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  • Destiny, Jazmen Jafar VS Lila Rose, Trent Horn DEBATE | Whatever Podcast
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  • @destiny
    @destiny  7 месяцев назад +51

    Destiny, Jazmen Jafar VS Lila Rose, Trent Horn DEBATE►ruclips.net/user/livein99BLSh8ZY?feature=shared
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    • @by010
      @by010 7 месяцев назад +1

      Why this comment has timestamp 7h ago and video has timestamp 40 seconds ago.. hmmm

    • @Joshua-eo5hr
      @Joshua-eo5hr 7 месяцев назад +12

      Hey destiny are you gonna dye you're hair red now that you got a divorce?

    • @gempower8029
      @gempower8029 7 месяцев назад

      you get what you fucking deserve

    • @plmnjioqazzsw7962
      @plmnjioqazzsw7962 7 месяцев назад +1

      ​​@@Joshua-eo5hr he should get cuck tattooed on his forehead ........... he is a secure man ........ 😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @barnacleandy
      @barnacleandy 7 месяцев назад

      Ohhh destiny the divorced… how could anyone predict such an outcome? Marrying a slut without a prenup LOL massive L.😂

  • @OfficialRedTeamReview
    @OfficialRedTeamReview 7 месяцев назад +506

    Trent Horn trying with all his might to keep eye contact

    • @theafflictionvhs17
      @theafflictionvhs17 7 месяцев назад +40

      _”Very Nice, Now let’s see Paul Allen’s avoidant of temptation…”_

    • @Nerd_History
      @Nerd_History 7 месяцев назад +7

      Love the content you and Preston put out

    • @drdoomer8553
      @drdoomer8553 7 месяцев назад +3

      @@theafflictionvhs17Paul Allen’s femboy collectible card?

    • @maninform3523
      @maninform3523 7 месяцев назад +2

      ofc this guy has been indoctrinated by preston and he is a destiny binge watcher now lol

    • @Kalki70581
      @Kalki70581 7 месяцев назад +9

      Trent Horny

  • @jamesortega8923
    @jamesortega8923 7 месяцев назад +1017

    Most hilarious fade-in to a debate I've seen in my life

    • @romnesia7729
      @romnesia7729 7 месяцев назад +54

      Peak editing, August

    • @Joshua-eo5hr
      @Joshua-eo5hr 7 месяцев назад +17

      Destiny got divorced 😂 hes gonna dye his hair red now

    • @fyshfysh1281
      @fyshfysh1281 7 месяцев назад +3

      FOR REAL, I lost my shit.

    • @Bill-ou7zp
      @Bill-ou7zp 7 месяцев назад +4

      Them thangs are mammothian.

    • @Dirty_bubs
      @Dirty_bubs 7 месяцев назад

      I just got here, haven’t even seen it yet, and i already know what’s about to go down

  • @julianlehman221
    @julianlehman221 7 месяцев назад +416

    I’m 25 minutes in and it’s wild to me that i can hear all of Lila’s points perfectly but can hardly hear Jazmin make out a full sentence without being interrupted 😂

    • @ldphoenix3
      @ldphoenix3 7 месяцев назад +19

      It’s crazy😂 they couldn’t let her speak

    • @jgyoung1981
      @jgyoung1981 7 месяцев назад +42

      She really didnt have any points worth listening too. Her references were pretty weak to be honest.

    • @bigbangrafa8435
      @bigbangrafa8435 7 месяцев назад +28

      *_"What happens when someone who actually watches porn debates people who strongly oppose It but don't watch It and have no clue about It"_*
      The real problem exacerbated here is the massive divide between the factions of the Culture War. All the people Lila and Trent know personally are aligned with their ideological views, and the same goes for Destiny and Jazmen. None of the sides can even fathom how the views of the other side are possible because they have never interacted deeply with someone outside their bubble. When the divide is this big, bringing in studies is pointless, because each bubble has their studies who confirm their personal biases. And that's how an Empire fall ladies and gentleman, not with WWIII or an alien invasion, but simply with the tribes that form the nation completly decoupling from each other.

    • @tylercarter9965
      @tylercarter9965 7 месяцев назад +67

      @@jgyoung1981if her points are pointless why not let her finish her sentence and then dunk on her. clearly they’re scared of her talking points cuz they keep interrupting her

    • @Venmerr
      @Venmerr 7 месяцев назад +38

      @@bigbangrafa8435 that’s not true though destiny grew up catholic and was strongly conservative until his mid 20’s. He was pro life the whole shebang. He would understand exactly where they are coming from

  • @rambo3rd471
    @rambo3rd471 7 месяцев назад +48

    Lila won't let anyone speak for more than a second LMAO

    • @Drea62621
      @Drea62621 6 месяцев назад +3

      @U90722everything she is on she’s constantly trying to talk over everybody.

  • @servantintraining
    @servantintraining 7 месяцев назад +253

    Lila needs to stop speaking in slogans
    There’s a difference between podcasting, or giving a speech, and debating. The more she recycles terms/phrases, the more it seems like she’s regurgitating instead of responding in good faith

    • @jshv73
      @jshv73 7 месяцев назад +36

      There is no intention of a good faith debate here. She has her talking points and she’s gonna go down her argument tree no matter what arguments she’s presented with. That’s why she is incapable of engaging with hypotheticals, it’s why she constantly needs to interrupt and move goalposts when directly disproven by a study. For example “there’s no difference in outcomes for prostitutes who work in a legalized setting and those who don’t”, Jazmin provides a study that directly contradicts that statement and then it’s “well this debate is about if sex work is bad not prostitution”
      Then why’d you bring it up? It’s so clearly not a good faith attempt to make an actual argument it’s just an excuse to read her script. I’d love to see her debate with an actual moderator and an overlay so we can see in real time how manic her debate style is.

    • @UnseenOct
      @UnseenOct 7 месяцев назад +6

      ​@jshv73 yeup, they just want to get clips to use in their morality campaigns. That's why destiny doesn't really "win" these arguments. They're not trying to come to a truth or arguing in good faith to get there. They get their talking points out, hopefully push Destiny into biting the bullet on things they can make 15 second clips out of, and leave

    • @qwertyasdfgh1014
      @qwertyasdfgh1014 7 месяцев назад

      @@jshv73 Jazmen promote CP and incest...

    • @vyvianalcott1681
      @vyvianalcott1681 7 месяцев назад

      The problem is these people aren't capable of engaging with any other people in good faith when they don't even approach their own beliefs in good faith.

    • @qwertyasdfgh1014
      @qwertyasdfgh1014 7 месяцев назад

      @@vyvianalcott1681 What?! Destiny and Jazmen support and promote CP and incest !

  • @tyto9786
    @tyto9786 7 месяцев назад +259

    One of Destiny’s breast debates

    • @PosthumousAddress
      @PosthumousAddress 7 месяцев назад

      Does he even speak? He's said about three words ten minutes in.
      Then again the Christian idiots don't let them get a word in edgeways

    • @RM-qo1rl
      @RM-qo1rl 7 месяцев назад +1

      😂😂

    • @hmkhgx8068
      @hmkhgx8068 7 месяцев назад +1

      I mean breast debates...I mean breast debates...I mean breast debates...I mean breast...I mean breast...I mean breast...

    • @gungermunggung9299
      @gungermunggung9299 7 месяцев назад

      haha there it is

    • @patticake5367
      @patticake5367 7 месяцев назад

      I think you mean breast debates?

  • @SP-td9xj
    @SP-td9xj 7 месяцев назад +27

    Lila constantly bringing up the destructive nature of polyamory the day after destinys divorce went public sure was something lol

    • @kraken5003
      @kraken5003 7 месяцев назад +1

      lol.. do you have the timestamp i don't really want to spent an hour watching this

    • @SP-td9xj
      @SP-td9xj 7 месяцев назад

      @@kraken5003 she does a few times in the first like 15 minutes or so

    • @benjaminlquinlan8702
      @benjaminlquinlan8702 4 месяца назад +1

      Yeah well like - this is exactly the thing. Know them by their fruits. If it looks like a duck quacks like a duck ...

  • @blackhat4206
    @blackhat4206 7 месяцев назад +49

    I hate team debates because it further reduces the amount of time each person gets to expand on their arguments. Constant shifting of topics from either side makes it difficult to focus and hammer home any singular point before someone else asks a different question or cites another study leading down an entirely different line of questioning.

    • @weaselwovel
      @weaselwovel 7 месяцев назад +4

      Yeah, it did bounce all over the place making certain parts hard to listen to. Which was just frustrating.

  • @ShadowQrow
    @ShadowQrow 7 месяцев назад +1298

    August knows how to fade into a debate. What a cultured man.

    • @WaffleStomper69
      @WaffleStomper69 7 месяцев назад +38

      Yeah but the audio was not working around that part. I didn't hear a single thing she said.

    • @just_a_turtle_chad
      @just_a_turtle_chad 7 месяцев назад +18

      Destiny is single 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Sheahova
      @Sheahova 7 месяцев назад +2

      @@WaffleStomper69idk if I even heard anything she was saying unless she was off camera

    • @Chadmlad
      @Chadmlad 7 месяцев назад +1

      You have to be a special type of loser to say this on a comment that has nothing to do with someone being Single or in a relationship @@just_a_turtle_chad

    • @deceiverofgodss836
      @deceiverofgodss836 7 месяцев назад

      @@Sheahova That was by design lol

  • @Murderpaws
    @Murderpaws 7 месяцев назад +143

    I wonder how many people, like myself, had to pause it a few times and take a brake because of how exhausting it was to hear a lot of the arguments?

    • @I-am-Hrut
      @I-am-Hrut 7 месяцев назад +30

      Yeah, me too. I kept thinking about 1 Timothy 2:12: "I do not permit a woman to teach or to have authority over a man; she must be silent."
      Then I remembered that Destiny is a proud member of the fairer sex, so she was fair game for the zealous temper tantrum twins.

    • @michaelrunk5930
      @michaelrunk5930 7 месяцев назад +10

      Yea there so many flaws in Rose and Trents arguments.

    • @michaeldromes3948
      @michaeldromes3948 7 месяцев назад +13

      Yeah, altough i wouldn't say it was because of the amount of arguments, nor how intellectually complex they were, rather that it everyone was trying to push the conversation in a different direction. Lila was still half-debating abortion from months back, Trent was constantly alluding to his religious morals (that are outdated even for most religious people these days) without ever actually justifying them in the first place or letting them be criticized, Jazmen was a bit better but she was jumping from one study to another without any deeper dive or breathing room (tho then again she was also the one refocusing the convo back to the topic the most. It needed heavy moderation imo.

    • @jmh4ggg
      @jmh4ggg 7 месяцев назад +9

      Rose was so obviously pivoting and pretending not to understand the argument for the sake winning the argument several times. It was disgusting.

    • @kadajj6717
      @kadajj6717 7 месяцев назад +2

      yeah I was just waiting for destiny to go off the whole time

  • @MonkeyPantsFace
    @MonkeyPantsFace 7 месяцев назад +196

    Okay, as a therapist, the sex-as-service argument was infuriating.
    I can not have sex with a client because it goes directly against my ethical code of conduct.
    1. It is an abuse of power and vulnerability.
    2. It creates multiple conflicting relationships in the room (a solely sexual relationship is still a relationship, same as a therapeutic relationship)
    But none of that matters because sex work has the exact same obligations! You do not expect a sex worker to perform therapy or medical care because each of these roles is intentionally boundaried!

    • @lampad4549
      @lampad4549 7 месяцев назад +3

      What if the patient wants to have sex with therapist?

    • @bentrinker1937
      @bentrinker1937 7 месяцев назад +6

      I was getting so mad hearing the anti porn ppl being unable to engage with that point.

    • @MonkeyPantsFace
      @MonkeyPantsFace 7 месяцев назад +9

      @lampad4549 typically, if this situation comes up, it's addressed directly. We discuss the nature of therapy and the boundaries of our position, usually with reference to the power I hold as a therapist and how it compromises the dynamics of any relationship we have beyond this room.
      A client wanting to have sex with a therapist does not remove any of the previously mentioned problems.

    • @gusmanue8337
      @gusmanue8337 7 месяцев назад

      I agree with you that was a very stupid argument.

    • @sean5388
      @sean5388 7 месяцев назад +19

      You're missing the point, lol. WHY is it an abuse of power or WHY does it create a conflict of interest? What is special about sex, if it's a valid 'service' for workers to provide, and all parties are consenting? Why would it be OK for a therapist to bake cookies and offer them to people in the waiting room, but not offer them blowjobs? The point is exactly that there is something different in nature about sex.

  • @ms6534
    @ms6534 7 месяцев назад +29

    I think Lila only seemed like the honest interlocutor when partnered with the lady from the 2v1. Here she was easily the most ideologically driven. She seemed a lot more interested in proselytizing than she did in having an interesting conversation. Brian needs to do some work on detecting his own bias if he wants to host debates on topics he has a personal interest in. Lila clearly needed to be reigned in several times, and Brian didn't seem to understand just how obnoxious it was becoming.

    • @princepsbellum3413
      @princepsbellum3413 7 месяцев назад +1

      Yeah, Lila was a bit off the rails in this one. But I'd say Trent is just as ideologically driven, he's just more covert about it.

  • @mbrown7325
    @mbrown7325 7 месяцев назад +474

    Trent’s back must hurt from carrying his side of the debate.

    • @mbrown7325
      @mbrown7325 7 месяцев назад +19

      @@jonasjensen9305 honestly yeah, but for possibly 3 reasons 😂

    • @urmotha976
      @urmotha976 7 месяцев назад +13

      lila isn’t a formal debater so yeah… obviously his delivery is going to be better.

    • @mbrown7325
      @mbrown7325 7 месяцев назад +17

      @@urmotha976 okay?

    • @LoudWaffle
      @LoudWaffle 7 месяцев назад +39

      Lila Rose tries not to interrupt even a single sentence from the other side of the table: challenge FAILED

    • @urmotha976
      @urmotha976 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@mbrown7325 ur welcome

  • @LoudWaffle
    @LoudWaffle 7 месяцев назад +166

    Oh dear god I had a jumpscare when the helmet girl in the background moved, I though she was a cardboard cutout. WHYYYY is she even there?!? I remember when Destiny was on the redpill podcasts and people joked that she was just there to provide set dressing, not to actually add any human element to the discussions, and now I see that it wasn't a joke... she's literally just a background prop. What is going on???

    • @d.6786
      @d.6786 7 месяцев назад +18

      Lmaooo I thought she was another doll

    • @olknoxlo
      @olknoxlo 7 месяцев назад +25

      It wouldn't be quite as bad IF there wasn't a literal doll on her opposite. I do like her helmet tho.

    • @edr1213
      @edr1213 7 месяцев назад +24

      She is a backup in case people don't show up to the usual whatever podcast. No shows happen quite often and she'll join in and speak sometimes. I don't really know why she is on this debate one though 😂

    • @IAmTheBugInsideYou
      @IAmTheBugInsideYou 7 месяцев назад +23

      @@edr1213 Why don't they have her leave though once they know everyone is there lol, it's so weird that she sits there for an hour & doesn't say anything. Hopefully she's getting paid just to be a background prop

    • @JP-Sphere
      @JP-Sphere 7 месяцев назад +2

      Its so weird..but hey good for her its free money

  • @TripletsInCrim3
    @TripletsInCrim3 4 месяца назад +8

    I also love how Destiny lets his female debate partner finish her thoughts, whereas the religious guy constantly cuts off his debate partner 😂 Classic religious toxic masculinity in display there

  • @inatani0
    @inatani0 7 месяцев назад +27

    Putting watching porn and being in an open relationship in the same basket is so wild.

  • @Comptonymous
    @Comptonymous 7 месяцев назад +337

    That’s a fucking legendary fade in. Haven’t laughed that hard in a while 😂

    • @namelesscapone
      @namelesscapone 7 месяцев назад +6

      Cuckstiny’s wife Melina left him this is no laughing matter😢

    • @kevinross6235
      @kevinross6235 7 месяцев назад +8

      ​@@namelesscaponeFor a twink? Kinda messes with the idea of women dating up, doesn't it?

    • @namelesscapone
      @namelesscapone 7 месяцев назад

      @@kevinross6235a toxic twink with suicidal tendencies…kinda plays into the idea that women love toxic and nice guys finish last💔

    • @ne0nmancer
      @ne0nmancer 7 месяцев назад +4

      @@namelesscapone Good thing you're him giving him views, at least he can get money out of it

    • @Baggerz182
      @Baggerz182 7 месяцев назад

      repent to God

  • @boredom5132
    @boredom5132 7 месяцев назад +537

    Most impressive part of this debate was destiny’s eye control.

    • @CastIronFist
      @CastIronFist 7 месяцев назад +146

      No, it's Trent's eye control that is truly impressive.

    • @boredom5132
      @boredom5132 7 месяцев назад +57

      @@CastIronFist true, he had to handle it head on.

    • @CastIronFist
      @CastIronFist 7 месяцев назад +31

      I might not agree with him but I can respect self control of the highest order. 😂

    • @richardherlihy8416
      @richardherlihy8416 7 месяцев назад +19

      I'm sure he spotted every dirty mark on the ceiling 🙄 ...😂

    • @reasonabledictator8993
      @reasonabledictator8993 7 месяцев назад +23

      Yeah I don't care how much of a dog I sound like there is absolutely no way I would be able to stop looking

  • @k45207
    @k45207 7 месяцев назад +22

    This is kind of a cool format it’s like a tag team Mach lol btw I love destiny, the speed at which he can get someone to start back peddling and have their argument fall apart is something great to watch

    • @tristenatorplaysgames6833
      @tristenatorplaysgames6833 7 месяцев назад

      Tag teams are awful when there isn’t an agreement on twk as debate partners

  • @kittypig3619
    @kittypig3619 7 месяцев назад +19

    I like how whenever Jazmin is about to make a point Lila reminds us that Destiny is the name of a nurse that gives handjobs

  • @TwilightSentinel
    @TwilightSentinel 7 месяцев назад +508

    When Destiny said "maybe Brian can fill us in more", his reaction was priceless.

    • @PimpaButter
      @PimpaButter 7 месяцев назад +4

      timestamp?

    • @Xx_Pico_xX
      @Xx_Pico_xX 7 месяцев назад +15

      @@PimpaButter 19:47

    • @PimpaButter
      @PimpaButter 7 месяцев назад +6

      @@Xx_Pico_xXty fam

    • @ukee31
      @ukee31 7 месяцев назад

      lol for real

    • @PlumpSort
      @PlumpSort 7 месяцев назад +28

      19:46 LMAO nobody really got the joke or laughed except for helmet girl

  • @dukeofdenver
    @dukeofdenver 7 месяцев назад +196

    😂FYI, Trent didn't want to see Oppenheimer just cuz of the sex scene. That booba in his face must be the equivalent of ramming a pick up truck into someone

    • @ng38477
      @ng38477 7 месяцев назад +41

      I do notice he can''t seem to look at Jazmin directly. He probably beat his meat in shame when he went home.

    • @davidpinto-fernandez7132
      @davidpinto-fernandez7132 7 месяцев назад

      JAJAJA WTF xd huge asumption@@ng38477

    • @TheSethOlson
      @TheSethOlson 7 месяцев назад +57

      @@ng38477why you fantasizing about him 💀

    • @id1550
      @id1550 7 месяцев назад +6

      @@ng38477I wouldn’t either. Might as well not even wear anything at that point like wtf

    • @ng38477
      @ng38477 7 месяцев назад

      @@TheSethOlson Trent? No, lol. I'm not into a more boring version of Matt Walsh. All of these Catholic or really religious men are the repressed men on the planet.

  • @randomaccount6146
    @randomaccount6146 7 месяцев назад +56

    12:27 This is one of the main things I like about Destiny debates. He never allows things like this to slip and always tries to correct them on the spot before moving on with the conversation. It may not seem like much in individual cases but overtime in the debate these moments really stack up and affect the outcome of the debate.

  • @colbymay6044
    @colbymay6044 7 месяцев назад +22

    Jazmen: “I do think porn is bad for Catholics. I don’t think it’s bad for everyone else.” She really summed it all up right at the beginning.

    • @colbymay6044
      @colbymay6044 7 месяцев назад +2

      Also Lila needs to figure out how debates work. She’s preaching over Jazmen.

    • @qwertyasdfgh1014
      @qwertyasdfgh1014 7 месяцев назад

      Jazmen support and promote CP,s*x with animals and ince**...

    • @vincenttschida8849
      @vincenttschida8849 5 месяцев назад +4

      Porn is bad for everyone.

    • @rodintremboy6459
      @rodintremboy6459 3 месяца назад

      @@vincenttschida8849 Quiet mr catholic.

    • @VirginMostPowerfull
      @VirginMostPowerfull 2 месяца назад

      So we're just going to ignore the whole no fap community and pretend it's just religious people?
      Delusional.
      I'm addicted too and it's a struggle everyday I hate it, and you've got people like you in denial.

  • @whothehellisthiskid3363
    @whothehellisthiskid3363 7 месяцев назад +371

    "Abortion rates have gone up because of porn!!!"
    "That's not true, they've actually gone down."
    "So your argument is that child abuse doesn't exist?!"
    This is incredible content

    • @KoffyGG
      @KoffyGG 7 месяцев назад +9

      That's both of them in every "debate"

    • @daveveloz
      @daveveloz 7 месяцев назад +9

      Oh gosh yes, she is the WORST “debater”

    • @urmotha976
      @urmotha976 7 месяцев назад +8

      that’s not what happened 💀 but i mean if that makes u feel better. also would’ve helped if destiny didn’t interrupt every second that she was talking and actually tried to listen to her position or questions first.

    • @KoffyGG
      @KoffyGG 7 месяцев назад +31

      @@urmotha976 > If D didin't interrupt.
      Bruh. Did you watch the video at all? I'm not saying he doesn't ever but L and T are so annoying because that's all they do and then have the audacity to say "Let me finish".

    • @daveveloz
      @daveveloz 7 месяцев назад +19

      @@urmotha976 WHOA cat calling the kettle black much! Lila literally has one debate tactic and it's to interrupt.

  • @LeoCoot
    @LeoCoot 7 месяцев назад +709

    that fade in 0:50 editor knows exactly what he did 🤣🤣🤣

    • @Toastergod44
      @Toastergod44 7 месяцев назад +44

      Tig Ol' Biddies

    • @ronethegreat9
      @ronethegreat9 7 месяцев назад +22

      I mean, you should focus in on your main character when telling story? I don't know what your implying sir?

    • @WillBreezy06
      @WillBreezy06 7 месяцев назад +11

      Top tier editing 😂

    • @taslikesdogs
      @taslikesdogs 7 месяцев назад +13

      this is what happens when you take Christ out of schools 😔😔😔

    • @VA-gu1jq
      @VA-gu1jq 7 месяцев назад +13

      @@taslikesdogs😂😂😂

  • @Patricia-he2xr
    @Patricia-he2xr 7 месяцев назад +3

    Genuine question: I’ve mostly only seen clips (and admittedly only part way through this video) but I’ve never ever heard the girl with the hat speak ever. Does she contribute sometimes or she kind of just there?

  • @balla2172
    @balla2172 7 месяцев назад +5

    Divorce rates skyrocketed when the courts allowed anybody to divorce any one for anything instead of having to have a reason.
    Not just I don't want to be in this relationship anymore

  • @superbnns
    @superbnns 7 месяцев назад +609

    This entire debate can be summed up as:
    "I have a cited study that proves you wrong"
    "That study is wrong"

    • @kevinwalter2674
      @kevinwalter2674 7 месяцев назад +187

      "And also this study conducted 20 years ago by the Catholic Moms Against Pornography and Tugjobs says..."

    • @placate9051
      @placate9051 7 месяцев назад +46

      ​@@kevinwalter2674and the second you bring up a study they become PhD level researchers, doing deep dives on the methodology😂

    • @nfrankiksa4596
      @nfrankiksa4596 7 месяцев назад +8

      Or "the data is conflicting on that"

    • @nb4411
      @nb4411 7 месяцев назад +32

      Studies are dumb. Just look at both sides of the tables lifestyles and choose the one you think is better. I prefer purpose/meaning over quick fixes and dopamine surges.

    • @mattrg1111111
      @mattrg1111111 7 месяцев назад +77

      @@nb4411you’re right. I prefer enjoying my life and treating people with respect over forcing myself and everyone around me to be miserable because sky man says we’re baby machines.

  • @willyamacaronie5724
    @willyamacaronie5724 7 месяцев назад +107

    Lila and Trent feel like they don't even agree within each other

    • @mbrown7325
      @mbrown7325 7 месяцев назад +36

      It felt like Lila would make an overly large or stupid claim and Trent would have to try to save her from herself. I thought Trent actually did a good job, he made two arguments that I thought were solid.

    • @Morgan-tb8ns
      @Morgan-tb8ns 7 месяцев назад

      @@mbrown7325which ones?

    • @mbrown7325
      @mbrown7325 7 месяцев назад +5

      @@Morgan-tb8ns the main one was the idea that like a nurse couldn’t give a patient a handy because it risks the nurse becoming too attached and lose objectivity. This brings up the idea that sex even as a job, can bring attachment and in this case an unhealthy or unsafe one.

    • @StateAlchemist7
      @StateAlchemist7 7 месяцев назад +3

      @@mbrown7325 I wonder what the study is of prostitutes becoming attached to their clients.

    • @mbrown7325
      @mbrown7325 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@StateAlchemist7 well you would first have to argue that’s even an issue. The main point you’d have to connect to is the client becoming attached to the sex worker. Then lead into why that’s a factual problem for society. I think he opened the door for this conversation but didn’t or wasn’t able to go deeper.

  • @DeviantMittens
    @DeviantMittens 7 месяцев назад +7

    I hate it when people try to change the definition of words to fit their narrative. Cheating is a breach of consent and boundaries point blank.

    • @JoeyJame
      @JoeyJame 7 месяцев назад

      Like when nut jobs try and change the definition of the word woman so it includes males 😂

  • @Highzenb3rg
    @Highzenb3rg 7 месяцев назад +106

    I'm curious as to why the "moderator" let Lila talk over everyone. Seeing her deliberately act obtuse for the majority of the debate made that fact even worse. Some of the worst moderating I've ever seen.

    • @PosthumousAddress
      @PosthumousAddress 7 месяцев назад +15

      Right? In fact the moderator told Jazmen to be quiet and let Lila talk after Lila just interrupted constantly!

    • @Highzenb3rg
      @Highzenb3rg 7 месяцев назад +5

      @@PosthumousAddress, Yeah, I really couldn't believe that. I get it though, ole boy from the Whatever podcast is an actual joke. So, it really shouldn't surprise me.

    • @TripnotizeVM
      @TripnotizeVM 7 месяцев назад +3

      I forgot there was a moderator

    • @scrimbo5319
      @scrimbo5319 7 месяцев назад +3

      The moderator was biased

    • @JP-Sphere
      @JP-Sphere 7 месяцев назад +2

      He is so biased that he tries to bait Jazmen so he can get a Tik Tok clip

  • @mypimpeador
    @mypimpeador 7 месяцев назад +3

    45:21 “why would you think sex is like martial arts?” Lol priceless

  • @nickythebat
    @nickythebat 7 месяцев назад +5

    “We’re going all over the place…well yeah I’m responding to all of your different tangents” as Destiny reads directly from his notes 😂😂😂

  • @masterdclone2172
    @masterdclone2172 7 месяцев назад +237

    Lila was insufferable with the interruptions. Jaz was better than I expected, It did feel like Trent was cooking her a lot though but D managed to re-direct. D was cooking Lila the whole debate though

    • @namelesscapone
      @namelesscapone 7 месяцев назад +25

      D as in Divorcedsinglefather

    • @whensheslurpsthetip8903
      @whensheslurpsthetip8903 7 месяцев назад +2

      ​@namelesscapone isn't he married??

    • @hubiejr1369
      @hubiejr1369 7 месяцев назад +4

      @@whensheslurpsthetip8903 not for long

    • @razacosmicapilled
      @razacosmicapilled 7 месяцев назад +21

      @@namelesscaponebro really cares about destinys relationship ☠️

    • @JobVanDam
      @JobVanDam 7 месяцев назад +4

      Jasmin talked alot, the only way you can get her to stop talking was to interrupt

  • @chrischika7026
    @chrischika7026 7 месяцев назад +261

    Dont let the divorce distract you that Destiny is a girls name

    • @p0etikxjustice499
      @p0etikxjustice499 7 месяцев назад +6

      Divorce? Huh?

    • @RighteousAnger4God
      @RighteousAnger4God 7 месяцев назад +47

      ​@@p0etikxjustice499Steven and Melina are getting divorced

    • @nfrankiksa4596
      @nfrankiksa4596 7 месяцев назад +64

      ​@@RighteousAnger4Godredpillers are having a field day aren't they

    • @xero0015
      @xero0015 7 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@p0etikxjustice499He was trending on Twitter for it

    • @RighteousAnger4God
      @RighteousAnger4God 7 месяцев назад +16

      @@nfrankiksa4596 yeah especially for a group of people that are so against divorce 🤣

  • @blehwhatever4890
    @blehwhatever4890 7 месяцев назад +21

    Lila's inability to walk back her statements or concede on any front is really annoying. There are so many points where she's objectively wrong about something and keeps repeating herself.

  • @JoeyJame
    @JoeyJame 7 месяцев назад +4

    Is this the guy who married a woman who openly cheated on him which he called "an open relationship" and then she divorced him for one of the guys she'd been cheating with 😂😂😂

  • @ElGatoBlackMetal
    @ElGatoBlackMetal 7 месяцев назад +61

    It’s was a cool debate, was not expecting them to all start banging each other in the end though. Maybe that was a bit too much

  • @br070497
    @br070497 7 месяцев назад +49

    August is invited to the cookout for that fade in.

    • @michaelturley3457
      @michaelturley3457 7 месяцев назад +1

      Why did I always think August was black?

    • @raymondwilliams379
      @raymondwilliams379 7 месяцев назад

      ​@@michaelturley3457possibly because August from Will Smith's wife

    • @br070497
      @br070497 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@michaelturley3457 i mean he might idk. All I know is that he’s from Australia.

    • @michaelturley3457
      @michaelturley3457 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@raymondwilliams379 not a bad theory lol

    • @michaelturley3457
      @michaelturley3457 7 месяцев назад

      @@br070497 no I read a study Australia doesn’t have black people.

  • @loviys3055
    @loviys3055 7 месяцев назад +12

    A chunk of women believe watching porn is equal to cheating, but if you can separate your sex life and watching porn then this mindset makes no sense.

  • @marcuscole568
    @marcuscole568 7 месяцев назад

    that intro had me thinking I saw miles teller for a second lmao

  • @KarazolaX
    @KarazolaX 7 месяцев назад +70

    The timing on this one is absolutely incredible

    • @josephposenecker9741
      @josephposenecker9741 7 месяцев назад +8

      I think I understand relationships better than you.
      Well, ours is doing well, how is yours?

    • @sikandork
      @sikandork 7 месяцев назад +1

      Why?

    • @mimo5853
      @mimo5853 7 месяцев назад +4

      @@sikandorkI heard that Destiny’s wife left him over the constant “open sex” he has with other women. Don’t know if it’s true, but supposedly they had an open relationship and apparently it became too many women and too often….

    • @henrikhempel2372
      @henrikhempel2372 7 месяцев назад +11

      ​@mimo5853 no she just met some new guy who also allegedly threatened with suicide if she didn't leave him

    • @jshv73
      @jshv73 7 месяцев назад

      @@mimo5853no not at all. Not that it’s anybodies business but she got severely mind fucked by some guy in Sweden and was basically venting over Stephen constantly and he was whispering in her ear how bad he is etc etc. so Stephen told her a boundary of his was being crossed and she went right back to the guy first chance she got so he kicked her out. Idk if that means divorce or what. Check his subreddit for more info r/destiny.

  • @theafflictionvhs17
    @theafflictionvhs17 7 месяцев назад +527

    _I appreciate Jazmen for showing off the hounds specifically for this debate._
    _Truly a power move…_

    • @Jm-dx9tl
      @Jm-dx9tl 7 месяцев назад +32

      Cringe

    • @graphssleepwalk
      @graphssleepwalk 7 месяцев назад +40

      Facts I’m gonna wear my gray joggers to debates from now on🍆🍆

    • @Smurdner05
      @Smurdner05 7 месяцев назад

      ​@@Jm-dx9tlincel

    • @afrocentricasian6881
      @afrocentricasian6881 7 месяцев назад

      she looks lousy.

    • @bryenlipford965
      @bryenlipford965 7 месяцев назад +15

      Notice how their opponents constantly looked at Destiny instead of her 😂😂

  • @chuckchuckster8704
    @chuckchuckster8704 7 месяцев назад +5

    the fact they have to blur definitions to conflate any porn with porn addiction shows you immediately how dishonest their argument is

    • @gageduke7652
      @gageduke7652 7 месяцев назад

      Bingo

    • @adrianalexandrov7730
      @adrianalexandrov7730 3 месяца назад

      Tbf they learned that from the left making similarly made bogus studies on prevalence of grape on campuses and overall.
      Some "studies" counted any unwanted touches as grape. And by unwanted they meant that there was no verbal consent given.

  • @purple7filth
    @purple7filth 7 месяцев назад +7

    Honestly the faces that chick in the helmet makes are the highlight of this shit

    • @bananian
      @bananian 7 месяцев назад +2

      She looks like the lights are on but no one's home.

  • @simrankaur-er3kh
    @simrankaur-er3kh 7 месяцев назад +48

    Although destiny didn't get to speak much without getting interrupted, I liked that he set forth the crux of their difference in how they view sex and presented his framework rather than quibble on the minute things that the other side kept trying to argue about.

  • @daveveloz
    @daveveloz 7 месяцев назад +21

    Instead of Lila Rose can we just get two Trent Horns?

  • @unintentional_smile
    @unintentional_smile 7 месяцев назад +4

    “You’re living in uNrEaLiTy”
    Lila really thought she was doing something with that one.

  • @RobertoLopez-ew6ly
    @RobertoLopez-ew6ly 7 месяцев назад +3

    It always amazes me how few people understand the difference between causation and correlation.

    • @gageduke7652
      @gageduke7652 7 месяцев назад

      We've all made that mistake I'm sure, but yeah, still wrong and frustrating.

  • @moneywastedcollecting
    @moneywastedcollecting 7 месяцев назад +24

    I couldn't imagine trying to have a debate with Lila Rose, she is way way too much and goes off on so many tangents and a million anecdotal examples, her experiences and opinions are irrefutable fact, and only the way she sees and believes is just a fact, trust her bro, and she goes off on so many tangents and just never stops talking.... I don't dislike anyone here but there is no point in debating her on anything, she says the same 6 things in every conversation no matter what is said to her.

    • @libertariansasquatch
      @libertariansasquatch 7 месяцев назад +3

      I’ve never heard of her before, she’s completely unwilling to engage with the topic at all. It’s bad and if you don’t think it’s bad you’re a bad person. Is essentially her whole argument

    • @moneywastedcollecting
      @moneywastedcollecting 7 месяцев назад +2

      @@libertariansasquatch Exactly, she has no ability to see through other perspectives or want to understand why people have their perspectives, she can’t understand not everyone thinks like her, which most people figure out by Jr. High.

  • @clickbaitrater8945
    @clickbaitrater8945 7 месяцев назад +16

    Wow, I was wrong to give Lila props in the past. She is not there in good faith at all, not even maybe. Literally interrupted and assumed moral superiority from minute 1 to the end. She seems super bitter and jealous to be honest.

    • @RobertoLopez-ew6ly
      @RobertoLopez-ew6ly 7 месяцев назад +1

      she knows deep down her husband watches porn and there is nothing she can do about it.

    • @unidowner
      @unidowner 7 месяцев назад

      I called it from day 1.

  • @dcgamer1027
    @dcgamer1027 7 месяцев назад +8

    I really just don't understand why these kind of people believe that every single human being has to play by the same rules. Even if 88% of people truly are negatively effected by porn or need monogomy, that still means the other 12% exist and need to be allowed to do what makes them happy. Just because something works for a majority does not mean it should be a hard rule that every single person should be forced to follow. IF there really are human beings that do better in open relationships, which there are, then obviously it is in everyone's best interest to let them exist that way openly because otherwise you get them hiding it, going into marriages unhappily, and then cheating secretly to fulfill their actual sexual needs. Its not good that it happens, they are still wrong for doing it, but it does happen, humans are imperfect. Creating an environment for people to feel comfortable being themselves wont eliminate cheating, but it certainly would reduce it and the emotional harm done by it.
    God I also just hate how the introduce and use their studies, its such bad faith man. Im not familiar with the studies on porn they first cited, but I'd bet you anything those studies that said porn bad and women don't like it were only using the kind of pornography men tend to watch more, you can bet your ass they weren't looking at smut or romance novels that women love just as much as men love the hardcore stuff. Just because there appears to be a gender divide in the type of preferred pornographic content doesn't inherently make one worse than the other.

    • @raghavnamasivayam8706
      @raghavnamasivayam8706 6 месяцев назад

      Well romance novel isn't porn and cheating is more now even with polyamory crap back then people had shame

    • @dcgamer1027
      @dcgamer1027 6 месяцев назад

      @@raghavnamasivayam8706 I don't know any stats on cheating, but yeah romance novels are porn. Not all of them, but a lot of them have extremely explicit porn scenes written for the purpose of the reader getting off, and even those without sex scenes can have a certain appeal since many women have a kind of sexuality that does not require and sort of visual stimuli. Don't even get me started on fanfiction, women are just as degenerate as men lol, it's just in a different space.

    • @VirginMostPowerfull
      @VirginMostPowerfull 2 месяца назад

      You're missing the point. For example if you're a serial killer it doesn't necessarily mean you're mentally unstable, you could just be military or State personnel.
      What am I saying?
      The correlation between bad behavior and bad health is possible and we should use it to discourage bad behavior, but even if someone doesn't get bad health it's still bad behavior.
      Point blank.
      I say this as a P addict myself and I've been struggling for years, and I've seen others who don't struggle and it's still bad.

  • @ucchi9829
    @ucchi9829 7 месяцев назад

    28:05
    "We're living in a social experiment"
    LMAO

  • @kevinross6235
    @kevinross6235 7 месяцев назад +16

    I think Trent truly believes in God because only with God on your side you can have such good eye control

  • @tornadre
    @tornadre 7 месяцев назад +539

    Jazmin’s performance here is a huge win for the anti misogyny. Great debater and she had excellent counters and made Lila stay on track when she tried to pivot countless times.

    • @mraj1510
      @mraj1510 7 месяцев назад +90

      Definitely huge

    • @just_a_turtle_chad
      @just_a_turtle_chad 7 месяцев назад +58

      Not as huge as the upcoming Destiny divorce 😂

    • @milantarbuk1039
      @milantarbuk1039 7 месяцев назад

      ​@@just_a_turtle_chadGet a life and cope in the corner dude, I've seen you way too many times dude xD
      The ad hominem only makes you guys look like even bigger losers 😂😂😂😂

    • @decaffeinatedafrican2985
      @decaffeinatedafrican2985 7 месяцев назад +6

      Great when a hot chick speaks how you like means people will hate women less 👏😊 Jaz was great, just like Steven

    • @steveng6704
      @steveng6704 7 месяцев назад

      ​@@highlightrelz897how?

  • @tm5123
    @tm5123 7 месяцев назад

    That fade in is was great. I mean, thats the only thing I see anyway when they are in the shot, but still, nice to help with the focus.

  • @xSwagnarok
    @xSwagnarok 7 месяцев назад +5

    How's the divorce going? Didn't someone call that years in advance btw?

    • @lowserver2
      @lowserver2 7 месяцев назад +1

      like everyone in the world except destiny and his fans

  • @jonathanswink2682
    @jonathanswink2682 7 месяцев назад +181

    "I think this is bad cause I feel like it's bad" Already know this is gonna be a ridiculous argument

    • @ubong5172
      @ubong5172 7 месяцев назад +13

      Isn’t that his most things work morally?

    • @devinjohnson5759
      @devinjohnson5759 7 месяцев назад +16

      @@ubong5172 that's called subjective relativism and when having a discussing about a very nuanced topic, subjective relativism is the last thing you want to incorporate because there are no clear distinctions between anything.

    • @jonathanhenderson9422
      @jonathanhenderson9422 7 месяцев назад +17

      @@devinjohnson5759 You can't eliminate subjectivity from discussions of morality. Even if you go to our most universally agreed upon standards, like living is better than dying, they ultimately boil down to how we subjectively feel about the subject. Just because we all agree on something doesn't make it objective.

    • @heinshaaine8153
      @heinshaaine8153 7 месяцев назад +9

      They needed a false flag to not be honest. What they actually wanted to say was: "my religious indoctrination says it is immoral." They slip several times with terms like sanctity, and "Purpose of sex"

    • @iainbreen7835
      @iainbreen7835 7 месяцев назад +3

      ​@jonathanhenderson9422 you can definitely eliminate it enough to get away from "it's bad because I feel its bad"

  • @wizzenberry
    @wizzenberry 7 месяцев назад +19

    i see two amazing debates at hand here

  • @noomade
    @noomade 7 месяцев назад

    Can some explain what the girl in the background is there for?

  • @wakingupat2pm349
    @wakingupat2pm349 7 месяцев назад +1

    This was an interesting debate to have directly after the Mel leaks yesterday, almost felt like they knew in the beginning lmao. I wonder what Destiny was thinking during.

  • @guybayes1489
    @guybayes1489 7 месяцев назад +126

    I swear Lila doesn’t ever let someone finish their sentence

    • @4tr0phy
      @4tr0phy 7 месяцев назад +30

      She's not interested in having her beliefs challenged so she's not listening, and she thinks she's better than them so she doesn't feel pressure to wait until they're done talking before she resumes her lecturing.

    • @David-qe9np
      @David-qe9np 7 месяцев назад +2

      @@4tr0phy TRUE!

    • @Lorettefromchaos
      @Lorettefromchaos 7 месяцев назад +2

      Yeah she comes off very condescending.

    • @reellifeoutdoors2905
      @reellifeoutdoors2905 7 месяцев назад

      Shes awful

    • @hippopotoftea
      @hippopotoftea 7 месяцев назад +3

      That's against her religion. "Thou shalt not finish thine sentence unless thou art incarcerated..."

  • @lunardestruction
    @lunardestruction 7 месяцев назад +44

    24:24 thats infuriating, Lila just rambles some unintelligible nonsense, is met with simple well defined arguments backed up with studies and replies "so what is your argument?" and when she guesses at the argument she guesses some completely insane shit nobody ever said

    • @suckit4669
      @suckit4669 7 месяцев назад +3

      I wish we could've heard which studies she's talking about though because for some reason, she never brought up any of the data or even quoted the names of the studies.

    • @UrbanDecayLova247
      @UrbanDecayLova247 7 месяцев назад +1

      Agreed - Lila was the weakest link in the whole debate in my opinion.

    • @edwardelric3057
      @edwardelric3057 7 месяцев назад

      Listening to this debate, is it clear that destiny completely missed the point of the electromagnetic prostate stimulation, and it kind og makes him sound like a douche for bringing it up again

  • @MCfluffyzz
    @MCfluffyzz 7 месяцев назад

    More of this kind of debat man it is nice

  • @B1ggz13
    @B1ggz13 7 месяцев назад +2

    😂 honestly I learn nothing from these discussions but it’s so entertaining to see them dunked on.

  • @edgarpinheiro1669
    @edgarpinheiro1669 7 месяцев назад +9

    the asian girl who is always there in silence bothers me so much. holy fuck, what a waste of life, people are starting to be real life NPCs

    • @TrentonF505
      @TrentonF505 7 месяцев назад +2

      Fr why is she always there in the background?

    • @ASSASIN7-sd5sr
      @ASSASIN7-sd5sr 7 месяцев назад

      why call her asian?

    • @mekmekoo1269
      @mekmekoo1269 7 месяцев назад

      ​@@TrentonF505It's a wink to a certain group of people.

    • @TrentonF505
      @TrentonF505 7 месяцев назад

      @@mekmekoo1269 wdym? Something about her helmet?

    • @mekmekoo1269
      @mekmekoo1269 7 месяцев назад

      @@TrentonF505 Yes... I don't know how much It's appropriate to talk about on mainstream platforms... But generally on the internet... Because more... let's say obvious symbols are either straight up banned or a bad look as far as most normal people are concerned, people with a specific type of far right ideology have moved to different but very related symbols. The one in this case is actually one of the most common ones to my knowledge.

  • @davidmireles9774
    @davidmireles9774 7 месяцев назад +11

    Thank you for this gold. RUclips hit a dry spell for me, or at least the content I follow and that follows me

  • @revolutionoftheclassics3630
    @revolutionoftheclassics3630 7 месяцев назад +1

    Can someone explain to me who that woman is in the background wearing the Otto Von Bizmark Helmet. What is her deal?

  • @xmanhall360
    @xmanhall360 7 месяцев назад +2

    Where is the second half????

  • @j5b4ch21
    @j5b4ch21 7 месяцев назад +10

    4 people talking at the same time without any moderation mixed with the calming visual of a hot NPC wearing a helmet just turned me non-trinary

  • @chriswinkler4663
    @chriswinkler4663 7 месяцев назад +75

    God i love that the "sterile urine" meme has not died.

    • @BiggestArmInWestLinnOregon
      @BiggestArmInWestLinnOregon 7 месяцев назад +12

      "Its sterile and I like the taste" 😂

    • @KarazolaX
      @KarazolaX 7 месяцев назад

      It’s literally rejected unhealthy fluids from the bod lol, it’s only sterile for the one producing it

    • @zeekawesomecus917
      @zeekawesomecus917 7 месяцев назад +22

      Ya, I was really confused why he even tried to make that point that watersports was just as extreme as facials. There was no point for him to argue that and he's just so obviously wrong. I mean not that I expect an ultra conservative religious person to know what is and isn't the norm in porn but why argue like you're an expert when you obviously aren't? Especially when it had nothing to do with his original argument.

    • @Ministry_0f_Truth
      @Ministry_0f_Truth 7 месяцев назад

      What was the meme??

    • @chriswinkler4663
      @chriswinkler4663 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@Ministry_0f_Truth the meme is people think urine is sterile as in it is a disinfectant.

  • @nap503
    @nap503 7 месяцев назад +1

    what a great way to end the clip 💀

  • @JudasMaccabeus1
    @JudasMaccabeus1 7 месяцев назад +2

    The answer, as with most scenarios, is balance.
    Anything used or applied excessively or inappropriately will have a negative impact or result.
    And appropriateness often is contextual.

  • @jamesortega8923
    @jamesortega8923 7 месяцев назад +312

    Jazmen is a fantastic debate partner for Destiny and came fully prepared. I hope they partner up more often for these debate

    • @Atom_007
      @Atom_007 7 месяцев назад +33

      I agree, she actually understands how to debate. A few more years of practice and she’ll be unstoppable.

    • @demetriharris2071
      @demetriharris2071 7 месяцев назад +27

      They've partnered up off camera

    • @Ematched
      @Ematched 7 месяцев назад +41

      @@demetriharris2071bro, stop.

    • @ctredez2047
      @ctredez2047 7 месяцев назад

      ​@@demetriharris2071cornball

    • @touka6589
      @touka6589 7 месяцев назад +12

      @@demetriharris2071💀😭 chill bro

  • @GWoodsMusic
    @GWoodsMusic 7 месяцев назад +110

    This really should have just been a Destiny / Trent debate

    • @2o7o7dragon
      @2o7o7dragon 7 месяцев назад

      Haven't watched their 1 on 1 debate, but I'm not entirely certain this would have gone better without the women. Trent and Lila both changed the language a fair bit and wanted to argue off-topic, but I think Jaz being there was a plus (besides just being nice to look at.) Biggest contribution from her I felt was that she'd jump in and it gave Destiny more time to think about a response.
      Trent also took the cheap shot in response to Destiny calling them religious so there's that against it too. But with no Lila there interrupting and dodging he might not have gotten that heated.
      Ultimately might agree it would be interesting, not sure I'd say better.

  • @dylanduke2018
    @dylanduke2018 7 месяцев назад +2

    Holy shit that 2013 number was more dishonest than I initially thought. The old definition literally didn’t include rape of men or statutory rape.

  • @tomjames9681
    @tomjames9681 7 месяцев назад +49

    It was really nice for Jazmen to engage in such good faith, but Destiny was needed to put some pressure on the opposition.
    It’s consistently been the case that these very polite individuals that have these discussions, coming from religious or conservative backgrounds, are so passively judgemental in a way that compromises their ability to have these discussions.
    Destiny is willing just go at them in a way that’s aware of this. Good job to anyone who tries to have a polite conversation with them though.

    • @shawncolacchio4999
      @shawncolacchio4999 7 месяцев назад +7

      You can hear it in the way that they make these little digs any time Destiny or Jazmen pause, they have no respect for them whatsoever, they're just pretending. The lack of moderation hurt Destiny more than Trent and Lila, they interrupted over and over with nothing statements to detail the structural arguments of their opponents.

    • @TheStaticballProject
      @TheStaticballProject 7 месяцев назад +1

      Is being passively judgemental not just the case for any single debate? As you assume Lila and Trent are judging Destiny and Jazmen, it can be said that Destiny and Jazmen are passively judging Lila and Trent for their views that they believe stem from a religious background. I don't think it's correct to just assume one side is passively judging, I think it's human nature, no matter which side you're on or how much you try to hide it, passive judgement is always going to be in debates between people.
      So for these religious individuals as you said to be compromised by their passive judgement is incorrect or else everyone would be compromised.

    • @tomjames9681
      @tomjames9681 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@TheStaticballProject There is an understandable difference between the required “judgement” of a view that is necessitated by holding the opposing view, and disrespecting someone you’re supposedly engaging in a good faith conversation with.
      It’s been mentioned before; unlike any other possible person debating a topic who is engaging in it under the pretence that they are there to find the truth, or get as meaningfully close to it as possible, people like Trent and Lyla, even if you disproved every fact that underpinned their stance, they are too dug in to their world view to change their mind.
      The views they have are epistemically rooted in an incompatible world view with anyone who isn’t religious. No opinion related to that can be overturned.
      This “smugness” for lack of a better term, comes from the fact that their stances are rooted in what they view as self-evident truths. Just note every time a peak in the conversation ends with them exhaustedly saying “isn’t it obvious?”.
      No it’s not, the inconclusive data is proof enough of that.

    • @TheStaticballProject
      @TheStaticballProject 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@tomjames9681 Well now your argument has shifted from passive judgement to assuming that Trent and Lyla are uncapable of being open minded and showing smugness. I do believe that religious people have a stereotype that suggests that due to their beliefs they are closed minded but Trent and Lyla were questioned about their open mindedness as to which they affirmed that they are open minded. So if you are not willing to take them on their word then you are showing a bias that you believe religious people cannot be open minded. You can be skeptical as to, despite them confirming that they are open minded, whether or not that this is the case but you cannot say "even if you disproved every fact that underpinned their stance, they are too dug in to their world view to change their mind." You can't state this because you have no idea if this would be true, you are just assuming again and not acting in good faith towards them. It's a dangerous mentality to have because if everyone, religous and non-religious were to hold this view, there would be no point to discussion at all.
      Perhaps instead of "smugness" a better term is 'moral authority', would be the belief that they hold superior knowledge in the morality because it is from the divine. However they are not arguing from the bible but from scientific research that obviously backs and forms their worldview, as does Destiny and Jazmen. It's the whole point of debate but the key is to understand whose scientific study is more true and can be found more prevalent in society.
      To be honest, debates like these are hard to watch because they become incoherent in a way. Would love a format where Destiny and Trent were to research scientific literature together instead of just pulling it out and having to accept it as true.

    • @TheStaticballProject
      @TheStaticballProject 7 месяцев назад

      @@tomjames9681 Sorry, I forgot to address and reply to your statement about their view being incompatible with non-religious people. Well I think this can be very easily overturned.
      For example: Trent and Lyla hold the view that pornography is bad. You don't have be indoctrinated into the Christian faith to hold this view. Look at the whole redpill and no fap movement and how these communities practice abstinence from pornography and masturbation because they came to the conclusion through their life experience that these sexual vices were making them suffer. These communities are not religious.

  • @booleah6357
    @booleah6357 7 месяцев назад +224

    Personally I thought the alcohol analogy was a pretty good comparison. Just because some people can't moderate themselves when it comes to sex and porn doesn't mean its some horrible evil thing ripping society apart at the seams. That said it can easily go too far in the other direction and get put of hand too. Multiple partner relationships do tend to fail more often than not and I think Destiny himself is a good example of that given his unfortunate divorce. Just my opinion.

    • @zeroDOLLARg-Ro
      @zeroDOLLARg-Ro 7 месяцев назад +1

      💯

    • @chocolatMouse
      @chocolatMouse 7 месяцев назад +52

      Destiny was monogamous the time he divorced. Ironically, I think his current open relationship actually goes on longer than the one he had with his ex-wife.

    • @25taylorkw
      @25taylorkw 7 месяцев назад

      This type of debate is a classic echo chamber ideology collision between progressive lefties ( that like to virtue signal ) and christian zealots ( that pearl clutching over anyone having consensual rough sex ).
      When it comes to this whole debate of prostitution and porn being legal or not. I'm fine with the United States either adopting the Netherlands legalization model of prostitution or adopting the Sweden abolition decriminalization model of prostitution. Either one is better than fully criminalizing prostitution that we have right now in the United States which would lead to a black market meaning that market demand.
      As for the porn aspect, I'm fine with porn being legal with having legal age limits for people that do porn with also some type of legit age verification system where is restricts children from watching porn. More specifically with the legal age of education system the US government can have either a legal age verification system where you put your ID number when entering to a porn site ( in which can verify that you're 18 or older ), or the US government can pass a law where tech companies that make smart electronic devices are required to have a parental control lock mode on each electronic device where the parents can block certain apps and sites that are not age appropriate. The latter option would be more easier to implement considering that the Google Play Store has the the ESRB game age rating system for their apps.
      FYI when it comes to the aspects of type relationships the super majority of people can engage in a healthy way, here's what I would say. I do not think that the anti premarital sex from the christian zealots is the way to go for the average person. I also don't think having an open relationship is the way to go for the average person either. Most likely the proper relationship for the average heterosexual couples is going to be either a fully monogamous relationship, or a somewhat monogamous relationship where the couple has a threesome with a chick every few months or so. Either type of monogamous relationship is where the average man or woman is going to be with their partner that most likely at least have the majority of their sexual experiences come from previous boyfriend girlfriend relationships.

    • @alewis17
      @alewis17 7 месяцев назад +13

      ​@@chocolatMouse this guy scared me. I was like "when the fuck did this happen??"

    • @dorian2893
      @dorian2893 7 месяцев назад +35

      @@chocolatMouse brother man you are not keeping up with the news he and malina are over

  • @slain4ever
    @slain4ever 7 месяцев назад +29

    Already off to a bad start when Lila has no idea what consent, boundaries and cheating is. Also sexual fidelity is synonymous with cheating. Destiny trying hard not to say intuition pumping haha

    • @slain4ever
      @slain4ever 7 месяцев назад +9

      I'm starting to think she only looked good in that last debate because of that other woman next to her making her look good relatively

    • @slain4ever
      @slain4ever 7 месяцев назад

      Wow this dumbass. Abortions increased since it became legal?!?!? No shit. Great insight. Now how does that relate to the topic of porn? The internet wasn't widely available for decades after your time frame

    • @UrbanDecayLova247
      @UrbanDecayLova247 7 месяцев назад +2

      @@slain4everyou would think right 😂 Lila was the weakest compared to everyone else.

  • @Ascension001
    @Ascension001 7 месяцев назад +1

    "I love watersports!" - Brent. I loved that.

  • @Jordan-hu8fg
    @Jordan-hu8fg 7 месяцев назад +3

    i found the study they talk about in the beggining and the conclusion was Our results showed that associations between pornography use and relationship satisfaction differ by one’s level of pornography acceptance and anxious attachment. In partial support of hypothesis 1, the negative association between pornography use and relationship satisfaction was lessened for those who were more accepting of pornography, particularly for women. Hypothesis 2 was not supported, as men who were more anxiously attached and used more pornography were more satisfied with their relationship than women who were more anxiously attached and used more pornography. Our results suggest that individual and gender differences are indeed important when considering associations of pornography use with relationship outcomes.
    We found that the negative association between pornography use and relationship satisfaction was stronger for those who were less accepting of pornography. Similarly, prior work has shown that individuals who are more accepting of pornography view it as acceptable to use within a relationship as long as they do not see pornography use as an act of infidelity (Olmstead et al., 2013). It is likely that those who are more accepting of pornography are more likely to use it as a couple, which may be a factor in this association. However, it is also likely that individuals who act in a way that is consistent with their attitudes may be more satisfied with life in general, than those whose attitudes and behaviors are contradictory (Diener, Oishi, & Lucas, 2003). It is important to consider that levels of pornography acceptance likely vary by the pornographic content one is viewing. For instance, popular pornography is marketed to men and portrays sex that is more pleasurable for men and even more violent toward women (Barron & Kimmel, 2000; Bridges et al., 2010; Klaassen & Peter, 2015). Therefore, the content may explain why we found pornography acceptance to be a stronger moderator in the association between pornography use and relationship satisfaction for women than for men. Future research should measure attitudes toward a variety of pornographic content in order to account for the positive association between pornography acceptance and relationship satisfaction among women. It could also be helpful for practitioners who work with heterosexual couples to address how women are portrayed in pornography so that both partners are in agreement with the kinds of pornographic acts they find acceptable to view.

    • @MrCmon113
      @MrCmon113 7 месяцев назад

      I don't know whether my sample of pornography is totally unrepresentative, but the claim that "popular pornography is marketed to men and portrays sex that is more pleasurable for men" just sounds hilariously wrong. All the porn I see exclusively focuses on the pleasure of the woman. The pleasure of the woman is what is arousing to the male watchers, not the pleasure of male actors. Also a big chunk of porn only seems to have women in it in the first place.

  • @pizzahuthonoka
    @pizzahuthonoka 7 месяцев назад +14

    I'm just glad the girl with the weird helmet is there

  • @akyra231
    @akyra231 7 месяцев назад +107

    The way the anti abortion lady kept trying to frame the divorce argument around 50 years in particular was so sneaky. She had her dialogue tree, and was really hoping nobody would call her on being weirdly specific about her timeframe.
    edit: Holy shit I just got to the end where hentai is brought up and the guy instantly starts talking about tentacle porn. I don't care what he says, this guy is a FREAK when the cameras aren't on him. Total coomer moment.

    • @vinnycastro7101
      @vinnycastro7101 7 месяцев назад

      I love how she was trying to All the negative effects of porn on society yet when jazman works with her timeframe and cites that abortion is actually down since the mass availability of porn, lila instantly says " well the past 50 years it's actually increased".
      She sticks with her hardcore narrative that porn = bad for all parties no matter what. And if the relationship is good now then porn will inevitably make it fail no matter what. She basically told jazam that her relationships are doomed to fail and it's a fact.
      She's a joke. Stating that cheating = physically involved outside your relationship yet in the same breath tells jazam the reason girls watching porn with partners is because participating feels less like cheating.
      Destiny asks to clarify aggressive porn and she immediately goes to extreme content. Demanding the separation of urine vs cum. And obviously showing her hand of hardcore religious ideology when refusing to accept a scenario of a medical policy to allow handjobs. Yet tells destiny my stance can change and it's not tied to my beliefs. Dumb bitch vibes forsure

    • @user-ru4iq3ss9m
      @user-ru4iq3ss9m 7 месяцев назад +2

      @Jake-oq2bqcorrect I’m aware but never watched it

    • @malbasedvalentine3210
      @malbasedvalentine3210 7 месяцев назад

      This immature behavior you people have is astonishing…how the fuck do you expect your opposition to debate if you’re going to mock them for actually learning about the degenerate stuff their opposition engage in? You must realize that just because more Puritan people speak about sex, doesn’t mean it’s for the sake of indulgence, or being offensive. It’s merely used to engage with someone who uses it to be offensive, or indulges in it regularly. It also proves that these particular puritans are not so ignorant, and aren’t easily swayed away by conversations that are considered gross or degenerate.

    • @AnselmsAlwaysAccurate
      @AnselmsAlwaysAccurate 7 месяцев назад +1

      projecting

  • @007MrYang
    @007MrYang 7 месяцев назад

    That hentai stuff at the end was wild "that's a common element of it" LMAO

  • @stradzarovich9381
    @stradzarovich9381 7 месяцев назад +3

    God Christians make GREAT fascists.

  • @somedude693
    @somedude693 7 месяцев назад +7

    "The DSM5 in not an infalable document" much like your holy book😂😂😂😂

  • @gemini88miller
    @gemini88miller 7 месяцев назад +18

    48:09 I like how she asked where that study was from and Lily rose promptly changed the subject

  • @randomaccount6146
    @randomaccount6146 7 месяцев назад +1

    21:08 Where tf did he even pull that info from. I looked at the most searched things for the last 3-4 years and they were always "milf", "hentai", "lesbian" at the top three spots. I literally checked the first like 5 links of statistics and couldnt find any of the searches that guy said.

  • @Strongdocoteur
    @Strongdocoteur 7 месяцев назад

    did the editor leave the pattern on the video after the intro accidentally?

  • @BuisnessBacca007
    @BuisnessBacca007 7 месяцев назад +12

    0:13
    Destiny- "I watch a lot of porn"
    Trent- "No"

    • @KoffyGG
      @KoffyGG 7 месяцев назад +3

      Bro Trent really hates Destiny.

    • @Ministry_0f_Truth
      @Ministry_0f_Truth 7 месяцев назад

      @@KoffyGGWut? Why would he?

  • @Daddydorf13
    @Daddydorf13 7 месяцев назад +35

    Lets talk about how they put 2 giant milkers next to the Destiny while talking about porn.

  • @trokolisz3702
    @trokolisz3702 7 месяцев назад +2

    I really hope everyone believes that watching porn counts as "sex outside of marrige" as that would make me not a virgin xd

  • @raiden000
    @raiden000 7 месяцев назад +1

    I'm 26 mins in and all i hear is "well my data shows"... "but my data shows"... "and these studies show"...

  • @T-ReV7
    @T-ReV7 7 месяцев назад +6

    August you need to put an outro sound so audio only listeners know when the video is over. Because some of these videos and end very abruptly.

    • @daviddavidson6278
      @daviddavidson6278 7 месяцев назад

      Bring back the old intro song, that shit was great

  • @bcon404
    @bcon404 7 месяцев назад +10

    Does anyone else think Lila Rose is arguing totally in bad faith?

    • @acenine8149
      @acenine8149 7 месяцев назад +1

      Just because your coom brain can’t refute her arguments, that doesn’t mean she’s arguing in bad faith.
      That phrase has been a disaster for online political discourse.

    • @gageduke7652
      @gageduke7652 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@acenine8149 She didn't make any good arguments, though...

    • @adrianalexandrov7730
      @adrianalexandrov7730 3 месяца назад

      ​​@@acenine8149she claimed 88% is violent because there's something creating discomfort.
      By that definition 99.9 of marriages are also violent. But I would assume she's not against marriage as well as guy beside her.
      It's either bad faith or she's really intellectually challengedto not realise that.

  • @DesolateRind
    @DesolateRind 4 месяца назад

    42:58 “grape” really killed the immersion lol

  • @dxcoco8578
    @dxcoco8578 6 месяцев назад +1

    Is that the guy from “Bot Meets World”?

  • @prohealer3398
    @prohealer3398 7 месяцев назад +79

    I love how the dude calls urine a sterile liquid. Bro it's literally our toxins. Or when the girl defines violence partly as "discomfort"

    • @charles-murraysilverwright1967
      @charles-murraysilverwright1967 7 месяцев назад +28

      I guess you don't know what sterile means.

    • @muninnsays9296
      @muninnsays9296 7 месяцев назад

      It isn’t sterile but it has nothing to do with toxins. It contains trace amounts of bacteria.

    • @matg1784
      @matg1784 7 месяцев назад +13

      ​@charles-murraysilverwright1967 uhhh lmao. Actually, YOU don't know what it means, obviously. He was making the claim that urine was sterile(basically implying it is on the same cleanliness as semen). He's just wrong. Urine is not sterile as it contains bacteria.

    • @CordovanSplotchVT
      @CordovanSplotchVT 7 месяцев назад +4

      @@matg1784 True, urine isn't sterile, but then again neither is semen or spit or sweat.

    • @MegaFIare
      @MegaFIare 7 месяцев назад

      ​@@CordovanSplotchVTno one is saying semen is sterile, but it's not as dirty as bacteria filled piss