Long Distance Relationship | 5 Tips to Make It Work

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  • Опубликовано: 17 июл 2024
  • Are you in a long distance relationship? Are you thinking of being in a long distance relationship? Well, here are 5 tips to make it work. We got through over 4 years of long distance relationship'ing and these tips really helped us to make it work. We hope they help you, too!
    If you have any long distance relationship tips, please share them in the comments or hit us up in our DMs. As always, make sure you subscribe to our channel and, if you have any questions or video ideas for us, let us know. Thanks for watching our videos. Long live the swirl!
    💚💙 - Mina and Brydon Brett
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Комментарии • 120

  • @janicew6222
    @janicew6222 2 года назад +24

    You're a cute couple!

    • @brettertogether
      @brettertogether  2 года назад +1

      Thank you so much, Janice! Hope you’re enjoying our videos. 🙏🏻🙏🏽

    • @terrillelliott5998
      @terrillelliott5998 2 года назад

      White navy man kills black wife GOOGLE it tob wheeler. His great great grand parents kill her ancestors an still doing it to day.

  • @landoncamden685
    @landoncamden685 2 года назад +14

    Great suggestions✔. We chose to end the distance as soon as we were engaged. I moved to the city she was living at the time. We have since then moved to another state for our careers. It all worked out. It usually does when both people are on the same accord. 😊

    • @brettertogether
      @brettertogether  2 года назад +3

      Same! Mina relocated to our current city shortly before we got engaged. You’re so right! When you’re on the same page, things tend to work out nicely. 💯

    • @pelindalivesonmychannel4191
      @pelindalivesonmychannel4191 2 года назад

      I thought you guys would have vids on your channel.

  • @LifeWithTheGlovers
    @LifeWithTheGlovers 2 года назад +13

    Everyone definitely can use some prayer🙏🏾 great tips guys!!

  • @mixedrapunzels9969
    @mixedrapunzels9969 2 года назад +6

    8:11 Family Rap Group!!!

  • @TheLychie
    @TheLychie 2 года назад +1

    8:00 that is MEEEE 🤣🤣🤣🤣 And when your husband came in...omygosh I need that in my life

  • @dwayneyoung7765
    @dwayneyoung7765 2 года назад +12

    Recently subscribed,Love the positive energy.Thank you for sharing and making me smile after a long week you’re son is adorable. The force behind the power is love god’s love.
    Stay blessed .

    • @brettertogether
      @brettertogether  2 года назад +1

      So grateful this gave you a little end of week energy!! God bless you! We’ll keep His love flowing the best we can. Til the next video…🙏🏻🙏🏽

  • @nicblanco5615
    @nicblanco5615 2 года назад +4

    😁Love the "Boundaries" song!! LOL

    • @brettertogether
      @brettertogether  2 года назад

      Right?! It’s a hit. 100%. Also, totally spontaneous. And not a hit. Lol 🤣

  • @anastasia8341
    @anastasia8341 2 года назад +6

    You 2 are made for each other, so funny together!

    • @brettertogether
      @brettertogether  2 года назад +1

      Awwww 🥰 Thanks so much. We’re definitely blessed!

  • @blbmreclark6
    @blbmreclark6 2 года назад +7

    Great ideas!! Especially the curfew and boundaries. I’m an accountability partner for a friend (not long distant) but those are two things I’m helping with keeping them accountable to. Thanks for sharing.

    • @brettertogether
      @brettertogether  2 года назад +2

      Thanks for watching! It’s so cool that you can help a friend be accountable. What an awesome friend! 😊

  • @twinashlie3398
    @twinashlie3398 Год назад +2

    The green top or dress and the blue earrings compliments you very well Mina. Soo pretty.

  • @amateurauthor1402
    @amateurauthor1402 2 года назад

    I love it, you started it and he chanted right in.

  • @fdoctor79
    @fdoctor79 2 года назад +5

    Yes to HALT! Great advice! Tfs

    • @brettertogether
      @brettertogether  2 года назад

      Thank you! HALT helped us so much and we still use it to this day. Thanks for watching! 😊

  • @gwendolynfields3687
    @gwendolynfields3687 Год назад

    You guys are so funny, I love it.

  • @tracibillington8025
    @tracibillington8025 Год назад

    The boundaries rap was everything!!

  • @amateurauthor1402
    @amateurauthor1402 2 года назад +1

    Great....

  • @Teachingoneonly
    @Teachingoneonly 2 года назад +5

    Hey, SO good to see you posting again. This video is so cute. We started out long distance too! We are going on 14 years this June which is crazy how much time has past! Keep up the good work. Sending love your way! 💚💛💚💜💜

    • @brettertogether
      @brettertogether  2 года назад +1

      Hey hey!! 14 years?! You guys are a model. 🙏🏽 Thanks for the love and encouragement. Grateful to be connected. Big love your way! 💚💙

  • @miryland
    @miryland Год назад +1

    I love yall! thanks for the tips

    • @brettertogether
      @brettertogether  Год назад

      Love you too Miracle! So grateful to have you on the channel!

  • @chinenyeohuonu7378
    @chinenyeohuonu7378 2 года назад

    very lovely couple.i pray to have mine

  • @rlm4498
    @rlm4498 2 года назад

    Awwww. I love the rap around boundaries. So sweet. 🤣🤣😂😂

  • @janelledonovan1684
    @janelledonovan1684 2 года назад +8

    These were some really great suggestions thank you so much❤

    • @brettertogether
      @brettertogether  2 года назад +2

      Thank you! We hope it was helpful! There's more that we could have shared, but those were some of the keys.

    • @terrillelliott5998
      @terrillelliott5998 2 года назад

      Could you give me the biblical verse that approve of interracial marriage.

  • @YouCanCallMeChrys
    @YouCanCallMeChrys 2 года назад +1

    We use HALTS in our home. S is for sick. Its nice to know other use it too. Its so helpful

  • @claramitchell746
    @claramitchell746 2 года назад +5

    Wonderful suggestions for every couple in a new relationship.
    I love how your little man is becoming aware of his body. He is into his hands! You are doing well in the communication department!👌🏾Stay strong in love and communication!❤️🌺🇹🇹

    • @brettertogether
      @brettertogether  2 года назад

      He LOVES his hands and discovers them many times a day! 😂 Thank you for tuning in to our channel. Brydon here by the way. Where are you from? I don’t recognize the flag. 🤷‍♂️ Geography wasn’t my best subject lol

    • @claramitchell746
      @claramitchell746 2 года назад

      @@brettertogether So sorry, I became a bit busy with work. I am originally from Trinidad and Tobago, West Indies. I presently live in NJ.

  • @yps3835
    @yps3835 Год назад +2

    You guys are so funny. Enjoyed.

  • @angelaalston971
    @angelaalston971 Год назад +2

    W - Why
    A - Am
    I - I
    T - Talking
    *Listening to your partners concerns without talking over them or feeling picked on.
    * Always lead conversations with Love💚

  • @user-vp2yg4yl5o
    @user-vp2yg4yl5o 2 года назад

    babe is so cute.. he is giving his piece of advise..

  • @theresawilliams5688
    @theresawilliams5688 2 года назад +1

    Thank you guys I’m to see that you work well together as a couple congratulations

  • @juliacase4832
    @juliacase4832 2 года назад +3

    Baby so cute!

  • @teach9999
    @teach9999 2 года назад

    You are a beautiful couple and a happy baby. Thanks for sharing 🌺🌷💐🌹🌼

  • @Hurrehurra
    @Hurrehurra 2 года назад +2

    Lmao literally thought you were Tiffany haddish for a moment. May god bless your family.

    • @brettertogether
      @brettertogether  2 года назад

      Haha you’re not the first person to say that. God bless you! Thanks much for watching!

  • @esthertore6174
    @esthertore6174 2 года назад +1

    Thank you so much l learn more things Thank you

  • @agyanasi5195
    @agyanasi5195 2 года назад +1

    Congratulations 👏 love you guys.

    • @brettertogether
      @brettertogether  2 года назад

      Thanks so much! Love right back at ya! 🙏🏻🙏🏽

  • @yvettecarter8844
    @yvettecarter8844 2 года назад +1

    HALT very good.

  • @ms.ellaneous6406
    @ms.ellaneous6406 2 года назад +2

    I love the boundary song: I was bouncing :)

  • @simplyandoime7344
    @simplyandoime7344 2 года назад +3

    Nice content.💕

    • @brettertogether
      @brettertogether  2 года назад +2

      Thank you so much for watching and subscribing!!

  • @OmiPre
    @OmiPre 2 года назад +2

    Haha the theme song lol

  • @clairegordon7951
    @clairegordon7951 Год назад

    Anyone noticed the baby trying to impersonate his mom by doing the hand gestures..look keenly and you will see him looking at mom..then he looks at his hands and do a little twirl.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣that's soo cute.

    • @brettertogether
      @brettertogether  Год назад +1

      Lol he’s the best. He’s always trying to mimic us. You’ve got a good eye! Thanks for watching! 💙💚

    • @clairegordon7951
      @clairegordon7951 Год назад

      @@brettertogether U R welcome.

  • @ballershanelle
    @ballershanelle 2 года назад +1

    He can't deny ..the lil joybear has his ears! And, a lot mix between the 2

    • @brettertogether
      @brettertogether  2 года назад +2

      Little Joybear! Love that! Daven definitely had Brydon’s ears. He’s a good mix of the two of us. 😊

  • @sarahk6996
    @sarahk6996 2 года назад +2

    You guys are so cute together! God knew what He was doing!😉

    • @brettertogether
      @brettertogether  2 года назад +1

      He definitely did know! We pinch ourselves every day that He allowed us to be together. 🙏🏽🙏🏻

  • @maryanntownsend265
    @maryanntownsend265 2 года назад +1

    It worked for me 53 yrs ago and at that time there was only the land line and we spoke on the phone every night for three hrs from New York to LA.💙💜

  • @neelamdasan4147
    @neelamdasan4147 2 года назад

    Lovely couple. I love your ear ring and the dress.

    • @brettertogether
      @brettertogether  2 года назад

      Thank you so much! I love a good tassel earring and two piece set combo! 😄

  • @JaymeLW1
    @JaymeLW1 2 года назад +2

    Super cute!

    • @brettertogether
      @brettertogether  2 года назад +1

      Thank you, Jayme! Much more to come! Thanks for being part of our RUclips journey. 💚

  • @msprissyone28
    @msprissyone28 2 года назад +1

    Aawww you guys are so cute!!!

  • @hilmamoore5909
    @hilmamoore5909 2 года назад +1

    Very cute couple stay blessed up

  • @MyDaybyLori
    @MyDaybyLori 2 года назад

    Thanks for sharing! My boyfriend and I just broke up because he didn’t like the distance. I’m in Missouri and he’s in Iowa Thought we had a good discussion about it before we decided to be in a relationship but I guess one doesn’t know until they’re actually in it. Thanks for sharing the information and hopefully the next one will be better for me.

    • @brettertogether
      @brettertogether  Год назад +1

      Thank you for sharing your story. We hope you’re blessed to find the right person for you. God bless! 💙💚

  • @naomiwilliams1310
    @naomiwilliams1310 2 года назад +1

    Very sweet couple. and sweet cute baby. May God bless you

  • @bmason4639
    @bmason4639 Год назад +1

    H-A-L-T I like this, I will be using this. Boundaries most definitely, AWESOME... I'm loving it that you all have the Lord your first Priority. Grannie B

    • @brettertogether
      @brettertogether  Год назад

      Thanks Grannie B!! So grateful you’re in the fam!

  • @eveedmond4450
    @eveedmond4450 Год назад +1

    You guys are beautiful
    You are very well-kept, sis
    Thank you, Jesus for perfectionist
    👍

  • @jappiemutezo4377
    @jappiemutezo4377 Год назад +1

    Haha you guys are hilarious. I really also enjoy that you are Christian

  • @grantleymorris9581
    @grantleymorris9581 2 года назад +1

    Very beautiful couple

  • @kedmelodia2539
    @kedmelodia2539 2 года назад +2

    Boundaries 😂😍

  • @margaretongubo5279
    @margaretongubo5279 Год назад +1

    Your energy 😂😂

  • @purposefulliving8076
    @purposefulliving8076 2 года назад

    It's so refreshing to view a Christian family based on Biblical principles. May you continue to shine for Jesus🙏♥️

  • @sandrajohnson604
    @sandrajohnson604 2 года назад +3

    U guys are cute together

  • @amateurauthor1402
    @amateurauthor1402 2 года назад +2

    Your baby is gorgeous...

  • @vanessalucas5553
    @vanessalucas5553 2 года назад +1

    I'm just loving your vlogs when you post . I just love your God fearing vibes toward each other I'm praying for the blood of Jesus to keep your marriage union covered 🙏 🙌 🙏🙏🎉🎊💖💖🇺🇲

    • @brettertogether
      @brettertogether  2 года назад +1

      AMen!! Super grateful for that prayer! Thank you!

  • @rcnyc56
    @rcnyc56 2 года назад +1

    How did addresses mixed marriage up front to us not familiar with that?

    • @brettertogether
      @brettertogether  2 года назад +1

      Rick, we'd love to answer that one! Can you clarify the question just a bit?

  • @adolfosofiao
    @adolfosofiao 2 года назад

    Great tips guys. As a Christian, I concur that it’s important to pray when in a long distance relationship. I’m currently in one. My partner of one year lives in a different county to me and I remember after we decided to be exclusive, my partner would often go two days without calling and it would frustrate me to the point that I would feed my mind with so much negativity and doubt about him. I would be cold towards him and he confused by my change of mood. It was at that point that I realised how complacent I had become in faith and that I needed spiritual guidance. I started to pray everyday. I finally told him after 3 weeks into the relationship that communication was so important to me and my partner was totally on board. I can say today, we talk every day similar to what you did text with plenty of emojis! Thank you for sharing your story. Just discovered you today and subscribed. Beautiful family and I love your godly energy and humorous personality. God bless you. Greetings from the UK💕💕🇦🇴🇬🇧

  • @scripter0998
    @scripter0998 Год назад +1

    I can't hear anything they're saying bc of the cute baby lol

  • @nancybarnes4428
    @nancybarnes4428 2 года назад +1

    ❤️👍🏽🙏🏽

  • @hilmamoore5909
    @hilmamoore5909 2 года назад +1

    What is the meaning of HALTS

    • @brettertogether
      @brettertogether  2 года назад +1

      HALT stands for Hungry Angry Lonely Tired. We learned recently from one of our viewers that S stands for sick. If you’re any one of those things, it’s best not to have important conversations or make hard decisions. 😊

    • @hilmamoore5909
      @hilmamoore5909 2 года назад +1

      Thanks much

  • @jacquelynyoung221
    @jacquelynyoung221 2 года назад

    Aw I like them. That’s a sweet baby. I’m wondering did she bf.

    • @brettertogether
      @brettertogether  2 года назад

      Thanks for watching! He’s a pretty sweet baby. We like him a lot! 😊