I Blocked My Ex On Social Media | breakups

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  • Опубликовано: 30 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 102

  • @jasmeetsingh5
    @jasmeetsingh5 2 года назад +42

    That's smart, not only are you sending a signal that you want to move on, but you aren't chasing after someone who doesn't want to be with you.

    • @CoachMacMcCarthy
      @CoachMacMcCarthy  2 года назад +1

      Thank you, Jasmeet. Feel free to join the livestream today in about 30 minutes.

  • @CarolineLeroy-l7e
    @CarolineLeroy-l7e 10 месяцев назад +9

    Blocked needed to heal self

  • @jcou6541
    @jcou6541 5 лет назад +21

    This guy has some really good advice, deserves more views. Like he said in the vid, the guy from the story needed to grow some balls and not even think about rekindling the one sided relationship.

  • @madeinhisimage3447
    @madeinhisimage3447 5 лет назад +45

    I just had to block. I felt pressed up against a wall to make this decision because after I decided to put my foot down and confronted him on all the points that Led me to the decision to break it off. Completely avoiding the truth that there was someone else and gaslighting me and being dismissive. My not blocking him I could tell was sending him the message that I’m still available to carry on and that I want him to reach out to me. I’m done and so hurt by this. It was giving him comfort and not taking me seriously that I was ending things by leaving that unblocked door open. So now it’s locked and bolted.

    • @CoachMacMcCarthy
      @CoachMacMcCarthy  5 лет назад +7

      I'm DONE, is a turning point statement in breakups. It's usually the beginning of truly moving forward. You did what you had to do, for you. Good for you. Stay strong.

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      @ibrahimaliyumuhammad8888 3 года назад

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  • @JDsyoutubepage
    @JDsyoutubepage 4 года назад +45

    I just blocked someone I was dating for 3 months, very one sided on my behalf. Hot cold, very closed off emotionally, didn’t seem at all invested in me but I Made the crucial mistake on investing emotionally in her. She stopped messaging me during lock down and ignored messages from me but continued veiwing my Instagram stories as soon as I put them up. It was confusing as hell.
    I didn’t wanna block her because I felt like it was an immature move. How ever my best friend convinced me to do it and I did.
    I’m still hurting but I’m sure I’ve made the right move.

    • @nconneriii
      @nconneriii 4 года назад +4

      I'm in the same boat. People never really tell you their real problems and you be investing in them but you soon find out they putting in half the effort in which is sad. It Usually be there problem and I learn from my mistakes. I feel like people should not date if they have trust issues,commitment issues or even emotionally unavailable because of their past experiences

    • @Js-wd6dr
      @Js-wd6dr 4 года назад

      I wouldn't give her the satisfaction of blocking her. I would just say you are busy and after awhile she will get mad....then I would ignore her. Very abusive and don't take her bullying. You should be nice about it. Gray Rock her which means say you are busy and not get in any drama with her.

  • @posyo2265
    @posyo2265 3 месяца назад +3

    I was too old when I realized women dont fall in love. They will chose their best choice without putting their heart at risk.

  • @hijaumorson
    @hijaumorson 2 года назад +5

    i finally blocked her today after 10 years.

  • @Giovanni-01
    @Giovanni-01 2 года назад +4

    Those break up cycles can be messy, you stop contact, one will come back, and the other will reject them.
    Shed contact me, and I'd be direct and tell her, I'm not interested in being her friend, and unless she wanted to work on things, then there's no point being in contact, she'd agree, then she'd ghost me . "Once bitten twice shy"
    Mine was like that, but couple month's ago, when she contacted me after a yr, I was over the situation so I was content with blocking her

  • @silk2smooth542
    @silk2smooth542 5 лет назад +23

    6 months tops honey moon phase

  • @12345678abracadabra
    @12345678abracadabra 5 лет назад +10

    This is great advice though I'm a bit disappointed that you didn't really answer the question i.e. rekindle after blocking. I just did that to stop myself from obsessing over my ex's actions, but it's been 6 months. I've healed and saw the relationship from a clear perspective, focused on myself, and dated people since. And I still think we had something.

  • @Giovanni-01
    @Giovanni-01 2 года назад +4

    I think alot of ppl don't block bc, it may be seen as you being "hurt".
    Really it doesn't matter what they think, you're no longer together, if you want to block to move on, then you should

  • @nancy4026
    @nancy4026 3 года назад +5

    I wish I was able to leave unblocked and not give him the satisfaction but I wear my heart on my sleeve and can’t act like it doesn’t hurt. I did it for your exact first reason. I was suspicious of him so I don’t want to make assumptions, put stories together, and then hurt my own feelings. I also feel there’s an energetic connection when you keep them on social media. I do it for me, not to be petty or anything. It just helps me heal

    • @CoachMacMcCarthy
      @CoachMacMcCarthy  3 года назад

      Do it for you, Nancy. Stay strong!

    • @marvinmcowells6024
      @marvinmcowells6024 3 года назад

      ±2348102689570⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of breakup.,.....❤️

  • @tarz1109
    @tarz1109 3 года назад +7

    My ex girlfriend and I also never fought, but shortly after the break up, it became clear that she didn't show as much sensitivity or care for me as she used to despite telling me she still loved me. She showed more care that she was being "honest and respectful" and would constantly, *constantly* reiterate that she's telling the truth because I "deserve it", like as if telling the truth is some sort of heroic favour. Painting herself in a good light while breaking my heart. It became much more clear that she cared less about me when she would openly flirt with others on her social media stories right after our break up and even put her new boyfriend's @ on her bio (a relationship that I very much doubt will last) 2 months after me. I had to block and delete her; I honestly doubt she would be motivated to flaunt herself on social media if I'm no longer even there to see anything. I can't change anything and yes I want her back, I have so much hurt that I want her to understand, so many words I want her to hear or read; however, I didn't tell her a single thing before blocking her because I KNOW I deserve better than whatever the fuck she's doing right now. Maybe I should've explained why I'm blocking her, tell her I'm just looking out for myself, but I know I'll just be caressing her ego by revealing that I'm yet to move on.

  • @anthonyduran5354
    @anthonyduran5354 5 лет назад +32

    I blocked my ex on everything. Phone number and social media all blocked. I really want to move on because this girl hurt me many times. I'm the one who broke it off and she seemed to not even care about the breakup. If there is any hope of her truly loving me I know that there are many different ways to get in contact with me despite being blocked.

    • @CoachMacMcCarthy
      @CoachMacMcCarthy  5 лет назад +7

      If she hurt you many times, you aren't compatible. Feel free to write your full story and send it into www.writemac.com. Stay in no contact and move forward.

    • @thatjamericankidd6637
      @thatjamericankidd6637 4 года назад +1

      They can leave a voicemail

    • @teoman5503
      @teoman5503 4 года назад

      This was the exact situatuon for me right now, how did blocking work for you? did she ever reach to you?

    • @tarz1109
      @tarz1109 3 года назад +5

      @@teoman5503 My friend, the core fundamental intention of blocking someone is that it shouldn't matter to you if they reach out.
      If you're half closing the door, expect the person on the other end to smash it shut in your stead.

  • @thorin2152
    @thorin2152 4 года назад +7

    Man you're straight to the fucking point. Couldn't stop laughing during the video 😂

  • @harsh_lines
    @harsh_lines Год назад +2

    I was in a relationship with her , and after around 6 months we started fighting each other. then she broke up with me and never come back and I was trying to convince her, please come back,I can't leave without you, etc but refused all the things. After some time we started talking. I told to her that can we meet ? she told me no I am busy, after a few days I again asked her. She said I don't know .. So I blocked her on every social media. I don't know I did right thing or wrong.

  • @michelebien8555
    @michelebien8555 3 года назад +3

    I blocked my ex boyfriend on all social media app and his phone number because for the fact they didn’t really care about relationship neither pay much attention to me how I did with them. Explaining how I feel multiple times was exhausting

    • @CoachMacMcCarthy
      @CoachMacMcCarthy  3 года назад

      Stay STRONG! Michele. Feel free to send your story into, writemac.com

  • @joaofilipegoncalves9849
    @joaofilipegoncalves9849 3 года назад +4

    My ex told me she is on a new relationship today.... On my birthday .... I never felt so disrespected.... I am so hurt right now, all I want is to say to her that I am regret to date her... What kind of person tells you that on your birthday?
    Of course I blocked... I deserve mor e respect, I want more respect and I will be respected. We are not together that doesn't mean she can disrespect me. I am done good luck to the new guy (he will need a lot of it). 2 years together and she can't even respect me. How foolish I was believing we were great together.

    • @CoachMacMcCarthy
      @CoachMacMcCarthy  3 года назад +1

      She just told you who she is, you wouldn’t have done that to her. Ok. But regardless she told you something you needed to know to move on. Send your story into writmac.com if you want my full take. Stay strong, Joao! I believe that’s a Brazilian name?

    • @joaofilipegoncalves9849
      @joaofilipegoncalves9849 3 года назад +2

      @@CoachMacMcCarthy Hi I didn't say anything to her I wanted to say all of those things but I reply "Ok". I am very hurt but I just can't be mean to her. It's not on my way to be in life. But I admit that I would never imagine that she would do this to me. My name is Portuguese

  • @wildflowersmile3224
    @wildflowersmile3224 5 лет назад +7

    This was the perfect video for me right now. Thank you for posting it. I am in almost the same situation except HE is the one with ptsd from being a vet in Iraq. It is on again off again and he is just like the woman you explained in the video. I have blocked him finally. Now just trying to move on.

    • @CoachMacMcCarthy
      @CoachMacMcCarthy  5 лет назад +1

      Good for you, Sandra! Feel free to send your story into www.writemac.com to get a full tailored response. Wish you all the best moving forward.

  • @rod1861
    @rod1861 4 года назад +4

    Good video! I was the one that said if I block her she’s going to think I’m mad and weak it wasn’t because I wanted to see what she was doing,actually I didn’t care what she was doing,so I blocked her after years,she didn’t want nothing with me so why have her on social media..I also got her son and sister I feel bad for them cuz there cool people but I think I gotta block them too ..

    • @CoachMacMcCarthy
      @CoachMacMcCarthy  4 года назад +1

      You just don't want access to info that may hurt you and make you jump to conclusions. Social Media does that. Thanks for your take, Rudy.

  • @esl8671
    @esl8671 2 года назад +3

    Narcissist sounds like

  • @bilbo1710
    @bilbo1710 4 года назад +8

    I went through a long distance relationship
    I blocked her now
    If you want me to share I will dude

    • @CoachMacMcCarthy
      @CoachMacMcCarthy  4 года назад

      Absolutely! Send it into www.writemac.com on the services page. I'll do a public youtube video response. By chance have you ever heard the song "I'm a simple man" by Grouch. It's an old one.

  • @laiba4658
    @laiba4658 4 года назад +4

    he contacted me on day 72 of no contact saying he ACCIDENTLY texted me he was like i dont even know if i still have u and then i opened up with him (ik big mistake) he started to reply late i became mad i said him to block me but he didnt and he was like idc about anything anymore i am sorry then i was like ok if u dont care then let me grow in my life and make me burn the last bridge of our communication he was not blocking me so i blocked him after blocking him i felt relieved now it seems like i am the dumper😔but by blocking him i wanted him to know that i have moved on he still have access to me on another account i hope i didnt ruin anything or went again to day 1 of no contact

  • @spartangreg1
    @spartangreg1 5 лет назад +12

    I'm dealing with this right now. I dated a girl for a couple months and she started checking out and pulling away, saying there's no connection and doesn't wanna be with me.
    We're not even friends on social media and she still goes outta her way to watch what I'm doing...

    • @CoachMacMcCarthy
      @CoachMacMcCarthy  5 лет назад +4

      She's still curious. That's natural. Keep moving forward, bud.

    • @spartangreg1
      @spartangreg1 5 лет назад +4

      @@CoachMacMcCarthy I'm curious though, if you don't want to restart things and you're done, why even bother being curious? Shouldn't she move on and forget me as well...?

    • @stevem3618
      @stevem3618 4 года назад

      Coach Mac McCarthy I’m in a similar situation myself (and very similar to the situation presented in this video). We broke up 5 months ago and it wasn’t a smooth one (I pushed/tried reasoning and she was breadcrumbing for months). She wanted to be friends and I told her no finally after months and went no contact but she’ll periodically text “hey” asking me to come over. I’ve always turned her down and now she’s watching all my insta stories even though she doesn’t follow me. Frustrating to say the least.

  • @Revansgotkickz
    @Revansgotkickz 2 года назад +3

    ok , blocking doesnt really always have a meaning behind it , if ur truly over the relationship why take the time an effort to block an ex?
    this can always be a sign that an ex still hasn't moved on or except the breakup fully Especially if there constantly blocking then unblocking you. if ur really over the relationship in general just unfriend but dont block them.
    if your blocking them still chances are your not fully over them and people sometimes like to hide there emotions.

  • @Jervdbur
    @Jervdbur 2 года назад +2

    This is really good

    • @CoachMacMcCarthy
      @CoachMacMcCarthy  2 года назад

      Thank you, J. Feel free to send your story into writemac.com if you wanted to get my take. Stay strong!

  • @Js-wd6dr
    @Js-wd6dr 4 года назад +11

    Who cares if she wants to continue the relationship. Who would want someone like that anyway...he can do better. There are at least a thousand other people he could be dating plus who does she think she is? God's gift to mankind? Lol.

  • @IsraelGarcia-hz6oq
    @IsraelGarcia-hz6oq 4 года назад +2

    Hey mac she said she wanted nothing to do with no communication with me and then texts me on my 30th birthday happy birthday hope you thirties are filled with love happiness and healing.. then blocks me. Why all the mixed signals bro..? I haven't contacted her in 5 months

  • @weidrecords6963
    @weidrecords6963 3 года назад +1

    Honeymoon phase only lasts 2.5 years max. Same thing with the apartment key over here, but I let her keep the shit. Moved to a new state and blocked the whole family 🤞🏾

    • @CoachMacMcCarthy
      @CoachMacMcCarthy  3 года назад +1

      I like that you went all in on moving on. Moving somewhere new will always jumpstart a breakup recovery. I know it worked for me.

    • @bshszvzhsv3839
      @bshszvzhsv3839 3 года назад

      Contact him on whaxapp

    • @storrfrankie2150
      @storrfrankie2150 3 года назад

      He helped me get back my ex

  • @airindiana
    @airindiana 5 лет назад +2

    A lot of power struggling going on during that key thing from the ex. She had power, hand was forced, she lost her power and what she wanted cos he wasn’t playing along like a good little boy, then she got power back by refusing to say bye. Terribly childish. It would give an aspirin a headache lol

    • @CoachMacMcCarthy
      @CoachMacMcCarthy  5 лет назад

      The struggle of power happens due to ego many times and we all have our egos bruised from time to time. We just need to learn to how to heal from it and learn.

  • @MemeMeme-sv8dl
    @MemeMeme-sv8dl 9 месяцев назад +1

    I deactivated my social media account right after the breakup... But the reason was i had my exams coming up ... But since it being in the same timeline im pretty sure they will assume that i deactivated it because of them ... Will this decline her chances of comjng back ... Someone pls help

    • @CoachMacMcCarthy
      @CoachMacMcCarthy  9 месяцев назад

      Don’t overthink, if she wants to contact you she will. Stay the course. If you want to book a live coaching session go to writemac.com.

  • @dylanbryan726
    @dylanbryan726 6 лет назад +4

    Gday mac how ya doin iv been keepin up with most of ya videos and ya still give best advice. Good advice on this one she obviously just wanted him for sex. Since i left my ex (thanks again for ya info on that) iv found someone who just recently became new friend last year and since we got to know eachother i told her I have crush on her. I can't ask her out cause she's not 18, i got 2 rules bout dating i never date anyone under 18 & i never go out with anyone just for sex.

  • @paolanamuncura8879
    @paolanamuncura8879 Год назад +2

    Hi I was so mád I deleted it now I regret it

    • @CoachMacMcCarthy
      @CoachMacMcCarthy  Год назад +1

      What did you delete? And why do you regret it?

    • @paolanamuncura8879
      @paolanamuncura8879 Год назад

      @@CoachMacMcCarthy I unfriended him. Now I regret it. What should I do?

    • @CoachMacMcCarthy
      @CoachMacMcCarthy  Год назад +1

      @@paolanamuncura8879 Send your full story into writemac.com and I’ll give you my take in a livestream or book a live coaching session and we can fully unpack the situation to get you some clarity moving forward. If you don’t find the session useful or helpful I’ll give you a full refund. Start with asking yourself; what were my intentions in unfriending him?

  • @madpreemadskul8887
    @madpreemadskul8887 5 лет назад +2

    My ex girlfriend mother keeps calling me what should I do????because right now I'm on the no contact rule for over 3 weeks plz help me what should I do????

  • @julia3061
    @julia3061 4 года назад +5

    I deleted my ex from social media but I changed my mind and feel sad now..

    • @CoachMacMcCarthy
      @CoachMacMcCarthy  4 года назад +2

      Why'd you change your mind?

    • @nethun4501
      @nethun4501 4 года назад +2

      Same problem here. I removed my ex on social media but now I feel so sad about it.

    • @_anon_4532
      @_anon_4532 4 года назад +4

      @@CoachMacMcCarthy I did the same thing... I always think “what if they’ve changed” “what if he wants to try now”. I haven’t unblocked him tho. I’m not doing it until I’m completely ready. I wanna be healed and feel whole without him. Like be completely over it before even thinking about checking up on him.

    • @PhinbellaFlynn
      @PhinbellaFlynn 3 года назад

      @@_anon_4532 I had almost the same. I really hoped begged for some change in our relationship. But he stopped to love me in the first place and i got super depressed after that since he was my first love and i treated him very serious.. we need to move on and the best what we can do we can block each other and Forget that we exist

  • @Chrissybell1210
    @Chrissybell1210 5 лет назад +3

    I broke up with my fiance 3 days ago after a year and 3 months. We constantly argued all the time even over the stupidest things. So 3 days ago I kicked him out of my apartment we lived together but i miss him so much 😭😭😭

    • @CoachMacMcCarthy
      @CoachMacMcCarthy  5 лет назад +1

      If you argued a lot in the first year, then there were problems there that weren't getting addressed or were never going to. Feel free to send your story into www.writemac.com if you want to get my full take. Every breakup is different.

    • @Chrissybell1210
      @Chrissybell1210 5 лет назад

      @@CoachMacMcCarthy ok thanks 😭😭😭 i'm so depressed i forgot to mention that this is our second break up. We broke up the first time back in August of 2018

  • @glamourkillz123
    @glamourkillz123 4 года назад +3

    Okay but what does it mean when your ex constantly blocks & unblocks you?

    • @lucyclark3920
      @lucyclark3920 3 года назад

      Dr Steve can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance. He helped me restore back my broken relationship of 5 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words I strongly Advise you to seek help from him

    • @lucyclark3920
      @lucyclark3920 3 года назад

      Whatsapp him

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      @lucyclark3920 3 года назад

      +2347030894892🙏🏾 🙏🏾

  • @UrsuzBro
    @UrsuzBro 3 года назад +2

    Well my gf and I broke up in August...actually before my birthday, I truly loved her but she was pretending to be what she wasn't. She didn't fought for the relationship and when I did let her because I was sick of fighting alone, she left me. Since then I'm destroyed...I lost almost everything...atleast got my parents. Then one day I blocked her on social media, today I blocked her forever and deleted phone number and that s it because I think she got into a new relationship(even tho she was saying that she will think and what ever). The problem is still that we are colleagues at the university...

    • @CoachMacMcCarthy
      @CoachMacMcCarthy  3 года назад +1

      That’s tough. Send your full story into writemac.com and I’ll give you my take. Stay strong!!!

    • @CoachMacMcCarthy
      @CoachMacMcCarthy  3 года назад

      @@rabiadamuharuna5885 excellent

  • @tammi908
    @tammi908 6 лет назад

    I'm almost positive " I fucking love you"!

  • @wildflowersmile3224
    @wildflowersmile3224 5 лет назад +7

    You have the sexiest voice btw.