I used to think that blocking the ex would be an immature decision but then I discovered that it's the best way to do. Because if you really want to move on, you cannot be distracted from your way and doesn't matter how much confidence you feel yourself, thanks to the social media, seeing your ex affect you badly and even for a second you are forced to think of her. Blocking an ex does not necessarily mean that you are weak or angry. It just means that "I am moving on and I do not want to spend any time on you anymore."
@@silkysmooth2991 no she's not I block to and I'm not angry some people come I your life to stay, some to teach you a lesson. When you block that was the lesson to move on without this person in your life.
Nova Sink I had not blocked him on FaceTime because I was hoping that potentially in the future he would contact me. However I found myself checking messages for his messages, and now I have blocked him so I can truly cut him out of my life and move on. Time heals all 🙏🏽 I know things will get better for me. Just need a bit of time to grieve. My friends have also left me, and I feel as though this period of my life is very lonely as things are changing and a lot of people have left my life. But for some reason there is still fight left in me and I am going to just keep on going.
My ex blocked me three times then unblocked me three times just blocked her today for the first time because she chose her new man over me she hardly knows him but knows me more
I had not blocked him on FaceTime because I was hoping that potentially in the future he would contact me. However I found myself checking messages for his messages, and now I have blocked him so I can truly cut him out of my life and move on. Time heals all 🙏🏽 I know things will get better for me. Just need a bit of time to grieve. My friends have also left me, and I feel as though this period of my life is very lonely as things are changing and a lot of people have left my life. But for some reason there is still fight left in me and I am going to just keep on going.
Thank you for being one of the few that supports the idea of blocking for self healing and restricting their access to you as you move forward. Blocking isn’t being mean, it’s simply closing the door to someone who isn’t a match to being in relationship with you at this time. If people want to find you and contact you, they can find a way. We’re generally too interconnected now a days to completely fall of grid and be unreachable. They can find the key to reopen that door.
Accept the person is not coming back, no contact will help with the healing process, eventually out of sight out of mind delete or deactivate yr account's on social media. Never think they are coming back move on and make new experiences for yrself with things youve never done before or never thought of before.
Hi coach yeah i have, i had to let go of resentment and attachment and move on to soul searching training the mimd self realization and enjoy being independent till im ready to be im a relationship again
@@taloleupolu5933 Sounds like you've had a turning point in your life. What method of soul searching training did you use? What did you find? Just curious.
@@CoachMacMcCarthy Hi coach, alot of reading and watching RUclips vids like your ones helped alot, soul searching like questioning myself what kind of life i want to live and what changes can i make to achieve the goals i set myself, thinking of new experiences i have never done before and open my mind to enjoy them. Changed my eating habits to healthier one exercise at the start of my day helped also, after a session i feel good about myself and it gave me a confidence boost my mood would positive and happy all day/night.
@@taloleupolu5933 Thanks for the feedback. Glad you're doing well. It sounds like you're on the right track, feel free to send your story into www.writemac.com if you want my take, otherwise keep on moving and keep being you. Just curious is that a Polynesian name?
I blocked this Mfr because he hurt me so bad. I told him to never contact me again because I’ve had enough.. he broke my heart. Now the ball is in his court and he’ll have to walk through fire to get me back or even have a chance to get me back.
I agree.....BLOCK THEM!!! I tried.....but there comes a point you have to stand up! I'm not JUST no contact, I moved, changed my number and blocked on SM! I don't need to see her page and all the fake shit and pictures of her having a great time! What do I care - I've got ME to think about now!!!
Thank you for coming to my Narc feed. Glad to hear your story, and positive support. I do not want that devil back. He is a covert Narcissist. I am in 'school '. Gaining armor, and knowledge. This evil, that entered, I must banish.
Huge chance you are making a monster out of someone out of an unwillingness to see how you have also committed to the relationship going sour. Be wary of that.
I have known this guy since childhood just as a friend but slowly by slowly we started liking each other and even started being intimate.....recently he went quiet for some months though he would occasionally call and visit me. i really did love him and thought we would one day be together forever. Just a few months ago, I was told that he had gotten married; and apparently was dating his wife the whole time he was with me. This triggered my depression and I have been suffering for some days now. Even had an anxiety attack and had to talk to my therapists. I have now totally blocked him and I think that will bring me the peace I need to heal and move on. Sometimes you just must let it go.
We broke up its been a week now, i broke up with him because of the very lack of attention. I was doing all the efforts and he was doing nothing i felt like sh!t so I ended it when he said he wont change and he was being cold. I blocked him everywhere today. No lies I am hoping that he will do some efforts, that he will search for me and try to make things better. We've been together for more than 2 years. But at the same time im trying to move on.
I just blocked mine too, it's too draining, his confused too, I'm hoping he puts effort to try get in touch despite the fact that I told him to leave me alone
i blocked him just to see will he come back for me from some where,but he did not came,and i am not gonna unblock untill he approaches me from some other source.huh ;/ still waiting
Move forward and send your full story into www.writemac.com for a tailored response on your situation. Playing the waiting game can be painful, when you expect some sort of contact and don't get it.
@@keshashaw7282 it's hard I block and unblock my ex NARC so many times from my contact list, I think I'm addicted to him. Not hearing from him bothers me. But when I think about what he put me through and disrespected me I said no more and block him. Think how they hurt you and it's there lost.
@@user-hkssf Omg.. hilarious!! I forgot all about this comment!! We were only broken up for 3 months back then. Engaged now and happy. Gave me a good laugh this morning. 😂
Lately I noticed he goes 2 weeks without texting me. I sent him a couple of text but hes response sounds like he lost interest of me. I see him online on messenger early in the morning at 3:00 or 4:00 am. I have a feeling that he found someone else and when I text him he respond right away but sounds like he lost interest in me . I think it’s because I text him a lot and he got tired of me. Until now he haven’t text me since 2 weeks ago. Also i didn’t text him until now because I am giving him a space. What can you say about it. Coach Mac?
Lilibeth Olivares leave him alone. texting him all the time will only push him away, give him space. cut off all contact. focus on yourself, work out, spend time with friends and family. and he'll come running back, and if not find someone better.
Same goes for women and I'll say this and say this once, most of the time people like this HAVE NO FCKING EMPATHY OR DEVALUE YOU. I have been the same situation. DO NOT BOTHER TEXTING CALL VIDEO CHATTING YOUR EX. Trust me, whether if it was a beautiful or not so okay with the relationship, the fact that someone decided to WALK AWAY FROM OUR LIVES, is the time that they CAN'T WAIT TO GRASP ANOTHER PERSON'S BODY TO FUCK. People in general lack a lot of patience, empathy, and understanding to work out a relationship out (exception to abuse and violence) in our generation. These types of folks want instant gratification, claiming sex bodies as a "great title" or flirting with A LOT of partner. Cut it short, should one cheat or dump... PLEASE HAVE THE DECENCY TO SAY THE TRUTH AND BREAK UP IN A GENTLE WAY TO NOT HURT THE OTHER PERSON BEING DUMPED. Thank you.
Thank you, Carmen! I look forward to hearing from you. If you book a live coaching session and don’t find it helpful or useful, I’ll issue you a full refund. Writemac.com. Stay strong!
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I blocked my husband who went to his home country to divorce his 1st wife. I have a lot of negative thoughts in my mind. he ttok 15 days vacation to sign the divorce papers. But what if in between those days they will patch up and remain together, I blocked him Because the more i see him in our video calls that he is there and they might reconcile it kills be to the bones. I cried and felt depressed this last 3 days, he have 12 days more left.I blocked him and still he didnt find way to contact with me.
I'm dealing with this right now. I dated a girl for a couple months and she started checking out and pulling away, saying there's no connection and doesn't wanna be with me. We're not even friends on social media and she still goes outta her way to watch what I'm doing...
@@LilNicoMB8st Haha yeah she was definitely still scoping me out, she started dating some dude, got knocked up and married...tried to hit me up a few months ago...😅
@@sloanmagnum5009 Yeah cause girls hit up their previous guys dated just to catch up on old times when they're married with a kid to someone else, right, no big deal at all....
I blocked my ex and i feel deliberated because i can cope with the urge to stalk her social media much better and focus on myself. But i wonder how is she even supposed to reach out when she is blocked?
Email or through a friend? She’ll find a way if she wants to talk to you. Or perhaps your door step? Feel free to send your story into writemac.com. Stay strong, Roman!
I block people who disrespect me,belittle,negatively toxic people who takee for granted if they deem seee fit they work on themselves and work extra hard to win me back if not good riddance chapter closed period
My daughter blocked her ex almost a year ago. She is now engaged. HOW does this ex still get through to her via text & email. He text things like how are you, congratulations on engagement, send my shirts, sorry to hear about your grandmother. HOW IS HE DOING THIS when she has blocked him everywhere. BTW, he’s a Navy Seal. Scary guy
Ones a week is tough? Thank God I thought I was crazy !!! I saw him ones in 3weeks , sometimes 4weeks. He lived not too far from me. I could ride a bike to his place. when I complained he made it look like I was crazy and impatient. Ofcourse he ended up dumping me cos I couldn't stand being apart for that long and I would constantly in a loving way tell him I wanted to see him. I guess he wasn't that into me . This is so relieving cos I blame myself for how things ended . I felt i was being needy. Now I can move on smoothly holding my head up high knowing it wasn't my fault and i wasn't crazy !
@@okontavalentine4822 Oh yeah, totally but I just unblocked him. Not because I want to get in touch. He is so far from my mind, i don't think he even deserves to be on my black list
I’m not sure I agree, could be wrong though? I think not blocking an ex on social media shows more strength and maturity. Don’t know, i’ve Been back and forth on this one myself. As long as you have the discipline to not fb stock, think maybe it’s a better way to go ?
Roman Kralovic Your blocking them because they meant alot to you...then they dissappointed you..bigtime....its letting them know they dissappointed you....and its you not stalking them also...its ok to block..but it is a tough decision.
You're right Roman, but people are presumptuous beings, they'll think that they're getting the better of you when they make a new post. They'll say "haha, now he'll see my new hair, I bet he misses me already". They'll say "he's probably checking out my profile". You might be unphased by their behaviour and remain connected (which takes a lot of strength), but showing that you're able to cut them out of your life will *convince* them that you're strong.
We just broke up on newyear 😥 and I still text him till yesterday but he didn't reply at all. So starting today I decided to do the No Contact rule but I jst wanna ask should I block him everywhere bcoz I keep stalking him if he's online if he blocked me or not. I need advice pls what should I do?😭 I miss him after all😥
@@CoachMacMcCarthy I blocked him and i was hoping that he'd just reach out to me in some possible ways but he did only for like 3 days, although i ignored it anyway. And now he's not even doing it anymore and I secretly started to stalked him again☹. -Does that means he's getting over me? Can I get a little help or advice maybe? 🙁
@@J.a.n.e.3.6.5 Stop stalking first of all. Cut off access to any social media stalking. Keep yourself busy and active. Double down on exercise right now.
Omg I’m so sorry to hear must be tough as hell. Apply no contact straight away. If you don’t he will think you don’t value yourself as a person or think man this is the reason why I left and you don’t want that. It’s tough as heck trust me. I’m on 3 months no contact :)))) it gets better everyday. Just go for a jog journal take up a new hobby. Do things you couldn’t do when you were with your ex . Time heals all wounds. Have a blessed new year
Hey Mac! Love your channel. I sent you a story that I know you haven't covered yet. But I used a different email address then this one. You'll love it, and the video content you can create from it. It's the one about cerebral palsy.
Well to get her back. Or that she can see my progress. A lot of coaches say you shouldn't block her but for example mute the person (basically she doesn't see that you can't see her stuff on instagram, Facebook) you're still friend on it.
@@davnesto Do what resonates most with you. The idea that you are doing things so she can see your progress, is fine, but if it doesn't work, you"re left feeling worse. I believe you should move forward with your best interest in mind, while letting go of any judgement or approval from your ex. To get my full take send your story into www.writemac.com
, im doing NC, have not bothered with her nor looked at her Facebook page and wham what pops up on notifications relationship status changed, in a relationship..Still going to do NC good luck to her really, makes NC so much easier
It depends who broke up with who. It doesn't matter if it's a man or a woman...the respect and investment should be mutual...if it's not than shut the door and move on. If they want they always know where to find you and if they care they will invest for a change and learn from their mistakes. If they not,fuck it... we'll still live and it'll be alright. That's my mindset
I have a really weird story... I was hanging out with my gf watching a movie at her house when I suddenly start receiving phone calls from a "no caller ID" person. But whoever was calling kept calling like crazy. They continuously called my phone and my gf thought I was cheating. She got extremely upset and told me to pick up the phone. I told her I didn't need to pick up the phone cause I wasn't talking to anyone. (I usually don't pick up phone calls from strange numbers). She got extremely mad and said "if you don't pick up, that means you're trying to hide something." I wasn't hiding anything cause I didn't know who was calling. I'm the end, I didn't pick up the phone calls coming in. She began to distrust in me and got mad because I didn't pick up the phone like she wanted. She blocked my everywhere on social media and left me in the blue. I had no other choice than to be in no contact. What do I do about this situation now? I wasn't really doing anything bad. She was just mad.
Same thing happened to me. She actually cheated on me, I was looking at the signs but wasn't able to dump her when I knew I should have due to so much I had invested in our relationship. Then a few dates after that, someone started calling my phone while I was on a date with her same way as you described and she got crazy jealous and convinced herself that I cheated her with another women and used that to justify to break up with me shortly after and then she stopped dating me but still wanted to keep me on the back burner by sending me messages from time to time but never wanting or asking me to go out. She started either trying to change the topic or started not responding whenever I tried to sexualize the conversation. Guys know that once a woman has sex, she always have sex and if she as your girlfriend stops fucking you or stops doing the nasty stuff she used to do to you in bed, take that as clear signal that she in fact cheated on you and is fucking someone else. Take your balls back and dump the bitch as fast as you can. Block her because if she really wants you back she'll apologize and try to earn your love back. If she doesn't want you back then you better get rid of her because she'll try to force you into a toxic sexless relationship where you're the only one that's giving. Do not reward her poor decision and get a much hotter and better woman.
@@guillermom8536 that's the problem yall think it's all about sex and it's not. If you make a woman feel great mentally sex isn't a problem, but yall put too much into sex.
I don't know if she has insecurity issues or past boyfriends who cheated etc. But if you loved her, you should have answered and made her feel at ease. A relationship is making not only your self feel comfortable but your partner. If they aren't doing anything to compromise your life or deep values then just pick up the damn phone. It does seem suspicious, it's not a life or death situation to not pick up and give her peace of mind. It's selfish, sacrifice and making your partner feel comfortable isn't to be confused with control or demoralizing your values but to sacrifice because you love the person and knows that makes them feel safe and at ease with you.
@@tiablasian2118 It might not be all but in a sexual relationship, sex is very important thing. If the woman stops fucking you to play mind games or fuck someone else, she's not worth the effort at all.
@@tiablasian2118 Although she is a very beautiful woman she was a very insecure, probably still is to this day. To be honest that was a horrible experience and I don't want to repeat it ever again. That's why now I'm no longer monogamous. I date multiple woman and they know about it and accept it. It's not worth nor fair for me as a man to do and be so many things just to be as attractive as I am to women in general and still be put in a position where I have to keep proving myself, feels like I'm walking on eggshells for the actions of others just so she can be at peace. I never pick up phone calls from numbers I don't have added or know who it is for my own security and all my women know it.
Hi..love your content...i blocked him as he is told me the he doesn’t like my life as it doesn’t fit him...as I’m always out ...he lies ...my life is perfect nothing wrong with it. I asked him if you don’t want me in your life just please let me know... I feel sad but I will be okay (I told him)...then he said whatever...
@@TheKG636 i don't want to look at cold shower therapy on youtube i just don't like being forced and pressure to do things that i really don't wanna do i just think it's ok to not want to improve on anything i just want to have the freedom to make my own decisions ok.
As our both fmlies are nt ready for our marriage but still we usd to txt eachother normally, suddenly my guy said me dat he is nt comfortable nd he is unable to moveon being wth me ,I was broken to hear this nd I blocked him. Will this make him miss me ,will he come back to me
Repost: Same goes for women and I'll say this and say this once, most of the time people like this HAVE NO FCKING EMPATHY OR DEVALUE YOU. I have been the same situation. DO NOT BOTHER TEXTING CALL VIDEO CHATTING YOUR EX. Trust me, whether if it was a beautiful or not so okay with the relationship, the fact that someone decided to WALK AWAY FROM OUR LIVES, is the time that they CAN'T WAIT TO GRASP ANOTHER PERSON'S BODY TO FUCK. People in general lack a lot of patience, empathy, and understanding to work out a relationship out (exception to abuse and violence) in our generation. These types of folks want instant gratification, claiming sex bodies as a "great title" or flirting with A LOT of partner. Cut it short, should one cheat or dump... PLEASE HAVE THE DECENCY TO SAY THE TRUTH AND BREAK UP IN A GENTLE WAY TO NOT HURT THE OTHER PERSON BEING DUMPED. Thank you.
@@ideallmotivation2707 Hello Henry, If you have a longer story, maybe you want to go with the private video response or straight into a live coaching session. All coaching session s are refundable if you don't find them helpful or useful moving forward.
thank you for ur reply. I want her back but I know is very difficult because she is married now .and I don't want to be friend with woman I love. I don't contact her she do contact me and saying i wan see you but they have to be private .I don't want because more I see her my feelings go strong for her .she know I love her but she miss with my head. thank you for listening to me
I used to think that blocking the ex would be an immature decision but then I discovered that it's the best way to do. Because if you really want to move on, you cannot be distracted from your way and doesn't matter how much confidence you feel yourself, thanks to the social media, seeing your ex affect you badly and even for a second you are forced to think of her. Blocking an ex does not necessarily mean that you are weak or angry. It just means that "I am moving on and I do not want to spend any time on you anymore."
Nice take.
Al B. U sound hurt af lol
@@silkysmooth2991 no she's not I block to and I'm not angry some people come I your life to stay, some to teach you a lesson. When you block that was the lesson to move on without this person in your life.
Nova Sink I had not blocked him on FaceTime because I was hoping that potentially in the future he would contact me. However I found myself checking messages for his messages, and now I have blocked him so I can truly cut him out of my life and move on. Time heals all 🙏🏽 I know things will get better for me. Just need a bit of time to grieve. My friends have also left me, and I feel as though this period of my life is very lonely as things are changing and a lot of people have left my life. But for some reason there is still fight left in me and I am going to just keep on going.
Nova Sink I blocked mine but what sucks is we work together about once a week. I stay cordial but man I really wish I didn’t have to see her again lol
Not blocking shows they deserve to be in ur life. .. blocking shows they don't. They want in your life ..They earn it
I went no contact, 3 weeks later she deleted me from snapchat, our only socialmedia we got eachother in... I dont think she coming back..
My ex blocked me three times then unblocked me three times just blocked her today for the first time because she chose her new man over me she hardly knows him but knows me more
How are you now?
I had not blocked him on FaceTime because I was hoping that potentially in the future he would contact me. However I found myself checking messages for his messages, and now I have blocked him so I can truly cut him out of my life and move on. Time heals all 🙏🏽 I know things will get better for me. Just need a bit of time to grieve. My friends have also left me, and I feel as though this period of my life is very lonely as things are changing and a lot of people have left my life. But for some reason there is still fight left in me and I am going to just keep on going.
Serkan Ronaldo leave a voicemail to find out
Thank you for being one of the few that supports the idea of blocking for self healing and restricting their access to you as you move forward. Blocking isn’t being mean, it’s simply closing the door to someone who isn’t a match to being in relationship with you at this time. If people want to find you and contact you, they can find a way. We’re generally too interconnected now a days to completely fall of grid and be unreachable. They can find the key to reopen that door.
Right, I don't know why a lot of coaches are against blocking, for me blocking and deleting equals peace...
Exactly. Thank you for this comment. I kinda needed a verification of my action today. And I'm literally feeling like I'm in a vacation
Finally a coach recommends blocking!
Accept the person is not coming back, no contact will help with the healing process, eventually out of sight out of mind delete or deactivate yr account's on social media. Never think they are coming back move on and make new experiences for yrself with things youve never done before or never thought of before.
Good advice, Talo. You've been through this before, I take it.
Hi coach yeah i have, i had to let go of resentment and attachment and move on to soul searching training the mimd self realization and enjoy being independent till im ready to be im a relationship again
@@taloleupolu5933 Sounds like you've had a turning point in your life. What method of soul searching training did you use? What did you find? Just curious.
@@CoachMacMcCarthy Hi coach, alot of reading and watching RUclips vids like your ones helped alot, soul searching like questioning myself what kind of life i want to live and what changes can i make to achieve the goals i set myself, thinking of new experiences i have never done before and open my mind to enjoy them. Changed my eating habits to healthier one exercise at the start of my day helped also, after a session i feel good about myself and it gave me a confidence boost my mood would positive and happy all day/night.
@@taloleupolu5933 Thanks for the feedback. Glad you're doing well. It sounds like you're on the right track, feel free to send your story into www.writemac.com if you want my take, otherwise keep on moving and keep being you. Just curious is that a Polynesian name?
I blocked this Mfr because he hurt me so bad. I told him to never contact me again because I’ve had enough.. he broke my heart. Now the ball is in his court and he’ll have to walk through fire to get me back or even have a chance to get me back.
Any update?
Wow
I hope you feel better
@@gothamcity007 Yes, we reunited a month after my post and have been happier than ever. Thank you for asking.
@@maybeni288 Feeling great thanks!
I agree.....BLOCK THEM!!! I tried.....but there comes a point you have to stand up! I'm not JUST no contact, I moved, changed my number and blocked on SM! I don't need to see her page and all the fake shit and pictures of her having a great time! What do I care - I've got ME to think about now!!!
Thank you for coming to my Narc feed. Glad to hear your story, and positive support. I do not want that devil back. He is a covert Narcissist. I am in 'school '. Gaining armor, and knowledge. This evil, that entered, I must banish.
Huge chance you are making a monster out of someone out of an unwillingness to see how you have also committed to the relationship going sour. Be wary of that.
I have known this guy since childhood just as a friend but slowly by slowly we started liking each other and even started being intimate.....recently he went quiet for some months though he would occasionally call and visit me. i really did love him and thought we would one day be together forever. Just a few months ago, I was told that he had gotten married; and apparently was dating his wife the whole time he was with me. This triggered my depression and I have been suffering for some days now. Even had an anxiety attack and had to talk to my therapists.
I have now totally blocked him and I think that will bring me the peace I need to heal and move on. Sometimes you just must let it go.
Wish you all the best in moving forward.
We broke up its been a week now, i broke up with him because of the very lack of attention. I was doing all the efforts and he was doing nothing i felt like sh!t so I ended it when he said he wont change and he was being cold. I blocked him everywhere today. No lies I am hoping that he will do some efforts, that he will search for me and try to make things better. We've been together for more than 2 years. But at the same time im trying to move on.
Did he reach out, update?
I just blocked mine too, it's too draining, his confused too, I'm hoping he puts effort to try get in touch despite the fact that I told him to leave me alone
@@thelmamurungweni2107 .Hello Mr osekhametalor He can recover your relationship back
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i blocked him just to see will he come back for me from some where,but he did not came,and i am not gonna unblock untill he approaches me from some other source.huh ;/ still waiting
Move forward and send your full story into www.writemac.com for a tailored response on your situation. Playing the waiting game can be painful, when you expect some sort of contact and don't get it.
Stay strong....focus on you....I'm trying to get the strength to block him.😏
@@keshashaw7282 You got the strength it's in there, dig deep and use it. Make a decision with the best intentions for you moving forward.
@@keshashaw7282 it's hard I block and unblock my ex NARC so many times from my contact list, I think I'm addicted to him. Not hearing from him bothers me. But when I think about what he put me through and disrespected me I said no more and block him. Think how they hurt you and it's there lost.
Rubab Zehra update please
He's definitely on block on everything
mergirl2000 Dunne Same. He won’t have another chance to hurt me. F him!
@@diamond13130 Lmao and you’re back together now I read another comment 🤣🤣 this is so funny but I hope you’re happy
@@user-hkssf Omg.. hilarious!! I forgot all about this comment!! We were only broken up for 3 months back then. Engaged now and happy. Gave me a good laugh this morning. 😂
@@diamond13130so did you unblock him or did he find a way to contact you?
I just broke up after 3 years.. 🚶🏾♂️
Just blocked him on all social medias, I wish I had done this before
Lately I noticed he goes 2 weeks without texting me. I sent him a couple of text but hes response sounds like he lost interest of me. I see him online on messenger early in the morning at 3:00 or 4:00 am. I have a feeling that he found someone else and when I text him he respond right away but sounds like he lost interest in me . I think it’s because I text him a lot and he got tired of me. Until now he haven’t text me since 2 weeks ago. Also i didn’t text him until now because I am giving him a space. What can you say about it. Coach Mac?
Lilibeth Olivares leave him alone. texting him all the time will only push him away, give him space. cut off all contact. focus on yourself, work out, spend time with friends and family. and he'll come running back, and if not find someone better.
Find a good and wealthy man
Same goes for women and I'll say this and say this once, most of the time people like this HAVE NO FCKING EMPATHY OR DEVALUE YOU.
I have been the same situation. DO NOT BOTHER TEXTING CALL VIDEO CHATTING YOUR EX.
Trust me, whether if it was a beautiful or not so okay with the relationship, the fact that someone decided to WALK AWAY FROM OUR LIVES, is the time that they CAN'T WAIT TO GRASP ANOTHER PERSON'S BODY TO FUCK.
People in general lack a lot of patience, empathy, and understanding to work out a relationship out (exception to abuse and violence) in our generation. These types of folks want instant gratification, claiming sex bodies as a "great title" or flirting with A LOT of partner.
Cut it short, should one cheat or dump... PLEASE HAVE THE DECENCY TO SAY THE TRUTH AND BREAK UP IN A GENTLE WAY TO NOT HURT THE OTHER PERSON BEING DUMPED.
Thank you.
@@gamersenari6662 Truth.
Mac, you’re such a sweetie ❤ I need to write my story soon..
Thank you, Carmen! I look forward to hearing from you. If you book a live coaching session and don’t find it helpful or useful, I’ll issue you a full refund. Writemac.com. Stay strong!
@@CoachMacMcCarthy I just booked :)
@@carmenelektra6099 I’ll respond via email. Thank you for the heads up. Talk to you soon!
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I blocked my ex on Facebook but the problem is she has made a fake profile so she can still keep in contact and see what I am going.
Set your parameters so only your Facebook Friends see what you are posting.
I blocked the guy i love because we we're having issues since January and now I'm dying inside!
I’d suggest you send your story into writemac.com or book a live coaching session. I can help you.
I blocked my husband who went to his home country to divorce his 1st wife. I have a lot of negative thoughts in my mind. he ttok 15 days vacation to sign the divorce papers. But what if in between those days they will patch up and remain together, I blocked him Because the more i see him in our video calls that he is there and they might reconcile it kills be to the bones. I cried and felt depressed this last 3 days, he have 12 days more left.I blocked him and still he didnt find way to contact with me.
So what happened it's months later???
Need update, please.
I like this guy
I'm dealing with this right now. I dated a girl for a couple months and she started checking out and pulling away, saying there's no connection and doesn't wanna be with me.
We're not even friends on social media and she still goes outta her way to watch what I'm doing...
Probably a narcissist
she still in love fr
@@LilNicoMB8st Haha yeah she was definitely still scoping me out, she started dating some dude, got knocked up and married...tried to hit me up a few months ago...😅
Relax... Yall were only dating. I wouldn't put to much into that. It doesn't mean much
@@sloanmagnum5009 Yeah cause girls hit up their previous guys dated just to catch up on old times when they're married with a kid to someone else, right, no big deal at all....
I blocked my ex and i feel deliberated because i can cope with the urge to stalk her social media much better and focus on myself. But i wonder how is she even supposed to reach out when she is blocked?
Email or through a friend? She’ll find a way if she wants to talk to you. Or perhaps your door step? Feel free to send your story into writemac.com. Stay strong, Roman!
@@CoachMacMcCarthy Thanks man thats what i needed to hear. I wrote you 2 pages i hope its not too long 🙏🏼
@@pipepamama all good!
I block people who disrespect me,belittle,negatively toxic people who takee for granted if they deem seee fit they work on themselves and work extra hard to win me back if not good riddance chapter closed period
Nice take. Keep that self respect tank full, Jaqueline! Stay Strong!
My daughter blocked her ex almost a year ago. She is now engaged. HOW does this ex still get through to her via text & email. He text things like how are you, congratulations on engagement, send my shirts, sorry to hear about your grandmother. HOW IS HE DOING THIS when she has blocked him everywhere. BTW, he’s a Navy Seal. Scary guy
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Ones a week is tough? Thank God I thought I was crazy !!! I saw him ones in 3weeks , sometimes 4weeks. He lived not too far from me. I could ride a bike to his place. when I complained he made it look like I was crazy and impatient. Ofcourse he ended up dumping me cos I couldn't stand being apart for that long and I would constantly in a loving way tell him I wanted to see him. I guess he wasn't that into me . This is so relieving cos I blame myself for how things ended . I felt i was being needy. Now I can move on smoothly holding my head up high knowing it wasn't my fault and i wasn't crazy !
Did you block him on all social media handles?
@@okontavalentine4822 Oh yeah, totally but I just unblocked him. Not because I want to get in touch. He is so far from my mind, i don't think he even deserves to be on my black list
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I’m not sure I agree, could be wrong though? I think not blocking an ex on social media shows more strength and maturity. Don’t know, i’ve Been back and forth on this one myself. As long as you have the discipline to not fb stock, think maybe it’s a better way to go ?
Roman Kralovic Your blocking them because they meant alot to you...then they dissappointed you..bigtime....its letting them know they dissappointed you....and its you not stalking them also...its ok to block..but it is a tough decision.
Block them if they disrespect you
Wow your comment help me make a decision about
@@Themedusatouch89 I agree
You're right Roman, but people are presumptuous beings, they'll think that they're getting the better of you when they make a new post. They'll say "haha, now he'll see my new hair, I bet he misses me already". They'll say "he's probably checking out my profile". You might be unphased by their behaviour and remain connected (which takes a lot of strength), but showing that you're able to cut them out of your life will *convince* them that you're strong.
Your story sounds like mines I lost my baby, with him for 3 years and I always wonder if he cared.
I’m over it now , I have someone new , funny thing is he’s messaged me today
very good dude!
We just broke up on newyear 😥 and I still text him till yesterday but he didn't reply at all. So starting today I decided to do the No Contact rule but I jst wanna ask should I block him everywhere bcoz I keep stalking him if he's online if he blocked me or not. I need advice pls what should I do?😭 I miss him after all😥
Don't allow yourself access to his social media.
@@CoachMacMcCarthy I blocked him and i was hoping that he'd just reach out to me in some possible ways but he did only for like 3 days, although i ignored it anyway. And now he's not even doing it anymore and I secretly started to stalked him again☹.
-Does that means he's getting over me? Can I get a little help or advice maybe? 🙁
@@J.a.n.e.3.6.5 Stop stalking first of all. Cut off access to any social media stalking. Keep yourself busy and active. Double down on exercise right now.
Omg I’m so sorry to hear must be tough as hell. Apply no contact straight away. If you don’t he will think you don’t value yourself as a person or think man this is the reason why I left and you don’t want that. It’s tough as heck trust me. I’m on 3 months no contact :)))) it gets better everyday. Just go for a jog journal take up a new hobby. Do things you couldn’t do when you were with your ex . Time heals all wounds. Have a blessed new year
@@chlochlo8207 I texted him today after more than 30days of no contact but he didn't reply:'( I miss him
Hey Mac! Love your channel. I sent you a story that I know you haven't covered yet. But I used a different email address then this one. You'll love it, and the video content you can create from it. It's the one about cerebral palsy.
I got it, I’ll unpack it on a livestream soon.
@@CoachMacMcCarthy awesome bro. Thank you.
What if you blocked her? Would you unblock her?
What's your intentions in unblocking her?
Well to get her back. Or that she can see my progress. A lot of coaches say you shouldn't block her but for example mute the person (basically she doesn't see that you can't see her stuff on instagram, Facebook) you're still friend on it.
@@davnesto Do what resonates most with you. The idea that you are doing things so she can see your progress, is fine, but if it doesn't work, you"re left feeling worse. I believe you should move forward with your best interest in mind, while letting go of any judgement or approval from your ex. To get my full take send your story into www.writemac.com
She block on everything including email an I changed my number to
Stay Strong, Randall. Negotiations are off the table, time to move on. All the best.
To be honest I blocked y ex bitch from everything I dont care. Why should I? Broke up with me 2 wks later got with a rebound. There's no coming back!
, im doing NC, have not bothered with her nor looked at her Facebook page and wham what pops up on notifications relationship status changed, in a relationship..Still going to do NC good luck to her really, makes NC so much easier
Any changes?
I call myself a block master. This is why you do not invest in women. Instead, make them invest in you. Know your value.
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It depends who broke up with who. It doesn't matter if it's a man or a woman...the respect and investment should be mutual...if it's not than shut the door and move on. If they want they always know where to find you and if they care they will invest for a change and learn from their mistakes. If they not,fuck it... we'll still live and it'll be alright. That's my mindset
If you’re a weak man that wants to be chased and is in feminine energy just say that lol
I have a really weird story... I was hanging out with my gf watching a movie at her house when I suddenly start receiving phone calls from a "no caller ID" person. But whoever was calling kept calling like crazy. They continuously called my phone and my gf thought I was cheating. She got extremely upset and told me to pick up the phone. I told her I didn't need to pick up the phone cause I wasn't talking to anyone. (I usually don't pick up phone calls from strange numbers). She got extremely mad and said "if you don't pick up, that means you're trying to hide something." I wasn't hiding anything cause I didn't know who was calling. I'm the end, I didn't pick up the phone calls coming in. She began to distrust in me and got mad because I didn't pick up the phone like she wanted. She blocked my everywhere on social media and left me in the blue. I had no other choice than to be in no contact. What do I do about this situation now? I wasn't really doing anything bad. She was just mad.
Same thing happened to me. She actually cheated on me, I was looking at the signs but wasn't able to dump her when I knew I should have due to so much I had invested in our relationship. Then a few dates after that, someone started calling my phone while I was on a date with her same way as you described and she got crazy jealous and convinced herself that I cheated her with another women and used that to justify to break up with me shortly after and then she stopped dating me but still wanted to keep me on the back burner by sending me messages from time to time but never wanting or asking me to go out. She started either trying to change the topic or started not responding whenever I tried to sexualize the conversation. Guys know that once a woman has sex, she always have sex and if she as your girlfriend stops fucking you or stops doing the nasty stuff she used to do to you in bed, take that as clear signal that she in fact cheated on you and is fucking someone else. Take your balls back and dump the bitch as fast as you can. Block her because if she really wants you back she'll apologize and try to earn your love back. If she doesn't want you back then you better get rid of her because she'll try to force you into a toxic sexless relationship where you're the only one that's giving. Do not reward her poor decision and get a much hotter and better woman.
@@guillermom8536 that's the problem yall think it's all about sex and it's not. If you make a woman feel great mentally sex isn't a problem, but yall put too much into sex.
I don't know if she has insecurity issues or past boyfriends who cheated etc. But if you loved her, you should have answered and made her feel at ease. A relationship is making not only your self feel comfortable but your partner. If they aren't doing anything to compromise your life or deep values then just pick up the damn phone. It does seem suspicious, it's not a life or death situation to not pick up and give her peace of mind. It's selfish, sacrifice and making your partner feel comfortable isn't to be confused with control or demoralizing your values but to sacrifice because you love the person and knows that makes them feel safe and at ease with you.
@@tiablasian2118 It might not be all but in a sexual relationship, sex is very important thing. If the woman stops fucking you to play mind games or fuck someone else, she's not worth the effort at all.
@@tiablasian2118 Although she is a very beautiful woman she was a very insecure, probably still is to this day. To be honest that was a horrible experience and I don't want to repeat it ever again. That's why now I'm no longer monogamous. I date multiple woman and they know about it and accept it. It's not worth nor fair for me as a man to do and be so many things just to be as attractive as I am to women in general and still be put in a position where I have to keep proving myself, feels like I'm walking on eggshells for the actions of others just so she can be at peace. I never pick up phone calls from numbers I don't have added or know who it is for my own security and all my women know it.
Hi..love your content...i blocked him as he is told me the he doesn’t like my life as it doesn’t fit him...as I’m always out ...he lies ...my life is perfect nothing wrong with it. I asked him if you don’t want me in your life just please let me know... I feel sad but I will be okay (I told him)...then he said whatever...
I don't want to improve
Look at cold shower therapy on RUclips.
@@TheKG636 i don't want to look at cold shower therapy on youtube i just don't like being forced and pressure to do things that i really don't wanna do i just think it's ok to not want to improve on anything i just want to have the freedom to make my own decisions ok.
@@shawn6306fair enough! You do you.
@@shawn6306 lmaoooooo
Please help because i choose to do no contact and she is asking me if we can at least greet each other every morning... So can i block her??
Do whatever feels right for you. If her greeting you will slow your process down, in my opinion, I would block her. She'll be a distraction.
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As our both fmlies are nt ready for our marriage but still we usd to txt eachother normally, suddenly my guy said me dat he is nt comfortable nd he is unable to moveon being wth me ,I was broken to hear this nd I blocked him. Will this make him miss me ,will he come back to me
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Same goes for women and I'll say this and say this once, most of the time people like this HAVE NO FCKING EMPATHY OR DEVALUE YOU.
I have been the same situation. DO NOT BOTHER TEXTING CALL VIDEO CHATTING YOUR EX.
Trust me, whether if it was a beautiful or not so okay with the relationship, the fact that someone decided to WALK AWAY FROM OUR LIVES, is the time that they CAN'T WAIT TO GRASP ANOTHER PERSON'S BODY TO FUCK.
People in general lack a lot of patience, empathy, and understanding to work out a relationship out (exception to abuse and violence) in our generation. These types of folks want instant gratification, claiming sex bodies as a "great title" or flirting with A LOT of partner.
Cut it short, should one cheat or dump... PLEASE HAVE THE DECENCY TO SAY THE TRUTH AND BREAK UP IN A GENTLE WAY TO NOT HURT THE OTHER PERSON BEING DUMPED.
Thank you.
Should I delete her photos on my facebook?
Most likely yes, but send me your story and I'll give my full take. www.writemac.com
@@CoachMacMcCarthy hello marc am sending my story in 2hrs still at work... It a bit long but will make it really very short... Thank you
@@ideallmotivation2707 Hello Henry, If you have a longer story, maybe you want to go with the private video response or straight into a live coaching session. All coaching session s are refundable if you don't find them helpful or useful moving forward.
Yes
I block my ex phone number
Good for you MJ.
My girlfriend she leve it me and she go back to her xhusband and she still saying she loves me and she whan talk to me every night
thank you for ur reply. I want her back but I know is very difficult because she is married now .and I don't want to be friend with woman I love. I don't contact her she do contact me and saying i wan see you but they have to be private .I don't want because more I see her my feelings go strong for her .she know I love her but she miss with my head. thank you for listening to me
Know the truth about life and there lies the answer for not just this breakup myth but for all the other myths :)
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