Had an apartment the last 2 years moved to save money before didn’t worry about her distance, career, or age but now living with traditional parents have to do things less connivence but getting hotels is probs less than my previous rent but targeting girls with places university students, baby mums, career girls
@@MarvOverMatteroh nah it will once you start elevating the content and getting more demonstrative but staying true to your core and not losing yourself for likes like some of these other people you got REAL perspectives and a direct demeanor that doesn’t miss a single topic for every angle its like an artist that can hit any genre you’ll be on fresh and fit my G and blow up see you at the top that’s coming from Cosmic Kel remember the name 💪🏾🤝🏾🧗🏾♂️🚀 2025
In my opinion, if you don't have your own place or a job as a man, women shouldn't be on your mind. You should focus on getting that first, then start dating or hooking up. You brought up some great points though 💯
Can confirm, was living in my car at one point, girl i was seeing would pull through no problem. Tho most of the time i went 2 her place lol. If they got high attraction, their gonna b down
@@MarvOverMatter true, but when you out of the game, and you're somewhat antisocial. Maybe didnt hit your peak in college. Then that is when it's hard AF, like crawling through mud or be hitting with beestings. I just dont have many friends, or i guess close friends. Since some have moved away, so that's why it's so painful to talk to a girl or even get in a situation to be able to work up the gusto to do so. You don't know this, because you're like a 6 out of 10. Im like a 4 or 5 and maybe a 6 but i carry myself like shit, and well I am what I am now. But still nothing gets tossed my way. Girls are so inside themselves these days. So thats why i just hit the quit button. And save the motivation speaking 'dont quit bro" i hate that shit. It doesn't make a difference how positive you are. If you arent getting some or looking good, then you arent in the game.
If you’re saying you’re not in the game then you’re not in the game. If you are anti social and don’t do anything about it then yeah you’re not going to do well with women. If you’re making this comment because you want to change that and obviously you do because you’re watching these videos, then you need to work on your social skills and confidence. It’s not motivational, it’s practical. If you try to improve you will inevitably improve and if you improve you will do better with women because good social skills and confidence are things women like. You don’t need to be positive you need to be realistic. And what I just explained is realistic and rational. And as far as nothing getting tossed your way they aren’t going to toss something to someone who’s weird (anti social with low confidence). For the most part women observe men before they decide if they are interested in the beyond just “he’s cute”. So if you look awkward or they see you interact with other people and it seems off they aren’t going to toss you anything. If you need help with these things scheduled a free consultation and we can talk about some of these issues. I’ve had times in my life where I felt some of the things you’re feeling but I refused to live like that especially cause I saw other people who weren’t any better than me having better experiences with women. If you’re not interested in that at least take the logic of what I’m saying and work on it. I hope this helps.
its another brutal harsh reminder that, it has long felt like a double-standard, as in, if someone still lives with their folks by a certain age, or doesn't live on their own yet by a certain age, it has always looked worse in men than it has in women, anyone who disagrees with that is stupid and delusional. Society, culture, the media, have always frowned upon men more than women like that, and also, most men could care less if a woman still lives with her folks or doesn't live on her own yet by a certain age, not the other way around though sadly.
I agree, Attraction is non-negotiable. You can come straight out of prison or “off” a Healthcare CEO, if she finds you attractive enough she will still simp for you
Dude why is all your situations about hooking up what about getting to know someone you like and dating them im a 25 year old Black woman I don't want a f-boy and it seems like that's what your promoting.
Preciate the question 🙏🏾 I talk about this because there are a lot of guys who are interested in understanding how to do that and I know how. The men who ask me specific questions about how to get a relationship, whether they be comments or the guys who book a call with me I help them with that. But that’s not really my target audience and the men who aren’t interested in this content won’t watch it anyways. Also I believe being attractive (physically and mentally) is extremely important in a relationship so guys have to develop that as well as learn about women, and the only way to do that is through experience. So I’m guiding them through those experiences. A man who doesn’t understand women will just be played. It’s just nature, women don’t respect a man who doesn’t have certain qualities and they WIIL be unhappy and/or take advantage of him if they end up in a relationship with him. And many men will only gain those qualities through experience like I mention above. Once they have the qualities and understanding they can do what they will with that, whether it be hooking up or marriage.
@MarvOverMatter ok I guess I understand where your coming from it just confuses me as a women on how I should deal with men and dating Why do I have to get intimate with a guy I'm just starting to know and what if he's just using me I want to trust the man I'm with before I even think about doing something intimate We both like each other we both connect we both vibe that's what I want when I think of a relationship.
@blue_virgo7teen881 Yeah and that’s a good mindset to have. I completely agree. If I were giving advice to women looking for a relationship I would say wait a little while and see if you actually like each other. I would say that to anyone looking for a relationship. But there are definitely more guys looking to just sleep with a girl than the other way around so women have to be a bit more weary. In the same breath waiting doesn’t guarantee anything it’s always a risk. So in that time when you’re getting to know each other really pay attention, have real conversations and don’t ignore even the faintest red flags if they seem like they could be a long term issue or are the seed to a bigger issue. But it’s tough in our current society I wish you the best of luck.
Had an apartment the last 2 years moved to save money before didn’t worry about her distance, career, or age but now living with traditional parents have to do things less connivence but getting hotels is probs less than my previous rent but targeting girls with places university students, baby mums, career girls
Yeah that’s a good point should have added that to the video. I’ll pin the comment though.
Yup best strat
You need to go on the Fresh & Fit podcast man. You’d be a great guest speaker fr
That’s hilarious I was just talking about this yesterday with my boy. Hopefully it can happen 🙏🏾
@@MarvOverMatteroh nah it will once you start elevating the content and getting more demonstrative but staying true to your core and not losing yourself for likes like some of these other people you got REAL perspectives and a direct demeanor that doesn’t miss a single topic for every angle its like an artist that can hit any genre you’ll be on fresh and fit my G and blow up see you at the top that’s coming from Cosmic Kel remember the name 💪🏾🤝🏾🧗🏾♂️🚀 2025
I disagree because Myron from Fresh and Fit Hates Women with a Passion, he’d have an issue with Marv giving Game out & Deflect everything he says
My dawg I appreciate that 🙏🏾 I won’t forget it. 💯
@WavyUnderground 😂😂 lowkey, but I relish the challenge
In my opinion, if you don't have your own place or a job as a man, women shouldn't be on your mind. You should focus on getting that first, then start dating or hooking up. You brought up some great points though 💯
Preciate you bro 🙏🏾 and yea I definitely see your point. Gotta prioritize.
Can confirm, was living in my car at one point, girl i was seeing would pull through no problem. Tho most of the time i went 2 her place lol. If they got high attraction, their gonna b down
I think what you're looking to say is if you wanna date and you live with your parents, the keywords are "DON"T BE UGLY."
Lmao nah just don’t be ugly to HER 😂 .. nah but you don’t have to look amazing for a girl to be feelin you it just won’t be instant
@@MarvOverMatter true, but when you out of the game, and you're somewhat antisocial. Maybe didnt hit your peak in college. Then that is when it's hard AF, like crawling through mud or be hitting with beestings. I just dont have many friends, or i guess close friends. Since some have moved away, so that's why it's so painful to talk to a girl or even get in a situation to be able to work up the gusto to do so. You don't know this, because you're like a 6 out of 10. Im like a 4 or 5 and maybe a 6 but i carry myself like shit, and well I am what I am now. But still nothing gets tossed my way. Girls are so inside themselves these days. So thats why i just hit the quit button. And save the motivation speaking 'dont quit bro" i hate that shit. It doesn't make a difference how positive you are. If you arent getting some or looking good, then you arent in the game.
If you’re saying you’re not in the game then you’re not in the game. If you are anti social and don’t do anything about it then yeah you’re not going to do well with women. If you’re making this comment because you want to change that and obviously you do because you’re watching these videos, then you need to work on your social skills and confidence. It’s not motivational, it’s practical. If you try to improve you will inevitably improve and if you improve you will do better with women because good social skills and confidence are things women like.
You don’t need to be positive you need to be realistic. And what I just explained is realistic and rational.
And as far as nothing getting tossed your way they aren’t going to toss something to someone who’s weird (anti social with low confidence). For the most part women observe men before they decide if they are interested in the beyond just “he’s cute”. So if you look awkward or they see you interact with other people and it seems off they aren’t going to toss you anything.
If you need help with these things scheduled a free consultation and we can talk about some of these issues. I’ve had times in my life where I felt some of the things you’re feeling but I refused to live like that especially cause I saw other people who weren’t any better than me having better experiences with women.
If you’re not interested in that at least take the logic of what I’m saying and work on it.
I hope this helps.
its another brutal harsh reminder that, it has long felt like a double-standard, as in, if someone still lives with their folks by a certain age, or doesn't live on their own yet by a certain age, it has always looked worse in men than it has in women, anyone who disagrees with that is stupid and delusional.
Society, culture, the media, have always frowned upon men more than women like that, and also, most men could care less if a woman still lives with her folks or doesn't live on her own yet by a certain age, not the other way around though sadly.
Didn’t have a car or my own crib at 21-22 they would bring me to their place lol
It’s that simple. It has very little baring on your dating life
I agree, Attraction is non-negotiable. You can come straight out of prison or “off” a Healthcare CEO, if she finds you attractive enough she will still simp for you
Exactly. I’ve seen that happen with my own eyes. Nothing matters if she’s feelin you
Dude why is all your situations about hooking up what about getting to know someone you like and dating them im a 25 year old Black woman I don't want a f-boy and it seems like that's what your promoting.
Preciate the question 🙏🏾 I talk about this because there are a lot of guys who are interested in understanding how to do that and I know how. The men who ask me specific questions about how to get a relationship, whether they be comments or the guys who book a call with me I help them with that. But that’s not really my target audience and the men who aren’t interested in this content won’t watch it anyways.
Also I believe being attractive (physically and mentally) is extremely important in a relationship so guys have to develop that as well as learn about women, and the only way to do that is through experience. So I’m guiding them through those experiences.
A man who doesn’t understand women will just be played. It’s just nature, women don’t respect a man who doesn’t have certain qualities and they WIIL be unhappy and/or take advantage of him if they end up in a relationship with him. And many men will only gain those qualities through experience like I mention above. Once they have the qualities and understanding they can do what they will with that, whether it be hooking up or marriage.
@MarvOverMatter ok I guess I understand where your coming from it just confuses me as a women on how I should deal with men and dating
Why do I have to get intimate with a guy I'm just starting to know and what if he's just using me I want to trust the man I'm with before I even think about doing something intimate
We both like each other we both connect we both vibe that's what I want when I think of a relationship.
@blue_virgo7teen881 Yeah and that’s a good mindset to have. I completely agree. If I were giving advice to women looking for a relationship I would say wait a little while and see if you actually like each other. I would say that to anyone looking for a relationship. But there are definitely more guys looking to just sleep with a girl than the other way around so women have to be a bit more weary. In the same breath waiting doesn’t guarantee anything it’s always a risk. So in that time when you’re getting to know each other really pay attention, have real conversations and don’t ignore even the faintest red flags if they seem like they could be a long term issue or are the seed to a bigger issue. But it’s tough in our current society I wish you the best of luck.
This kid's advice is terrible lads. Ignore this vid 😂
What’s wrong with it?