Damn, I wasn’t expecting that level of wholesomeness when Bill switched into adoration of his baby in the middle of reading this tragic story. That was fantastic and so full of unashamed joy! I’m so happy he found that in his life.
to give Nia the benefit of doubt I think she meant that you peak as an adult in you 30s to 40s which goes for guys too. not biological peak but maturity in life and stability with who you are. you have more knowledge and experience and still enough youth and energy to be active, it's a happy middle ground.
Thats a problem, if u are peaking in your 40s youre behind. You should physically peak in early 20s mentally peak late 20s. It shouldnt take any1 2 decades to mentally peak after becoming an adult.
To those that sites studies, 90% of studies have been proven flawed and useless since they never been through a rigorous peer to peer review, controlled and uncontrolled scientific research etc. Majority of your so called studies are rigged and paid for by those that profits from it.
Yeah, that's probably what she meant because realistically a woman's physical looks tend to peak between the ages of 18 - 25, mental development as an adult is a whole different story.
I also love her voice and her advice, I honestly love when they do the podcast together. I usually laugh my ass off either way but when they pick on each other I lose it
Age differences like that are just weird to me. Mid 40s and early 20s tells me he was seen as a mature and “worldly” type of guy by her and she was very impressionable. Now she is older and smarter and it worries him that she’ll see through his bullshit.
"his bullshit"? lol.....you been watching the gillette commercial non-stop for the last 6 months or something? A man in his 40's is over the "bullshit" like guys in their 20's..... Women love older men It could be that she wasn't impressed by 20 year old goof balls and was looking for someone stable and secure. By 40, most guys have a career, are stable, mature, and not prone to bullshit.
My family always use to point out I'm an idiot for getting with an older man but listening to Bill and Nia I dont feel so bad hearing they also have a 10 year age gap. I met my husband when I was 19 and he was 29...10 years later we actually just tied the knot at 29 and 39 after having 2 boys who are 3 and 6.
@@gustavofring8765 that's how I always felt, never seen a problem with our ages but a lot of people around my area thinks we're crazy 🤦♀️ not so much anymore since we've been together for so long now 😊
@@fumothfan9 lol I've never heard of that, but we've made it this far together just fine. I feel bad for my younger cousin though, she is 18 dating a 29 year old and the family is judging her the same way, even though I feel we've proved ourselves but I dont associate with them as much anymore because of it.
@@fumothfan9 The rule is the same for both sexes, it's half your age plus 7. If the resulting number is less than or equal to the age of the person you want to have a relationship with, it's not too much of a gap.
I hooked up with a 21 yr old when I was in my mid 40's and it didn't last because the only thing she wanted to do each weekend was rent video games and play them on her 12" colour tv....across the room! It was so small I couldn't see the freaking characters.... The kicker for me was one time when I dragged her ass out to a real restaurant and the hostess said "it's kind of busy, would you and your daughter mind sitting in the bar"??? lol
@@ludwigtheholyblade777 haha it was fine, just a normal date but man, the age difference was readily apparent when you refer to movies and stuff. She hadn't a clue about movies from my era because she wasn't even born yet lololol. WHAT you saw the first star wars at the THEATRE???? hahah
@@ludwigtheholyblade777 I don't mind video games either, and she loved racing games but we'd play split screen on a 12" freaking tv...get the power pack get the power pack! what you mean that ONE pixel 1/16" in dia going by at 100 mph? lol.....At the time I was used to playing far cry on a 42" plasma 6' away lol.....
Muskoka Mike yup I grew up playin games on small screen TVs when I tuned 18 I had enough money that one day just went to the store and bought a 55 inch plasma screen
It depends on the time period these relationships take place in. My GF wasn't even BORN when I was 20. She was only !4! when I was 24. When I was 34, she was all of 14. Now, when I met her, I'm 60 and she's 40 - completely different situation...
Wait what? Nia has to take a dose of reality, women don't peak in their 30's......and she's reaching her peak now, and men peak in their later 40's....The reason he's getting worried now is because of the constant bombardment that women will monkey branch and take a man for everything he has. (he's right too).
Even Nia says it... whenever a girl isn't absolutely perfect it's always, "daddy issues..?" Maybe they're just people being people. No one says it when some guy writes in with a psycho girlfriend.
Me and my man are 13 years apart (he is older than I am) and we have been together 18 years (Im early 40's and he is in his mid 50's). When we met the age difference made for some interesting times but as time has gone on we have grown closer together in our day to day lives. He does his thing, I do mine (my 2 grown children still live at home when not at university so I have plenty to keep me busy as does he). If you feel that your older partner is growing older at a faster rate than you are then please stop kidding yourself - even though you may be in your 30's, you won't be for long and remember that it's only just over 10 years between your 30's and your 50's and he may just be looking at you and thinking - I wish you were still in your 20's, or maybe even a teen. After all, you married him. Time's a bitch - don't give it too much thought, you'll only die waiting.
Why are these comments so filled with incels. “Omg Nia shut up women peak in their early 20s!” Like what? They get like two years out of high school and you think that’s peaked? Ridiculous.
LOL at Nia saying women peak in their 40s... that’s just her trying to make herself feel better and not admitting women peak in their mid 20s, just like men. It’s the height of the physical level in everyone’s lives. Most energetic years.
Ofcourse she said that to feel better about herself but also its very individual, depends on your way of living and improving and keeping mental health to stay happy and excited about life itself :) And, in theory, for men the best age is between 28 and 33 :)
50 definitely hits differently than 40 did. I didn't exactly feel young at 40 but I still felt like I had a whole lot more life ahead of me than behind me. But at 50 so many things have become an issue in my health in the last 10 years and I rightly recognize that I probably have fewer years ahead of me than behind me and that health issues will only continue to accumulate not diminish.
@fire rises Depends what peak you are referring to. Men peak sexually at 18 and then it is all downhill. Just a fact. Might not be way downhill until you're 40 or so. But it is downhill.
@fire rises You are using the term "sexual peak" wrong. It is used to refer to potency , testosterone production , virility , etc. All of that INEVITABLY goes only down , not up as men age. It is medical fact. You seem to be referring to men's ability to attract female attention based on a variety of social of factors. That is not what "sexual peak" means , when people use the phrase in articles or commentaries.
@fire rises Yeah , that is totally true. And men can indeed stretch it out much longer , due to the fact that men's resources and power ( however it is expressed ) tend to grow as they get older and more successful.
I once read a novel with the exact same story. The couple had a 22 year difference, when she was born he held her before her dad, and even named her, he was THAT old. Somehow the girl falls in love with so when she's 15 she asks him out. He panics and runs away from the country. The girl rushes and marries a guy when she's only 16 just to destroy her life out of spite 🤷🏻♀️ and before she has her son at 17 the husband dies. Now she's a widow. Years later when the guy is in his late 40's (still single), the girl (25), now a doctor, meets up with him again and after reconciliation they end up getting married. 8 years into the marriage and the dude starts developing this inferiority complex about his age and gives his wife a hard time because of it. Further this guy moves into their house and the ML feels threatened by him. It escalates and the dude discards his wife who ends up dying of thyroid cancer at a young age and that's when the other guy tells him that he's her son from her first marriage. The end was that the dude had trust issues because his mom left him for another guy so whether he married a young woman or not he would've done the same. The son teaches him that he went through the same but didn't despise his mother for that blah blah and there is no happy ending. The point is, the story was too similar to it, I just wanted to comment that. Btw the novel is Mehrunnisa (مہرالنساء). I don't know if there is an English version.
I am a forty year old man who has spent the last twenty three years with a woman nearly thirty years my senior.we have had many good years. but they were all in the beginning of our relationship.its been years since I had sex and I am miserable.this can work for a while but she's gonna want more really soon.
Obviously he’s having a midlife crisis. Be a good woman and do your part to make him feel confident. Yes, it’s his insecurity, but you need to prop him up
dsadik666 not just looks. Their sexual drive, their work ethic, personality wise. Not saying 40 but Chicks are at their hottest around 30. Unless you like highschool looking girls.
When people talk about a man or woman's peak being at different times, in this case Nia said women peak in their 40s, what are they referring to? I guess immediately after the peak if the decline so maybe it makes sense since the noticeable decline begins in their 40s for a lot of people, but for some reason that just sounds a little off to me. Maybe its referring to all aspects of life put together, not just physically.
My wife was 16 years younger than I was. Only thing we ever argued about was how she raised her daughter. She was one of these mothers today who want to be friends with their daughters. It wasn't like that when I grew up. It might explain why kids today are spoiled freaking rotten and are horrible creatures! That's the reason we broke up. Other than that we got along great despite the age difference.
"Peaking in her 30's"??? "Women peaking in her 40's"??? Women peak in their early 20's. Nia is delusional..... No man will never say a woman peaks in her 30's let alone 40's....
The biggest gap I've had was 15 years...which turned out to be too much in the end....although I've known couples that have worked with wider gaps...but none of those guys were poor...so Bill...right the fuck on pumpkin top. Say Hello to the always beautiful and classy Nia for me.
I thought this was straight out of many episodes of "Modern Family". I didn't find the age difference weird and I don't think she has daddy issues. She seems like a loving partner, but also one that doesn't just accepts the crap her husband gives her and she's looking for answers. We also don't know what made her husband change in such a short time. Younger guys getting promoted at work before him and he feels emasculated? He doesn't know how to express it and takes his insecurities out on his wife? Maybe communication is the only key to solve this issue and there shouldn't exist the idea of a dynamic or power struggle in a relationship because that negates any dialog both parties can have on the same terms. Relationships are hard enough as they are. There's no need to compete who wears the trousers in that relationship.
Did I just hear Nia say women ‘peak’ in their 30s or 40s??!! Once their physical looks are waning and their becoming less fertile.... sure every man wants a woman on way down the hill. 👍
It about maturity, experience, family building, and finances. Y’all really not understanding what she means by peak. Not everything is just looks and fertility. You don’t go downhill as youth fades if you are smart and have built a family and career and take care of your health.
I dunno; I find that women mature SEXUALLY once they reach their mid-20s. That's around the time they stop being insecure about their bodies and trying different kinds of sex. Us older men can't be bothered with that crap about "...but you'll think I'm a slut...". The truth is, if she's too prudish, we'll think she's immature.
For the husband, you got great 10+ years of flack out of it, milk it as far as you can, then shut it down, count your blessings, move on. I did it. 24 and 48, lasted to 38 and 62, two awesome kids. We stayed close friends, still all 4 of us travel together time to time, usually to Europe, but now only as friends, no benefits. But the difference might be that I can still run physically circles around her, mentally about the same, even thou her IQ is in top 1%.
Terrible advice from Nia on this. She needs to reassure him that she loves him and won't leave him. And he needs to make effort to fight the aging process. Condition in the gym, do low impact cardio every day, eat dark leafy greens for his brain to stay young, and just generally have an active lifestyle and healthy diet that will keep him as young as possible.
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hearing Bill be a dad is the cutest thing on the planet
Smoof29 Yes! Absolutely is!
I don’t like it
@@kratomandacid5651 Who gives a fuck
Smart move, you both...:)
Maybe one two more????
Marty Flagg they just had a boy a few weeks ago
Baby Burr
Bill getting distracted by his baby is the best thing ever
I thought it was the dog
It’s his son correct?
Jeff Baker oh okay thanks man
you obviously don't have kids, or you never handled kids and spent time with them
Baby Burr: Ehhh
Us: AWWWWW
Awwww, bill speaking to his baby is adorable.
I love when Bill and Nia do these together.
Baby burr is the sweetest thing to here. So happy for bill and nia
Damn, I wasn’t expecting that level of wholesomeness when Bill switched into adoration of his baby in the middle of reading this tragic story. That was fantastic and so full of unashamed joy! I’m so happy he found that in his life.
Literally in tears at his old man voice, so over the top and unnecessary. He was 51 not 80 😂
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DONT BLOW IT. KEEP IT SIMPLE. COUNT YOUR MONEY.
KEEP YOUR MOUNTAIN. BUY A YACHT.
Bill jumping into dad mode was the fuckin BEST SHIT I'VE EVER HEARD 😊😊
When Bill started singing Rich Homie Quan 😂😂😂
to give Nia the benefit of doubt I think she meant that you peak as an adult in you 30s to 40s which goes for guys too. not biological peak but maturity in life and stability with who you are. you have more knowledge and experience and still enough youth and energy to be active, it's a happy middle ground.
Jonathan Reyes assuming you have the capital to be that active
I liked because I'm getting old LOL
Thats a problem, if u are peaking in your 40s youre behind. You should physically peak in early 20s mentally peak late 20s. It shouldnt take any1 2 decades to mentally peak after becoming an adult.
To those that sites studies, 90% of studies have been proven flawed and useless since they never been through a rigorous peer to peer review, controlled and uncontrolled scientific research etc. Majority of your so called studies are rigged and paid for by those that profits from it.
Yeah, that's probably what she meant because realistically a woman's physical looks tend to peak between the ages of 18 - 25, mental development as an adult is a whole different story.
Nias voice is amazing
@Brooke Stern is an incel loser who goes on youtube comments to hate on women because his life is meaningless and pathetic
She definitely has a very soothing, deep, radio voice
I also love her voice and her advice, I honestly love when they do the podcast together. I usually laugh my ass off either way but when they pick on each other I lose it
Bill singing to "typa way" made me spit my water lmaoo
Fuck I laughed so hard at the role playing part, the baby part was so endearing too, quality content haha lol
Nia and you are great together! Really enjoy the program. Thank you for all your work and fun !! God Bless you and the family.
Early onset dementia, get that geezer to the Dr.
Bill sweet talking to his daughter melts me
As a man and a father, I love how unashamed bill is with his kids.
Age differences like that are just weird to me. Mid 40s and early 20s tells me he was seen as a mature and “worldly” type of guy by her and she was very impressionable. Now she is older and smarter and it worries him that she’ll see through his bullshit.
"his bullshit"? lol.....you been watching the gillette commercial non-stop for the last 6 months or something?
A man in his 40's is over the "bullshit" like guys in their 20's.....
Women love older men
It could be that she wasn't impressed by 20 year old goof balls and was looking for someone stable and secure. By 40, most guys have a career, are stable, mature, and not prone to bullshit.
@@muskokamike127 definitely what you said.
3:07 until this eeehhh I was smiling thinking Bill was talking to a Pitbull lol
My family always use to point out I'm an idiot for getting with an older man but listening to Bill and Nia I dont feel so bad hearing they also have a 10 year age gap. I met my husband when I was 19 and he was 29...10 years later we actually just tied the knot at 29 and 39 after having 2 boys who are 3 and 6.
Ten isn't too much.
@@gustavofring8765 that's how I always felt, never seen a problem with our ages but a lot of people around my area thinks we're crazy 🤦♀️ not so much anymore since we've been together for so long now 😊
10 isn't too much. If i remember the standard is half your age +10 for guys and the opposite for girls - 10 multiply by 2 (same shit lol).
@@fumothfan9 lol I've never heard of that, but we've made it this far together just fine. I feel bad for my younger cousin though, she is 18 dating a 29 year old and the family is judging her the same way, even though I feel we've proved ourselves but I dont associate with them as much anymore because of it.
@@fumothfan9 The rule is the same for both sexes, it's half your age plus 7. If the resulting number is less than or equal to the age of the person you want to have a relationship with, it's not too much of a gap.
If someone could convince me to have kids, it might be Billy
bill going Rich Homie Quan in the back made me choke on my own breath
4:52 women peek in their 40’s. 😂
I hooked up with a 21 yr old when I was in my mid 40's and it didn't last because the only thing she wanted to do each weekend was rent video games and play them on her 12" colour tv....across the room! It was so small I couldn't see the freaking characters....
The kicker for me was one time when I dragged her ass out to a real restaurant and the hostess said "it's kind of busy, would you and your daughter mind sitting in the bar"??? lol
Well first of all respect my man for banging a 21 year old at you’re age second how did the rest of the date in the restaurant go
@@ludwigtheholyblade777 haha it was fine, just a normal date but man, the age difference was readily apparent when you refer to movies and stuff. She hadn't a clue about movies from my era because she wasn't even born yet lololol. WHAT you saw the first star wars at the THEATRE???? hahah
Muskoka Mike oh shit yeah way to much of an age difference got to admit she sounds like my type of girl I really like video games too
@@ludwigtheholyblade777 I don't mind video games either, and she loved racing games but we'd play split screen on a 12" freaking tv...get the power pack get the power pack! what you mean that ONE pixel 1/16" in dia going by at 100 mph? lol.....At the time I was used to playing far cry on a 42" plasma 6' away lol.....
Muskoka Mike yup I grew up playin games on small screen TVs when I tuned 18 I had enough money that one day just went to the store and bought a 55 inch plasma screen
omg he just refrenced make you feel some type of way by rich homie Quan around 5:00
Bill is obviously such a great dad
My parents are 19 years apart but it didnt effect them because my dad looks and acts really young
Maria Perna All dads are immature haha
Is he rich?
AL K yeah he’s rich
Your mommas got daddy issues
Your dad is Benjamin Button
Nia shifting them goalposts around so her peak is in front of her still.
The kick is good!
It depends on the time period these relationships take place in. My GF wasn't even BORN when I was 20. She was only !4! when I was 24. When I was 34, she was all of 14. Now, when I met her, I'm 60 and she's 40 - completely different situation...
I want to grow old with someone not take care of an elderly person
The child love is incredibly sweet
BillBurr turned into a freakin DAAAADY!
🙂👍
Wait what? Nia has to take a dose of reality, women don't peak in their 30's......and she's reaching her peak now, and men peak in their later 40's....The reason he's getting worried now is because of the constant bombardment that women will monkey branch and take a man for everything he has. (he's right too).
Bill's Joe Biden impersonation is spot on
oh my god when the baby imitated bill "UHHH" i fucking died lmao
Even Nia says it... whenever a girl isn't absolutely perfect it's always, "daddy issues..?" Maybe they're just people being people. No one says it when some guy writes in with a psycho girlfriend.
Me and my man are 13 years apart (he is older than I am) and we have been together 18 years (Im early 40's and he is in his mid 50's). When we met the age difference made for some interesting times but as time has gone on we have grown closer together in our day to day lives. He does his thing, I do mine (my 2 grown children still live at home when not at university so I have plenty to keep me busy as does he).
If you feel that your older partner is growing older at a faster rate than you are then please stop kidding yourself - even though you may be in your 30's, you won't be for long and remember that it's only just over 10 years between your 30's and your 50's and he may just be looking at you and thinking - I wish you were still in your 20's, or maybe even a teen. After all, you married him.
Time's a bitch - don't give it too much thought, you'll only die waiting.
Why are these comments so filled with incels. “Omg Nia shut up women peak in their early 20s!” Like what? They get like two years out of high school and you think that’s peaked? Ridiculous.
😁triiigereeed😁
Lol bill told that 22 year old girl to try stuff with him she wouldn't try with her husband. That's the part he left out at the end lol
Bill got hella cool points for the Rich Homie reference
Bill's old man voice is funny as shit
Now was spot on with that analysis@ power dynamics
LOL at Nia saying women peak in their 40s... that’s just her trying to make herself feel better and not admitting women peak in their mid 20s, just like men. It’s the height of the physical level in everyone’s lives. Most energetic years.
Odin's Playground I think men age much better, so 25 - 45 is a good estimate
Ofcourse she said that to feel better about herself but also its very individual, depends on your way of living and improving and keeping mental health to stay happy and excited about life itself :)
And, in theory, for men the best age is between 28 and 33 :)
Bill and Nia make me believe that one day I could get married and have kids.
Bill is pure jokes 🤣
Gonna have to bring the daughter on for advice coming up. Lol
Bill going from baby talk to geezer mode ('-_-)
Baby burr would be so confused listening to them, "why are you guys acting so weird?" 😂😂
1:55 This is called a
*Puad keast*
Just an FYI? A 4 bedroom house is a pretty damn big house.
50 definitely hits differently than 40 did. I didn't exactly feel young at 40 but I still felt like I had a whole lot more life ahead of me than behind me. But at 50 so many things have become an issue in my health in the last 10 years and I rightly recognize that I probably have fewer years ahead of me than behind me and that health issues will only continue to accumulate not diminish.
I can hear her in the background!!!!!
5:00 lmao how does Bill know "Some Type of Way"?
4:55 - LOL! women do not peak in their 40's
pubclubdude she’s just making excuses for herself. So obvious and stupid. Let’s deny biology.
Yes actually but not always
Women peak in their 40s??? Hahahaha
You obviously have never had sex with an adult female.
They say stuff like that to protect their egos. Deep down, they know they peak in early 20's
@fire rises Depends what peak you are referring to. Men peak sexually at 18 and then it is all downhill. Just a fact. Might not be way downhill until you're 40 or so. But it is downhill.
@fire rises You are using the term "sexual peak" wrong. It is used to refer to potency , testosterone production , virility , etc. All of that INEVITABLY goes only down , not up as men age. It is medical fact. You seem to be referring to men's ability to attract female attention based on a variety of social of factors. That is not what "sexual peak" means , when people use the phrase in articles or commentaries.
@fire rises Yeah , that is totally true. And men can indeed stretch it out much longer , due to the fact that men's resources and power ( however it is expressed ) tend to grow as they get older and more successful.
Father Billiam
The lovely NIA
Kenny Rogers - Ruby Don't Take Your Love To Town
nia is 10 years younger than bill. fascinating.
🤣 at women peaking in there 30's.
Only a woman would say women peak in their 40's .... lol
Bill burr quoted rich homie Quan lol
I once read a novel with the exact same story. The couple had a 22 year difference, when she was born he held her before her dad, and even named her, he was THAT old. Somehow the girl falls in love with so when she's 15 she asks him out. He panics and runs away from the country. The girl rushes and marries a guy when she's only 16 just to destroy her life out of spite 🤷🏻♀️ and before she has her son at 17 the husband dies. Now she's a widow. Years later when the guy is in his late 40's (still single), the girl (25), now a doctor, meets up with him again and after reconciliation they end up getting married. 8 years into the marriage and the dude starts developing this inferiority complex about his age and gives his wife a hard time because of it. Further this guy moves into their house and the ML feels threatened by him. It escalates and the dude discards his wife who ends up dying of thyroid cancer at a young age and that's when the other guy tells him that he's her son from her first marriage. The end was that the dude had trust issues because his mom left him for another guy so whether he married a young woman or not he would've done the same. The son teaches him that he went through the same but didn't despise his mother for that blah blah and there is no happy ending. The point is, the story was too similar to it, I just wanted to comment that.
Btw the novel is Mehrunnisa (مہرالنساء). I don't know if there is an English version.
I am a forty year old man who has spent the last twenty three years with a woman nearly thirty years my senior.we have had many good years. but they were all in the beginning of our relationship.its been years since I had sex and I am miserable.this can work for a while but she's gonna want more really soon.
He said 37 years his SENIOR , if you're gonna play smart be more convincing x
Regarding the women who wrote in on the 21 yr age difference. The only thing that will save this relationship is therapy.
Nia is awesome but she's still pretty delusional saying women peak in their 30s and 40s 😆 🤣 😂.
Obviously he’s having a midlife crisis. Be a good woman and do your part to make him feel confident. Yes, it’s his insecurity, but you need to prop him up
How long is this guy supposed to live? 110?
is nia ten years younger than bil burr?
7:21
yeah she is definitely younger than him
Yes she is , 10
Bill is really trudging through this email ...
4:57
Sugar daddy thing or not it’s weird i wouldn’t want my daughter dating a man that much older than her
Not a sugar daddy thing? the girl is 31 and has a 4 bedroom apartment and 2 SUVs, with only one baby. that's pretty fucking rich if you ask me
women peak in their 40's? lols
they peak 18-28~. 30~is the wall.
Dog Boi
smv : women 17/18 (legal)~25
you are crazy if you think a 40 yo woman is in their peak. lols
dsadik666
not just looks. Their sexual drive, their work ethic, personality wise. Not saying 40 but Chicks are at their hottest around 30. Unless you like highschool looking girls.
DmanDice no
Nick Messick
you must be 16
DmanDice no
Nia is definitely cheating on bill
I'm late to the party on these podcasts. Awesome though! But bill butterball, whats with the 80 year old accent. You're the same age as this guy lol 😆
Modern love and life is just too damn difficult.
When people talk about a man or woman's peak being at different times, in this case Nia said women peak in their 40s, what are they referring to? I guess immediately after the peak if the decline so maybe it makes sense since the noticeable decline begins in their 40s for a lot of people, but for some reason that just sounds a little off to me. Maybe its referring to all aspects of life put together, not just physically.
I’m sorry but women don’t peak in their 30s. More like 21. Look in the magazines!!!! Well done bill you married a feminist!!!
I wonder how it went?
My wife was 16 years younger than I was. Only thing we ever argued about was how she raised her daughter. She was one of these mothers today who want to be friends with their daughters. It wasn't like that when I grew up. It might explain why kids today are spoiled freaking rotten and are horrible creatures! That's the reason we broke up. Other than that we got along great despite the age difference.
"Peaking in her 30's"??? "Women peaking in her 40's"??? Women peak in their early 20's. Nia is delusional..... No man will never say a woman peaks in her 30's let alone 40's....
I think you are misunderstanding what she means by peak.
Some type of way
The biggest gap I've had was 15 years...which turned out to be too much in the end....although I've known couples that have worked with wider gaps...but none of those guys were poor...so Bill...right the fuck on pumpkin top. Say Hello to the always beautiful and classy Nia for me.
I thought this was straight out of many episodes of "Modern Family". I didn't find the age difference weird and I don't think she has daddy issues. She seems like a loving partner, but also one that doesn't just accepts the crap her husband gives her and she's looking for answers. We also don't know what made her husband change in such a short time. Younger guys getting promoted at work before him and he feels emasculated? He doesn't know how to express it and takes his insecurities out on his wife? Maybe communication is the only key to solve this issue and there shouldn't exist the idea of a dynamic or power struggle in a relationship because that negates any dialog both parties can have on the same terms. Relationships are hard enough as they are. There's no need to compete who wears the trousers in that relationship.
Very poor job on the advice Bill, even worse coming from Nia. You should taken this question seriously, it was very important to this woman.
Did I just hear Nia say women ‘peak’ in their 30s or 40s??!! Once their physical looks are waning and their becoming less fertile.... sure every man wants a woman on way down the hill. 👍
It about maturity, experience, family building, and finances. Y’all really not understanding what she means by peak. Not everything is just looks and fertility. You don’t go downhill as youth fades if you are smart and have built a family and career and take care of your health.
@@soralink411 Everything is looks and fertility unless you're a guy.
Women peak in their 40’s? In what way? Wisdom? Life management? Tf is she talking about?
I dunno; I find that women mature SEXUALLY once they reach their mid-20s. That's around the time they stop being insecure about their bodies and trying different kinds of sex. Us older men can't be bothered with that crap about "...but you'll think I'm a slut...". The truth is, if she's too prudish, we'll think she's immature.
From a Lay-dee
You're only as old as you feel
When you stop feeling, youre old lol
For the husband, you got great 10+ years of flack out of it, milk it as far as you can, then shut it down, count your blessings, move on. I did it. 24 and 48, lasted to 38 and 62, two awesome kids. We stayed close friends, still all 4 of us travel together time to time, usually to Europe, but now only as friends, no benefits. But the difference might be that I can still run physically circles around her, mentally about the same, even thou her IQ is in top 1%.
Yeah women DO NOT peak at 30. They peak much younger. 30 and up is all down hill
"Women peak in their 40s" - Only a woman would say this hahahaha
Terrible advice from Nia on this.
She needs to reassure him that she loves him and won't leave him.
And he needs to make effort to fight the aging process.
Condition in the gym, do low impact cardio every day, eat dark leafy greens for his brain to stay young, and just generally have an active lifestyle and healthy diet that will keep him as young as possible.
Im sure Nias nice and all, but i much prefer pods without her. She doesnt really add anything productive..usually saying "is something else going on?"
How does Nia not know what headphones are?
Sorry lmao
Bill Burr shout out to Rich Homie Quan? 5:01
Lol yea 8 seent that.