSPkof0Q/видео.html and ruclips.net/video/DelQO5y83Hw/видео.html
Hey Dan I've been watching some of your videos lately, me and my ex gf broke up 5 days ago in the first 2 days I was being stupid and chasing her. Then I decides to take action and change myself we never stopped contact be she seems troubled it, she had offered me a friendship and I dis refuse.
But after changing I accepted it.
We eventualy went out with some friends and her and It was all fine she was laughing and being nice but then today I told her If she was available for a call and we did a phone call and some time into the call she said : "I dont want you to have any hopes that we are coming back" I told her people change (ididnt ask for anything) and tried to make a joke about it.. I feel a bit sad that it doesnt seem to be working.
Please Dan this is really important for me
You should have replied, "What makes you think I want you back? You were the worst girlfriend ever" and then laugh. Don't take what women say so seriously in moments like that. If you do, you place yourself in the friend zone. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/t48pGR7fO7A/видео.html
Dan Bacon Thanks for replying Dan it means a lot to me , I think she keeps me in a friendship because she just wants to keep me around because its always me texting her or calling her , I have tried to use some joking around she laugh at some but at the way I text shes just like "you're not like that" , I also asked her if we could go out , she accepted it but said exactly tge same thing "I dont want you to have hope" i tried to put that to rest by saying some joke about it she didnt laugh. But accepted to go out.
Do you think after this meeting I should wait for her to say something to me and give her a bit more space ?
is it okay for me to be the one to ask out my ex ? I know you say it needs to be her idea, but could I make her feel attraction maybe kiss her and then ask her out?
Ask her out? No. Here's why: www.themodernman.com/blog/should-you-ask-your-ex-do-you-want-to-start-from-the-beginning-and-date-again.html
Hey Dan, Ive been communicating with my ex for about a month now. We were texting quite a bit, had a couple phone calls, and even hooked up at the the very beginning. However, recently after trying to set something up again, she told me that she feels her life was healthier prior to us talking again and is pushing to end us talking or as she put it give space. My question is, how much resistance is too much to where I should let go? What should I do in this situation?
In that situation, you can stay in contact, but make sure she is getting the impression that you're moving on without her. It's not about hooking up with new girls or anything (unless you want to do that, of course). Instead, it's about how you're interacting with her and making her feel attracted, but you're not chasing a relationship. She then starts to feel drawn to you and wants something to happen again. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/8NERcd2vI6E/видео.html
Hi Dan, me and my ex broke up about 2 and a half weeks ago and she's finally giving me a chance this Sunday to make things up to her. Now I fully trust that this video will help me, but is there any other advice that you can give me so that getting her back surely works?
My ex told I will not txt till you become correct person....after that I only will txt you as a frnd....Now wt shd I do
Need a tip dan. Did step 4 before step 3. She was unsure about it and blocked me on WhatsApp/instagram, unfriended on fb few weeks later.. I’m unblocked on WhatsApp, now doing step 3, but still unfriended on fb.. what should I do?
If you have done a great job of Step 3, then send her the Facebook message that's included in this bonus program: www.themodernman.com/social/facebook/facebook-phone-and-text-message-examples.html Alternatively, if you can call her, then do a great job of Step 3, wait a few days and then call her.
Dan I’ve got a problem. So me and this girl were in the in between stage, we were more than friends and I noticed things were changing. After I asked, we had an argument and she said we should just be friends. How do I get her back ? She’s the type of girl I’ve been looking for forever and I don’t wanna lose this
In between stage? So, where you having sex? If not, then watch this: ruclips.net/video/6kzV77TAOEY/видео.html If you were having sex, watch this: ruclips.net/video/t48pGR7fO7A/видео.html
You still haven't done a video on how to game shy girls?
You still haven't stopped asking me. Haha...jk. I know man, I know. I want to make all those videos, but I need to complete the videos on the topic of getting an ex back first. I will then be making relationship and pick up videos again. I have the video about picking up shy girls on my list and ready to go, but not yet. Honestly, it's probably about a year away. In the meantime, you might enjoy this playlist: ruclips.net/video/UWLcofMmC9o/видео.html
Dan I have exhausted every way of keeping this relationship and it looks after I have solved the issue. She repeats it and I talk about again and again, is solved and the cycle repeats itself. And now in my heart what she does I don't really care. But I wish things could be as they were when we met because it was nice.. I need your help, should I let go or what?
Nice video Dan I want to ask my ex cheated on me and left me for someone els but I wasn't needy or insecure or anything ,we had a great relationship and we were madly inlove and we laughed every day but she suddenly she said she doesn't feel the same but she lied to me she actualy wanted to get rid of me to get together with this guy she had a previous relationship with and after the breakup I didn't contact her for 3 weeks and she contacted me but I think she misses what do you think
Sometimes a woman isn't as committed as you think she is. She can put on an act of being happy, but secretly, she knows that you're not at the level (e.g. of manliness for example) that she wants. She hopes that you will change, but if you don't, she proceeds with her plans and cheats on you or dumps you. About her contacting you: Don't focus on what she is doing. Focus on what you are doing. What are you doing to re-attract her and get her back? That is what counts. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/gcdx4Wlqcyc/видео.html
hey dan my ex and i ar in ar long distance but i just fuckt up can you make a video about the subject I have sent you a message with more details but If you want them here, just say, hope you answer
Here are some tips for you on that: www.themodernman.com/blog/maintaining-a-long-distance-relationship.html Please note: I don't check my personal messages on RUclips. I get sent about 250 per day at the moment and it's increasing all the time. Impossible to reply, let alone read them all. Cheers, Dan
Who is this Man ...... he’s damn Good, I want to meet in person
Hey Dan I want to have a personal conversation with you on the phone. I have a story to tell you and I need your advice. So can me and you actually have a conversation over the phone?
Please see: www.themodernman.com/my-personal-reply-to-you.html
Hey Dan i think my ex has moved on but she still calls me. What does that mean? Maybe she's playing with my feelings?
Don't focus on what she is doing. Focus on what you are doing to make her feel sexually and romantically attracted to you again. If you follow her lead, she will confuse you. BTW: If she has moved on, watch this to understand what you need to do to get her back: ruclips.net/video/DelQO5y83Hw/видео.html
What about a ex I have kids with. Been 3 months I can't get close to her and she ignores me
I miss my ex girlfriend and she is leaving the academy in 5 months what should I do
Get her back, make her love you like crazy and prepare for her departure. If she loves you even more than you love her by the time she has to leave, she's going to be the one feeling like she is missing out. How can you get her back? Watch this: ruclips.net/video/gcdx4Wlqcyc/видео.html
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WHat do I do when we're in mid text conversation and suddenly she just stops replying? I was making her laugh (she kept saying lol/lmao to what I was saying) and boom she suddenly stops replying but she hasnt read or opened my text. In my mind im thinking she's just busy because knowing her she is. Im hoping EVENTUALLY she will respond maybe when im sleeping so I can use that response as a way to text her in the morning.
Also, should I wait until we can keep a stable text conversation going before I ask to call her/see her? This is literally my first day of trying any of your advice so Im not trying to rush her or us back together.
One more thing. I made her mad a few days ago when talking to her in person. She said "btw any second chance of us getting back together flew out the window." She said it like she was about to cry or get mad. Obviously getting her mad wasnt a good thing. But I'm taking the emotion in her voice as a good sign that there are SOME feeling left. Thoughts on that too?
It's totally normal for a woman to stop replying like that. Men do it to women too (I did it to girls who texted me too much back when I was dating. I'm happily married now). About your question: No, you should not ask to call her. You should just call her when things seem to going good via text. Here are some texting tips for you: ruclips.net/video/YbL8aUxw_LE/видео.html About making her mad: Well, it depends why you made her mad. If it was due to you pushing for a relationship, being clingy, jealous or controlling, then those are negative turn off feelings that won't make her want you back. If she got mad because she was being a pain in the butt, then you should laughed at her for being a little drama queen. She will then respect you for having the balls to put her back in her place like that, in a dominant, but loving way.
Dan, i miss my girlfriend but she doesnt wanna back and she said she is 100% sure of it.
the past week i have been acting sad and depserate towarrds her and i think ive ruined my chances for now. she said we might get back in a few months she said have too wait and see what do i do man? i try to reattarct her by making her laugh and being a good person but she is still cold to me with just oks and cool idk what too do can you help me out
This will help you: www.themodernman.com/blog/my-ex-said-that-i-have-no-chance-with-her-anymore.html
Hello Dan, this is the first time I ever get dumped, she supposedly have stopped loving me and likes another man, I think it has to do wity my insecurities like you hace said in your videos. i’ve been trying techniques like humor whe she texts me and it seems to be working because she texts me often. how can i fix this?
me: I think i was a good decision for us to break up, Ive been feeling good with myself, thanks for your support these years, i wish you the best.
she: thats good, you’re welcome.
how can i fix this, i feel like i have made a mistake but i haven’t said anything else, this was a while ago she still haven’t texted me again. please if you can reply i’ll appreciate it. love your videos.
well i have a question how should you ask your ex for a date so it doesnt seem strange or weird , and how often should you meet ex, once a week? what you think
I recently posted an article about that topic here: www.themodernman.com/blog/should-you-ask-your-ex-do-you-want-to-start-from-the-beginning-and-date-again.html
Can you talk about another dating topic now